Ah Cabo, I was so excited to be invited on this trip with Bethenny and Jason to celebrate her birthday! We let them have as much family time as possible because with Bethenny's schedule she so rarely gets to have down time and relax, especially somewhere as peaceful as the One&Only Palmilla in Cabo!
This was my first trip to Mexico and I have to say I loved the air, the food, and the ocean.
The beachside birthday dinner was by far the nicest part of the vacation. Paddle boarding was SO much fun. I've done it in a lake before, but man the ocean was craz.
It was important for all of us to sit, relax, and to reflect on all the changes that are about to happen!
Until next week!
Good luck!!! I am soooo confused/concerned about B and Jason.....sometimes I think it is him.....sometimes her....BUT at least she is getting help in therapy! I am thinking Jason is just a spoiled BABY!!!!
Dear Bethenny and Jason, Hopefully this thought will be meaningless and your marital woes are in the past, however, I feel compelled to share with you both. My husband and I are both in our second marriages and as you may suspect in our late forties and love each other more than life. With this great love however came years of trying to push each other away and creating trying times to see which would be the first to walk out. I have realized that the fear of losing each other and like you had mentioned 'failing' made us push each other to the limits emotionally. We have now been married for 11 years (14 yrs together) and stopped our destructive behavior. We let go of the fear and love each other more than ever. Did I mention we too have worked together every day for the past 12 years and have learned to appreciate each others strengths and faults. I am a strong opinionated woman and he is a strong gifted man...and with each other we can conquer the world!!!!!! We learned to appreciate the best of us individually and 'get over' the worst. It takes time and knowledge that the alternative of not being with each other is NOT an option. Hope this helps you or someone else that is struggling.
Bethenny, I hate to be a downer, but I don't think what you and Jason do is bickering. Bickering is usually about trivial things. From what I can see, your issues are much more serious. You seem to go right to the core of who you both are. Be careful. Some things you just can't take back and it can be very damaging to the relationship. I would love to see you guys go to marriage counseling. I think you love each other, but your behavior is destructive. Good luck