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Choosing A Path In Life

March 27, 2007

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First I want to thank everyone who has shown me so much love since the first episode aired last week. I was concerned about appearing weak that the incredible support I have received has just been amazing. Thank you.

Many people have commented on my ambition and strength. I credit my grandfather for most of that. He was a huge influence in my life. I came from a single-parent home so I lived with my grandparents some of the time. His personality and the things that he gave me are the best parts of me now. The rest is just me...trying to find my way in a small town atmosphere that was extremely narrow-minded. Being a gay woman, and knowing that from a very early age, has a lot to do with my inner strength. This is why I think gay men and women maneuver well in society. If we can get over the hurdles, who better to turn opinion around? From a very young age, I was a people watcher and I learned how to make people see my side of things.

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Cricket wrote:

Jackie,

I really enjoy the show... and more now that you have ended your cripling ex-relationship. Good for you! And I am not one to ever encourage people to "give up" on relationships. But when its obvious, it's obvious. I must say that not only do I get a connection watching the show because I am gay (and married/partnered) but also because you come from Dayton, Ohio where I grew up 30 minutes from (Eaton, Ohio).

I have agonized watching you and your mom. And though I am a christian-lesbian and will never give that up, it is so hard watching the christian-minded continue to bash and be so hard-core. Why must christians be soooo good at judgement (exactly what we are told not to be all about in the word of God!).

You are a terrific positive role-model. And (let me speak for the whole entire GLBT community and say...) you are a terrific life to showcase via television. Congratuatlions and keep living with passion!

-Cricket Clark (Tampa, FL)

Azrel wrote:

Just felt inspired to write and share with you how you inspire me. Not so much as a woman wersus a male but as a strong, intelligent, and light-bearing soul. Of course had you not fought through circumstances after circumstances to be upheld as a woman of power and oustanding "business savy-shine" then it's likely I would n't have noticed you in this lifetime, but the more I get into the show featuring you on Bravo, the more I fall in love with your soul.

May you experience all and more of what life has in store for you. You are the new model of the american beauty. Stay strong, honest, loving, and of the heart!

Azrelazitgets

Terra-Lynn wrote:

Jackie I love your show I think you are awesome. Good Luck in season 2. Looking to forward to watching :).

Mel wrote:

I love your show. Jackie you truly are a beautiful person inside and out. You are so strong. I am from a small town in Oklahoma where you don't see too many women like you. I wish we did!!!!!!!

I am recovering from an injury right now, but you have inspired me to continue to take care of my body. As soon as this injury heals I will be back at it again.

MERANDA wrote:

I LOVED THE SHOW TONIGHT, YOU SEEMED VERY HAPPY. I THINK IT IS WONDERFUL WHAT YOU ARE DOING FOR THOSE 9 PEOPLE. GOOD LUCK !

darlene m coram wrote:

I REALLY WANTED TO KNOW IF THERE IS A WAY TO EMAIL JACKIE? I KNOW SHE IS VERY BUSY, BU I WOULD LIKE TO GET SOME ADVISE FROM HER. I AM 42YRS OLD AND I AM 5'4" I WEIGHT 206, THAT IS ALOT FOR ME. I HAVE HAD I HAVE HAD 7 SURGRIES OF MY UPPER BODY. I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW TO WORK WITH OUT HURTING MYSELF. I ALSO FOUND OUT LAST WEEK THAT THEY SHOW A TUMOR ON L3 AND I GO TOMORROW TO THE DR. FOR MY RESULTS. I JUST IN PLACE WHERE I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. SO I AM ASKING FOR JACKIE"S HELP PLEASE? YOU CAN EMAIL ME A dcoram@tampabay.rr.com.

I LOVE YOUR SHOW. SO IF YOOU JACKIE COULD GIVE ME SOME ADVISE I WOULD BE SO HONORED. I KNOW YOU GET ALOT OF THIS KINDS OF EMAILS, BUT I AM LOOKING FOR HELP.

I HOPE THIS MAKES IT TO JACKIE.

THANKYOU VERY MUCH,

DARLENE M CORAM 12104 N EDISON AVE TAMPA FL. 33612 813-932-5393

I ALSO WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW TO FIND YOUR LINE OF CLOTHING THAT YOU A FASHION SHOW AT THE END OF LAST SEASON?

Bob Rahamin wrote:

Jackie.....and trainers....
Your show is so real and I want to thank you all of you for sharing so much of yourselves in each episode. I looked so forward to the new season and once again be part of the "Sky" family.
The begining of the show dedicated the show to the memory of Doug B. Who was he? This can't possibly Doug, the incredibly handsome trainer in the show? Please put my mind at ease.....
Best wishes for a great new season.
Bob Rahamin

Joyce wrote:

I still can't believe that Doug is gone. The reason that this makes me so sad, is because it hits home for me.
I lost my sister in law to ovarian cancer three years ago.
You never get over the loss, but your learn how to live inspite
of the fact that you miss the hell out of them and your life seems
empty without them. I just hope that Doug is with his parents
in Heaven and that he is happy and at peace.
I never knew Doug, but he sure seemed like a really great human
being. To all who loved Doug and new him, I am so sorry for your loss.
Jackie, I am so glad that you are done with Mimi. You just
deserve a girl that will be everything to you and more.
Love the show!!!!

AMY wrote:

WOW! YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH AND YOU STILL KEEP YOUR HEAD ON STRAIGHT (FUNNY!) AND YOU SEEM LIKE SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON FROM WHAT WE ARE ABLE TO SEE AS YOUR AUDIENCE. YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ALL, HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY!

MWAH!! LOLA (AMY)

John wrote:

I swear, when I make my fortune in the interior design business, I'm moving to LA and hiring you as my trainer. I also wouldn't mind being your gay best friend..but thats a little unrealistic. :) Love the show, adore you. and I think you should create a "workout" workout cd....we need good music to workout too.

elizabeth wrote:

I think you should get with her (your employee), you two seem to enjoy eachothers company and would go wrong with it? You both seem a little flirty with eachother!

I love your show and Ill continue watching. Thanks Jackie!

Deborah del Castillo wrote:

I think that you are so amazing in so many ways. I am happy to see that you have moved on from an obviously unhealthy relationship (which does not mean you did not love each other deeply). I find myself currently in a similar position and your therapy session reminded me so much of ours. I have also been in my relationship for 5 years and am unsure where we are going. The biggest thing keeping me where I am is that I have a new baby - 4 months old - who I am absolutely in love with. Hard to make hard choices now. I look forward to watching you and being continually inspired by you. I need to drop a good 30 lbs. and hope to do so sooner than later. Wish you were nearer to me so I could come to your gym. If you are ever in Miami, I would love the chance to be evaluated by you and put on the right path. Best of luck to you with your new Skylab venture and in your personal life.

FROM DAYTON OHIO-JEAN wrote:

Raised in Kettering Ohio I can see how you felt isolated as a gay woman-"we" aren't the most progressive people. You are a true inspiration! Congratulations on your success and continued happiness. I'd love to be one of your SkyLab "guinea pigs". I went through the whole gastric bypass thing several years ago and due, I think, to being in a very verbally abusive relationship I'm turning to food again as comfort. So, if you need a test person I'm in!!!

Jennifer wrote:

I hope you're enjoying your freedom, it's always liberating after a relationship! I'm sure Sklyab will be a major hit as well, so good luck with it.
I'm so so curious about your workout clothing line. Hope to see it soon
Take care!
Jen

woohoo for being the first poster :)

Melissa wrote:

Jackie, I just wanted to say that you have also had an impact on me. I can understand the feeling of being gay in a small town. Although I have not come out to many people other than my close friends, I feel like there is hope that everything will be okay when I finally decide to jump that 'hurdle'. But thank you for writing about it in this blog. I really enjoy watching your show and look forward to the rest of this season!!

CT wrote:

HI Jackie,
I was in your corner all Season 1 when your girlfriend was treating you like crap, however, what you did at your party was an unexpected really bad case of judgement on your part and makes it seem like the trainers aren't the only ones whose egos are abounding.

The explanations you have provided in this blog to justify your behavior on this most recent episode when you held your party at your house are those of somone who is not owning up to their responsibility as the owner of a business and the boss of employees.

If this were any other company, and you had done some of the things you did at your party, in particular to Brian and Rebecca , you would be in serious trouble with Human Resources and could be facing several lawsuits.

I recommend you look into taking some courses on Interpersonal Communication within the workplace, and yes that extends to off-site events such as a party at your house, which, although not on the work premises and had other non-work related guests invited, was still a work event.

Regarding your exchnage with Brian, since you already know that he is sensitive, teasing and eventually insulting him at your party to get a laugh for your guests at his expense was completely wrong. You were so concerned about not backing down and winning, that you forgot the role that you play in your organization should be maintained even when you are not physically at work. As the boss, you should have ended the conflict once you sensed that it was escalating beyond cute little comments and taken the high road and then talked about it with Brian later if you felt necessary. Your lack of taking responsibility and letting it escalate out of control to the point where Brian left shows your greeness in the area of managing other poeple and being able to anticipate people's reactions and act accordingly. Unless, of course, this was all done to add drama for the viewing audience, which is possible, which would then mean that you accomplished what you set out to do.

Also, what you consider innocent flitring with Rebecca would be grounds for a sexual harassment suit at other companies as I'm sure your well aware. Unfortunately, you can't have your cake and eat it too as the owner of the business. You know Rebecca has feelings for you that go beyond the workplace, yet you chose to play around with it, not taking into consideration her feelings or how should could react down the road if things turned ugly and she misinterpretted what you consider to be innocent flirting.

What it all comes down to is this. You are adamant about wanting people to respect you for all that you have accomplished and also want others to give you the respect you deserve as a business owner and boss. If you truly want people to respect you in that way, then you have to act like a boss and business owner at all times and cannot pick and choose when you wear your business owner/boss hat and when you do not. You need to treat people the way you want to be treated and you need to make clear rules and guidelines for yourself and your staff on what is and isn't acceptable conduct in the workplace and at off-site events when you and your employees will be in attendance.

JcB wrote:

RATINGS! Good job Jackie! All of the beautiful little people on your goofy little show have managed to get you mighty big ratings. But, It's interesting how NOTHING about this has ANYTHING to do with FITNESS!

I provide my own inspiration but I thought this show would help me out... Damn was I wrong! Your show is truly a dissappointment! As is you fat ass little poser bitch...

Jessica e. wrote:

Well, I must say that I have an addiction to food, I mean it is deeply rooted with having an eating disorder as a child. BUT your show Ms. Thang, has given me strength to eat better. Going on three days of not binging. SO thanks. Although I am finding strength through my spritual paths and life and the change of weather. YOUR show is making me question how much one is capable of.. I think that the show has a great varied of exercise and drama. It is great. I think that you should go single for a while, becareful of lust and just enjoy life. Thands

Tuca wrote:

Jackie I love your show. It was fun to watch you having fun w/ your friends again. Life is short dear. Be happy and keep shining.

Pat wrote:

Your show tonight was very enjoyable and I must say, I'm happy that you ended your relationship with Mimi. That was so unfair to you, Jackie and when she bit you, I saw red. Anyway, thanks for such an entertaining hour and I wish you all good luck and happiness in your future. Be happy and safe...........

Trish wrote:

I love the show, I am addicted! I am in treatment for Breast Cancer and just finished my chemotherapy. I gained 20 pounds from the steroids. It is very depressing when you have no hair, eyebrows or eyelashes and then you gain 20 pounds. When I get my strength back I can't wait to work out and lose the weight. Jackie you have inspired me to eat right and get going on the workouts after my radiation treatment is over. You are such a strong successful women. Be proud!!

Davie Ann wrote:

Hello Jackie, you sexy women. Good luck this season. So far all looks well. I am a 30 yr old mom, of a wonderful son. 5'6", 180 and would love to come to your gym. However live in Pa and don't think driving would be a fun way to start my work out. So here is what I am doing. Started Slim in 6 by beachbody. However. I get my motivation from you and your strenght every Tues. Come Thurs. not so motivated any more..lol. I need something for that motivation every day. When is the line coming out? Can I get one of those necklaces you all wear at your gym and how. I am very visually stimulated and know this will push me harder. I have about 25 pounds to loose and hope to do this with your help. I promise to keep watching and keep checking to see when "Lift" is up for purchasing. Good luck to you and I really want to ThankYou for your motivation, but damn I want a necklace...lol

Keep Sweating!!
Davie

Dean wrote:

Jackie,
I have just begun to watch your show and I am totally impressed. I am also very shocked that I am actually the first to comment on this part of your blog. Your drive and ability to keep moving forward has got to be admired by all. You have gone through great adversity in order to achieve what you have. Many people use their childhood and there lack of childhood direction to justify why they are not successful as an adult. You overcame your obstacles and that in itself is admirable. You have also overcame obstacles that are not as common in today's society, and definately less accepted. This is something that I actually need help with and I wish this was a little more private but oh well. I will talk about it at great risk.
I have to be totally honest here and let you know that my wife of 9 years made a decision to move halfway across the country with her former boss (now partner) or whatever they are. I have struggled to really understand the entire situation, but have no idea what to tell my children about the whole situation or how to explain what has happened between their mother and myself. My wife and I have not communicated for a very long time because I am still deeply in love with my wife, (yes after almost 8 years of separation without a divorce) and probably always will be till the day I die. I know how you felt about you know who with the distructive behavior, and the inability to let go. I am heterosexual and have questions in my mind, what I do not understand is how my wife ( who normally was totally discusted with anyone homosexual/lesbian) would all of a sudden figure out after meeting one person, that she was a lesbian. (I might add that she was raped 3 times) I know this is not what you really want to hear about in your busy life but I desperately want to be able to understand this new life that she has built around herself and my children. My 17 year old daughter hates me because I am angry with her mother, and my son who is 14 is completely supportive of me and my latest venture with going to college at the age of 43. I by no means have any anomosity towards anyone who makes their ife choices, I just want to understand what has happened to my wife, and help in understanding and knowing what to tell my children who also do not undestand what their mother is doing either as she has not told them anything or explained anything other than they think she has a roommate that sleeps in the same bed as their mother. If you do not want to answer this, I respect that and understand. But I do need to tell you that I totally respedct and admire your integrity and drive. You are creating an empire that is going to do nothing but grow. I have similar dreams of Enrepanureship in the restaurant industry, and you give me hope and motivation, even though I am in a totally different field. LOL I have great respect for you, and what you are doing and thank you for your time and your show.

Ana wrote:

Hey Jackie:

Just wanted to say I enjoy the show alot and your looking good as always. Take care and good luck!

Christy Cook wrote:

Jackie,
Everything about you is inspiring...how far you've ocme in your business, your physical fitness, your ability to empathize with others and (finally) your ability to stand on your own emotionally. I've been fighting anti-depressant induced weight gain for almost a year, but I love my trainer and between you and the show, I know I can get there eventually!

My hardest part is the eating, which it sounds like you will address some in relation to Skylab. Any tips would be helpful!!

SB wrote:

hey!!! love the show, it's nice to help overweight people, what about the skinny ones. it's very hard to be a guy and skinny. you get the same crap and rmarks that the overweight have, that's the story of my life.nobody talk about us on TV....anyway . will be nice to see a skinny guy becoming muscular on your show. Will give us some hopes....
take care and keep the good work
S

Valori wrote:

Jackie -
I just wanted to say what a huge fan I am of the show, your dedication and spirit inspires me. I have always had body issues because of my biological father so had told me from the time that I was 4 that I was fat, ugly and would never amount to anything, on pretty mucha daily basis, but this is besides the point. I had been performing dance and music in musical theater for almost 12 years and had to slow down because of a career choice, but had always been in pretty good shape, you have to be in order to perform like that. But I was still very uncomfortable with my body. Watching your show last season gave me the push that I needed to start working out again, to make the choice to perform again and to send in my application to be a suicide girl. I got accepted!!! But due to a car accident and my dedication to my job, I hadn't had the time to actully do any photo shoots, I wanted to get back into dancer shape first. Long story short, I went to my chiropractor and by accident, we found a mass on my hip that is on the main nerve. I had always thought that the pain was from my siadic and dance injurys, but it wasn't. This pain was so extreme that when I would run, try to lift or even go to my bellydance classes, I would be in an extreme amount of pain and my toes would go numb. The type of tumor that I have is called a sarcoma and is very rare, epecially in young women. I go tomorrow to the oncologist to find out if it is cancerous tomorrow. My point is that I have been extremely depressed about this and scared, but watching your show and seeing how much you care about your clients and want them to live a helthier lifestyle, gives me the strength to still go to my classes and work through the pain. I can't wait to either get this thing out of me or hurry up with the radiation treatment so I can get back in the gym and do some hard work and finally do that photo shoot. Thank you so much.

Valori Jenne'

deborah d duran wrote:

dear jackie you give me hope to lose the fat i am at 450lbs i have had two knee replactment it hard for me to workout can you give me a workout that will work for me i was at a 486lbs i have lost 36lbs plzi need your help i love you show too you give me hope thanks deborah d duran

Jessica wrote:

Jackie,
I have to say I absolutely love your show! I go to school at the University of Dayton and am a gay woman as well. I don't know how much you know about UD, but it sure is hard not only living in narrow-minded Dayton and being gay, but also going to such a narrow minded school. Anyway, it's just inspiring to see such a successful and gay woman who survived Ohio and I want to thank you so much for putting your life out there for us to see. Also, give a heads up next time you go to Masque!!!! I wasn't there that night and I could absolutely kick myself!!!!

Tami wrote:

Hey Jackie,

I enjoyed the second episode very much... It is hard to see Doug all healthy and happy, knowing that he will not be with you much longer... It is my Mom's Birthday today... I lost her in 1991... She was 47... It still hurts, but it gets easier... I hope your loss of Doug and of your father, gets easier for you... You desewrve all the happiness in this world...

I too think that you dating Rebecca would not be a bad thing... Your eyes sparkle when you are with her... It is great to see you so happy... Life is too short to be miserable...

You GO girl...

Tami

Larry wrote:

I'm so upset with the first episode that I'm
thinking of dropping you from my "watching list."
I'm offended at the remarks by "Jessie," and
expressed to you with you agreeing over "Doug."
With "Doug" being not only dead, but a very
nice guy it is painful to see negative things
being discussed about him. I'm simply a viewer...
but I considered "Doug" to be the LEAST
pretentious one who was on your show, as the
others are looking for television time. I'm sad
that you started off your show on such a
negative regarding "DOUG," taking away the
beauty of "dedicating this season to him."
I wish you only well,
Larry

Jennifer Peterson wrote:

FINALLY!!!!! I am inspired to work out! I hurried home tonight to wath the show and saw you talkin with the overweight lady about her bein attractive. I LOVE YOU! (don't worry, not in a psycho way) I think your a wonderful person inside. Your obviously gourgeous on the outside as well. I myself once was "HOT" but after 2 kids, my most recent 2 1/2 yrs ago, I am "NOT". I don't feel attractive anymore. I am 5'5, 190 lbs. the biggest I have ever been. It's really hard to deal with after you've been small and attractive to become another person. But tonight for some reason you gave me HOPE. I would love to get u to train me, but I am not RICH and I live in a small town in ALABAMA..... hey, you could always make a "BET" with Peeler and make a lucky viwers dream come true! Me! I bet the hands of Michael Angelo could not make me small! Ha But maybe I can in time. You have inspired me to really try harder than I ever have before to lose the weight. So, til next time..... wish me luck! Oh I wish you had a direct website of your gym. I looked last year and could never find one. Anyway, I wish you luck in finding that special lady. You are a good soul! You will make someone very lucky! God Bless! Jen

Jacque H wrote:

I can't seem to get enough WORK OUT! Jackie, you are one fantastic human being. Not only strong and smart but beautiful as well. I wish I were half as together as you are! The very best to you and good luck with SKY LAB.
Oh! Am I ever glad to hear you aren't going to fool around and get yourself into a relationship with Rebecca! Take some time for yourself. Love ya!!!!!!

Michel wrote:

Hey Jackie,
My friends and I are all hooked on Season 2. Doug was our fav trainer and everyone's bummed he's gone (plus he was such a sweet and cute guy). We're collectively awaiting to find out what happened. Will there be a space to post comments for him on the webpage somewhere?

This season is edifying bc your making great strides to show your inner workout. This is infinitesimally more interesting when you open up (be it with your mom at a GLAAD dinner, trying to find confidence in an all girl bar, or with ur ex) because it's something we can all relate to and learn from; also it's good for the business. So I say don't be afraid to deal with perceived weaknesses on cam bc this only makes you look stronger in the end.

Stefanie wrote:

Jackie-
First let me say that I only hope that I will one day be able to be as strong, determined and motivated as you are...You are truly an inspriation.
I have an email that I would like to share with you that I sent to Bravo on your behalf, and I truly hope that you don't mind me placing it her....you will find it below.
Again, keep doing what you are doing. You change peoples' lives and help them transform into people that they never thought possible, you are amazing!!! Love from New York... Stefanie

Ritik wrote:

I just want to say that i am very happy that u moved on from your relationship. It was only bringing you down. So you should keep your head up high and love yourself first and then everything will come into its own place. Plus keep up the good job that you are doing in your business.

Stefanie wrote:

MY EMAIL TO BRAVO BELOW:
I am a 26 year old femme lesbian who resides in NY. I have been in a relationship for a little over three years and am for the most part content. My partner cheated on me w/another woman about 2 years ago and I have still to let go of that....I know, I am a shmuck! We are trying to work on it, but in all honesty, with each day the light at the end of the tunnel becomes less dim; I don't see this road as a bright one.
I have also been dealing with an eating disorder for over 10 years now, and am trying to treat myself as I have been to numerous treatments and none have worked. I have been dealing with bulimia and anorexia on and off over ten years. I am physically active and in suprisingly good cardiovascular shape, but as far as everything else...questionable!I used to be a figure skater so I do have the ability to be focused as well as motivated, I just need someone to push me along a bit.My resources and finances are limited and I feel as if I am at my wits end, I do believe that this is truly my last attempt to make myself right....I can't be doing this forever!
More down there :-(

Stefanie Piccolo wrote:

I watch Work Out religiously and am inspired as well as being able to relate to Jackie and I really feel as if she could turn my life around. To be able to wake up in the morning and love myself without the doubt that I have been feeling for so many years, would not only be miraculous, but a priceless dream that I could only create in my head.
I know that you must get thousands of emails each and every day, but I asure you, that mine is straight from the heart. I am ready to give up and throw in the towel...I am sick of feeling so unhappy in my own skin, and I want to know what it feels like to wake up in the morning and love what I see, and as cliche as this sound, I feel as if Jackie would be the person to do this for me. I need and desire to work with someone that understands me to an extent...I am not asking you to identify my aura...lol, but just to have something to relate to me with...and it's not just about being gay....lol :-)
Just so you know, I am not a 70 pound woman, or a 200 pound woman..I do not weigh myself as part of my treatment, but if I had to guess, I would say that I weigh around 130 and have a short stature. I have gone months without purging, or starving myself, and I am proud, but I truly need something that is going to keep me from going back or I do feel as if I am going to relapse....and this is something that I do not want, and in all honesty, I don't think that I will be able to handle it...Please Bravo...Tell Jackie that I need her help....this is my life... Thank you for listening and if nothing else, let Jackie know that she is an inspiration to so many people out there that are unable to do for themselves....Be Good to yourself Jackie....

stefanie piccolo wrote:

Jackie-
Sorry that I add so many collections to your blog, but I had no idea of where else to put it!! I do hope that you will be able to at the least put it up on the site, if you are unable to assist me, at least other possible suffferers might feel ok to contact me...If I could help one person with what they are going through, that would make my life completely worth while...
Alright, well I am done...I will keep my fingers crossed that I hear more than just an auto reply from you...Take care....And in my opinion, you deserve better than some girl who is going to walk all over you and treat you like yesterdays news....SORRY...I could help myself..I am a PISCES...it comes out!! Yikes....

Vie wrote:

I just wanted you to know that you are inspirational to everyone, and you are a radiant person. I hope that you find true love one day, and that it is someone who is as wonderful as you. Best of luck with your newest 'Sky' venture!!!

Jeanette Clifton wrote:

I enjoy your show and look forward to season 2. It takes a lot to open yourself up to the world and it will help so many people. I think you reached a turning point in your relationship with Mimi because your life is going a different direction and you know there is more your want to accomplish (personal and professionl )because you are driven. I am glad you have moved on. You are making way for more good things to happen.

Rebecca wrote:

Jackie,
First and foremost, you are an amazing woman. Not only incredibly brave, but incredibly driven, down-to-earth, and intelligent. You handle so many situations very maturely and carry yourself with great poise. Many of the scenarios in your personal life I can identify with in so many ways. I orignally grew up in Santa Monica and then moved as a teenager to a small town in Pennsylvania, so I understand the dealings with ignorant small town barriers. In my early 20's I moved to Philadelphia where I saw there was a 'bigger picture' then what small town suburbia painted for me. I have always been a woman who loved a person for who they were, regardless of gender, and I've been stereotyped and recieved backlash from both sides of the fence at one point or another. Now nearing my 30's I work for the state of NJ but would love to go back to the west coast again. I do find that the majority of society is much more laid back and open minded than the east coast. I saw tonight's episode where you spoke of the first time you were with a man and woman, which is ironic, because I was with both for the first time in the same year, but different age. My question to you would be what/when did you decide you were completely a lesbian? Thankyou, Rebecca

Carolyn wrote:

First I should say your show is very entertaining. It is so nice to see a successful woman achieve her goals. I wish I could work out but at the moment the only thing I can do is physical therapy when I get the go ahead. When the time is right and therapy is done I am seriously thinking about getting a trainer since I will need a modified work out. Oh I should say that I have a L4 disc fusion.
Enough of that. Now I should say that I am so proud of you for leaving Mimi. It is good to see that you figured out that the relation was very unhealthy for you. You deserve better than what see was giving you. Dont ever forget that along with a healthy body and mind you need a healthy emotional heart. As I watch the first season I so wanted to knock some sense in you for staying with her, but I do understand the battle between the heart and the mind. I hope that some of the abused women out there have the courage to leave the abusive relationship like you didl.
I ramble on when I should wish you luck and good wishes for season 2 and all future goals.

joann gratton wrote:

jackie,
I think you are a very strong person and I just love ya!! Leaving a 4 yr relationship is not easy I know I walked away from a bad controlling marriage and I am very proud of you. She was dragging you down and you are not that kind of person and it was hard that you couldn't see at first what us your fans saw. I wish I could afford you as my trainer because I sure could use someone great like you in my life, but I can't. So I will continue to watch. Thanks for your beauty your about the only chick I would consider to take a walk on the other side if ya get what I mean.

addie wrote:

Jackie, I really enjoy your show. I have recently started a fitness program and I was woundering if you had any suggestions? Im a single working mom who weighs around 240. I would like to get down to a slimmer size. Please help! addie

Matthew J... wrote:

Jackie-

You are a true inspiration, not just as a gay women, but as a businesswomen, humanitarian and human being.. i admire you so much... thanks for making the world a more tolerant place... but i was wondering, what your thoughts are on how we as society can go from hoping for tolerance to getting true equality?

Gichi wrote:

Jackie-love your show. You are an inspiration. We need Kathy Griffin every week! Just one request-can you hire a "mom" as a trainer? It seems like all your employees are single and partiers. It would be nice to see someone with a family life also. What gives?

kylee wrote:

jackie,
you are an awesome woman. i enjoy your show very much. im such a people watcher, especially beautiful people. All you guys are so fit and i'm feeling envy, but in a good way. It's kinda like watching a soap opera! no i'm kidding. You were very smart for finally ending a relationship that just brought you down. Have fun exploring and enjoying your new single life!

HondaShadowGrl wrote:

Go Jackie!!! You should have divorced Mimi from your life about 4 years ago! You deserve much better and more mature than her. There are plenty of professional women that would love and support you in all your endeavours. I too have had to go thru a lot of personal and professional changes. I had to divorce myself from a husband (drug user, neglectful dad) and become a single mom pursuing what made me happy. I had a few bad relationships with women until I met my current partner. It only made me stronger and more determined to create a new life and career for myself and family. I have been able to fulfill my longtime desire to become a corrections officer in one of the largest jails in the country. I will continue to push myself to go forward in my career and Jackie inspires me to be strong and take care of myself. I have lost 5 lbs and dropped my fat from 26% to 23% in 3 weeks. I am continuing to work hard to get back into shape. At 41 there is no other choice. If I don't take care of me no one else will. BTW Jackie- You need to wear your helmet when you ride your bike- every time. I just took a spill on mine and if I hadn't been wearing one I would probably be dead. At minimum I would have had serious brain and cosmetic injury to my face. It was a low speed left turn but I lost my rear end on sand. Witnesses said my front tire caught my helmet and pushed me down the road. That would have been my face under the tire. I got up and walked my bike off the road b/c I wore full leather and full face helmet. Regrowing skin is NOT fun and leaves lots of scars. Trust me- I know! I had a bad one 5 years ago that left me with a titanium rod in my R leg and scars from road rash. Again it was a low speed crash and a helmet saved my life. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE wear one!

Tammy wrote:

Jackie -

I just wanted to let you know how much I respect you as a trainer. I am a diagnosed bulimic who just hired my own trainer (who is awesome) but previously, my poor self image kept me away from traditional gyms - the atmosphere and fear I felt of being in them was horrible. Your new Sky Lab, and the way you personally treat overweight people is SO positive!! It makes me feel happy each time I watch your show!

Thanks!

Geni - Eugene OR wrote:

Your show last year was so inspiring, I am exstatic that you're back. I just wanted to write and say that I am heartbroken to hear of Doug's passing. Just from seeing him on the show I felt that he was a very sweet, wonderful person. I am sorry that I never got to meet him in person. He will be greatly missed.

Sylvia wrote:

Wow, is all I can say. First of all you are a doll. I didn't realize that you grew up in Dayton until I read this. I've been in and out of the Dayton area most of my life, as that is where I was born and spent part of my childhood. At 34 I am just now admitting who I am to myself and others. I currently reside in an even smaller town. You have inspired me to deal again with my weight issues. Will you do a workout video for all of us who can't come to Sky Sport? I see that there are so many great ideas out there, but few have actually explained what the different exercises actually accomplish. At this point I am drinking a ton of water, and trying to enjoy the out of doors, and take advantage of the natural workout. Thanks for being such a positive role model for all women. Your genuinely appreciated.

Holly wrote:

Hey Jackie!!
I just want to say first of all that I think you are the most fabulous thing to happend to Tuesday nights in a long time... I absolutely love your show and everything that you are about...as corny as it sounds some of the epidsodes brought tears to my eyes!! It was like I was watching myself only a much more glamourous and gorgeous version. I've been in a few abusive/dysfunctional relationships in my life, and it really takes a lot of strength to finally back away and say enough is enough. I'm glad that you realized that you deserved more. I applaud you for setting such a good example for others to follow. You are a true inspiration on so many levels....
I am making it my lifes goal to somehow save up enough money to fly out to L.A. and if I can have just one session with you in my lifetime , I'd be happy! I think your Skylab venture is awesome, and if I lived closer i'd volunteer myself!!!
I recently underwent a breast reduction and am now wanting to work on the rest of me. I am ambitious and motivated but I need someone to give me a kick in the ass when I get frustrated.
Anyway, you are a joy to let into my home every Tuesday and I can't wait till next week ;)

Karen wrote:

I was a size 6 until I lost my job about 2 mnths ago and my weight has gotten more attractive to men in the south with a heavier bottom but more upsetting to me with my clothes not fitting. I am so irritated but in watching your show, so more questionable in myself. I would love to become part of your show not only as part of your challenges but moreso in someone who can show you someone who can appreciate you as a person. This would be something totally new in me but I admire you the way that anyone should.....including someone else who will show you what real love means.

Kim wrote:

Would like to pay, to workout with you. I have the detication and ,,,I guess , I have to be a famous , but I know I have what it takes for an interview with Jackie. Maybe a possibility, no private jet, but experience in a strong individual...
I am sure no respone from Jackie. Love the show.
Kim 30 years old...

Lyn wrote:

I was channel surfing and all of a sudden your show and your life drew me in. You're an engaging, strong person and I wish you the best with the show and your life! The show is great to watch, you've begun to inspire me. Best Regards!

Karen wrote:

I was a size 6 until I lost my job about 2 mnths ago and my weight has gotten more attractive to men in the south with a heavier bottom but more upsetting to me with my clothes not fitting. I am so irritated but in watching your show, so more questionable in myself. I would love to become part of your show not only as part of your challenges but moreso in someone who can show you someone who can appreciate you as a person. This would be something totally new in me but I admire you the way that anyone should.....including someone else who will show you what real love means. I am a size 8 now but would enjoy your helping me get back to that size 6 again or below (even though I can't really see myself as anything below that size).

david sant wrote:

I just want to thankyou for changing the lives of so many people. You have changed mine. As a gay man who is not fat but definatly has a long way to go since i just found out i was at 22% body fat. I want so badly to be able to take my shirt of in public with confidence. And until I started watching your show I didnt think that would ever be a reality for me. I am now working out more often on the weight machine that my bf owns though I still again have a long long way to go. But I just wanted to thank you for the things you have done for me and that you have made a difference in my life and I have only seen you on tv. thank you

Jenn S wrote:

Jackie, This is revolutionary! Your compassion for healthy living, your sexual-orientation, brave soul, your drive... I could go on and on. I am a trainer as well and truely believe..healthy body, healthy mind, healthy soul; in that order. Thank you for living it in the public eye. That is what I admire.
Jenn

Much Love From Alabama wrote:

Jackie,
I admire you for allowing the public to see you at your most vulnerable moments. Thanks for being true to yourself, not some tv-edited person. You seem to be such a wonderful caring soul.
Over the years I have developed a picture of what a human being living humanely is like. She is a person who understands, values and develops her body, finding it beautiful and useful; a person who is real and is willing to take risks, to be creative, to manifest competence, to change when the situation calls for it, and to find ways to accommodate to what is new and different, keeping that part of the old that is still useful and discarding what is not..
Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
You are an inspiration for all your dedication and determination that it took to achieve your level of success. Bravo is lucky to have you..

Larry wrote:

I admire you. I'm your age & from Ohio too. To see what you've done with your life and the empire you've built you should be proud. This season it seems like there is a lot more going on than last season. Ohio is a great state but not exactly as open as Los Angelas. Being gay here still is hard sometimes. I live in Columbus, Ohio and we have the Arnold Classic bodybuilding competition here. I was wondering if you and your cast would ever be appearing there at it's EXPO promoting your products and show. It's one of the biggest fitness expo's in the country. I would love to see u there. Finally, I'm so happy Doug and Jesse made up.

R. Christian Anderson wrote:

Hi Jackie... I gotta tell you that my partner and I are so inspired by you. We started our own company last year and it's unreal how many people have told us that we shouldn't, why we won't succeed, how it's risky, that there is too much competition, and on and on. We have forged ahead because we believe in our products, but it's very tough finding people that are supportive and positive about what we are trying to accomplish. Watching you on "Workout" has really helped to inspire us and keep us motivated and convinced we are doing the right thing. Not sure why it's so hard for people to feel the excitement we do, but it looks like you have also had your share of frustrations with that lack of support, as well. Thanks for not only having success, but sharing that enthusiasm with us through the show. Your determination that your business changes lives is not only great TV, but you're actually helping guys like us through your energy and energy that we can do this and make it fabulous. We can't thank you enough, great lady!

Holly wrote:

I can relate to the single parent thing. I was raised by a single parent and now I am one myself. It can be hard at times but it's worth everything. I can honestly say my son is my greatest accomplishment. I think it's good to show that people (such as yourself) that come from single parent families can be successful,etc.

kas wrote:

You know I was gald aboput the show...But see the shot of the girls middle and then to the playboy. I am glad they go there for a work out, seeing people that need it to middle shots to playboy..That doesnt wnat me to workout. I hope the best for the people that see the show and want to workout, but that did it for me. Good luck and BEST LUCK

Helena wrote:

I just want to say keep up the inspiring work. I'm terribly overweight, watching your show has inspired me to work out and take control of my life.

PLEASE keep the show going, your a lifeline.

love and light
Helena

Tricia wrote:

Jackie, I accidentally stumbled upon your show last year and am so glad I did! I became totally immersed in the show right away. I can honestly say that I have never, ever had a "crush" on a girl/woman till you came along (thanks a lot ;-)

All that aside, you are truly inspirational and a person that I hope will become a new and very much improved role model for the disillusioned girls out there who worship and revere some of the most notorious female celebrities. You have been through so much adversity in your life, and yet you are strong, confident, beautiful and successful, and you are the epitome of the woman that I would want my daughter to grow into, had I a daughter. I completely admire you in so many ways. You also have a great group of trainers who are very warm, talented and entertaining.

I'll be watching the progress of SkyLab with great interest, and I wish you all the best success with your life. Please keep the show going! In the meantime, I look forward to every episode of Season Two.

Mary wrote:

Hi Jackie,

I want to thank you for the encouraging words that you give the overweight clients that have appeared on your show. After all that you are going thru in your personal life, you find it in your heart to be encouraging to your clients and I think that's awesome. I've rececntly lost over 100 lbs due to being sick and I would love to be able to see a personal trainer to tone my body but right now I'm not able to do that financially, but if I ever win the lotto, I will come see you (or one of your staff) :)

Again, thank you for your encouraging words (it's strange to say but it feels like you're talking to all overweight people, not just those on your show)!

Stacy wrote:

pretty simple, love your show. thanks for a second season

Bob Teixeira wrote:

Jackie great show keep up the good work.I have one question I see that you guys use propel on your show I was surprised just because It's loaded with high frutose corn syrup,why not smart water.You should try single life and stay away from that old girl freind with her attitude she acts like she's twelve or hoockup with Rebecca. Great show

Jessica DeVoe wrote:

Well my friend I missed your show last night - so sorry! My six year old Gabriel was having trouble falling asleep. But from reading your Blog you seem to be doing really well!

I am glad to hear you are moving on! And people need to relax with you enjoying the dating scene! You are like a caged animal that was set free and now you want a taste of your freedom! Been there, done that. But this time for me I have no desire to date! I am not going to change for anyone! I love my kids, my dogs, my buddhism and just living day to day.

I am proud to report that since watching your show and ending my marriage I am getting my ass back into the gym! And if things will go well I will want to sign up for Skylab and want to work for Skylab! I should put my medical background to work somewhere!

I am very happy for you and keep up the good work!

Jess
xoxo

Bet wrote:

Hi Jackie,

First off, I friggen hate reality shows. I think our own life is so short, we shouldn't waste it watching someone else deal with their life. That said, while home with a bad case of the stomach bug a few weeks ago - so bad I couldn't get out of bed, I happen to start watching your show. I'm a long time gym-rat and martial artist so I was interested right away with the fitness aspect of the show that I ended up watching the entire marathon of your show. Wow, I really enjoyed it, and have gained some great insight from you. Your focus and commitment to your gym and staff is inspiring. I'm just now, at 44, following my passion to be a fitness professional, and honestly, your show has helped me to stay focused. Thanks, and keep it up. Oh, and Mimi, again life is way to short to suffer as much as you have with her. Love should inspire and motivate us to be our best, clearly that's not happening for you. You deserve better girl!
Sugo

Tricia wrote:

Jackie, CONGRADULATIONS!!! It is hard to go through a break-up after being with someone for so long. I understand I went through it. We argued all the time. I refused to give up on the relationship, even though we would fight about everything. Finally, after 6 years she dumped me for her Ex. I thought I would never love again. As it turns out I met the best woman on the planet and we have been together for quite some time. We never fight and we laugh all the time. I guess what I am trying to say is the right woman is out there for you so don’t settle because you are lonely. On a different note, I think your show is the best. I want your body, not like that! Well…. No, I mean I want my body to look like yours. It did once upon a time. Your show inspires me, as well, to get fit again. Good luck!

Tricia

Patrice wrote:

Well like everyone else has said already congrats on the whole relationship thing! You do deserve better, as does everyone. Just a quick note about Peeler, you say " he is one of the most sensitive people you've ever met", I just think the comments he gives or the confessional part of the show are way disrespecting towards you and your company that you've worked hard for. For example on one of them when he says " Kiss my Ass" how unprofessional and disrespectful. He is YOUR employee, but he's also not the reason I or probably millions of us watch your show. Keep up the great work.

valerie mccormick wrote:

Dear jackie, I do love the show, it probably should be more

kathy grantonic wrote:

Jackie -
Okay last night i was up til midnight watching your show. You have me hooked! I am a 48 yr. old single mother of a 14yr. old son. And only wish that i could have you as my personal trainer. I am 70lbs overweight and would like to get back in shape. Your insight into people and your compassion is something that i think any personnal trainer should aspire to. I have tried a trainer before with no connection - i felt uncomfortable. And truly you are someone i would like to be around! You are an amazing woman - and don't let your trainers push you around! You have gotten where you are today by being assertive and caring! I am truly a fan!

Tana Fee wrote:

Hello Jackie-

I wanted to say that love your show! I admire your ambition and your business sense.. I would love to be able to afford a trainer to kick my butt or slap it like Rebecca does! I am at the mid point of my weight loss journey- I have lost 50 lbs and am going to lose another 50 lbs this year . I am going to keep watching the show and website for some tips. Heres to a great season and thanks for bringing WORK OUT and sexy back!

Tana

Lisa wrote:

Love the show! Can you tell me where to get a gold chain necklace like the one you have been wearing in the most recent episodes? You've got great style!

Joan K. wrote:

Hi Jackie,
I loved the show last night and was glad to see you having some fun without MiMi, you are so smart to dump her, please don't get back with her. It seemed when you had her around that you were on edge, you don't need that, you are such a neat person and you deserve better. It was hard to watch the show and know that Doug is gone and it has to be so hard on you guys. I was glad to see that Doug and the giuy he was having a problem with made up before Doug was gone. Good luck to you in this new season, I love the show and never miss it.
Love you Jackie

Jennafer wrote:

Jackie, first, love you, love your show...I noticed last night that you didn't do the body fat test...:) are you really only 3% body fat and 97% drama?
Jennafer

VINCENT ODONNELL wrote:

HELLO,JACKIE!!! I'AM ALSO FORMLEY FROM OHIO-YOUNGSTOWN,TO BE EXACT! I'AM ALSO A LEO WE ARE THE SPECIAL PEOPLE OF THE WORLD!!! MY PARTNER AND I LOVE YOU AND YOUR SHOW. WE LOOK FOWARD TO TUESDAY NITES!! WE WOULD LOVE IF YOU EVER COME TO COLORADO TO E/MAIL US,AND WE WOULD SHOW YOU ARROUND THE DENVER BARS!!! MY E/MAIL ADDRESS IS vpodonnell@yahoo.com WE WOULD TO HERE FROM YOU!! ALSO WE WISH AND HOPE YOU THE BEST!!!!!!

Jen wrote:

Jackie,
I just want to say you are so inspiring. I am amazed and wonder at the path you have taken and goals you have reached. I would love to hear how it all started. And thanks so much for giving so many great workout tips to help many lives. Take it from me, I just got out of a long term relationship where communication was void. You are doing the right thing. Life is too short to be miserable.
xo

Suzie Broomes wrote:

I love you and your show. I recently had breast reduction surgery and you have inspired me to work out again. You are strong beautiful woman. If I was gay I would I could see myself with you. You're strong , focus and very talented- and also very hotttt!!;you have succeeded so much in your life and much more. And the fact that you are changing other lives, those new clients are going to appreciate you and your trainers to help them achieve a much healthier life style. Love the first season and enjoying the second season so far. I hope you find someone you can love and can appreaciate you fo rwho you are. Mimi needs to grow-up and then some, she is not for you.

Take care
Good luck with all your new goals

Joan K. wrote:

Hi Jackie,
I just realized the first time I saw you on TV was when you went to get your hair cut at Jonathon's Salon, I never missed his shows either. You were telling him about your new show, I liked you right away.
Congratulations on your show and getting rid of Mimi.
A Fan
Wisconsin

Tammy wrote:

Enjoyed this weeks show.
Agreed with the counselor that the relationship was self punishment. Been there, done that, owned it, moved on and life is good. Living off grid in the hills of Upstate NY was a wonderful "refresher" for my life.

At present I'm working on nutrition and working out. I caught the news show with the lung demo. I'm doing them and oh my gawd do they work. I've lost 14 pounds and am strengthening the 130lbs I have left on my 5'6" frame. I feel and look fantastic now, but I'm pushing for excellence!

My younger sister has invited me to Pensecola Fla for Pride weekend and I'll be looking and feeling great for that celebration. This 44 year old gramma is going to give her a serious run for money on the beach. I believe she's worried and upped her workout sessions (smile). As a fire sign you are aware of our birthright of intensity. Though mine (Aries) runs a little hotter than a Leo's, and I've learned that only a physically fit woman is going to survive a relationship with moi (grin)

Anyway...
You are a motivation and inspiration for women period, and the guys are catching on too!(smile)

Thank you for being you, and all you do!

steve ward wrote:

i love the show it is a great insperation to me

i am over weight and i was watching the show.

and i came up with a idea

4 myself and to train and eat right


i am sad that doug past i was wondering what cauesed his passing .


not trying to be mean


peace out

steve

Liz wrote:

I love your show. After I got hooked last year, I started going to a boot camp class at 5am 3 days a week. You have inspired me. You are a great person inside and out. I love that you are genuine. I really want you to find happiness. You know down deep in your heart that it is NOT Mimi. Great sex does not constitute a good relationship. The addicting part is you probably love that 5% of her in which you never seem to get on a consistant basis. So, you fight it through to get that 5% you like. You might see that part of her every blue moon. So move on girl!

steve ward wrote:

as i watch the show every week .

i am conneted to u all ur like family to

as a gay man i feel close to jakie and jessie and doug .

you are mentiors to me . and the struggles that us gay

people have to go throught . yall are cool i meen all

of ya at skylabs .i whish 4 jakie and her staff

best wishes and 4 skylabs too


best wishes

steve

Nancy wrote:

Jackie,

I am so glad you have broken things off with MiMi. You seem to be a very genuine person and your other half seemed far from that. I hope you can find someone that makes you grow and encourages you in your great endeavor. I am not a gay woman, but a strong one, so please don't ever let any one bring you down again, you are Way Better than that.

Stay strong sista.

Nancy :)

Stef in Steeltown wrote:

Hey Jackie! I applauded and yelled "Go girl!" at the TV when you walked out on therapy. We don't see the lovely part of Mimi on the show. It must exist somewhere or you would not have stayed for so long. So, love her still but stay gone.

On another topic, are you going to have a therapist involved in Skylab? If not, it would be a good thing to add to your program. If you are going to make real change for people, you should try to "treat" all aspects. But, you know that already.

Something I forgot to say last week is that I think that you really rock when your real "Ohio" girl comes out. Keep up the good work! Stef

P.S. I like Jesse flabby! He makes me laugh, laugh, laugh!

Heather wrote:

Dear Jackie,
Hello and let me say to you that I have never been so {glued} to a television to watch a show like I do yours.You are totally invigerating and Im soooo glad that you finally left Mimi alone,she was not really into you!!!My God with your looks and personality, you can have anyone you want to.You are inspiring to my relationship.I married my partner in November of 2006 and we are very happy.We have alot of strikes against us because we are a Bi-racial couple.But love has no color.We look fprward to watching you the rest of the season.Best of luck to you,keep up the search for Ms. Right!!!!

Kaley wrote:

Jackie, I am also gay and it is very hard for relationships to go well and meeting people is hard. For you to start looking after a hardship with Mimi just makes me want to keep looking. You seem very awesome and I love your show.

ashraf wrote:

hi jackie !
loved the 2nd episode , it was fantastic.
You broke up with Mimi, but look at the bright side , Rebecca is way hotter :) . I mean she was in to you , she likes you and she was a little mad 'cause you were like " She is like my little sister " .Anyways its your life you turn it the way you like it :) ,
and about Brian, you are so right , he is one of the most sensitive people in your show, I mean he mocks Jesse, makes fun of him , but he cant take jokes from others, maybe just like what he sais , thats he doesnt like anyone to make fool out of him in front of other people that he doesnot know . I just hope you guys dont get to irritated , hope things well get better between you 2 :) . thats it for today. cant wait to see the next episode :)
Ashraf !!

Nathalie Clark wrote:

Jackie, you are sucha strong person. I love your show. I make sure that I get my workout in before it comes on. And I can watch it as a rerun like a million times. Anyway, I love your show but I think that you shoudl fire Brian because he is a jerk. Anyway, great show. Keep on being awesome.

Skaboo wrote:

Jackie, I really enjoy the show! How did the opportunity of doing this program come to you? Only good things will come to you and your business because of this program. I wish you the very best.
Regards,
Skaboo !

edward wrote:

First off, I love the show. It has everything. fitness, drama, Gay content. I love it all.
I need to know who makes the Sunglasses Jackie wears. The scene last night with her in her car. Love love love them.
Anyone know?

Patti wrote:

You are incredible! You are intense, smart, driven, focused and so strong in every sense of the word. It takes a unique type of person to remain real and true to themself and even vulnurable in such a stressful environment. God bless you Jackie! Stay true to you and continue not to settle for less than you put out! You deserve it all.
Patti

Pam wrote:

I love this show!! I am intriqued by Jackie. She is so motivated in obtaining success and I wonder if she realizes how much of a role model she is for the gay and lesbian community.

I admire Jakies strength of character. I'm a bit confused that she lets her staff get away with such disrespect. She doesn't call people on their disloyalty. Jackie seems very sensitive in her dealings with her clients and her staff. She really deserves more loyalty in return than she gets.

cris wrote:

I really like the show, however i'd like to see less drama w/ trainers and a little more of before and after pictures of clients to see the true work of the sky sport and spa. I like the fact that its not just for celebs its for real people and not just for those who want to keep fit. I am over weight and I just watched the show where there were several overweight clients of which the trainers are to work with. I have joined fitness clubs before and ended up some trainer interested in the girl next to me who is less than 120 and a tiny outfit and not helping me or motivating me at all and that to me is a waste of money and my time. sky sport doesnt seem that way and they really want the client to loose the weight and be fit. i know i'm not meant to look like any of the trainers i just want to be comfortable in my own skin and not be so overweight. I look forward to the new episodes and some tips on how we can all we healther at home . love the bootcamp idea

Tisha wrote:

You are so likeable! I like your style, your ease with people, your humor and the fact that you are frank and straight foward. I love watching you interact with your staff and I think, "wow - what a great place to work". I wish you all the best and kudos to you for ending your relationship with Mimi. You deserve to receive pure love in it's entirety. Can't wait to see the next episode!

Nichole wrote:

Mimi should consider some therapy. She has some serious issues that she should want to resolve, but she chooses to act like an angry little brat instead. She really needs to take a look inside of herself and deal with her pain.

Jackie you know you're the sh!t. You rock girl! Don't be scared to be with someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. It may not be dramatic, but at least it's healthy.

Jessica wrote:

Hey Jackie I love your show. If you know of any personal trainer as awesome as you here in Miami let me know. I'm so happy to see you happy and away from MIMI. You are a very hard working woman. Glad to see you back on air.
Take care,
Jessica

Joan K. wrote:

Hi Jackie,
I have been reading the comments and and not surprised at how many people love you and your personality and eveything you do, you are a very likable person.
I just watched the show again that was on last night, I never get sick of it.

brian wrote:

Jackie .. Thank you for being you & presenting a postive image of a gay woman just living her life. That image is so important for middle America to see; to exeperience. I am aslo real proud of your efforts to creat Sky Lab.

Jamie Baker wrote:

Jackie,

First and foremost... you are an inspiration. And what's more, it was inspiring to see that your strength, ambition, and willing to better yourself is more than just what you do in the gym. Your tumultuous relationship with Mimi, at times, was nauseating to say the least. A woman of such stature, to me, should demand respect and settle for nothing less. Mimi, as great as things may have been at one point, was less than respectful -- and in a sense, was a jealous child throwing a tantrum.

The presence you command (knowingly or not) in your gym is like a super-powered magnet in a paperclip warehouse... everything is drawn to you! I love it. And I commend you for all that you have done for every body type that walks through your door. Whether it be that they end up losing weight or toning the muscle they already have, it's the light in their eyes that speaks volumes on what you and your staff has done for them.

For those of us that are not graced with you and your gym, I pray that other facilities and owners of local gyms take the initiative to be a "magnet". Half the battle is getting to the gym, the other half is finding a qualified trainer/gym to show you the way.

Much love from an inspired viewer,
Jamie

Heather wrote:

You are so incredible and strong watching. Jackie you gave me the inspiration too become a personal trainer and to be a good listener. I know that you have been through alot and I know it only made you stronger. I know you had a bond with Mimi, but that was not a healthy relationship. You are such a beautiful woman who deserves so much respect from your significant other. I will keep watching. I want to buy a piece of clothing from your line when it comes out. I am a hard worker when it comes to working out. I made by basement my gym. I am excited that another season is underway. Just know you are making a difference in alot of peoples lives. Stay strong and work hard. All the best!!!!!

Marianne wrote:

Jackie!!! Love your show, love your personality and your strengths. Just watching your show is very motivating and makes me want to get up and move. Drop Mimi like a hot potato--this woman is poison and she's only going to poison you--with your outgoing ways and confidence you don't need her. Good luck with the show and I will be watching and encouraging everybody to do the same. Marianne

Tori wrote:

Oh my my my...i fell in love wth the show every since last season and i was glued into the screen when it came on last night. (lol) The show has been the best thing that happend to me for tuesday nights. Jackie your great and i think that you are a very strong person. mimi your ex has put you through so much emotionally and i don't think you deserved it. Im glad that your moving on and experiencing the single life because trust it is the life.(lol) There are plenty fish in the sea and i you got to do is catch a good one. For the time being have fun and get out there. If i was in L.A. I would be in every hott gay spot there is. Or better yet wherever you are cause you are so sexy. (i couldn't hold it in i had to say it ) Well that's it cant wait to see what happens next i like that the show keeps me on my tip toes on what's next! :)

neco johnson wrote:

Jackie, I absolutely love your show. It is so hilarious and at the same time it sends a message to those out there whom are afraid to express and be themselves. Your character is absolutely remarkable. Not only are you very sexy and attractive but you are in control and thats what counts the most. I think watching last night, I heard you say your were a Leo. Well I am a Leo as well and if you read up on our Zodiac, you will find a few very interesting facts about ourselves. Again good luck in all that you do, and keep those good episodes coming because I am watching.

M. Ruth wrote:

Jackie,

First I have to say that I admire you. I've been watching the show since the first season and fell in love with it. I can truely say that it inspires me to go to the gym sometimes...LOL. I have had a weight problem since forever. Trying to overcome something that has been lingering for so long is a challenge for me personally. I still have hope though.

I am not gay but I can almost relate to the struggles you probably had to overcome with being not what society calls "normal" or "not right." For me it was racisism. Being mixed was just "not right." You overcome and move on. There is this documentary about children called "My life as a child." There was this boy (I think) that had alot of female characteristics. It breaks my heart how cruel kids can be. Somethings are just out of our control and I wish there was alot more compassion than judgement.

My son is what society would call "not normal." He was diagnoised with Russell-Silver Syndrome. His first surgery was when he was 10 months old. One day people will notice that something is different with him. I guess we can only change the perspective of what "normal" is one person at a time. Maybe to look at the characteristics of a person instead of judging there genetics.

I hope all is well and good luck with all that you persue...

Traci wrote:

Jackie,

First, let me say that I'm sorry about your break-up with Mimi. I'm not going to bash her or say that you are so much better off without her like most people on this blog. Obviously, you loved her for a reason and I am sorry that you two could not work it out. Your bestfriend, Erin, is exactly right...it's not that Mimi is a bad person, she's just not the person for you. I wish her well.
I also wanted to say that I started watching the show because I'm gay and I try to lend support to the "family" when I can. What surprised me was how much I learned about fitness. I actually believe that you guys care about these overweight people on the show and that's incredible. I'm 30 lbs. heavy myself and I have always been terrified of hiring a trainer because I was under the impression that they were just doing a "job". I really want to find someone like you or the people in your company to help me now. Thanks for that enlightenment.
About Rebecca...it's all good, girl. Don't worry about what other people say. If you like her and she's into you, have her train somewhere else and none of the employees will suffer. Keep up the good work. Love the show.

Caronique wrote:

Jackie,
As always, I enjoyed the show. You are beautiful, sexy, driven and aggressive. You are my HERO and I love what you do. You have inspired me in so many ways. THANK YOU !!! I hope our paths will cross oneday so that I may thank you in person.

Blessings and Love,
Caronique

Celia wrote:

Jackie,
Love your show! Love Doug. Was stunned to hear of his passing. What happened. My heart ached when I saw the memorial on your show. Do you plan on doing a show to memorialize his memory?

Lynne wrote:

Jackie, I love your show and you are hot. I'm so glad you dumped Mimi, she's not someone to be with, too mean and negative. I read about Doug's passing and was shocked. Was it sudden? I would like to know more on his passing.

Marge wrote:

Jackie, after watching last night's episode I was a little disappointed in you. The way you talked to Peeler was obnoxious to say the very least and really out of line for a business owner. I've supported the show from the beginning because as an out lesbian, I appreciated not only your work but the fact that you too were out and not afraid to be you. Last night I watch a self centered ego maniac talk down to one of her employees. Not the Jackie I've come to love, that's for sure.

Jason B. wrote:

HEy Jackie,
I just started to watch your show on bravo. First of all thank you for just being straight up. Seeing you ,and your family of trainers got me out of the psychological lazy chair,and doing something about my own body. THe other part is no matter what preference of orientation you are . You are a beautiful person. I see the struggle you are going through with you mom, and mimi. On your personal relationship I think there is enough people to tell you what to do, or to instruct you what to do. I m not one of them. All I could say is " If you train your mind and body to be in a tempo of great health. Is mimi the fast food you want to keep falling back on?" Anyhow I will continue to watch, and I wish the best.

Veronica Camarillo wrote:

Jackie,
You are an inspiration and an angel. I love you & I love the show. You are a very strong headed woman & I admire you for that. You are a big influence to me and for that I want to thank you.

Carrie wrote:

Everytime I hear or read comments about how hard it was for you growing up in the town that you grew up in, I'm taken a bit aback. I grew up just a couple towns south of you. I never hid who I was, and I can honestly say that I never had one negative experience as a result of my sexuality. I've always found Dayton and the surrounding areas to be very gay friendly. I understandt that there was a stronger military presence where you grew up, and I suppose that didn't help matters, but it really does sadden me that you had such a negative experience in a place that I've always had very fond memories of.

In happier news. I love the show. You inspire me to get off my lazy a**. Thanks so much for being you!

Irene C wrote:

Jackie,

Thank You for finally letting go of such an unhealthy and unpleasant relationship. You deserve to be with someone who will, in turn support and appreciate what you do. I loved your first season and look forward to the new one! Great Work. Stay Strong!! I wish you the Best...

Evett726 wrote:

28 March 2007

Dear Jackie:
I have been a fan of the show since last season and I was very impress with the customer service that you and the trainers provide. I want to commend you for allowing a possible recipient of kidney organ transplantation. I was on dialysis for ten years until I received a kidney transplant in the summer of June 2005. The surgery was a success so much so that I gained forty pounds. Spring of 2006 I joined a gym and I lost the forty pounds and it was not easy but I did it. My doctor is very happy because my blood pressure has drop. I hope in the future when the gentlemen obtain his gift of lift, that the show will let the world see how we recipients deals with the weight, anti rejection meds and exercise. The kidney world is such a mystery to those who it has not affected. Secondly, I was very happy to see that you were willing to training people who have so extra pounds because it’s about changing the way you feel about food and finding your triggers. GREAT JOB!!
Lastly, the young lady that you were training last season please let her know that I applaud her for not giving up and I’m cheering her on because I understand when you have to takes medications. I’m not blaming the medication. Love the show...

Evett726

Melissa Turner wrote:

Hello Jakie, I've watched your show and glad your not in a relationship with Mimi anymore. I know she didn't seem to be the right one for on the first seasons. Because of the way she don't commuticate at all to you. And I've watch you the way you own your own gym and you aslo help people to be in good shape. I've always wanted to be a personal trainer myself and own a gym for me to help people to get back in shape. But the only problem I have is I used to be an athlethic in High School when I graduated in 1997. Til I had three kids of my own. And I watch you to try to understands on how and why you have helps alot of people to be in good shape. And Jackie if you want to get ahold of me you can write to me on my email address if you want. And I would like to have some help to get back in shape the way I used to be in school a long time ago. But that's up to you. You deside on what you want to do it's your choice. To let you know I'm Melissa Turner have three kids live with my mom til I get a place to live. My kids age are 2, 3, 5 yaers olds living with me. Give me a holler Bye-Bye.

Stacy wrote:

Hi Jackie, I am loving the 2nd season! Just wanted to tell that even though I am a happily married straight (for the most part:) ) woman, you freakin' rock!! You captivate me, and I am sure you have heard this a million times ... but damn girl, you just have that "something, something"... I think you make straight chicks all over the country question their sexuality....
I just adore you!
Stacy

lola wrote:

Jackie , I'm a Gym addict. I work out every single day, and i love it. It is like a therapy for me, actually better than a shrink session! So i can relate to you
You have a pretty strong personality so I don't understand what made you stay so long in such a bad relationship. No, actually i understand it! Once i was in love with the man who i thought at the time was my whole world and more. He expected me to adore him, admire him, love him. And i did. I just forgot about my own needs, my entire life revolved around him. I have to admit that I am not a desperate woman, and i never was. I am an intelligent, good looking girl. I didn't need that crap in my life. Now I know it was a toxic relationship, which lowered my self-esteem and self-confidence big time. But i couldn't end it then...it was ...I don't know what it was. Sex? Love?Dependency? From the perspective of time al i can say it was sick and destructive for me. The funny part is that I end it! Just like that. One morning I woke up and realized that he woul destroy me. That was my wake up call. Have no regrets about your break-up with Mimi. It was not a healthy relationship for neither of you. I am sure that sooner rather than later you will find your significant other. I fiund mine. We've been together for 15 years and still in love!!! So there is hope for you.


Deana Tracey wrote:

Hey, I was just wondering if you could give me some advice...This past year I have undergone 3 major brain operations to remove an ependymoma in the center of my brain. I am recovering well and cancer free for 1 year. I have finally been cleared for excercise(I put on 30lbs from steroid medication and inactivity) problem is....my body is so weak and the smallest thing like bending over and stretching hurts every muscle in my body. Getting up and down is most of the time painful. I know I have to WORK IT OUT....but I just dont know where to start...and Im not getting any younger....37. Please help!

kat kaminski wrote:

Hi Jackie,
I am an old married woman , probably old enough to be your mom and who thinks you are just too adorable. If I were your mom, I would be so amazingly proud of you. I watch your show and then I watch the reruns of your show and you are intelligent, savvy, sophisticated, strong. You have great taste in your decor and I think Sky Sport is just the most smashing name for a gym/spa. Wow, I might even be tempted to exercise in a glorious place like that, heaven knows it is something I am supposed to be doing, but I get sooooo bored exercising alone and cannot afford a personal trainer so I watch all of your success stories. But you are just cuter than a 3-day old pup, you have a gorgeous smile, and eyes and I hope your show runs for years to come. God Bless and it's really nice to know you. I don't write fan mail so this tells you how exceptional I think you are. You should be held up for every young woman as to the possibilies of success, that if you really have a passion for something and you are willing to pay your dues, you Can get to the top. Best Regards and continued success, will see you on the Tube, kat

Savannah Schulze wrote:

All I can say is that Jackie has become such a powerful image since the first season aired. She is the icon of Strong Women! All I wanted to say is Thank You for being strong and giving such a powerful message to women today. I'm 20 years old, living in Iowa and going to school. To have a beautiful, strong female image is empowering. Thank you again and you have a fan for life! I only wish you would open a gym in Des Moines!

Mari wrote:

Jackie,
Loving your softer side. You scared me a bit in Season 1. Can't wait to see the kiss btwn you and Rebecca. So hot. I thought you weren't my type, but since you've let your gaurd down, you are even more attractive! Keep it up....Season 3 PLEASE :)

Abbey wrote:

You are such an inspriration. You have made me realize that I can do anything I set my mind to, and for that I thank you. For years I have been battling with my inner body and always being scared to really just let loose and be myself. I wish that I could meet you and your trainers, and I feel that someday I will. I am not scared anymore of being myself and I feel that you had something to do with that! Thanks so much! You are such a great soul, and such an inspiration to so many.

Cindy wrote:

Dear Jackie,
Love you, the show, and "most" of the trainers! I'm so jealous that I'm so far away from your place and can't attend. We need you to do seminars across the U.S. (What a great idea! Not that you don't already have a lot going on!)
I would really like more info. on SkySpa. If I could ever afford, would love to attend. I lost 60 lbs. last year and still have 40 more to shed. I need help!! I have the eating thing down to a science but need direction with the physical side.
Anyway, just wanted to drop you a note and tell you how happy I was for the return of the show and you allowing us into your life. I know first hand relationships are painful but I can't imagine allowing all of America to view. I commend you on your strength and purging the poison from your life!
You seem like a truly wonderful person that has great compassion for people and I hope that you find someone that can appreciate those qualities.
Wishing you nothing but continued success!!

michelle wrote:

just a small town countrygirl who wanted to say great show you guys and gals.. Iam so sorry about loosing Doug.. that was such an amazing man.. I am a straight female who is in great shape physically, but was mentally changed by Doug.. He was a great influence on me.. I love his sweet,honest,and loving attitude he always had.. I now am a better mom and a better person from his short time on the show.. I will miss him dearly.. Jackie you have a great show and great attitude about life. I hope all works for you in any direction you choose to go.. All the staff you guys and girls make me laugh.. Brian please don't take things so personal you're a great guy and a gentlemen.. so good luck and keep up the good work....

Anne-Marie wrote:

Love the show...and your bedding! Where did you get it....it just looks Fantastic! please share...
Thanks.

Nia wrote:

Jackie you are wonderful, I am blogging all the time regarding your show. I have one request. When are you going to have more tee shirts on your website. I was CRAZY for the Lift tees, now I see these new shirts that are HOT, HOT, HOT. Pleeeeze bring in the tee shirts, I am a persoanl trainer on Long Island, NY and a very popular teacher. I would love to sport your tees on my body...LOVING THE SHOW, I look foward to the days where it is on 5-6 hours, I do not care if I see Season 1 over and over again, I cannot get enough. I need a tee shirt!!!!!!!!!!!

Mayte wrote:

Hi Jackie,
Just remeber "When the root is deep, there is no need to fear the wind" Good luck on your new season. :)

julia wrote:

Jackie,
you are such an inspiration for anyone wanting to work out and get in shape! I think you are the sexiest woman on t.v. and totally hot! Keep up the good work and thanks for being a role model for me. As a mother of two and a working mom its really hard to keep motivated, but, all i have to do is watch Workout every week and thats what keeps me going....

FitFiend wrote:

Hey Jackie,

It's okay to appear vulnerable. Just glad you finally kicked her to the curb!

Patty wrote:

I Love You & Your Show!
I think you have a great idea here Jackie! Your crew is funny & sexy as can be. Just like you! You have given me inspiration and I just wanted to Thank You...

kiera wrote:

Hey jackie, I have watched your show since it aired and I love it. I relate to the show so much, im a lesbian too and i can understand a lot of things that you go throuh. But last night as i was watching the show , it showed previews of the next episode... and are you and Rebecca going to hook up?!? I was like flipping out last night! But I love your show.. oh and i think you are beautiful woman. You have great sex appeal as well!

Candi Bowers wrote:

Hey Jackie, I so love your show and I am so glad that you got out of that relationship with MiMi, its time for you to go out and have fun and date , you are a very,very beautiful woman and I hope you have much success on your show and your company, Much love to you.


Candi

Jenn wrote:

To Jackie,
Afternoon, I am a 23 yr old stay at home mom, so of course I have seen your show. I happened to catch a bit of last season and was hooked. The first time you counseled Tess, I was just moved by your mannerisms and kindness. Don't ever worry that you are not "communicating" at your potential, because you are and then some. Y our personality comes through and you inspire people you'll never meet. I have become a huge fan, and will be for life! Here is to continued success! The look on your face in the credits as you are observing the "fruits of your labor" is priceless and very motivating! Your drive is one in a million!

Jackie wrote:

Jackie, i love you and your show. You are a great inspiration. I'm not sure where you find such a great inner strength but keep at it because you are awesome. No other show has ever captured my attention as yours has.

Justin wrote:

My girlfriend and I really enjoy the show. I have to give mad props to Jackie for having the strenght to say I am fed up with a part of my life and the courage to be real. This is the only reality show I truly enjoy. I do agree the drama with the trainers has to go. But other than that keep up the great work that you are doing. Be loud and proud of who you are. Let no one break you down.

Lori wrote:

I must congratulate you for finally coming to your senses and leaving Mimi. I have to admit that at any time you and her were together, I would mute the television so not to hear the idiotic, negative comments that came out of her mouth. I've never seen anyone as immature as she was, glad you finally gave her a well needed reality bitch slap. I know what it's like to end a long relationship, I was married for 9 years and unhappy for at least half of them. To be alone after all t