Grace wrote:

Oh, thank you so much Brian.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 4:20 PM

Martin wrote:

Hey Peeler love Dougs Principles you guys seem to have a very special bond keep it with you and you will go far is there any way i could get a copy if possible.

Thnaks
Martin In Las Vegas

posted on May 9, 2007 at 4:35 PM

Vanessa wrote:

Doug Blasdell may you rest in peace. Brian may God carry through this tough time and remind you that Doug left you the best gift a person ever could. Like you said he made you a better person not only a better man. I hope we all learn from his life, I feel I did. Thank you so very much for posting Doug's principles. I was looking everywhere for them. I will too try to be a little better becuase of them becuase that is the only way I feel I can honor this man's life who I never met, but I can honestly say he touched my life. I wish you all the best. I know this seems far fetched but my e-mail address is above and if you ever need anything in N.Y. ( where I am) or otherwise I'd be happy to help. God Bless Doug, you, and all of us. Amen.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:10 PM

Michele wrote:

Brian,
Of all the trainers at SkySport and Spa, you are the one who impressed me the most. A friend to anyone who needs one, a truly caring individual, and passionate about what you do.

I send you my sincerest condolences on the loss of your friend Doug. He was an amazing man, and I really do believe, that because you were blessed by being his close friend, you truly will be at least one third the man he was, no IS. I say that, in present tense, because the ones who love us never really leave us, we can always find them...in *here* (points to her heart).

I also feel that the hummingbird was a message from Doug to you, saying, "I'm alright now, and I'm always with you."

Please pass my condolences on to Cheo too...he is such a kind soul, you can just see it in him. I truly hope he will have a successful transplant.

Peace, blessings and light,

Michele
Pennsylvania

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:20 PM

Marjorie wrote:

Thanks so very much. It's amazing how hard Doug's passing has affected millions that only saw him on TV once a week for 40 minutes. You were his best friend so our sympathy is with you so much--and we wish we could have known him firsthand as well.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:26 PM

Glenn Carr wrote:

Doug stood for what is right about the human spirit, whether you are gay or straight, he is a role model for people who just want to live life the way it was meant to be lived. I pray for all the cast and the loved ones.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:29 PM

Kelly Rhodes wrote:

I wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about Doug's passing. I've been a Workout junkie,and this made me cry. I watched your memorial service for him,and sobbed. I think his principles are wonderful.
I know he won't be with you on your weding day(congrats by the way),but you will always have him as an angel.
Take Care and God bless.
Very fondly,
Kelly Rhodes
Corpus Christi,TX

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:29 PM

Mark Toscani wrote:

Peeler, I hope you get a chance to read this. I was devastated by Doug's death. I just lost my partner,Tony, on February 28th in circumstances so similar to Doug's. I never watch TV--especially reality TV but I love to workout and I have been so depressed that I just sit in front of the TV and do nothing. I caught a few episodes here and there. I was immediately drawn to Doug and what a hot 44 year old man he was (the same age as Tony). Then I got so sad because Tony wasn't next to me to say "WOW! WHAT A STUD!". As I watched a few more episodes, the attraction grew as it was apparent what a warm and beautiful man he was inside. I stopped watching the show because, like i said, just don't watch TV that much, This past weekend, I went out with my friends for the 1st time in 2 months. They asked me if I watch "Workout". I said it's actually the only reality show that I caught a few episodes but stopped watching...". My one friend said that I had to watch it as Doug died in a similar fashion to Tony. I freaked out! NOT ANOTHER YOUNG HOT WARM MAN WHO MADE THIS EARTH BETTER! NOT ANOTHER ONE DEAD! I was so pissed I missed the final shows. but I tivo'd them all last night. Those last few episodes...I relived the entire thing again. I knew exactly the pain you all felt, why Doug didn't want you to see him in the hospital, the look on your faces, the helplessness, and the future grief that will be with you forever. I have read a few books on the grieving process and I'm glad I did because it prepares me for the daily rollar coaster ride of uncontollable emotions. And the story of the bird landing on your hand, that was Doug! That story freaked me out.Tony did the same thing to a good friend of ours! Check out myspace to see/read Tony if you want. I bet he and Doug are looking down at us now and working out hard.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:33 PM

Melissa wrote:

HI Brian
watched the episode last night and boy did i cry my eyes out i felt your pain and its unfortunate to finally have a person in yuor life that you feel so close to and than they should die like this so my heart goes out to you and i was so happy that you were so kind to his ex boyfriend tyour a great person and Doug would be so proud of you
God bless and good luck in your up and coming marriage

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:34 PM

Bubba Barber wrote:

Peeler just a few words i loved the show and during watching the show i think i fell in love with Doug he is a truley special guy
reminds me alot of myself and he left us way to soon. kepp your chin up guy be strong i can from watching the show you really loved Doug.

Fan of the show,
Bubba

p.s. i think youre HOT haha had to stick that in there

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:41 PM

eddie wrote:

what did Doug die of? I feel it had to do something with age reaching 45? Family history? Also is Peeler gay or staight because its so unusual to see a straight guy be close friend with a gay guy. Most straight men always feel threaten or homophophibic. But if this is true that Peeler is straight and had a close friend like Doug, its good to see that. Good to see friendship bloom like it did.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 6:53 PM

eddie wrote:

Peeler,
Ok, Ok, Ok after I read all the blogs I see you are straight. Sorry for your loss. But most of you showed that freindship shows no boundaries. A breath of fresch air when you see a straight guy have a gay friend and not feel threaten. Again sorry for your loss.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 7:00 PM

Lori wrote:

Thanks for posting, they are truely words to live by. It would be nice if more people in the world would live by Doug's principles.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 7:07 PM

Ariana wrote:

Thank you for posting this. I was trying to remember them after I finished watching the episode. I cried so much watching the episode of Doug's passing...it's weird how just by watching someone on T.V (without even knowing them)it can have some impact on you. He seemed like a great human being and I felt like I learned a thing or two from him. He make me think and realize what's important in life! You guys are all doing a great job..keep up the good work! I hope there is another season!

posted on May 9, 2007 at 7:15 PM

Randi Lee wrote:

I am a new fan to the show workout. Over the last few months the show has been such an inspiration to me. It has made me think that anything is possible to achive. My simpathy to the workout team on their recent loss of doug. Even though am only a fan at home. Doug has touched my heart and soul with his love and generosity to everyone that crosses his path. there will be BIG shoes to fill in the future.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 7:25 PM

Louie Rizzo wrote:

Hey Brian,
How are you feeling i hope you are doing alright man...but anyway i jus want to say that you and all of the trainers at SKY SPORTS are amazing people and you guys encouraged me to lose weight and get into shape and since you read that information out fo Dougs wallet I am trying to live by that..but be safe stay healthy bye

posted on May 9, 2007 at 7:47 PM

Lena wrote:

I think that you are a dynamic person, Brian! It's wonderful to see a man who's not afraid to show his heart on his sleeve...I suppose that's why you and Doug were so close. I watched the show and was extremely touched by your love and compassion. In the beginning I wondered if you'd be a arrogant, self-centered type....and you proved that you care obout everyone, how they feel and how they think of you. Those are wonderful qualities to have! Good luck on your wedding and I think you're on the road to make an enormous impact in people's lives as Doug did.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 8:12 PM

Art wrote:

Thanks Brian for sharing Doug's Principles with us! Now we can all attempt to live by them too. I wish I had known Doug in person - Love you Doug!!! Your goodness continues to change many lives for the better.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 8:21 PM

shelly wrote:

I am so very sorry for your loss. It absolutely killed me to watch you grieve over the loss of Doug. I am in the funeral industry and I see death every single day and I rarely shed a tear but for some reason just knowing that someone as amazing and spiritual as Doug was gone just crushed me and I didn't even know him! You will never get over this loss but in time it will get easier, I promise. I just want to add that you have really have shown what an awesome person you really are this season. We have gotten to know the real Peeler and see your side on a lot of issues. Anyway, I just wanted to say thank you.

Sincerely,
Shelly Z.
Austin, Texas

posted on May 9, 2007 at 8:47 PM

Jo wrote:

I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm a fan of the show and love all of the cast! You seem to be holding up well. Please just keep being strong and take care of yourself.

xoxoxoxo

posted on May 9, 2007 at 9:21 PM

AMBER wrote:

I'm so sorry for your loss, it seems like you and doug were very close friends, again i'm so sorry. but he is in a far better place than this. ~amber

posted on May 9, 2007 at 9:25 PM

kendra wrote:

I loved this quote! I couldn't write it down fast enough, so thanks for sharing again!

posted on May 9, 2007 at 10:31 PM

April wrote:

Those words are very inspirational. I couldnt get the last episode off my mind. What exactly happened to Doug? I too recently lost someone I loved very much, I know the pain you are all feeling. YOu are all in my prayers. Cant wait for season 3

posted on May 9, 2007 at 11:28 PM

April wrote:

Peeler,
I recently wrote asking exactly what doug had passed away from. I apologize, i just read your previous blog and found out. I am so deeply sorry for all of your lose. Stay as strong as you can and remeber Doug will always be apart of you.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 11:37 PM

Pamela Harper wrote:

Thank you Brian for posting what Doug had written I carry it around with me and it hit me hard to finally realize that he had past away. I am very sorry for your best friends passing he had a smile that would light up a room and when I watched it seems as though you two where really the best of friends. He will be missed big time cause it was like when you guys came on T.V. that you seemed to be a part of my family and I felt alot of emotions. So Brian one more time My family will miss your friend dearly.

posted on May 9, 2007 at 11:53 PM

Zach wrote:

You are a great man. As a trainer, it's obvious you kick butt. As a person, you've handled yourself brilliantly under the harsh eye of the camera. Your relationship with Doug is an inspiration. Best of luck in your career, and best wishes for your wedding.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:07 AM

tam wrote:

that is beautiful...sorry for your loss.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:07 AM

merry vradenburgh wrote:

Peeler, i cried for everyone when you learned of doug's passing but i think i hurt worst for you. The pain showing on your face was so heartbreaking. Doug really seemed to touch your life. I hope your fiancee and the other trainers have been able to help you heal. You really seem to be a great guy....

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:15 AM

Teresa wrote:

Peeler,

You are my favorite! I love your honesty & in your face training methods. I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful friend Doug. Think about the good if you can because I know just knowing him has changed you. Hang in there P.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:19 AM

Monica wrote:

My thoughts are with you and the team. My prayers are with Doug at this very moment.

Is Cheo ok? How is he doing with his treatment? How has he been since dougs passing? Keep your head up Brian!

Work out Fan,

Monica

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:20 AM

simone wrote:

Stay stong, be blessed and keep Doug's legacy alive!!!!! How is Cheo doing?

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:24 AM

Billy Masten wrote:

These are very good Principles! I am going to miss Doug! May he Rest in Peace!
Bill

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:25 AM

Mary Brady wrote:

You are a beatiful man on the inside and out Mr. Peeler! I thought about those principles from last nights show all day.. I watch very little tv but I do not miss Work Out!! It is hard for people to really understand how vulnerble people become when they are working out and making life changes and to keep it together and to stay focussed in a time of tragedy was truly inspiring...Doug was truly a good person and God sometimes takes good people home way too soon..........

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:28 AM

Pepe wrote:

Brian -
I didn't like the person you were in Season 1 - you were such a "guy". It seems like you've grown a lot in Season 2. Maybe matured is a better word. I guess a lot had to do with your relationship with Doug. I'm glad to see that you have opened up and let your emotions come out. I know that it's a hard thing for a straight guy to do - because it's more manly not to cry. I really felt for everyone's loss of Doug - but it was obvious that you didn't just lose a friend - you lost your brother. Just remember that Doug is always watching you and can hear you when you need to talk to him as he floats above your hand with his wings of silk and steel. Take care my friend - see you next season.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:29 AM

MissP wrote:

Thanks for posting this..I knew I had to have this for MY wallet but some of us have to SEE not hear. And you gave it to me visually.

And thanks for taking care of Cheo. That is beautiful.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:43 AM

kc wrote:

Love your little lives principles!!If only EVERYONE would follow your above advice we would live in a world much better than we are now. Seems like you aren't taking much for granted and have a new leash on life after the loss of Doug. I cried when I heard-he was such a great guy. You have such a big hear, I didn't realize that in you until these recent past episodes . Knowing he is in a better place helps me get through.
I am told i look like jessica simpson (i am alot smarter though-ha!) it is a daily struggle to look this way -especially my diet. i workout 5-6 times a week. i am now 34 yrs old -and i am getting "tired" of taking care of myself. Workout has REALLY kept me focused on my fittness -it really is a great show. The drama is hillarious. Keep on keeping on

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:54 AM

Eric wrote:

When I heard them I was like, "I need a pen!" I missed them but I knew it would be on again so I watched it the second time and wrote them down. it did not occur to me to check here. : /

While watching the show if no one had any tears welling in their eyes, they are some cold harded %$#@$#. It about tore me up both time I watched.

I will be praying for ya,
Eric

posted on May 10, 2007 at 1:11 AM

Megan wrote:

Hey Brian,

i bawled like a baby when i was listening to you read Doug's Principles. I've been watching since first season and i can see how much doug means to you. It was tough to watch Cheo, my heart goes out to him. i hope all is well with him as well.
stay strong, keep your head up. You know doug's with you everyday.
[the hummingbird explains that to a T]
--Megan

posted on May 10, 2007 at 1:17 AM

Kristina wrote:

Hey Peeler! You are awesome! I just wanted to tell you that. This past season has inspired me so far to quit smoking, and I have lost 30 lbs. I am bi-polar, so my medication tends to put weight on me fast. At first, I didn't think that I could control it, but watching you and my other favorite Zen, inspired me to do better for myself. AND, working out has dramatically decreased the episodes I struggle with, with my bi-polar. Tahnk you so much! I also wanted to say that my prayers have been going out to everyone with the loss of Doug, especally to you. I know how close you are with Doug, and when you cried, I cried. I guess it's hard to have a show that is watched by milions of people and not feel like you know the people on TV. You are a great inspiration to me. Thank you for being such a wonderful, out spoken, all around awesome guy! I will definatey be looking forward to seeing what comes your way next. All my love, Kris

posted on May 10, 2007 at 1:45 AM

aj wrote:

well brian i have to say the more and more i watch the more and more i feel u are probably one of the most genuine people i have ever seen.. doug was so lucky to have someone like u in their life.. believe it or not i know what ur going through and ur a great friend and i just know doug would be proud to have u in his life.. as a gay man i know my straight friends mean the world to me especially the ones that love me for me and not the label i can bring.. from the bottom of my heart i appreciate u!!

posted on May 10, 2007 at 2:32 AM

MissP wrote:

I keep commenting but it does not show up.

Thank you for quoting Doug...I'd like to keep it in MY wallet.

Thank you for taking care of C....Doug can't do it and this is a way you can do it his way.

thanks for not quitting, guy.....chill a bit, take it easy and take care of you too

posted on May 10, 2007 at 2:32 AM

Wendy wrote:

amazing words to live by. its amazing how a tv show can touch your own personal life.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 3:11 AM

Don wrote:

This sounds so simple, and it is, in concept. All you (and I) have to do is put aside our ego, be open about who/what we really are and do, look at situations rationally, with only positive, optimistic emotions, and be energetic in a way that says we care about others, including other species, but as much as ourselves, and being truly and unreservedly subordinate and respectful of those who lead and direct us.

Yeah, right.

I lived in Southern California for 30 years and came to Chicago because of the honesty, empathy, and downright kindness that is so commonplace here. I found myself marveling that such a philosophy was expoused AND PRACTICED in a place so absorbed with "image" as So. Cal. Then I learn that he went to USC (alternatively known as the University of Spoiled Children) - amazing! I have to admit that here in Chi, being more culturally based than expressly espoused, the results are uneven, just generally better than I experienced in So. Cal.

Then there was Dallas. So many churches, so little love. Two years was like a life sentence. This simple set of rules/goals should be plastered on billboards all over town for a long time. We could all use a dose of it, every day.

Maybe he had all the "image" that he wanted locked up, so he'd moved on. But I suspect that a lot of those thoughts came from painful experiences. He was a man of extraordinary heart that I'd guess most of us would have liked to "hang" with. Maybe with the exposure his guidelines received, they, at least, can be with us for a long time.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 4:13 AM

Jason wrote:

Doug has a heart of gold! His principles to live by has really made me think about how I should live my life. Just like you said, if you could only be a 1/3 of the man he was. He has inspired me to set my own life principles to live by.

Jason

posted on May 10, 2007 at 4:36 AM

David Sinogui wrote:

Doug is my hero and I hope to take on his principles as my own. Thank you for teaching us so much about him. As long as you live, he will always be alive in you. As well as in all of us out there who watched, learned, and fell in love with the Spirit of Doug and all you Sky Sport Spa trainers. I wish I had someone like Doug in my life, but because I don't, I tell myself that I have to be the Doug in other people's lives and I know that's what you hope to do too. --- DAVID, Stockton CA.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 6:08 AM

Glenn wrote:

Thank you for posting Doug's principles for living. I've copied them down, and hopefully can live by them. It was really great to watch this years shows and see how everyone has evolved (don't know if that is the correct word)!!!! It was also great to see how you were able to show your caring and emotional side. Being able to show you emotions in any situation is something not many people are able to do (I should know, I keep mine bottled up), and it is probably doubly hard when you have to do this in front of a camera. I really can't wait until next seasons shows (there better be a next season).
As for Doug's passing, someone told me once that some people enter your life for a short time but leave a ever lasting presence. This is what Doug has done for you, he made a ever lasting presence and probably made you a better person for just entering you life. Well, take care and see you on next years shows!!!!!!!!!

posted on May 10, 2007 at 8:25 AM

nancy wrote:

Hey Peeler!! I caught a couple of episodes of the first season, and was instantly hooked to Work Out. Season 2 was great, but after the final episode, I am left with such sadness in my heart over Doug's passing. It is an amazing example of what a beautiful person he must have been to have touched me so deeply and I didn't even know him. I can imagine your pain is too much to bear at times, and am so sorry for your loss. I too lost a dear friend, and although it's been several years, the pain does not go away. His heart was so much bigger than his beautiful muscles and his kindness just poured out from his pretty eyes. You are blessed to have been a friend of such a kind soul.

I must ask if Doug is responsible for your transformation from Hard Tough Guy with attitude to Hard Tough Guy with Kind Heart and Soul? I think he must be one of the reasons for your change, and I just want you to know how wonderful it was to watch you evolve. Your fiance must be proud and she is a lucky woman to have you. Best of Luck on your Marriage - Wishing you a lifetime of Happiness!!!

I do hope that there will be a Season 3, look forward to watching. If you are ever planning on being in NY - this new mom(He is 13 months - can I still use that as an excuse?!) can use some butt kicking to get her butt back in shape!!

posted on May 10, 2007 at 8:25 AM

Marty wrote:

Peeler, your a great guy and thanks for sharing Doug's Pinciples, I also will carry them with me and share with my friends.

Marty,

Columbus Ohio

posted on May 10, 2007 at 9:05 AM

Victoria wrote:

Ahhh, Doug's words of wisdom. He truely was like an old soul. All of us would be so much better off following in his footsteps. Peeler, just keep Doug alive in your heart and you can move on. You were blessed to have him in your life, however short a time that was...

posted on May 10, 2007 at 9:32 AM

Jessica wrote:

Brian,

Thanks for posting these very pertinent principles. If only more humans could embrace these words, life would be so much better for all of us.

Doug was a good man in all respects. If you learn to be even half the man he was, you will be a good man indeed. He is part of you in principle and still guiding you. You are his friend and his legacy. Keep his spirit, his principle alive in you and share it with others as he shared it with you.

Who knows, maybe you will get the opportunity to be there for someone the way he was for you. What better way to honor a sweet soul than to pass on the blessing of love and respect.

My deepest condolences are for you for your loss.

With respect,

Jessica

posted on May 10, 2007 at 10:12 AM

Grace wrote:

You seem to be such a sincere, caring person. Truly, out of all the personalities on this show, I have always thought you and Doug were the kindest. If I had my choice of anyone I could to train me, I would choose you Brian!! Keep on being such an inspiration!!

posted on May 10, 2007 at 10:49 AM

melanie wrote:

I think how much you cared for Doug was visable in everything you did and said. You seem like such a caring and loving person and I'm sure Doug must have felt that way as well.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 11:00 AM

Steven wrote:

Peeler,
You're such a good guy. If you ever need another "brother" just let me know. Keep spreading the good and positive work.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 11:00 AM

joellyn wrote:

Brian,

you are such a sweet person. You are an inspiration to everyone. I don't usually watch reality tv shows, but this show caught my attention when it first aired. I've been hooked ever since.

Doug's principals are something I'm trying to live by day to day.

what an inspiration he was.
keep up the good work

posted on May 10, 2007 at 11:31 AM

Barbara wrote:

Losing a someone you love and respect is one of the toughest challanges we face in life. Memories and time are the tools we use for healing. On the issue of weight I am 53 and struggled all my life with huge weight fluxuations. I am currently on a self made program to tackle this once and for all and doing well, thru proper diet and exercise, however I have to comment on the young woman that walked out on the opportunity to be trained by yourself or any of the others . It was so foolish.I know how powerful food can be, and I know all about "when your ready" but gosh, how often do you get that chance. I would have traded places with her in a instant just to have that opportunity, and I know I am not alone in that statment. You are an inspirational trainer and I am sure you reach people who are not directly in front of you. You reach me. Keep strong.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 12:01 PM

angie wrote:

I am very sorry for the loss of your friend Doug. Just remember the good times that you had together. My husband is battling stage 4 lung cancer. I have lost all my grandparents so I know what loss is like. Make sure to take time for yourself. I missed a few episodes and was wondering what was Doug's health problem that caused his death. I watched the bike ride episode and heard something about him worried about making it to 45. Does it have something to do with his parents passing at the age of 44. Please tell Cheo that we are very sorry for his loss as well. If you could take a moment to e-mail me back I would really appreciate it. Thanks for taking the time to read my letter. I Hope.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 2:21 PM

Peter wrote:

Peeler;
First of all I am sorry for your loss. Both you and Doug were the reasons I got hooked on the show to begin with. Like you I felt I lost a close friend when I saw the 2nd to last episode. I cried that night and for days I felt empty. Although I never met him I will try to live by his principles. The world has lost a genuine human being. Heaven has gained an angel.

Ps.
Continue being MichealAngelo...Doug enjoyed that from you

posted on May 10, 2007 at 2:55 PM

rebecca wrote:

good choice of words...stay on the right side of carma tell everyone you love how much you love them everyday have no regrets and live your life to the fullest..take it easy Peeler

posted on May 10, 2007 at 3:06 PM

vickie wrote:

I have to say Peeler, you certainly have grown (and grown on me.)
I was mistaken about you. You've really stepped up. I admire you.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 3:20 PM

Siren wrote:

Brian --
Thank you for your raw emotions and love. You are beautiful.
This world needs more like you.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 3:43 PM

Ivette wrote:

Peeler-I am very sorry to hear that Doug had passed. I just don't understand how he had such a strong sense in when it was going to happen. I can tell that he has touched your soul deeply. That is very obvious just seeing it on tv and noticing the difference in you from the beginnig of the show to now. Doug was a wonderful person and he is missed and a missing part of the show. I was glad to have the program Workout introduce him to me. I copied and printed out the principles and keep them in my purse. Hang in there and know that God's blessings surround us everyday....

posted on May 10, 2007 at 4:25 PM

Tania wrote:

Brian,
Watching you tore me up on Tues night. Actually on the season premeire it upset me so much when I saw the dedication to Doug I started to cry. He was so amazing. I was DREADING the last episode that was aired. I cried for 15 minutes. Just watching all of you going through such pain. I'm so sorry. I know he was everything to you. I know it sounds silly but me not knowing him doesnt mean I didnt care about him. He truly was an inspiration to anyone he had connected with and I am so glad he connected with me through my TV. I learned a lot from him.
Take care Brian, I'll say a little prayer for you and your broken heart.
Tania

posted on May 10, 2007 at 5:27 PM

Christine wrote:

I find it fascinating that Doug's principals are the principals taught in Reiki--a beautiful form of hands on healing that conjures images of light, grace, beauty, peace, absolute radiance. I did not know Doug, but it seems that he was all these things. Namaste.

posted on May 10, 2007 at 7:27 PM

Vanessa wrote:

Thank you so much for posting this I just finished watching the show and i immediately jumped online to see if I could find this. It truely is wonderful! May he rest in peace Doug was an amazing individual!

posted on May 10, 2007 at 10:09 PM

Glendale wrote:

Words to live by, bro. Doug was wise beyond his years.

G

posted on May 10, 2007 at 11:26 PM

Bethany wrote:

That is the greatest thing that you have ever recieved! I also think that it was amazing what happend with the hummingbird! Any and all things are possible through our higher power!

posted on May 11, 2007 at 12:01 AM

megumi wrote:

Hi Brian,
I am so sorry for your loss. I cried cried everytime when I watched the chapter. Specially, you read Doug's princple and humming bird story. I was misunderstanding about you at episode1. you are very tender hearted person. I hope time and evrything heal your sorrow. please remember, doug is invisible now, but he is always around you.
I am sorry if I misused english.

posted on May 11, 2007 at 2:56 AM

Terri wrote:

Hi,
I love you on the show you are one of the honest ones! I know you must really feel like it is the end of the world losing Doug, just always know that he is in your heart and looking over you! I hope you continue to find the strength to continue what Doug would have loved to do everyday he was alive and that is work out and stay healthy, so now you have to do it for the both of you good luck to you and god bless!!!

posted on May 11, 2007 at 9:03 AM

stephanie shelton wrote:

Brian,
It's amazing to see how far you've grown over this season. Even on tv you can see the profound effect Doug has had in your life. Always remember he's watching over you and he'll continue to guide you.
Be safe and be well.

posted on May 11, 2007 at 2:21 PM

Lisa Polansky wrote:

I woke at about 3:00 a.m with a panic attack
Doug on my mind: dying & the list he lived by !
Is it simple to do these things, no?
Ironic, I have danced my whole life and now I come upon your show as diabetes is ravaging my legs and watch from the couch and fantasize about "working out" in such a manner.

Doug seemed like such an empath.
You are all such an inspirational team.
I have learned many, many lessons way beyond health and working out.

You should all feel good about sharing in such an honest manner.
I find your show to be the best that is on right now and have learned or am trying to learn about how to be a better person from the great examples shown.
Respectfully,
Lisa

posted on May 11, 2007 at 2:49 PM

David wrote:

To be able to see the principles that Doug lived by is a gift from him to us all. Thank you, Brain and Doug. May Doug rest in peace.

posted on May 11, 2007 at 4:09 PM

steph wrote:

hey peeler,
i just wanted to say i put dougs principles in my wallet ..i strange to imagine how big of a connection you can feel with someone you never had the chance to meet i just wish he could know how loved he is by everyone,
anyways you are a good guy peeler..you say you like big stuff well it shows because you seem to have a big heart too,
take care of yourself
and be careful with all that adrenaline stuff!
-stephanie

posted on May 11, 2007 at 7:03 PM

Amanda R. wrote:

This episode inspired me so much---my best friend in college was killed in a car wreck on May 8, 2006. The anniversary of his passing was really emotional this year and I couldn't help but cry all day. Watching 'Work Out' last night was really therapeutic---Chris shared a zeal for life and love like Doug did.

I hope Doug's memory strengthens you like Chris's does with me.

Sincerely,

Amanda
Asheville, NC

posted on May 11, 2007 at 9:59 PM

THOMAS JAY wrote:

PEELER, PLEASE TELL US AS SOON AS YOU CAN IF THERE IS GOING TO BE A SEASON 3 AND WHEN WILL IT START?
YOU ROCK!

posted on May 11, 2007 at 10:00 PM

Raul wrote:

Brian -

Bless you and remember -
sorrow isn't forever...
but love is.

posted on May 11, 2007 at 11:48 PM

Lillian wrote:

Last year was a hard year for me. I was sexually assaulted by a man I considered to be my best friend. I contracted HIV from the assault and have been struggling with putting my life back together. I don't sleep well, and as I stay up late at night, I started watching the show. I always liked Doug and Brian. Their friendship seems so genuine and raw. Completely unpretentious. Yesterday was my birthday. I woke up late, trying to set aside the emotions of dealing with my first birthday with HIV. I turned on the TV and caught the last episode (which I had missed). It was so touching, and as you read Doug's principles, I started crying. I felt some of my hurt and my confusion lift. I wrote down Doug's priciples and posted them on my mirror, and as I looked at myself in the eyes for the first time in months, I saw hope and beauty. Thank you for sharing this with me. I had the best birthday I've had in years, and I was able to live in the moment feel normal for the first time in a really long time. Thank you both. Thank you Doug for your heart and sincerity, and thank you Brian for knowing that sharing Doug's heart would touch so many.

posted on May 12, 2007 at 2:06 PM

Robert wrote:

Brian, Thank you so much for posting Doug's prinicples.

When I heard them, I knew they were something to aspire to. I met Doug on the California AIDS Ride a few years ago. He was a much stronger rider than I, so I didn't get to ride with him for long, but I was very impressed by his heart, compassion and genuine caring of others.

It's no wonder you became such good friends, because those are clearly qualities you had in common. May you always feel his spirit and blessings upon you.

Robert
www.SpokebusterForAIDS.org
San Jose, CA

posted on May 13, 2007 at 3:29 PM

Hope wrote:

Brian your are nice person i was deeply sad to find out about Doug he was a beautiful person i cried alot when i saw the episode. I pray for you to get through this sad time. Doug was one of those friends you only meet once in a life time. I give my blessing to Cheo it hard to lose a partner. Bless you all hope to see you in season 3

posted on May 13, 2007 at 8:49 PM

Tracey wrote:

I'm a person with a serious life style change due to a back injury two years ago (I refused to call my self disabled). I maybe get out of my house 2 twice a month and that's with much pain. I sometimes have little or nothing that motives me to keep going. But I've learned that, that's what life is, working through your pain. I don't understand half the time why things happen and mostly to good people such as Doug, you and myself, but I do know on the other side of that pain is joy. Time heals all things even a battered back of an overweight 37 year old and broken hearts of man who lose a brother/friend. Take it day by day and one day the pain will begin to fade. Thanks for Doug's Principles they've now become mine too.

posted on May 14, 2007 at 3:38 PM

Randy wrote:

Brian, thanks for adding these. Doug was an AMAZING person. Gay, straight, or otherwise, he is someone we should all try to be more like. I pray that God gives you peace and keeps Doug for all of us.

posted on May 15, 2007 at 3:46 PM

Maggie wrote:

Was Doug a Reiki practitioner ? Doug's principles are the Reiki principles I learned while mentoring with my Reiki teacher. He was a gentle soul, and I will miss his presence in the Workout episodes, as you must miss him as your dear friend everyday.. Even though, He is gone from this earth, he is with you still... in so many ways.

Maggiw

posted on May 15, 2007 at 9:42 PM

Jenn MD wrote:

Wow, I watched you deal with the process of tremendous pain and I sat and balled your words captured the love I think all of us want to feel, we all want to be loved the way you loved doug, " I wish I could fight this for him, I wish my body could take this on for him, but all you could do was cry" I think you give the rest of us a lesson for a healthy way to deal with such an event in our own lives when the time comes, your pain touched me I think we all want to hold you and cry and make you stronger again, it's refreshing to see emotion in a straight guy. You are better than you know i hope your wedding is special

posted on May 15, 2007 at 10:48 PM

Kelly wrote:

These are words that every human being should live by. So special.

posted on May 15, 2007 at 10:57 PM

alicia c wrote:

Hi brian, i had just watched season 2 of the show. I love Doug"s prinicples. I think if everyone would follow those, most of us would be better people. I literally cried when the episode of Doug's passing. I wish you well and RIP Doug

posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:06 PM

Neenaa wrote:

If you live in the hearts you leave behind you do not die but live forever!!
I have always lived by that because of the many tragic deaths I have had to endure and it has made me believe they are around us always and within us. Not many people have the influence and compassion that Doug and yourself have and the guts to show it. Most men are tactile and refuse to show emotion. I am proud of you and Doug. It is with great sadness that he has passed but he was too good for this world and was needed elsewhere to make our passings easier. One day we will all meet up with him and will party, I am sure of it. Till then chin up it get's better with each passing day and remember the good times. Make a collage and keep it in your home....he will speak to you when you are ready.

Blessed Be Brian....take care my brother

posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:12 PM

Jenn wrote:

I cried my eyes out when Doug passed away. Thankfully his principles can live on through all of us. What a lovely legacy to leave behind. Peace.

posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:57 PM

Monica wrote:

I just want to say that you are in my prayers. I know how it feels to lose someone who is close to you. Just stay true to yourself and keep his memory alive. That well help you get though this hard time.

posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:12 AM

judith wrote:

Brian,
I'm deeply saden by Dougs passing, cant understand what happen, he seemed so healthy. I live in Mexico and saw last episodes via satellite, so I'm confussed why he died??? Anyway , he is in my prayers as well as your self. Be strong, Celebrate him thru your hard work, dedication and courage...

posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:19 AM

Candice wrote:

My heart goes out to you! I couldn't believe my ears when I heard Doug's priciples. They are the Reiki precepts. Was Doug a Reiki practitioner? I wish you great healing with the loss of Doug. He seemed like such a wonderful person on tv. I can't imagine how great it would have been to know him in real life like you were able to. My thoughts are with you. Reiki Blessings! Candice

posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:13 AM

Thomas wrote:

Brian just wanted to say this to you i am some one that has been putting off comming to skysport cause i live in 2 citys hollywood and the bay i work alot and i really wanted doug to train me but never had the time to call now it is to late, from the being of the show i didnt like the way you trained you seemed like alot of my friends that are trainers, but the more i see the way you are now the more i see i like to have a trainer like you some one, that just dose not push's you to be your best i see you care more about the person and what they have inside them self, i just started 2 companys and doing a book on california, i hope you have the time when i can work out with a trainer again... just remember if you dont give it your all every day then and try to be the best that you can be inside then you need to go and get an ice cream and remember tomorrow is a new day for a sweet life....

posted on May 16, 2007 at 5:35 AM

Karen Mesa wrote:

Brian,
I am so sorry to hear about Doug, I know what is like to lose your best friend and sibling by choice. I lost my 'sister' in October.
I read your interview on AfterElton.com, thank you. I understand that Doug wanted to keep his illness private, but please understand that ,we, the public, see many of the personalities on TV as friends. We invite you into our homes each week. Doug's death and your grief touched many.

I wish you peace and happiness.

Karen

posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:33 PM

Annette James wrote:

Peeler Just wanted to say that you seem to be a man that every woman wants, a kind heart, hot body, good looking and smart, great combination.

posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:54 PM

gina Van Dyke wrote:

Thank you so much. My fiance and I have a best friend from high school that is still after 20 years our best friend. He was found dead on Monday at age 41.The pain we are feeling is so deep. Thank you for sharing your pain after loosing Doug. Thank you for Dougs Principles. I will keep them with me.
Thank you...
Gina

posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:13 PM

holly wrote:

Thank you for sharing Doug's principles with us. I am going to hang them in my classroom!

posted on May 16, 2007 at 4:19 PM

brian wrote:

well just saw the last show.... damn sorry for such a lost, man to see what ya gone threw and to be air out to the world..must be a big step.... "keep ya's head" -brian- san antoino, tx

peace to doug......

posted on May 17, 2007 at 1:00 AM

Scott Horan wrote:

I found Dougs principles right after my blog attempt. So false alarm. Hey thanks anyway.

posted on May 17, 2007 at 12:56 PM

Joi Eagle wrote:

I was so sad when Doug passed away. How did he die? It was never really clear what happened to him. He was the picture of health!

posted on May 17, 2007 at 10:57 PM

Gordon wrote:

Brian..
You truly are an amazing and tender person. You are so genuine and so caring. So glad that you, a straight guy could have such wonderful feelings for Doug, a gay guy. I was once again so touched by your feelings and emotions your presented in this weeks reunion show. It was such a fun show.
Bless you and I sure hope to see you next season. There better be a next season!!!

posted on May 18, 2007 at 12:10 AM

Sandy Webber wrote:

Amazing shows last night! I cried and cried and cried, for y'all's pain and loss. Does it help to know the fans are crying with you and supporting you telepathically. And, really amazing hummingbird story. You totally get it! Congrats on your wedding. Doug will always be your "best man". And, don't worry, you'll see Doug on the other side! Obviously, he's very busy as angel. God bless y'all. Can't wait for another season.

posted on May 18, 2007 at 10:16 AM

Caity wrote:

Thanks, Brian, for posting Doug's principles for all of us to follow. When I saw the show where you read them I just knew I had to have them...they are so good for all of us to remember every day. Doug definitely had it right!

posted on May 18, 2007 at 11:34 AM

diosa wrote:

Sorry to hear of the loss of what appears to be an exceptional person.

The principles (or precepts) that Doug carried in his wallet were written by a man named Mikao Usui and are the precepts of the energy system of spiritual growth and healing that he founded in the 1920's called Usui Reiki. It is the system that the other Reiki's base themselves in even though many of them have absolutely nothing in common with it other than the term Reiki.

I didn't watch the show or know anything about Doug but read a post on a Reiki forum about his passing and Brian reading the card from his wallet. I wanted to let people know where those words came from. Again, sorry to hear of this loss and also for the loss of what appears to be a fellow practitioner.

posted on May 18, 2007 at 12:08 PM

diosa wrote:

Sorry to hear of the loss of what appears to be an exceptional person.

The principles (or precepts) that Doug carried in his wallet were written by a man named Mikao Usui and are the precepts of the energy system of spiritual growth and healing that he founded in the 1920's called Usui Reiki. It is the system that the other Reiki's base themselves in even though many of them have absolutely nothing in common with it other than the term Reiki.

I didn't watch the show or know anything about Doug but read a post on a Reiki forum about his passing and Brian reading the card from his wallet. I wanted to let people know where those words came from. Again, sorry to hear of this loss and also for the loss of what appears to be a fellow practitioner.

posted on May 18, 2007 at 12:19 PM

Shanna wrote:

I am deeply touched by Dough's life. Each time I watched the episode, I wish he's still around. I am very sure you really missed.

posted on May 18, 2007 at 12:23 PM

Angell wrote:

Dear Peeler,

Thanks for posting Doug's Principles for us. I copied it into a Word document and printed it out to put up in my family room. Every since I watched the episode in which you read them I had wanted to have them for inspiration. I miss Doug from just being a fan of the show. I cannot imagine how you must feel except to say that I lost my Mom in 1990 and I still miss her terribly every day. She was My inspiration. God bless and keep you.

posted on May 24, 2007 at 10:22 PM

Beto Esq wrote:

What can I say, I was so shocked by the demise of Doug, and yet so Enlightened by his spirit, his presence and ways. Just what his Life brought and left for the world.

posted on May 29, 2007 at 7:19 PM

Wendy wrote:

Brian I wanted to let you know that Doug also touched my life and it was when I was sitting at home with my son and Doug had gotten his new client and they sat outside of Sky Sport and Doug was talking to her about why she was there and he started talking about how he wanted to be her friend and i'm not sure what exactly got me but I took my cigarettes and tossed them in the garbage, so when I tell people and they ask me why I tell them I was watching Doug on work out. Doug will always be with you and watching over you.

Take care,
Wendy

posted on May 31, 2007 at 1:24 PM

Dave wrote:

Doug's Principles are perfect and simple. Please understand that your blessed to have had him in your life. Theres a reason he came into your life. I wish I had a person like him in my life. We could all use someone like him.

Theres always room in my wallet/heart for his Principles. Even if I had a lot of money, there would still be room.

posted on June 20, 2007 at 4:13 PM