April 3, 2007
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That's what's so odd. Peeler and I just keep missing each other. Usually, I don't have these misunderstandings with my employees, but Brian tends to be more sensitive about my opinion. Maybe it's me, but he and I definitely butt heads.
This episode deals with the emotional aspect of working out. I've been with clients that have cried, that have laughed hysterically. The body is very tied into emotion. And the two are so connected, that if you work the body very hard, many times emotions just naturally come from that. It's a common experience, and really just something that a good trainer has to learn to deal with, and learn to deal with well. You have to maneuver around it.
Comments
Kelley wrote:
Love your show !!!! i would like the recipe for your morning drink you made on the show tonight please ???
posted on April 3, 2007 at 10:43 PM
Kathryn wrote:
Hey Jackie
Great episode tonight (#203). I am extremely curious what the recipe is for that shake that you talked about on the show- the breakfast one that includes protein, fish oils, and other things. Can you post it somewhere on this website?? Thanks!! Keep up the great work, your show has inspired me to adopt a healthier, fitter lifestyle!
~Kathryn
posted on April 3, 2007 at 10:55 PM
Ann wrote:
Jackie,
Thank you for agreeing to do season 2 and thank you for sharing your life with us. You deserve happiness where ever and with whom ever you choose. Enjoy your life!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 10:55 PM
Annie Bathgate wrote:
Jackie, I love this season as you show your vulnerable side...it's just as strong as all the other aspects of you. You totally deserve a wonderful relationship. I hope you really start to know that within your heart because you are an amazing person.
Mwah! Annie B.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:03 PM
Katie wrote:
You go, girl. Do what makes you happy--
I don't see what you two are doing as wrong--and I definitely think that you are being scrutinized more for simply being a woman.
best of luck to you.
KR
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:04 PM
Laura wrote:
You give me the strength to go on each day, you are truly a stong woman, and someone who loves to work out! I hate to work out, and i get stepped on daily. if you were near me I would have you be my therapist and trainer, you are the one and only person who when they say good job! I feel like you mean it!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:05 PM
Cyndi B. wrote:
Love the show. Could you please post the recipe for your Protein Shake? Thanks!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:06 PM
ayesha wrote:
Jackie,
You are so sexy! Do your thing sweetie. You and Rebecca are cute and I totally did not see that coming. I think your staff may be a little jealous, and I think they should get over it. You seem to compliment each other well. At least from what we have seen on camera. So glad to see you let Mimi go. She was super toxic.
Anyway, I just wanted to drop a few lines to let you know you inspire me to change my lifestyle. I am currently working out 5 days a week and I look forward to the tips you give on your show. Keep up the great work!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:07 PM
Sharon DiAnne wrote:
Jackie, your show is crazy! I love it! And thank you for taking so many risks. Its like you've opened your shirt and said, this is what I am. And we could reject you. We don't though.
Hold fast to excellence, keep pushing. You inspire me to be passionate, over the top, and accountable to making my dreams come true.
And if you end up doing a little tongue action in the sushi bar - you deserve it. S
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:08 PM
Jackie Jones wrote:
Hi, Jackie; I'm Jackie, too. Okay, yes...we're all human and everyone's emotional, but sometimes you have to let you and not take everything too seriously and loosen up a little. When you don't, you lose how to look a certain situations and that's what I think happened. He lost it but, you were big enough to step up to the plate and apologize for the misinterpretation and he was big enough to admit his shortcoming. I thought the show was GREAT TODAY....I'm currently a "bootcamper" and well underway to HUGE weightloss as well. Great Success...Jax in Atlanta...
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:08 PM
patty wrote:
Rebecca is not the right woman for you-don't do it-I'm sorry but it is no good!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:10 PM
Nancy wrote:
I just finished watching tonight's episode with you and Rebecca "coming out". What's the big deal? We only see what is edited out and put on the one hour program so for anyone to judge the two of you is a little more than unfair.
Also - kudos to you for having the balls to air your therapy sessions. I too am in therapy after a horrible relationship and its refreshing to see someone being so honest about their feelings. Keep up the good work! You truly are an inspiration!!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:10 PM
ashley wrote:
i think that jesse over reacted just a tad. i mean, i have a gay bestfriend, but hes never reacted like that in any sort of way from me developing a new relationship with someone. i just watched the new episode and i saw that rebecca was a bit upset that tiffany came to hang out. obviously, there are feelings between jackie and rebecca. i'd like to see that go somewhere because when you hold back feelings, you never know what could happen. you always ask yourself "what if?" i absolutely love the show, not just because of the workouts, which ive gotten some great information on (thank you!) but because of the drama that goes on. i know im only 22, but there is alot of drama that goes on in life. alot of girls i know say "i give up on men, im turning into a lesbian." from watching jackie and her personal relationship, i see that its all the same. no matter who you are dating, male or female, the drama is always there. everyone needs to find the people that fits them, thats meant for them. i hope jackie can find that somebody. love the show! keep up the good work!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:11 PM
katie dietrich wrote:
jackie, you rock! just have fun, you're a free, successful, smart woman...you know what you're doing so don't let others make you doubt yourself. you're an inspiration to meand i'm sure so many others!! thanks!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:12 PM
joan castaldo wrote:
Dear Jackie, I am watching the show again tonight. Some of the guys are not happy about you and your employee getting so friendly. I think the problem is first she is an employee of yours and if you were smart, you'd make that a NO-NO. Its not a good idea and not good for business for you to be making one of your employees a love interest. Also you were there to see another employee try doing stand up for the first time and the two of you are almost necking. Thats the time to control yourself just a little. Theres a time and place and that wasn't it. It also takes your authority down a notch to get that involved with an employee. I think your a cool person, Jackie, but keep a cool head about this girl. I also wouldn't turn my back to her. I got bad vibes about her and trust me I'm not jealous. Im old enough to be your mother. Hope this didn't upset you. I like the show and will continue to watch. Respectfully, Joan
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:13 PM
angulic wrote:
Dear Jackie,
I think it's pretty hypocritical that your trainers have a problem with you and Rebecca. I think if you find someone you can have a great time with and care for than by all means go for it. You have to make you happy and not worry about what others think. I think they just feel left out and are probably worried that she'll get special treatment. Most people who criticize others are just jealous and would have done the same thing had they had found someone who made them happy like you have. I wish you both the best of luck.
Angulic
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:14 PM
Babalu wrote:
Jackie, I admire you for all that you have accomplished; however, messing around with employees always creates problems. You are "Mama", like it or not..and the kids get jealous when you single out one and display affection openly in front of the others. It doesn't work. Affectionately, Babalu
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:14 PM
Kathy wrote:
Jackie, I think you need to follow what is best for you, your staff will come to terms with your decisions in your personal life. Personal being the key word!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:17 PM
FitFiend wrote:
Great that you have completely cut Mimi out of your life...she exuded toxicity.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:19 PM
Mz Nelson wrote:
Jackie.... don't worry about Peeler. There is tension between you, but it is because he is a man. Most men feel inferior to a strong, able, empowered woman. He is just allowing his male instincts to override his better judgement. For respect purposes, he needs to remember that Sky Lab is "YOUR" project, and that you still are his "BOSS". Otherwise, I think you are the bomb and the show is great. I am a huge fan. One day my girlfriend and I are going to come to Sky Sport and meet you. You might consider extending your services to the state of Louisiana. We need some empowerment here too. Take care! Mz. Nelson
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:20 PM
Jessica e. wrote:
Jackie,
Well I really don't have much to say about the episode. Although I love what you are doing with skylab!!! I like the name,its like an experiment. I think that your relationship with Rebecca is hard for me to understand because I am such a private person, it really must be hard to be in the position you are in.
Anyway my thought come from an old episode that I saw today that I never saw before, the one with your mom. Now I didn't watch the whole marathon, I saw that one and then continued school work and enjoyed the weather.
Bur here it is... I am a christian. Totally love church, always had a positive experiance. But the thing is I think the real meaning christianity is so lost, and how it is gets in "political" issues makes me really turned off and Americans as well. But it is what has made me who I am. But I just thought the way you delt with your mother was so awesome, enpowering, and "Christ"like. I just want you to know I am a christian who supports gay marriage. SO that is it, not all christians are judge mentle bastards..
Take care and thanks for your show, it empowers me. Just becareful of lust is all a 20 year old girl has to say!!!
THanks
Jessica e.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:20 PM
Jessica wrote:
Jackie looks like you are dating Mimi#2 sorry to say. I love the show and wish I had this in NYa dn I could afford it. That program is exactly what I need!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:21 PM
kim wrote:
maybe you just need to get rid of Peeler...he seems like he always backstabs you and talks behind your back...if there are so many misunderstanding, I'm sure there are plenty of great trainers out there that would love to take his position and will behavior in a more professional manner...THINK ABOUT IT!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:22 PM
Joan wrote:
Im back again. You know if my husband and I go out with other couples, we dont want to sit there while one of the couples is hanging on each other or slobbering over each other. The idea of going out with a group is to talk, laugh and have a good time ALL of you together. The romance thing is great but not in that situation.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:22 PM
patty wrote:
Rebecca is not the woman for you-it's bad news-maybe you have already figured it out. Also what are the exact ingredients for your morning shake. thanks-if you can post it.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:24 PM
Joanne wrote:
YAY. Jackie! I love you. I think the therapy sessions serve your viewers HUGELY. it just makes you that much more human.
hope you are happy.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:26 PM
amberlives wrote:
Everything you do just rocks, so keep it coming! Jackie, you always look at things in the right light, in my opinion. Rock on!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:26 PM
Sarah wrote:
Jackie! First off, AWESOME SHOW! I was very touched by tonight's show because I feel like part of my battle with weight has been due to emotionally *not* being able to imagine having a thin/healthy lifestyle. Your show has REALLY inspired me to think more about how I can see myself. Your show is one of the best! MUCH LOVE AND LUCK!!! :)
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:27 PM
Lynn wrote:
Jackie, I know you'll receive criticism in the comments but I just wanted to say that that's a load of crap. As a young lesbian, I can't say how freeing it is to see your relationships (good, bad, ugly, serious, casual, whatever) up on the screen. And Rebecca's looks like a wonderful, fun person - heard you both hit up Dinah Shore. If that means you're together, congrats. Convention is overrated.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:27 PM
ashley wrote:
jackie,
wow. i absolutely love your show. me & my roomate watch it every single week and we think your show is AMAZING. we are both lesbians and we both have girlfriends and watching your show gives us hope for our relationships in the future. my roomate & her girlfriend have been together for 15 months and i have been with mine for 7 months. your show makes us laugh all the time. we get extremely excited to watch it. we just want to say thanks && we love you & your show!!!
-ashley
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:27 PM
John wrote:
Jackie,
What about Tiffany?
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:28 PM
Jason Blake wrote:
After watching the last few episodes of your show, I am intrigued with not only you but all of your employees. Just like all trainers, as I am one myself, everyone possesses as totally different personality, not only in the gym but outside of it as well, and possesses a totally different method of trainer his/her clientele. Your trainer Brian seems to be very good as he works with the super model and says "he is the best trainer out there." Trainers have to be careful in what they say and as a trainer and Director of Fitness I don't believe what he said is necessarily true. All trainers have flaws and that it what makes us strive to be better as well as giving it our all with everyone single client we have, no matter what size, shape, or form, race or ethnicity. I would love to be contacted back by you and look forward to watching more of your show and hopefully in the future be in contact more as I have my own philosophies on training and running a business as well. Look forward to your response. Good luck with your show and your employees and sorry to hear about Doug; he seemed like the all around person.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:28 PM
Tony Stewart wrote:
I am a recent viewer and I hae enjoyed each episode. Recently bravo has shown a marithon of episodes which allowed me to catch up. However I noticed at the beginning of this episode it was dedicated to Doug. I sincerely hope he is ok although any dedication at the beginning of a show would indicate otherwise. Also he is not present on this site with the rest of the trainers. I live in New York and I remembered Doug from years ago on Fire Island and a few of the clubs in LA. Did he pass away? I am not one that normally get involved with TV reality nor show any emotions around it characters. However Dougs spirit and gentle nature would capture ones heart. The last time I actually felt this way regarding a reality show was when Pedro Zimora died on the "mtv Real world" Anyway I enjoy the show because I too personal traain. However there will definatelly be a void without Doug.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:28 PM
Mik wrote:
Hi, Jackie...I just wanted to let you know that I absolutely adore your show. Never, ever miss an episode. Personally, I'm relieved to see your relationship over with Mimi. It obviously had run its course. I do think it's ridiculous your staff has an "issue" with your dating Rebecca. So, what; Its good to see you out having a good time.
Also, I'm not a lesbian....But I think you are so hot. Don't know what it is about you, but you are one sexy lady!! Keep up the good work and I'm looking forward to next Tuesday night......Love it....
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:29 PM
April wrote:
Omg! I don't think you need anyone else's approval as to who you date or develop relationships with! You have developed different relationships with each one of the trainers you work with every day, it just so happened that you have formed a special relationship with Rebecca and I think that others are jealous of your new found happiness that just so happens to be with someone you work with. I totally agree with what you said about guys in the workplace doing it and it's ok for them, so why not for women? It's just another one of life's double standards that you face,so don't let other people's reactions get you down!!! I think you and Rebecca are incredibly cute together and if that's what makes you happy, then you musn't worry so much about pleasing others! Make Jackie happy and then others will follow!! Much love, and best of luck!!
April in Texas
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:29 PM
lisa oxendine wrote:
I fell that he wants you respect, and you cracking jokes about the one thing he thinks hes the best at just triggers something in him.Maybe it was the fact of all the people in the room that he didn't know put him in defense mode. ON the other hand he needs to control his anger and understand that familys butt heads all the time and not take this so personal.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:29 PM
gregory miller wrote:
Dear Jackie and Trainers... I just wanted to say I watch your show all the time and love it... I am 31 and so is my partner.. He finally sat down at the end of last season and loves your show also... I am glad you have decided to set yourself apart away from Mimi cuz no relationship is worth your well being and sanity... It is great that you are dating and having fun.. And I hope your fun with rebekah continues to make you smile... I know we don't see your whole life... Just have fun and be safe... You have made a great life for yourself so continue that and know You Are Wonderful!!!! And so are your trainers.. Thats the way its suppose to be... They all look up to you and wish I had family like that... Besides you Doug is my favorite... His heart is so big and beautiful I wish I had someone like him or you to show me how to love myself like that cuz I can't seem to to..... Thanks Greg
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:30 PM
Gabby wrote:
Ok, so the whole time the sleepover part was on tv, i was wondering where i knew the other gay women from and then it hit me...they were on oprah!! im so proud of myself for remembering. i really enjoyed that ep and what they had to say.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:31 PM
Pam wrote:
Hi Jackie,
I think Brian is a little sensitive.It was obvious that you were joking.I think you are wonderful I love watching the show.. You are a true inspiration.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:31 PM
Annette wrote:
I think you and Rebecca have been very flirtatious with each other and I have to admit it has been fun to watch lol When you are attracted to someone you can not help that, you may try but you gravitate to the people that you gravitate to and the more you try and fight it the stronger it becomes. In this world where there is so much hate and prejudice, I say find your pleasure where you can and with whoever you can. You guys are great!!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:32 PM
Carol Bronder wrote:
Jackie,
You look happy with Rebecca. Stick with it!
Sorry to learn about Doug. He seemed like such a nice guy.
Peeler is overly sensitive and defensive. He needs to grow up! It's not you--it's him. I think he has "issues' with strong women.
Cheers!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:33 PM
Cara wrote:
First- Jackie, I have never been more inspired by someone to be healthy and fit as I have by you. What I enjoy most about watching the show is that you were always open about yourself and there were no holds barred- I totally respect that in a person. But more than anything, I respect that in a woman. I am straight, but I can relate to alot of what I see on your show. I do have one aching question for you- would you be willing to post what your breakfast shake ingredients are? I love my smoothies for breakfast, and I get in the flax seed and the fresh fruits, but I am interested in the other things and didn't get to write them down. I don't have TiVo, and I could wait around to see a repeat, but I'm not that patient. Peace out from Naples, FL!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:33 PM
Amy wrote:
Jackie, rock on. Love isn't found in any particular place, if it happens it happens. Do your thing. Your my idol, lol for real.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:33 PM
Ashley M. wrote:
Jackie,
I have been following your show since the very beginning and I am a die hard fan!! I specifically took off work on tuesdays to watch the new episodes. I have been especially interested in the past couple episodes because of the new Rebecca thing. I think that it is amazing that you and Rebecca have developed a relationship off camera and I think that the two of you would be a perfect couple. Tiffany seems like she is a good friend and a fun fling but I definately think that you should stick it out with Rebecca because she is really into you and I would hate for her to have felt led on. You don't seem to be very interested in Tiffany on camera, you two seem like you're friends with benefits but thats it. You and Rebecca are soo cute and hott and sexy and fun and entertaining! When I saw the preview for the next episode when Tiffany showed up at the restaurant and gave you a kiss, I could immediately see the anger and jealousy appear in Rebecca's eyes. She seemed to be really hurt especially after the intimacy you two shared at the back of the restaurant and apparently off camera. I don't like the whole Tiffany deal, my advice is to stick it out with Rebecca and see where it leads the two of you. Other than that, my girlfriend and I are totally obsessed with your show and think that you are the hottest person on this earth!! Although Rebecca falls close behind! So we'll end this comment with I love you and your show!! Stay gorgeous and sexy!!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:33 PM
Annette wrote:
I can't wait to see where the relationship goes.....you guys are very hot and I can tell it will be very passionate....
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:34 PM
Mz Nelson wrote:
Jackie... It's Mz. Nelson again.... you aren't the problem girl. You are at a great point in your life and Mimi was bringing you down. My girl and I have been together for 7 years and I am able to say that I am with my soul mate, the person God had waiting for me while all my past life was full of drama. We have been friends for 13 years, but the timing for us to be together was never right. Finally, it was and we both knew. Being in love and with someone that loves you back as much is the greatest feeling ever. You will have that too one day. God has someone for everyone. Even you Jackie! So, until she comes along.... live it up girl!
Also, I offer you and your staff my deepest sympathy about Doug. I lost my only brother 3 years ago to a methadone overdose and he was only 23 years old. So, I feel your grief. Hang tough, God will see you through it.
Mz. Nelson
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:34 PM
joani wrote:
good for you jackie
its your life everyone else is just passing through
do what makes you happy!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:35 PM
Jen wrote:
Jackie,
Thanks for being such an amazing, strong woman on and off screen. Sending hugs from the east coast. All the best!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:37 PM
christina wrote:
Hey Jackie!
I think that you are handling your relationship with rebecca very well and are being completely honest about it. kudo's to you two! anyway, im totally hooked on the show, i wish i wasn't so far away so i could work out at your gym, cause i need it baby! thanks so much for all the good tips though, your inspiring me to believe that i can get myself into shape and have fun doing it. thank you.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:37 PM
Susan wrote:
Well... You guys look so hot together. I am so glad you got rid of Mimi. She was driving me nuts! I hope you and Rebecca have a more stable relationship. I wish you the best, you seem like a good, yet difficult, catch.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:37 PM
Barbara Sullivan wrote:
Hi Jackie, Love the show and you. I was very surprised by Jesse's reaction to you and Rebecca. But it's is also a position that is delicate. When you are a boss over people and develop and personal relationship with one of those people, it throws the balance of. I have been in that situation and people had a very difficult time, either because of jealousy, or feeling that there would be favoritism. I think you and Rebecca look great together and there is definitely chemistry. I'm glad you are taking a break from Mimi. I think you were so unhappy and seem much happier. Thanks for doing the show. I want that shake recipe. It sounds wonderful.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:38 PM
Susannah wrote:
O.K., first of all, Jackie, I love you and the show. I totally look forward to Tuesday nights now! Last week on the blog you told everyone to "relax", that you wouldn't get involved with someone who worked for you. Um, hmmm, I guess you changed your mind. Now I don't think there's anything majorly wrong, I mean if you find someone you connect with, you're both single adults, and you seem to have a good head on your shoulders, so what the heck. Personally, I think Rebecca will turn out to be clingy. I can't wait to see next week's episode, I'd like to know the deal with the other girl who showed up at dinner. If you invited her, I think you are encouraging some drama. Jesse took it a little harshly, he's very jealous! Love Zen, she's cute, sweet, seems smart, just shouldn't quit her day job! Love you Jackie!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:38 PM
susan k wrote:
Wow!...well after reading your blog, I understand better now. (Not that my observations count for much) I have to agree guys do it alot and when a woman does it - look out! In life you have to do what makes you happy and gives you peace, then that is what you project outward. ( its late and it probably didnt make sense but I hope somebody understands).
Anyway, along with everyone else you've motivated me to get back to movin and working out. Thank you for that.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:40 PM
Iraida wrote:
Jackie. You are very powerful woman physically mentally and spiritually. There is NO need to justify to ANYONE your behavior. You are a graet inspiration, keep it up!!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:40 PM
Samantha wrote:
I loved the show tonight, I think you and Rebecca make a darling couple and there is such a spark between the two of you.. if it is meant to be it will be. Good Luck!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:40 PM
Chele wrote:
I was so moved by the episode tonight. I think what you are doing with Sky Lab is incredible. I am 39 and am very overweight. I have a stressfull but wonderful job, a husband and a child who are so great. I can't seem to get control of my eating or exercise. I had gastric bypass surgery nearly 10 years ago. I lost about 70 pounds but as they tell you, it is only a tool and as a result, I haven't lost any more or been able to keep off all that I lost. I wish I had the resources to be part of your lab. I feel that it could be life changing for me. If you are looking for a cute vivacious 5 foot, 230 pound southern girl, let me know. I could sing your praises from the south!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:42 PM
skaboo wrote:
Jackie;
Thank you for your honesty. The show is just a small fraction of the giant big picture. As long as what you do in the work place and in your private life is 'right' for you; I'll continue to support you and what your program represents.
Best Regards,
Skaboo
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:42 PM
Patrinia Johnson wrote:
Jackie I think your great and would love to hear from you. I had gastric by-pass surgery and then crushed 2 vertibre over the summer of 2006 and am now gaining weight back. I am parying I can win the lottery so I can hire you as my trainer. I would love to know your ideas on how I can loose the weight I gained back from my broken back. I work in a call center and sit on my butt most of the time. I try and move around as much as I can when I am not on a call, but would love to know your ideas. I was in Culinary school and had to quit because I had lost my job at the time, but I LOVE TO COOK!!!!!!!! I would just love a few ideas from you. I pray I hear from you and I hope you keep doing well!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:43 PM
Sara Nelson wrote:
I don't think Jackie is misunderstood. I think Peeler has authority problems and thinks he "knows it all". We can all learn from each other, no matter how much experience we have in our career and in life. Peeler, I think you are cool and great at what you do but if you'll open yourself up to other ideas and techniques you will be even better than you are now. It will also enrich your life and your relationships.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:47 PM
Kelly wrote:
Well, I can't get enough of Work Out!! Jackie and Rebecca's relationship is definitely amazing, and i can't WAIT to see more next week! Pretty steamy! oww owww! I'm lovin it!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:48 PM
tangi wrote:
you and rebecca look so cute together.both of yall are so cute.i was happy when you and mimi broke up because you deserved better.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:49 PM
lisa oxendine wrote:
I have many rules I live by and the one I follow always would have to be you should never and I mean never date an employee.Things go wrong all the time in relationships,just think if you met mimi at work , you would of had no out.I'm not trying to say rebecca is anything like mimi because I have no clue. I feel you should always have you time and the way I asure me time is my job. Good luck guys :)
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:49 PM
Keith wrote:
You have been an asset to the gay and lesbian community! I don't think anyone needs to give you advice or tell you to hang in there. You exude confidence in everything you do and you know that. Keep showing the world who you are. There won't be anyone who doesn't know your name.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:52 PM
Tonya wrote:
I'm a happily married woman with an 8 month old living in the midwest .... All I can say is HOT HOT HOT .... And I can't wait to see more.
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:53 PM
Nancy Gardner wrote:
Hi Jackie,
I loved your message and it really answer all my questions about the "Rebecca thimg" Good luck and lots of happiness. I do have to say that you make a cute couple lov both of you!! I'm hooked on the show look forward to Tuesday nights. I'm watching it again and I can't say how much I really love the show. I'm 54 and I have a wonderful husband. But I must say I wish I could come "out" but the love of my life is in love with another women so here I am with a man who I do love but if my girl was available I would come out for her. You are a very hot women and I wish you the best of luck with everything you do.
lov ya Nancy
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:57 PM
elizabeth wrote:
I think you and Rebecca are cute together. :]
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:57 PM
Betteroff wrote:
I just started watching the show this season and I am loving it! As for dating in the workplace, and being a successful business owner myself, I say if it's in your heart and you make the rules then why the heck not! (of course I don't have the pressures of a camera being up my butt 24/7 either) Can't wait to see where all of this is leading!
posted on April 3, 2007 at 11:59 PM
cassie wrote:
Very sexy. You're so inspirational.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:05 AM
Lori Anderson wrote:
I tried to write down the recipe for your breakfast shake. I couldn't get it all; plus I don't know the amounts.
Would you be willing to post it? Also, maybe some of the recipes you and Jesse did for the SkyLab boot camp school?
BTW: You seem MUCH happier with Mimi out of your life.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:06 AM
kelly wrote:
Could you post the ingredients to Jackie's morning "energy shake" with the mixed berries? I have 2 children and would love an easy breakfast that will give me some energy.
Thanks
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:10 AM
Shar wrote:
Great show! Getting addicted, don't want to miss a single episode. There was a recipe mentioned on tonight's show, some sort of smoothie. Can you please post the recipe for it?
THANK YOU!!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:13 AM
Lisa Crawford wrote:
You guys are awesome. I have seriously considered making the journey to work out in your gym for a body transformation. Although I am not heavy I am high body fat and want so much to look like you two do for my girl. Good for you!!
Love ya both,
Lisa
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:15 AM
Jackie H. wrote:
Jackie, I think you are exactly right. Dating in the workplace happens everywhere, every day. Your staff is afraid that Rebecca will get more attention from you, especially Jesse, and that is what's upsetting them. Because you work and breathe SkyLab, (which by the way looks amazing) its natural that you spend all of your time there and why pass up the opportunity to get to know a beautiful, sweet person simply because you work together. Even with you owning the business, I think you are professional enough to seperate the two when necessary. I am married to the love of my life whom I met almost 25 years ago, who is a man and even I think Rebecca is hot!! :-) You go girl!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:19 AM
Amanda wrote:
Jackie,
Aw, seeing you and Rebecca together is something I personally find very cute and heart warming. I think that dating "someone in the workplace" is as managable as any type of relationship. And. . I mean, come on, you got through all that tough stuff with Mimi, you can handle anything! Who cares what other people are thinking when it's not their happiness or their life. I hope neither your friend Tiffany or Rebecca get hurt though. . because it seems like they both care about you. I think you seem more energetic and happy with Rebecca :). I'm only wondering though, does she feel she is gay now or bisexual?
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:21 AM
Jessica wrote:
Jackie!! The chemistry between you and Rebecca is AMAZING!!! The make-out session at the end of the episode was very hot. Whatever happens in the episodes to come, I hope you find that "amazing" woman to blow your mind away and give you the happiness you deserve. "Work out" is a true inspiration and as a young women who is over-weight and doesn't give her body the nutrition it deserves, I think your mission with the Sky Lab and your first clients is wonderful and life altering. Thank You for sharing your aspirations with the world and making the dreams of many over-weight individuals a reality.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:24 AM
danielle wrote:
jackie I think you are beautiful how do I get a date with you?
let me send you a picture at least,
Danielle
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:24 AM
karen wrote:
Jackie,
Go for what makes you happy.....people may or may not agree but hey we only live once!Oh yeah....check out Rebeccas eye expression as she turns away as Tiffany gives ya a peck.....now that says alot!!!.......Good Luck...Love the show
Karen
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:26 AM
Daniella wrote:
Awesome episode! From what you said in therapy, knowing your next girlfriend was going to be incredible...why?...cause you are ready for it. How true...that statement is so true and we can all relate it in so many areas of our lives. Season 1 I always questioned how someone as strong as you, was putting yourself with someone so toxic. It showed me that even exceptionally strong women go through the human emotions and issues the rest of us do.
I liked the tips on your typical breakfast...the shake....do you think you can tell us the exact amounts in the ingredients? I'm so glad that this year you are focusing on nutrition as well as excersize. I like the Sky Lab idea a lot. I love where your heart is with these clients. Speaking of your heart. I LOVE you and Rebecca as a couple. From what I see so far, you are bringing out the best in each other. You look very natural, happy, comfortable, and sexy together. I got a little worried when I saw you flirting with that other girl at the batting cages. I was hoping you'd end up with Rebecca.
Hey Jackie, I have to let you know you are an inspiration. I live in CT and wish I could find someone like you here to workout with. Have you ever thought of putting out a book with workouts and a nutrition plan....please!!!
The best to you and Rebecca...and to your business...and to your health and hapiness.
Peace...Daniella
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:27 AM
Lisa Pizzimenti wrote:
My best friend called me up to tell me to watch your show. I was hooked by the first time I watched it. I am so impressed by you (you are a Leo and so am I). You are smart, strong honest and no nonsense. I really admire that in a person. You have a vision that you see and you follow your dreams. I think it is so great that you are constantly thinking of ways to better yourself and your business. You are such a good role model and I really wish that I would have the opportunity to meet you in person one day. Who knows, maybe I'll sign on for one week and see how my life can change as well. Don't worry about your Mom, at least you are true to yourself. I give you credit for being honest with telling your Mom about your sexuality. Much happiness always. You did good!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:28 AM
charise wrote:
You should drop rebecca (romantically) like a hot potato and date tiffany. I could see the sexual chemistry you two have. And while people date co-workers, most bosses don't date their employees with good reason.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:31 AM
Shannon wrote:
Jackie,
I personally don't understand why people are upset that you and Rebecca are getting to know each other better. My partner and I met at work and our relationship unfolded in front of our coworkers essentially. In the begining some people were upset and afraid that one of us would get our heart broken. We got constant warnings not to "rush" into things! Three years later most of our coworkers cannot remember a time when we were not together.Ironically, a straight couple at work began dating at the same time. They didn't get any of the warnings and attention we did. Of course, they aren't together anymore.
Stay strong and be happy!
Shannon
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:32 AM
Frank wrote:
I'm a big fan of your show. And I'm totally hooked after tonight's episode. This is gonna be a long post but don't think I'm weird. I've been watching your show since last season and I'm just getting some stuff off my chest.
Right off, I think you and Rebecca make a GREAT fit. She's sexy and cute and fun and I liked the way she came across as TOTALLY respectful in the hall way. She asked you if you wanted her to back off when you were flipping out about Jesse's reaction and she said she'd respect that. All in all, I was really surprised by her depth. I gained a whole new respect for her then and there.
As for Jesse's reaction, well. Jesse is Jesse, which isn't saying much. I'll be honest, I don't like Jesse. I'm gay myself and he's exactly the kind of gay I find embarrasing. Not because he's flamboyant, but because he's completely self-involved, petty, and vindictive. Everything is alwaysabout him.
To give you some examples:
1. Doug's interview was ALL about attacking him . He totally missed the point of what Doug was trying to say- that most American's need to be exposed to a variety of REAL gay people. He got all high and mighty and made his point of butch vs. femme dynamic in the gay community but refused to even consider that his own attack interview was infantile and unnecessary. It was all Doug's fault and he was gonna hold his breath until- who knows? Never mind that he made things uncomfortable at your place of business for months on end, he didn't care. All he cared about was carrying on his petty meanness.
2. The time you made your trainer's take the body fat test, he accused you (on camera, at least) of lying to him to make him think he was fat (are you kidding? If I were one of your customer's and you said he was my trainer I'd ask for another trainer or try and get my money back.)
3. When you decided to be more open about your thing with Rebecca, his main complaint was that you hadn't told him anything about it. He didn't care about how it would affect work or any of the stuff the other trainers had a right to worry about, all he cared about was that he was as ignorant of the situation as all the other trainers. I guess he assumed he was special and he was somehow entitled to you and Rebecca's private going ons. His attitude was completely appalling.
Anyhow, that's all I've got this week. I'm anxiously awaiting next week's episode. Cheers!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:33 AM
Pooja wrote:
Hey Jackie. On this episode, when you did the food class, you mentioned your breakfast shake. Can you please list the ingrediants again? Thanks!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:33 AM
Niki wrote:
Way to go Jackie....you are finally enjoying your freedom after all those dysfunctional years with Mimi. Have a great time my sister, just remember to be safe with your emotions.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:43 AM
Heather Thacker wrote:
wow... I am so addicted to this show. I love it... Jackie is probably used to hearing it but she is soooo hot and I think that Rebecca is the perfect match...even though it most likely wont last u guys are really cute together! Love u guys in St. Louis!!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:43 AM
Angie wrote:
Jackie,
I am so glad that you are rid of Mimi- She was very immature in your relationship, and she acted like a spoiled brat most of the time. It is a breath of fresh air to see you dating others and getting back to being yourself and not trying to change to please Mimi.
I think you and Rebecca are cute together- you definitely have a chemistry with one another. You ladies have so much fun together and that is so great...Enjoy it, because you deserve it after what happened with Mimi...
P.S. I love the show and think you are gorgeous......
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:45 AM
Jennifer Smith wrote:
Rebecca and Jackie are such a cute couple. I hope it works out!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:51 AM
BStaerk wrote:
LOVE IT! LOVE IT! LOVE IT!
I'm back for the second season and have to say, it is awesome so far. (Though, I'm not looking forward to next week's episode, period.)
Now for the real question...what in God's green earth do you put in that smoothie? I need the recipe! If it makes you (& Tess for that matter) feel so great in the moring, I need to get me some of that too! Please, please, please tell me where I can get it!
Thanks, and best wishes!
b.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 12:53 AM
Semaj Taylor wrote:
Hey jackei! Hows life treatin you? i hope goodyou know besides the misunderstandings and what not. Well tonight was the first time i seen your show and yes i must i am just totally in love with it. Why? Well for one it REAL its not some made up stuff that people already whats going to happen. it's REAL people REAL problems, and REAL life. What more could you ask out of a show? On the real im just bein me and livin life cause its to short to live in the closet. So hope the comment was worth reading LOVE YAS.Hope you and rebecca work out(sort of don't want her taking advantage of you)
Later Dayz
.:Taylor:.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:00 AM
Gia wrote:
I think the relationship between Jackie and Rebecca is FANTABULOUS. Beautiful may I say. The whole world has opinions, and half of them can't make their own decisions or get out of their own relationships, so who CARES, what the General Public thinks of Rebecca. Rebecca does NOT emulate MIMI and she is far from it. Given the facts of her Straightness, women change so who can judge. HE WHO CASTS THE FIRST STONE....SO BACK OFF. Let lay what will lay and ponder what we all tune in weekly to PONDER. Its a show first of its kind and I personally want to see how far it can go. P.S. after the drama lesbianism wears off, WHO ACTUALLY WORKS OUT??? Those are the women I WANT TO MEET.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:02 AM
Pat S wrote:
I know what you mean about cameras in therapy, but the bright side is everyone now truly knows how hard you worked in that relationship and that Mimi was just along on the ride. So I think it was great, or as great as it could be. I think you and rebecca rock, she totally respects you and I think she sees relationships as "sharing your lives" instead of Mimi's view of "life is all about me no matter how hard you have worked while I sit around being miserable". Beseides, Rebecca is much hotter, all us lesbians are bowing to you girlfriend, go for it, you only live once and life is too short to dance with ugly women rofl
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:02 AM
elisa wrote:
Hi Jackie,
I watched the episode with you and Rebecca and what your trainers need to understand is that it is none of their business what you do - they work for you!
Good luck whatever you decide (Rebecca is very beautiful and she looks like a lot of fun too). Hope it works out for you and her even though it doesn't really seem like she's off the fence entirely.
Elisa
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:08 AM
KC wrote:
Jackie - I love your show! I've been working out with a trainer for almost a year now and it has been one of the best moves I could have made for myself..I love working out and your show truly inspires me to contiune on my path. I love how motivated you are with your business, clients, friends - everything! Thank you for season 2 and I look forward to many more seasons.
Can you let me know when you will have your diet tips posted to your official website? Also when will we be able to order your "lift' tanks? I love everything :-)
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:19 AM
KC wrote:
Jackie - I love your show! I've been working out with a trainer for almost a year now and it has been one of the best moves I could have made for myself..I love working out and your show truly inspires me to contiune on my path. I love how motivated you are with your business, clients, friends - everything! Thank you for season 2 and I look forward to many more seasons.
Can you let me know when you will have your diet tips posted to your official website? Also when will we be able to order your "lift' tanks? I love everything :-)
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:22 AM
TT wrote:
Hey Jackie, need that breakfast shake recipie from the show!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:37 AM
Michelle wrote:
Jackie...where do I start...hmmm. Huge fan of yours and loved this episode. It brought me to tears to listen to lauren & dougs session. I felt ALL of her pain, struggle and eagerness to start her "new" life. Somehow, you lose part of your soul when you are not completly happy with yourself. You know that Jackie - from your experience with Mimi. I LOVED how you showed your clients how to cook thier own damn food !!!! Brillant!!!! Now for Rebecca.......Jackie.....be happy. I saw the writing on the wall and I don't see what the big deal is. Maybe the other trainers think that you will start giving Rebecca "special" treatment. As long as you keep you professional.....enjoy your life. I would rather see you with someone like Rebecca who is genuine and understands your goals and commitments......is a better fit for you. NOT Mimi.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:37 AM
skylar wrote:
Oh wow, Jackie....you have messed up this time. And it has taken me by surprise as well. Why?....because you come across as a driven, business woman who make good decisions. You ask for and (mostly) get the respect of your staff. Your choosing to enter into a relationship with one of them blurs the lines so badly that the respect that you have worked so hard for is strained.
And as for the staff's reaction...what did you expect? Would you guys not speak up if for instance, Jesse and Peeler were suddenly snuggling up on one another and making out around the corner? At least they are equals at the gym, unlike you and Rebecca who are boss/employee.
You are awesome and you deserve love just as much as anyone else. But...you have looked in the wrong direction by dating someone on your staff.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:43 AM
Beth Keefe wrote:
No comments about the more intersting issues of this weeks show. Was just wondering if anyone caught the actual recipie for the breakfast shake that Jackie turned her new clients of Sky Lab onto????? Frozen berries, whey powder. and what else?
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:44 AM
jules wrote:
jackie,
where to begin? first off, i just discovered the show a couple days ago and have been addicted ever since! i've got my tivo set and everything. anyway, i just wanted to say that i LOVE watching the relationship between you and rebecca. and it's so cool to see someone on tv who is so interesting and cool and intelligent and so very eloquent..... hmm, i'm forgetting something... oh yeah, and who is such a beautiful strong woman! i know i'm a geek for saying this, but i really look up to you. im in my second year of college and a girl could use a few more role models like you.
you rock!
peace
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:44 AM
Renee wrote:
Hi Jackie ... I am a huge fan of your show & look forward to each new episode. I wanted to tell you that I am glad to see you continuing with the therapy sessions ~ you might be surprised at what all you learn in them. I know I learned quite a lot about myself & what I wanted for my life when I was attending my own sessions.
Congrats on finally ending your relationship with Mimi. I felt so sorry for you b/c I know how difficult it can be to extricate yourself from a long-term relationship that isn't fulfilling & filled with a lot of stress. I am in a somewhat similar relationship myself & watching you has started giving me courage to speak up for what I want/need on a consistent basis.
I really hope that you will find someone really wonderful that you can finally settle down with. You deserve to be happy & I'm loving all the smiles you seem to have this season. Don't let Jesse & the others get you down. I look at it this way ~ if Rebecca makes you happy, who are they to judge your relationship? They should be happy for you, not passing judgment on you both. Just take things easy & see where things develop with you guys.
You go, girl! You & your show rock!
Have a great day!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 1:54 AM
Jackie!! wrote:
First of all, I'm sure I am not the first to thing/say, that you are awesome!! I wanted to climb through the TV, when Mimi bit you...threw the glass..etc. Maybe because it was a familiar
type of relationship to me. I'm straight, but, the dynamics were
the same. There is just no reason to stay when we are being
treated like....*poop*! And, YOU are so .....COOL! I'm sure I am NOT the first to say you deserve more. (although that doesn't alleviate the pain, when it is 'you' going through it! I so wish I lived in your area!! I live on the Oregon coast. The last two years have been horrible, and, I think being in your gym, with all those wonderful people/trainers would be great!
In 2005, I was diagnosed w/Hepatitis C. (A tatoo on my 30th B'day.) I am single for the first time, I have been a Bartender here in "TouristeVille" for...EVER!! But, then I had a fall and blew out a knee; & as soon as possible returned to work...where I promptly fell again. I contined to work....and, continued to fall.....but, after the diagnosis, bartending was the least of my problems....Breast implants that leaked for 20 years/Hep C/the falls.....and, going from being really, really, active.....to not being able to do anything!!... well, I feel like it's "ruined" me. I gained weight.....and, with my knee trouble had to stop work/stop running/stop "living" is what it feels like.
I would have given anything to be one of the people you chose for *SKYLAB*!!!! Anyway,.......I just wanted to say; you are so cool! Thanks for your 'show'.....sure makes me wish I did not live in a town of 3,000! hahahaa....not many trainers here! Unless you want to learn to drink!! I know this is too long; but, watching your show tonight......made me want to say "Thank You". I just wish there was something/someone
similar to you and what you do where "I" live. Good Luck with anything and everything you do....there are those of us out here that even tho' you don't train us; you still motivate us!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:00 AM
ter wrote:
About Brian....
Brian needs to cut his ego several notches down. I know his type very well. i have been in the military for 25 years and have run into men like him at just about every assignment i have been to. Men like him have very high egos and do not like to really work for women or be told what to do by women. i can't count on my 2 hands how many times I have been challenged by men like him in the military. Like you, when i am challenged i push back just as hard. Most men who have high egos like that don't like or expect women to push back on them ...they are actually surprised that a woman will challenge them back and not put up with their crap. Men who give me grief because of their insecurities about their manhood or competencies or whatever it is, learn real quick that i am not one to put up with their crap. In the end, they either hate me or I have earned their respect.......either way, the problems with them ends rather quickly.
I think Brian has some insecurities about himself....and those insecurities are magnified by the fact that he has to answer to/work for a woman.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:01 AM
Cristal Quintana wrote:
So in one of your episodes you mentioned the ingredients you use for a breakfast shake, I got the mixed berries, but thats pretty much it. Can you give me the ingredients.
Thanks and your show rocks!!! I am really curious to see what happends in your love life.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:09 AM
Joan wrote:
Hi Jackie and Gang,
You should talk to my husband. He is a very well respected astrologer. He could help you with your existing romantic partnership and your relationships among you and those at the gym run much smoother.
He's a wonderful coach...and could even meet with you just like your therapist does now...?
Or just call him for a very private and confidential session.
Joan,
Lake Tahoe
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:13 AM
Henry Sawicki wrote:
Hi Jackie!
I love the show!! can you please e-mail me the ingredents for the power shake you were all making on the show that aired
4-4-07? I would really appreciate it. Thanks alot!!
Henry Sawicki
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:14 AM
Cheryl wrote:
I enjoy the show and all of you and watching you all connect with one another. I think what happened with You(Jackie) and Rebecca as well as the reactions was normal. I've experienced it before in both positions and i think you just have to give people time. You've just changed an element of their everyday work life...they have to figure it out. What it changes, if it changes and all that goes with. You being the boss makes it a little different if it were 2 co-workers on equal levels. Things develope how they will, its not wrong but as it took time for the relationship to develope, it will take time for them to process and accept. Its nice to see we're all human and share similar experiences.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:15 AM
karenatwood wrote:
being in therapy, as one decides on a rebound relationship, of some complexity, can be reeeeeeeeeally helpful.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:19 AM
PATJAM wrote:
Jackie, you are a compelllingly complex women. Which is all good!
You have created a facinating fitness workshop, your trainers are real, fun and good....from the Tv standpoint. Through your relationship have been/ are a workout in and of themselves ....rest assured they make for great television. If you every wanna learn to rip baseballs/ softballs I'm the guy...I train baseball hopefuls.
I'm shocked and very sorry about Dougs passing, he seemed like an awesome man. Best to your endevors. Patjam
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:19 AM
diana osburn wrote:
jackie. i love workout because you always appear honest. i think you both seem great together. as far as your staff, the green monster comes to mind. your team all wants to be a part of you, not uncommon in good leaders. hope it's working out for both of you. di
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:19 AM
becky wrote:
It is hard to meet people...I agree...Especially if you are in the gym all the time. The only people you meet are either clients or other trainers. Be careful....good luck...just try to keep things together if you guys ever argue at any time....we are women...its hard to keep things casual, our emotions tend to tie things up.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:20 AM
Jen wrote:
Peeler is still dealing with those issues within himself and having a female be so comfortable with the fact that there are issues may be intimidating.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:28 AM
tamara wrote:
i wanted to ask you that emotions are tied with working out.But i want to loose weight and its hard cause i dont have any friends to do that with me.Ive tried the gym but it didnt last, i want to go back but its hard to be by yourself and workout.I really want to loose weight but to go to the gym cost money.I know if i was slimmer i would meet men.I go out with a girl i know who is a single mom but she is shaped like an hourglass.I get bypassed.Ive even tried to go out by myself and its awkward.Please help me, a girl at my work goes walking but we are only friends at work we dont call each other on a daily basis.Im a single mom with two kids and all i do is work and take care of my kids.No social life,no dating and im 36.Ill be 37 in september.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:30 AM
scooby wrote:
Hi Jackie,
I must say that tonight I just started watching your show, they had a marathon on Bravo, and I must say that I am hooked! Anyways, the issue with Brian, I am an United States Marine and I have Marines in my shop that I deal with who take EVERYTHING I say the wrong way and in my line of work you just have to suck it up, I mean if you want to cry go home to your mommy! Not trying to say anything bad about Brian he seems like a great guy, but you got to learn to take things with a grain of salt and in the world you need to know how to take critisizm.
And I totally agree that that body is so tied up in emotion! I have been dealing with a weight problem my whole life, I am not fat, I am muscular. I had to starve myself and lose everything just to get down to 128 to make it into the Marine Corps, and now I am back in that position! I was in a cast for six months not being able to do anything, and I gained weight, now I am on a program we Marines call BCP which is body composition program, and it is devistating. I mean it is sort of motivating me to get up and go work out, but it is not fun what so ever. I have lost the extra motivation I need down inside. But enough "woe is me", let me get to the point, since I have been on this program I have notice a pain in my jaw caused from stress worring I am not going to make the weight and now my jaw is all messed up! I did make body fat, but in the corps our body fat standards are way higher than yours, I was completely shocked when you said that women should be know higher than 19%, I mean I am bearly coming in at 26! Wow, well anyways enough rambling I just also wanted to tell you that now just watching you for the past five hours I have a new motivation to get up and stay going Thanks and I mean that, and maybe someday, since I only live 2 hrs away from you gym I might take a trip up there!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:36 AM
Patti wrote:
Jackie, I love the show, I am working on get my stuff together now and hope to become healthly and fit in the process. I just wanted to say I think you and Becca do have some sparks between you and you are both right in pursueing it. But, you need to discuss the consequences if this dosen't work out for the two of you (so you don't end up in the same place like with Mimi) As for your staff being shocked and a little unnerved by this relationship that is to be expected. you are all a family, you all share your sadness losses, happines and gains. This is just a normal reaction to a big change in your staff family dynamics. Good luck with the show your relationships and I am deeply saddened by the loss of doug. Oh one more thing could you post the recipe for the morning shake on this Blog Please?
Patti
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:41 AM
Jennifer wrote:
You go girl...I totally agree with what you have to say in regards to Rebecca and yourself. As you say that your in a relaxed enviroment, which is ran by you. You have the choice to make your own decisions. And what other people think, whether it be co-workers or outsiders are just phases of jealousy. I think you two have a great thing together. And it's great that you have someone that you can feel comfortable around in a sexual way after breaking if off with Mimi. I think Rebecca is a fun positive person for you to be around. I hope everything works out with the two of you, and who cares what everyone else has to say or think....It's your life and happiness you have to worry about.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:42 AM
Sherry wrote:
Jackie, It's not you, so stop worrying about it. It was definitely Peeler. The way he so calmely said it later was he said he would help you out. Not! He said well come on over to Peeler Ville I'll get you into shape. Total Ass. If he can't take it he needs to stop firing the first shot. I think you handled yourself beautifully and professionally. If he felt embarassed and hurt. He was the oone that put himself into that position.
I Love your Show
Keep up the Good Work, Plus it isn't anybody's business what you do or who you hang with during your off hours.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:43 AM
tamara wrote:
im watching your show right now about the pajama party and i just think you need to be careful of where rebecca is coming from.Either she is into you because shes gay or shes into you because of the show and for what you have.You seem like a strong and true person.For her to all of a sudden be interested in you after mimi,you are very vulnerable to just get out of a relationship.There are those girls who just make out in front of there friends to be cute and i hope rebecca isnt doing that for her attention.Dont you know if something bad happens are she going to still work there.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:45 AM
Eileen wrote:
i think jackie and rebecca are very cute together. people may just look negatively upon their newly discovered relationship. but only because what is shown on television isn't exactly what is happening... i mean jackie says that they have developed this relationship over time,and people havent seen that so they are going to think its premature. i myself think its a great thing, jackie and rebecca being an item. they both seem to have outgoing personalities and from what i've seen on tv they've been into each other for quite a while. im just looking forward to the upcoming episodes to see what becomes of this... im addicted. i just hope one day i get to somehow meet the wonderful jackie. and maybe even train in her gym. that would be a dream come true... until then im going to have to get my thrills from the tv set.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:47 AM
Amanda wrote:
I have to start off by saying that I am totally moved by your strength and confidence and courage surrounding your business and personal relationships! I wish I had half the power you do. It would make everything in my life that much better.
I absolutely love the idea of SkyLab!! Not only should fit people have their place to maintain their shape, but us overweight people should have a comfortable setting to start and maintain a healthy lifestyle! I commend those you have the ambition to do exercise and diet and stick with it! I just don't like the feeling that I get going to a gym and being the only overweight one there, like everyone is staring at me. I'm sure it is all in my head, but I don't want to look like an idiot out of place!
I want a SkyLab here in South Dakota, but I would love to work with your team also!! That would be amazing!! If Rebecca was my trainer, I would be so motivated!! I would probably try to show off and end up hurting myself, but it would so be worth it!
I just want to become fit and healthy!
Also, I send my deepest sympathy to Doug's family and friends!
~Amanda~
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:51 AM
Scott Perkins wrote:
Hot Hot Hot!!!!!
Love the show and all of yall.
So sorry to hear about Doug. We will all miss him.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:52 AM
Chris wrote:
It's so BRAVE to agree to a show like this! I don't usually watch "reality" shows, but you all captured my attention - sexy, funny, FIT, but also KIND - I guess that's what matters most to me. I never would have guessed that such a high profile gym serving celebs and high-profile clients of all kinds would work with seriously overweight people in such a caring, tender, and supportive way! I say this as an overweight disabled person myself. Jackie, I love to see you hugging your Skylab clients - or anyone who needs support - and being such a caring person, regardless of personal appearance or status. You're willing to show your flaws - but your kindness shines over everything. The other trainers, too.
It was painful to watch the fights with Mimi - sometimes people can't see it when they're so wrong for each other. Jackie is so charismatic, you'd think she'd NEVER have girlfriend problems - live and learn!
If I could afford it, I'd train at Sky for sure - because I know I'd be treated well, regardless of the way my sweatpants fit!
Love those pink slippers, Jackie.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:53 AM
Cherie wrote:
Jackie..I feel you are correct in that you are subjected to expectations due to stereotypes...and being the rebel you are...you subconsciously move through them...stiring controversy...this is not a corporate business (yet-:) and why should you be exempted of what the other trainers have...in your allowance and respect of them to be adults...and handle work-personal relations....your trainers should allow you the same! Be happy girl...and thank GOD you MiMi is gone. Enjoy yourself! hese are good times! I am enjoying watching your renewed spirit ;)
posted on April 4, 2007 at 2:53 AM
Larry B wrote:
Jackie, this is Larry from Columbus, Ohio. It's really hard watching these episodes knowing that Doug dies. I had heard that one or both of his parents had died young of Brain tumours and that his sister had died in car accident. He was alone? It's sad to think of someone undergoing a medical emergency alone. I hope he was surrounded by people who loved him. I don't know why but I really feel grief about this guy. He was the guy who wanted to be everyones best friend. I did not know him but think that he is the finest example of the human race-gay or straight. In a world where you meet a ton of dishonest people willing to sale there souls to get ahead, (and I know these kinds of people because I'm dealing with my own saga right now), there stands this geniune guy who really cared about people. What a guy!!!!!!! WHAT A GREAT HUMAN BEING!!!! I just hope he was surrrounded by people who loved him.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:00 AM
Beth wrote:
I don't think Jesse should have gotten so upset over your relationship with Rebecca. Yes, relationships can sometimes take time away from the friendship, but she makes you happy and he should see that.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:02 AM
Eva wrote:
Jackie you are amazing!!! I am in a emotionally abusive relationship like yours was with Mimi and over the years and all of his put downs I have stop taking care of myself and have gained weight. I am a type 1 diabetic and my health is getting worse and worse. Watching you and your show is giving me motivation and I intend on changing my life.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:05 AM
Christian wrote:
Hey Jackie,
I found your show by accident and was hooked from the first time I saw it. You come off very level headed and "normal." Good luck with your life, don't give up, and if you ever have like "HUGE" discounts on your sessions, let me know. (Can't hurt to try right!?) I'm straight, you're not, and that's cool. Peace.
Christian
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:06 AM
Jason M. V. wrote:
Jackie,
I would love to work out in your gym. I see how great your employees are and I need not too much work, but I would love to be bulked with great abs. I'm having trouble doing the right stuff for my body. Is there away you can e-mail me so that I can talk one to one? I would love to ask you some fitness questions and I feel that you are the one that can answer them. Please, e-mail me when you get the time.
I love the show. Probably one of the best shows on Television. I believe I've seen all the episodes. I'm thinking of becoming a Fitness Trainer. Hopefully, I will get the chance to work for you. I'm the oposite of Brian, by the way. I would listen since you have a lot of experience. Plus, it's your gym.
Best wishes to you, Jackie
~ Jason
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:08 AM
Angel wrote:
I was really intrested in this episode but shoked, people do date there bosses and co-workers its normal but besides that they keep it on the down low but that was a big no no when your other girl kissed you right in front of Rebecca may i say OUCH@
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:11 AM
erica wrote:
hey i was wondering what you are going to do after the show? i need someone like you or your crew to train me. i really don't think that i can of as right now afford you, but maybe after all your seasons end {hopefully never} i will be able to become one of your clients. thank you so much.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:13 AM
kris wrote:
wow
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:14 AM
Cheryl wrote:
Jackie, Why do you let your trainers talk to you the way they do? You made the remark that "you have to work with these people" No you don't. If they have a problem with who you see or what you do, then they need to deal with it or leave. I have never seen "quote" employees "unquote" talk to thier employers like that. I have worked in a very small group and never would I question who my boss was sleeping with. Nor would I want them to know about my partner unless I chose to share that. Great show. I wish I could afford a month out there with you guys. But because of my weight I know I'd die.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:18 AM
janet wrote:
First off, I really LOVE your show and love the way you handle yourself. I am a straight, married woman and you are a role model for me. I think you were completely right about Jesse - he just could not hide his jealousy in the fact that Rebecca was now getting all your attention. I mean, who WOULDN'T love getting the all the attention from your boss, esp. when you are her/his close friend? There is something very powerful in knowing that are you are close to your boss/star of the show. Jesse knew he would no longer share the limelight with you (no more photo ops with just you and him perhaps?). Just my inkling (even though your friendship with him is real and genuine). And finally, my comment about Rebecca - GO AHEAD AND HAVE FUN!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:19 AM
Mandy wrote:
You should know that thanks to your show, i started working out four months ago...and i've lost thirty pounds! shocka! i'm super stoked....so keep on doing what you're doing because people are watching, learning and being inspired. cheerio!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:19 AM
kelly wrote:
First of all i just want to say I love the show and very happy you broke up with Mimi. I hope you find love. The issue with Peeler, well I am sorry you have a business to run. He needs to grow up. Everyone has issues with their employer. If he can't handle it to bad for him. I don't mean to be mean but he has done almost nothing but whine since the first season. You have a very good heart and wouldn't hurt anyone on purpose, but he needed to be but in his place. Keep up the good job wish you were in PA. Would love to meet you.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:20 AM
Amanda Mazzanti wrote:
Jackie... no need to be defensive. You are the bomb. A bold successful woman. Its like that quote ..."Good things happen over time but the great things happen all at once". Part of you may have felt guilt for the whole work aspect... but.. when the great things happen-its easy to get caught up. No worries- change is constant and people will adjust.
Just keep being you.
Much Respect-
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:26 AM
sf wrote:
Jackie - I want to tell you I really love you and the show. While I am watching, I have so much to say but now that I am writing, I feel funny about it somehow! Here goes.....I am soooo glad Mimi is out of your life. She treated you so badly. You deserve better. This brings me to Rebecca. I know we don't see all the details but RUN!! She is so shallow and seems like she is sucking up to the boss! Perhaps it is all physical (not a bad thing) but oh my god you need to keep looking for that soul mate that is out there for you!!! Stop looking so hard. Just be comfortable with your house and your dogs and your business -- and yourself. The rest will come. I am just a fat mid-western housewife, I don't mean to be your mother but trust me, I know what I am talking about. (your mother is a whole different story, don't get me started....she doesn't have to like your life and should be able to voice her views but she sure should support you no matter what!!) Well, I have said enough - I sometimes get in trouble for running my mouth! I am sure you have people asking you constantly to e-mail them, etc. but sincerely, if you ever want to talk to someone, look me up. I will always give you an honest opinion. Looking foreward to more WORKOUT!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:28 AM
Ed Virostek wrote:
Jackie,
I loved tonight's show! I'm glad the new season is here so I can get my weekly fill of the drama that is your life. What I like about your show is this...you've managed to produce a show that addresses a lot of issues and challenges people are experiencing everyday...gay/straight/fat/skinny/emotionally dependant/possessive/insecure/secure and on and on. It's very courageous of you to put this all out there for everyone to see.
I think that Rebecca and you make a great couple...you two are so hot together! Glad you got rid of Mimi...she was a drain on your energy and soul! I loved the look on the psychiatrists face when she walked out of therapy...brilliant!
Jesse is going to have to let you move on. He is very jealous of you and wishes he were you...a woman.
Keep up the entertaining show...it's one I won't miss!
Ed-Las Vegas
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:28 AM
CJ wrote:
Jackie,
I think your very brave to show as much of your life as you do on camera. It is hard enough to deal with an emotional breakup and work drama without cameras in your face. I think you are somewhat of a reluctant role model. You should be proud that you are showing the world that a strong, intelligent, beautiful gay woman can be an amazing business woman and still be sensitive and not have to crack heads to prove she deserves to be where she has gotten. Keep living your best life.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:33 AM
HAZEL wrote:
Hi Jacki,
I love watching you,and living vicariously through you. I must say for years I have been a lesbian.I have never acted upon it. I have been married twice and I have two grown sons. I have always loved women. Enough about me.
I have to tell you that I do not think that it would be to your best interest to continue the affair with with employee. After your relatiionship with Mimi, I am so happy you are not seeing her any more. She made you look weak.Please just take care and step back assess the situation not to rush into something you may regret. Love You.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:48 AM
Carrie wrote:
Live for yourself and don't let other peoples reactions/opinions change what you are doing. If you are happy and having a good time, that is what you should continue to focus on. You spent 4 yrs trying to please someone, who in my opinion, did not give you what you gave her. Take care of you, and if enjoying the company of Rebecca and Tiffany is what makes you happy at the moment...YOU GO GIRL!!! You are funny, sexy and successful..Revel in that!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:52 AM
Patty wrote:
Jackie I believe if you are happy, more power to you. This is your life and no one has a right to make judgements. Jesse should just mind his business. Just remember dont jump into things even though Rebecca has worked for you, does not mean you know the in's and out's of her life. Feel it out and take one moment at a time. Heck I am one to talk, I am 41 yrs old female and since being diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis I am lucky anyone stuck around even to be a friend much less date me. But I wish you all the best in what ever you do.
Take Care Patty
posted on April 4, 2007 at 3:52 AM
Matti Domingue wrote:
I personally think that he looks up to Jackie and that he dosent want to disappoint her and if i might say stand out of the crowd so that she can realize that he is the best and he is willing to try really hard. Like he said hes gone through a hard child hood ,and feels as if he has to proove something ...but thats just my opinion i might be wrong.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 4:20 AM
Jennifer wrote:
I am so loving your show...the drama is great but I'm learning a lot from watching what you are doing with the skylab clients. I had back surgery last year and was in the hospital for close to 4 months with a staph infection and completely bedridden for a total of 8 months out of last year. My highest weight was 397 lbs. I got down to 330 after the surgery and i have gained back 20 lbs because i am terrified to work out...and havent changed my eating habits enough. I'm so scared of re-injury that i'm slowly killing myself at this weight. I used to be a workout addict LOL I would walk 3 miles to work each way and stop and work out on the way home before i had my son and was a healthy 138lbs. i sooo miss it but it's like i've forgotten what to do. Anyway, incredibly long story short...you are inspiring me Jackie. Thank you...i hope to see more eating tips for people like me.
XOXO
Jenn
posted on April 4, 2007 at 4:33 AM
tonya wrote:
how would i get the recipe for Jackies morning shake
posted on April 4, 2007 at 4:44 AM
Ashley Lagos wrote:
I am an emotional eater so I am also an emtional exerciser. Unfortunately some of the trainers I have worked out with in the past do not understand how emotional it can be when you oer coe an obstacle physically. I appreciate someone understanding that. Thanks.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 5:08 AM
Tarsha wrote:
Jackie, You go girl! I would rather see you with Rebecca than that Tiffany! You deserve to be happy and the way I see it on tv, you and Rebecca look good together! Can't wait till the next show to air.
Tarsha
posted on April 4, 2007 at 5:18 AM
peedge wrote:
Hey Jackie,
I think the chemistry shown on TV between the two of you is very Hot n Heavy. As you say in a Video Blog you are not by any means looking/wanting a long term relationship with Rebecca, but I think that with time you might grow stronger feelings for each other. I think you two are cute, while she is younger and may need to get serious at times, to me she is a great fit, but maybe that is also because I like her energy and who she is on TV.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 5:34 AM
Kathy wrote:
Jackie don't worry about what you're employees say, you're
personal life isn't their business. I'm a 55 year old mother of 5 and grandmother of 14, so I'm pretty good at spotting whose
good for who, I really think there is something deeper between
you and Rebecca and maybe you should think about a relation-
ship with her ( a serious one ). I think you're great Jackie, I'd
love to be you're second mom, you're so sweet and caring about people, you deserve someone who can see you for the real you.
I think Rebecca is just the one for that. Be Happy!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 5:52 AM
Tiffany wrote:
Jackie-
Fist off let me say that you are really amazing! I watch the show all the time and I just love you! Im very glad you ended your relationship with "MiMi", it was very unhealthy and since I have been there and donethat you are much better off without her! Honestly though since i have been watching the show I have been able to look at things in a different light and I want to thank you for that!
tiffany--
posted on April 4, 2007 at 6:09 AM
Haley wrote:
First of all, your show is inspiring. In your last episode, I heard the term Happy Fat. I must be in a Nesting/Happy Fat position in my life. Therefore I should consider myself very fortunate. Although my husband and I are experiencing this Nesting Syndrome, we are killing each other with kindness and gaining Happy Fat. What will be the best method for us to lose the Happy Fat? We both could use the extra energy!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 6:24 AM
Amy wrote:
I think you are an inspiration Jackie! Good for you and Rebecca, I wish you both well. You both seem happy and that is all that matters:)
posted on April 4, 2007 at 6:25 AM
Lindalou wrote:
Good show, Ms. J. I admire your authenticity and suggest that follow your first instincts and not your "p-brain". I don t have to tell you regarding ethics as boss but suggest that you need to look a little more closely at your actions after you have a few cocktails. So many people have had their lives ruined by following their impulses when they have had too much too drink.
I am so sad to realize that Doug has passed. He was such a sweetheart...probably the Lord needs him in heaven. Perhaps his spirit can be more of a service to us all from there. His take on the concept of LOVE should be taken to heart.
Remember Jackie, want what you have, give what you need.
Lindalou
posted on April 4, 2007 at 6:25 AM
Corbittz00 wrote:
I think at many different levels inside of Jesse he is jealous. He likes to be the center of attention and I think he is worried about loosing some of the lime light. I also think he may have a little thing for 'Hot Jackie' himself. All respect to Jackie, but I am glad she finally gets a taste of the anger and yuck that anyone who dissagrees with Jesse gets to experience. I love Work Out! I am so proud of Jackie and all of her accomplishments, her hard work, her drive, her dedication, her amazing 'Hot Body', her personality. Everything about her that has been portayed of her on the show helps me to feel proud to be a woman. I also have started 'working out'. I think it is importatnt for Jackie to know that I am a married, active LDS woman who adores her! Go Jackie!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 6:57 AM
leslie wrote:
This is the very first time i am writing to a show... But i am hooked. I would love the ingredients to your breakfast shake since I am on the mend from major shoulder surgery and need to get back into shape. thanks....
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:13 AM
reno wrote:
What are the ingrietiants and amounts in breakfast shake?
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:33 AM
E. wrote:
you and rebecca are soooooooo HOTTT together, don't care what anyone thinks!!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:35 AM
reno wrote:
What are the ingrediants in Jackie's "breakfast shake"? Also what are the amounts of the "makins' ? Thanks...
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:36 AM
Babe wrote:
Hi from Lousiana!!!!
Hey Jackie!!! i loved your show YOU ROCK!!!!!.. watched last nite.... What s going on??? sound u are compeltely confused bec of ur staff being judgementals against u and rebecca which actually it s none of their business .... and now another chick involved... I do certain hope you know what your doing and please dont hurt rebecca because yall look beautiful couple and seen u being much happier... keep her and dump other girl...Thank you for showing the food part which that definitely helps alot for my sister who s trying to lose more weights which i am only atheltic in my family that works out constantly!!!! I am giving her support go achieve and ur show is absoutely perfect for other people to watch and motivate them to lose weight in your skylab espiodes on the show!!!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:38 AM
KarenZipdrive wrote:
Jackie, Don't worry about Peeler. His ego is so huge, I'm surprised he's lasted this long. He's sort of like George Bush--he's not that smart, yet he has this huge sense of entitlement. He somehow thinks he's essential to your success. He's not.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 7:50 AM
Lisa Goodbinder wrote:
Hi Jackie, love the show and look foward to the next episode. Last night you shared a great recipe for a breakfast shake. I always find it challenging to bring diversity to the menu. This looks like a great option,I would appreciate the recipe.
Best Regards,
Lisa Goodbinder
posted on April 4, 2007 at 8:16 AM
camt wrote:
The sexual harassment suit Rebecca is going to file someday will make for truly compelling reality TV.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 8:40 AM
Lesley wrote:
Last night's show rocked! You are my hero, Jackie! The fact that you are so open about who you are, and that you are willing to let the world see your flaws and issues, as well as your amazing successes is wonderful. I love watching you and Rebecca together, and I'm so glad to see you having fun! When you do get Skylab up and running, I so want to come!
posted on April 4, 2007 at 8:40 AM
Jess wrote:
Jackie...Jackie, Jackie. First, I must say I lust after you so completely, like the rest of America. Is there any way that you are NOT amazing....? I have decided you are the complete package, in entirety, and if I lived a little closer, I would so be stealing you from Rebecca. Not try...I WOULD. *wink. In the mean time, I will sit here, knowing I am very much your "type" (as best I can tell =)....and knowing there is little chance in H*ll of our paths ever crossing...*sigh...so I will simply resist the urge to make out with my tv screen, and just continue to watch, and yes lust after, the extraordinary woman that you are.
There!
Keep your head up baby.
~Jess
posted on April 4, 2007 at 8:42 AM
Trish wrote:
um yeah Jackie...now you're totally making excuses and creating your own scenarios to defend your feelings. Last week you were adamant that you would NEVER date an employee now this week it's "well it's not really THAT type of work environment" And how about last season when you wigged out on Rebecca with the dirty pics and the crack showing every 5 minutes - now she's your boo and it's all out in the open!
Am I opposed to work-place dating? Not really. But it's a total contradiction now!
still love the show though :)
posted on April 4, 2007 at 8:44 AM
Carmen wrote:
WOW, it keeps getting better with every episode, I'm so glad you have that sparkle in your eye again. It very inspiring to see a woman like you be successful and then again know that sometimes things do not workout the way we want them to. I think it's great, the relationship between Rebecca and you. It
was brewing for a while. Good luck can't wait for the nex episode.
posted on April 4, 2007 at 8:45 AM
Char wrote:
I can't believe the reaction from the trainers regarding your relationship to Rebecca. If things were developing off-camera over time, why are they so blown away? Didn't they see it develop? Jesse needs to get a grip if he's the "best friend" he claims to be. Everyone dates w/in the workplace and that includes Bosses with their subordinates. Considering how he reacted to "division within the gay community", he should start practicing what he screeches because he's being waaaay too judgemental over this. Have fun with Rebecca (hey, I'd date her too!) and soak up the happiness. You deserve it after you previous disaster, uhm, I mean relationship. :)
posted on April 4, 2007 at 8:59 AM