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Because We Are All Connected

April 10, 2007

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What do I have to say about episode 4? OMG!!!!

In order to get unfiltered reactions, I watch episodes of the show with personal friends -- and we were all dying over this one.

First off, you can't imagine how uncomfortable it is to have chemistry and kisses on camera -- but I obviously managed to do it -- ha-ha. I was surprised at the decision to allow so much racy footage, and whoever cut in the cheesy piano/sax music needs to leave the production! (Just kidding, Lauren.)

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bill wrote:

Jackie has a great figure. I'd love to see her wrestle that trainer with the Bully shirt from that other exercise show.

Julia wrote:

Hey Jackie - I watched the video of you that talked about how this season is different than last and that you are really trying ot show more of who you are. Although I think that is great - I'm starting to feel like to omuch of the show is about your personal (sex) life and not enough about fitness - the other trainers (the gym as a whole) and the people you train. Please don't let this take a turn away from what made the show so awsome to begin with.
BTW - I am heart broken about Doug. I know it seems strange for a viewer to talk about him because I did not really know him, but your show does make people feel like we know you all. He seems so wonderful and I only hope he did have support. Thinking about him not answering his phone because he was sick brings tears to my eyes. I will miss him on the show as I am sure you and all who loved him will miss him deeply in real life.

Tia wrote:

This episode was so hard to watch, knowing that Doug is gone and seeing him getting sick. Even though you know what happened, you still wish that you could change things. He seemed like such a gentle, caring spirit. Thank you for having the courage to share your life and your journey with us. Therapy is something that many people should try, but many are afraid to. It's important to see that someone as strong as you can admit that there are things that you need help with and things that you want to change for the better in your life. Getting help doesn't compromise your strength, it demonstrates the courage and intelligence that's needed to become a better person.

Michele wrote:

Jackie,

I llove the show and what you do for people, I feel that you truly care about your clients in the spa.
I wanted to tell you that I like you and Rebecca together, and I love the fact that she puts you first in the relationship(last episode when she ask you what you needed from her). I must tell you that I didn't like the fact that it seemed like you just ignored Rebecca at dinner after you made out with her and then Tiffany showed up. I diddn't think that was tooo cool, but oh well. I have to say that I am rooting for you and Rebecca. Just do what makes you happy and forget about everyone else. The show is great and you rock!!!

PEACE & LOVE!!!!!

well wrote:

I woud rather see you and Rebeca together...
You guys are so sexy together that hurts...ai.ai. ai
love y'all
tchau

Jonathan M. Carr wrote:

JACKIE,

I am so sorry to hear about Doug. after seeing the show tonight I jumped on my computer to see if there was an update on how Doug was doing. I all most passed out when I read that he had passed. He will be missed.

Jon Carr

Lyn Casey wrote:

Jackie - I love your show, and while I'm heterosexual, you DO bring out "something" in me that I find very interesting...hmmm. Anyway, I was just curious as to why no one from Sky had gone by Doug's house after his missing work for a day or two and not calling in? Wasn't Brian supposed to be his best friend? I'm just wondering why BRIAN at the very least, didn't do a "drive by" and then maybe try to find Doug's ex or something??? I'm so sorry Doug is gone - he DID make it past his parent's age of 43, but just barely...how sad. My heart breaks for you all - stay focused but talk to Doug at least for a min. or so each day, ok? I'm of the belief that he'll really hear you! xoxo Lyn

Dana wrote:

Just wanted to let you know that I saw the show this week and I thank you for letting us in to your life once again. I felt very deeply regarding the Doug situation, because I too have lost both of my parents very young and have a fear of "not making it one more year." I thank God for each and every year I get.

You are making such a positive influance on so many levels. Thanks for keeping me focused :)

Dana
dsdavis@insight.rr.com
Columbus, OH

michael wrote:

i read on my comcast news page that doug passed away last november during taping of the show. i saw on tonights episode that you discovred his illness, will the show deal or even mention his passing.....i think its important out of respect to him and his being a big part of the show.....

Debbie Sturch wrote:

Jackie,I have never ever thought about being with a woman before, I am very secure in the fact that Im a healthy heterolsexual female! Well, that was untl I started watching your show and you! I know, what pressure huh? I just find you so amazing and Im looking at women in a whole new way jow. Ive had Bi-sexual gfs and i still like my guys ok, but you r so hot and all the women you date r hot, and i want to thank you for opening my eyes ti a new way of loving,,,,,i think,! love ya girl, keep it up! loved the show by the way! lmao.

Buzz Menees wrote:

I don't hav e myspace set up as of yet. I will send it to you soon. I am a single deaf father with two boys. I would love to be able to train like you guys. It is my dream in life to be able to look good, strong and healthy. I have always been chubby imost of my dayw. I did lost a bunch of weight once when I was like great. because I felt good about myself for the fist ime in a long time. Unforutanely I don't have the money for something like this. I have two boys and a "partner" to take care off. .On top of all that I am part time student at maryville unversity.
Wish you teh best lof luk with Skylab..... so

shaky wrote:

Hi folks. I love watching Workout but I'm getting a bit 'overwhelmed' with Jackie's stuff.
Let's see more of the work with the clients and how that interaction helps to change and create life rather than the silly homosexual drama that is being played up ( and out).
I love that Jackie's getting over that weirdness that we call Mimi but enough is enough. This isn't important in ANY scheme of things.

If there is to be a season three it'll be about muscles not about thee!

carmelgirl wrote:

Hey Jackie, I just watched tonights episode and am now watching a repeat of tonights show. OMG! Drama. I smell jealousy in the air. I think Jesse is more into you than being said. Oh what the heck with everybody do your thing, but in the end make sure you pick someone you can see yourself being with long-term. Hey for now have fun and make sure both of your girls know what it is therefore nobody gets their feelings hurt(Ms. Rebecca). Oh Zen and Greg should hook up they'd make a cute couple. Once again I am very sorry to hear of everyone's lost(Doug). Take care God Bless and keep doing your thing!

Curt Dalton wrote:

Jackie,
I think you lost half of your fans tonight with your scene at the restaurant. Your energy changed, the entire table left you, and you seem to just write it off as "I want to have fun" so I can do what I want to people. America watched and the whole audience and your own trainers knew you had gone from a place of positive and high energy to your lower self, and into a selfish, uncaring spot. Everyone deserves respect and has feelngs, you flaunted you power as Boss and as "tv star" to do what you pleased with two different people, not 10 minutes apart.
The trainers did not leave you because they were all jealous either, they left because what you did was wrong and since they want to keep their jobs, they have to just walk away. I hope you regain your positive light and can shine as a motivational person for American again, but after that episode, I think alot of viewers won't tune in again. I think if I Tivo'ed the eposide it was over 15 minutes of you making out with different people. Has that what the show has come to? It is turned into a LA dating show, instead of the small business owner trying to make it show.
You tell the world you are better than this, now show it.

FitFiend wrote:

Jackie, it is great that you find yourself with two women who are good at communicating now. And, you do come off like a pimp in this episode. But, your first time making out with Rebecca was that night when Tiffany showed up. To us viewers, it didn't really seem that clear that Rebecca knew all about Tiffany at that point.

jill wrote:

Why didn't the office try to do more to track Doug down? I assume there was some contact info on Theo, who could have let you know what was going on w/Doug sooner. It just seems a little too long to go (one week) without seemingly doing more to try to find him. When someone is MIA, doesnt it go through your mind that possibly there is a health issue involved? I had a client noshow, and left a message stating my worry, hoping everything was fine, and it turned out it wasnt, he almost died from a drug reaction. My question is how much was edited out that we the viewers will never be aware of? Because at this point, I am left feeling that there wasnt much of an effort to find Doug.
To change subjects, having just watched this episode, Jackie, can you now put yourself in your workers shoes and see how you came across to them, making out w/an employee (ethical problem in most situations) and then turning around and having your person of interest show up?

Are you not afraid of a sexual harrassment issue?

You have made me smell my stinky dog in a completely different way by the way.

Chris wrote:

Jackie- I have no problem with your relationships or lifestyle. But not matter what your sexual orientation - it shows no class to show-off one love interest in front of another. No matter what conversations you and Rebecca had prior or after that restaurant episode - that was embarassing to her and big-time mind games. Maybe you should talk to your shrink about your need to control and dominate in relationships. Best of luck.

pamela couch wrote:

I really enjoy this show but I have a hard time believing that someone has smart and professional as Jackie seems would be shown making out and acting like that. I don't care if its men or women or whatever it just seems out of character.

Ashley M. wrote:

Jackie,
OH JACKIE!! What are we going to do with you?? My girlfriend and I are completely obsessed with your show and with you!! We love you to death and think you are an amazing person, but we are very very very upset with you!!! VERY!!! We understand that you and Tiffany have a history but that doesn't give you permission to be a complete jerk to the girl you just made out with five minutes ago!! You completely ignored her and turned all your attention towards Tiffany. How would you have felt?? Rebecca likes to say that she was not hurt but you can totally tell that she is very hurt. It sometimes looked like she wanted to cry!! :( Like we have told you before we think that the two of you (meaning Rebecca) are a beautiful couple and would like to see that continue!! We understand that you have a thing for Tiffany but sleeping with her right after you made out with Rebecca probably wasn't the best idea you've ever had and probably isn't the best way to go about thinkgs!! We love you to death and hope that everything goes great for you!! We just want what is best for you and for Rebecca because we like her very much also!! We are very excited for next weeks episode!! Love you lots!! Stay hott!!

Shannon Walsh wrote:

I am so sad about a man that I have never even met. Through the way he showed his kindness, love and friendship to people I can not help but tell you how upset I am by Doug falling ill and passing away. It really makes me want to tell you all how lucky you were to be graced with such a wonderful human beings presence. I am just a stay at home mom of two little boys from Kansas and have really enjoyed the show now since the start and I just wanted to say how really sad I am tonight as I sit here and type on the computer and ponder what happend to Doug. I will have to write more about how much I love the show another time. I am really just to sad now.

Shannon

Cindy wrote:

Jackie, that was a little crazy but your having fun living your life and you seem so happy. Good for you! You are living your life to the fullest. I love your show. Today was the first time I went to the website and I saw "Doug Remembered" my mouth feel to the floor, I can't beleve it I'm so sorry for you lose.
Cindy F.

Wendy wrote:

My heart breaks, to hear him say his parents died at forty two. He truely was not alone, he had hundreds of people who cared, and still do. God bless.

Kassie wrote:

Team Rebecca!!!

Carole Schreiber wrote:

Loved the show tonight. I watched it again when they showed the encore. Sad about Doug though. Had me in tears. I love this show. It is my favorite.

jennifer burke wrote:

Ha, what if you took someone in raw and train them to be one of your personal trainers?? some one who has the will but not the background of ed. but is fit and would love to do what you do?? do you have what it takes to take some one there.? it would be show in side a show..if so i'am your person,fit,fem,very out going,and ready to take it on...

Gregory in La wrote:

First, WOW .... I have so much to say, Jackie I love you - and I am so reminded of my coming out in Dallas, Studying voice with a fabulous lady so much like you, but a Former NYC Opera singer, my voice professor at SMU, and I was so Jesse. This last few years have been very difficult and currently at home in rural Louisiana, after having worked, loving life, and the openness and diversity you all have. (and can't wait to get back.) But happening into this show, was like such a desperately needed evening "hanging out" with such beautiful, divirse, sweetly honest, passionate, "extended family " has been a sweet kiss from heaven. I'm now more of Doug's age and was so struck by him .. I laughed and cried with you all ..& in just coming to the site for the first time i was SO sad... so many of our best... stolen so early.... .in fact I rarely blog like this or do the "fan" thing .. but I was too moved not to say sweet thanks for putting yourselves OUT there, unabashadly... It's the hottest of this genre show to come around in a while, maybe ever!!! Hope there's much more to come. xoxo gregory in louisiana :)

tina cole wrote:

i luv the show.got hooked on it in march at work, so i see wat i can of it.my heart goes out to u all n doug.didn't kno about him until i read the blogs!heartwrenching. i think u all n the show are awesome. also being a lesbian i can relate.never did like mimi. sorry but she seemed to possessive n selfish.if my girlfriend did wat ur doin i'd be behind her 200%! omg it wouldn't hurt for me to loose 25lbs. keep spreadin the love!:)

tina cole wrote:

i luv the show.got hooked on it in march at work, so i see wat i can of it.my heart goes out to u all n doug.didn't kno about him until i read the blogs! i didn' watch the whole show cuz of work.heartwrenching. i think u all n the show are awesome. also being a lesbian i can relate.never did like mimi. sorry but she seemed to possessive n selfish.if my girlfriend did wat ur doin i'd be behind her 200%! omg it wouldn't hurt for me to loose 25lbs. keep spreadin the love!:)

Victor Serrano wrote:

I'm saddend that Doug is no longer with you awesome SkySportSpa family he was the most kindest and gentle man that anyone could meet plus i thought that in the episode with him and Erika celebrating their birthdays together was touching cause it makes people realize that no matter the ups and downs you have there would always be love and supprt from your family and friends.

kathy watts wrote:

jackie as usual u ROCK HONEY. Prayer's and love go out 2 Doug. keep up the good work, becouse u r a positive role model for all of us you go girl.
Kathy

Rubina wrote:

Hi Jackie. I just wanted to say that I think this last episode didn't show you in a good light. I thought it was rude how you and Rebecca were all over eachother at the restaurant and then as soon as your old flame came in you ignored Rebecca. I too own a business and I think it's really not that professional when you start dating your employees or clients.

I really enjoy watching the show very much, all of you trainers are so great but I do wish the show would focus more on the training instead of your personal life.

I must say that I am glad you left your old partner and it's good to see you having fun. I will keep Doug in my thoughts and prayers.

Cyndi J wrote:

Dear Jackie -- I absolutely find your show amazing and wish I could train with you! I found your show when I too was training and working out after surgery 2 years ago - I found a great trainer, my eating habits changed and I did lose weight (41 lbs) but I find it a constant battle and I find myself making too many excuses - but I am persistent and your words and your trainers' words are all so inspirational --- I get right back to it --- but again --- back to tonight's show - my heart does go out for you and your staff --- Doug seemed to be such a wonderful person and I too know what it is like to lose a co-worker and friend and so suddenly too... but glad to know he left an impact on those all around him --- he may be gone physically from this world -- but not forgotten - Keep up the wonderful work ~ Cyndi

Chris wrote:

Jackie,
your show is one of my absolute-must-watches on t.v. I am a fitness-freak myself and I admire your strong vision and drive for your company.
Also, your ability to expose yourself personally and professionaly is amazing. I can only imagine how invasive the camera's are into all aspects of your life. And though I may not agree with all of your decision making I have no place to make judgements. Your leadership, compassion and desire for excellence in all you do speaks volumes.
Keep it up

Pamela wrote:

I have watched your show from the start, and my favorite trainer is Doug and to know he passed away has made me feel very sad, I lost my own brother a year ago and its hard to see someone you love and care about pass away, I hope you put a part of him in your show to let us all know what happen, My Prayers are with you and your staff and keep up the good work you do make a differance in others life.

sheila wrote:

I couldn't believe it when your therapist asked you if you were attracted to people that you wouldn't have been a year ago. Dr. Shirley is good. You just got out of a relationship your trainers/friends should be happy your having fun. Best of luck to you. Hope you're doing a third season.

Joe Perry wrote:

Love the show, You are one great lady ,lots of class.

stephanie wrote:

Hey Jakie--

I am 19 and looking in to becoming a trainer. Do you have any advice to which certificate program is best?

Thanks,

Steph

Jodi wrote:

I really enjoy the show for several reasons, however, I do not understand why there was no explanation of Doug's passing when most viewers know he passed. I realize you have a show to run and suspense to build, but I think there should have been some information or moment for Doug this week or in weeks previous. I know the season is dedicated to him but it just seems tacky to make the viewers watch episode after episode knowing he passed and waiting for some understanding of what happened. It is real life and death after all, not a sitcom. Just a thought.

anarisea millgrave wrote:

Jackie i so love u and Rebecca i'm in love with u to i hate jesse an ass the things he says. U and Rebecca look good together but what u did with tiffany at the dinner not cool rebecca looked uncomfortable.

Xiomara wrote:

Iam so broken hearted .. I feel my tears but cant express them because i'm beyond shock. Towards the end of the episode tonight I just thought about what a beautiful person Doug is and though his is gay I would marry him in a min..

I can not say more im tearing up ...

Lilly wrote:

I have questions about the character of each and every person on this show except for Doug. Thank heaven that his sweetness and vulnerability was captured as a memory for all of us. He will be missed. RIP Doug.

kennedy wrote:

I like your show the way it is.
It's a little bit of everything.

The title is not just about working out in a gym/training facility. In my eyes, the title refers to life in general. Life itself is a ,"Work Out"!

Between relationships and career/jobs, it can be a struggle to achieve the results you desire.

Stephanie Wood wrote:

Jackie-I am completely addicted to your show-the conversation that Doug had with his ex about not seeing another birthday was sort of eerie knowing that he was right-it is too sad for words.
Tiffany seems cool-but you and Rebecca are magnetic with your chemistry...i literally jumped off my couch last week when you kissed!HA

Roxybebito wrote:

I am so sad about Doug. It must be said, however, he always seemed to have a serene, mature, "saintly" quality to him. i wish the best t all who loved him.

splinterette wrote:

Jackie,
I really enjoy your show and your honesty. After this episode, I worried about Doug, first and foremost, but also about you. It’s weird to watch a tv show and feel protective of those (strangers) on it, but I really feel that way with you and Doug. I hope Doug is well, I wish the best for him and his boyfriend (or former – they seem like a really great couple.) Most importantly, I wish the best for you. After seeing how Mimi tore you apart I was really hopeful that you would find someone and it seems like you have found several! I have to say, though, that I’m worried about you being used for the camera. Just be careful and trust your instincts. You are a beautiful, intelligent, strong woman (I mean that in the social/emotional sense) – don’t forget that. Don’t let people take advantage of you. Trust your instincts – I know I keep saying that but seriously – trust your instincts!!!!

E

Michael wrote:

Good Bye Doug,
You are and always will be a inspiration to me, you gave me the wings to fly and made my heart full of love.

All My Love
Michael

McKenzie wrote:

There really is a whole other world of possibilities that have occured to me because I have watched your show, Jackie. Thanks for being such a strong and confident woman. I really needed a "role model",even if it is a little far-fetched to call you that, to learn and grow from as I wonder about my sexuality and the reprocussions of even exploring new things. As a young woman from a southern, religious and very "anti-homosexual" home, I find strength through your personal life. Thanks and you really do rock darlin.
P.S. - I have always worked out, but I'm more dedicated than ever now. Ya'll are truly inspiring!

Chrislynn Ahner wrote:

Dear Gang,
Hi,
Watching tonight's episode was extremely hard. Since I came to admire all of you guys in your own ways. I would like to thnk you Jackie. You made me realize even with a bad back I can exercise and lose weight along witha healthy diet too. As for the Tiffany and Rebecca deal I am rooting for Rebecca I like her. She has spunk in her.I am really sorry about Doug. I lost my oldest brother in 2005 to cancer. So, it really hit home to watch this episode tonight. My thoughts are out with you Brian because I know how close you two were together. God Bless everyone of you guys Peace, Staff Sgt. Leroy and Chrislynn Ahner

Joe wrote:

Hey Jackie-
I just wanted to say that I think the idea of the show Workout is great. But to my disappointment there is very little "workout" shown. It's just another reality show about someone's personal life. Maybe the show should be called, "Jackie: The Life of a Fitness Celeb". Sorry for being so harsh, but I would have expected more from a high profile fitness trainer and club owner.
-Joe

Gayna Lynn Holden wrote:

Hi, Jackie, I just want you to know that I have been watching your show for several years now and I really wish I could be there to work out with you and get my weight off. I am a 58 year old reitired school bus driver with back problems and all I do is gain weight. Can you hep me long distance?? Now about the show tonight, I am totally devistated about Doug. I did not know about his death. He was such a great person from what I could see on the show, he was very careing about everyone he worked with. What about is partner, is he still living? Jackie if you get this I would appreciate it very much if you could personally write to me. I am in a Gay relationship and have been for 11 years and I had been staright all my life until I met my partner. Thanks so much for having your show on so that we as gays and lesbanians don't have to hide. I really do love your show. thanks again. Regards to you and the whole team, Gayna Lynn Holden

Leka wrote:

OMG!!! This second season of Workout is out ragious. Jackie and Rebecca, who would have known. Although i must say that it is about time that Jackie left her old partner ;) Doug you're in my prayers home boy. Keep it up Workput Crew.

I think Zen is a hella hotie! ;P

Amanda wrote:

anyone who has noticed anything about this show jackie should know you dont need our sympathy. I am dying to raise up the money to come train with you. hahaha (your rates are pricy for me but I know worth it) you have inspired me to want to exercise and get into shape but I have this thing with my bipolar. maybe ill email you someday about it. and giving birth to 3 kids doenst help (all adoptions). Ya your on a tv show they like to show the drama so it gets more ratings but I think you truly are special and very real and honest with the world and those closest to you. I AM VERY SORRY ABOUT DOUG. I been waiting and waiting to see what happened and I love his character as a person he is so sweet. and I never would have guessed was sick at all. I hope he knows how much he was loved and respected by you his fellow trainers loved ones family and his fans at home /tear love you all *muah*

amanda

Louis Chavez wrote:

Hey Jackie!

I wanted to know if you had any tips or workout routines that help gain weight. I always see you guys training people to lose but what if you wanna gain?

casey wrote:

First off i want to say as a lesbo living in a W.A Subber (I cant spel) It is sooooooooo nice to see you jakie liven your life and being posative for those who have been out for a while and for those who are struling with their sexuality! So i love u jackie for your curage and honesty!!! Plus we have something incommen i have many well i have to be honest all my x g/f have been with only men before me and i stay fries with a lot of them. and i say go with it!!
but jessys commets and his atitude is old and im sorry he is exactlly like jak and that is probably why he got so mad. I just get so tired of hippocrits cause his attitude is just like some of those homophobes cause he is nocking something he dosent understand!
so do your thang and you do decerve to have fun and it is great to seeing you do it!!!

Goldie wrote:

So sorry to hear about Doug. He has been blessed in this life. God's plan for him in my opinion was to be there for his family. He was the caregiver for all of them. He is loved by everyone even the viewers who does'nt know him from a can of paint. Doug, be proud you lived this life according to Doug....there are'nt many people who can honestly say that about their lives.

Jackie....Jackie... Jackie What are you thinking. Again this is my opinion, Either you're going to break Rebecca's heart or she's going to break yours. While I understand the hell you've been thru with that previous relationship, but at least she was gay..Crazy, yeah....but gay. Rebecca has no clue, it just feels good to her right now. When she realizes that the same crap that goes on in heterosexual relationships also happen in homosexual relationships. Tiffany on the other hand... you were her first and trust me...being a straight girls first is an awesome position to be in.. cause if you do it right, she will be the one that will return. She experienced you, you two separated which means she went back to what she knew and felt comfortable with. Dont look now, but Tiffany is back with a whole new agenda...She's not that straight girl you knew back then... So...What to do, what to do? If you had to make a choice, Tiffany is the better woman for you. Deep down inside, if you dont know, let me tell you.... Tiffany, will be loving, loyal, true and devoted to you and we all want those things in our partner. Face it... Rebecca is your old relationship revisited.

Your show is a warm and welcoming event in history for all of us. I thank you from the bottom of my heart because you are sharing your life.. a Gay Life for the world to see.

And finally to the world. See... Gay people are human, we are not some freaks of nature.

The only difference between us and you, is you're not shunned for living your life, loving who you love.

Gypsy wrote:

Jackie - remember what goes around comes around. Would you want someone to treat you like you treated Rebecca?

Maria wrote:

I have been waiting all week for this episode. Once again I wasn't disappointed. This is by far the best show out there. I get so excited on Tuesdays waiting for Workout to come on. Keep up the good work. Because of this show I am starting to workout more. Thanks for everything.

Lisa Ryan wrote:

Jackie~
You just lost another fan, actually, if you were to count my friends and family members, you lost many tonight. I had so much respect for you and the show, umtil tonight's episode. The way you carried yourself, treated others, and started whining (made me think of Mimi), I was just extremely disappointed. And please keep in mind, I have been in a lesbian relationship for eleven years. I feel it's important to say that so you don't think for a moment that it's an anti-gay thing.
What's most important is Doug, the lack of respect your show gave this incredible man. You couldn't put aside all the adolescent lesbian drama, to share a bit more of what Doug was going through. How could a week go by, no word from Doug, and you find out a week later that he's near death. At the end of the episode there were no written or said words on Doug's behalf. It immediately goes into next week's drama, once again.
I was a fan of the show from day one, I couldn't imagine watching another episode.
We'll miss you Doug, God bless.
Lisa

Susan wrote:

Jackie, You didn't plan the disaster at dinner with Rebecca and Tiffany but your handling of it was so tasteless. You were very disrespectful towards Rebecca and seemed to shrug it off. And then your comments about getting the "better fish" over Andre..hmmm Please dont get so full of yourself that you become insensitive towards others feelings. And please, we don't really need to see all that making out. Be it heterosexual or homosexual, all that tongue is kind of nasty.

p.s. Congrats to you for having the courage to get out of that masochistic relationship with Mimi. Very toxic.

mia wrote:

Oh my gosh I was shocked to read about Dougs passing. When I was watching the show you could see that doug and his ex still had a lot of love for eachother and they both said so... it just makes you realize life is short and you never know whats going to happin let the ones you love know you love them when you can because no one is promised tomorrow.

sara l. wrote:

jackie I think you are a amazing and strong women. Since I started watching your show last season I can not miss one. I am so sadden for dougs loss he will be missed even though I did not know him personally I knew of him on the show and he was one of my favorites I just can't get over it. I also wanted to say that you should have as much fun possible , take it slow and enjoy. It will come when you least expect it.

Jeff wrote:

Jackie, the tears are rolling down my face.....my god! Doug is gone, many of us are shaken to the core by this news. peace out. Jeff

Lindsay Cobb wrote:

I have to admit that i rarely take time out of my busy day to sit down and watch TV, much less reality TV. In fact, I had never even seen one episode of Workout until this season started, and I now regret missing last season. I'm a complete addict now (but i love that it's on a 10 so it doesn't cut into my gym time, ha!), and I have absolutely fallen in love with you and your staff. You seem like wonderful people, and you seem so passionate about what you do. As an amateur fitness competitor, it's tempting for me to pack up and move across the country to just train at skysport (ha, i wish!).

Thanks for sharing your life, it's really enjoyable and I wish you nothing but the best! By the way, I love this quote from your blog: "Aspire not to be perfect, just to love and nurture the qualities you like best in yourself and work hard on the ones you don't." I'm going to live by that :)

lovelovelove,
Lindsay

Bianca wrote:

Jackie, you truly are a modern day heroine! I mean, that night at the restaurant obviously didn't show you in the best light but the fact that you owned up to it in your blog just shines a light on the fact that you are very self-aware and not just trying to make excuses about your misdeeds. You have also inspired me to give the gym a chance (once I give birth to my baby girl, that is) and really get healthy so I can be around for her in the years to come.

Also, I LOVE that you took over Doug's SkyLab client. She really couldn't ask for a better trainer to get her healthy and DAMN is she beautiful! I can't wait to see all of their results. It's so inspiring.

I lost my father very suddenly on January 28th of this year so the end of this episode was very hard for me to watch. It made me remember that I'm not the only one who's gone through such loss. You and the rest of the trainers are in my prayers. Keep up the good work and thanks for letting all of us into your gym for an hour every week!

polly wrote:

i'm watching "workout" tonight, tuesday. various episodes are airing back to back, and it's only truly compelling when the romantic element comes in. jackie and rebecca are great. jackie hugging a tall, exotic russian chick at a party is kind of fun for a few minutes.

jackie outside of the gym is interesting because you get glimpses of her as a person, not just a trainer. but i think the show could be more consistently interesting. it's like the gym side of the show... the people getting weighed in the water tank... doesn't have consistent entertainment value.

jackie is always interesting, and sometimes she's more attractive in certain scenes over others. but she will never cease to be a charismatic, attractive figure with the allure to make even straight women want to kiss her.

in jackie's latest blog, she said that many, many hours of footage are condensed into one hour. but while the footage is actually being shot, advice is to pump up the show with more romance, sensuality, passion, drama, frivolity, and, well, lesbian fun.

Tonia wrote:

I absolutely love this show. Being a heavy woman I have found that my life is very hard to deal with on a day-to-day basis with carrying around such an excessive amount of weight. I have to tell you, your show has inspired me. Not just the show as a whole, so to speak, but by you sharing your lives and the lives of your clients I feel more compelled to become that strong individual as you all are. Please send my regards to Doug and let him know that my prayers are with him. Thank you all again for sharing such a personal part of your lives.

linalainen wrote:

I love you Jackie, you are one of the people that has made me not stay in the closet. You have made me realize that I can be me, even if I did know it already.

Sadie wrote:

I have to say, this episode really made it clear that this season will highlight sex and relationships a lot more. I also found it to be rather accurate, but I understand why some have written that Jackie's attitude at the table with Rebecca and Tiffany put them off. Even in the lesbian community, true Alpha women are found threatening. Women are different from men (newsflash!)--the majority of us communicate in a non-direct way, and we have been socialized to put ourselves, our desires, after someone, or everyone, else.

Jackie is a classic Alpha, and is also dynamically comfortable with her sexuality, which many lesbians, frankly, are not. This could also explain Jackie's attraction to straight women, which put simply, is the case. My experience has been the same--straight women, or bi-women, are less threatened by sexually confident Alphas because there are more men who fit that than women. They're used to it in other words. So, when they meet a woman with that dynamic, they go for it, and Jackie feels perhaps more understood.
Bottom line--watch and learn. We must realize and accept that, as more women come out of the closet, we'll find a variety of personal style, politics, and approaches to life. I think Jackie serves as a great role model to women that you can be confident and in charge of your destiny (at least part of it) and still be feminine and sexy, too. I do think she needs drama in her relationships, and while Mimi Crazy may be gone, she is now having relationships (apparently--but so far some circumstances do seem, well, fabricated) in front of a television crew. That can't be helpful, but it does add drama. I just hope she's separating her *real* real life from the television life.

Eunie wrote:

Jackie, Glad to see your not all tied up with Rebecca. You had me worried there for a minute. Tiffany seems more real to me.You dissed Rebecca in front of everyone and she says shes not jealous?Hum.. Told you she loves the camera time. Sorry to hear about your loss .Doug will be missed.

lyn wrote:

Dude you're so cool because you're so real.

Amanda wrote:

Jackie, you are SO hot. Love the show.

ericka wrote:

where do i start? first i am so sad to hear of the loss of doug. he seemed to be such a wonderful person. a roll model for EVERYONE. he has touched my life in such a positive way. i strive to be so nice and caring. and please do not think that i am crazy. i usually do not write to celebrities. nor do i feel as if i know them. but your show has had a major impact in my life. coming from a small VA town, i have had to deal with racist, ignorant people all my life. so when i started watching your show, i felt well... educated. i was able to see a whole new world. and it is not the evil, bad world that i was taught it would be. thank you very much for that, for letting all of the world peer into you and your staffs personal lifes. your show has touched base with me in so many levels. from overcoming depression, wanting to working out, eat better, becoming a better friend/daughter, getting out of a 5 year relationship(like you as well) that well probably is just not right for me, to being educated to the world. i don't have words to express the impact that your show has had on me. plus like i said, i haven't ever written to anyone like this before. and i know my grammer and spelling stink (sorry). but i wanted you and everyone on your show (even your clients) to know that you all have touched me and moved me very much. thank you. THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH. i am a better person because of all of you. and p.s. i will always strive to have the kind spirit of doug. i know that i did not know him personally. but wow! he seemed so wonderful.
and to the owner of this site please if my comment is posted i do NOT want my email address posted on your web site. i am afraid that racist and mean people will send me hate mail. (in a little town everyone knows everything). and i am not ashamed of my new positive-educated world, i just don't want to stir the pot, if you know what i mean. and thank you for the opp. to be able to tell everyone on " work out" how they have touched my life.

Mary Fitzgerald wrote:

Last year you had a client who had hyo-thyroidism and that is my condition I am 56 I have had 2 trainers the 1st was great I have great muscle mass from him the 2nd trainer I developed a belly button hernia and surgery went well docter fixed me like a child I had great muscle no damage just fat....scared to get another trainer. Could you please do a segment on this topic you were the first to shed light on this problem that many women have. To not eat I will gain weight. L.A. Weightloss did not work due to their soy products which I cannot take. Due to thyroid disease you are allergic to soy. Glad to see you back for a 2nd season. I really enjoy your show because I have had trainers and yours are the best....I am 56 and weigh 310 most of it is relaxed muscle is what the surgeon said..amazing he said. Hard for me to get into a workout program. I have an eclipticle machine at home....I just look at it and the ball is out of the question that may have given me the hernia....HELP

DLD wrote:

Hi Jackie-Don't know how many of these e-mails you have a chance to read, but jut wanted to say how sorry I am about Doug's passing..know all of you will honor his memory by keeping up the good work & the scholarship fund is a great idea..think he would be very proud of that..as far as tonite's episode, I really enjoyed it, but am getting tired of everyone b****hing about you & Rebecca..Jesse & the whole group are all over21 and free to leave anytime..guess they don't want to let go of the "coattails" & celebrity..and JESSE NEEDS TO GET A FREAKIN' LIFE!!!! By the by, I sure you are waiting for my vote & I vote for REBECCA!!! LOL! keep up the good work & everyone keep Doug in your hearts...

Pat wrote:

Hi, I love you Jackie and think youve been through so much to get where you are now. You go girl keep up the good work and on your personal life!! I guess as ive gotten older you dont care what others think about what you do because you know its your life and your not hurting anyone then its all good.
Im so behind you and love your show wished I could afford your gym hahaha, But your great and your trainers are great as well and I pray that all is well with Jessie.
I feel like I know you now but lesbians all have a closness I think so keep up the good work I know its long hard days but you inspire so many people like me. :) So Thanks......Pat

P.S. where did you get your watch you were wearing in the episode at the Sushi bar where everyone found out about you and Rebecca making out. You had the T Shirt with an leather looking black cross on but your watch was black and kinda spikey?? and yeah id love to have an cool necklace like the trainers. Thanks again Pat from Houston

Bam Bam wrote:

Hey Jackie (Ms Pimp if your nasty),

I know MiMi is a thing of the past, but why make Rebecca suffer because you are not sure of your feelings? Now even though that is a very very dangerous path you are traveling, she should not be played. Yes, we are all connected. And what goes around comes back around - WATCH OUT!

Bam Bam

Pat wrote:

Too Jackie, Im so so sorry for your loss on "Doug" he seemed like he was so nice and sweet and caring. Very aproachable and seemedl like yall were very close he was one of my favorites on your show other then you. God bless you and the other trainers on the loss of him. Im truly sorry.

Pat

Azrel wrote:

There are an't any rules in enjoying life except for the ones we allow others to impose on us as well as those we set ourselves(though I do suggest moderation). With that said I thought it was fun, exciting, and admirable to see Jackie playing and having a good time with various people who jockeyed for her attention. The two suiters made a choice to engage, and Jackie had the joy of recieving. Of course her staff was in question; they don't live their lives in the way Jackie does. I really like Jackie, and I understand her journey in extensive ways. The only thing I have to say that may pose antagonistacally against Jackie's actions regarding making out with various females in the same night is a question. Jackie, if you were a mother of a daughter(s) would you like someone else to treat her as you're treating the two women you're fooling around with?? Life is a choice as is it's events within it. We have the right to choose. Jackie has the right to make out with hot chicks. Even if it's two in a matter of a few hours. :)LOVE

Lene’ wrote:

Hello, Jackie and, fellow fans.
First and foremost, my heart truly goes out to you and all whom suffer the pain of losing Doug. Obviously, by the posts here, many of us whom, are merely observers were affected by his gentle, sincere , loving spirit. His compassion shined through and it makes one wish for a friend like him in in ones life. , But MORE than that, I hope we can help his spirit live on in US by being the kind of person he was, to others . . . Thank you, Doug Blasdell . You will never know how many souls in this human family you touched and inspired with your tenderness.
And Miss Jackie "Get it Done" Warner... thank you and , YOU GO! You deliver inspiration in many ways that are not apparent on “Workout” . You have achieved what I was working toward in my life when that, amongst other things, were changed for me after I was hit head-on in an auto collision. Your presence on the show intrigued me and prompted me to read what I could find about your background . I found myself impressed. You seemed to have “Hit the ground running” . I know that there are constant obstacles and much criticism in life for a strong female forging ahead and by what you wrote at the top of this page it is clear that you give deep thought to them. So, I’d just like to encourage you to continue to focus the strengths that you have obviously , built in yourself and that have gotten you thus far and, to not take criticisms too hard as you learn from them . Please take heart. Some of us do know that the editing of the show greatly condenses the fuller story. I am so glad that you freed yourself from the pain of a tumultuous relationship. NOBODY deserves that and You are absolutely right, you DO deserve good things in your life so, go get em’ ! But, I do warn you , let us see another flaw and, we just might have to see that you are human!

dea26 wrote:

Sighs at Jackie. I really liked last season and thought you all were a blast but last nights 4-11 airing upset me enough to actually come on some blog of someone I don't know. I was mad that you were messing around with someone from work after you had recently had jesse in your office telling him to keep the gym 1st when it came to doug....pft at being professional. Adding in the way you sat there and kissed tiffany right in front of rebecca when you just outted yourselfs to the world.(and weather she smiles that off and stays your puppy dog make out girl or not is irrevelant) I am usually the mega lesbian that is annoyed by straight girls messing with the rainbow crew and wouldnt care about her feelings but this opened something up and i saw her face when she looked at you and if you watch that episode and see it......i really hope she got an apology from that one! and not one of those business type apologies that come from yuh arse and not your heart.
Between that, losing doug, and Andre giving the whole "creepy machismo" looks at rebecca that make your skin crawl and your stomach turn. I'm just blah about where I think the show is going and worried about how you are trying to make yourself happy after mimi and not really paying attention to how it affects the people around you....when the fact is screwing around with these people is going to shut down the fact you think you are a good person in the long run.

Oh Oh Oh and just to add in.........stop wasting yuh cash on the therapist....she is a dip and you are paying money to hear yourself talk when you can do that for free.

I probably won't be watching much anymore unless there is actually something positive about the show. It's starting to feel like bad dyke drama that you can find at any bar in the country and it pisses me off because I liked it and actually thought it might be a plus on the tube.

ok i will shut up on the whole rant and just say that im sorry that you all lost doug....he seemed to have nothing but good energy and love for yall....

im out

Treva wrote:

Jackie I watched your show last night, yes I also think you should of not made out with Rebecca in the bathroom (even though that was where my first kiss was also with the first and only woman in my life). I am pulling for you and Tiffany she reminds me of Melissa Etheridge (who I love). Tiffany seems so real and honest with you, Rebecca well she did admit she was the flrity type and it seems her mind could change on a whim. She reminds me of a girly girl and needy. Tiffany is not afraid of getting dirty and having fun. I cannot see Rebecca in a batting cage.
As for Jesse walking out at the resturant it is all about the "drama" I think he needs to concentrate on his own life before throwing stones. Love the show I think I am addicted....

fifi wrote:

I was shocked & saddened to hear about Doug. I am surprised he had nobody who would have called you (his work) earlier & surprised that none of you (from work) went to his home or tried to track down his (ex) partner earlier.
He was my favorite because of his sweetness. How tragic.

Kim Perrotta wrote:

Jackie,
Just want to say enjoyed the show as always BUT.......
I was a little upset that we had to wait until the last two minutes about Doug, then we were left hanging. From the previews I thought it would have been a little more regarding Doug.
I wish you well in your new journey through single hood and I hope that while going back and forth with Rebecca and Tiffany you do not get hurt or lose any friends.
I really think that the reaction from the trainers was a little over the top........from all of them. Do what makes you happy!!
Look forward to the next show!!
Kim Perrotta
Hyde Park, N.Y

Shanell wrote:

Jackie, you are sexy as hell. And thats's coming from a straight woman. How long has your body looked so awesome? What do I have to do to get into shape like you?

Jackie wrote:

Watching last nights show was very difficult knowing that Doug is no longer with us. I too found myself watching him cough and wishing that there could have been something that someone could have seen or done early enough to have made a difference. I really struggled watching the part where he was talking about how he had lost his family and how he really never expected to live to the age of 43, much less 44. Hindsight really is 20/20 isn't it. As Brian said, things like this really make you stop and think about your own personal issues and appreicate every moment. I have a wonderful family who I love very much and I am very, very lucky. My heart breaks for Doug and I have thought about Chaos and how much he must miss him. I hope Doug's client (that you took over) is doing well and not only succeeds with her goals but is able to use this as an inspiration in her life. I hope she finds comfort in the kind words that Doug had for her. He is in a much better place and I am sure is an Angel in your Sky Jackie.

Kim Perrotta wrote:

Jackie,
I wrote a message to Rebecca as well I really think you need to be honest with her about what you want with her....pushing her away and acting like she was not there because of Tiffany ( despite your past) was wrong......I do not blame her for being upset or now feeling confused...when she asked you if you wanted her to back off you said no and then you turned away from her....not only did YOU get grief from the staff but remember so did she!!!!!
Sorry I know I wrote something earlier but after writing to Rebecca I just had to come back and say this.....

Kim Perrotta
Hyde Park, NY
ladyfirekp@optonline.net

PS...If you all started that memorial fund for education etc. in Doug's honor that is a great idea! I wish it much success.

ryan wrote:

i was completely floored by the news of Doug's death. He was an inspiration and a hero to me, even though i didn't know him personally. A person like him is so rare in this world. My heart goes out to all you guys and everyone else who knew him.

Jan wrote:

Jackie: Tonight's show was so difficult with Doug showing so much caring and compassion with Chao and I'm watching, knowing full well where this is going. It would be so nice for Chao to come on the show occasionally. I wonder how he is doing and coping with the loss of Doug. I would hate for the show to intrude in his life, but now I feel like he is a part of my family with you and the other trainers and we viewers would like to check in on him from time to time.

On a lighter note, I think you are making a mistake with Rebecca. One of the things that attacted me to the show was how much I admired what you had accomplished with your business. You were an inspiration; especially since it seems as if you did it all yourself. This admiration has now been undermined by what appears to be some off-hand sex play with an employee. I agree with your trainers; not jealousy, just good business sense. (That is was with a silly piece of fluff like Rebecca makes it even worse! Didn't you get enough foolishness with Mimi?)
Otherwise, thanks for a glimpse into your life every week. This must be difficult sometimes, but it makes for a great show.

Tucker wrote:

Great show...except for the part where you are "dipping your pen in the company ink." Go back to focusing on professional training and the struggles of your clients to stay fit and healthy, instead your own sexual escapades. You came across as unprofessional and callus...and a bit trampy. I was surprized that your therapist did not point out how unprofessional your relationship is with Rebecca and the stress that your actions are bringing to your staff. At the very least set a better example. TV depicts enough stupid people--clean it up a bit on your show and do what you want off camera However, use better judgement with your staff.

And, are you so focused on having sex that you could not have taken more time to find out where Doug was during his final days? Obviously you knew he was not on vacation, so why didn't you contact his ex-partner? The footage at the Dialysis clinic showed that Doug was doing well. Again, you came across as unprofessional and callus...and a bit self absorbed.

Honestly, I am not sure that I will keep watching your show if you are just going to make-out with your staff and carry on like a horny pubescent flake.

danaleewood wrote:

Jackie, I see that some are not getting it that Doug died.
I am floored. I found out by some other friends that read about it in the TV Guild and I just sobbed as I watched tonights episode when he was showing signs of being sick. I could tell you were uncomfortable but who wouldnt be with such a private moment on camera. I dont think there are any rules as to how to be when you learn someone you love is so sick and now we all know he died. I am so sorry to you and your staff. He had such a kindess and gentle spirit. Your show is the best.... and I am hooked and inspired to go on a diet and work out myself. Finally a TV show that I cannot sit and eat while watching...
It shows you care... I can feel it clear up in Vista, CA...
Keep up the inspiration..
Hugs
Dana Leewood
singer/songwriter

BassGirl wrote:

JW--
Please DO NOT break Rebecca's heart. She's a jewel from what I can tell. And as much as she's saying the stuff with Tiffany is not bothering her, the camera is painting a different picture. You were in bad form during the sushi dinner when Tiffany showed up. You don't shift your attention totally like that if you care about the other person. The right thing to do would have been to pull Tiffany aside, away from the table and ask her to leave or to meet you at your house later. The dinner was about the TRAINERS celebrating Zen. Tiffany didn't belong there even if she knows everyone. You went from totally hot to so cold w/ Rebecca in the blink of an eye. I'm gonna be mad at you if Rebecca's heart gets broken. Seriously....Bad, bad form.
BG

Branmuffin wrote:

Seeing Doug on this episode was so sad. It gave me chills when he told his (ex) partner that he would never have another B'day party, and his partner begging him to never say that again! I was crying my eyes out. I can't imagine how hard it was for all those who loved and cared for him to see & hear that! I am sorry that such a sweet man with such a gift with people should be taken at a time when the world needs more like him! Please, does anyone know if his partner got his transplant? Is he well?

Branmuffin wrote:

Seeing Doug on this episode was so sad. It gave me chills when he told his (ex) partner that he would never have another B'day party, and his partner begging him to never say that again! I was crying my eyes out. I can't imagine how hard it was for all those who loved and cared for him to see & hear that! I am sorry that such a sweet man with such a gift with people should be taken at a time when the world needs more like him! Please, does anyone know if his partner got his transplant? Is he well?

Joan K. wrote:

HI Jackie,
All I can say again is that I love, love the show and am so sad about the loss of your friend Doug, Life isn't fair at times and this is one of them. Now when I hear the phrase, only the good die young, I will always think of Doug, he was a very good person.
As always, I wish only the best for you.
A Fan

Donna wrote:

Jackie,
You are the bomb!!!! I had to laugh at last nights episode with both girls at dinner. How uncomfortable but you handled it just fine. I don't care what anyone says.

I am just in shock about Doug. I am soo sorry to you and all your trainers for your loss. Doug was so sweet and empathic. I will miss him as well.

You and your team are all awesome, I love to watch, see you next week.

keka wrote:

I love this show very much.Im really glad that people are getting to see your life for what it is,that you have this very strong personality,and are not afraid to expose it.
In all it is that you do, for sure its not being taken for granted.Finally someone is showing how much honesty will do no harm,and that communication is the key ingredient.
continue what you do...it helps us all.

Shirley wrote:

APPLAUSE, APPLAUSE!!!
Jackie, you have truly opened the door for so many women to know that it is ok to explore those feelings of curiosity. I am 41 years old, and 3 years ago, my best friend and I kissed. The first time for both of us with a woman...It was absolutely the most tender moment in my life. It was so much more than a kiss. It was a connection that I had never felt before and I am sure it is what Rebecca felt when the two of you kissed...
Your friends are all so fortunate to have you in their lives. You are a level headed woman and I think that making out in the ladies room is quite a thrill!! You go girl!! Best wishes, Shirley

gigi wrote:

jackie! i think you're fabulous and i NEED to know where you buy your funky clothes! i love your style!

xoxo (sorry, rebecca!)

JoAnn wrote:

Love your show! .......but so SORRY about sweet and kind Doug passing.

Ceil wrote:

I've been watching the show since the beginning and really enjoy it. Jackie, I am really glad you dumped Mimi. She has major issues, however, that wasn't the reason I decided to write. I have never "blogged" before but I feel so heartbroken over Doug's passing and felt that I had to say something. Doug has been my favorite since the very first episode. There were qualities that he possessed that made you feel like you wish you could know him. When I noticed the memorial to him in the first episode this season my heart sank. I had not heard of his passing before that, and I have to say that I feel like I've suffered a personal loss.That probably sounds a bit crazy, but it's true! I hope you guys who really knew him and loved him will not let him be forgotten.

LJ wrote:

Jackie - you are still my dream girl. I've done exactly the same thing at exactly the same place in my life. You are feeling a freedom you haven't felt in 5 years -- be yourself, go with the flow of life and have a good time. Anyone who understands your journey and loves you will get it. You don't judge others, you are evolved beyond that -- you deserve the same.
wishing you: hey hey ayin (72 names; unconditional love)

shakira wrote:

jackie u have really inspired me to be able to be comfortable with who i am. U know a lot of people just dont understand what im going through. They say, but youre very pretty what made u go that way. I used to say I dont know but your show has inspired me, I have a different answer and now i say that it has nothing to do with looks, its who u are and who u feel comfortable with. Look at u Jackie u are hot. You and Rebecca look so good together. So out with the old (Tiffanie) and in with the new (Rebecca). U have to learn that u ahve already experienced Tiffanie and now its Rebbecca's turn. Give it a try. Oh and im very sorry about doug it must be very hard to hear bad things about him after all yall been through.

Stacy wrote:

Hi Jackie,
I saw the show last night and was very concerned about Doug. He always seemed like such a caring and wonderful guy. I went to the web page for the first time and wanted to get an update on his situation and was heart broken when I heard that he had passed. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys. I know it can be hard to lose someone that close to you. Stay strong!
I really enjoy watching the show. You guys are great!!!

JenDuty wrote:

Jackie,
i absolutely love this show. i am almost 19 years old, young i know. you have inspired me so much. Like you, i've known since i was a kid that i was gay. i didnt understand it for a very long time. My family is very against it. My father doesnt know. My mom found out by accident a little over three years ago and has yet to accept it. She has never even been able to admit it, not even to herself. In her mind, it's not true and that one day she will wake up and it will have all just been a dream. I love the fact that you run your own businesses. Doing that has always been a dream of mine. And you being such a strong gay female, has really inspired me to work harder to make my dreams a reality and grow so much more than my family ever could. Not to mention, you've got my sorry butt back in the gym. Thanks.

P.S. Good luck with the ladies!!!
P.P.S. I am so sorry about Doug. He seemed like a really nice guy. I wish I knew someone like him. He will be remembered. It's awesome that you are sharing what happened to him through your show.

fran browning wrote:

I am a trainer in New York learning as I go. I learn alot from watching the show. I think you all are inspiring thank you. Sorry about Doug. Also think Jackie is hot, not a lesbian, I just think your hot.
Fran

shakira wrote:

sometimes a lot of my guy friends feel very much like Andre. They are mad that their girlfriend might be cheating on them and not even with a man a woman a hot woman at that. They seem angry and its really childish. Girls have turned out on me, and i cant help but feel guilty. I feel like its my fault. Then I say it was her decision not mine. Your show really inspires me and I love u lots

Linda Giles wrote:

Did I miss something on last nights show with regard to Doug?
I read another blog and they talked like Doug was not among
the living. I understood that he was in the hospital, in a drug
induced coma, but was expected to be back to work within
a couple of weeks. I hope I'm right. Neat guy! Last nights
was really the first time I've been motivated to do something
about my icky body. I know the programs are already done,
but I sure hope there is more about the individuals you are
working with and what type of workouts they're doing.
I do enjoy the show. Thanks!

maranda wrote:

Jackie hey sexy lady! I watch your show just to see YOU! Id chose Rebecca or ME!, If I was you something about Tiffany bothers me! By the way EMAIL ME!!!!!

Julene wrote:

I just love the show! I am so happy to see Jackie finally dating other women. It was time to move on whether or not she wanted to. Jackie inspires me and makes me feel like I can do anything. I've always been overweight but ever since I started watching the show, I've been working out and trying hard to shed some of these extra pounds. (200 to be exact!) Thanx for allowing us into your life Jackie. It means more to some than you'll ever know.

Deb wrote:

I enjoy the show, but you totally came across as an arrogant, egotistical a-hole in this episode. It is cool to be physically beautiful and fantastically fit, but it is not cool to flaunt it and make it the most important aspect of yourself. You need to try to be more personable with your staff and your clients. Everything you say seems like it comes out of a manual on how to do business. Be sincere. Also, a little modesty goes a long way. Try not to toot your horn too much...I mean seriously, you couldn't even hit a ball at the batting cage. :-) I think you and Rebecca should have a pull-up contest. Be nice to her, she is doing all she can for you.

paige wrote:

I would like to see more about the clients you serve, adtheir progress.
I also feel that your beach bootcamp would have been more effective if you were included in the training. You exert your power as a boss, while what you should have been doing was showig your leadership by stepping up and digging in as well.
Also, you really remind me of Susan Powter. If things don't work out with Rebecca, Maybe you can hook up with her since you have so much in common.

pam wrote:

Love the show, which surprises everyone who knows me. However, last nigth's episode with all the close-ups of the kissing and stuff made me flip the channel. I was dying to see the part about Doug but it lost some of it's affect because I couldn't get over the fact you allowed so much of the PDA on the air. Please edit,edit, edit!! I beg you!!
Thanks!

Teresa Dye wrote:

Jackie and her "crew" are so awesome. I find myself living vicariously thru her escapades. Jackie I know your having fun and it looks great on you! I can't help but feel that little Rebecca is good for you. You both just glow when your together. She is a hoot and from one Leo to another laughing is so very important to our well being. I tend to workout when I watch you guys and your Marothon session last night has me hurting soooooo good! SkySports rocks almost as much as Lady Vol Basketball!!!!! Go Tennessee!!!!!! Love, Love, Love you ALL!!!!!

Betsy wrote:

I truly hope that we learn a bit more about Doug and his illness in the coming episodes. He was my favorite of your trainers. My deepest sympathies to you and your staff as you continue to grieve.

Shannon wrote:

I wanted to express my deepest condolences for your familys loss of Doug. You guys are a family, its obvious in watching your show, you love and fight like family!! haha Jackie you said in your blog how sad it made you to see Doug cough because you know of what was to come, I felt EXACTLY the same way the minute I saw that...so very sad. Ironic to me as well that his ex whom he obviously still loved very much, had kidney issues then Dougs kidneys failed during his sickness. Anyway, stay strong you guys....and I think your show has lots of life lessons as anyones would it they where filmed 24/7. You guys just keep being yourself, its good to see a reality show that does seem "real" and has alot to offer people who may be going through the same things! I can tell you its made me wanna get back to working out. I have a kidney disease as well and seeing Dougs boyfriend still make it into the gym inspires me that even when I feel bad I could be in there doing a little something..thanks for that :) God Bless!

Astrid wrote:

Jackie,
I love your show and I watch every single episode every single time they show them, re-runs and all!
I have to say that I got a very icky feeling on this latest episode. I agree with one of the comments above in thinking that you might have lost a lot of viewers this time around. The way you were depicted was horrible. You seem insensitive, bitchy, cocky, sex-crazed, and on, and on... I am a big fan of the show and I've seen a lot better from you.
I totally agree with the staff's reacting towards you and Rebecca at the restaurant. It was very unprofessional on your part and there is definitely a sexual harrassment feeling in the air. OMG, and when I saw Tiffany joing the dinner party and the way you behaved towards her and Rebecca, I have to say, even I felt like leaving you there, like everyone else did!!!
Please tell me that this is not what breaking up with MIMI has done to you! You've now become one of those nightmares out there in the dating scene that are just there to have a good time and they don't care about hurting others because they feel they have been hurt a lot and it is now their turn to go at it.
You know that the Rebecca thing is just cute and flattering to you, but she is not what you want, and I feel you should let her down now before you really hurt her. You say you respect her and Tiffany both, but that is not what you are showing off to the rest of the world.
Come on Jackie... BRING OUR BELOVED JACKIE BACK!!!

Michael wrote:

What an exciting episode. Loved to see you and Rebecca hook up until Tiffany showed up at the Restaurant. You totally dissed Rebecca though. Uncool !! So sorry about Doug...he seemed the type of guy who ya want to keep in this world.....why him? Where was his best friend "apparently he says" Brian during his week out of work? Some best friend !
Erika and Jackie are the hottest on the show !! Thank god that Mimi is gone....couldn't stand her.

Colleen wrote:

Jackie, c'mon now.....don't do Rebecca that way. She is adorable. I totally understand that after getting out of a
not-so-great relationship you wanting to be a playa, but
I hope you can still stop and appreciate a beautiful woman who
obviously is into you.

As for Jesse, I want him to shut the f*** up! Is he twelve?

MK wrote:

Jackie: I too am an entrepreneur (in the medical field) So, from one power woman to another: Whatever you do, dont let your heart rule your head. You have a thriving business to run firstmost and foremost..you do have a reputation to uphold. Enjoy your social life, maintain a balance for yourself between work and play and always try to make time for yourself..quality alone time is so important and key to revitalize your energy level..say "no" comfortably and selfishly in a healthy way. You are an intelligent woman...you have a lot going for you. Behave in your own best interest and always be humble. From one L to another...MK

Ana wrote:

Sorry to hear about Doug's illness and passing. Hope you all are doing well and my deepest sympathy goes out to you and God Bless each and every one. Your show is the best
Thanks for sharing your life with us.

Jeannette wrote:

As much as I have enjoyed watching your program in recent months, I'm beginning to feel like Reality TV has met The L Word! The intrigues between staff members and, in particular, your own attitudes about dating and sexual escapades with your trainer are a bit much! As I watched two very lovely women make out in the bathroom of a nice restaurant, I cringed because the writing is on the wall. While you yourself might be a strong, lesbian, get-in-your-face kind of woman that doesn't dance to anyone elses drummer, your trainer Rebecca is obviously smitten with you. And the fact that your entire staff left the restaurant after you two "came out" to them says alot about what your behavior did to them. Yes, of course, its "their" problem, and that would work if it wasn't for the fact that you are their employer and leader. Unfortunately, you don't get to simply be "human" when you lead people, nor do you get to make dumbass mistakes like playing kissie face with one of them. They need you to be someone they can trust and look up to and exposing your own vulnerabilities doesn't win that for you as their boss. I'm not sure how long I'll watch this program. I have felt the loss of Doug as well as everyone else and this gentle man is certainly going to be missed. And, I, too, have wondered why no one called to see what happened to him for the week he went MIA. But, showbiz is showbiz, right?

Lisa wrote:

I was speechless last week. Found some words, hoping they make sense.

Jackie -- forget what anyone says: YOU GO GIRL! If petty, jealous, selfish BS hasn't gotten in your way before, it won't bring you down now. Had you been a guy, this would not have even been an issue. Play on playa, play on.

As someone who is just now being comfortable with her place in this world, you are an inspiration. You have reminded me that anything is possible. Faith has been restored. You are my new hero in every sense of the word.

Good God --- I still love this show...

With great respect and admiration,
Lisa

Jeez wrote:

I'm watching the 4/10 eppy right now (on Tivo).

Whoa, Jackie!! You're a P-I-M-P!!!! :)

Skaboo wrote:

Jackie;

Watching Doug on tonights episode really hit home for me. I so understand what its like to have lost family sooner than later, taking care of them and holding their hands has they go. As Doug said it really does make you look at life in a total different way. I also understand why he didn’t contact his friends sooner with his medical situation. He knew (as I know) that friends love you no matter what. No matter how busy they are, they still want to know. However, keep in mind, he loved you more. My friends (i.e. family) get on to me all the time about not keeping them updated on my mental and physical health. But I don’t tell them because I love them so much. You might not understand, but I know Doug would.
I wish you continued success in work and play.
Regards,
Skaboo

Raquel wrote:

Jackie, first, I cried my eyes out watching this episode knowing what happened to Doug.What a beautiful human being.Prayers for you and everyone at SKYSPORT.I also wanted to say that you,(like Doug) are a true inspiration to people who watch you.You are strong,beautiful,intelligent,charming..I could go on forever.I am completely on the straight and narrow,but you have something..I cant explain it,but I am completely attracted to you in Several ways! I can totally understand Rebecca and Tiffany being attracted to you.There are great looking guys on your show but I cant pull my eyes off of you.It's a little strange for me,but you're sexy as hell,and more of a man than most I know.(In a good way).You are the perfect combination of tough,proud,understanding,and vulnerable. Anyways I love you to death..MiMi didnt deserve you and I hope you have the amazing/happy/fulfilled life that you deserve.

Beth wrote:

My condolences to all of you at the health club on the passing of Doug. He seemed to be a genuine, caring individual, with a vested interest in the postive life changes of his clients. I'm sure he'll be missed by many people.
As far as your show, I'm definately with the people who find the positive, healthy life changes you impart onto your clients the most compelling part of the show. Although I have enjoyed seeing some of the personal issues you have grappled with as a late-30's woman (I'm 42 myself), I have to say that the petty staff squabbles, and the trials and tribulations of your love life detract from what I find interesting about the show. Just as a show like "Miami Ink" is so interesting because it mainly focuses on the "work" of the tatto shop, and the clients' individual stories, I think that your show really shines when it concentrates on what you all do best- put people on the path to health.
I've been a mostly on-but sometimes-off exerciser since my early 20's (before that I was an avid walker, because I had to- no car!), and as I mentioned, I am now into my 40's and looking towards all inspiration to maintain a healthy weight and a healthy lifestyle.
I'm hoping your show's producers will realize what a service your show does for people dealing with non-traditional sexual orientation (ie. showing that people are people), and as an inspiration for people to support one another on the path to fitness, and focus less on the "usual" reality tv personal business nonsense that drives the more cerebral viewers away.
Cheers, and good luck with your business! If I lived in LA, I'd love to join your club! :-)


Augie wrote:

I'd like to live in Jackie's shoes for one day without camaras, but with Rebecca and Tiffany; not necessary both at the same time, LOL... From a fitness perspective, it would be great if like on Bravo's website that more trainer tips could be thrown-in. I catch them from time to time.

I hope that Sky Lab will be able to produce drastic results for the participants.

Can't wait till next week.

RIP Doug

Joan Wivell wrote:

Jackie
Love the show,being a lesbian is tuff enough,without being
out on tv. I also spent a lot years with someone who was not
nice most of the time. But it was just so hard to walk away.
The person has passed away and I do not know how to look for
someone else. Your show has laughter and emotion. I am so glad
you seem happy now. So sorry to hear about Doug, he seemed
to be such a wonderfull person inside and out.
Best to you Jackie
GMOM

C wrote:

Just wanted to say how shocked I was when I read online that Doug had passed away. He was my favorite trainer....I just started watching the show this season, but his caring heart, his compassion and his love for others was evident. I am saddened and my heart hurts for each of you!

On another note, I can understand the 'shock' of the other trainers with you and Rebecca being together! However I don't think ANY of you handled it in a 'good' way.

Therese wrote:

Jackie, you and your team are so motivating. I am not surprised your gym is a huge success. You inspire me to get off my ass and do something about myself. Looking forward to a Skygym in Chicago. I'm saving up for it.

HondaShadowGrl wrote:

It's great to see Jackie out and dating in a healthy way! She deserves happiness and fulfillment after she who shall not be named!!! I too have tried dating 2 women at the same time. I was up front and honest with both of them. Unfortunately one did not want me to date anyone else and we had to stop seeing each other. I was not ready to be tied to someone as I had just come off a bad relationship and traumatic life experiance. I hope that Jackie is able to stay her course as I she needs to really focus on herself and her emotional healing and spiritual journey. Coming out of a toxic relationship it takes lots of time and self affirmation to heal and go forward. It took me over a year to heal emtionally from mine. I was fortunate to have a GF that I was able to sound off on and vent without being judged. We are still together 3 years later b/c we are able to communicate freely and without reservations. It is a degree of intimacy I have never had with a partner before. I have always held back my opinions and feellings. Now I just let her know exactly how I feel and put up with -0- bulls***t. Good luck Jackie! We love you and wish you the best!!

PS: Can we see more of you on the motorcycle? I ride with my little dog in her poch pouch. She loves it! You can get one at a pet store. They are a little front pack they dogs are zipped up in.

Stef in Steeltown wrote:

Well....Doug's little cough certainly puts all of the girlfriend drama into perspective. Doesn't it?

Jackie, I am a conservative Christian that lives in a rural area with my husband and two little kids. My kids are too little for me to be a soccer mom but I am heading in that direction (I even have a mini-van...say it ain't so!). Not the typical demographic for Bravo watchers, I would guess.

I love this show for so many reasons. Again, thank you for sharing your life with us. Viewers knew from the first episode that Doug was going to die. Yet, I can hardly watch the upcoming episodes knowing that his death is coming soon. While at times the show can seem like a soap opera, this is real life for you and your friends. I am so sorry for your loss. I only know Doug through a TV show and I am sad, sad, sad. I can't imagine what it is like for all of you. Take care.

Kristie wrote:

JACKIE YOU ARE SO HOT!!! I AM 25 AND A HAIRDRESSER AT AN INTERNATIONAL SALON. I THINK I CAN WORK YOU OUT!!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND THAT BODY!!! IF YOU COME TO DALLAS, TX, You CAN COME WORK ME OUT!!!

Donna wrote:

Jackie, Jackie, Jackie -
Two girlfriends in one night. I'm not sure why you told Tiffany where you would be knowing that Rebecca was going to be there. And to then turn away from Rebecca and give all your attention to Tiffany?????

As for Doug, I cried watching the episode last night. It's so weird hearing him talking about how he was down because his birthday was the next day and that he was the oldest in his family to live and that his parents died at the age of 42. On top of it, he obviously loved Theo so much and here he was trying to take care of him while he himself was going through such a tramatic issue. Doug seemed like a loving and caring person and was clearly loved by many people. God works in misterious ways and it is such a sad thing that he was taken away. Although none of us know you in a personal way, we feel like you do let us into your lives if even for only 1 hour. Doug had truly made an impact on such a lot of people. I hope he is looking down and smiling knowing that because he cared so much, we care so much.

talia wrote:

hey jackie i love ur show ,u are so natural very friendly ,i hope u find tre love ,i m married 3kids i have gain alot of weight and when i see ur show i feel inspired,right now i feel confuse with my sexuality but i don't know how to talk to girls i mean i like weman my husband doesn't know

Tam wrote:

Let me start by saying that I love the show and what you are doing for the clients in the Skylab project. I do often wish I was a participant in the test run of Skylab. I am however concerned that the focus of the show seems to be getting a little lost. Workout.....that seems to me as if the main focus should be on the gym, the trainer and the clients. You guys are awesome at what you do. You give hope to the hopeless and motivation to those who need that extra push. As of late it seems as if there has been more concentration on the "drama". I'd much rather see trainers one on one with their clients that you (or anyone one else for that matter) making out with Tom, Dick and Harry. I'm not saying you can't have a life but it seems as if the show and the other trainers are more concerned with what you do on the side. A few insights into out of the gym life is fine but 10 minutes of you kissing and "flirting" is more than enough. The show is workout, not a day in the life of Jackie. Again, don't get me wrong I still love the show and will continue to watch it. I just feel as if there should be more focus on the actual "working out". I've been battling the bulge for years and find strength and motivation from your show. I'd just like to see a little more sweat and a little less touchy feely smooching.

shannon wrote:

I just wanted to let you know just how much I enjoy watching your show. Your trainers are so cool to watch , and I admire the
way that you conduct your business both personal and professional. Keep up the great work and may God bless each and everyone of you.

Paul wrote:

Just a question:

Would anyone ever work out at this gym?

The co owner's life is a mess(read:dating her employees,5 years of crazy girl,etc.), the trainers are completely self involved and insecurity runs rampant, and now they are looking to expand?

I would never put my gym clothes in the hands of these people no less my body.

beth sanders wrote:

Jackie you are one hot chick. I have only been with guys but you could change all of that. I love watching your show every Tuesday night. It is the highlight of my week. Keep up the great work!!! I will keep watching you and that fine ass!!!

Beth Sanders

dirtygurll wrote:

jackie jackie jackie....... u r 1 sexy chic. str8 or gay, i'm n2 u. Def glad u dumped mimi. She was an emotional train wreck that needed way more therapy than u have time. Not sure bout Rebecca, she seems more bi-curious than anything. Dont get hurt. It will strain the working relationship. I luv the show. Just the rite amount of serious, tuff, fuunny, personal all mixed. Ur 1 smart lady. I think u need an assistant tho. I'm available. lol

Amanda wrote:

Jackie, I love watching your show. How do you stay in suck great shape? I try but I can't get my body to look that good.
I think you should be with Rebecca. You two look awesome together. She's pretty and you're gorgeous so you guys do compliment eachother really well. I would've kicked Mimi to the curb a long time ago. She treated you like such a child, don't do this or else you'll be in such big trouble. You didn't need all of her drama on your shoulders.
When I heard the news about Doug, my heart sank. I can't believe that he's gone. He was such a nice guy with a great heart. He will be forever remembered.
Jesse needs to quit taking everything so serious. I think he is jealous of you and Rebecca. He probably feels that if you start dating Rebecca that she will become your pet and he's out the door. He definately needs to find a boyfriend.
Brian needs to get over himself. I lmao when you put him in his place. The look of OMG what do you think you're doing, is so outstanding. He is not God's gift to body building, or women. He's just a rough tough cream puff.
Zen is crazy as hell. Her free spirit yet down to earth personality really captures you. She tries not to hurt anyone's feelings but can be funny at the same time.
Erika really doesn't care what people thinks. She will speak her mind and if people care oh well if the truth hurts.
Greg and Aundre seem like they were takin back with you and Reb