Tim wrote:

I love the show. I have really gotten into the show this season and I started to work out again. I am very sorry about Doug, he will be in my prayers.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:07 PM

LAS wrote:

Jackie- It was an incredibly moving episode from beginning to end. Your strength is an inspiration to many and how unselfish of you to share it like you do. God Bless Doug...an obviously wonderful, kind, an strong man.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:08 PM

aylin wrote:

Right on, sister. You have to repair all the intimacy issues you had as a child, otherwise, you just recreate those vrey same problems in you love relationships as an adult. If you look back on your relationships, you will definitely see cyclical behavior - the same stuff reoccuring over & over again...."same stuff, different girl" - but once you acknowledge it, feel it and heal it, your totally on your way to a healthier, better you. Prayer helps too, Jackie - prayer, therapy and a long run are my meds...and life is a vacation. It's never the begining, nor the end of the chapter that counts, it's ALL in the in between....

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:10 PM

DANA wrote:

Jackie-
Though we as viewers, most of us don't actually know you, your staff or anyone, yet the feeling of this episode hit very close. Its funny how so many people go through very similar situations. Its great to see your mom taking the baby steps and making some headway on the real concerns that many gay people face today!

ON A BRIGHTER NOTE...WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THE CLOTHING LINE. PEOPLE HERE IN NYC THINK YOUR IDEAS ARE GREAT AND THIS WOULD BE A HUGE HIT!

Lastly, not sure if you read all of these but just so you know..Im in great shape, but everytime I watch the show, I HAVE TO DROP DOWN AND DO 15 PUSHUPS, 200 SITUPS, AND TRICEP DIPS TILL I SHAKE!!!

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:12 PM

Rhonda wrote:

If you only knew how similar my life is to yours. Toss out the big success and toss in a 4yr old daughter in an 2 bdr condo and it's almost scarey. I grew up less than 100 miles from you and recognized the area during the episode. I too have recently had a break thru with my mom. It took my father 's death to bring us together. Sad...but true. This episode has been inspiring. I feel the exact same when I go back to my hometown and it was nice to hear you put to words what you were feeling. I can never do that. Wow. You're exactly right. Thank you.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:13 PM

Sandra R wrote:

Hi jackie.. this is the first time i got on here and its because of this episode... Im so very sorry for the loss of Doug.... He has been one of my favorites to watch these two seasons and im very sad that he has passed....I also had my dad commit suicide when i was very young and the first time i visited his grave was kind of like urs with ur dad... thank u jackie for sharing this episode with us and people in Iowa miss Doug and are thinking about him...! Thanks for having a great show and i truely enjoy watching it each time!

RIP Doug... ull be missed!

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:14 PM

Wendy wrote:

Jackie: I love u and the show! I have seen every episode multiple times. Quick question: I am trying to lose weight and I know u r anti-sugar during the week. Doesn't the type of fitness water at Sky Sport have sugar in it? It tastes better but would u recommend water during my workouts instead? Thanks! Wendy

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:14 PM

Tonya wrote:

Jackie, I'm sooooo upset with tonights episode about Doug youwere truly blessed to have had him for the length of time that you did, feel blessed by his love,energy and smile.

Deare

Jackie,

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:14 PM

forbesfart wrote:

great tv. You are a inspiration, your entire crew. Keep true to yourselves! The episode so moving and sadly real. I never thought I would see so much truth out there on tv....being from a small town, sexuality, relationships, and those that touch us. Doug was special, you all are.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:15 PM

Joan wrote:

I live in Florida and the show just ended. I have to say that it was probably the most emotional show I have ever watched. I can understand the feelings of being gay and having a healthy relationship with my mother. I love my mother to death and we are the best of friends; so i guess I can consider myself very lucky. I know that deep down inside your mom loves you very much. Doug's passing was very hard for me to watch. My sister passed away a year ago today, giving birth to my baby nephew. Watching this episode hit home for me and brought a lot of feelings back for me. I think you will be proud of how beautiful and heartfelt the episode is and I hope you realize that millions are proud of you and what you have accomplished even though you've gone through a lot of hardship yourself. Life goes on and that's what makes it great. Thank you for being you.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:16 PM

Rhonda wrote:

Also...I too swear that I remember being an A or B student. I'm afraid to ask my mom if I'm right. She probably has the report cards to prove me wrong, but I am convinced that I was.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:17 PM

Ed wrote:

Jackie
First off I'm still crying. This was the best eposide of Workout that I have seen. This season is really a full homecoming for me. I too grew up in a small town (on the Jersey Shore) and have many things about my life that I need to resolve. Watching this eposide has really made me see that life is really to short. By you going to your father's grave really put into perspective many things in my personal life.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!

PS> If I was living in the LA area I would love to work for you. I love your passion and strive to help others.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:19 PM

Elizabeth wrote:

Im sorry for your loss, Im deepest condolences go out to everyone at Skylab and to his Doug's family. Jackie you are on your way becoming a whole person! God bless you and your team.

-Liz

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:21 PM

Tammy wrote:

I have been waiting for this episode. I am impressed with the fact Jackie is from a small-midwest town!! SHe has made it big! To come from a small humble town to the huge success gives me the idea I am doing whats right. (I am from a small town-making it "big" in another top 10 big US city. Indianapolis NO LESS!!) I also loved and was so impressed with the other episode I decided to look up the sports wear website and want to work for them!! I can't believe next week is the last episode! Will there be any more??

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:23 PM

Bev wrote:

JACKIE
I WAS EXTREMELY TOUCHED BY THIS EPISODE. I TOO LOST MY DAD EARLY..I WAS 17 AND MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY MOM WAS NOT REALLY A GOOD ONE I ALWAYS FELT I WANTED HER APPROVAL IN THINGS I DID IN LIFE BUT NEVER RECEIVED IT. I RELATED TO THIS EPISODE AND MUCH OF WHAT YOU FELT BUT I ADMIRE YOU TREMENDOUSLY CAUSE YOU HEALED FROM YOUR ACTIONS HERE AND GOOD FOR YOU! I DONT THINK I EVER REALLY DID.
I ALSO WANTED TO SEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES TO YOU AND YOUR STAFF FOR THE LOSS OF DOUG HE WAS A LIGHT OF LOVE IN YOUR GYM..GOD BLESS HIM ALWAYS. I AM SURE IT WAS DIFFICULT FOR YOU ALL LOSING IM SPECIALLY BRIAN...WE ALL KNOW THOUGH..TIME HEALS.
I LOVE YOUR SHOW AND WOULD LOVE TO BE ABLE TO CONTACT YOU . I HAVE HAD A WEIGHT PROBLEM ALL MY LIFE AND NOW AM CONSIDERING BARIATRIC SURGERY. IF THERE'S ANYWAY YOU OR SOMEONE FROM YOUR GYM CAN CONTACT ME VIA EMAIL I'D LOVE IT
THANKS FOR MAKING ME PROUD TO BE A WOMAN TOO...
FONDLY,
BEV

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:23 PM

Terri Angiolieri wrote:

Jackie,
It was great seeing you and your Mom finally coming together. I think this is the start of something great for the both of you. I was so sad to hear about Doug. He was truly a special person. I am sure he will be missed by all. Take care and keep your chin up.

Terri

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:23 PM

blinkblue wrote:

I just saw tonight's episode and it was television at its very best. It was also human beings at their very best. Thank you Bravo for bringing this kind of programming to America. I only wish your network was on basic cable so more households would have the opportunity to watch and discuss shows like Work Out.
Jackie thank you for allowing the cameras to be present during your very personal moments of true growth. It must not be easy. Just know that your example helps a lot of us who struggle in life with the very same issues you deal with. I hope you know that you are not helping only those in your immediate vicinity. Your strength is inspiring.
Doug's passing is so very tragic. I cried with Brian and second his thought of "why does this have to happen to someone so good?" My deep condolensces to all of you and his family.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:26 PM

Cindy wrote:

Jackie,

Everything about this episode moved me greatly, but the segment focusing on your and your mother's relationship affected me the most because I, too, have grapled with many issues with my mom. I am 34, and have tried very hard to be close to her and, like you, have (and still am) working on trying to come to terms with this in therapy. Although I don't hold much hope for significant growth with my mother, watching this episode gave me new inspiration to try to salvage whatever is left of our relationship and try to accept what I can't change and focus on what is possible. Your sharing has inspired me. I find it moving that people who have never met can affect and inspire each other, as you have done for me and countless others, I'm sure. I wish you the best and look forward to future episodes. Your great spirit is evident and has an impact on levels that you'll probably not aware of. You're just the cat's meow, lady!

Cindy

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:31 PM

Kramer wrote:

Jackie, I just wanted to thank you for everything you've opened up with this season. As a viewer, it is an enjoyment for me to take the time out each week to watch your show. Not only has your journey driven me to deal with my own issues with parents and my childhood, but to help others in the future. It is refreshing to see someone be honest and have such a passion for what they do in life. Thank you, and I wish you the best.

Rock on, sista friend.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:31 PM

Bruce Kinley wrote:

Jackie,
I too grew up in a small town (in Texas) and moved to LA as soon as I could. I found LA a great place to be gay in my 20s and really come into my own. I know live in Ohio, and find that sharing my experiences as a gay man are very valuable in a place that can be so intolerant. I found tonight's episode to be even more motivating and inspiring than usual... Thank you so much, you and your show are a huge part of my weekly inspiration to create a healthy life!
Cheers,
Bruce

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:32 PM

Negra Gomez wrote:

Hi Jackie,
I enjoyed your show tonight. It was thought provoking and showed many aspects of real life. I first would like to extend what appears to be future condolsence s for Doug and his family.When I saw him in previous shows I always adnmired him for his ability to genuinely interact with all types of personalilities.He was truly a special person ,one that will be missed. I don't think you should ever feel weak for showing the person who you really are. I think a lot of times we mask our true selves in order to appear stronger and to gain more acknowlegements for our success. I commend you for being who you are. The fact that you let Pillar manage the spa while you were away shows a women who is confident in her abilities and has a lot of savvy. I think going back home is hard for most people. Thank your for sharing your experience with us. I know it made think. Sometimes we all need to go back before we can go forward. Take care and be wll ....
NeGRA'

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:33 PM

Nicole wrote:

I truely admire your courage to admit that and willingness to face it head on. I'm refering to everything you confronted in this episode. I just recently lost my best friend in a sudden accident and watching this show tonight in a strange way almost made me face it. I just related to running from things and putting them on the backburner to get my work done and things and not dealing with it. I think of myself as a very strong person and it was just liberating to see you, whom in my opinion is very strong, stand up and deal with things you havent in the past. I'm so sorry for your loss with Doug he seemed like a truely great person, a borrowed angel, it was his time to return. Stay strong and know you are inspiring others in your everyday life

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:33 PM

KIM CONNORS wrote:

Jackie, What a beautiful, heartfelt show tonight! I appreciate you having the courage to show all of this healing on tv. I am a HUGE fan of yours and am from Vandalia, OH (we play Fairborn in HS Basketball). It was nice to see you share your little hometown with everyone. I never had the desire to leave, but it's great to see someone who had the courage to leave & WOW, what a Wonderful success you have become!!
Another thing in common, I believe your Father is buried at the same Veterans Cemetary as my Grandfather (off of Rt. 35?) Even if I can't find the grave, I will say "Hello" and a prayer for your Father when I visit my grandfather. Now your Mom does not have feel like she is the only one thinking of him there...what a wonderful gift you have left him, to share your story, so that complete strangers can remember him as well.
I would love to come see you if you ever have another public speaking event around Dayton.
Keep up the Inspirational work! :-) Kim C. (part-time Stay-at-Home Mom & Business woman)

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:35 PM

Myrna wrote:

jackie, not that trip home and your ordeal wasnt intresting , it was. Your trip home provides more insight into who you are and where you come then anything else on the show so far. I just wish doug's death hadnt been left for the last five minutes of the show, its so sudden and vauge that it's unclear how he dies. I wish there had been more inforamtion. i know its way after the fact now that having happened in jan, but i am sorry for your loss.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:36 PM

tabitha wrote:

how much time per workout do you recommend for a larger person starting out who doesn't have a lot of stamina?

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:36 PM

Jody wrote:

Jackie,

I cannot begin to tell you how tonight's episode touched me. You are truly amazing for what you have gone through and endured.

You handled everything that came at you with the wisdom, grace, and poise of a true winner.
I'm glad your mother is warming up to the fact that you are who you are, and who you are is a fantastic young woman, with a great head on her shoulders, and the guts to stand tall.

I can almost bet that every young person in that high school gym looked at you with the same pride, and awe that millions of americans do every week.

What you do is far beyond just "helping people" you are making a difference. Many people live long FULL lives and never come close to fulfilling the type of purpose you do. Be proud.

Sincerely,
Jody

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:36 PM

Rich Fine wrote:

I have to admit, I had prepared myself to be perturbed prior to the airing of this weeks episode due to sensationalism of Doug’s critical/fatal condition. Now . . . after watching the episode, I am so thankful for the entire episode.

Jackie: First, I believe you made a great executive decision to put Brian “Peeler” in charge of the gym in your absence. In the past, he has irritated me immensely with his attitude. But, as you stated, I think he has done some maturing. From how it was presented in the episode, he did a great job. He didn’t even crack when the other trainers were giving him a hard time. Good job to both Jackie and Peeler.

Secondly, I too grew up in a very small town, gay, and had to run off at 18. I ran off to NYC. Jackie, you touched on so many feelings I have when I go “home.” I also went back to my Alma-Ata for a presentation. You are right, as soon as you walk through the doors, the smell is the same. I also think that you and your mother connected this time. The look in your mother’s eyes was different than the other episode she was in. I am so happy for you two. Also, I am sorry for the loss of your father.

“Peeler”: My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss. I too have brothers like Doug was to you. I have learned, after a loss like this, to not pray for understanding, yet pray for acceptance. After years of working in critical care, I have learned that the robbing of life isn’t fare and there is no understanding nor logic. Doug will always live in your heart and soul. As you stated on the show, he made you a better man. And, in that, he lives. Every time you are a good man to someone, he lives. God Bless

This was truly an episode of heeling. Thanks! Rich Fine

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:37 PM

Tom Rieck wrote:

This was an amazing episode, and I hate to trivialize everything that happened as an "episode." So much happened in everyone's lives and it was overwhelming and beautifully captured. I've always admired how you put so much of yourself out there, and tonight was very emotional, healing, and human. I hope everyone finds their way and I hope everyone remembers Doug as he would have liked them to, may he rest in peace.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:37 PM

James Brookhart wrote:

Jackie....I am so moved by you I can hardly breath....I am a gay man who is almost your age and was so touched by your trip home because I could sooooo relate......I want you to know that watching your show is teaching me to love myself more and that is something I was beginning to think I could never do. I was always different and was in torment over it.....my mother and father kicked me out of my home at 15 and to look back now it has given me this reason to fight and hang on....I still am dealing with it daily but you are the first person to move me this way to move forward and try to heal....I know your not actually in my life but to watch you every week has helped me like you were....Thanks for being you and for helping a small town in Texas gay boy to start to try to love himself.....I am so sorry about your lose of Doug and wish there was something I could say to make it better but know that he would be proud of all of you for how much love and honor you have given his life since his lose....he would be so proud and is probably smiling at all of you......Now if I could learn to love myself enough to get in a frame of mind to love myself enough to lose some weight and take care of myself instead of treating my sadness with food I would be good....any hints?...lol...thanks for your time...I hope you get to read this....that is all I hope for with this....thanks for being you!...JamesBrookhart@gmail.com

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:37 PM

Andi wrote:

I can hardly write as I can't stop crying. I've never done this before - went to a tv website or blogged, but I felt compelled and was looking for more answeres. I recently heard on a talk show that our obsession with celebrity comes from some innate source that likens familiarity with the sense that we "know" someone - because we see people on tv all of the time, we think we know them. I find it unusual to feel this much sorrow for someone that I did not know and never met, but I do. I am also a little shocked that Doug's death occurred in Jan and was not mentioned until now. I realize it is a tv show, but I'm not sure that I feel right about the fact that it was not mentioned previously. I think it was handled well on the show in the fact that it was kept private and not the focus, but I am very upset that the first that I (the public) heard about this was when I pushed the button on my remote for a description of the episode and it said "Doug passes away". Writing it makes me even more angry. That it was handled for TV and not mentioned so that the episode would have impact. My heart goes out to Doug's family and friends. I am feeling grief for someone I did not know and anger toward a tv network for keeping it a secret for impact. I don't think it was a good decision. I leave with lots of questions (personal ones, I know) about how a man so young and healthy could be taken so soon (and seemingly know it during his birthday). I know I don't know you, but I heart also goes out to everyone at the gym. I can't imagine how hard this was, especially acting daily like it didn't happen.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:37 PM

Christal wrote:

I wish that the show could have been longer to show the entire trip. I enjoyed seeing you and your mother open up to each other in that way. Many people, gay and straight deal with faulty relationships with parents. Mine is currently that way with my dad, and I am working so hard on our communication with each other because it affects the way i communicate with my fiancee. Thank God he's so patient with me, because like they say...hurt people, hurt people. And not only that, hurt people are very VERY easy to hurt and carry the baggage longer. So we all must go back to the root of our problems and figure out how we can heal the past to enrich and solidify our future. If we are not growing, we are dead. And if there are areas in our lives that we need to heal, we have to do it now. We have to break up that fruitless soil of our past and make it rich again with love and compassion and openess. That's what I learned from this episode. I learn to be more open. When I open my own facility, I hope to have an open business, and open friendships, and open family life. Jackie, you are the poster child of being blunt and open. Thank you for being such a blessing in my life.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:38 PM

Tess wrote:

You have done a wonderful thing by reaching out to your mom. Good for you! You should know that you inspire so many and I am sure this move toward your mother will drive many others to closer relationships with their parents! You are AWESOME! Thanks for letting us see this side of you and your life!

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:40 PM

Dianne Wilson wrote:

On July 24, 2003, I became a survivor of a loved one's suicide. On that day, I lost my sister/best friend. The grief was overwhelming, and I learned how prevalent suicide is and how devastating it is to the survivors. I applaud Jackie for sharing openly about her father's suicide. The more it is brought to light, the stigma that it once held lifts. My sister fought a valiant battle for years with depression, but ultimately succumbed to it. It boggles my mind to think that one person is lost to suicide every 7 seconds, leaving countless wounded loved ones behind to try to deal with not only the grief but also so many unresolved questions. The numbers are simply staggering. I wish Jackie all the best.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:40 PM

Jennifer wrote:

Wow. This episode was powerful. What a convergence of things - unexpected endings and new beginnings - and grieving over new and old wounds. It reminds me that our relationships really do not end with people after they die, they just change. If we are lucky enough, those relationships also change us... Thank you for letting us share such personal moments.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:41 PM

karin wrote:

Jackie,
I really feel that you and your mom finally bonded. It was really joyfull to see you both hug. I still don't understand why she's having such a hard time with your sexual orientation but she's trying very much to reconnect with you. She needs time.
I wanted to extend my deepest sympathy for the passing of Doug. Like I told Peeler, you do forget that it is a reality show and you expect that it will end well. I am deeply saddened and will remember the strong, positive influence he was on all of us.
Finally, I would like to know if there is any way to buy the tee-shirt the staff is wearing on this episode.? I just love it. Frankly, the tee-shirts that you guys are wearing look much better that the ones viewers can buy on the bravo website.
Thank you for being such a strong role model.
Karin

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:42 PM

Lauren wrote:

I never comment on blogs- I never even read blogs- but tonight's 'Work Out' compelled me to take a look at the Bravo website and read what you had to say.
This episode was incredibly moving. I was anxious to watch the show tonight, as I hoped that there would be some good news about Doug. I'm sure I'm not the only viewer who wished for his recovery. I can only imagine how difficult his passing must have been to those who knew him personally. Even though I knew Doug Blasdell as only a person on a television show, it was still apparent what a genuinely good guy he was. His friends and family are in my thoughts.
Jackie- I also want to tell you what an admirable person I think you are. You're intelligent and insightful, and I think you are a wonderful example of a strong woman. This show sends out a great message...it's refreshing to see this caliber of reality tv!

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:42 PM

ann wrote:

Thank you for doing this show, as well as thank you for letting us into your emotions, your life. The show has made me want to redirect my life to be in the best shape again I can be once again. After a few injuries, and age, I had given up on myself. Watching the show, bringing in the folks for skylab, has inspired me. Of course, seeing all the hardbodies and looking at myself in the mirror inspired me too. I am so happy for you, to have been able to resolved your issues and find peace. I also would like to offer my deep and sincere condolences to all involved with the show on the loss of Doug. Thank you for allowing us to be able to mourn also. I am hoping there will be a season 3, until then, peace and love

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:43 PM

blinkblue wrote:

I just saw tonight's episode and it was television at its very best. It was also human beings at their very best. Thank you Bravo for bringing this kind of programming to America. I just wish your network was part of basic cable so more household could watch and discuss shows like Work Out.

Jackie, thank you for allowing the cameras to be present during your very personal moments of true growth. It must not be easy. Just know that by doing so you are helping many of us struggling with the same exact issues you are dealing with. You touch many more than those in your immediate vicinity. Your strength is inspiring.

Doug's passing is just so very tragic. I cried along with Brian and second his thought of "Why does this have to happen to someone so good?". My deep condolensces to all of you at the gym and his family.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:43 PM

Marci wrote:

Jackie,
I am in a state of shock. My heart is so saddened to learn of Doug's fate. I know that I didn't know him personally, yet through the power of television I feel I did.
I am happy to have seen the emotional progress you have made with your mother. There is no doubt that she loves you and is proud of you.

Marci, Fredericksburg, Virginia
(Born and raised in Barberton, Ohio)

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:44 PM

Lis wrote:

Hi Jackie,

What a moving and powerful episode. Thank you for allowing us to see the very real moments of vulnerability and love between you and your mom as you both come to terms with your relationship and the things of the past. Not only was it beautiful but I admire you both for being women who aren't afraid to wade through some tough issues to hold on to love. I think it takes alot of strength to be vulnerable and our souls are so much better for it. That was evident in this episode.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:45 PM

Jamie wrote:

I absolutely LOVED this episode! It brought so much emotion from Jackie going back to her hometown to Brian's raw emotion about Doug's medical condition. This show has captured me in so many ways. Not only am I from Ohio, but my brother is gay and I work as a social worker with people with mental illness. I think this show does an excellent job addressing tough issues and allowing them to be talked about. I feel a strong connection to the show... especially Jackie's journey. She is truely an inspiration.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:46 PM

Dora Avni wrote:

Hi Jackie,

I have been fllowing your show since the start of the first season. After watching the show today, I admire the way you deal with problems of your past. I guess we all have issue to deal with.
I have also been watching you r show from a professional perspective . I am an educator myself. I am now working towards my doctorate degree in Business Management, concentaring on leadership. Just a tip, I think that you are a great leader. However, the problems that you encou nter with your staff may result from the fact that you make friends with them . It is hard to be the boss and a close friend at the same time, who allows her employees to get involved in her personal life.
Another thing which may come across as being of topic, but I like the way you dress. there is one shirt in particular; it is the gary shirt with the colorful flower printing on it. Will it be too much to ask you the E-mail me and tell me where I can get this shirt. I live in Florida, so there is no chance that will be seen on the street in the same shirt .

Thank you and keep up the good work.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:46 PM

Mona wrote:

JackieL I watched this show and was in utter tears. You really let us in. Sharing with us a very vulnerable part of your life that is so vital to your moving on with your own life is so inspiring as many of us struggle with relationships with our mothers. I dont have my mother or my father anymore and there is so much I wish I could say to her now that I did not then. The same for my father. Please continue to work on building a healthy bond with her, it is so important, cause after she is gone ...believe me the residual effects linger. Doug...what can I say...the man was simply one word...CLASS. Best episode yet Jackie! Good for you! Give yourself an attagirl!

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:47 PM

Daniel wrote:

After watching Workout tonight, May 1st 2007 It has given me hope. I was raised by two loving parents who i know would give the world for me. I love my family so much. My family is a strong LDS (Mormon) family, and i am a "Gay-Mormon". It's been THE most difficult personal struggle i have and will ever have to deal with. I recently have felt the need to talk to my parents and let them know what i am dealing with and who i am. I feel it is the last coming out hurdle i need to jump, but it is the hardest. I've seen it before in my family, when my older brother came out. I've seen my mother blame herself for 15 years now, and in protecting her, by not tealking to her about me , i have only been hurting myself and creating distance between my parents and myself. After watching tonights show i feel its time to talk about it before it creates a similar distance in my family. Jackie, thanks for being so strong.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:49 PM

Stafford wrote:

Even tho I'm a 55 year old mom, about 50 lbs overweight, I never miss your show. Your mgmnt style is amazing - you are truly able to bring the best out of your employees & clients.

As a mother from the southern part of the US, I can certainly understand the feelings you mother has about some issues - I realized early on w/my daughter - a child comes into the world as they are meant to me. Parents can only steer to a certain direction - the mold has already been cast. It's evident your mother loves you dearly.

I have been dealing w/ severe depression for the last 3 years - it has been insightful for me to see the lasting consequences suicide has made on you. The pain gets to be so great at times, it's hard to remember the pain you would leave behind.

We were so saddened by Doug's passing. What a great person he appeared to be & how touching that his parents passed from the same thing at almost the exact age. It puts everything else in perspective.

Keep up your work - you might even inspire me to work out again!

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:49 PM

maria wrote:

thank you jackie for being so real as a person and who you are. I have always known that I was gay, but still today only a handful of people know who I am. I am still afraid to be what and who I am. but your show has inspired me to be myself and most of all to start a workout regime to lose weight.
thanks again.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:49 PM

Lisa wrote:

I just finished watching this episode and loved it. I have also had some problems with trying to connect with my mother again. I love the show and I have to say you are probably the best person on the show, in my opinion. I love how you share so much with the camera. Also, I wanted to asked where you got the suit that you were wearing when you were leaving your mothers house to go to the hotel. Just wondering.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:50 PM

Gail M. Fuhlman wrote:

I have really enjoyed this season more than last season. Last season was good this season was great because we got to see more of the trainer at work. And so of your personal life. You are such a good person. I hope that bravo will have you do another season. Because I have learn so much from you and I can't wait to get your book that you are working. Jackie keep the great work that you are doing up. Just know that I every show taped and I watch it often. I realize that next week is the end of the season. I am going to miss this show because it is what is watch every Tuesday. Hope to see you next season,love you.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:50 PM

Bruce Kinley wrote:

Jackie,
I just posted, so this is part 2. I just saw the foundation created in Doug's name for HIV prevention. I know that this is very personal, but as an HIV positive man myself - it is very inspiring to see "positive" role models on TV. Sharing your HIV status is a deeply personal issue, but I choose to be honest in the hopes that it helps others and stimulates discussions. So, I post here in the hopes of helping the HIV prevention movement. It saddens me that the gay community has lost so much momentum in the past 10 years for HIV prevention; coupled with the growth of the underground popularity of unsafe sex practices. In Ohio, where HIV is rarely discussed, I try to be as open about my status as possible. I mostly talk to straight young adults, few of which practice safe sex, and some of which even think that there is a cure for HIV already.

Again, I thank you for your show. It is a huge part of what motivates me to stay healthy.

Best regards,
Bruce

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:50 PM

Heather wrote:

this was a great episode!!!! I am saddened to hear about Doug and as uncomfortable as having the cameras in your therapy sessions is I do think it is helping others to know they are not alone.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:52 PM

Liz wrote:

This episode had me in tears. Very moving and powerful. You are an amazing woman.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:52 PM

teresa campbell wrote:

I love the show and i am so sorry for yalls lost. Doug was a wonderfull person and he will be so missed he lifted me many times my prayers are with all if yall. jackie you are the best med for me I am303lbs and lost 10 any tips from the has so helped me if you ever need a person to help I would love that. I am only 5feet and i only dream about geting in a new body my family prays for me all the time . tips are good from your show I dont want to look back only forward.. thanks keep up th good work and love the show..................

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:53 PM

kathy wrote:

Jackie,
Ican relate to your trip back home. Being a gay woman in the early 70's was like being the enemy, since my Dad was a Southern Baptist Minister, it was as if I was the devil in my own home. I to am from a small town in East Tennessee. The Bible Belt of the south. Yes time's have changed, but I some time's feel as if I still have to be the out spoken one for all the Gay ppl in this small town and Lord known's I still get the grief from it, but it is o.k. as long as it helps the (young) one's that follow behind me. Yes my parent's accept me for me, but it really was a very long and winding road. Would i change any thing, I don't think so because it has made me the person i am today and that i am proud to be a Gay Woman.
Keep on keeeping on HONEY, because you really do make a difference. Love Ya.
Kathy

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:54 PM

Scout wrote:

About the comment your mother made about hormones affecting the child in the womb is based on very real research. There is a very good book out called "Brain Sex - the real difference between men & women" by Anne Moir and David Jessel. The book discusses certain hormonal cocktails that wash over the fetus during a specific window of time during gestation that can, in fact alter their sexual preferences. All mothers go through stress - some go through great stress and when they do at specific times during their pregnancies, affect the outcomes of their children. If the timing, the cocktail and the amount of stress come together at a very specific time, the child is likely to become gay. Some men develop their softer sides and girls develop their more testerone sides. In the future, we will be able to predict these outcomes. It is possible to suppose that some people will want to control the outcomes just as some parents want super kids with blue or green eyes. Those are questions for others to determine. The book itself is short - about 203 pages of text and 30 some odd pages of references. When I read it, I found that it explained the differences between me, my sister and my brother - none of us are gay but we each exhibit traits that were the result of stresses that occured during each our our gestation periods. I also was surprised that in some cases, the book made me angry - not because of any erro but because of the truths that is presented.

Your Mom is to be commended for her persisitence and intuitiveness in discovering the whys of life. I bet there is a great deal more to her than you even suspect and I am glad you are beginning to look. It is important for both of you.

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:55 PM

Bryan Long wrote:

WOW! Awesome series. My heart goes out to all of you, dealing with the loss of Doug. Such a diverse group of people you all are. Of all the reality shows on tv, this is one that I have actually watched every episode! I think it's because of the "positive" that always comes though in any of the situation's that come about. That is definitely something that needs to be shown more. I have'nt noticed any tag line's for a season 3, so in case there won't be, I wish all of you the best!
Bryan

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:57 PM

Sandra Lockwood wrote:

I LOVE this photo of you and Doug. He was and will ALWAYS be
a beautiful person. How lucky was all that knew him..
Keep is memories ALIVE that is what I am doing with my son
NEVER let his life be forgotten..
God Bless Doug's family and friends to help them through the pain such a loss.

sandy

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:58 PM

Sandra Lockwood wrote:

I LOVE this photo of you and Doug. He was and will ALWAYS be
a beautiful person. How lucky was all that knew him..
Keep is memories ALIVE that is what I am doing with my son
NEVER let his life be forgotten..
God Bless Doug's family and friends to help them through the pain such a loss.

sandy

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:58 PM

Cindy wrote:

First, please let me tell you how very sorry I am to learn of the loss of Doug. He will be greatly missed on the show. It was easy to see that he was a great man.
I watch the show every week and I love your honesty. You just put it out there and it's real. This week was nice to see you go home. I am from S. Dayton and it was fun to see familiar places on the show. It was so great to see you and your mom come together. I appreciated that fact that you got it when your mom mentioned the class that she took about gay children and stressful pregnancies. She is looking into other avenues instead of being so closed minded and that's great. And good for you for recognizing it. Keep up the good work. I'll be watching! (ps, I was hooked on the show before I knew you were a Dayton girl)
Again, my heartfelt sympathy to you and your trainers.
Cindy

posted on May 1, 2007 at 11:59 PM

Michelle Kulpa wrote:

I have really enjoyed the show from the begining and I have been really touched by the last few epiodes. Though I am not gay, my father was and like Jackie's father my dad took his life in 1976, I was ten at the time. My parents had divorced a few years before his death. There was no funeral, no goodbyes, no closure. I have never been to his grave site. I am not even sure where it is except somewhwere in MI. I have always lived in MO. I admire and kind of envy Jackie for her recent visit to her dad's grave. The suicide of a parent is something you take with you throughout life, unfortunently I carry my pain through excessive weight on my body.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:00 AM

Caronique wrote:

Jackie,

What a beautiful episode. It was indeed my favorite. Emotionally, it was sad but uplifting. May God forever bless you and your family and may Doug REST IN PEACE!!

Godspeed,
Caronique

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:01 AM

ayesha wrote:

Hey Jackie,

You are a very brave woman, and I admire you so much for that. Not only have you exposed yourself to possible judgement about choices you've made in your life, but you also allow us to see your determination to mold yourself into a better woman. That takes balls!!! You are incredibly strong (not to mention VERY SEXY) sorry, I couldn't not put that in there. You are just the shit, simple as that.

My condolences to you and everyone who knew Doug. He seemed like a very sweet guy. I read somewhere that you did not want to exploit his passing, but I think this episode was handled wonderfully. Seeing that scene with you and your mom, when she tells you she is proud was very touching. I only remember my mom saying that to me once in my life, but I still remember how great it felt. There is just something about getting approval from your parents that is like no other feeling. I hope you guys continue to nuture what you have built. She certainly seems to be coming around with regards to your sexuality. Me and my mom have had this sort of 'don't ask, don't tell' type thing going on. which is very funny since I have known since i was 12 twelve that I love women and I'm now 34. My mom has even met about 4 of my ex girlfriends and she seemed to like them. if only she knew. anywho.

You and Rebecca are so damn cute it's ridiculous. I sure do hope we get a season 3. I still think you should do a calendar. You are very photogenic as I'm sure you know.

Love ya Love the show. thank you for sharing!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:01 AM

Kelly Freiberger wrote:

Repairing your relationship with a parent, mother or father, does have a tremendous impact in future intimate relationships. My problem was that I blamed my mom all my life for my dissapointments, and tried to pin it on her alchoholism the first 12 years of my life. In my coming out I have experienced extremely unhealthy relationships from infadelity to abuse. Although that reconnection with my mother is not complete, I did however stop the blame towards her which has made all the difference. Little did I know that my bible thumping mother that was so dissapointed in me as a child, shocked me when she told me that she knew that I was gay. She places no blame on herself or me, she just accepts. This alone has helped me to realize that the broken relationship we had was merely a minor instance. I only chose to work on that relationship to better myself, but in the end...it was not selfish, it was gaining back that misconception, miscommunication we had all our lives. Being Lesbian, the most important person IS my mother, and for us to reconcile all differences has made both her and me the strongest women in the world.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:02 AM

elaine naylor wrote:

jackie i think you did a great job with your mom on this episode i hope your relationship keeps improving with her.... i cried when i watched it tonite because i could see in your moms eyes that she is very proud of you. sometimes i think that my mom and i have a strained relationship but i believe that i have just disappointed her in some of my choices but no matter what i did she has always been there for me.and just one other thing you are a sexy woman and there is just something about you that makes a straight woman want to be gay......ps don't tell my husband ha ha

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:06 AM

Caitlin Chapman wrote:

Dear Jackie,
As I watched this episode, tears streamed down my face the entire time. The visit to your home town was touching, and the moments with your mother were so real and honest. Seeing just those few clips of your father from home videos really struck me. He was so young and so sweet with you, and so handsome! You can really see the similarites between you two in your own beauty. Thank you for sharing such a personal side, it really reached your viewers. Lastly, Doug was one of my favorite people on the show. He was so full of life and so caring. He seemed like somebody you really want to be part of your life. He seems that he has touched yor lives and will always be remembered. Thank you so much for a truly moving episode.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:08 AM

Kate:) wrote:

I am a causual watcher of this program. I just had to comment on how brave & awsome it was that Jackie revealed that her dad had a mental illness & died from sucide. As a child with a smilar background (switch dad for mom) I was really touched. It was so real to talk about the shame and mixed emotions. This is a very sercet club, say your parent has cancer everyone is concerned. But mental illness? It still has so much shame attached to it. I just loved that it was dealt with in such a real way. That is what is really going to change things. You opened your heart and totally got a new fan.

Thanks again
you rock!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:09 AM

Vagner wrote:

Dear Jackie,

thank you for being such a positive role model (along with your co-stars)...

today's episode was very touching, I cried at the end, and I have not cried in a long time in my personal life...

I am dealing with a similar issue as you were last season, trying to end a relationship but having a hard time doing so...

fortunately/coincidentally, I will be going back to my hometown next july and hopefully deal with some issues with my parents as well...

thanks again! stay strong for us all, and send my love to all Sky Lab folks (wish I lived in LA and worked out there)

Love,

V.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:09 AM

Tangerine wrote:

Jackie, I just wanted to tell you that I'am deeply sorry for you lost. I been watching the show since last yr. Your show really cought my attention because, of all your charisma you are truely special and a good person, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I have to say though, I had high hopes for you and mimi and was wishing that she would become a better listener and right when it look like she was going to try, she switched up on you! Your better then that and I hope something good and long term comes out of your dating with rebacca. Anyway, the real reason why i'm typing you is to let you know that tonights show was very hard with finding out your dad committed suicide for i share the same experience with my father shoting himself when i was 7yrs old and knowing at that age. Life has been hard and not having him growing up was hard cause, as i was growing up trying to become a women there was no man there to protect and warn me about men and how they can use you. There is a part that is missing from my life a void but, i know i will heal and have that faith of a better day and everything happens for a reason that we as humens can not explain. What you went through growing up shaped you into this beautiful strong person that has her ow tv show. We grow from adverstiy that can built character but, only if we choose to grow from that. I myself 33yrs. no high school diploma, grow up poor in east Oakland CA, been raped and abuse as a child, lost many childhood friends that got strung and i have a 8yrs son out of all of this. I will never give up on faith even when i'm down on my knees tears coming down my cheeks my hope is always there and guess what? My life turn arould for the better, I work for Symentec software company making alot of money, live in Silcon Valley with a good man of 5yrs that has a collage degree that is good to me and the father of my son is wonderful even though we are not together. My void started to heal slowly every time when i see him and his father together and see how much his daddy loves him make me feel good. Watching you tonight when playing catch up made me relive all those feelings again and to see how strong you are and not let it brake you is good for young people to see and give hope to those who are not as strong as us. Your just beautiful Jackie and i know times must be hard right now with doug passing but, everything happens for a reason. don't get me wrong girl, i cried my azz off tonight when finding out at the end of the show but, really something good came from it i'm sure it brought you guys all together at the jym and now you guys can be a strong powerful force and stop fighting with eachother. i know that is what doug would want. Take care jackie and maybe i will type you again but, really i hate typing comments, this is something i just don't do gurl, to much time but you turly moved me. i will be rooting for you and watching the show! :)
~Tangie

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:11 AM

Toni Marano wrote:

Hi Jackie,

It's nice to read your thoughts.....I love sharing ideas.

The way in which we love ourselves is they way in which we love others. The way in which we love others, is they way in which they love us back.

As you very well are aware of, setting an example is not the main means of influencing others, it's the only means.

I am so sorry to hear the news about Doug. I'm not quite sure why but it has effected me tremendously. Such a loss.

Thanks for the motivation!!!!

Toni Marano

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:11 AM

Tangerine wrote:

Jackie, I just wanted to tell you that I'am deeply sorry for you lost. I been watching the show since last yr. Your show really cought my attention because, of all your charisma you are truely special and a good person, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I have to say though, I had high hopes for you and mimi and was wishing that she would become a better listener and right when it look like she was going to try, she switched up on you! Your better then that and I hope something good and long term comes out of your dating with rebacca. Anyway, the real reason why i'm typing you is to let you know that tonights show was very hard with finding out your dad committed suicide for i share the same experience with my father shoting himself when i was 7yrs old and knowing at that age. Life has been hard and not having him growing up was hard cause, as i was growing up trying to become a women there was no man there to protect and warn me about men and how they can use you. There is a part that is missing from my life a void but, i know i will heal and have that faith of a better day and everything happens for a reason that we as humens can not explain. What you went through growing up shaped you into this beautiful strong person that has her ow tv show. We grow from adverstiy that can built character but, only if we choose to grow from that. I myself 33yrs. no high school diploma, grow up poor in east Oakland CA, been raped and abuse as a child, lost many childhood friends that got strung and i have a 8yrs son out of all of this. I will never give up on faith even when i'm down on my knees tears coming down my cheeks my hope is always there and guess what? My life turn arould for the better, I work for Symentec software company making alot of money, live in Silcon Valley with a good man of 5yrs that has a collage degree that is good to me and the father of my son is wonderful even though we are not together. My void started to heal slowly every time when i see him and his father together and see how much his daddy loves him make me feel good. Watching you tonight when playing catch up made me relive all those feelings again and to see how strong you are and not let it brake you is good for young people to see and give hope to those who are not as strong as us. Your just beautiful Jackie and i know times must be hard right now with doug passing but, everything happens for a reason. don't get me wrong girl, i cried my azz off tonight when finding out at the end of the show but, really something good came from it i'm sure it brought you guys all together at the jym and now you guys can be a strong powerful force and stop fighting with eachother. i know that is what doug would want. Take care jackie and maybe i will type you again but, really i hate typing comments, this is something i just don't do gurl, to much time but you turly moved me. i will be rooting for you and watching the show! :)
~Tangie

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:12 AM

Brandon wrote:

This was a very powerful and sad episode! It really makes you appreciate what life gives you!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:12 AM

Janine wrote:

My heart goes out to you, Jackie. This was a very touching episode. As a 31-year-old, still stuck in a small town in Ohio, I could relate very much to your desire to escape and appreciate your understanding that growing up in that small town helped make you the woman you are today. Your strength and continual self-reflection are a constant inspiration to me. I don't know how you so openly share yourself with the world, but I only dream of being so okay with who I am and in such control over my life. Thank you for being who you are - I feel lucky to have you in my life - even if it is through my TV. :)

I was extremely upset to learn of Doug's passing. His genuine spirit was evident onscreen - he obviously touched many lives. I share in your loss. You are in my thoughts through what must be a difficult time. From one JW to another, chin up. You're doing great.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:12 AM

Marnee wrote:

HI Jackie,
I'm from Ohio too. I'm not gay, but I have relatives who are. My mother-in-law and my brother-in-law. My mother-in-law has been with her partner for over 25 years. At first I was totally cool with it. Then, I had kids. Then, I got over myself. I realized my feelings were more about me then them. One thing that my relationship with them has taught me is that life is not about being gay or straight. It's about loving and serving people. I know how hard high school was for a straight popular girl like myself. I can't imagine the feeling of alienation that comes from being gay at an age where approval for who you are is so very important. As a mother, I feel it is my place to instill in my son how connected we are despite our differences - that differences are necessary. Also, as a mother, I can see how your mom feels about you, just by watching her expressions when she looks at you or speaks with you. She has wanted to be accepted by you too. (We are a reflection of each other.) I know in watching tonight's episode that the two of you will find peace with each other. I salute you in confronting your past. What you give energy to - grows. In putting this effort into your relationship and airing it on TV, I'm positive you have given another woman or man the courage to do the same.
The scenes at your dad's grave were powerful. I never knew my dad. He died when I was 2. I've heard my mom say the same thing to me about how much I look like him. In a way, it comforts me. That fact of my life has pushed me to excel. I'm not sure if it's a ghost I'm running from or an obligation I feel to extend his legacy. Whatever it is, I'm so glad that I have created a life where I can feel that I have honored what he gave me.
I needed the tissues tonight! I wanted to say that I personally love the way that Doug's passing has been handled. I think there has been a sense of true dignity and respect in how the show has dealt with his death. You and your team honored his desires. I mean, what more is there? I will miss seeing him. He was great teacher in the beauty of the human spirit. His light came across to viewers and that shows by the out-pouring of condolences.
Your show is like sugar! Addicting! It's great to watch you go through your realizations and see what you learn and how you apply those lessons. It shows others what's possible. And how can I not support a show that does that? You are inspiring someone who doesn't know you and probably never will - that even fires me up. I love you. I'm always telling my husband, "Jackie says...," as if you're our personal trainer. Proper diet and excercise are part of our lifestyle, but every now and then you need a good kick in the pants.
I love, love, love the show!It makes me want to continue my own quests to help and serve others. And if any of my direct reports are reading this, yes, it's true, I really do watch the show, you know I was popular, I love Jackie, and I write on her blog. Peace and love to you Jackie!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:14 AM

Madiha wrote:

I truly admire you and your strength and courage during such an incredibly difficult and poerful moment in your life. You are a great person and I wish I knew more people like you

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:16 AM

Paula wrote:

Hi Jackie,
This episode was very moving and I admire your courage in allowing us to share it with you. I’m 45 and grew up in a small town so I can relate to feeling different yet still wanting to fit in. I can also relate to having a mentally ill parent; in my case my mom. She’s been gone for 20 years and I’m just now finding the courage to examine the impact her life has had on mine. Watching you work through issues similar to my own life has made me feel as if I have a friend walking beside me. The last couple of shows have brought tears to my eyes yet I’ve found comfort in watching you grow and find peace. I wish you much love in your new relationship with your mom.

Also, I’d like to express my sympathy to you and the other trainers regarding Doug. I know I’ve missed seeing him on the show so I can only imagine how you all must feel.

On a much lighter note - WOW! You were so cute in high school! That is so not fair - cute then, gorgeous now!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:17 AM

KAREN wrote:

BEAUTIFULLY DONE JACKIE.................GREAT JOB.........A TRUELY MAGNIFICIANT PIECE OF INNER WORK. THANKYOU FOR SHARINGYOUR INNER PROCESS. YOU'VE DONE PROBABLY THE BIGGEST PIECE OF WORK OF YOUR LIFE. I WISH YOU LOVE, AND SOME WELL DESERVED INTEGRETION.
KAREN

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:19 AM

Toni Marano wrote:

Oh......one more thing. Have you ever read the book The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle?? If not, I must strongly recommend. It's excellent!!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:19 AM

elizabeth parker wrote:

Dear Jackie,
I have been watching your show all season and was totally shocked when i found out about Doug. My sympathy goes out to you and all the Sky Spa family. I'll be keeping you all in my prayers and Doug especially. Keep up the good work all.
Love the show and you all too,
Beth

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:20 AM

JC Madera wrote:

My deepest sorrow to all of you for loosing your dear friend. I suspect, though, that you are feeling lucky for Douglas touched your lives. As you should be.
Peace

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:21 AM

BONNIE wrote:

Dearest Jackie,
Let me say how sorry Iam about Doug's passing. Obviously Doug did things his way. About your Mom , Ithink that she is the best Mom in the world .

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:23 AM

wanda wrote:

I love your show. This was the best so far.So sorry about the loss of Doug. Your honesty is so refreshing and very brave on your part. It's great to see you are gettig closer to your Mom. Life is short we need to forgive and love those dear to us.Keep up the great work. I look forward to more WORKOUTS!! WANDA

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:24 AM

Jessica wrote:

I just want to say that I totally understand what Jackie is saying. I feel as though I am going through the same issues right now, with my girlfriend. Good for you, Jackie, for facing your past!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:24 AM

JC Madera wrote:

My deepest sorrow to all of you for loosing your dear friend. I suspect, though, that you are feeling lucky for Douglas touched your lives. As you should be.
Peace
Juan Carlos
Puerto Rico

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:27 AM

Cathy S Nelson wrote:

I just wanted to extend heartfelt condolences for the loss of Doug, to you, Jackie, and the rest of the crew.

take care
csn

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:27 AM

Eileen Mae wrote:

I LOVE YOUR SHOW! I'm afraid your show has caused a terrible addicton -- REALITY TV!!!!!! I've been watching your show (and other reality TV shows) faithfully for the last 6 weeks or so. I came across your show on accident one day when I was home sick. I watched a marathon and I've been watching it every since. I'm addicted. I hope it encourages me to start working out again!

Your show is a true inspiration. Your trainers KICK A$$! I love everyone energy and how you play off one another. It's a great show. I hope to get back into form someday and start working out again. I wish I could afford a personal trainer. I've got some extra pounds I'd like to lose and I need to rehab my left shoulder which I have dislocated twice. I have no strength in that arm. I can barely carry 5lbs before my arm starts to give and I feel as if I have to drop everything. It's terrible. I never did the rehab like I was supposed to and I'm paying the price for it now.

Continue to kick a$$ on your show.

PS I'm sorry to hear about Doug's passing. It was a very emotional episode and I already knew it was coming as I had already read it on the Bravo TV website. He was a true inspiration to all. I look forward to the Season Finale and Doug's tribute.

YOU ROCK!!!!!!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:36 AM

Amber wrote:

Dear Jackie, let me start out by saying I am a big fan of the show. I watch it religously!!! I even watch the second episode that they show so I don't miss anything. Only tonight's episode really got to me. Seeing you go back to your home town really touched me. As a viewer looking in I was so proud of you. When you connected with your Mom at your Dad's grave site,that really hit home. I lost my mom to Cancer when I was 12. It was the hardest thing that I have ever went through. I have been through so much heartache in my life and as I get older each year there is something good and then that one thing to knock me back down. This year I had the birth of my son, but almost 2 weeks ago, I found out that I have 1st stage cervical cancer. If there was one thing that my Mom showed me, was to never give up and to keep fighting, because that is what she did. So hear I am...fighting. I am getting back into the gym and I had a procedure done to get rid of the cancer. I lost my mom when she was 37. Can you believe that. 37 is so young now. To have my best friend one day and then gone the next. Don't ever loose that relationship with your Mother. No matter what, she will always love you. She may not agree with how you live your life, but I saw that she is trying. Hold onto that, because life is too short! Watching tonight's episode about Doug really had me in tears. Knowing that someone is going to die is really hard, because you have to prepare yourself. How do you prepare for death??? After seeing the end when he died. January 22nd, it really hit home with me. I was in the hospital that day preparing to give birth to my son. Donovan was born at 1:45am on January 23rd. So I believe that for every Death, is Birth! I cry with sadness and tears of joy. Jackie, you inspire a lot of people, myself included. You are a strong woman so just know, when you get knocked down, get back up and know that you have people that are there for you. Hope to see you back in Indianapolis!

PS. Here is an inspirational poem that my Mom shared with me.

Don't walk infront of me,
I may not follow
Don't walk behind me,
I may not lead
Walk beside me, and be my Friend!

Amber Perrine
Indianapolis

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:38 AM

Donna wrote:

WOW!!!!! I cryed for you Jackie and Doug.
We all have to go back and look at things we don't want to. And girl you did it. I'm sure you are a better person for it. Thanks for letting people see that it can be done and things will be OK.
As for Doug for very sad. I lost a brother in the same way (AIDS) and it's never easy. Just so young.
Keep up the good work Jackie and crew....

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:40 AM

Simone wrote:

You are such a stong woman and such a great role model. I believe that what you see is what you get when it comes to Jackie. It has been wonderful watching your growth over the past two seasons. Doug was one of my favorite's, you just got lost in those beautiful honest eyes of his, he just seemed so giving and caring and I know that he is among the angles in heaven. May he rest in peace and please know that you all are in my prayers. I hoe there is a season three.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:42 AM

Tyle wrote:

Very touching episode ... from beginning to end. One of your trainers, I think it was Jessie, talking with his client, an ex-American soldier from Iraq, about real issues gays face in the military not only educated your audience but also made a statement on how some of us feel about this illegal occupation of Iraq.

I saw a whole other side of you when you went home to visit your mother. At first, you seemed to be a little on the defensive but as the segment progressed and you went to your former HS and spoke with the students and signed autographs it became apparent how very proud your mother was of you and how very much you appreciated her verbal acknowledgement of your success.

At the cemetery, visiting your Father's grave, I cried with you. You were so young. I was so glad you got to visit your Dad with your Mom and I was so glad that your Mom reminisced in such a personal and touching way. It was great to see you and your Mom comforting each other ... I just loved you both at that moment.

I am the mother of a gay son and can relate, in some ways, with your mother. I thought it was really cute when she brought up that stress during her pregancy with you might have caused your gayness. It was a really nice way of stating her acceptance. I can relate because when my son came out I researched everything I could ... only to come to the conclusion that everyone was okay! Society has to be educated and "Work Out" is doing more than telling/showing people how to get physically fit ... your show is also giving a "work out" to people's way of thinking. Kudos to you!

I am so sorry about Doug. He was a really good person .. you can just tell by the way he carried himself and interacted with others. So sad.

I have to say this episode was one of the most touching. I really feel I got to know you a little more ... and respect you for your honesty. I was an on again off again fan .. but after this episode I look forward to the other episodes.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:43 AM

Leonard VanCamp wrote:

Jackie,

You are so honest about yourself, your sexuality, and your issues; yet, the show is so evasive about Doug's illness! It doesn't add up.

Why not be open about it? It's obvious Doug and his former boyfriend have been battling AIDS. Ignoring the pink elephant in the room may make the producers feel better, but it's not fooling anyone, and it takes away from the genuiness of the show.

This is not to say I don't feel badly about Doug's death. It's a real shame that such a gentle and beautiful person should lose his life so early and needlessly.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:44 AM

Brooks Boswell wrote:

It was deffinately funny to me to watch the most recent episode of you coming home. I live in Richmond, Indiana so I got a good little laugh when your car passed the "Blue Ohio Arch". I know you get these kind of comments all the time, but I wanted to add my thanks to you for what you bring to the table. I loved listening to everything you had to say in this episode, because at 21 I felt like you spoke everything I've ever thought. About how much you want to get out of this small area, and how being from here it's hard to feel accepted with your sexuality. Not only do I deal with those issues, but I find myself depressed most days because of the lack of opportunities for a gay relationship here. I visited a friend of mine in L.A. a couple years ago, and it was amazing to see the difference in diversity there. At that point I knew for a fact I HAVE TO GET OUT OF HERE! I would be very interested to know how at 18 you went about moving to L.A. and staying afloat. All that being said, I have never missed a single episode of your show, and being that it is so diverse, I've come to find that it is the only show where my family will take the time out of their day to sit down and watch as a family. You can not imagine how much that shocks me, being that we're are not exactly the most "tight knit" group. Also, regarding this episode I would like to send my condolences to all of you concerning Doug. I don't think there is a single person who watched tonight and did not break down. It's fascinating how even just by watching the television someone is able to touch your life enough that they feel like they lost their own friend. Well, I guess to wrap this up all I have to say is what you've got going on is amazing! I'm not fat, but I do tend to rock the "fat kid" status with my lazyness and junk food tendencies, and yet somehow, you've managed to motivate me to get up and start exercising. I don't know if Sky Sport allows this or not, but my next visit to L.A. I hope to at least get one session in. Keep on keepin on girl!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:47 AM

Tracy Pike wrote:

In all honesty, when I first started watching "Work Out", I really didn't like you. There was just something about you that rubbed me the wrong way. And since I'm gay myself, I knew it wasn't because of that. But you've revealed a lot about yourself throughout the episodes & I think I better understand you & who you are as a person now. There are some things I greatly admire about you & I wish I were as strong in those areas of my own life. I'm glad you got the chance to go home & deal with some emotional issues with your mom. I can sympathize with you about a lot of those school memories. I still live in my small hometown & since I graduated high school, I haven't been back to that school once...ha! I'm also glad that you visited your dad's grave. I, myself, oversee a small cemetery where my own dad is buried. I think it's important to visit family graves now & then, if only to reconnect with those we loved who are no longer with us.
In memory of Doug & your dad, I leave you with a short poem of mine.
"Upon my grave, she placed a rose and the rose began to weep; For when it touched the ground in which I lay, the rose felt the love still within my heart's buried keep.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:53 AM

Meggie G wrote:

I think that although you went home for somewhat selfish reasons, that you also helped heal your mom's troubles as well as your own. i think visiting her was a good move.

I thought that giving the speech at your old High School was important. I feel that one of the reasons I watch your show is because I love you motivation and dedication to what you do and to your clients. I've managed to let my dreams go. I regret it, but at the same time dont know how to go about persuing it.

Anyways, good luck in your endevors and stay the strong person that you are. - Meggie

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:58 AM

JEANNINE HENRY wrote:

DEAR JACKIE AND STAFF...FIRST I WANT TO SEND YOU MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY FOR THE RECENT LOSS OF YOUR FRIEND, DOUG. I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE FEELING AND IT'S GREAT THAT YOU HONORED HIM WITH YOUR MEMORIAL...A CELEBRATION OF LIFE...BUT I DID TEAR UP WHEN THE "IN MEMORIUM" WAS AT THE END OF THIS WEEKS SHOW...I WAS SO HOPING THAT HE HAD RECOVERED...
I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO TAKE THIS TIME TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR SHOW...AND FOR SHOWING TRULY OVERWEIGHT PEOPLE BEING TRAINED, WITH DIGNITY AND HONEST ENCOURAGEMENT!!...IM A MORBIDLY OBESE WOMAN, FIFTY TWO YEARS OLD, AND NOW SHOWING SERIOUS HEALTH PROBLEMS DUE TO THIS LIFE LONG CONDITION...I HAVE NO ONE TO GIVE ME THIS INCOURAGEMENT...AND THE GYM CHARGES $40 PER HOUR FOR PERSONAL TRAINERS...I CAN'T AFFORD THIS...SO...IT'S BACK TO THE GYM FOR ME...ASAP....AND I WILL PRETEND YOU ARE THERE WITH ME JACKIE...LOL...AND HEAR YOUR VOICE IN MY EAR WHILE IM HUFFING AND PUFFING MY WAY TO A HEALTHIER OLD AGE...LOL...GOD BLESS YOU ALL IN THE COMING DAYS....IT WILL GET EASIER...XOXOXO...

posted on May 2, 2007 at 12:59 AM

Amanda wrote:

Hi Jackie,

First off, I want to say how sad I am about Doug's passing. He was a beautiful, kind person who just radiated love. My energy goes out to all of you and his loved ones.

I also wanted to say how much I respected you in this episode. Your relationship with your mother is so very similar to the one I have with my mom. I also grew up in a small town (Oklahoma) and now live in San Clemente, CA. I'm not gay, but I am atheist... and my mother is an evangelical Southern Baptist. "Coming out" as an atheist was an experience to say the least. After several years of "Where did I go wrong" and comments about how I'll be spending my afterlife, we've developed some sort of tenuous respect for each other. The love is there... but it's a lot of work. Baby steps, eh?

Anyway - glad to see things are going better with you and your mom. Stay strong! :-)

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:13 AM

skylar wrote:

Jackie!
What a beautiful episode! My friends and I absolutely love your mom! Hopefully we'll see more of her with you in future episodes.

You are an incredible role model not only for lesbians but also for us straight women too- thanks for focusing on other issues that we can relate to also....... we have mucho respect for you girl! Speaking for myself and on my friends behalf -you have touched our lives with that strength that God has given you!

Please stay active on TV so you can keep helping all of us who are watching.
Take care and God bless
from a bunch a friends in Connecticut
:)

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:16 AM

Mona wrote:

Hi Jackie,
I watched tonight's episode and was very moved by it. It takes a very strong (emotionally & intellectually) strong person to confront their tumultuous childhood to promote their healing process. You are one COURAGEOUS lady. Your family has a lot to be proud of in you. I know it's hard to understand someone you care about not wanting you guys there in their neediest of time--but on the flip side--it brought you guys closer together as a team and forged a tighter bond. You and your Skysport staff and the filming crew who came to know and love Doug, shared a common experience. Embrace the good memories and keep them forever in your heart. I for one am very proud of you (and very impressed). Your grandfather, father, and Doug
(and all your loved ones who've passed on) are all looking down and you and saying: "That's my girl!!!!" Be blessed and I wish you much success and growth in the healing process.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:21 AM

Nancy wrote:

I am such a fan of your show. I am really happy for you and that you are out of that destructive relationship. You really seem like a warm, good person, so stay strong and don't let anyone ever take advantage of you again. Good luck and God bless and keep a realtionship with your Mom, it seems to make you happy. Take care.

Nancy :)

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:24 AM

Alicia wrote:

Jackie just wanted you to know I love the show! OMG who knew you were fromright here . I live in dayton and work in the enon/fairborn area. I love to see people leave here and make it. Gives me hope!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:28 AM

DLD wrote:

Hi Jackie-
Many congrats on a wonderful episode..so glad to see that you and your mom are "mending"!! My mom & I have always had a good relationship & I always feel sad that other people don't, so I'm very happy for you! My mom is 81 now & has some health problems, so she is living w/me now..overall, it has been a great experience & I wouldn't trade it for anything (tho there are times that I wish I was "on my own" again)..also, thot Doug's situation was again handled very well..he didn't seem like the kind of guy who would have wanted the episode to have "focused" on him..am sure you all live the whole thing over again when you watch..I just have one question..don't you have any way to let the trainers know what is going on when you leave & leave someone else "in charge"?? E-mail/cell text, something??? Just thot it was kind of strange that everyone just kind of found out that Peeler was managing kind of haphazardly..also, thot you should have explained to Rebecca why you didn't choose her..I totally understand that you guys want to avoid any appearance of favoritism, but when she asked about it, you just acted like she was totally inept & gave no further explanation..then again, I understand that a lot of things have to be edited, so maybe that part ended up on the cutting room floor :-)
Anyway, hope things are going well for all of you now & let me say how sad I am that next week is the end of Season 2!!! Boo Hoo! :-(

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:29 AM

d wrote:

I love your show my tv sits nxt to my laptop so its easy to watch. The staffs really great love Brian, Jesse and Erica. Am so sorry about Doug what a loss.

"My relationship was a disaster with my mom, so how could I expect to choose a good partner? " Your pretty hard on yourself don't you think? Relationships aren't simple or easy. Keep smiling your doing a good job. We'll be watching.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:32 AM

Pat C. Illinois wrote:

Jackie,
Your decision to go home was such a great inner growth for you. I am so glad that you did that for yourself! We can go home again but we must be honest with ourselves when we do it.
Having that discussion with the eating counselor for the your skylab clients was very wise by you and for them.

Love the show - continue growing and you are a strong woman who will go far. Keep up the good work!

I am sorry for the loss of Doug, he was a strong character example of a gay man. The show will miss him.
Pat

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:34 AM

David wrote:

You have great abs. I wish I could get as many girls as you. You inspire me.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:43 AM

miss mata wrote:

Jackie,
Im so sorry to hear about the death of Doug. I wish you all well. It is harder to hear it as a viewer and see that it happened back a couple months back already. Im am so tuned into the show and would have wish to have done something back then, right now I am is such shock and feel so bad. I was really thinking he would be alright. God Bless.
Jackie I really love your show and again just so happy to see you are doing so well. I know that I am your biggest fan =) and hope this show continues for ever!!!
xoxo
Miss Mata

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:45 AM

Jacqui wrote:

I dont think there are any words to describe the longing for that "once felt" friendship with your mother. I am almost thirty and my mom and I are still working on the "lesbian issue". What shocks me is that she was shocked when I came out 15 years ago. Funny...how EVERY ONE else knew, but me and apparently my mother. Keep it real with her, hear and listen, and all in all it will still be a screwed up dynamic. However, you will never wonder....if I had only told my mom......! Its not selfish its self healing.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:49 AM

Kelly wrote:

Uuuuumm... one of your trainers just died... could you possibly make this a little more about him rather than "ME ME ME & MORE ABOUT ME."

And good luck with your mother. I think it's a honeymoon phase to tell you the truth. Have experienced this time & time again with my own mom. She''s sweet after a period of remorse.. but only for a short time. Then she inadvertently reverts back to her old ways. I've given up on her.. but not on me. You will most likely make the best or worst kind of parent, because you will do either the exact opposite as your mother & love your child unconditionally OR you will be always consumed with yourself & image to even care what is going on in your child's heart.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:54 AM

Nicole wrote:

Dear Jackie,

I've watched your show since the first time it came out and I absolutely LOVE IT. I understand what your going through with feeling the way you feel about your sexuality and the most important woman in your life......your Mother. I came out to my Mother when I was 19 yrs. old and she didn't take it too well. Now 5 years later, the pain and sadness that I feel are still there from my Mom. I try consoling her and telling her that I'm the exact same person but my "explanations" are no longer valid. At times, I find myself drinking just to relieve the pain and numb myself from the world. I finally came to reality and thought that I no longer want to keep ignoring what's more important to me.....my health. I started realizing that I was drinking myself to sleep and gained so much weight. I don't want that in my life anymore. I want to get back into shape and your show gives me the energy to do so.

You've shown me that there are ways of coping with what will always be a part of you and it has for me. I just just wanted to say that I'm very thankful to have an idol like you to let me know that I'm not the only person that is going through this. Thank you very much!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:55 AM

Paula wrote:

Jackie,
The show isn't even over yet, and the hard part about Doug hasn't occured in my living room yet. But I wanted to say to you -- Your mom, she really blossomed on this episode. She was so enamored of you. She saw you very deeply and it was difficult not to see her love for you. I hope you felt it, girl, because it radiated off the screen.

Be well.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:55 AM

Brooke wrote:

This episode is sad, yet beautiful. I enjoyed seeing Jackie return to her hometown and the relationship with her mother beginning to mend. I remember how akward things were last season. It was interesting to see Jackie be emotional. She is such a strong person and I think this episode showed a softer side. It showed that no matter what your station in life is, we all experience the same feelings.
I was shocked to hear or Doug's passing. I did not know about it until the episode aired. I think the subtlety of the news was appropriate though. All of us viewers were left to think about our loved ones and our own mortality. It was not depressing, persay but thought provoking.
I really love this show...everyone seems so real and that is nice for a change.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:55 AM

colleen wrote:

I wanted to know what you think of your dreams......I assume you always knew what you wanted. How did you know this? Was it innate, and what is your philosophy for truly being in control of your life? Also, your kind of amazing and this episode was a huge piece of you never seen before. I was surprised, and good job with your mom. That can be a challenge, I know.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 1:57 AM

Ashtan wrote:

I can relate to a broken relationship with my parents resulting in an unhealthy relationship with my partner. I find myself trying to control and disipline him in the way my parents did me. The image I have of myself as a new & young, but not fit mother makes me feel as if I am losing complete control of my life. I wish the Sky Lab clients would use and appreciate the oppurtunity they have.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:04 AM

Diana wrote:

Jackie,

This episode is very emotional - your piece and Doug's piece. You made me think about my own Dad. My Dad is in VA & he & I have not spoken to each other for the last 3 years. He complletely stop talking with the family-even the one in the same town he lives in. It made me realize I really need to visit my family in VA. Doug's passing is very hard & I feel for all of you. I even said the past few episodes that I would choose Doug to be my trainer, if given an opportunity to train with you guys. Jackie, thanks for sharing your story with the world. I like you because you are you. No pretense & no apologies. Keep doing the show & my Tuesday nights at 10PM are set to see my "new" friends. If at any chance, your show is looking for a candidate to lsoe weight, I would love to be chosen. Take care and hugs to you all!

Diana

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:07 AM

Jess B wrote:

Jackie, you are an amazing woman and a role modle to many. You and your trainers provide so much hope and elightenment to viewers. This episode brought tears to my eyes. You will never know how many lives you and your trainers have truley touched and changed forever. God bless you all.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:08 AM

Lori wrote:

I think it's a good thing to see you reaching out or inside yourself to deal with things with your mom. I too have also reached a point in my life where I have to deal with issues with my mom. It's like something that becomes so big in your life that you can't get past it, that if you don't address and get things off your chest you can't have a relationship with your mom. Thank you for sharing your experience with me - and showing people what a emotional struggle it is. To know that I'm not the only one going through this struggle makes me feel less alone. Thank you.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:11 AM

erin wrote:

This is the first time I have ever responded to any programing reaity or otherwise, can I just say....I am so proud of you Jackie!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What a touching episode, the best yet. I have watched your program from the beginning and it's you that hooks me, your honesty, respect for others, your drive, dedication, ambition and trueness to who you are and to people in general. I know it took courage for you to visit your father's gravesite, I understand how it is to keep those scary feelings locked deep inside. It was heart warming to see your mom take care of you when you needed it most, we need nurturing at thsoe times, especially when it is our parent whom we lost tragically at such a young age. Jackie, Keep it up, you are an incredible, honest, refreshing role model, one that is needed in celebrityism. You Go Girl. P.S. There is no way possible your butt looked big in that newspaper picture.
My sincere well wishes and prayers go out to you and your family of trainers in the sadness of Doug's passing.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:12 AM

Corey wrote:

Dear Jackie,
My tv recorder didn't record properly, so I have not seen the episode yet. I read your blog, though, and am overwhelmed with emotion for you and the progress you have made in your relationship with your Mom. To have her be proud of you, to have her see you signing autographs and witness your success and most of all for you to experience her in more of a parent role to you is priceless to witness- even if it is on the othe side of the TV or the computer. Let the healing begin!

I congratulate you for the courage to walk through the acknowledgment, confrontation and forgiving of the truth, so you are able to have a different outcome in your personal relationships. Freedom. Change. Grow or Go huh? You are awesome. Did I mention hot? Ugh- nevermind that for now.

The Doug situation shocked me. Like I said, I was not able to see the episode yet, but on the cable guide, it said "Doug passes away". I am saddened. I am sorry for your loss. Such a great guy. My prayers are with your gym and his friends in this time.

I do not want to end on such a bum note; it would not help if I did. So I will end with talking about how hot you are. So hot. Major crush on you. Hot hot hot. I don't even know what to say.

P.S. In the picture of you and your best friend in your hometown, she looks so happy and so supportive of you- I almost got teary. You are lucky to have a friend like her.

Take care~ Corey

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:14 AM

cait wrote:

just finished watching this week episode, where we hear about Doug and you visit your father's grave. I am continously astonished by the strength of you and your co-workers. It seems there is always some battle to overcome, and if it done with dignity and strength that is nothing less than inspirational.

i am a young mom. i used to row for a Nationally qualifying crew team. Now, almost 4 years later...AND A BABY, I am struggling to lose the weight and get back to where I once was. I am motivated to lose 60-80 lbs to reach my goal of 145lbs again. I want to do something that is easy for a busy mom who goes to school full time (for my Masters), works full time, and is a full time mom... i have little time to work out and need quick meals on the go and workouts that dont bore me. i really need your advice, Jackie. I have tried a personal trainer and she made me gain weight.. she was terrible! please respond.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:17 AM

robinann wrote:

hi jackie, i've been watching from the 1st show, and i love it ! you have a wonderful way with people,your business and even your MOM. Now as far as Mimi,you did the right thing, not that it's my place to say anything, but I've had boyfriends who treated me like she treated you,and it took a little bit of time, i now have a wonderful man(who like's the show also) who does not bite me and treates me with RESPECT !!. YOU GO GIRL !!
do what you need todo !!!.
Iam so sorry hear about Doug, he seemed to be a VERY nice person, with a big heart, what a loss. Why is it so true "that only the good die young".

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:18 AM

Marissa wrote:

Jackie, you are a strong , intelligent real person, who can ask for anything more? It's nice to see that on your show. The money, people and things can all go away and we are left with "ourselves", nobody is perfect and growing up much like you did, being a strong independent woman is necessary for people like us. Showing that is sexy and endearing. Keep it real. do things on your own terms and only good things can come back to you ! I've watched since the beg. , and I just had to let you know you are an awesome person, and anyone who has you in their lives is lucky! Marissa, Marina del Rey

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:22 AM

Harley wrote:

Jackie: I give you the "2 thumbs up" for not changing anything about the episode, people really need to know that reality-is just that, and things happen in life where an airbrush or computer keyboard should not change the outcome. Doug will certainly be missed, HUGH impact. More of an impact is happening right now because fo the show and the way it was taped and edited, best wishes for everyone, Don't let Rebecca "cling" and, Peeler, is really only looking out for the best in people, he maybe a hard ass, but admit it Jackie, that is why you hired him in some way. Mimi was your leaning tool to find the absolute best for you. You may still have love for her, but remember she is a part of what is to come of Jackie Warner.
Best to you, hope you read this. Can't wait too see what happens in season 3.
Ciao for now
Harley
Saying for the day. "You can't take the elevator to success.... you MUST take the stairs"

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:22 AM

DK wrote:

Hey Jackie!

I'm really happy for you and your success. You truly deserve it. You seem like a truly genuine and wonderful person.

I just discovered your show this week and wasn't expecting much but ended up marathoning it and loving it.

It has totally motivated me to make many changes in my life: eating better, working out better, communicating better with my parents...

So...thank you Jackie!

And Doug Blasdell, wherever you are. Thank you.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:24 AM

mike bailey wrote:

Tears flowed tonight in my house. For you and for Doug. I lost my mom in 1984 and have since come to terms with my dad who was an absent father most of my young life. As a 54-year-old chubby man who finally accepted being gay, I looked at Doug was inspiratied. He is the kind of man I aspire to be. He seemed like a kind, caring man who truly wanted the best for everone. I even thought of one day coming to L.A. and staying with friends to see about hiring him as a trainer to get me on a healthy path again. Although that isn't possible now, I just wanted you to know that starting tonight, I am determined to lose weight and get myself in shape to honor Doug. I know it may seem silly to talk about making such a drastic change based on someone I didn't really know, but Doug's devotion to a healthy lifestyle -- and now his untimely death -- had that kind of impact. I am 5-11 and 285 pounds. Having a double bypass surgery last year did not scare me enough to do something about it. Being diabetic wasn't emough. I know he will never know it, but Doug's death was the thing that made me want to do somethng about it. Hopefully Doug is somewhere watching and will smile that he had that kind of impact on someone who watches the show. Thanks for being out and being on TV.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:25 AM

Sarah wrote:

Jackie, kudos to you for taking steps to regain a relationship with your mom. I can only imagine how vulnerable you may have felt. You show us strength and grace that I hope I can emulate!

My thoughts and prayers are with all who knew and cared for Doug!

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:33 AM

DK wrote:

By the way, you and your team have done a phenomenal job of producing a top-quality show.

I think Doug would be proud and honored by the way you have presented and preserved his legacy.

posted on May 2, 2007 at 2:34 AM

susank wrote:

It was a great episode. It was good to see