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If no girl ever wants to speak to me again after that embarrassing scene with Kristen I completely understand. I was about as sharp as a marble and as smooth as the Rocky Mountains. For a kid who doesn't know how to shut up I was clearly at a loss for words when it came to pulling the trigger. You'd think I'm a virgin based on that performance! Jason did a great job as wingman, he really did. He gave Kristen and me some alone time, he talked me up, and he even asked her out for me! He knew exactly what to do. I love the guy, and I look at him like an older brother.
It wasn’t that I was so nervous… what am I saying, of course I was! I was nervous because the situation seemed very forced. I talk to Kristen all the time when I'm there and if I had just conversed the way we always do instead of looking for an opening it would have been a breeze. She gave me her number and agreed to go out with me, but I didn’t feel like I achieved anything because I felt so foolish. But hey, I'll have plenty of time to make up for it when we go on a date!
I don't know what was up Robert Verdi's ass that day. I don't know what motivated him to jump on me the way he did. What was seen in the episode was nothing compared to what actually occurred. In a completely condescending way he asked if my parents were proud of me. He told me how sheltered and uncultured he thought I was. He didn't know a thing about me to make that kind of judgment. I have a family who has supported every piss I've taken. I've traveled through 23 countries and have been on five continents. I've trekked mountains, dived underwater caves, and explored volcanoes. I can deal with Bethenny goofing on my hair and things like that because she isn't malicious, and I know she's messing around. But Robert was coming at my head, almost like he was challenging me.
I didn't know how to react. I wanted to defend myself but what was I going to do, bicker back and forth like a 14-year-old girl for a half an hour? What is this, The Real Housewives of NYC? What I wanted to do was take my sheltered fist and knock his arrogant Mr. Clean head down 8th Avenue. Although I was smart in my overall reaction, deep down I was fired up. Obviously I wasn’t going to clock him right there in front of Bethenny, I would have lost my job. But has she not been there, I would have said, "Listen Robert, either start talking to me with the same respect you show Bethenny or we are going to have an issue you can't handle by yourself." I was raised not to talk and bicker like a high school girl, which is what Robert was doing. If you have an issue with someone, put your dukes up and then you see who really has something to say. If not, shut your mouth. I know many will disagree and that is OK, but had you been in my shoes with Robert Verdi that afternoon you would understand.
You're adorable! I know having that on TV must feel embarrassing but I promise girls everywhere will find it sweet! This show is a million time better than any of the Housewives shows. Y'all are so fun- love watching each week!
You are hilarious and a really good sport with your sometimes "unique" job duties. Fun to watch and I hope you stick around!
I think it is great to stay a littl shy with the girls....keeps you real.
Good luck!
I think you did great with Robert & I cracked up when you didnt know anything about "Fraggle Rock". Ummm with Kristen, well lets home she thought it was cute...you are a great treat for the show. Good luck!!
Dude! You are the cutest thing! You got the moves no worries about that. If I were a few (hundred lol) years younger, I'd be on you in a shot!
Max you were more than a gentleman but instead of a fist fight you definitely should never let anyone treat you like that again. You are a great guy and my respect for you grew by leaps and bounds. Whats his name has destroyed his career - all by himself. There are very few people that will tolerate people who treat others which such rudeness. I NEVER have blogged in my life and I do not know if I am even doing this right. I just hope it gets out to the public so everyone can see what the bald guy said and did to you. You never showed any hostility, you never brought in on and he was saying those things for one simple reason.... he has incredible LOW self esteem. Bethany should have left his place immediately and I hope she comes out goes public with the fact that she will never associate with him again. If she does...... she isn't the person I think she is. Stay yourself Max...... you are a true gentleman and it took a lot of class to not "deck" him but if you had you would have just lowered yourself to his level. Just NEVER let anyone talk to you like that again.
Max you are a great looking guy and a gentleman...ol " what's his name" was so beyond rude it was hard to watch. Who the H does he think he is ? I love the dynamics of the whole show ( except the hareless AH ) Your date will be a blast!
Max, I wanted to punch Robert Verdi for you but actually he made much more of an ass out himself than anything you could have done to him. It was perfect how you handled the situation. I think Bethenny should have told him to STFU though.
At first I thought RV was flirting with you...passive aggressive style. But then I realized he is just a jerk...possibly trying to get a Bravo show of his own...'cause we all know how Bravo (and the rest of us) luvs drama.
At first I thought RV was flirting with you...passive aggressive style. But then I realized he is just a jerk...possibly trying to get a Bravo show of his own...'cause we all know how Bravo (and the rest of us) luvs drama.
Max, I think that you need to know your place. You are a employee and you need to act like one. I never see you work you think you are there to have a good time. I think this show has gotten to you, you are getting a little to puffed up. I love Bethenny, Jason and Julie. Julie works hard and you need to learn from her.
Hey Max, Clearly, that bald guy got some serious issues what is his problem? I laughed outloud when you said "my sister wants her pants back" he was making snide remarks and everything and you maintained your cool I don't too many people that would remain that cool as well as you did. Props to you.
This is the first time that I have ever "blogged" but I also had to add my congratuations to you on the way you handle yourself on the show. You show great class and I am really impressed with your genuiness and charm. Looking forward to seeing you on more episodes in the future. Good luck.
Max, if the girls aren't knocking your door down they are just CRAZY. If I wasn't engaged myself.... You just really are the cutest thing EVER. I want to know how that date went or goes!!! That Robert guy was an ahole. JEEZ. It would take all I had to not deck him right there, but I have to also say that I am glad that you showed who the real gentleman was. GOOD FOR YOU MAN! Keep up the good work.
Good luck and God bless
Come on, Max. Time to grow up. You wanted to beat him up? Really? How mature. Robert Verdi was joking with you, he is used to dealing with Bethenny's humor and was in the moment. I am assuming you have never seen any of his shows, he jokes all the time. Nothing to get worked up over. Unless, you are feeling a lack of confidence in your career choice. Hmmm?
My observation is that RV was being a dramaqueen and completely jealous of you being B's personal assistant. You see, he only gets to be on the show occasionally whereas you are part of the regular team! Don't let him make you loose your job by knowing your buttons. Play it cool. For sure B will fire you if you batter someone since they can sue her for your actions under Agency law and this job is too important for your career, ok?
I agree with everyone else, Max! You are too cute for words and you handled yourself brilliantly. Ever so much a gentelman in BOTH situations, the agression from Mr Clean and asking the pretty blonde girl out on a date! As awkward as it felt, you did good. When I was your age, if you'd have talked to me I would've fainted!
I'm sure someone has told you since it happened but "Fraggle Rock" was a Muppet/Jim Henson creation and even though Mr. Verdi meant it as an insult, Jim Henson was one of my heros so...THERE!
Danni G,
Being an employee is no longer being a serf! You are not required to take abuse, there are laws against that now really! Bald guy made him self look stupid!
By the way Max, I have a really beautiful, 21 yr old daughter who has her own career going and does very well, if your other interest doesn't work out!
Bethenny likes you, its all good! You position doesn't seem terribly defined yet, looks like you could accomplish more with a better job description. A more complete description could allow you take take the ball and run with it more independently!
You are adorable, you can become my son-in-law any day!
Max...you're the best, and I'm glad you stood up to Verdi..what an ass..classless. The request for a date scene had tension..will he, won't he? Hope it went well. You're a gem.
Max- I have said this before about some other cast members...When you are raised to respect all people, it is difficult to deal with people who are totally obnoxious and disrespectful. Let's face it, they have had way more practice being rude. Trying to react on their level almost never works. (Alex are you listening?)My advice is to work hard, be good to the people you love, stay cool with your reactions and let the jerks self destruct. I think Mr. Verdi lost many fans with his behavior.
MAx, aside from Bryn, you were the star of this episode. Your inability to pull the trigger was beyond funny and actually really adorable. You were extremely professional when dealing with Robert. I worked as a nanny /personal assistant and was treated as low class because of my position sometimes, and I took the punches early on, but it got to a point where enough was enough and I had to stand up for myself. Nobody should be treated that way. I can't stand pretentious, stuck up people like Robert, and they need to be put in their place. I'm dreading next weeks show for your sake though!!! yikes!!!!
I was shocked at how unprofessional and immature Robert Verdi behaved. You displayed much more maturity and CLASS then he did. He has taken a complete nosedive in my estimation of him. Guess he knows clothes and fashion, but he certainly does not know how to be a class act as a professional or a human being.
Good for you for not taking any crap! Verdi was beyond rude and I was kinda dissappointed that Bethenny proceeded to buy from him after his poor manners. Way to "Man up!" Now use the same spunk when you ask a girl out next time..........love ya mean it!
Don't let the Pro-gay NYC crowd make you feel like you were in the wrong. Robert was ridiculous. He should have been professional. That was just bizarre.
Hi Max! You needed to just shut your mouth during that little spat with Robert! Sometimes it's best to just let it go, that was one of those times! As far as your asking Kristen out...it went OK, Jason made me laugh so hard, I just couldn't help myself! By the way...you are STILL a cutie pie!
Max,I saw you on youtube doing your comic act I know you could have gone toe to toe with that jerk stylist I think he just wanted his camara time, so sad but you handle is just right.PROUD OF YOU
I was DISGUSTED by Robert Verdi's treatment of you!! It was if he was doing the whole "Alpha Male" beating of the chest like a gorilla with you!! Um, hello Robert, you are GAY there is no contest here!
Good for you in your "my sister wants her pants back" comment and honestly, Bethenny should have put Robert in check for his behavior. He works FOR her, he is not so high and mighty that everyone must bow to him. UGH!
1. If Kristen doesn't fall head-over-Louboutins for you, she nuts.
2. I agree with the poster who said RV destroyed his own career and is just trying to get a Bravo show. Maybe Bravo should do a show ala Celebrity Rehab...CELEBRITY DISGRUNTLED. (Kelly, anyone?)
3. DON'T. EVER. CHANGE.
Verdi is 'Jackhole' of the week..if not year.
Dude was a jerk...plain and simple. You did a great job keeping your cool and trying to diffuse the situation with humor. Hang in there!!
I wanted to smack Verde for you. He was for sure jealous of you and your good looks & gentleman qaulities. Look at him! What a mess....yelch! Bethenny could go to another stylist who are much better than him. (i.e. R. Zoe)! You were cool, keep up the good work & good luck with your date! All of you are like a real nice family and great for Bethanny & Jason.
RV deserves to get punched!
The date request TOOOOOOO CUTE!!!! I would of been so proud and thrilled if you would of asked me out! Good Luck!
Jason, you behaved like a gentleman in every respect. I am guessing, like some of the other posters, that RV was either jealous (my first thought), or wanting his own show. I wonder if he truly realized that his attempts at making you look the fool actually backfired - royally.
Never lose your cool. You've got that old-fashioned "gentlemanly" thing going on and it makes you stand out and above.
Max you handled the situation with RV perfectly. He was totally obnoxious and had zero class. I am surprised Bethenny associates with him. Have a great time on your date!
Max, I admire the way you handled yourself with that A-hole! He came off looking like a complete jerk, and I'm sure Bravo will be getting tons of email about his behaviour. If it's one thing the fans hate is an arrogrant, full of himself piece of s@*t. He should learn from the demise of Jill Zarin and check himself next time he has his 3 mins of camera time. Keep up the good work!
Hi Max, You handled yourself perfectly with that jerk (I won't even give him more publicity by using his name). You went there with Bethenny, who is a paying customer of his, so he should of interacted with you in a more professional manner. If I were you I would of taken one of those red stilletos & put it you know where (but, then again, he probably would of enjoyed it)!! I hope Bethenny sees him for the arrogant, jerk that he is and never uses him again. He's just one of those people who have to make themseleves seem more important by belitting others. You are adorable and have a great personality; I'm sure you will do alot more with your life than that idiot will ever do!!
Hey Max,
I couldn't believe Robert's attitude also. It was obvious you were uncomfortable (as anyone would have been! sheesh!) but you handled it wonderfully.
It's a game honey. It's always a game. When someone wants to play one with you keep in mind you ALWAYS have the option of NOT playing. If you choose not to play there IS no game. Just someone standing there with egg on their face, which is exactly how he looked to me.
Your shock and youth kept you quiet but know this was the exact right course. You also kept your job.
Best wishes.
Max, I have a 20 year old daughter who is living in NYC right now if your interested LOL!!! Oh g-d I am such a jewish mother hahahahah...
Max, Please let Bethany know that as your employer - SHE should have dealt with that incredibly rude Robert Verdi. You shouldn't have to deal with that, nor should she have told you "your joke still isn't funny." (and it totally was) You did nothing wrong and she should have defended you, not to belittle you as a man, but as an employer who is watching her employee be mistreated. I am typically a fan of Bethany, but she really pissed me off in this episode with her attitude. You shouldn't have had to "sink or swim." He was completely inappropriate and out of line. Bethany should have recognized that and dealt with him privately and professionally.
I can't believe Robert's behavior either! He may be a famous fashion stylist, but it isn't like is so handsome he gets to make fun of others. You did a great job handling the situation and he ended up coming off like a jerk even if Bravo didn't show everything. In my opinion, Bethenny should work harder to make sure her employees get the respect they deserve. It's not appropriate to let people you pay (stylists) disrespect other people who work for you.
Maxx, Robert Verdi got it all right. You are undereducated and do not present youself well. The way you wrote the blog is childish and using the work "piss" is one example of how low class you act. My daughter lives in NYC and neither she or her friends would associate with you based on your fowl mouth.
You handled yourself very well during the RV fiasco! Your jeans comment to him was perfect! Clearly, he has low self-esteem and is jealous of you. I agree, there is a difference between playful teasing and malicious comments that some people play off as "just teasing" but which really is not. I'm not supporting any of RV's business endeavors, that's for sure!
Oh Max...That clip of you trying to ask KF out for the first time was both absolutely precious...as well as absolutely hilarious in a charming sort of way! It brought back very fond memories of the "thrill of the chase". Enjoy the experience and remember it all...even as awkward as it may feel now. These will contribute to some of your sweetest and happiest memories of your life.
Stay sweet and ignore the nay-sayers (and Bethenny, for that matter) that say you should "...know your place..." or "...act more professional..." or stuff like that. As a "boss", Bethenny is far from treating you and Julie professionally--and I believe she has specifically chosen that kind of relationship with her employees. So, just go with the flow and enjoy the entirety of this unique time in your life.
Peace out.
Max, you showed incredible restraint with that nitwit Robert Verdi, and I'm glad you didn't deck him. I think he acted the way he did because he knows a mediocre scene will end up on the cutting room floor and he wanted to get as much screen time as he could. He came off looking like a jerk. He probably envies your easy relationship with Bethenny, your youth and most of all, your hair! Don't let it bug you.
Max you are so handsome and your whole character is amazing, there aren't many guys like yourself nowadays , you deserve a funny, down to earth, educated and beautiful woman and i am sure you'll fine the right one!!!as well as a succesful future!! you bring such fun momments to the show and i simply think it was an amazing addition when they got you.. keep it you hot, gorgeous man!!





Dude! How did your date go? Obviously this was filmed a few months ago...we want to KNOW!!
I was surprised at Robert Verdi's reaction to you ... he really wasn't cool at all. I used to watch one of his shows on Discovery... he seemed ok.
Maybe he just needed to ...get..laid!
Mazel to you for how you handled yourself...and didn't stoop to the very low level that Robert was on.
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