May 10, 2007
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Dana Fortier wrote: I would LOVE to see you put out a "bootcamp workout" book or training video. Any plans?
Brian: Yes, I am planning to put out a workout video!
Mike Horen wrote: How can I work my gut without stressing my back; and how can I strengthen my lower back musculature?
Brian: Try doing your abdominal workout with a Swiss ball under you.
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Comments
Ann wrote:
Hi Brian,
Though difficult emotionally, it has been very heartening to see the love and respect among the men in the show, regardless of sexual orientation or color. When you, a straight man, were crying over the demise of a gay man, and a black man had his hand on your shoulder to comfort you --- that was a profound moment. I can't imagine seeing a moment like that only ten years ago. We have come a long way, and I'd like to say thanks for breaking down some of our societal barriers.
Best of luck to you.
:) Ann
posted on May 10, 2007 at 4:54 PM
Matt wrote:
Hi Brian,
Thanks for sharing so much on the show and here on your blog. It is great to see a solid friendship between two men where the issue of one's sexuality doesn't matter. You and Doug are an inspiration for others. I am so sorry for your loss, keep remembering all the good times you guys had and the memories will help keep you smiling.
posted on May 10, 2007 at 5:22 PM
Kimberly wrote:
Peeler, Please post Dougs rules that you showed and briefly stated in the last episode. I was very touched by them but I have been unable to find them elsewhere on the site!
Thanks,
Kim
posted on May 10, 2007 at 5:45 PM
Jenn wrote:
I hate cardio (I get bored easily) and I get headaches while working out. I really want to start jogging and do other cardio but not sure how to go about this. What motivation techniques should I use? Any other ideas to get me motivated?
posted on May 10, 2007 at 7:50 PM
Josh Lambert wrote:
Hi Brian,
I am 24 and trying to become a personal trainer, I was wondering if you had any advise or tips that you could share.
posted on May 10, 2007 at 10:51 PM
Sunday wrote:
Brian,
I am so sorry for the loss of Doug. I cried so right along with you and the hummingbird.....that really broke my heart. I see butterfys all the time, Im thinking its my grandma.
Anyways, I was wondering if you could post Dougs wisdom to live by. I was looking all over the web page and couldnt find it. What you had said sounded like great inspiration to live by every day........I too, would like to carry them with me.
Thank you,
Sunday
posted on May 10, 2007 at 11:28 PM
Bethany wrote:
I know Dougs death has had a profound affect on Sky Sports, but how has it affected your relationship with Jackie, seeing as how you guys used to go at each other, especially the night of that party.
posted on May 11, 2007 at 12:04 AM
cheri haynes wrote:
Brian I hwat is called Devics Disease,closely related to MS. I suffer from extreme pain and fatigue on a daily baisis. I also having being doing chemo. I have stairs in my hould and been trying that exercise. I do have a pool. I need help to do an exercize plan that won't increase the pain that I already deal with. Also I would like to know what foods to avoid. I want to get moer pyscially fit. I wish to send you my condp;emces on Dougs passing, I know that affected you deeply and I'm sorry for your lose. He was truly a good soul and for those of us who were lucky enough to share just a small part are more the better for it.Hope your life is going will and I hope to hear from you soon.
posted on May 11, 2007 at 2:16 AM
kimbra wrote:
Hello Brian,
I really admire you for letting your guard down to let a gay man make such a profound statement in your life!!! I don't know you but am very proud of you and what you stand for!. each time I see you on Work Out I just want to reach through the t.v. and give you a huge hug and tell you that Doug must have loved you very very much and to have known such a wonderful man has made you all the better for life. I honestly live my life by " Doug's
prayer"~~~The hummingbird will always be with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Be so proud to have known Doug!!! (tears are flowing) I really wish you well!!!!!!!:)
SLEEP WITH THE ANGELS(DOUG IS)
SINCERILY, KIMBRA~~~~
posted on May 11, 2007 at 2:16 AM
Dawn wrote:
Hi Brian,
Just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for the loss of your best friend. Nothing will replace him, and it makes no sense why God took him so soon, when he had so much left to give all of us. But we're not supposed to know why. Maybe God needed a really good friend. I, of course, didn't know Doug, but my God, he seemed like he would be a best friend to anyone that needed a hug or was down on life. I cried and cried, and I didn't know him....you did, and it must have been hell on earth. Is there any certain charity or cause that people can donate to in Doug's name? What cause was the closest to his heart? A lot of times shows don't mention anything when a member of the show has passed away, and it was so nice that the powers-that-be let us, the fans, grieve with you. God bless you.
posted on May 11, 2007 at 2:40 AM
Nick wrote:
peeler I just wanted to tell you that since ive watched you and how much you truley cared for people and to help them change and save there lives it inspired me to become a trainer and maybe one day be as great of not only a trainer but a person so thank you
posted on May 11, 2007 at 3:10 AM
Jerry wrote:
Brian,
Thanks so much for answering the reader questions. Especially thanks for updating us on Cheo. I really hope he regains his strength, gets the transplant and begins to resume his life. You know that's what Doug would have wanted.
Again thanks!
posted on May 11, 2007 at 7:54 AM
Mark Krapf wrote:
Hey, Brian. I hope the healing process continues to go well for you and that your positive influence on many peoples lives only reinforces your success. You have always been compassionate, accepting and genuine. I fly for a major airline and was fortunate enough to once be a roommate of Brian's years ago. He is sincere as he portrays himself to be on television; and each person he interacts with is supported by him to be the best that they can be no matter what personal endeavor in life one seeks. Stay away from the "sweet tea" and I will do the same. "We all put on our britches one leg at a time!" Sincerely, Mark Krapf.
posted on May 11, 2007 at 8:32 AM
Curt wrote:
Brian,
You read a list of Doug's Principals. Can you post this list?
Thanks
Curt
EDITOR'S NOTE: LIST OF PRINCIPLES PUBLISHED HERE:
http://www.bravotv.com/blog/brianpeeler/2007/05/dougs_principles.php
posted on May 11, 2007 at 9:56 AM
Grace wrote:
Brian - thanks so much for answering my question about Cheo. I'm so glad to hear he's doing better.
posted on May 11, 2007 at 12:18 PM
Korky Thibodeaux wrote:
Brian,
I just got finished watching the episode after Doug's passing, while writing this I still have tears filled in my eyes. It was emotional for me watching you show such a side of yourself that you seem to keep hidden. I myself have once been in your shoes where I had to come to terms with losing a friend, brother, and confidant. When you were talking about the hummingbird and it landing on your hand, I knew before you said anything that it was Doug and his love and admiration that he has for you. My only wish is that you know the love you had for someone so special will one day be allowed to reflection in someone else's life. Doug can not or will not ever be replaced and shouldn't be, but don't hold yourself back for fear of losing someone again. I wish that I could have someone as strong as you in my life, pushing me to my limits and showing that the person on the inside is also the person who can be on the outside. Where I live I don't exactly have the type of trainers with the compassion that you and your fellow trainers have for their clients. I will keep you, Jackie, and the rest of trainers in my prayers and I hope that one day the compassion that you all display on the show can be reflected in my own life and with others. May God bless you and always keep you safe. Please also send a special message to Cheo and let him know that he is also in my prayers. If possible and you have the time, can you please send me Doug's Principals so that I also may have his guideness just as you do. Take care and keep pumping.
Sincerely,
Korky Thibodeaux
posted on May 11, 2007 at 2:25 PM
Sheri wrote:
Hi Brian,
I am an avid exerciser and eat healthy. My biggest frustration is that I have had 3 back surgeries and that prevents me from doing a lot of exercises and limits me. I have to do all of my weights seated and I do abs on the swiss ball and don't see any results. Any thoughts
posted on May 11, 2007 at 4:26 PM
LEEANN STARR wrote:
BRIAN: I AM SO PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE AS I HAVE FOLLOWED YOU. I TO LOST MY HUSBAND LAST YEAR AND SO I CREID WITH YOU AS CHRIS WAS ONLY 38. HE WAS REALLY INTO WORKING OUT AND VERY HANDSOME HE WAS MY HEART. ANYHOW, I JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE THE VERY MAN GOD CREREATED YOU TO BE BRAIN AND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL MAN. I KNOW YOU BATTLE ANGER AND PROBABLY THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT BUT I SEE LOTS OF GROWTH STAY SWEET AND YOU JUST REMIND ME OF A SONNY BOY OR SOMETHING. GOD HAS THE PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE AND KEEP DOUGS PARTNER CLOSE AS HE IS HURTING SO MUCH I CREID WITH YOU BOTH, DO NOT KNOW YOU BUT I STILL EMPATHIZE. BLESSINGS TO YOU AND STAY HANDSOME!!LEEANN
posted on May 11, 2007 at 4:29 PM
sandra juarez wrote:
hey brian, you touched my heart. I just lost my favorite aunt due to Cancer, i knew what you were feeling.To be honest with you Doug was my favorite trainner; i was abel to tell that he was a great person " i really mean it" I'm trying to work on my abs after having two kids, i dont know what to do. i get in diets but i dont want to loose weight just my baby fat. What can i do?
posted on May 11, 2007 at 9:54 PM
Marko J wrote:
Hi Brian
you have been in my thoughts and prayers since I first learned of Doug's passing. I have cried myself to sleep after watching the last 2 episodes. I will light candles for you and Cheo and Doug this Sunday in church. I lost my parnter of 12 years to cancer. I can still remember the doctor taking out of his room and asking how fast we could get him home to Romania so he could be with his family. It was 12 weeks to the day that he was passed away. I will tell you that it will get easier although it doesn't seem like it. You will also see little things, like the hummingbird, and you will know that Doug is there and he always will be. Please keep us updated on Cheo. Last year I had to have one of my kidney's removed because it was not functioning. I'm doing well but have to get my butt in gear and get back to the gym. I'm praying to get some of Doug's energy to get my butt moving! I wish you all the best on your marriage and maybe Cheo can stand in Doug's place... many hugs to both you and Cheo! XXOXOXOXOXOXOXO from marko
posted on May 11, 2007 at 11:39 PM
michelle wrote:
hi peeler, brian... hope your well..
i live in england so i have only just watch the 8th episode of work out...
i just wanted to say... i really wanted to hug ya when i was watching, and the intensity of the emotion that was coming from you made me burst into tears... it took me back to something so similar in my life, its so harsh to lose someone like that...
your such an amazing guy, u truely are... i have so much repect for you!
love all you guys... u ppl rock!!!
michelle x x x
posted on May 12, 2007 at 10:00 AM
louis smith wrote:
peeler ! hey man my, heart has been broken by doug leaving us all . I, never miss a show . I, got hurt bad in service , but I, go to the gym 7 days a week . Peeler stay grounded live by doug's light . you have what it takes and off you go ,remember this !
procrastination is the assasanation of motivation . that's for your ,people to live by from me . hope to meet you all some day .
I, still, cry over doug and I, have seen many terrible things .but that hit me broad side . stay cool .. LOU
posted on May 12, 2007 at 4:17 PM
El wrote:
Doug's death truly touched as you watching how deep you friendship was. Like some posters below me stated it truly is blessing to show that gay, straight, black or white we can all learn from each other. Especially in times when so many men fall into this false sense of masculity its encouraging to you be able to fully express that this is man you loved and that you learned from inspite of your differances. Stay blessed! Love you and the show
posted on May 12, 2007 at 9:07 PM
El wrote:
Doug's death truly touched as you watching how deep you friendship was. Like some posters below me stated it truly is blessing to show that gay, straight, black or white we can all learn from each other. Especially in times when so many men fall into this false sense of masculity its encouraging to you be able to fully express that this is man you loved and that you learned from inspite of your differances. Stay blessed! Love you and the show
posted on May 12, 2007 at 9:34 PM
robert wrote:
peeler i am just sending my condolence to you and the rest of the staff at sky lab. i know you were closer to doug than the rest so that is why i am writing to you rather than the other trainer. i watched the workout on a regular and i noticed you took it really hard. i figure there are no words to say to you that will make you feel better about this ordeal but i hope that dougs little passage will help you to get throught this ordeal. good luck with your future endeavors.
posted on May 13, 2007 at 12:25 AM
Montimo wrote:
Brian,
You are my hero. Thank you so much for showing how a straight man can truly love a gay man. I really do believe that your love for Doug could really open the doors for other straight men to realize that caring about a gay man doesn't make you gay.
I must admit, from the beginning of the show, I adored you for your physical beauty. But, after watching the final episodes of this season, I have come to admire you for your compassion.
I wish you well in all that you do. And, I hope that you will be back in Season 3,4,5,6... As you can see I love the show and hope to see it continue for years to come.
Thanks,
Tim
posted on May 13, 2007 at 2:02 AM
Gracie wrote:
I really love your personality! You are a great person. Your one of the reasons I watch this show! Watching you train your skylab client motivates me to exercise. I would appreciate any tips for starting a weight loss program. Keep up all of your hard work!
posted on May 14, 2007 at 2:38 AM
sherri wrote:
Hey Brian. I love your fine southern accent as well as your "assets".I myself am in Kentucky and I recognized right away that you have the southern personality that the men here have. Its good to see someone from the south in Beverly Hills. Us down here cant begin to imagine what it's like there. I have only been watching the show for a few months and I have began to start working out in the gym again because I am finally learning how to eat from watching Jackie. My dream was always to be a bodybuilder and compete, but the birth of my children took me down a different path in life.By watching your show i have decided that I have to take care of me too. You have all been an inspiration. Until today I was unaware of Doug's passing but I knew he was ill. I dont know the details,but as a straight woman whos best friend passed from AIDS I am happy to see that something is being done in his name. Plese know you are all in my prayers and I truly wish you continued success with your show and your health. God Bless..........sherri
posted on May 14, 2007 at 1:49 PM
Heather wrote:
Hi Brian,
I just found out a week ago that Doug Blasdell was my cousin. My Mom and him grew up together but they lost touch mostly after Doug's Mom died which was around the time my Grandma (Mom's Mom) died. My Mom was watching Bravo and heard a commmercial for 'Workout' and it was about his memorial. It is so sad to find him after he's already been lost. The most wonderful thing though is to see his legacy through the show so even though I never had the chance to know him while he was alive I get to know what a wonderful person he was in life. I wish I could have known him but it's nice to know he had such a wonderful friend in you.
posted on May 14, 2007 at 2:11 PM
Thizz wrote:
Just want to tell you that you are my favorite. You seem the most truthful and honest. Your are a stand up guy. Good luck on your upcoming wedding and so sorry for your the loss of your best friend. hope all is well. cant wait to watch tomorrows show.
posted on May 14, 2007 at 5:05 PM
Jim from Michigan wrote:
I have never seen a striaght guy care so much for a gay man in the way that you cared for Doug. You are an amazing human being and Doug new that. I wish there were more people in the world like you. I know the world would be a better place we could all coexist and filter out the hate.
Have a great wedding; I know Doug will be there in spirit.
posted on May 14, 2007 at 6:17 PM
Amy Wells wrote:
Brian
I AM A HUGE FAN OF WORKOUT,AND I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW HOW AWSOME I THINK YOU WERE ON THE SHOW!! AT FIRST I THOUGHT -THIS DUDE IS SO PERFECTLY BUILT BUT COCKY AS HELL, BUT AFTER WATCHING I TOTALLY FELL FOR YOUR STRAIGHT FORWARD, HARD WORKING(AND IT SHOWS!) ATTITUDE!! I HOPE YOU WILL COME OUT WITH A DVD THAT US LADIES CAN PUMP UP TO!! I REALLY WANT TO DEFINE MY BODY AND I KNOW YOUR THE MAN TO KICK MY BUTT INTO GEAR!! LOVE WATCHING YOU GUYS -
posted on May 14, 2007 at 9:18 PM
Tony wrote:
Hey Brian,
I thought you might like this verse. It was on the back of a card by PAPYRUS I bought for my wife this past Mother's Day. It says:
Legend has it the hummingbirds float free of time carrying our hopes for love and celebration. The hummingbird's delicate grace reminds us that life is rich, beauty is everywhere, every personal connection has meaning and that laughter is life's sweetes creation.
Your description of the encounter with the hunmmingbird really touched me. I'm 50 years old and in my lifetime I have had similar experiences after loosing loved ones.
Thanks for all that you do.
TG
posted on May 14, 2007 at 11:35 PM
Matthew J. wrote:
Brian,
This is my first time posting one o these so bare with me! I wanted to know about how to stay consistent with a workout. I know what getting in shape can do for you. Not only physically but mentally. My problem is staying motivated with it. I can start exercising for a couple of weeks and actually start noticing some results but before I know it I've stopped what I'm doing and I fall back into where I was before I started dieting and exercising. So are there any ideas of what I can do to get in shape and stay that way?
posted on May 15, 2007 at 1:04 PM
Rose Greene wrote:
Hey Brian: I really think your a great friend and I really liked Doug. I am so sorry I really felt bad. I just think your a real man a good person and I think your great. I hope to come there on insurance, I heard you guys take work related injuries. I hope your the one I get to help me. Keep up the good work. Doug your good enough to have your own business. Brian's boot camp. BBC!
Rose
posted on May 15, 2007 at 3:38 PM
Ginny Peele wrote:
Brian, I have not been much interested in television the last couple of years because there is so much bull on it! But I have never been so touched by any one person as I was with you when you realized that Doug was gravely ill. I have watched your show out of curiosity and have been impressed with the whole cast, especially you and Doug. I lost a friend that day too. I felt as if he was a member of my family also. I hope you know that so many of your viewers just sobbed with you. I certainly did. You are very sincere and come across that way on the show. I love your attitude. I do wish you the best in all that you do. You are real. And I appreciate that so much! Ginny Peele(just think if I had a "r" on my name, we could have been kin folk!!!) Ha Ha!
posted on May 15, 2007 at 6:13 PM
Tony T wrote:
Who is the manufacturer of your main line of selectorized equipment (EV Fit)?
posted on May 15, 2007 at 8:44 PM
Sandy wrote:
Honestly, if I see Peeler cry his fake tears one more time I will simply scream!!!~
posted on May 15, 2007 at 10:30 PM
Sandy wrote:
Honestly, if I see Peeler cry his fake tears one more time I will simply scream!!!~He is such a phony he thinks he is real hot stuff...give me a break will you.
posted on May 15, 2007 at 10:31 PM
Tommy wrote:
Brian, I would just like to say that you are the most amazing person ever. The passing of Doug has been such a heart breaking thing for us as viewers to watch and for you it is so hard. You showing such care and compassion is such an inspiration. God Bless you and keep you safe. You and the rest of the skylab crew are in our thoughts and prayers.
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:02 PM
Susan wrote:
Brian, I just wanted to say that when I first started watching the show I wasn't sure I liked you, but after watching you with Doug & how you became a better person for knowing Doug, I changed my view of you. I'm glad to see that you are trying to help Cheo so that he can go thru with his transplant.
God Bless you and I wish you much happiness in your upcoming marriage and with your healing process. Just remember that you will always have Doug with you, and he will alway be watching over you.
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:05 PM
Jenn MD wrote:
Peeler I'm 27 and weight 110lbs I'm 5ft tall so any weight gain is a lot, I want to be thin but I'm doing the only thing thats ever worked for me. I take adderal to supress food cravings, I drink coffee all day and usually eat one meal and thats dinner. I don't smoke, or do drugs, I'll have a bottle of wine over a weekends time (zin) and I like working out (at home) I'm a housewife so I do it when I get the chance, but I KNOW I stay thin in the wrong way (the older I get) I'm afraid I'll just be another fat adult, and I can't be that, but I'm afraid to eat. My daughters only 9 months but I dont want her growing up emulating what she sees me do, any tips, books, or advice? Jenn MD
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:06 PM
Sylvia wrote:
As I sit here watching the Reunion, it always bother me how Jackie always brings you down or it appears to bother her everytime you speak. Example, you explained what occurred to you in regards to the scar on your head, and as you relate this story, they focus on Jackie as you speak and she smirks, and smiles as you relate this story. As I watch I think to myself, " Wow, this is not a funny story, if this woman could only behave as she speaks, maybe others would respect her more or view her with some form of dignity. Keep up the good work and remain true to yourself, the values of your family, and what you know that you are capable of, and obviously maintain the warm heart that the friendship between you and Doug exposed
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:08 PM
steve wrote:
Hey brian, Need to say doug was very lucky too, to have a dear and true friend like yourself.
When you 1st arrived i must say i hated your attitude that i interpreted as ignorance. Dude you are the best buddy a guy could have and i take my hat off to you. Doug`s passing touched all of us, but your portrail of your true self was completely open and human you have a heart of gold and deserve all the happines that one can get. Good luck in your forth coming marriage.
I must say as a gay man, whilst seeing you show your feelings with no thought but your heartfelt sadness for another man it makes me rethink my thoughts of straight men.
Good luck steve
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:08 PM
Samantha wrote:
I loved you true-heartedness about Doug and I really felt the same emotions that you did just by knowing him over the course of the show. If there are any ways that I am able to help in the remembance of such a wonderful man, please let me know. Weather it be fundraisers, donations, or organizing an event, nothing would be going to far for such a great man.
Samantha
Wisconsin
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:08 PM
Danielle wrote:
I watched the show initially because a relative was watching it but after that i began watching, what really got to me was when doug got sick and when he passed it really hit home, because i had lost 2 of my relatives that i was very close to but more than that doug seemed to be a very good role model for everyone and very caring and he was cared for and it was really upsetting.
i'm so very sorry for your loss
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:10 PM
Audrey03 wrote:
I love the show and I am sad to see the showing ending. Is there going to be a second episode?
I do have a question for any of the trainers. I have been to a physician and can't get answers for my problem maybe you can help me.
My question is: everytime I try to jog I begin to itch uncontrollably in about 6 minutes. I will work out for 45 minutes & sweat without itching. But if I try to jog right after working out I itch. If I don't work out first instead I strech and try to jog I still will begin to itch. It gets so bad that I can not continue. A physican stated putting baking soda on my skin before jogging. That doesn't work.
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE help because I don't have any answers for whats happening to me when I begin to jog.
Thank you
audrey03
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:15 PM
Rebecca wrote:
Peeler; I just want you to know how how heart warming it is to see how emotional you are about Doug. I still cry when I think about him. He was a very inspiritationl person. I was heart broken to hear about him passing. Just remember that he will always be in your heart and always looking down on you. Congrates on your marriage. Keep your head up.
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:16 PM
Sandy wrote:
I normally don't post to blogs, but I think this is so needed.
I watched both seasons of the show and from just being a viewer and not a person in your life I can see that there has been a change in you. I have learned that in life everything happens for a reason. I strongly believe that your realtionship with Doug was build on something deeper than you know now. Through this relaionship you have learned to be a better man and through life and death your friend Doug will always be there to help you help others in thier journey as well.
Best of luck to you and yours. Congrats on your future wedding.
Sandy
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:18 PM
Marie Stanley wrote:
Dear Brian, It doesn't matter if it's years or a moment in time, the moments we spend together with someone is precious. It is those precious moments that touch our hearts that stay with us forever. It is those few moments that mold, shape and change us. I hope that you find some comfort in knowing that Doug is a part of you always. I know this, because I carry someone with me...in all that I do, and all that I am, it is partly because of a moment in time. My friend's death was twenty years ago, and there's not one single day that I don't think of him. He walks with me still this day, and I reflect on all the good, and I find strength where I had none. God Bless You.
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:19 PM
Alex wrote:
Hi Brian
I don't really know how to say what i want to say to you. So i am just going to say it. You have empressed and given me hope that people can accept a gay man into there lives and be best friends with them. The way that you and Doug felt about each other was just amazing. I can see why you felt the way you did about him. He was truely a one of a kind man. Most guys would have just written him off and said I can't be friends with a gay man because people will think that i am gay also. But Brian you never felt that away with Doug. You looked at Doug as a person and not a a gay man. Thanks for that. You really have no idea on how you have given me hope.
I had a friend that went there to meet with jackie and let her give him advice on how to keep up his strenght while taking chemo. He met you and said that you are as nice in person as you are on TV. He was very impressed with the whole staff.
Again Brian. Thanks so much for helping renew my faith in the human race.
Your friend
Alex
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:25 PM
Jackie Allen wrote:
Dear Brian,
i saw your last show of Doug's passing. and i wanted to say that i am so sorry to hear about Doug's passing, i want to know how are you doing? and i also wanted to say that i know how you feel to loose someone close to you that is like a brother to you. and i was crying because it had showed me of how much it touched me about his passing.
Jackie Allen from El Paso, Tx
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:31 PM
Debbie wrote:
I watched tonite's reunion episode and loved it. I have really enjoyed this show and was so very sorry to hear about Doug's passing. He was truly a "gentle giant". Brian, you mentioned that you had gone into detail about what happened to Doug because of all the rumors surrounding his death. I have searched the blogs and have not been able to find your comments. Could you please tell me where to find out what happened to Doug ? Thank you,
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:48 PM
erica wrote:
hi i just wanna say that i would've loved to meet someone lke doug and that i think that u guys were very lucky to have had him in ur life. i am very sorry for his passing.
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:54 PM
Eric wrote:
Brian Thank You So Much For showing your love and support for Doug. It makes the rest of us gay men Happy. Love Baltimore.
posted on May 15, 2007 at 11:57 PM
Kesha wrote:
Hi Brian,
All I have to say is my heart goes out to you soooo much.
You are entering a new phase in your life and I'm telling you, that you are totally going to be alright.
Keep doing what you're doing. MUAH!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:03 AM
robert shuford wrote:
Brain, I hate that you lost your best friend. My heart goes out to you... i have cried so much for the loss of Doug. I cried even more when i see you hurting soo bad.. but the hurt will never go away for you! but Just remember that love you as a brother. What a great guy you are. Please don't every change. We need more people like you in this world... I do hope that yall will keep doing the show.. I would think that yall need a picture of Doug at skyline.. I love to see that in gym. but i know that will be hard but as the show goes on. yall have the memories of Doug. but we don't So see his smiling face on the wall would great to see. And yes what a great smile that he has.. I will have to say that i am gay.. and i do have a friend that is str8. So i don't know what i would do if i lost my best friend. Thanks Robert Shuford
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:04 AM
Jay wrote:
Hi Brian,
Man I hope you already know whan a great impact you have made on some people and how good you made them feel... I have a few of amazing straight guy friends that I love like my brothers. I always felt that friendsip between guys (regardless their orientation) was kinda tabu but you are one of those guys who is secure about his sexuality and is not afraid to show emotions. Thank you sooo much for that.
I wish you all the best.
Jay
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:09 AM
Kristi wrote:
Doug, In watching the reunion show tonight, I really felt for all of you, but especially you. It brought back a lot of memories for me. I lost a friend who was like my brother years ago, and even though the pain has eased, there aren't many days that go by without me thinking of him. He, like Doug just had that infectious smile and touched anyone who he met. Unfortunately he and his family also chose to keep his illness very private, he went very quickly like Doug, but unfortunately I didn't get the chance to say good-bye to the one I called my adopted brother or to let him know how much he meant to me. Just remember, he will always be in your heart. And now he will be your guardian angel. I hope that my children will be lucky enough to meet someone in their lives who can light up a room. We both now there are not a lot of people who have these gifts and we should all learn to treasure every moment of each day. My last memory of Leonard, was him helping me get dressed and doing ALL the flowers at my wedding. I miss him soooo much.
I noticed you were from Salisbury, NC in your bio. My husband, 2 boys and I live in Mooresville, NC. It's good to see how well you have succeeded.
Good luck to you and Kate with your upcoming wedding. I know that Doug will be there with you both in spirit, and would be so happy for you.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:15 AM
Cat wrote:
I hope this isn't too personal but I don't understand how Doug died so quickly. Was he sick on and off or did he have a sudden illness? You don't talk about why or how he died on the show except to say that his kidneys failed and it was very scary to think that could just suddenly happen to the most awesome genuine person. I never met Doug but I wish I had, he touched so many people and it seemed like he knew he was going to die that year, which was/is very eerie. Do you know why he had a premonition about his death? Do you believe that his body suddenly gave up because he thought he was going to die anyway? I am sorry if I seem morbid, I lost my father suddenly when I was 14 and I guess it's been a mission of mine to find out why so when I hear of someone else who died young I want to know everything about it, sorry. I just want to understand the reason behind his death. I love the show and you've helped a lot of people, keep believing and be strong Brian!!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:15 AM
Joanne wrote:
Brian,
On the reunion show you mentioned that you wrote on here exactly HOW doug died.
I am sick of fighting with my Mom when she insists it was AIDS 'cause he's gay.
I argue and tell her not all gay men die of aids....gggggrrrrr
Thanks, and I am so sorry for your loss,
Joanne
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:18 AM
Steve LeBLanc wrote:
Brian,
You're more of a man than John Wayne ever dreamed of being.
SHOW AMERICA THAT IT'S OK FOR A MAN TO CRY!!!!!
Steve
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:18 AM
Scott wrote:
All I want to say Brian, is THANK YOU for being you.
Thank you for being real and sharing yourself to the world. Thank you for saying to the world what we all wanted to say to Doug, even though he didn't know us.
I know you didn't have to share that on the show, but it meant alot to me, and I'm sure many others. I cried my eyes out watching that episode. He was, and still is a beautiful person in my eyes. When youmentioned the hummingbird story, I couldn't hold back the tears. I f*in cried my eyes out, especially watching the show from the start. These last 2 episodes were truly magical. Doug was a gift to this earth. I totally believe that. (part of an email I sent to sss).
Bottom line....Thank you THANK Y OU for sharing everything...for sharing you.
That's from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you for your time,
Scott from Missouri
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:20 AM
Ann R. wrote:
Hey Brian, Good to see a southern man like you on Workout. I'm from a small town south of Charlotte. I think sometimes people confuse the accent with being "dumb". It doesn't matter anyway, ignorance has many voices. You shine, dude, you don't seem to be affected by the naysayer's, and I find that admirable. Thank you so much for setting the record straight about Doug's illness. I'm sure everyone wondered what happened. The hummingbird story was very profound. Thank you for telling it, you are a pretty interesting fella, good luck in your marriage.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:23 AM
Ron Willard wrote:
Hello Brian, My name is Ron Willard, I live in Columbus Ohio. The reason for this email is to thank you for being a wonderful person. For being there and helping Doud and his Ex partner. You are a true blessing . I lost my partner of 7 years on April 15th 2006, It is still the hardest thing that i have been through in my life. That is why i would like to send you this pome that i wrote in memory of my late partner Todd "Tangent" Shinkle. I hope you find some comfort in it. The name of the pome is called..."Someday" Not so long ago you left us, and yet it seems a lifetime. So many times we say if we could only have you back a day, an hour or even a minute how wonderful it would be. But for now all we have are memories or your laugh, smile and of your sweet face that seem to make even the rainy days seem bright,though this has to do for now, Until we meet again i can only hope and pray you know how much you are loved and missed. Often i ask for a sign from heaven to let let me know. I'm being selfish, Please forgive me and enjoy your new life for someday i'll see the sign in your smile and feel it in your hug for someday we shall meet again.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:24 AM
Anthony A Mellito wrote:
Brian, I just recently started watching work out during Season 2, for some reason I knew Doug looked fromiliar but just couldnt remember how. But then I saw the an old episode in which Jackie had a party at her house. I was shocked to see my old best friend Jimmy johnson at the party. Then it all clicked, I remember meeting Doug at Todd Tramps, a private gym on LA Cienga. Jimmy introduced me to Doug. I remember him being a very sweet and handsome guy, I was very sad to see that he was sick. I also wanted to say thank you. It makes me smile to see that a heterosexual man can appreciate the friendship of a homosexual man. I hope that you will be a roll model for other heterosexual men and that they realize from watching this show, sexuality only makes up a portion of the individual, and does not define the individual completely. Thanks, Anthony
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:24 AM
Cat wrote:
Brian, congrats on your soon to be wedding!! Take pictures and put them on your site for us to see!! Sorry I just asked a lot of questions about Doug's death, I had not read all your previous blogs before I wrote it, I have read the one wehn you talked about how he died and it just sucks! Can anyone sue the hospital for getting him more sick? Do you know where he got the salmonella poisoning from?? I just don't want anyone else getting sick!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:27 AM
Kit wrote:
Hey Brian, I just started watching Workout this season and I am so impressed with the way you dealt with Doug's death, your depth of emotion was so refreshing to see coming from a very masculine guy. I wanted to comment and I thought maybe your blog was the best to do it. I find it very disturbing that Jackie is dating at least 3 women and seems to not really care how she appears to anyone as long as she is the center of attention. I understand she is the owner of Sky Sport, but she is my least favorite of the crew. To be honest I am a gay female who belongs to a lipstick lesbian club and we watch Workout and find Jackie's attitude and promiscuity distracting, she is the kind of woman that gives lesbians a bad name. She thinks she is Hugh Hefner, although minus his class. Jackie is the type of gay person who straight people feel we are all like and she is a bad representation of lesbian life. I guess we watch because she is a very successful car wreck that you can't take your eyes off of. You on the other hand are a great guy to watch and we feel you are the best of the best of TV straight guys. Your honesty and caring and attitude are the best part of Workout. Thanks!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:36 AM
Katrina wrote:
Hey Brian, I have seen you really grow over the past 2 seasons and wow have you come far. I think that Doug had a big influence on you. Doug was an incredible man and, like everyone has been saying, I have been crying at the past 2 episodes. My question to you is that I am still unclear as to how he died. I know he had kidney failure, but it wasn't clear as to how that happened and he didn't khow what was going on. You don't have to answer me but I would like to know to be able to inform others as to the signs, symptons, etc. I want to congradulate you on your wedding coming up and take care of your future wife, you are very lucky to have her and she is lucky to have you. Thank you Brian for your time.
Katrina
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:39 AM
Sam Salah wrote:
Brian, just want to say that you are a great person. I feel that you and Doug both benifited from your friendship. I'm a straight man and i know how it is to have a great friend in my life. However, my friend was and is still on drugs, and that caused our friendship to end. I tried to help him but he pushed me and others away. He is now trying to make another go at our friendship again. After watching this season of Workout and learning about Doug's death is pushing me towards him and being there for him. I see and feel his loneliness and I see him wanting a second chance at being friends again. Thanks for not being afraid of showing your true feeling for a friend that is a man
posted on May 16, 2007 at 12:59 AM
Jan wrote:
Dear Brian,
I saw part of the reunion show- on it you said on your blog you advised everyone what happened to Doug. I was very interested because when I watched the episode with Doug and his ex, it show his ex getting diaylsis and then he did not feel good...what did happen? He was definetly a earth bound angel while he was here and now he is a spirit that will forever surround us all by his example and heart. Love never truly dies...it fades a little,,,tarnishes alittle but never dies out completely.
May your sorrow be short and your memories of Doug be several lifetimes long.
Sincerely
Jan
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:00 AM
Jan wrote:
Dear Brian,
I saw part of the reunion show- on it you said on your blog you advised everyone what happened to Doug. I was very interested because when I watched the episode with Doug and his ex, it show his ex getting diaylsis and then he did not feel good...what did happen? He was definetly a earth bound angel while he was here and now he is a spirit that will forever surround us all by his example and heart. Love never truly dies...it fades a little,,,tarnishes alittle but never dies out completely.
May your sorrow be short and your memories of Doug be several lifetimes long.
Sincerely
Jan
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:00 AM
Laura Mason wrote:
Hey Brian,
I think you are an awsome trainer!! I have a problem!! When I had a child my stomach stretched really bad!! I was wondering if there is anything I can do to get rid of the stretched skin that I still have??? Most people tell me that the more weight you lose the more flabby your skin gets. And I need to lose weight !! What can I do??
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:01 AM
Dawn wrote:
I have watched the show and saw Doug comfort his former lover through his illness and then suddenly he lost his life. I then saw the recap of the shows and saw everyone mourning the loss of Doug. I cannot figure out what illness took his life so suddenly. Was he ill a long time? I don't know how I managed to miss this but he looked so healthy and I just don't know his health declined so rapidly. Brian stated that he answered the question in his blog but I can't find it. Regardless, my heart goes out to you and I know that you made his life that much better by being his friend and
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:01 AM
Shannon wrote:
Hi Brian!!!
This was my first season watching Work Out, and I came into mid season... my first thought as I was flipping through the channels were who are these 2 totally HOT guys... and you and Doug were sharing a moment, and I was HOOKED! Doug definately appeared to be an amazing person and you are so very blessed to have crossed paths. Just as you speak of how Doug made everlasting marks on you, Im sure you did the same for him...
I am a 36 year old cancer survivor, so this show completely touched my life, as did each of the trainers.
I hope that there is a Season 3, I have ordered the first 2 seasons so I feel "up to speed". Good luck on the wedding, your bride is a lucky girl...
If your ever in the Bay Area... look us up!!!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:07 AM
SS wrote:
Brian,
Im a pro athlete and wanted to let you know I like your attitude. Your confident about your ability as a trainer. Your the man on the show, I still dont know how you can deal with Jackie, she seems like she talks down to so many people and I know i couldnt deal with it.
Great show, hope to see you back next year!!!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:19 AM
shawna nail wrote:
Brian, exactly how did Doug die? I can't find your blog you mentioned on the reunion show explaining it. My thoughts are with you in your grief. He touched many people including me, that's why I'm so curious. Take care~
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:26 AM
Jordan wrote:
Hey Brian,
You are the trainer that I identify most with on the show.
Watching Doug's health diminsh was heartbreaking and it was nice to see someone that presents a macho persona to be able to show his true emotions. I think Doug's character broke all preconcieved notions involving sexual orientation and should be an inspiration to us all. Good wishes to you and here is hoping for your continued success.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:48 AM
chris wrote:
Brian,
First off I would like to say that I have the most respect for you and I admire your heart and spirit. I know that losing Doug was a very hard thing for you, but they way you showed your love and care could only bring tears to my eyes and wishing that I am that good of a person to care that much for someone. I would like to say thank you for all you have shown me through the show, friendship wise and work out wise. I am actually getting my personal training certification this summer and hope to become a trainer somewhat like you. I admire you power and your set of mind when it comes to working out and changing people's lives and I can only hope to follow that. Thank you for everything you have done and I wish you the best luck with everything especially the wedding. Congratulations to that and again thank you. You are truly and inspiration!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:57 AM
katherine ward wrote:
i am sooo sorry for your lost i really liked doug i thought he was awsome person. it made me cry alot. you are a very sincere person and you showed that on the show i wanted to reach out to you and just give you a huge and show my love and kindness to you. i wish the best for you and hope you find peace in this world. i know he is looking down at you with the biggest smile and knowing that he is no longer in pain..... love ya man
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:57 AM
Gabe Oronia wrote:
Brian,
i just watched the "watch what happens" special and i would just like to say that i was very touched to see and hear about Doug. I can honestly say that i know what it is like to lose someone special. i have family to cancer and i know how it could tear someone apart, while also tearing up those around them. Everything you said about Doug seemed so special and real, just from watching previous episodes when he was still around really touched me. He truly seemed like a great person. i feel your pain and i believe that God is going to allow us to see all the special people in our lives who have left this world again. Right now i am dealing with the harsh reality of my cousin's diagnosis to lung cancer. just the thought of losing him makes me cry. (and i am a one of those tough guy types) i just feel like hopeless. On another note i wish you good luck and i also would like to wish you the best with the wife.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and the rest of your crew take care and God bless.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 2:16 AM
Aya wrote:
Hi Brian-
While I am not in any position to make judgments, I do want to comment on how much it seems like you've grown as a person in two seasons. I'd say you are probably one of the trainers that I identify the most with. You remind me of a few of the trainers that I used to work with back East- my gym family:) Your professionalism in regard to your craft, your passion for what you do, and your good heart show through in this season. I look forward to watching Season 3 *fingers crossed*. Thanks for being an inspiration and for having fun while you're at it!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 2:27 AM
Rocio wrote:
First and foremost my heart goes out to everyone affected by the loss of Doug. Through only the show it was obvious how great a person he was it's obvious because of the reaction of the trainers and his clients on the show when everything went down. You mentioned that you only hope that everyone meets someone just like him and I'm greatful to say that I have. She is my best friend and puts me in my place when needed, I must admit. I'm not sure if I'm the first to say this, but we would all be so lucky to have met a friend such as yourself too. Your devotion to your friends and clients is admirable. You guys are all so diverse and my having grown up in a small town of racism and prejudice know how to embrace anyone with the knowledge of true diversity. It's nice to see all of you so open minded. Good luck with whatever else comes your way.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 2:35 AM
Anthony Martinez wrote:
Brian, I want to say how much not only Doug has touched people but "YOU" as well have touched our hearts,Watching you through the series I really want to say THANK YOU for showing that gay guys are just simply people to.
We are Doctors, Actors ,Singers ,Artist and the list goes on ..
I thought you hated jesse when he first started because he was gay. I was totaly wrong and you let people see that it does'nt matter if your straight or gay because when you have a special bond and a friendship like you and Doug had, Hopefully the viewers learnd something special.....
posted on May 16, 2007 at 2:45 AM
Kate wrote:
Dear Brian...I wrote Dough before I caught myself. maybe that's a message. I just wanted to tell you how much your pain touched me. I held my best friend as he died and I thought that nothing would ever wipe away that pain. But as the days went by, I realized he was right there with me and always would be. It takes time, and we never lose someone we love. I carry Chris in my heart every day, and always laugh when I see something he would have liked or laughed at. I know you have received many messages of condolance but I needed to add mine. I just want to reach out and hug you.
Brian, the hummingbird is a powerful talisman , cherish that moment. When you stand at the alter on your wedding day, Doug will be there beside you.
Kate
posted on May 16, 2007 at 2:48 AM
Kealamailani wrote:
Hey Peeler -- thank you for showing your 'human' side this season. You showed a deep sense of caring and sensitivity. I would love to train with you one of these days! I'm in the L.A. area and not too far [maybe about 30 min?] from Skysport!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 3:13 AM
Denise wrote:
Brian -- I know you are hurting but you were also gifted with the knowledge to pass on to others the presents that Doug taught you -- teach them well. In this spirit, I have listed below part of a story that was emailed to me, its called "Just Enough"
"When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say 'I wish you enough'. May I ask what that means?" She began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to every one.” She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more. "When we said 'I wish you enough' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them". Then turning toward me she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.
*I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
*I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
*I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
*I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
*I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
*I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
*I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
She then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.
I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU NOT ONLY HEAL BUT TEACH OTHERS...
posted on May 16, 2007 at 3:52 AM
Janet Pauley wrote:
I watched the reunion show last night. You mentioned that you had info on your blog about Doug's death (the real reason, to dispel any rumors was the feeling I got.) I have been looking for the info but have not been able to find it. Doug seemed to be quite a guy and since he was your best friend, I know you feel a great loss. I just wanted to get the "real info" and figured you would provide it. You, the other trainers and Doug's other friends and his family are in my prayers. On an upbeat note, best wishes on your upcoming wedding.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 5:52 AM
WENDY M. EAGLIN wrote:
DEAR BRIAN, I LOST SOME TO VERY DEAR AND SPECIAL TO ME.
AVOUT TWENTY YEARS AGO I WAS BLESSED BY GOD TO MEET DWAYNE. DWWYNE AND I MEET IN COLLEGE AND HIT IT OFF FROM THAT MOMENT. HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND, I NEVER SEEN DWAYNE MAD ABOUT ANYTHING. THE QUALITIES THAT HE HAD I
HAVE NEVER MEET IN ANY ONE SINCE DWAYNE DIED, IN 1993.'
I STILL MISS HIM VERY MUCH AND AFTER WATCHING THE TRIBUTE
TO DOUG, ALL MEMORIES CAME RUSHING BACK TO ME LIKE A
FLOOD. AFTER I CRIED I SPOKE TO MY MOTHER AND SHE TOLD
ME PEOPLE LIKE DWAYNE AND DOUG, OR
"ONLY PUT ON THE EARTH TO LIVE BUT A SHORT TIME'
GOD BLESS YOU
WENDY,FROM N.O.,LA.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 7:27 AM
Lucille wrote:
Brian, My very best to you and "little Kate." Be well and stay well. Lucille
posted on May 16, 2007 at 7:42 AM
karen wrote:
please post doug's rules. i'd like to have a copy. i work with kid's with behavioral issues and would like to laminate them copies to keep in their wallets also. thanks!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 8:40 AM
Eric and Carlos wrote:
Hey Brian
First of all congrats on your wedding.
I just wanted to let you know how much I felt for your loss.
I know people in my life like that and cant imagine whats going to happen when they are gone.
Just remember that people come into your life for a reason and thats why Doug entered yours to make you such a great person.
Watching the show and all of you on t is an inspiration on taking care of yourself as a person.
Thanks Guys you ROCK!!!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 9:06 AM
Marylu wrote:
I am so sorry for you and the rest of the trainers in Doug's passing. He seemed to be a truly nice guy...one who will be missed immeasurably. Mention was made last night as to what happened to Doug...and....sorry....I'm curious as to how he died. I cannot find the blog with this information and wonder if you could point me in the right direction. Thank you for allowing us to peek into your lives if only for a little while. God bless!
posted on May 16, 2007 at 9:27 AM
Jennifer wrote:
Hey Brian,
I'm a huge fan of the show and of you. I just wanted to say how sorry I am about your best friend Doug. Doug seemed to be a great guy. You were and are very blessed. Now knowing Cheo, maybe you and him can become close. I think Doug would like for you to look out for him.
Sincerely,
Jennifer
posted on May 16, 2007 at 9:51 AM
Lori wrote:
I'm blown away by the relationship between Brian and Doug. There hasn't been as true a show in terms of emotions and expressing them as this one - and usually Bravo is so sensational and almost formulaic in their reality shows. I really love the show, the cast and was genuinely sad for Doug's passing. He was clearly special, loving and an amazing human being. But then agian, so are you and all the rest of the cast.
Best.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 9:53 AM
katie wrote:
Hey Brian,
I've been watching the show, and I could tell right away when watching, even the first day, that Doug was a special kind of gentleman. Do your best to never forget him, and keep him in your thoughts daily. Even the simple things, his laugh. You'll want to have this memory forever, trust me. On a different note, I was so touched by his devotion to his partner and getting him ready for his kidney transplant. It's a hard surgery to have to go through (my sister donated one of her kidneys to me 2yrs ago). Although, I'm 30, next week 31, it was an 'easier surgery' for me to go through, but it definitely helped to get into the best shape possible before that surgery. I just wanted to say to you and your coworkers, keep up the hard work. People love you for the things they can and will accomplish. I've learned a lot from my trainer, and am currently working on my Masters in Exercise Science and PE b/c of how much I love taking care of my NEW self. Also, as silly as it sounds, if you all have questions about transplant or even if Doug's partner does, feel free to email me littlektgirl@yahoo.com Also, do you have an recs for getting over plateaus? I do spinning 2-3x a week, overall body weight classes 2x a week, and just my own weights/cardio several times as well. I'm stuck!
Cheers!
Katie =)
posted on May 16, 2007 at 10:02 AM
Crystal VanSlavens wrote:
Hi i just recently watched the rerun episodes and saw the one where your best friend passed away. I have never cried so much
posted on May 16, 2007 at 10:05 AM
Crystal VanSlavens wrote:
Hi i just recently watched the rerun episodes and saw the one where your best friend passed away. I have never cried so much
posted on May 16, 2007 at 10:05 AM
Crystal VanSlavens wrote:
Hi i just recently watched the rerun episodes and saw the one where your best friend passed away. I have never cried so much
posted on May 16, 2007 at 10:05 AM
sandra wrote:
hi brian ,i was recently told somthing during a loss in my family that at the time didnt mean alot because of the amount of emotion that comes with losing someone but now it totaly makes sense "without sorrow means you have never loved".
posted on May 16, 2007 at 10:16 AM
Jenna Braun wrote:
Is there a reason why we have never been told what killed Doug? I just find it so hard to understand. We see him blowing out candles at his party, then he has a cough, then he has kidney failure, then he dies. How does this happen to a healthy, fit, vibrant man? Last nite on the reunion show you said that you explain it on your blog, but I can't find any explanation.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 10:16 AM
Joanna wrote:
For the third season, there should be a large picture of Doug, framed, the best one of him smiling, posted in front of the gym.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:21 PM
ashley underwood wrote:
i broke my ankle this past october, i was wondering what types of excersises i could do to get in shape for summer, but not stress my ankle too much.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 1:26 PM
Tricia-Louisiana wrote:
Brian,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that everyone lost, when the world lost Doug, but he impacted your life in a tremendous way in only a short period of time. He was a wonderful man and passed alot of that on to you. Take pride in knowing that. Keep your head up and know that he loves you all still, but doesn't want you to ever cry or hurt over him. I lost my husband at only 26 to cancer, and I know the pain all too well. My heart goes out to you and all that were close to him, but rest knowing he is now safe and at peace in God's loving arms.
posted on May 16, 2007 at 3:22 PM
mike locke wrote:
I am very sorry and saddened to hear abot Doug's passing. I have shed tears myself over it because he touches people even if you do not get to meet him.
I know he died of Kidney failure but I havent heard or read what that failure was from.
Was it genetic?
Was it from Hepatitus or some other disease?
I know his partner also had it so it would be helpful and educational if everyone was informed how he got it.
Regards and blessings
Mike
posted on May 16, 2007 at 6:26 PM
Danielle Wolfe wrote:
I seen the comment about losing 30 lbs of fat in 13 weeks.. what kinda of exercises and cardio would u have to do.. and of course diet? and congrats on ur wedding..
thanks... Danni
posted on May 16, 2007 at 11:01 PM
Steve wrote:
Brian,
I lost my nephew to suicide 3 years ago. He was only 19. I knew he had a hard time growing in a broken home. To be honest he was the dearest person in my life. I cried every night on my way home from work for six months and still struggle with his death every day. You are really the first person I have seen on a regular basis thats hurts so bad for losing someone they love so much. I'll continue to watch your show because it helps me cope. You are a really great guy. Please help show me how to go on. Steve
posted on May 17, 2007 at 12:54 AM
anthony wrote:
wow, you are an amazing guy....
the total package...
your a sweetheart and you have killer looks .....
i just wish that your gay lol
well since that wont happen i wish i find a guy half as great as you
posted on May 17, 2007 at 3:57 AM
Cassandra wrote:
Brian, What exercise and diet do you suggest that will help me to lose 30 pounds in 13 weeks.
posted on May 17, 2007 at 8:16 AM
toni kepner wrote:
Hi Brian,
I'm so very very sorry for the loss of your dear friend Doug, it was very obvious even before his illness how much you loved him. My heart breaks for you. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, I truly wish you and Kate the very best and much happiness.
Also from what I've seen on the show I think your a great trainer. If I lived there I would definitely come see you. I am so out of shape right now, and I don't know what exercizes to do. I've had 5 hip replacements and just recently I also had my femur bone replaced (all on the same leg). I'm looking for a gym that will be able to work with someone like me. Anyway I wish you all the best in all that you do, I think you seem like a great person.
posted on May 18, 2007 at 12:34 PM
Barbara anne wrote:
Looking forward to your workout video-- maybe a beginner tape(for the 5o something crowd) as well as more advanced workouts.
- If the show does not come back for a 3rd season, I hope you will have your own 'reality show'. great personality-
best wishes!!! :)
Barbara
posted on May 18, 2007 at 3:18 PM
Lynn wrote:
Peeler,
Congratulations on your Wedding. I wish you and your bride the best life together as a new family... dont be sad, doug will still be there in spirit watching every step you take and you have to believe he is so proud of you not only for being there for his ex but for being the strong amazing person you are. You are following in his footsteps. You are touching just as many lives as he had including mine. Congratulations !
posted on May 18, 2007 at 3:54 PM
Lynn wrote:
Peeler,
Congratulations on your Wedding. I wish you and your bride the best life together as a new family... dont be sad, doug will still be there in spirit watching every step you take and you have to believe he is so proud of you not only for being there for his ex but for being the strong amazing person you are. You are following in his footsteps. You are touching just as many lives as he had including mine. Congratulations !
posted on May 18, 2007 at 3:54 PM
Pamela Olson wrote:
Dear Brian,
Please ignore anyone who said your tears were not real - I feel sorry for people who cannot recognize true sorrow, and I also feel sorry for the people who live with them. Your sorrow was, and is, real, and the world has suffered along with you with wonderful Doug's loss. I felt like he was my friend. He looked a lot like my uncle, whose name is Brian. Cherish your memories; in the end, God and memories are all we have. - Pam
posted on May 18, 2007 at 10:21 PM
derk wrote:
Brian,
My condolonces to you and Doug's family...I just started watching Work Out season 2 a few weeks ago and maybe it was just the right time for me since the last few episodes was full of heart and meaning. It just makes me proud that Doug's sexuality did not matter with ur friendship, being a gay guy myself, I never had the chance to have that kind of friendship and what you and Doug had was something really special...I am quite sure that he is always by your side, protecting you...I cried with you upon learning of his sickness and death, the reunion's highlight was your memory of Doug and how he touched ur life...keep his spirit with you and always remember his greatness and that will surely bring u strength and a smile everyday...
Congratulations on ur wedding day and best wishes to your wife to be.
derk
posted on May 19, 2007 at 2:35 AM
Robert Cervera wrote:
Brian, first let me say how much i love the show. I just began to work out again after three years. I'm still trying to make it a routine at leat four days a week. I wnt to commend you on your honesty and for showing your true genuine feeings when speaking and dealing with dougs passing. I missed the episode where you guys learned of his passing. I wanted to know what caused him to pass away but realised that since it was not mentioned on the show that it was something that was private and I respect that. I know of a similar situation when refering to the hummingbird. My uncle died of aids almost 15 years ago which devistated my grandmother, but then she started noticing this red cardinal showing up where ever she went whether it was at home or on a trip. It turn out tha tmy uncle loved red cardinals and when I heard you speak of the hummingbird it took me back to that story. I just wanted to say keep your chin up,and know that he will always be with you. Robert
posted on May 19, 2007 at 9:08 PM
Charlene wrote:
Brian,
Congratulations on your wedding day. I wish Doug was there physically to share it with you and your bride. He is there in spirit.
I have watched the show for both seasons and your growth over them has been wonderful. You are now a MAN in the true send of the word. You feel, you love, you grieve, and show it ect. You, after Doug, are my hero of the WorkOut crew. Got bless you in you marriage/.
posted on May 20, 2007 at 2:51 AM
Red wrote:
Hi Brian,
I was telling my mom about the show and how much I enjoyed Doug and the relationships he built and the peoples' lives he touched. I told her about the hummingbird story... how Doug wanted to come back as a hummingbird and that a hummingbird landed in your hand. (My mom and I are rebuilding our relationship after complications resulting from my alternative lifestyle) and it was important to me for her to understand about Doug. She then told me that a family of hummingbirds moved into her backyard. It made me feel comforted, that Doug was helping me with my relationships and giving me guidance. He was so great, such an inspiration, and I thank you for sharing so much of him and yourself with us.
Many thanks,
Red
posted on May 22, 2007 at 1:17 AM
Lasette wrote:
HI Brian I just want to say good luck with your wife i hope you live a happy life and have beautiful babies. You were a good friend to Doug.You said that you were lucky to have him as a friend even for 30 seconds i just want to let you know he felt the same way you are so kind hearted,you are even helping his ex-boyfriend. I just want to thank you for inspiration i have too kids little ones at that sometimes i give up then when i see your show all of yous make it so easy i still struggle if i had the money i will go and get help from Sky Sport i know that is one place i will not lose my money i will come out looking better than i even wanted to look.How do i stay inspired to stick to losing weight?? My kids wear me out well best wishes to you and everybody GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
posted on May 23, 2007 at 9:21 AM
Theresa wrote:
Workout video!
im so excited!
is it going to be out in the next 2 weeks because i need some help maximizing my ass muscles.. haha.
seriously though, im excited about this!
not to mention.. im trying to get into personal training during college to make more money than my crappy job. plus its something i think ill love!! it will be a great addition to my goals before medicial school, and experience also!
any suggestions about how to get a training certificate fast?
posted on May 23, 2007 at 3:21 PM
Theresa wrote:
Workout video!
im so excited!
is it going to be out in the next 2 weeks because i need some help maximizing my ass muscles.. haha.
seriously though, im excited about this!
not to mention.. im trying to get into personal training during college to make more money than my crappy job. plus its something i think ill love!! it will be a great addition to my goals before medicial school, and experience also!
any suggestions about how to get a training certificate fast?
posted on May 23, 2007 at 3:21 PM
brittany walker wrote:
well i think that you are the best trainer on that show, and i would love to be able to train with, my husband also. we need motivation i have put my email in the message this is my secondary e_mail ,http://www.myspace.com/IKNWULOVMEBBY this is my main e_mail, ilovejames1@verizon.net
posted on May 23, 2007 at 9:08 PM
Alli wrote:
I've been out of town for the past 1 1/2 week, so I just watched the reuninion show. I was wodering what blog you and the host were discussing in regards to Doug? You had stated something like you wanted to set the record straight and almost as if there negative things being associated with his death. Obviously, I'm only a fan of the show but that's all you really need to be to grasp that Doug was a uniquely genuine, compassionate man. Therefore, I was just curious as to what things were being said that you felt needed to be cleared up. All I can offer to you is that you are strong even to strive through the coping process.
posted on May 25, 2007 at 9:26 AM
AnnJohnson wrote:
Brian: You discussed an event that occurred whereby you had a hummingbird land on your hand and you explained that Doug would be a hummingbird if he could (this stated much more elegantly and in considerably more detail by you of course). Carl Jung called this synchronicity, where two events acausally correspond (a small example: you speak of someone and then they walk in the room)- many refer to this as coincidence, but for Jung, there was much more to such events, representing our connection to a conscious collectivity. Such events occur to bring us a deep, if not profound, message. It's kind of like "NOTICE THIS!!!" To me, your connection to Doug has given you this synchronic moment in order to reflect on something of vital importance even beyond your material relationship with Doug. WIth Doug's death, your connection is not lost. It seems his spirit permeates the beauty that is always around you, landing in your very hand, in the smallest of details, like a hummingbird. Watch for the sublties.
posted on May 25, 2007 at 1:53 PM
Palm Beacher wrote:
First of all, I would like to pay my respect to you and co-workers for your loss. Everyone can see what a wonderful individual Doug was. I can tell that you are the kind of person that will carry his spirit with you forever. I have a similiar experience since I lost my grandfather. I know that he follows me everyday.
Anyway, I'm getting married this November. I have 5 months to drop 70 pounds. I am ready to be 100% focused. I watch shows like Work OUT, Biggest Looser & Fit Club and feel total inspired! I can put in 1 to 2 hours in a row in my daily schedule to fitness. I have had more success when I have a routine vs. doing various activities. I want to be in the best health for my fiance for the rest of our lives. I'm 33, 5'7", 240 pounds and an hourglass figure. I gain & lose weight evenly. However, my focus area is my tush, hips, & quads. Also, I'm a busty chick. When I lose weight, I also lose in my bust...and that is OK! What can I do to pick'em up, yet decrease the size?? HELP?? Can I really loose this much weight by then? I'm ready to be my own personal Olympian! - Leah
posted on May 29, 2007 at 8:54 PM
Lamont wrote:
Dude, i just want to say that i really your freggin ab workout, it is everything that i wanna feel, keep up the good work!!
posted on December 6, 2007 at 3:53 PM
Sarah wrote:
Brian.........wow, you are the best. I love how you loved Doug! If he were still here he would come to my house to train me..hello I would have paid him. I have a guest room, work out room, pool,.....please help me. On your off season.........please. I'm 5'1" 200bs god im pathetic. Please help me if you can. I have a 19 year old , who is in college , and a 13 year old who i can't leave. I love watching you and feel so motivated, but it goes away after the show ends. I'm about 30 miles north of philadelphia.....great place.
posted on April 29, 2008 at 10:28 PM
Gregory Durant wrote:
I like you Brian. I think you're what society should see to release stigmas - a great southern boy whose best friend was a gay man. I really can't stand Jackie and am contemplating boycotting the show because she is just so awful - and pretty mean lately. Even though I share a homestate with her, I think my time with Work Out is done; your firing just helped me with that. lol.
Keep looking up!
posted on May 24, 2008 at 12:20 AM
Lisa Aubrey wrote:
Brian... watching the show now without you on it as well as Doug is a real draw back to Bravo & Jackie.
Jackie was very much out of line not apologizing to your client or giving you the
space to clear the air as a boss each employee have to be treated with respect and you got "0" Sorry to see that was aired.
I hope the best for you in the future,
hope you know Doug is watching you.
Lisa Aubrey
posted on May 24, 2008 at 5:25 PM