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View All PostsShawn Rabideau
Only Time Will Tell
Shawn talks about his journey with Bethenny, and thanks his family, friends, and fans for their support!
August 5, 2010
It is so hard to believe this journey with Bethenny, Jason, Bryn, Julie, Max and yes, Cookie is coming to an end! When I take a journey (such as this one) I always try to reflect back and look at the bigger picture. I like to assess what I did right, what I did wrong, how I can improve and how I can grow. Working with Bethenny on her wedding took me out of my comfort level and pushed me to work the hardest I ever have. It made me stronger as a person and as a business man. She taught me so many lessons and things that I can't even begin to list them all. There were many ups and there many downs. And there were many "oh s*@t" moments …but from each one I learned a lesson.
When I was working with Bethenny on the baby shower she was a different person, but so was I. I had confidence; I know that sounds self-righteous, but you have to understand it took me 35 long years to get to the point I am today and to be as confident as I am today. Working on her wedding brought me further to the point of "I can do it."
When Erica and I were unwrapping the cake for the baby shower, I was getting the sweats thinking it would be smashed. Something in my gut told me something would be wrong with the cake. And there was. I was fearful I would disappoint Bethenny! Listen, the cake came from a bakery in California (one of Bethenny's favorites) and the overnight carrier was not kind to it. When I pulled the lid off, I mortified that the top had been smashed and little Bryn's face had been ripped off. She was like "Baby of the Opera." So I mustered up the confidence to fix the cake. This was for sure one instance where I did let them see me sweat. But with Erica's help I pulled it together and fixed the cake and Bethenny was never the wiser. I guess that's what I'm talking about. I'm not a pastry chef, but I had the confidence (and watched plenty of cooking shows) to know what to do next.
Seeing Bethenny walk into the baby shower as relaxed as she was, was reward enough for me. She was calm knowing the shower would be fabulous, once again she trusted me. She was able to sit, relax and visit with her friends. It was great to see her like this. This is a woman who isn't able to sit and enjoy a quiet moment because she is always on the go. Which is exactly why she chose Spa Chakra on 5th! There is no better place to have a baby shower than at a spa. It was the perfect! She loved it, said I did a good job and that's all that matters! A client for life? Who knows…only time will tell.
You are just fabulous, Shawn. Will we see you back for the next season? I hope so! You should have your own spinoff
I can't imagine I'm the only person who thinks that you and Ramona have the same eyes! LOL - I love it! You even roll them the same way. :o)
Highly enjoyed your presence on the show and will simply add my voice to the "give him a show" chorus.
Cheers!
Shawn,
Your a great guy and make my daughter & I laugh with your expressions! You put up with alot and are successful, your a winner in our book!
I hope Bravo sees the possibilities in you and your own show! It would be a must see!
Shawn,
the engagement party grows more grand everyday. Only six more days! We now have a brass archway that we will decorate with lights and flowers in front of the grape arbor. You go through the arbor and then on the other side is the fantasy tent. There will be stand-up comedy for the adults, a kids table area, bingo for the oldies, dancing, and fireworks at the end. We are also playing card games and baggo. Something for everyone.
"Baby of the Oprea",that's hilarious! Shawn it is so very clear to me that you could have your own reality show on Bravo. I would absolutley tune in every Tues,Weds or Thursday night. I hope your having a great summer and will be watching for your new show.
AORE D SHOW AND EVRYBODY IN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ADOR ! ADORE ! ADORE! LOVE THE SHOW AND EVERYBODY IN IT.....SHAW A BREATH A FRESH AIR FROM DOSE WANNA BE FRENZ OF REALITY STARS SUCH AS A CERTAIN BLOND BOBBED HAIR ON RHW NYC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope Bravo sees how much people enjoy watching you. You are a postive person who deserves all the best! Good luck!
Shawn, you are the only one that makes me laugh out loud!!!!!!!! Thats a talent and we should see MORE OF YOU....you r GREAT....
You are soooooo adorable! Your facial expressions & eyes are priceless! Bethenny Getting Married is the BEST show Bravo has out there!!!!
I hope Bravo gives you a show, I know it would be funny & positive.
I look forward to seeing you on another season of Bethenny Getting Married and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you get your own show. I'm going to send them a message right now requesting just that - good luck sweetie!
Hi Shawn,
We met when you came out to Staten Island to discuss my wedding, which at the time we had planned to have at the Staten Island Children's Museum! If you get the oppurtunity to plan Bryn's 1st Birthday, maybe that would be a place that Bethanny and Jason would consider! We loved your ideas then, and wish that we could have been able to have the wedding there...but with 2 children, there were just too many details to consider. So we ended up at a small restaurant with our family. Wish we could have worked with you! But the museum is dear to both of us, and they do wonderful things for the community. Thanks again for taking the ferry to our side of the city! LOL It was wonderful meeting you, and watching you this season on my favorite show! I've always been a fan of Bethanny, and was so happy to see that you were such a big part of her show! Congratulations, you deserve it! You were kind and gracious to us, knowing that we were by no means able to throw an elaborate event, and yet you gave us such time and attention. We wish you all the luck, and will watch when Bravo gets smart and gives you your own show!! All the best, Jenn
Dear Shawn,
I am planning my son's egagement party. It involves part one eating at a restuarant, and then part two back at the house. I have rented a huge tent, tables, chairs, etc. The cloths are black with with ribbons forming flowers. We will have red roses on all tables. We even rented the small cocktail typ table that you can stand next to with you drink. We rented the dance foor and are having music. There will be wine, and other drinks. We are having cool appetizers also. (no potato chip and pretzel stuff.) It will ge elegant all the way just like the events you do. I am so excited to plan this for Alex and Audrey and all the family and friends.
I miss you Shawn...you are so adorable, I enjoyed your work
I can't stomach the DC stuff...wonder why?
shhhh I think Andy is going to be jealaous !!!
Show Idea Bravo. Shawn hires an assistant, and you follow all the crazyness that entails on becoming a wedding planner. 1. its a crazy field. 2. which calls for great entertainment. 3. he already needs his own show, great persoonality for tv. 4. Me as the asistant in training. 1. VERY HIGH ENERGY 2. OUTSTANDING PERSONALTY 3. VERY POSITIVE AND OUTGOING, FULL OF WITTYNESS. WHAT DO YA THINK?
Shawn, you di a wonderful job. I have been thinking about becoming a wedding planner myself now for awhile. I love being around Love, Happiness, and making this happen for people. I would love to be your assistant (I would like to learn from the best). If you could tell me where to get started, I have info on a school IEWP, but I am much more a hands on learner, and would love to work with the best, yea this is probably an out there question, but you don't know if you don't ask or take chances. Again you did great. Hope to see you on the show again.
Shawn, you are funny, talented and cute as a bug!! I know Cookie did not like you, and she bit you several times, I am sorry to say this but I laughed out loud because your reaction each time was priceless!!! You could certainly carry a show!!
BRAVO, give Shawn his own show!!!
Yes, I would definitely watch Shawn on his own show! Shawn, why didn't you carry mace with you to zap cookie when she tried to bite you? That is above and beyond what a client should expect from you...let the dog bite you...repeatedly? I love watching Bettheny but I would never...I repeat never...work for her. EVER. You did an amazing job!
Shawn,
I just loved meeting and getting to know you on this season. You made me laugh so, so much and I think you are a real sweetheart! The next time I am in NYC, I would love to stop by just to say, "Hi" and tell you how much you are loved.
Sincerely, all the best to you!
Love and Hugs,
L
Shawn was a blast, he and Bethenny will be friends. He also needs his own show, and I agree with all the bloggers, I watched DC last week, cannot stomach any of those political wannabe's, give Shawn a show, get rid of the housewives, they are so dramatic, we need laughs and giggles.
Shawn, wherever you go from here or whatever you do, I feel you'll be successful. Ya know, sometimes you "meet" a person and can tell instantly that he or she has a beautiful heart. That's how it was for me seeing B "catch" you on the cotton candy thing. Whatever happens, much happiness and success to you and Michael. You really are special!
Bravo - Drop the Drama of RHofNJ and DC and and GIVE SHAWN HIS OWN SHOW. If Bethenny Getting Married? Showed you anything, it's that viewers are far more interested in funny, heartfelt programming than the NJ/DC drama that leaves ya' feeling slimed. I can't even watch anymore. SHAWN IS ONE GIGGLE AFTER ANOTHER AND I COULD A LAUGH!!!
I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO HEAR MY EXACT THOUGHTS AS YOU JUST SAID, Bring back Betheny Newly Married With A Baby, and GIVE SHAWN HIS OWN SHOW!!!! Will Bravo listen to us through this feed, or who should we email???
Bravo - It's time for a NEW look! Drop the nasty drama of RHofNJ and DC and GIVE SHAWN HIS OWN SHOW!
Wow! What a fun spin off Bethenny Getting Married turned out to be with the whole amazing cast. Bravo needs to give the fans what we want--a Shawn Rabideau spin off. Shawn get your agent on the phone with Bravo already!
Shawn! You did an amazing job on the wedding and on the baby shower!!
Shawn, I really enjoyed watching you and you are right! You have grown so much and you are much more relaxed. I know great things are in store for you and I hope you fully enjoy each one of them. Cheers to you! -Kathleen
Shawn, you are a talented, funny and entertaining guy that I just can't get enough of. The dynamics between you and Bethenny are hilarious. And the looks on your face whether something went terribly wrong or wonderfully well are priceless. You keep it real just like the rest of the cast and WE LOVE IT! Your own show is a good idea that I have seen spread on this blog, but I'd hate to see you leave this show. You add a comical force that is so fun to watch. As I said before, and I mean this with all the love and respect I can muster up; You remind me of a cross between PeeWee Herman and Nicholas Cage! That's a compliment!! Bravo to you...great job!
I love your recovery of the cake it shows that you do not crumble under pressure. I just love watching you fix the name and cover the missing frosting on the top of the cake. You are the best. Another successful event, good job.
LOVE to see Shawn on his own show, covering the ins and outs of event/party planning. As a corporate type who has planned and continues to plan large scale events, I know how anxiety provoking these events can be! Without the emotional attachment (wedding, shower etc).
I agree-NO DC Housewives, bring on Shawn!!
SHAWN! I think you are SO amazing. You make me laugh and I love watching you and Bethenny interact with one another, it's hilarious! I definitely agree that you should get your own show! I would watch it and I'm sure millions of others would too!!
So, did Bethenney throw herself her own baby shower? I couldn't figure that out from the show, but find it odd if she did, and also sad that she didn't have family or close friends that would offer to host the shower. Is that a NYC thing?
You are Fabulous!!!!!!!!!
BRAVO TV give him his own show!!!!!!!!!
Well Done Shawn! You kept your cool with your Bethenny like a true pro! I felt for you when the cake was all damaged at the shower. Your a great guy, and yes, the should give you your own show, I would watch for sure! The best of luck to you!
I agree with all the posts, I love your facial expressions and would glady watch a show that you were in. Good Luck with your business!!
You are so great! I can definately see you having your own show because your personality is such that you have brains, charisma, and humor and you would be an absolute joy to watch (just like BGM!). Good luck to you, Shawn!
I enjoyed watching you on Bethenny's show so much. Bravo should have you make your own show. Your work was awesome. Shawn you deserve your own show. Love you!!! hope to see you soon.....
I love, love, LOVE Shawn!!!! I agree with the majority on this blog... BRAVO, GIVE SHAWN HIS OWN SHOW..... PLEASE!!!!
Shawn, Not only are you so talented in your field, you are naturally funny and entertaining. I truly hope Bravo is reading these post and gives you a show. Enough of the "housewives" shows..(half of them are not even married) and after awhile, enough is enough. Housewives of DC needs to go and be replaced with "Shawn takes NYC." I hope the expand Bethenny's show, if that is what she wants...as she now has everything she has ever wanted...Love. I absolutely love your facial expressions and watching you interact with everyone. You are a "gift" and I am sure your family is so proud of you. Please, please, BRAVO....give Shawn his own show, remove the phony D.C. wannabees...let us have something to watch with real substance....Shawn and Bethenny!!!!!
Hi Shawn!
You came through for Bethenny, planning a wedding in a very short period of time! A wedding that was on national TV, and it turned out perfect! Then the baby shower, again it was perfect! Bethenny really did do you a huge favor by choosing you to be her planner! I can surely believe that all of this is only going to be great for your business, and you've made her a friend probably forever! I'm sure a person in her position will have need of your services in the future!
I will truly miss watching you every week!!
Shawn, you were great on the show! You have the perfect temperment for your job, and the results are amazing!!! Rock on!!
LOVE LOVE LOVE, SHAWN! Bravo is missing a golden opportunity if they do not give him his own show. His facial expressions are priceless, and how about a show that isn't fussing all the time, but someone bringing joy to another's life!
Baby - you need your own show!!! BRAVO - hello??? are you listening...
I've thoroughly enjoyed watching you this season and truly wish you and yours the best. I hope that you get your own show -
All the best -
I agree with others, get rid of dc housewives and give Shawn his own show. put that elevator guy from pretty women movie and Shawn together and you got a hit show with the faces they make alone.
You are a very likable person. I am really in support of dumping DC and giving Shawn his own show; it would be really interesting to watch events take place. I also would like Bravo to venture out from the coasts, and at least do one Housewives from Chicago! Talk about an interesting, beautiful city! Also, talk about politics. People, you would be entertained! Just watch the news.
You are ADORABLE! Your emotions are all over your face and I love that! You really made the show great. I especially enjoyed watching you deal with the vicious little Cookie with such grace lol. I'm not sure I could handle a small dog biting my leg off with such poise as you did! I loved watching you and wish you all the success in the world, if I could afford you I would absolutely have you plan my wedding (especially after seeing you help B pee in a trash can).
I want Bravo to give you your own show
planning events of different people at
different places all over NYC. C'mon Bravo!
Let's go. Shawn is so entertaining, talented
and funny. Just do it!
Shawn -
I just love you too death! I hope Bravo gives you your own show, because I would never miss an episode!
Lots of love to you!
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