February 7, 2007

I was in sixth grade. There was this guy I was dating named Chris. It was raining and we were all standing by the softball field, where all the cool kids were hanging out. Chris had told everyone he was going to kiss me at recess, and so suddenly everyone starts crowding around.
In a circle! It was mortifying! I didn’t want to do it, because I was so nervous.
And so then, one of my friends pushed me into the middle of the circle. And that’s how it happened. It was raining and it was cold. I mean, Chris caught me and kissed me.
I remember it was really wet. I remember wondering whether it was the rain, or if Chris was a sloppy kisser. Who’s to know?









Comments
Karen wrote:
I have been searching the internet with great determination to find out the designer of your (almost pastel) multicolored dress with the handkerchief hemline. It is the one you are wearing on the front page of the the Real Housewives of OC Barvo webpage which you are also wearing on the TV into to the show. Can you help? With the wears you ladies fashon on the show, someone should investigate the opportunity to advertise some of the designers they are wearing in return for some monetary or in-kind compensation. Thanks for you help!
posted on February 8, 2007 at 7:09 PM
Tina Jones wrote:
Jo sweetie I think you are a doll. And in spite of his feelings for you I do think Slade can be cruel at times - like when he told you "You don't belong here." Also, please don't trust Lauri. Slade approached her? She said he is playing you both? HA! I don't believe it. She is covering for her own actions. The way you handled it by saying "it's in the past" was so classy and such a good example for so many of us in dealing with our men and their actions. Yes you have been given alot by Slade and by life in general but some people are just lucky that way and you are one of them. Life has more great things in store for you, including some more terrific men.
posted on February 8, 2007 at 7:12 PM
g wrote:
JO did you ever get with Shane. I think you did. Right on. Live it up
posted on February 9, 2007 at 1:49 AM
scott wrote:
JO I just wanted to let you know that the hot air ballon episode when slade told you an acre was 4400 sq ft and tried to make him self feel superior well he was way off an acre is 43,560 sq ft
posted on February 9, 2007 at 9:37 AM
Good Game wrote:
Jo I think that you are really cool and a strong woman. There is nothing wrong with you getting your independence. I love to see female impowerment. But I have one question...... where is Grayson this season?
posted on February 9, 2007 at 11:07 AM
Roshni wrote:
Hi Jo!
You are my favorite hosuewife!!! I wanted to let you know that I loooove that brown dress that you're wearing on the opening credits of the show!
posted on February 9, 2007 at 4:42 PM
Taylorjames wrote:
Hi JO,
I Think you and Slade are so cut together.By the way please email the next bar you and JJ go to.I would love to have drinks with guys.
posted on February 9, 2007 at 5:33 PM
jessica wrote:
hey jo, well i just wanted to start off with saying that i love the show and i think all you guys are amazing. And i love your style and your attitude. Your confidence says a lot about you in the best way. I also think that starting a career of your own was a good idea. You cant depend on a guy for everything because in relationships its supposed a fifty fifty split, and its great that you are starting to do that so slade cant take all the credit. keep it up!
posted on February 9, 2007 at 6:46 PM
Chas wrote:
bbHAHAHAHA!!! that reminds me of my first kiss. My very first boyfriend, Jamal, was cute and kind of popular. I was a square but still kool :) we used to walk home together after school. One day, me and him, and my best friend, Rod, were walking home and Rod is like "Hey Jamal, Chas' lips are dry!" So embarassing!. I don't even know how everyone knew it was going to happen, but the next day, after school there we were with a crowd surrounding us, engaging in my (not his) first kiss. I couldn't believe they were all in our mouth like that! HELLO! get a life 7th graders LOL!!!
posted on February 9, 2007 at 8:22 PM
Eric wrote:
Hey Jo! I am of fan of the show! Plus You are one of my favorite cast members. I am new here. So I think Slade is a real jerk because all he do is criticize You & you're still young and having fun! So he needs to get a life! So how's everything in Sunny California?
posted on February 10, 2007 at 2:05 AM
D. wrote:
jo, where did you get that black dress with cream lace.
its soooo cute.
posted on February 10, 2007 at 4:00 PM
linda woods wrote:
Jo,
Move out and get on with your life. However, drinking, bar hopping, all that is not a life...just because you are only in your 20's is no reason to drink like a fish and hang around trash. Really, don't ruin yourself..move out of Slade's house...work and get into activities that are healthy and wholesome..stop blaming your actions on your friends and how "they" made me do it..."they" are not good for you....bar hopping, drinking...out late...too drunk to drive? Please...grow up....you don't want a husband and children. So Why are you still with Slade? I just don't get it.....
posted on February 10, 2007 at 5:23 PM
Kim J. wrote:
Hi Jo,
I think you're really funny and cute. Don't change, and do what you want. You only get one chance at life, it's not a trial run. FYI, Lauri was lying when she told you on the couch what went on between her and Slade. My husband's a corporate lawyer, and he was watching this with me, and he said that she blinked too much, a sign that she was lying.
All the best,
Kim
posted on February 10, 2007 at 5:32 PM
Hiley wrote:
I think you and Slade are oil and water. I know it is hard to end things but wow do you torture yourself. I would love to see you with a younger person,though I think Shane is too immature for you.The Slade breakup is an obvious thing. Best of Luck in LA
posted on February 10, 2007 at 10:05 PM
Margeod wrote:
Jo,
Are you of Italian heritage, or are you Latino?
margeod
posted on February 10, 2007 at 11:19 PM
Island girl wrote:
I really liked the show last year, but this year I'm really disgusted with the emphasis on the O.C. kids drinking.
In my state, legal age is 21. I'm not saying Slade is right for you, but I can't believe you are hanging out with a 20 year old.
posted on February 10, 2007 at 11:37 PM
kj wrote:
I just wanted to post that originally I thought Jo was annoying, now I'm starting to like her and enjoy watching the show. She seems like she is looking for something and finding herself. I hope she succeeds and also it's nice to have money, but more importantly it's nice to appreciate the good life you have. Whatever you end up doing Jo, I hope you find happiness and peace with yourself and success. best wishes!
posted on February 11, 2007 at 12:00 AM
Donielle wrote:
Hi, Jo...I think u and Slade is it? are not meant to be together. He has kids and "family" on the mind, and u haven't obvioulsy got "partying in LA" out of your system. Do both of yourselves a favor and end it now.
posted on February 11, 2007 at 12:14 AM
Jani De La Rosa wrote:
Hi Jo!
Okay, so I was sitting here catching up on my Tivo'd episodes tonight and got to the one dated Sat, 2/10 @ 1pm (Direct TV). Anyway, they showed Slade calling you and your voicemail came on and you said "this is Jo De La Rosa"....I had to rewind like 5 times, because it's not a very common name here in Nor Cal. So, I decided to check on-line to make sure I wasn't hearing things and sure enough, we share the same last name, spelt the same way and everything!
The reason I have to ask is because most of my relatives are down in So Cal and I've never met most of them (my grandparents on the De La Rosa side had 16 kids!), could we be long lost cousins...? If you get this and can respond, I'll send photos so you can see the similarities in features & stuff.
Also, just my 2 cents, I have recently ended a 2 1/2 year relationship and the age difference was almost the same as yours & Slades, however reversed (he's 14 years younger). I can totally see by your actions and such that you feel "trapped' and you both are just at totally different stages in your life, so it just won't ever work until you have sewn your oats and you are ready to settle down and play housewife, which you aren't right now. You are only 24 years old and you have so much in life to experience, that you really won't make him happy until you are ready.
Good luck in figuring it out and let me know if we are related!!!
Jani De La Rosa
posted on February 11, 2007 at 12:59 AM
Michael wrote:
Jo,
Girlfriend, Slade is a wimp. You can do a lot better on your own. He is trying to control you and as long as you live in his house,drive his car,you are nothing more that his puppet. Ever wonder why he is not with his ex?
Dump his butt,you can do better.
posted on February 11, 2007 at 10:32 AM
melissa wrote:
Jo: I just love this show and you remind me so much of
me when I was 26. I loved to party, go out with my friends and let so many nice guys go by and Now I am 40 and alone. Slade faithful to you, treats you like a queen and is rich. Take it from me if you have another chance please try and make it work.
posted on February 11, 2007 at 2:38 PM
gail wrote:
hi, Jo, you remind me of myself when i was your age. Have fun, you are still young, slow down on the drinking though. I didnt marry and have children until I was 40. Enjoy your young life, those years past by so quickly. Slade is probably nice, but for someone else who can deal with his craziness.
posted on February 11, 2007 at 3:12 PM
angie wrote:
Ok Jo... you are too awesome. You remind me of my 18 year old daughter. I hope you really do move to LA and I hope you get on with your life. Sorry, but Slade seems a little to controlling. You are young, gorgeous and have so much to do in your life! Get out there.... party it up...and be you!!!
posted on February 11, 2007 at 9:53 PM
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posted on February 12, 2007 at 1:03 AM
Jean wrote:
If you watch season 1 when the ladies were talking about you and Slade breaking up, and Lori had a little smile on her face and said, something like "really? How old is Slade?" right there it showed she was interested in him. so, I don't believe that he pursued her.
also, I think Slade is always putting you down, like in the kitchen when you didn't know how to make the cookies and I felt sorry for you. He doesn't seem to respect you and I hope you find someone better for you.
posted on February 12, 2007 at 3:26 AM
Tee wrote:
Hey Jo, I like your fiery spirit..must be the latina thing. Anyhoo, I agree with the other bloggers advising you to do your own thing and move on from Slade. I'm sure you already have by this point. I think you seen dollar signs when you met him, because why else would you sign up to live a housewife life when it really wasnt what you intended to have or do or live! Figure out yourself and let him find a wife and mother
posted on February 12, 2007 at 2:00 PM
Shannon wrote:
JO: Hey just a side note, doen't let Lori lie to you! She is a snake. Slade did not pursue her, she went after him. That is what she does. I watched her do this, she did it to her ex-husband and has been doing ever since. She cannot be trusted. I about died when I saw what she did to you. She is not to be trusted. I could not believe the lies she told you at the home show. Slade did not play you both. She knows what she is doing, even though George is in the picture, trust me, she will keep doing things like this. Do not trust her. You are great! Keep your head up and do what is right for you. Keep being honest! you will get far!
posted on February 12, 2007 at 3:54 PM
Cindi Baker wrote:
Show is very entertaining keep up good work
posted on February 12, 2007 at 4:17 PM
Dee wrote:
Hi Jo it was nice seeing you on the Grammy's red carpet, but u did'nt stay on long enough for me to see what you was wearing. I also loves your new hair colour.
posted on February 12, 2007 at 4:27 PM
maria wrote:
Jo,
Girl you say that you are not ready for a family and yet you stay without a person who obviously wants the family life. If settling down is not what you want, and it honey it shows, then why don't you up and leave. I mean why drag this on, are you used to the lifestyle that Slade has been providing to you? If that's the case then maybe you are not as Independent as you portray to be.
posted on February 12, 2007 at 4:42 PM
Jennifer wrote:
Hi Jo,
Can you PLEASE tell me where you got that brown dress with the cream lace trim. It is SOOOOOO cute and I would love to know where it came from!
Thanks!
posted on February 12, 2007 at 6:27 PM
bree wrote:
Jo
I like you cuz you are honest so no crticism. But Jo, I have the feeling you and SLade are broken up now but if you are not, the way you treat Slade's boys is terrible. I dont mean any hostile actions, but by the way your actions are changing who they are. They see fights, and their Dad sleeping with someone without a commitment. I know I may seem old fashioned but really Jo, it changes who these boys are and how they will value women. What must be in their heads. "Dad and Jo fight, they are not married and sleep together and Jo may leave at any moment but my Dad says he loves her and their is constant displays of sexual behaviors but at the same time he is ALWAYS putting her down like she is stupid" Its a whole new ballgame with kids involved. Please take them into consideration cuz Slade won't. For the LIFE of me I cannot figure out why these boys'natural MOTHER lets them be in this environemnt AND on the reality show. I have a feeling she must be as shallow as Slade. Darn....then these kids don't stand a chance.....
posted on February 12, 2007 at 8:54 PM
Julian Holloway wrote:
Yes, I remember those large crowds like it was yesterday. I just want to say how proud I am of you Jo. You have always had wonderful personality and a great body. I wish that way way back in the day at Portola middle school that was me kissing you. Or in high school, but thats another story. I just wanted to drop a line and say hi, and congrats. You deserve it.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 12:18 AM
Steve Savage wrote:
Stick with Slade, you couldn't get any of that stuff on your own.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 11:26 AM
Stefanie Nicole wrote:
Jo!
I think you are awesome on this show! You have a very unique personality, you are young and beautiful and living it up by expressing your independence. You inspire girls that being young and living it to its fullest is important. :) You rock!
posted on February 13, 2007 at 1:48 PM
kayle wrote:
Jo i think you are so cool.I think your really pretty.Did you ever go out with shane?I think shane is really hot and you two would make a good couple.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 2:16 PM
Sonia wrote:
Before I begin my commenting, Are there responses to any of these comments? Because I do not see nay of her responses.
First time here, but huge fan of the show.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 2:32 PM
Tracy wrote:
Jo, Wake up!!! Dump Slade!!! He told you that "you don't belong here" How can you stay with him! He is saying you are not good enough for "Coto" Reality check He does not belong in Coto he is a jerk that always trys to make you feel stupid because the truth is Slade is very insecure. Slade is the one that needs to grow up and quit being abusive. He needs therapy!!!!! Tell him to step to the left. Find yourself a real man one that does not constantly put you down!!!!!!!!!
posted on February 13, 2007 at 3:33 PM
Chrissy wrote:
Hey Jo! I think your a real sweet and fun loving lady. I think you can do so much better then Slade. He's an ass, always trying to make you look dumb, he's the one that comes off looking bad. And the deal with Lauri, when you fist told Kim about you and Slade and then she went to the party at Jeana's. Kim told about you and Slade and Lauri was all happy and glad that you guys had broke up. Lauri's nothing but a gold digger. You should hook-up with Shane....he's hot.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 6:34 PM
Melissa wrote:
I think that you should not leave Slade yeah you are 24 but that is no excuse, I am 24 and I am over the party scene!!!! Trust me it gets old!!! you have a great boyfriend (by the way he is handsome!!) I think that you need to grow up and make your decision and stop playing games, because honestly I dont think that you can get anything better than Slade, he has everything a girl wants!!! what is his number, I would sure want to date him!!!!! JJ your so called best friend I think she is jealous, I was in your shoes once, wondering wether to stay with my boyfriend or with my friends, but honestly one day JJ is going to find her prince charming and leave you alone then you are going realize the mistake you made then it would be too late!!!! Take Care!
posted on February 13, 2007 at 7:59 PM
Lolita wrote:
Jo- You are so cute have a wonderful personality. Personally I don't even think Slade is hot, or funny, actually I think he is kind of a dork! You are way to good and if it is money you want I'm sure you can find some hot, nice, fun guy to be with who will treat you how you deserve. Wouldn't you want to have someone who will go out drinking with you, and take care of you?? When you find true love you don't have any doubts, and you don't want to be apart. You need to move on girl, you deserve it!
posted on February 13, 2007 at 8:20 PM
taheirah wrote:
Jo,
I think you love the money too much, but money is not enough and your seeing it very slowly, but it's gradually coming to you. Do what you need to do, It is easy for people to hate you because you play the ditsy girl that has very little clue, You are smart I can tell so let that shine. Respect is something no one can take from you. Slade treats you that way because you don't show him you respect yourself. Your young and pretentious. If a man knows you can hold your own he would not treat you that way, so obviously you are not showing him you can hold your own. So prove it to him if you are going to take that job. Actions Speak louder than words. Otherwise, you'll be his little pet for the rest of your unhealthy relationship.
Taheirah
posted on February 13, 2007 at 9:03 PM
Jack wrote:
Hey Slade an acre is more like 44 THOUSAND square feet! Nice try buddy!
posted on February 13, 2007 at 9:05 PM
Anneka wrote:
heyy jo, i must start offf by saying i love how u live your life. It seems like u have so much fun and even tho im only 15 i hope that one day ill have as much fun as you at that age. I also think you are such a gorgoues girl and yuo should totally go for shane lol he is veryy hott and it seems like you have a more flirty relationship with him then slade. I also think that you and slade arent good for each other you want soo much more out of life then he is willing to give you and even though you love him you are just too contrasting for a relationship you need someone who lives life like you. I totally am hoping for some action between you and shane in the show lol. ANyway i also love how you dress you always look so girly and fun with also looking very classy if u ever have any advice deff give me some lol
posted on February 13, 2007 at 9:08 PM
Samantha Ingalls wrote:
Jo,
Can you please just get out of Slade's life. Go and live with JJ.I don't believed that you love and respect Slade. I believed that you can not afford to satisfy your needs that is why, you have a hard time of making a choice to leave Slade. You love being Slade because of his wealth. If you and Slade got married, within a year you ended getting divorce. I think you are a fake person. You are not a very honest person. I hate when one time, Slade call, you on your Cell phone, then you have to have it on speaker phone to have other hear, of how you humiliate Slade. You are a flirt as well.
Last of foremost..
get a life of your own...don't dragg slade with you. I think he is a very decent man he might a very little controlling to you but i can see why? it's to obious for him not to control you. you are out of control.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:04 PM
Teresa wrote:
Jo, Slade is right.. its always what Jo wants, I watched ALL the shows & Jo gets what Jo wants, So seems to me you need to go party & have a great time & lose the best thing in your life & then realize its too late!!! Have A Happy Life Whatever Ya Do....
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:04 PM
Maya wrote:
You do not deserve what you have. You are very ungrateful and disrespectful to your boyfriend. He deserves someone who appreciates him. Sorry I have to be honest.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:14 PM
laura wrote:
Jo, you are funny you want slade.......but do not want to admit it..........very few people in life will accept you truly as you are, he knows your a brat and you seem proud of it.......i know shows are edited.......but think about life in the long run....... i got lucky...........you could be too..........
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:37 PM
rosy wrote:
hey jo, what is your nationality?
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:39 PM
Sandra wrote:
Jo....I really think that Slade needs to leave your slutty and gold digging ass alone. He is a great man who loves his kids and works hard. He deserves a women who wants teh same out of life and can appreciate the man that he is. Not a hoe who wants to go out and get plastered everynight and have no respect. You show us what u really are......shallow, fake , whore and a drunk!!!
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:54 PM
nikki wrote:
Hi Jo....after seeing tonights episode, it really seems as if you're really not IN LOVE with Slade anymore, and that you two are on two completely different levels. In saying this, I have been in your exact position and watching you is like watching me a few years back. You should be honest with him and yourself because wasted time is not fair to him or you.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:56 PM
Bob wrote:
Jo,
I feel very sorry for Slade. It is so obvious that you are using him. I can't believe how cruel you can be. He is so good looking and succesful. I wish he would wake the f@$# up and dump you. Sorry, but its true. You are a selfish brat.
posted on February 13, 2007 at 10:57 PM
Sarah Miller wrote:
Hey Jo I think that the show is pretty cool and all of you make me laugh! I think that you look like JLO your so beautiful!
sarah
posted on February 13, 2007 at 11:02 PM
Carla Presions wrote:
First I want to say I am not trying to be cruel but you really need to grow up. I just finished watching last nights show and I could not believe that you chose your friends over your man. Let Slade go find someone that will give him the love and time that he needs. I think if you put the alcohol down long enough you will see that you need to grow up and decide what it is that you really want. If that doesn’t include Slade than let him go. He deserves much better.
posted on February 14, 2007 at 1:04 AM
NiCOLETTE wrote:
hey jo!
umm... no offense to the otha housewives but i think u r like one of the only ones who doesnt look fake, but thats a good thing.
i love the show and shane is hott! u two would b cute together but yea, u might b too old 4 him, but not tht old cause ur really young
posted on February 14, 2007 at 1:58 AM
Yani wrote:
Hey Jo, I've loved you from the first time I saw you, because you look like one of my younger cousins, and she's beautiful. Any way watching the show and your relationship between you and Slade, reminded me of my fiance and I. He's a bit older than me. But when we first hooked up we made a good couple but my problem was that we were looking for diffrent things. He wanted a serious long term thing at the time but I wasn't ready for that. But I always did know that he'd be the one when I was ready and here we are now (10 yrs later) about to get married. That doesn't always happen that way. I had to move on and do my own thing and so should you, hey if it's meant to be you'll find your way back together. If not you'll find the right one for you at the right time. And as for Shane, I know he looks all nice and shiney on the outside, but he's got some personality issues that needs to be worked out. Trust me don't do it to yourself. Take care I know you'll prosper in all aspect of life, enjoy every moment!!!
posted on February 14, 2007 at 3:28 AM
Kate wrote:
Hiya Jo,
I agree with the comment about that dress with the handkerchief hem, I love it.
I wonder if you and the other ladies read these comments? As for Slade, it looks like he is trying to make you something you are not. His comment about planning things for your future, I wonder if he clued you in on his plans? No one is perfect though, and he said he's tired of giving and not getting. But then we don't see everything, and you did try and make him cookies and his reaction sucked.I've been in that type of a relationship and came out alive and with most of my self esteem intact. You only live once girl, be true to yourself.
posted on February 14, 2007 at 6:07 AM
diamonds4Life wrote:
These viewers are being way too kind. You have been nothing but immature, indecisive and wasteful of a nice man and his children's time. Your just milking him because its clear you don't love him. A woman who has never once cooked for her man in 2 plus years is either simply just selfish or simply not into him at all. A real woman would never leave so much open for another woman to come in and steal her man.
Girlfriend you could never make it on the East coast with that flaky thing your always pulling. How will you hold a job if you don't even have the common since to read the back of a cookie package to find what all you need??? How at 26 are you this dunce.
The only smart thing about you is that your smart enough to know that you should not be bearing children. Slade needs to stop wasting his time with you and move on. Your gonna be sorry one day to have lost a good one like him. keep letting other immature people guide you into a party life, you will soon learn Cali will eat you up and throw you out and there are not a lot of great men walking around either dear. Wise up, it hurts to see such foolishness and a waste of life.
posted on February 14, 2007 at 6:24 AM
Cindy wrote:
Slade is WAY too efiminate!! I think you'd be better of with a stronger personality.
posted on February 14, 2007 at 9:01 AM
wickedheart wrote:
Jo,
Finding yourself through your independence is definitely a good step. No woman can understand what it truly means to be independent and strong until it happens. Everyone thinks they're already there. When I first met my ex-husband, I thought I was there. Then, after our divorce, I learned what it truly meant and understood that I could not give 100% of myself to any relationship until I gave it all to myself first.
So you're on the right track. Just be sure not to push everyone away on your journey. You never know how they can help. : )
posted on February 14, 2007 at 5:14 PM
KERI wrote:
Jo- Slade likes you because you are cute, young & hot. You use him because he has money & provides you with a nice roof over your head. You need to both grow up! You know you would drop him in a hot second second for a younger wealthier man! Slade says how important his KIDS are to him, but where is the youngest? Why is he with you-who cant stand kids? Wake up & get with the real world!
posted on February 14, 2007 at 11:35 PM
Deborah wrote:
Dating in 6th grade?? Where were your parents when you were dating in the 6th grade?? Are you going to leave all that bling behind when you move to L.A.?
posted on February 15, 2007 at 1:53 AM
maribel rodriguez wrote:
hey jo i really love the show, i never miss a episode. i think you really need to move out of slades home and move on. you are really into partying right now. i don't blame you you are young. i kinda feel sorry for him, he really wants to be with someone who will be with him @ home by his side. but @ this moment all you are interested is, in partying and getting drunk. yo, dont hurt him anymore! just move out and call it quits!!!! girl do you believe in karma? and that about going out with shane, i dont think it's right. you wouldn't like it if slade went out clubbing with a gal pal!! if you continue doing it, one day tables will turn and it will happen to you and you will not like it a bit. oneday a beautiful girl will come by and take your place and bump you off and take your man!!!! so JO move out or call it quits before its to late. what more do you want. slade gives you everything and he puts up with your partying ways and you do him this way. dont sell yourself like a slut especially on national T.V. have more class. damm if i was a slade and you did that to me, i would've dumped your ass along time ago and left you out in the cold. i would change the locks to my house and take your personal belongings and throw them out in the street and take the car away and make you find your way back where you came from. girl i bet you didnt have all the good things you have now back way then before you met slade.
posted on February 18, 2007 at 3:55 AM
Jackee wrote:
Jo, I think Slade is pretty average looking & wimpy. I think you're just with him because he buys you whatever you want. If you're still with him, dump him and be your own woman...without his financial help. And at 26+, you're not that young anymore either....many women have kids or a stable career at that age, not bar hopping from club to club like a teenager. Ohhh, and please cut that "dumb" girl act. I know you're far from dumb. Although annoying that act can look cute on a young, dumb blonde, but not a big brunette with strong, manly features like you.
posted on February 18, 2007 at 6:17 PM
Victoria wrote:
Jo , first off i think your sooooo pretty and i love you. But i have a question what happened to Slade's younger son.
posted on February 19, 2007 at 3:45 PM
ss wrote:
Jo --
I am so tired of hearing you use your age as an excuse for your lack of responsibility. Of course there is nothing wrong with wanting to go out with your friends, and it is your right to drink and "party" to your heart's content -- but if you choose to do so, you do not have the right to agree to marry a man who has been very upfront about wanting a wife, partner, and mother to his children. If you want to be a party girl, go to it. But look for a man who is interested in the same. Stop taking advantage of the financial perks of a mature, established business man and find a young party boy who works multiple jobs and lives with roommates as you did before meeting your sugardaddy.
Grow up. Or move on.
posted on February 20, 2007 at 9:14 PM
CHRISTINEN wrote:
Jo, I'm so sick and tired of hearing you with that fake voice. Act like a woman and stop acting like a child. Everytime I see you it's a drink in your hand or you are talking about being with your friends. Go do it, i can't stand a woman that knows she has no interest in a man and just leads him on. you are only with slade for his money. I'm 40 and I have a 22 year old daughter that is more mature than you When I was your age I had a 6 year old and a career. I was raised in a wealthy household and I can see you were very poor growing up because of your actions. But whatever happens, I hope Slade finds a woman that can love him and his children. I would never allow a man to come into my like and treat my child the way you have treated his, as if you have no interest.I don't know what you are doing to him in the bed room, I sure hope you can keep it up because the day he wakes up you will have the shock of your life. I just don't like you.
posted on February 20, 2007 at 10:59 PM
michelle wrote:
Jo,
Just wanted to give you props on being independent and not needing a man to get what you want in life. The thought of someone supporting us is nice but doing it on your own is even better.
posted on February 21, 2007 at 4:55 AM
Sophia Kazaleh wrote:
I don' know what to make of Jo and Slade. One episode they are fighting. The next he is buying her birthday presents and sending her to recording studios. You know you don't belong together. Jo dear, you are 24, move on with your life. Gain back your independence. In 10 years from now when you finally grow up, you will look back and realize just how good you had it with Slade. But for now, you know what you have to do. Don't deprive yourself. Enjoy your 20's. You've got the LV bags. Fill them up and go.
posted on February 21, 2007 at 12:59 PM
smiley wrote:
Jo,
I think you and slade should try and make it work. He is good for you . Sometime he can be a control freak but for the most part he will give you the world and he truly loves you. IF he is act up let me know so i get on him.
posted on February 21, 2007 at 2:26 PM
Tiffany wrote:
Awww. The first kiss thing was cute. You're lucky. My first kiss wasn't romantic at all!
posted on February 23, 2007 at 8:45 PM
someone wrote:
haha cute!
posted on February 25, 2007 at 12:31 PM
Brenda wrote:
Hey Joe,
I was just wondering what make-up you use? I was also wondering who designs all of your clothes. I think you are the best housewife out of all of them. You make the show for me. I also think you and Slade make a really cute couple. He is a hottie so try to keep him.
posted on February 27, 2007 at 11:04 AM
Rita G. wrote:
Jo, It's been obvious since the first season that you and Slade are on different pages. He needs someone ready to settle down, cook, clean, and take care of his kids. He knows that you're not ready for that kind of responsibility. He needs someone a little older and not a young trophy wife. You on the other hand keep going back to him knowing full well this relationship has too many strikes against it. I feel without him you won't have the rich lifestyle you feel you deserve. Without Slade you wouldn't have the house, car, job, and status you have now. If you would have stayed broken up, you won't be on the show anymore . Without all the attention the show has brought you, where would you be today? Your both using each other. Break it off and get on with your life
posted on February 27, 2007 at 8:22 PM
libbie wrote:
Jo, you accused Slade of treating like a child but that's the way you act. You take him for granted, you don't deserve a man like Slade. I can understand that your young but what about young girls in other countries younger than you having to support their whole familes? Thats responsibility something you don't have. The other issue I have with you is I don't believe your really in love with slade, I think your in love with what he can offer you. "Your a cheap gold digger" and you have a lot of insecurities. I can't wait for you to realize that without you on the show it would be much better. You are so BORING! cry baby.
posted on March 2, 2007 at 1:24 PM
Stephanie Silverman wrote:
Jo, you are great. What's so obvious about you is that you are beautiful on the inside as well as the out. Everyone has flaws but you embrace your flaws and they make you even better!
Slade is the same way, maybe he has some flaws as well, but he is also a great person. It is plain as day that the man loves you, there is no question about that. Men are brought up so that they often show their love through gifts, whereas we are "allowed" to show it more through words. And so you can see he loves you a lot!
But you can't love someone just because they love you. Even if you want to! And that wouldn't be right for anyone. Both of you have a lot to offer the right person. Maybe it will be the two of you! Only time will tell. There is no rush. Life is a jouney, not a destination. Keep up the good work!
posted on March 2, 2007 at 9:50 PM
LYNDSEY wrote:
All i'm going to say is that if you don't watch out for yourself, no one else will .Be strong.
posted on March 4, 2007 at 4:43 AM
Jackie wrote:
I havent had a "real first kiss" yet...but you know how you said it was raining and wet? thats how i want to picture my frist kiss...how romantic!! where we are ( dont know who yet ) standing in the rain getting soaked...but maybe not with all those ppl watching!! yes i dont like ppl watching or staring at me ( and when im getting kissed?) so, hopefully it will be jorge this guy i have been crushing on since august!!
posted on March 9, 2007 at 4:50 PM
lisa marie watson wrote:
Jo Slade is such a controlling freak because deep inside he is extremely inmature and needy u go girl enjoy your life and have fun fun fun being single.......for a little while longer then i am sure you will make a great mother when the time comesl
posted on March 18, 2007 at 12:45 AM
lawrence pledger wrote:
hi jo. that guy was a sloppy kisser and it dosnt take a rocket brainyact to figure that out
posted on March 21, 2007 at 10:55 AM
sharlene wrote:
Being a party girl is what attracted Slade to you in the first place and once he got you he wanted to change you. You are going to try and slide thru life on your looks and acting innocent and
cute. You can only do that so long. Split up and get on with your lives. You two have nothing in common except he has money and you don't.
posted on November 8, 2007 at 12:17 AM
Paola wrote:
Hahahah!
No TV show, no benz and no singing.
Tha's what you get for pretending to be what you are not. You should go back to Peru and help people in need instead of wasting air in here.
posted on December 14, 2007 at 10:04 AM