My new book, Place of Yes, will come out in early 2011. It gives the ten rules to getting what you want. It shows people how to break the chain and turn the past and negatives into positives. It is how I have been successful in many areas of my life.
I wasn't really tempted to name the baby Hip or Bunny, but it would be so damn cute.
Cookie unfortunately doesn't care what anyone thinks about anything. Cookie's job is security guard detail for Jason and me and now she has another family member to protect. She feels like Kevin Costner in The Bodyguard. All Cookie wants right now is more love from me and she is fanatically obsessed with Jason.
The Four Seasons was so spectacular and is so iconic New York. I'm not sure that we could ever depict how beautiful that night was, but the show came close.
Julie wears many "buckets," I mean hats. She knows that anything goes. She is phenomenal. I take very good care of her, but she deserves every bit of it.
I loved watching Jason's wedding day jitters. He is the most incredible man I've ever known and if I was watching another woman marry him, I'd be envious. I love him sooo much.
As for Ramona's "runaway bride" comment, if the bride fits.... Listen, I have run in the past. Sometimes people recreate their past. I broke the chain. And as for Simon getting hammered, if the shoe fits.... Simon likes his liquor. Who am I to talk? I definitely like my booze.
Love your show. It's very refreshing. The wedding was beautiful and so was the bride. The groom is handsome. You both deserve this happiness. I have never loved a show any more than this one. I laughed and cried. You are a "real" person and you show all of it. You can dish it out and take it. Love that! God Bless you and your little family.
@ Becky C.
You need to go take a snack break when B is sharing about her past. Some of us ARE interested in what shaped her into the person she is today, good or bad.
Maybe her issues are too close to yours!
Like I said... go eat a sandwich or something!
Bethany---- I love your show---- and the wedding was incredible!!!! I watched it in an excited anticipation as tho you were my own daughter getting married. Jason seems like an angel, and you can tell you two are truly a match made in Heaven. Best of luck to you both, and cant wait to see what transpires next. Thanks for sharing with all the viewers.
Your wedding was FAB! Wishing you and Jason all the "hoppiness" in the world. Congrats on little Bryn. I know she's the love of her parents life. Bethanny, one more thing though. I noticed you didn't mention the great job Shawn did. I know this wasn't about him but he did work miracles in such a short period of time. I think acknowledging that publicly makes all the difference. Loved, loved, loved him!
The guy that gave you that foot massage? OMGoodness! He really seemed to know what he was doing. It almost looked like you were cheating on Jason. LOL!! Too bad for me that he's gay.
Thank you Bethenny for allowing us to be a part of your wedding experience. You deserve this happiness and are a true inspiration! God Bless your baby and your new family.
You look absolutely beautiful on your wedding day,I now believe that all of us can find our happy ending no matter how much we resist it,Congratulations to you and Jason.
I am so happy for you. However, disappointed at the same time. Now , why did Jill look so ugly this season ? unforgiveness.. and your going down that road. Please listen to me . Life will deal you a lot of things that you are not planning for . However, you must keep going . You don't fully turn your back on anyone that was there when the lights wern't bright ! you need to go back look at how you let Jill & Bobby down this season. Bethany , one thing i know - you can be up one day and down the next ! go back and bring your friend back into your life.So what the past is the past. If you can find your inner strength and make up wit Jil. You will have learned something new in life! I love watching you but your to hard .. Please soften up even with your new husband. Take it from a young woman thats been married 15 years. You don't get there from having balls ! the balls are his and if you continue to squeeze them well .. i don't need to say more! and i will not allow you to say you like being in control . Marriage is not business it's compromise! He freinds are great embrace it ! Be Blessed ! remember real friends find there way back home ..
Bettany, you must go back to basic. Never forget the ppl who have helped build you up. I want to say love the show. However, you have to let your new husband have the balls . I odn't wanna hear anything about control issues. You must learn this fast. Only he has the balls. You save yours for business ok. I have been married 15 yrs and you will not get there with balls. A man must always feel he is in control even though we know we are. it is the great game of marriage ! You will win it if you learn to let go and let him lead. You can be the leader in business. Now, go back like a woman and make friends with Bobby and Jill.I don't like you didn't foregive her just as she done you. Go back . life is short and change day by day. you never know .. make freinds and build on that disagreement. That will determine if you were ever really friends. Be Encourged.
Bettany, i want to see you come full circle and make up with Jill & Bobby. if that was ever your friend you would take the necessary steps to repair your friendship. I say this with good intentions. I really thought you were the bigger person this seasons . until i say your heart become hard. Also , please let Jeson lead this marriage and you control business ! i am looking from the outside to the inside .. but, i know a man must feel he is in control for the marriage to work. They are not really in charge but , must feel that way. I am routing for you here in Cali .. Comeone no more hormones now lets mend what has been broken. So what about who said what let it go.
Bethenny, you have always been my favorite housewife, including all the cities, you are the best one. Keep your smile, you grace, and your geniality. Keep doing what you are doing and don't care about anyone else. Most who talk bad are usually jealous. Congratulations on your wedding, baby, and new career endeavors.
I was upset that I didn't get to see the show Thursday night and then missed it re run on Friday. Saturday we were having people over for a bbq and I was waiting for everyone to arrive. I turned on Bravo and there it was!! I got to watch the entire show, laughed, cried (the ceremony was so heartfelt and real). I love your sense of humor but I also love the real emotions that you show the world.
Much, much deserved happiness in beginning your new life with your husband and daughter.
I was shopping just before the show..I wanted velvet cake muffins and popcorn for the time leading upto the cake eating..I had to settle for S'mores..the store bought wasn't good enough! in any part of a local market..I didn't want to eat crap..I got home tried my best to get settled to watch your show..I cried ..I envied badly ..I thought I was to burn for being sooo soo envious. I truly relate to finding the perfect partner and feeling fulfilled but I'm not there. You give others hope and I'm not sure If I'm suppose to work any harder or just close the door..and yes I'm in a bolted place...it's safer but it's not a happy place but I'm always open if not positive. I have to say this ..I listen to you and I read your a Scorpio..LOL ..When you done..you can't rebuild what someone burned down. And some men can tolerate and still love the coochie after birth..My ex BF was one Scorpio..he never could see his children born. I think because its a sexual thing..LOl
You are above blessed Bethanny, because you proved that you don't have to be a crack eating..liquor sniffing, broken person just because you were raised that way. Thank you for aspiring us and giving us hope that your dreams can come true.
I am a 51-year-old mother of three in Wichita, KS, and just love the show. You were always so funny and refreshing on RHoNY but this is much better. So happy that you and Jason found each other. Congrats!
Just want to say congratulations on you marriage-finding the right man. Your show is great. Usually reality spin-offs are dull. Look at Kendra's show-BORING! You and Jason are fun together, Max and Shawn are great additions to the show! Jason and Bethenny your reception looked like everyone was having a great time letting loose. It's a happy time and I like being at receptions where people look happy.
Bethenny, You should look into producing rights to get Sean his own Bravo show. How fun would he be to watch? What a beautiful wedding. I am so touched by your vows, your beauty, and the love you and Jason have for each other. It gives my hope that one day, my Jason will come. Love the show.
hi, i for one am tickled to death that you got a show. you are fickle..yet emotionally needy..jason is the perfect fit for you. just keep your show as it is.. you sure dont need all the (other crapola drama from your lost pal ) the friends that are with you now..are the ones i sorta figured would come with you..coolness.. i sure hope (big brother) here in alabama, doesnt pull your show off the air. im tickled pink it is goin this far actually. much much luck to you and your fam. dang im jealous !!!!! keep it goin. keep on keepin on !!! susie
i loved the wedding episode...but, where is tje cotton candy amazeballs moment...we need a pic!!!!!!
Hey Becky C. How dare you. Obviously it was bad enough that she did not want her mother there. That should be enough. You know what? It's people like you that make this life sometimes so unbearable. She has opened up to her viewers in order to heal. She has come a long way despite. Say nothing unles you have walked in her shoes. You have no idea what has happened. So shut up and look in your own closet. Are you as successful as she is??? If so congratulations. If not get a life. Bethenny congratulations and keep it up. You and Jason looked so happy. I love his mom she seems like a really nice person as well. Enjoy your wonderful life, you deserve it.
Mrs. Frankle Hoppy-
You make me smile You make me laugh
Congratulations on your new life. Thank you for sharing such important moments with me through television.
I love watching you and your multi-tasking, being direct and NOT backing down.
Enjoy - Ann Marie
Good Golly Bethenny, YOU ROCK!!! You show you can have it all... Do you have any receipes for us gotta be gluten free girls???
Bethany, When you are sitting in the preachers office and reveal that none of your family will be there, I cry every time I watch it. I'm just like you, I haven't any family I speak with because of their craziness. While I'm happy and content in my life, it's still hurtful I'm not close to my famiy who are alive. Breaks my heart to see you hurt like that, I totally feel your pain!!!
I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story and life with all of your fans. I just read your people mag interview, and I pretty much have lived the same life. I am also going through my father who has cancer, it is extremely difficult. I watch you break down, laugh, and love. And it is really amazing to watch you go through the motions of it all. Going through that is not easy in private, but to go through it in public must be even harder. I also have one of the most amazing people in the world in my life and I am so lucky, and greatful. I am still very young at 25 but sometimes I feel like I'm 55. I feel very awkward(if that's how you spell it) writing this because it's so hard to talk about, but if you can do it on t.v. in front of millions of people. I can do it on here. Again I just want to say thank you and I ennjoy watching the show every week.
Bethenny and Jason,
I have watched your wedding four times now and have cried each time...I have been divorced and single five years now and I can only hope I too one day will find the love you two share!I was especially touched when Bethenny said she had "no one" from her family to be there for her..I can relate to this as well. The very best to you both and please stay together FOREVER.
I really used to like you Bethany, but now I think you're just classless. Shame on you for not inviting Jill to your wedding. You cry about not having family you want to invite to your wedding, then snub the woman who is the closest thing you have to family. Regardless of what has gone on between the two of you lately, how can you ignore the love and support she gave you for the years you really needed it? She had more of a place there than Alex and Ramona, who pranced and posed like they were sitting at fashion week rather than a wedding. Tacky.
Hey Becky C., Zip it!! Bethenny isn't playing the victim card you whiner! She took control of her life, and despite the hell she lived through she has worked her as* off making her life the best it can be! That is hardly playing the victim! Sharing what she's been through and showing others that they too can overcome is inspirational for most people. Well, except for those who look at everything in a negative light, and are, I guess, incapable of seeing the good that can come from stories like Bethenny's. Grow up.
My MIL has never said "I love you" in over 25 years. Your MIL said it atleast three times to you during your wedding-enjoy your new family.
Bethenny and Jason (and sweet baby Bryn),
Your wedding was so much fun and incredibly beautiful! Bethenny you looked absolutely stunning, the venue was incredible (great attention to detail), Jason was adorable and the ceremony was very personal and touching! I cried, I laughed, and I watched it entirely two times in a row! I'm so excited for you and your family. Many blessings ahead!
P.S. Your wedding planner and assistant are just too cute! The bucket moment was priceless!!!!!!!
Bethenny I Loved your wedding episode - I cried my eyes out that night - it was warm, honest and it definitely showed the deep love you have for each other. You deserve it all -Your wedding planner - keep him close by - your great for each other! Can't wait to live the rest of your episodes with you. Your better off on your own than with the craziness of NY housewives!@#%&*?!@#%. Love you.
Just love the wedding and the dress!! Just so beautiful on you. Jason is wonderful guy and I would love to meet someone just like him. You are so lucky to met him! All the best of luck to you, him and baby...
How very strange my husband just asked me for a divorce after 23 years (as of 10/10/10) of marriage today and you are starting your new and wonderful life. I found your vows to be very beautiful and gave me various reasons to cry. I think Jason is so very wonderful and you know you are very fortunate to have such a hunck of a man. Congrats darling. You make a beautiful couple
I really love your show!!!!! I even got my STRAIGHT 22 year old brother to watch it with me... we think you're hilarious! I loved your wedding and you're an inspiration! Two months ago, I broke off my engagement with my then bf. I felt bad about it, of course, but I have my reasons so I had to walk away. Watching your show made me realize that there's still hope out there. Even though it takes a while, sometimes or most of the time, I'm pretty sure that your wait for Jason was worth it! I'm soooo happy for you!!! :)
"She's my little kite," says Jason about Bethenny. That was enough to melt even the hardest heart! Even so, Jason stands up for himself - "It's not YOUR house, it's OUR house." I just hope he keeps everything on an equal basis. Bethenny, you can be over-powering at times, and you know it!
I don't normally comment, but I sincerely like you and felt the urge to give you a bit of advice that was given to me. My sister and I don't have much of a relationship. I won't get into, but someone told me that "sometimes you have to love someone from afar". I use this advice with my sister and it seems you use it with your mom. It's called self-preservation. You don't stop loving that person, you just hold them at a distance. Congratulations on your marriage and baby. You're doing great!
I was in awww i have been watching the wedding episode since it aired i have it on my ipod and watch it constantly.. It was so beautiful even though you dont know me i feel like we meet before.. I love how open you are about your feelings and you dont care what people think you just do you! I hope you are enjoying motherhood and marriage from all the articles and interviews you are.. And Jason you are so cute when you was anxious on the wedding day.. But the best part was when the doors open and you saw your Bethenny your face lit up just saw the love in your eyes the best part for me was when the doors open and you said Wow!! it was so beautiful!! Congrats to you guys.. Bryn has the coolest parents around.. I hope there is more Bethenny you gotta give him a boy!!!! Love u guys will be tuned in on Thursday!!
Oh,believe me...I am jealous! I want to marry Jason! He is precious in so many ways! Don't ever take him for granted! I saw a pic of adorable Bryn...she is GORGEOUS!! Cannot wait til the next episode!!
p.s.-You were a breaktaking bride!
Bethenny: LOVE the show!!!! You are a class act. I feel like I could be your friend because your views and sense of humor are so similar to mine. Very happy for you and your "family". I loved the fact you took Jason's Mom dress shopping with you. That was very special. They also seem like the BEST family to be a part of. I watch your show all the time. When the reruns are on...I'm there!! LOL. Best of luck and bless you all!!
I overdosed on RH (entire franchise) and became so tired of the constant negative drama. However, I tuned into your show and love the positivity you brought back to reality tv! You still have little comments...but, they are poking fun at yourself. I am happy you found true happiness and joy! No one needs negativity to be successful!
So fun to see you filming in front of Villa Reverie in St Barth's. We stayed there for two weeks. Wish we'd been there when you were filming. How fun! Congrats on marriage and baby!
Loved Loved Loved watching your adventure. Your wit is great. Your wedding was magical. I watched the wedding a few times thinking I may have missed the scene. All of the emphasis and stress you put on the poor wedding planner about the cotton candy, I was disappointed not to see it on the show.
your wedding was gorgeous!!!what a beautiful family jason has.his mom and dad are so loving and kind.hope you will be kind and loving in return.
Hi Bethenny, just wanted to say I love your show you are so real and not to mention hilarious!! I have been dying to tell you how much your husband looks like Perry Farrell...has anyone ever mentioned that??? Lucky girl he is too cute.
Sorry Bethany but if your dog bites and people are coming over you should out her away. Or meet them
Don't change. You are hilarious. God Bless you and your family. I wish you the best in everything you do.