April 3, 2007
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Wow. So, it looks like I didn't go to jail in this episode.
Trust me, I'm relieved. I heard about the commercials suggesting that I may be going to the slammer last week while at a function for my Grandmother's birthday and through a semi-panicked conversation with a close friend's mother. I got reports that people in my family looked genuinely concerned that I may not make it to the party because of the spot on Bravo and were very relieved when I showed up.
The Zen disagreement: I remember that day with Zen and I in the gym where I asked her to come to court with me.






Comments
Cara wrote:
Gregg- you are so hot I can hardly stand it. Seriously, I can understand your frustration with the whole situation with Zen and I can understand why you did what you did. It looked like you handled it with grace, and I'm glad everything worked out for the better.Keep on keeping on, I'll see you next Tuesday (even though you won't see me...).
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:17 AM
Yordanos wrote:
Hey Gregg.
I just wanted to say that u are a great addition to the show. You are a REAL cool, down to earth, and funny dude. Plus, I think u are a hottie. Are you single?
good luck with the show and music.
yordanos
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:16 AM
Kford wrote:
Hey new I just wanted to say something, REALLY why would you think that telling a white girl that you made a mistake in past of hitting someone that called you the unthinkable, DID you hear that comment she made, she stated 'just because someone called you a name, in society eyes(in other words non-african) you are looked at far worst in the eyes of the law(white america),
I can't believe you were involved with her in the first place.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 9:41 AM
Lisa in NJ wrote:
I admire your courage for dealing with the court issue. In our country, unfortunately, some folks just don't "get" it. Despite years of progress, people of color, religious minorities, and gay people, all of us, have to deal with bias and hatred. Your willingness to share your story is a great way to get people thinking about prejudice in our country. Bravo!!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 10:09 AM
shalonn wrote:
Greg,
It amazes me, that you didn't get it! Zen was right when she stated that you must make your actions, your responsibility. However, how can you truely expect for her to understand and provide the emotional support that you needed when she is not a black woman who truely can understand what you went through. She can't imagine how someone could get angry because someone else has judged everything about your integrity and character just by your skin color, she's never had that problem!! It's obvious and great that you are a person who does not judge by skin color, but all I'm saying is don't expect anyone else not too, and don't be bothered by others lack of support and sympathy to it!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 10:28 AM
Kismet wrote:
I'm not really surprised that Zen didn't get you in this episode Gregg. My VERY best friend is white, and apparently COMPLETELY oblivious to color differences when ever we're out. She ALWAYS thinks I'm being too sensitive if I feel someone acted out of line based on my skin. It absolutely drives me insane! Personally I hope you knocked the jerk into next week LOL!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 10:29 AM
workoutqueen wrote:
Gregg!
Dump that friendship with Zen! How RUDE is she?!?!
I have become a big fan of yours by way of Tess - loved her last time, love her now. You seem to know what you're doing in the gym - now get a clue in the love/friend area and kick Zen to the curb!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 11:22 AM
Leah wrote:
Gregg,
Long time no chat! Good to see you (on my tv anyway). I was actually more shocked that this was your first court appearance, jk. Stop being a stranger and get to C-bus soon. Can't wait for the cd. It comes out about the same time I graduate from nursing school-stop picturing the outfit, it's realy not that cool! Be in touch.
Leah.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 11:55 AM
Marti Reyes wrote:
I have to say, I love all of the trainers. But I thought maybe Zen misunderstood what Gregg was asking her. Maybe Gregg should have been more clear about why he wanted Zen there. And why didn't it work out for them. He is a doll and she is adorable. I hope them best for them both. Marti Reyes-Houston
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:19 PM
sondra morrow wrote:
i think you may have blown the whole Zen thing out of proportion. i do realize what we see on the show may not be the whole story, but it seemed that you kind of threw the court thing at her out of the blue. on the show when you asked her, you did make it sound a little grim. and you really did not explain the situation very well. i myself was thinking why is he not taking this seriously? why is the lawyer not going? having been in a little trouble myself, i have never heard of anyone facing a possible felony charge without a lawyer present. so i think you should give her a break on this issue. i thought she sounded really concerned for you, but a bit uncomfortable to be asked to go with you for support, when you did not seem to understand the gravity of the situation. i'm not saying you did'nt understand, but on the show it did not look like you did. then you seem to be condeming this imaginary relationship that she did not even seem to know existed. and you never really spoke to her directly about it to give her a chance to give her side. but you are still young and like i told Peeler, you have plenty of time to fine tune yourself. you of course do not have to explain yourself or your actions to anyone, but just take a little time now and then to reflect on them in an unbiased way to make sure you are letting people see the "real" you. you seem to be a very intelligent, well spoken, dignified man who just happens to be gorgeous. don't let that change.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:35 PM
red wrote:
Gregg, I felt very bad that zen didnot go with you to court, sorry about that, but at least you did not get into any real trouble. I just want to say that i think you are such a hottie, you could be my trainer any time i would love to reap the reward from you after a great work out, to sexy and keep the music coming
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:00 PM
Glyne wrote:
Greg,
What up man. This Glyne. We met a while back over at the studio with Gi. I was part of the Dropsoul fam but moved to TN.
Anyway, I am glad to see you doing your thing man! Wish the very best!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:18 PM
Cathy wrote:
Gregg is the main reason I watch the show. After reading his bio and hearing about the music talent....WOW!!!
I'm impressed...
posted on April 4, 2007 at 5:24 PM
Cali wrote:
Greg:
Another wandering soul! My trek took me from the east coast to the west. Love you on the show - you bring the hot factor up a notch (but you also have a good head on your shoulders - rare commodity)!! Gonna check out your myspace to hear some of your music.
Cali
posted on April 4, 2007 at 5:30 PM
Roxane wrote:
I'm glad that you didn't go to jail. You had a right to feel the way you did. It to bad that you had go through that alone. You seem like a great guy, Its to bad that you are be taken for granted by Zen. I totally agree with you, and people learn from mistakes.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:01 PM
Margaret wrote:
The word travels fast back home in Solon .... Gregg on TV! Congrats to you on your accomplishment. I wish you my best and hope to hear you on the radio soon. Wellness works isn't the same without you! :)
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:30 PM
RLH wrote:
Gregg,
yo are so damn HOT!! I wish I still lived in LA and not OC. You are SO sexy and sensitive and amazing. Even though I'm 38 and you're...way younger. You'd make me re-think my rule about no younger guys. Zen is an idiot to have a guy like you chasing her and not responding. Either that or gay, or really holding back.??? Seriously, I wish you the best and post when your next show is so we can all go!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 9:46 PM
nick wrote:
hey gregg,
i just learned that you are originally from ohio. can you recommend any personal trainers in cleveland? btw, i too was dissapointed by zen's reaction, but i think you handled the the situation very well. cheers, nick
posted on April 5, 2007 at 2:39 PM
Antje wrote:
Who is this guy? Where is my little greggy. Okay love the music, it's hot. I am proud of you!
From your friend
posted on April 6, 2007 at 1:06 AM
Meg wrote:
Greg, you are totally cute. Hang in there! I hope you and Zen stay friends, it just seems like you two have strong ideals in different directions but those points may work positively for both of you in a friendship. :)
I am SO glad things worked out for you at court. Those guys were totally out of line! >:( Good work keeping a cool head for it, I would have totally panicked!
Take care, Greg! :)
posted on April 8, 2007 at 6:33 AM
Jim wrote:
Hey Gregg! Congrats on getting through court, but I never had a doubt you wouldn't go to jail. The dork got exactly what he had coming to him - like, when you call Domino's, don't be surprised when you get a pizza! I think it totally sucks that Zen wouldn't go to court with you - whether or not she agrees with what you did doesn't matter, it's about supporting a friend asking for support. But, don't be too hard on her. A str8, cute white woman probably has no idea how much discrimination and hatred suck - coming from a gay man who's had bricks thrown at him from passing cars. Keep on smiling! You're an AWESOME addition to the cast!!!
posted on April 8, 2007 at 5:46 PM
bcjlme wrote:
I'm so relieved that you did not
go to jail. I think you are a good trainer and you add a little spice to the show. Keep up the good work.
posted on April 9, 2007 at 3:47 PM
Kimberly wrote:
Isn't it amazing how someone's true colors shine through on specific events. Certain words spark different reactions. Many individuals know this and still feel it's okay to speak the "unmentionable words" believing they can get away with it. WHATEVER!! Unless you've witnessed this first hand, it is difficult to grasp--like Zen. I, too, am from Ohio and realize your problems with discrimination and prejuice. People should look beyond just the color of someone's skin but it just represents how our country still needs to grow. (I'm actually very fair skinned and still have the burden of hearing the crap) It's unfortunate and I feel bad that you had to experience this grief; yet relieved to hear you weren't severely punished. You are a great asset to the show and very easy on the eyes. Hope all goes well for you... Take care!
posted on April 9, 2007 at 7:39 PM
Carlo wrote:
You and Andre need to get a life and stop worrying about your bosses personal life.
If she decides to date an employee, a beach babe, a street walker or ? That is her business, she has suffered for 5 years in a very unhappy relationship and she should be happy.
You bruhs' relally need to get a life! You all think that you are Mr. Man! I don't think so, muscles do not give you brains, walk along the pier and you know what I mean!
posted on April 10, 2007 at 10:54 PM
Ellen wrote:
Hey Gregg!
I really like how you look at it. With Dough and the situation with Jackie.
Love your music!!!
ellen
posted on April 11, 2007 at 4:45 PM
Anitra wrote:
Greg,
I'm truly glad everything was resolved positively with your legal situation. I think if you had been having that discussion with 'another' person of color, the response may have been, how bad did you break his jaw? Not that striking is the solution to everything, but you can't expect a white woman to understand or relate to being called a racially inflammatory name. Zen is tired, at BEST. You need some brown sugar in your life, anyway.
posted on April 12, 2007 at 5:29 PM
Annieh1315 wrote:
Hey Gregg! O-H!!!
Just wanted to give a shout out from Buckeye Country. Great show and great blog. Keep following your dreams!
posted on April 13, 2007 at 3:53 PM
PamC wrote:
I'm glad you and Zen worked things out. Coming from a family of lawyers myself, I've heard the horror stories of common sense meets court(non)sense.
I've got a question/challenge for you! As a result of several long-term illnesses, I'm on steroidal hormone replacement, thyroid medication, and daily pain medication for chronic migraines. Add to this that any fluctuations in blood pressure (e.g., cardio workouts) will actually trigger a migraine. Needless to say, I put on some pounds. I've always been at or underweight, and in a year I gained 80 pounds. I've also lost most muscle from a sedentary lifestyle (due to the migraines) over the past 5 years.
I recently underwent surgery for an Occipital Nerve Stimulator to bring my migraines under control, but BP fluctuations still send me into agony. I'm on disability so I can't afford a private gym or a personal trainer. Where can I go? What can I do (besides diet*)? If I do find a trainer, what questions should I ask to make sure they'll be a good fit for me and will respect my limitations? What are my options?
*I have funky food limitations and allergies and blood sugar needs, so dieting is right out. Adjustments are okay, but as with the BP, drastic is no-go.
Thank you in advance...
posted on April 15, 2007 at 6:08 PM
Nicole Sanchez wrote:
I was sooooo surprised Zen didn't go to court with you. That was so unexpected. I won't dig up reasons because I don't think there is a need, but I just wanted to say how surprised I was.
You seem so down to Earth, and I'm really glad things went well for you during this episode.
posted on April 16, 2007 at 8:54 PM
Jonnie wrote:
Hey, how are you?
I wanted to tell you that I think that you are a nice addition to the workout family. But, I also wanted to say.........how in the world did you expect a white girl to understand what it feels like to have someone of another race call you such a derrogatory name? She will never understand the dept of the pain that you felt at that percise moment and no matter how hard you try to skate around the issues (black and white) there are just some things that just are or are not. Her understanding or perception of this situation will never be.
posted on April 17, 2007 at 11:30 PM
jess wrote:
i think he's the cutest guy on the show.
posted on April 20, 2007 at 2:31 PM
syhop wrote:
I was really embarrassed at how lame you are for chasing Zen who could care less about you. I wish you were white and I am sure she does too. Did that ever dawn on you. She probably can't take you home to her parents. She was so heartless and what do you expect? Did you think she notices that you grew up in the suburbs of Ohio and not the hood? Did you think she would hear the clear vernacular in your spoken words. Naw partner... all she sees is what we see. Another lame brother. You should have went to jail for crying wolf.
posted on April 23, 2007 at 3:11 PM
Lyne wrote:
Gregg,
I know how you felt when Zen didn't go with you.Next time call me, and i'll go with you.Don't let it be Gregy,and i'm glad that things worked out for you. Hot!!!
posted on May 4, 2007 at 3:33 PM
Damaris Carroll wrote:
Hey Gregg,
I am so proud of you. I remember the days when we used to drive you around when your car was broken down. Tarquin and I are so happy for you and your career and we go to the Cheesecake Factory sometimes and remember when you used to work there. We have a new addition to the family and we watch Uncle Gregg on TV every Tuesday night. Carla always keeps us informed on how you're doing since we don't get a chance to talk with you much. We hope to hear from you soon. Of course you know we will buy your CD when you debut. Miss you much all the way from Columbus, OH. Take care of yourself and Judah is gorgeous. Damaris, Tarquin and Tarquin II Carroll
posted on May 15, 2007 at 8:57 AM
Ashley Mosely wrote:
I heard you say on the Behing the Scenes show that you will soon leave Skylab and pursue music. I was sad to hear that b/c you are the only hot guy on the show but I am happy for you that you are following your dream, so good luck and if you believe in God remember always put Him first in everything you do!
posted on May 17, 2007 at 1:49 PM