June 25, 2007
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Here’s the thing. My Dad was just a very special man. And when people come up to me and give their condolences so generously, they often say, “I know it’s weird, because I feel like I knew your Dad even though I just saw him on TV.”
And I say, “then you did know him,” because the wonderful thing about the Bravo show is that they really captured my Dad exactly the way he was -- funny and smart and sarcastic and sweet and gentle and naughty and nice all in one.
So I hope you really enjoyed tonight’s episode and please know that my family wants you to watch and enjoy and remember all the great funny stuff about my dad because we feel really privileged to have this record of his last few weeks, where he was really himself and sharp and having fun. I asked my Mom if it was difficult for her to watch the show, and she said in her inimitable way, “Oh for Christ’s sake, no Kathleen. I love watching it, because I get to see Johnny again.”
Okay, deep breath everybody...
Comments
Melissa wrote:
Hey sweetie. I wanted to let you know how sorry I was to see that your father passed away. I feel like part of your family because of your "Life on" series. Love to you and your family and may your memories of your father bring peace to you and yours during this difficult time. I have grown up watching you since suddenly susan (even before but that's as far back as I remember). I even met you in 1998 or 1999 at the San Diego Comic-Con and got your autograph then.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:03 PM
sr wrote:
Kathy, im watching you now on bravo..and seeing you lost your FATHER, i myself had lost mine a few years back at 54(he)..im 36...it was very difficult time..
..the best advise i can give is to always remember the "good" times...
very sorry for your loss!...your DAD seemed to be a very great man.. with a great smile :) take care God bless
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:03 PM
rosie wrote:
Kathy,
I have been following your show since last year and think you are wonderful. Seeing your parents does indeed let us know where you came and how you can be the person you are. Thank you for sharing your life with everyone. You're no d-lister to me.
Rosie
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:03 PM
Eric wrote:
I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. I lost my father seven years ago, and as cliched as it sounds time lessens the pain, if only a little bit. Your father must have been a special man to have a daughter who has brought so many people so very much enjoyment. God bless you, your mother, and your dad.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:03 PM
rosie wrote:
Kathy,
I have been following your show since last year and think you are wonderful. Seeing your parents does indeed let us know where you came and how you can be the person you are. Thank you for sharing your life with everyone. You're no d-lister to me.
Rosie
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:03 PM
Donna wrote:
Dear Kathy: I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I had the same kind of relationship with my dad as you had with yours. We were lucky enough to be able to know our dads as grown-up friends as well as dads. I know how badly it hurts to lose Dad. You are in my prayers. Donna from Indiana
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:04 PM
Niki Mauro wrote:
Kathy, you are a beautiful and really amazing women. It is obvious you got those great characteristics from your parents. We are a small family of four in Florida and we love you very much. Your father will be missed but it is YOU that we love. Please be strong and don't leave the spot light EVER! I support everything you do and I need you to keep going for us. We love you so much!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:05 PM
Sheila wrote:
I'm watching the latest episode of Kathy's show. Great show, beautiful tribute to her dad. He was a funny, funny man. What a great life ... 90 years. Undoubtedly, she owes her great sense of humor to her father. I know she will miss hi but (this sounds sappy) he's still with her in spirit (and on tape!)
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:05 PM
Kathy wrote:
So sorry to hear about your Dad. It just sucks to lose one of your parents..mine are both gone now, and it seems like nothing will ever be the same again. But I know he's up in heaven now, watching over you and still taking care of you Take care of yourself.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:06 PM
Carrie wrote:
Kathy I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you could of done this show years ago because I would of liked to of seen your dad more. Your mother and father are so captured by the camera and they are just wonderful people. I lost my mother this year and she was this amazing social worker. I imagine that you feel about your dad how I felt about her and what I imagine we share is a sense of just how hard it is to lose them. God bless you and your family I will pray for you.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:08 PM
Karen wrote:
My heart is broken. It's so sad to see Kathy so sad.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:10 PM
kristy wrote:
Your dad was a wonderful person Kathy. You're so fortunate to have family such as yours! Just remember that all of your fans will miss him so much. It was always very easy to see how much of his personality he bestowed on you. So with that, take comfort that he lives on through you. You're both smart, witty and truly care for others (well except for when it's Star or Seacrest)! BTW - I'd bid more than $5K if I had it!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:10 PM
donna Rattray wrote:
I am sorry about your dad. I am watching the show right now and I feel much like you did. My work would not let me have Father's Day off so I was the only one of the kids not to be with him when he went to the hospital two states away from me. I lost him yesterday morning.
He seemed like a great guy and I know that you'll miss him as much as I'll miss my dad.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:10 PM
Rick wrote:
Kathy I just wanted to send out my love. I lost my dad this year and it's been so lonely without him. I miss him, and understand what you are going through. I'm also a big gay fan
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:13 PM
Tammy wrote:
I have been watching your show for the past couple of seasons and you always make me laugh (even when life isn't so great). I watched your show tonight and wanted to say how sorry I am about the loss of your father. My father passed away 6 years ago and the show tonight was both emotional and happy for me. It allowed me to remember the good times with my dad. Thank you for all the laughs and keep doing what you are doing...YOU ARE GREAT!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:14 PM
jane randall wrote:
I just put something on your website. So here goes again.
Thank you for your bravery. I was impressed by your raw openess with your divorce; but to show something so personal, so close to your heart....I am still crying and laughing at the same time. My family is a close knit Irish Catholic family. I'll never forget sitting in a group after my grandmother passed and drinking with my family. We cried and we laughed; We bitched about Phyllis and told every great thing about her. Your show in Vegas was your Irish wake. (and my gays are going to be soooo pissed I saw it first!!! those bitches!) You have gone from d to diva. I will be a fan forever.
And, by the way...you went to Jackson michigan...what the hell!!!! There is a prison there as well as home to Ted Nugent! Girl......Detroit, Ferndale.....hell, anywhere else would have been better. The girls at the radio station where I work are already planning a group trip!
Love you, and God Bless.....
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:14 PM
Jennifer LaHaie wrote:
Kathy, I am a huge fan and my husband thinks you are very funny too. I cried through most the episode tonight. My dad died of heart problems on April 9 and he was only 63. He was very similiar to your dad and I loved watching the show even though I cried so much. Can't wait until you come to the Chicago area. My husband and I will be there. You are the best!!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:15 PM
Tommi wrote:
Oh, my goodness. I just got through watching your show. I had no idea how it was going to end. Went immediately on the Internet and discovered that your father had passed in February. I cried my eyes out. I lost my father, my hero, 11 years ago. I felt your pain. I, too, feel like I know your parents. You've allowed you and your family into our living rooms, and I so enjoy watching you, laughing with you and crying with you. But what a wonderful montage of clips of your father at the end of the show. It was wonderful! Keep up the good work! You're totally awesome!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:16 PM
paulette mastrodonato wrote:
My college-aged daughter and I watched the show together and cried. Your Dad was so cute and so obviously special. He reminded us both of my father and her grandfather who passed away almost two years ago. Time marches on, but their spirit lives on in us. God Bless you and your family.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:17 PM
Lisa wrote:
Kathy,
I am so sorry for the loss of your father. He was definenty a special man. I envy you for having such a special mother and father in your life that support you as they do.
I love watching your show - you really make me laugh. I admire that you say what is on your mind and don't worry about what people say or think. You have very sick humor and I love it - Shit maybe we are long lost sisters. LOL
I don't usually call women lesbians, I call them donut bumpers. Have you ever used that?
I wish you the best, I love watching your show and if you ever come to Minnesota I will surely be there.
Your Fan,
Lisa
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:17 PM
Laura J wrote:
wow kathy
great show and tribute to your dad. I know what you're feeling too-I just lost my grandma (at 95) over memorial day weekend . just 3 weeks before, she was cooking for herself, her mind was still sharp, but definitely "different"-very tired. It sometimes is still hard to believe that she's gone-we knew deep down it would happen some day but never really wanted to accept that. I also realize how lucky I was to still have her (at 43 years old) and that she was able to share so much of our lives . she will be and is missed everyday--I'm sure just like your dad. My heart goes out to your mom---just keep her laughing!!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:18 PM
PAM DOMANGUE wrote:
I'M REALLY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR DAD. I KNOW IT MUST BE REALLY HARD TO DO STAND UP WHEN YOUR GOING THROUGH THE LOSE OF A PARENT. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:20 PM
angella wrote:
I just watched this very emotional episode...and I am soooo use to crying from belly busting laughter that crying for your families loss seemed so strange. I have been a fan of comedy for so many years...since I was just a little kid tricking my mother to buy me a Richard Pryor album to working at the Comedy Cafe for years and meeting some of the best including Ellen D., Adam Sandler....etc. you are the most relatable comic and for you to be able to come into my home via bravo makes life so much lighter for me and my mother who also thinks you are just so funny and clever. Your parents are the cutest and just so naturally funny also....and even though your father has past his and your mothers best qualities live on through you bringing so much laughter to this much to serious world. God bless your family and big hugs from me.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:21 PM
Carl Tripp wrote:
Kathy,
I just started watching your show this season, so just "met" your father. He seemed like a wonderful man and made me laugh many times. I pray for you and your family and wish you all the best. Anytime you want to come to Erie, Pa, your Erie Gays will be waiting with open arms.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:21 PM
screaming madre wrote:
Kathy, I am so sorry about your dad's passing. I have loved seeing them, together and separately,on your show Thank you for sharing your mom and dad with us. And thank you for sharing this awful and important tiime with us. It's been a privilege to "know" your dad, and I will miss him. You and your family are in my prayers.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:22 PM
Wanda Hostas wrote:
I just watched your show. 06/19/07, and it was really sad and touching. I just wanted to say that I admire you and I will stay a devoted fan to your career. I know that there are many of people that want to say just the right thing, and make you and your Mom feel better. I want to say that he was funny, and a great part of your show. But losing your Dad sucks, and there is no way around it. Hang in there and remember that Jesus' first miracle was to turn the water into wine at his Mother's request. Your Dad is now able to have the best wine ever with the most wonderful friend ever. He is just waiting for your your Mom to join him to really party. I don't mean that I want your Mom to join him any way soon. Please don't think that.
I just wanted to write to you and send my respects to your and the memory of your Dad. Sincerely, Wanda Hostas
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:22 PM
Scott wrote:
I must say out of any ones parents I've meet or seen your mother and father are the greatest. There was never a dull moment with your dad and the walker. Godspeed to you and your mom. You've got a bright down shining down on you always now!!!! Can't wait to see you in Houston and your GAYS will be here!!!!!!!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:22 PM
Laurie M wrote:
Dear Kathy,
I just want to pass on my sympathies on the passing of your Dad. What a beautiful tribute you gave to him on your show. His love for you is so obvious, and vice versa. He was so proud of you, as is your Mom. As I watched your show which I have followed since the beginning, I cried for you and for your mom, and somehow felt as though I'd lost a friend too. I won't pretend to know you, but I am guessing that you are a marvelous reflection of him.
I hope that in these difficult days, that you will lean of the loving memories that only the two of you share.
Blessings,
Laurie- weymouth, Mass
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:25 PM
Heidi wrote:
I enjoyed this episode as well as all of the other ones, I'ma huge Jackie Warner fan. I loved when you appeared on her show, you were so funny.
It was very sad to her about your dads passing. It got me a little teary eyed. He really seemed like a great guy, I can see where you get you sense of humor from. He was lucky to have you as his daughter and you can tell just by watching the show he was very proud of you and all you have accomplished.
Keep doing the amazing job you are doing, and I love the show. I am trying to get tickets to see you in July at Hampton Beach. If I end up going that will definatly be the highlight of my summer. :)
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:26 PM
D.J. wrote:
Kathy,
I am so sorry that your dad passed. Just from watching your show I could tell that he is a true inspiration to you and that is priceless. I cried when I first heard the word that he died on tonight's episode. I wish I had a father like yours. I guess by watching your show and seeing how wonderful you and your parents are together just makes me wish I had that, too. You are lucky to have had such a delightful dad and to still have your wonderful mom by your side. I wish you and your family all of the best. I wish your show was on weekly throughout the whole year. You bring joy to my life and thanks for that. Hugs and best wishes, D.J. Welborn.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:27 PM
Jeremy wrote:
Dear Kathy
I don't know if you will ever read this but I do want to say I am sorry for your loss. I know that it is personally hard to lose someone close to you. On my 24th birthday the first phone call I got was to come to the Childrens Hospital here in Columbus because my 12 yr old cousin had passed away. Now being 26 I realize that losing a child in the family has a long-term impact but is also one of many issues that life can through your way. Since then I have lost not only my home but my grandfather who was one of my biggest heros, yet I still have the strength to stand, and I have a great partner who stands by me. I hope that you (and it seems so from the show) will be able to rise above this and still be able to stand, not for your fans sake but for you own. I hope you come to Columbus soon so I can see you preform. Your biggest gay fan here in C-town
Jeremy
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:32 PM
Angle wrote:
Kathy:
Just saw the episode tonight.. I am so sorry for your lost.. Your parents are great.. I know both of your parents are very proud of you.. I just saw on your website that he passed away in February, 2007, however, I could imagine how you have been doing since then...
Please always remember that those of us (your gays) do love you very much and are here for you.. You and your entire family are in my and my partner's thoughts and prayers..
Love Always
Angel & Raymond
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:32 PM
D2 wrote:
Kathy, baby!
I felt your pain as I watched tonight's episode. Just know that your people (aka fans, friends, etc.) are thinking of you and your family during this time of sorrow.
My mom died as I was starting rehearsals for a show 6 years ago. Went to rehearsal in tears. The director wanted to send me home, but I had to say 'life has to go on'. After all, my mom would have made me go, after all I still have $38K in student loans to payback. It sucked, but at least it got me through during my period of pain and sorrow. At least you're still going.... And going strong.
Big hugs to you and mom!
D2
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:34 PM
Ashley wrote:
Hi Kathy. I just finished watching the episode. I want to thank you for letting the world see this part of you and your life. I'm sure it was really hard and probably still hard. I want to send my condelence to you and your family. I love your show and I always enjoyed when your mother and father were on the show. Your father was down to earth and real about everything. He didn't really care about the cameras being around. He was funny and handsome and I am truly going to miss seeing his happy face on your show. I hope you continue to be yourself and keep up the good work. You are by far the funniest person in the world. You might need to change the show soon to "Life on the A-List." You deserve it. Trust me. God bless you and your family.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:34 PM
India wrote:
Hi Kathy, Im officially your biggest fan, and believe it or not im not one of your beloved gays! I am sooo sorry for your loss. Your dad was hilarious. I truly see where you get your talent from. Keep up the good work and always remember you have so many fans, just like me, who love and support you!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:34 PM
Kris Farrell wrote:
Kathy- I just saw tonight's episode and as I was watching my heart went out to you and your family. I surprised myself because I have never gotten as emotional watching a TV show as I felt as you spoke with your father on the phone and could tell how weak he was at the time, and his subsequent passing.
You were very lucky to have been able to hear him tell you how supportive and how proud he was of you, which is not always something we get to hear from a loved one before they leave us
For us, your audience, to be able to have seen the special relationship between the three of you, and the loving and fun relationship your parents had for each other was very special. Your father was truly "a piece of work", and I mean that in the highest terms.
I wish you and your family well, and I am happy we all got to get to know your Dad through your show. Keep up the great work, and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:36 PM
Jacquie wrote:
Hi Kath-
was very sad watching the show tonight-went through it with my own Dad-he made it.
Just know your mom actually is so much like mineI have to laugh!
I get your sense of humor=totally=and remember I'm from Minnesota_my mom has the same accent as yours"OOOOH JAAACQQQuieeeE"
Love your sense of humor = you make me laugh and I'm really good at using humor to ease my pain too-plus I love honesty.
anyway honest I could give you the same type of stories you have that's why I love watching your show
sincerely Jac
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:37 PM
Kelley wrote:
My heart goes out to you. My grandfather just passed in April from Congestive Heart Failure. Watching the show tonite brought it all back in vivid detail. He also chose to have the tube removed to take the burden off of my grandmother and all of us. And, like your wonderful dad, he was doing what he wanted to do right up until a few weeks before he died. Just wanted to let you know my thoughts (and plenty of tears watching the show) are with you!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:37 PM
bridget wrote:
dear kathy,
first of all i would like to send my support for you, your mother and the rest of your clan. this episode hit especially close because this year my mother lost her father. my grandfather had a great sense of humor and not to mention he liked to enjoy a drink every now and then! once again i send my support to your entire family.
thank you for sharing your father with the world!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:38 PM
Libby wrote:
How lucky you are to have had such adorable (and funny) parents! Your dad will surely be missed by all your fans. I was crying with you tonite during the show, knowing how much it hurts and how surreal it is when that time comes. Remember all the good times! And hug your mom. xox lib
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:42 PM
Angie Hess wrote:
Kathy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Your Dad cracked me up! Now I see where you got your personality from!! To give your mom credit where credit it due, I think that you got a great mix of funniness from the both of them! I was extremely close with my grandfather and when he passed away I felt like I had lost my father but I can say that reliving old times and remembering how he made me crack up all of the time brings me out of the sadness. In time you will feel better but grieving is healthy so take your time. My heart goes out to your Mother. Take care Kathy and keep cracking us all up! I don't think you say "Fuck" too much! :)
Angie
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:44 PM
Lynn wrote:
It is so hard to lose a parent. Sometimes all you can do is take time to breathe. I was so struck when you talked about your sorrow. The truth is none of us will know how deep your sorrow is. It's not like anyone could ever explain how it hurts. Here is a truth that came to me when my mother passed ten years ago. Sorrow like this is like the rings of a tree. at first the waves are very close together and each ring contains its own level of understanding. over time, the rings get a little further apart. They don't go away and they shouldn't. Your dad was very cute and fun and it was evident how much he loved you. The hardest part of loving someome is having them leave us. Good luck
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:46 PM
Rick Jordan wrote:
Hi Kathy!
I LOVE YOU - for real - like every gay man should. You are one of the highlights of my week.
I am so sorry to hear about your father - I wish you and your family tons of support. From what I saw of your hillarious father, he seemed like a great guy... and will be missed greatly, I'm sure. STAY STRONG!!! He may have passed on, but the memories will never (I know, how Hallmark card of me, but it is true).
My favorite fag hag and I saw you when you came to town (Pittsburgh) and we laughed so hard... you are a true talent and I can't wait to see you again. And maybe someday, other than in my gay dreams, I will get to meet you in person. Ha ha... I know, you are very busy.
Well - chat with you later (I say this, like we are buds)...
Take care!
LOVE YA LOTS xoxox
Richard from Butler,PA
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:46 PM
Tamara wrote:
Kathy, My heart goes out to you and your family. Everything will be feel better in time. You are so lucky to have the shows to watch him and see him. He'll always be with you in your hearts. What a great man. Feel your feelings and let yourself grieve. Hugs to you and your mom, Tamara
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:48 PM
Andrew wrote:
Kathy,
This episode was so touching. Sending thoughts and hugs your way and also to your mother and family.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:49 PM
Erin wrote:
Dear Kathy:
I just wanted to offer my deepest condolences on the loss of your father. I watched the Bravo show and cried right along with you. I have never met you, but I feel a closeness and kinship with you, as all your fans do. We relate to you on a very personal level and due to that fact, we feel very deeply for your loss. I am so glad that we got a chance to know your father through the Bravo show. His kind nature and sense of humor was very evident. He seemed like a wonderful man and a supportive father. Please try to remember the good times and keep laughing as you always do. Please know that all the laughter and joy that you have brought to your fans will come back to you tenfold. We love you and we are here for you. Keep up the great work and keep your head up! We love you!!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:50 PM
BIll wrote:
I'm so sorry to hear about your father passing. I have been following you for years and you have brought so much light and laughter to so many it is difficult to see you face such a sad loss. I couldn't help but find myself crying along with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:54 PM
steven feinberg wrote:
dear kathy,
i was so sorry to hear about your dad. my father died in 2001 and my mom just died last dec., and i can tell you, no matter how much you prepare yourself, no matter how strong you think your heart is, at the moment it happens it STILL takes you by surprise with a tragic shock the system is almost incapable of comprehending. if you took a gun and shot a hole in a tree, that hole would be what death does to your world. it leaves a space nothing can fill or put back to the way it was. but maybe this will comfort your heart. life is a gift and it comes in a box marked time. every day we unwrap another part of the gift. sometimes the gift is good, sometimes not. but we accept what has been given and that's what makes life. and in the end, when all the boxes have been opened, the gift is passed to those who have been closest. your dad gave you his sense of life, sense of humor, sense of kindness and awareness. that's his gift to you! open the box with kindness and care and keep passing it on. my wishes for sweeter times go to you, your mom, and your family.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:55 PM
Sue wrote:
Hi Kathy-
My husband and I just watched your show with tears in our eyes. Our hearts go out to you and your family. It is the hardest thing in the world to watch your parents get sick or pass away. My husband lost both of his parents to cancer and my father has congestive heart failure. It sucks!
I won't even try to impart wisdom on this subject...you are living it and we hope you are all holding up well.
Just know that your fans are all giving you a long distance-internet hug!
We hope to catch you in Chicago this October...Chi-town loves you Kathy!
Sue
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:56 PM
Courtney wrote:
Kathy-
My thoughts go out to you and your family, but mostly to your Mom. Your Mom is a wonderful woman who lost her best friend. My heart goes out to her. So many poeople love you guys. You are so on my A list.
=Courtney
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:57 PM
Cami wrote:
Kathy,
I cried as hard at this episode as I did when my own grandfather died. I always loved it when your parents appeared on the show- I hope I am just like them and have found someone who can love me as much as your dad loved your mom and vice versa. I just hope you know what an impact you and your family have made on everyone who watches the show. Your parents really have inspired me to never settle and to stay young at heart! LOVE YOU and STAY STRONG!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:57 PM
Desiree wrote:
I lost my grandmother exaclty the way you lost your dad. She was on the tubes and did not want to leave the decision to anyone. She passed away when the final sceconds of the last Steeler football game. Remember that no matter where you are, your father is smiling down on you! You and your family are in my prayers.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:58 PM
A. wrote:
Dear Kathy,
For two seasons now I have been laughing with you. I never would have suspected that I would be crying with you. The emotion that you show for your father is incredibly touching - it is obvious that he was an amazing man and that you loved him very much.
The relationship that I have with my own father is a rough one, and something that I have been working on. While this is a tragic situation, it is a reminder to me of the importance of a father-daughter relationship and showing appreciation and love to each person while you can. Life is so precious.
We love you Kathy!
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:59 PM
Louis wrote:
Kathy,
I just moved to California for an internship with, ahem, a large gay publication, and watching your show makes me feel more at home (especially since I'm also from a Chicago burb like you). It's been an awfully difficult week of adjustment, but watching you and your family in their honesty and humor is such medicine for me when I'm homesick. Thanks for it all. Your new DVD is a riot.
posted on June 19, 2007 at 11:59 PM
Andrea wrote:
Dear Kathy and Maggie,
I'm so sorry for your loss, i'm still crying. John seemed to be the type of man that, when he walked in the room, he made it brighter! The world today needs more people like that. I loved the montage of him at the end...esp. the picture with him over-looking the balcony in his robe at sunset. I know what you meant when you said that this is the moment you've been dreading all your life, I'm very close to my parents, and I cant imagine. Actually, my dad just bought me tickets to your show in August, in west palm beach.
I'm looking forward to the show, take care.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:01 AM
frankie nyi wrote:
Hi Kathy,
My boyfriend and I absolutely loved your dad's sense of humor, and his way of living life to the fullest and he sure was a man who did.
We are sorry for his passing and wanted to wish you and your family all the best. We look forward to seeing you again soon later on this year for your tour. We love you Kathy!!
Hugs, Frankie Nyi
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:01 AM
JudyLee wrote:
Hi Kathy! Truly sorry for your loss . I absolutely loved watching the relationship between you and your father...so real, so funny..so loving. I'm such a fun, while watching your show you literally make me laugh out loud...quite embarrassing when I'm by myself and then my roommates walk in haha.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:03 AM
JoAnne wrote:
Hi, just watched your show about your Dad's death. What a wonderful tribute to him and your loving relationship. You are so real and honest in what you say and do......How refreshing and rare to see this on TV............I am a new viewer (D list) but an old (59)fan from you times on the View...........With Rosie gone you are my new best (TV ) friend.... Good luck in all you do.............JoAnne
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:04 AM
Brad wrote:
OMG... i cried like a baby tonight... even though i saw the previews and watch the Kathy Griffin message boards i knew what was going to happen on tonights episode and i still felt so sad to see Kathy so sad. I think that most Kathy fans feel the same way i do. Our girl is always so brave and she keeps smiling no matter what. Kathy if you are reading this we love you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:05 AM
Nancy wrote:
Oh Kathy...
So sorry for your loss, what a special man your Dad is...just seeing him on tv with you, it was so obvious how close and wonderful your relationship was together. The best thing from an outsiders view, is this....to see your Dad on the show and to see you all these years...his humor and personality are so much a part of who you are!
How blessed to carry on such wonderful qualities and to share them with such a special, dear man...
hang in there and just know all us fans love you and are keeping you and your family in our prayers...
Much love to you...
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:05 AM
Alex MacDonald wrote:
I watch your program regularly and completely enjoy it. I thought your father was engaging, and naturally funny, and seemed like a very special person. When you mentioned in passing in one show that he was 90 years old, I couldn't believe it. I still cannot beIieve this or that your mother is 85. She looks wonderful. My mother is 83 and looks good for her age, but your mother has her beat by a mile. He seemed much younger than 90. His passing was a real shame and I am truly sorry. But thanks for sharing him with all of us by having him on the show.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:06 AM
Stacey wrote:
My condolences on the passing of your dad. He was always the scene stealer. There is so much of him in you and it's always such fun and such a pleasure to watch your show. Thanks for letting us into your life to share this loss with you and to remember what a great guy your dad was.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:06 AM
Jodi wrote:
Kathy,
I'm sitting here having a glass of wine in memory of your adorable father. I lost my mother very suddenly 7 years ago(she was only 56). I guess the only thing I will say is that with time it does get better. You are very fortunate to have such wonderful footage of your father. Peace to you and your family, especially your mom. A big hug to you and your mom.
Love the show - you are amazingly funny!!!
Peace Out,
Jodi
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:08 AM
Juliana wrote:
My grandfather (who passed away 3 years ago from cancer) had the same wit as your father. He actually passed down the wit to my mother aswell, and is rubbing off on me. I got teary eyed watching the episode tonight as it reminded me of my grandfather and that your dad was such a wonderful and a f'in funny man.
I really do get a kick out of your parents and it saddens me that he was taken from this world. I do know he's look down at you, your mother and your family down from heaven and is smiling. Also I know he is damn proud of you and loves you very very much. You and your family are in my thoughts. I'm a huge fan of yours.
Love,
Juli
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:09 AM
Dan wrote:
Kathy,
I couldn't stop the tears. That was me tonight when you talked about the call from your sister in law. I was far away when my Dad passed suddenly at 61. I didn't get to see him, or here him one last time. I am so sorry you had to go through that.
Your Dad was a riot, and reminded me of what my Dad would have been at that age, with all the fun and mischief rolled into a crotchety old geezer. I truly wish you, your mom and your whole family all the best. Thanks for sharing your private heartbrake with the world. You are a great daughter and your Dad loved you so much. Cherish his memory forever.
take care and thanks for such a great show.
Dan
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:09 AM
tim wrote:
kathy i was so sorry to hear about your dad and im glad the show in vegas helped u out with that but i am sure you also know he was there with u 2 by the way you are not a dlister you are an A lister!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! could u send me an email?
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:11 AM
Mike wrote:
Hello,
I was very sorry to hear about your family's loss tonight. He seems like such a loving,fun man whose only main concern was the happiness of his family.As you have probably already read many times,I do not profess to have known him,but know what I have seen. Truly he led a good, full life with aloving partner and children he could be proud of.
As a sidenote, I have been a fan of yours since the Suddenly Susan days- a devoted fan.You may be on the D List with some people, but you're definently on the AList in my book.PLease help to keep the humor and laughter going- it is appreciated, and so are you.
Again, I cannot enough express my condolences.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:11 AM
Debbie wrote:
Dear Kathy,
Thank you so much for sharing your father with us. I am still crying. He was wonderful and I am sure he is a delight in heaven as well. God bless your mother. What a wonderful companion she had. And you are such a wonderful daughter. You were so brave to continue your scheduled gigs. I think every one of your fans loves and adores you. I know you have a huge heart, and it was evident when you shared your parents with us. I love my parents. But, this just made me appreciate them just a little more, and I am thankful to be reminded that when they are gone, they are gone. I know your dad will be with you at every comedy show you have. I am sure he is embracing you right now. God Bless
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:12 AM
Janessa Brown wrote:
When I saw your show with the news of your Dad it broke my heart. I know there is nothing that really makes it better, I too lost my Dad at 16. I too was not there, I know the guilt. I never got that final good bye. It took years for me to accept the fact that my Dad knew I loved him, & that he loved me no matter where I was when he passed.
To go through that on TV had to have made it even worse for you. I know when you hear there is just no controll, you are just overwhelmed. I am glad the show respected that time for you.
I too use humor to help me through things & I am so happy that you have that "laughter is the best medicine". It can not heal but it can help get you through.
I hope you take comfort in the fact that the fans are there for you, even though you may never meet them, they have prayed for your, maybe even cried with you, & some even know how hard it is. Many feel they lost someone too, so the fan world is mourning with you, even thought it is in a different sense.
I could tell by what was on your show that you like I were a "Daddys girl".
God bless & comfort you & yours in this time of need.
Janessa
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:12 AM
Morgan wrote:
I've been watching the show since season one, and when I watched this episode I cried. I felt as if I knew your dad, he seemed so funny. He remindes me of my mom ( his love of wine) and my dad (his love of golf). Just know that there are millions of people out there greiving right along with you. We love you!!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:16 AM
beezur wrote:
Dear Kathy,
just watched the show tonight , and was so sorry your dad didn't pull through, i was rooting for him. a very charming fellow.
i think you hit the nail on the head, when you said "at his age can we really expect a comeback". You also said" he didn't think he could live his life as compromised as he had become", I guess he couldn't.
you should feel proud to have been such a good daughter to him. And he would be very proud at the care and concern and understanding you show for your mom.
Kathy you may hate to hear this , but you are a very good girl.
you are in my thoughts ,
Beezur
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:16 AM
Christina wrote:
kathy, the show was heartbreaking tonight. i was crying because we all knew your father. such a funny, heartwarming guy who loved you and he will be truly missed. when repeats air of the show I'll always be reminded of him and how hilarious he was. i hope you and your mom are doing well and the rest of your family as well. RIP John Griffin.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:17 AM
Charles wrote:
Hi Kathy,
I started watching last seasons shows a few weeks ago on a Bravo Marathon and started watching the new season as they are aired. I was so sad to hear about your dad. I did not think while I was watching this episode that you were going to say your father had passed away. I am so sorry. I truly enjoyed watching him. I too feel as if I knew him he seemed like a wonderful person and I am so glad we got to know him just a little from your show even though it was much too brief. My condolences to you and your family. You are an A List Star in my book.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:17 AM
Bonnie wrote:
Wow, I just watched the episode again and it was incredible and what a loving way for your family to remember him. Your family was very lucky to have him. My family is also just a little sarcastic so I can really identify with the father who always cracks you up. Hang in there, all of your fans will continue to watch the show and support you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:18 AM
Brandy wrote:
To the Griffin family,
What a real family, with real life ordeals and I personally thank you for sharing your love, life, and unfortunately a loss. You are truly a breath of fresh air. I wish you and your family the best of luck and hope you continue your life on the "d" list because being on the "a" list aint all that. Take care of yourself and your momma. God Bless.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:18 AM
psychomom wrote:
Dear Kathy, Kathy’s Mom and Family,
Please accept my condolences on the loss of such a wonderful man and thank you for sharing him with all your fans. He handled his walk from life with such grace and courage, may we all be so brave.
Crying and laughing with you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:18 AM
Amy wrote:
Dear Kathy-
Your dad was so absolutely adorable, Kathy. My father died in 1999 of CHF as well (he was 66)- I'd like to think that if he had lived to the ripe old age of ninety as your father did, he would have been just like him. Same humor. same mischievous twinkle in his eye. God Bless you and your family, Kathy.
And I really hope your mom moves in with you! It would be so good for both of you!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:19 AM
keri wrote:
kathy i have a mother who is ill and we almost lost her this year. she has been sick for years and sometimes i felt quilty when i would work late ( she knows how much of a work alcholic iam) or on some days i would go do something else then go see her in the nursing home. the show tonight really brought back some memories for me. you can never prepare yourself eventhough you try very hard to. remember one thing you will always be able to talk to him!!!!!! god bless you and your family.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:20 AM
millie wrote:
i try to catch your show as much as i am allowed
i live with someone which doesn't like too many programs, especially reality shows
anyway, when he is away i'm able to see the show. My friend Ben watches the show and talks to me about it. Last he informed me is that you are looking for a Handyman. Well, i'm a handy girl. and i can do just about anything. I will be on Go human soon. otherwise, my cell number is 786-201-0449
i currently live in weho. Thank you Kathy for a fun show.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:21 AM
Marilyn wrote:
Hello Kathy:
I followed you show since last year and you are always hillarious, but your show tonight made me cry with your family, it was a very nice tribute to your father, who I thank you for sharing with the rest of the world! Both of your parents seem are great down to earth people and the had such a great relationship it makes the rest of us just don't want to complained about minor things. Your father was so funny, and so cute! I know I do not know you, but still my heart is with you and your family, I am sure he is watching over you! Hope your mom has some peace in knowing that the love they shared speak for itself!
My love to you and your family,
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:21 AM
Jill wrote:
I have read the other comments and it seems as though no one else has said this- my parents suck- unfortunetly. I have almost no relationship with them. It is so very nice for me to see the real and wonderful relationship of kathy and her parents. I will never know the pain of losing a great parent and cannot imagine what kathy and her family are going through. But I am guessing that the pain of the loss is worth going through for the privledge of the love of a wonderful father.......
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:23 AM
tricia wrote:
HI KATHY AND MOM, I AM SO VERY SORRY,.. GRIEIF SUCKS!!
4 YEARS AGO MY 18 YR OLD DAUGHTER DIED, AND I WANT YOU TO REMEMBER THIS.... WHEN YOUR GRIEF IS OVERWELMING, PLEASE TRY TO REMEMBER, IT WILL GET BETTER. YOU WILL BE O.K. I WISH I COULD TAKE YOUR PAIN AWAY.
ALSO, YOU ARE ON MY A LSIT!! AWSOME !!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:25 AM
Nancy wrote:
Hi Kathy: I knew from the promos that this was THE episode but I still wasn't prepared for hearing you talk about the passing of your beloved father, John. I sat through the episode with tears streaming down my face. My dad died 2 years ago and I lost a very close friend just 9 days ago. I still feel the loss of my father as if it were yesterday. I know the profound sadness and grief that you must feel. My deepest condolences for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. I love the show - you are definitely an A-lister in my book! Nancy
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:25 AM
Tim wrote:
Hi Kathy!
I just finished watching your show twice! I always watch it twice on tues as well as through out the week thanks to Tivo! Got to love fuckin' Tivo! I have followed your carrer since Suddenly Susan! You are a fantastically funny outspoken human being full of fun and life! I have seen you live several times and loved every minute everytime! I can't express the level of sorrow that I feel for you and your family! As I have read from other bloggers, they feel as if they knew your father as I do as well even though it is only through a television show and from your acts. I can say that I was sobbing like a little girl, almost like I lost my father as well. He seemed to be everything you say and much much more and I feel blessed to have had him in my house bringing much laughter to me as well as to your show! I know that he will be missed by all of your fans who I think I could say were his fans as well.(Not to steal your thunder as Jessica did) ha ha I wish you the best in everything you do. I know I can expect to see nothing but great things from you! I'd say god bless but I know how we both feel about those child touchers! Much love
xoxo..I hope thats not too much considering I've never met you!
One of your gays,
Tim
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:26 AM
Lisa L wrote:
Kathy,
I saw the show tonight and it just took my breath away. I've had so much going on over the past 5 months (just got married), that I haven't been on the computer much... no idea your Dad passed. It hurt my heart....my deepest condolences to you and your family. What a funny, sweet, wonderful man he seemed to be. I always enjoy seeing what your parents are up to on the show, and watching how they were with each other and with you - you can feel the closeness and support between you all. I hope your Mom's doing well, and that all of the wonderful memories she has of her loving husband and the good times they had together comfort her during the sadder times. Best wishes to you all.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:26 AM
Kitty wrote:
Kathy --
I just wanted to let you know how beautifully and tastefully done tonight's episode was. Your time of your father's illness and passing was skillfully yet lovingly depicted, and it was great the way you were able to mingle humor with the sadness. We, your viewers and fans, all loved your dad. He was the kind of father we all would be lucky to have. Hope you, your mom and your family are doing well.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:27 AM
Alex Chubokas wrote:
Kathy, Even though i didn't know your father or anything about his life other then from the show, I can honestly say I started to cry watching the episode. Like you said in the beggining of the blog, people said they knew him but didn't really know him and I feel the same way. I know im dredding the day my parents die and especially my mom because I almost lost her once already. Give my condolences to your family and of course to you. Keep it funny.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:32 AM
bia wrote:
kathy,
i didn't read any other blogs. its crazy i have to go through all these pages just to say what i think, you are so not a
d-lister!!!!!! hope you read this and know that he'll be in my prayers. reminds me of my dad. you can never be prepared for things like that, i think, it happens. my dad is not there yet, but hope my dad will be as proud as your dad is of you.
I have watched you since your first bravo series thing. ur great .
love you
haha u over power any other A-LISTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:35 AM
lauryn wrote:
umm hey kathy i know you absolutely hate kids but i am a kid. haha and i love you i think everything about you is hilarious and i mean that in the most un-gay way. Please keep doing what you do because you talent could squash paris hilton and nicole richie anyday LITERALLY!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:37 AM
Jessica wrote:
Hi Kathy (and all those who watch her show),
First off, I can't even imagine the grief you could be going through. I'm not that close to my father, so the thought of losing that figure in my life is inconceivable. I literally was brought to tears by the episode that aired tonight.
I was brought up by my single mother, and we were never in synch emotionally or physically. She was losing all the hormones (menopause) as I was gaining them (puberty). She was finalizing divorce as I was finding my first love. We never agreed on ANYTHING! And I mean ANYTHING!
Through this trial of character, I learned my absence of a father figure in my life severely hindered my experiences as a human being. I never learned the TRUE love of a man, the love that only a father can give his daughter; until I met and married my husband. We have a beautiful daughter together and I know you don’t like kids so much so I won’t dowd too much. But what I DO know is your father loved you - STILL loves you. He's so proud of you, he lives inside you - and will forever live inside you. Don't feel like you didn't live up to his expectations, you exceded his expectations, he is proud of you and hopes you find what it is you are looking for. Be true to yourself and nothing more. From one fallen Catholic to another - you can't please everyone, just know that you are true to yourself and that's all that matters.
Love,
Jessica
(yeah really, my name is Jessica)
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:38 AM
Tammy wrote:
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Iam 39 and lost my Dad 4 years ago, and then Mom 1 year ago. I know how you are feeling and it sucks. All I can say is with time some how it gets easier to deal with. I always laugh my ass off when I see your parents on your show. My parents too were very much in love til the end. Let your Mom know there are lots of people feeling for her. I watched my Mom miss him so bad. Keeping her busy will help alot when she's up to it. Being around you and your siblings, and her grandchildren will help ger feel not so alone. Well keep your chin up, and keep sending the laughter out here. You have the gift for it, and its got me through some hard times. Hugs to your Mom , you, and the rest of the family.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:38 AM
Tammy wrote:
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Iam 39 and lost my Dad 4 years ago, and then Mom 1 year ago. I know how you are feeling and it sucks. All I can say is with time some how it gets easier to deal with. I always laugh my ass off when I see your parents on your show. My parents too were very much in love til the end. Let your Mom know there are lots of people feeling for her. I watched my Mom miss him so bad. Keeping her busy will help alot when she's up to it. Being around you and your siblings, and her grandchildren will help ger feel not so alone. Well keep your chin up, and keep sending the laughter out here. You have the gift for it, and its got me through some hard times. Hugs to your Mom , you, and the rest of the family.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:38 AM
Charlie S wrote:
This show really surprised me with how much it told the story of my dad and me from 5 years ago. The heavy guilt while making constant phone calls was exactly where I was. He kept saying, "I'm proud of you. I know you're under heavy pressure. Don't come. Keep doing what you're doing." It was great to hear him say that over and over but I still feel guilty to this day. I was dying for him to say, "Drop your whole life and come right now," but he wouldn't do that. It just wasn't him. That alone guaranteed that my guilt will last forever.
What killed me was after the worst had come and you did the bit at the Mandalay Bay about your dad and the rec room. That just blindsided me. You were doing a scene from my life from 25 years ago word-for-word. That's when my throat really seized up.
The guilt never goes away. It just pops up a little less often as time goes on. Thank you for bringing my guilt back to me for one night.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:39 AM
RONNIE MCCREA wrote:
DEAR KATHY AS I SAT WATCHING YOUR SHOW FOR 3 HOUR I FELT AS IF I REALLY KNOW YOU I'M SO SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR DAD I BET HE WAS A GREAT AND FUN PERSON I FEEL YOUR PAIN AS I WATCH THE SHOW THAT NITE I FELT SO BLESS FOR YOU THAT YOUR DAD DID GET THE CHANCE TO TELL YOU THAT HE LOVE YOU AND YOU IN RETURN GOT THE CHANCE TO TELL HIM SO THAT NITE I WENT TO MY SONS HUG THEM BOTH AND TOLD THEM THAT I LOVE THEM MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WHOLE WORLD THANX KAT CALL ME LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU 585 359 7789 GOD BLESS AND STAY STRONG A FAN
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:44 AM
Tina Macek wrote:
Dear Kathy -
I am so sorry for the loss of your father. I truly enjoy watching your show, you really are just absolutely hilarious! and always bring a smile to my face. Your parents honestly are a wonderful added bonus to the show - they remind me so much of my own it's scary and I guess that's why I am so deeply saddened to have your dad pass - it feels like my own did. I feel priveleged to have shared something so personal to you, thank you for sharing this time with your fans. You really are amazing.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Be strong......and smile.
Warmest thoughts and many hugs for you.....Tina
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:50 AM
Rose wrote:
Dear Kathy & Family,
I look forward every Tue. to tuning in and watching you on Bravo. Maybe I've been under a rock or something, but I was so shocked when I watched your show today. I thought the show would end and your Dad would be ok.
I don't mean to open healing wounds, but today we lost your Dad, and my heart is broken, and I.. just watched him. I am so sorry, I sit here with my throat burning because I wish I could say something really brillant and your hearts would feel peace. All I know from the loss of my Dad is this...
You won't forget his smell, humor, or love. The memories become more vivid and you know he is always with you. Not to sound negitave, but it's a crock of sh** about time healing all wounds, I hated when people told me that. Memories ease pain and with your Dads help with all the wonderful times you've had together he makes you stronger. Your Dad came into my life and made me laugh, and now he will always be in my heart. Please know my prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Rose
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:51 AM
Tina C wrote:
Dear Kathy,
I just have to say that you are the funniest woman alive today-in my eyes anyway!! This episode was so hard to watch. I'm so sorry for your loss, I've been there and I know. You have such a special relationship with your parents and your so lucky not everyone is as fortunate. Your dad seemed like a great guy and your mom seems like a great person too, she kind of has a potty mouth though!! Guess that's where you got it from, you can now blame it on genetics!! On a little happier note, I just got tickets to your show in Seattle coming up in November at the Paramount and I can't wait to see you!! Take care and know that all your fans are thinking of you and wishing your family only the best.
Love ya girlie and keep rockin"!!
Tina C from WA
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:51 AM
Zacry wrote:
Hey, I know i don't know you, or your your dad personally. But through the show I feel as if I knew everyone on the show. But you just dont know how sorry I am that your dad passed away. I teared up when you said that he passed away. And that is a big thing because I dont ever cry and I'm only 13. But I am so sorry and I am trying to atend your upcoming Houston show, but money is an issue right know and we are tight on funds, so we will try our best.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:56 AM
Marilyn DePauw wrote:
Kathy,
Your show tonight was a lovely tribute to your dad. Thanks for sharing it with us.
From
An old, straight broad who totally gets you..love ya, Baby.
M
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:56 AM
Chris Johnson wrote:
kathy oh how my heart breaks for you and your family. as i sit and watch your show with my 14 year old daughter i hope for the love and respect of my child as you have for your father.i have MS and watch alot of tv i LOVE your show and now my husband and daughter lovew it to which says alot as we are mormon but i ask my self WWJD and i know he would sit here and laugh his ass off just like we do!!! you are in our thoughts and prayers when ever you come to phx,az i am there we love you girl!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:56 AM
CJ wrote:
I have been following your show since last year and love it. I especially enjoyed watching your parents. I am so sorry for the loss of your father - your family so obviously has kept you grounded and loved. I hope I enjoy life as much and have a smile like your dad's when I'm 90.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 12:56 AM
Samantha wrote:
Kathy I just started watching your show a few months ago and I'am so hooked. Tonights show was really special for me because I was so worried and in tears over my own mother it helped me cope. Wanting to keep busy and get my mind off of it, I turned on the tv to see if I could catch your show and was delighted that I didnt miss it.
I am sorry for the loss of your father, My own mother goes for (brain) surgery this Monday. My sisters and I are so scared for her she is so old and weak. Watching this evening show has really helped, I cried along with you and I laughed with you.
I am hoping I can be as strong as you were if something does go wrong and remember the wonderful things my mother has done for us girls through the years and the crazy things that made us laugh.. God Bless you and your family Kathy and thanks for a great show and sharing your life, it was great to watch your dad on the show your so much like him I will miss him.
Samantha-Tx
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:01 AM
Lauren wrote:
i know i didn't know him, but i'm gonna miss your dad. he's got a sense of humor like no other! i remember when you used to talk about your mom and dad on the old rosie o'donnell show and i still, to this day, laugh when i think about them and their champagne picture!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:01 AM
Claudia wrote:
Kathy~~~ (like I personally know you?)
Well, that's what your amazing show on Bravo has done!
I found myself in tears with tonight's episode just as I was last February 17,2007, when I heard
"Dad" Griffin had passed! WHAT A GUY! What a DAD!!
Am I the only one who found your dad (John) the perfect Mr. Magoo
(sans the blindness)? Totally honest without pretention!
My prayers have been with you since last Feb. & will continue, esp. for your beautiful mom & your entire family
Claudia!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:04 AM
Lori wrote:
Although we are strangers to you, my daughter and I offer our thoughts prayers to you, your mom and brothers and sisters.
I always enjoyed seeing your folks on the show, and certainly understand where you got your humor.
Remember to take care of yourselves, and know that some people in Stockbridge, Georgia are thinking of you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:04 AM
Caren wrote:
Kathy,
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I understand when you said you were optimistic. Although you see it coming, when they do pass, it is unbelievable, time seems to stand still. Tomorrow marks the one-year passing of my mom. Whenever I think of her, I can't help but cry, she was such a great person, really fiesty, reminds me a lot of your dad, maybe that's why I dig him. It is so difficult to lose a parent; you are very lucky to have been able to enjoy him for so long. You and your family are in my prayers.
Caren
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:06 AM
Christine S. wrote:
I'm soo sorry to hear about your Dad. I cried through the last half of the show tonight. My father was not a good man and when I saw your dad on your show for the first time- I thought to myself that if I could "pick" my dad he would be like yours. God bless you and your family- you're in my prayers.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:08 AM
Shaaaannnnooonnn!!! wrote:
First of all, i have to say I LOVE YOU. heaven's knows you prob wont ever get to read this message with your busy schedule. I'd still like to point out how touched i was by your last episode, i'm only a baby in this huge wide world (21) buuut the fact that you celebrated your fathers life really shows the trooper you are at heart! he was so funny to watch and really reminded me of my family (minus the alcohol....which kinda makes you wonder what they're smoking...)! anyway....i hope you are doing well, i absolutely looove the show and even bid on your ebay thing that aired....seeing as how im a broke college student...shan's got no money but i did bid! keep up the amazing work and i will continue to follow your adventure in life! you are TRUELY amazing and i can only hope i grow up to have half the spirit in life you do!!!!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:10 AM
Nicole wrote:
Kathy,
I have just recently discovered your show and have become a huge fan very quickly. I empathize so much with what you have been going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not remember feeling so deep a loss from someone that I only knew through television. Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful family with the world.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:25 AM
Linda wrote:
Kathy-
You are so lucky to have had such a wonderfully funny and loving man as your father. I know that losing him was the darkest of times - but you have so many wonderful memories to draw from. I think of my dad every single day and laugh at something he said to me. Your mom is equally as funny and will use that humor to help heal and continue on. Let her know how much she is loved by your fans.
I have enjoyed your caustic humor and in some of my sad times you are one of the few people who could make me laugh-really laugh. The thing that I see through your show is your more human and vulnerable side. In my book, you are an A Lister. Can't wait for the next show.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:27 AM
jake wrote:
kathy,
as much as i would love to know you personally and give you a huge bear hug, i don't want to deal with restraining orders and attorneys...blah blah blah. i am so very sorry for your loss and only hope that you can look back and cherish every single moment you and your father shared together. whenever he and your mom were on your show, they lit up the screen...and yes, they even stole the spotlight for a while (which i am sure you were only too glad to share). i am so glad you had a good "first show without your dad" and hope that they only get better from here. you are more than hilarious, perfectly greatful and not given enough credit by those who judge you. you are a true entertainer...i look forward to laughing and smiling again next week...
stay strong!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:30 AM
Mariann wrote:
Kathy, I love you and your show! My sincerest condolences to
you and your family at his passing. As for your show tonight, my 45 yr old, pre-menstrual, perimenopausal self first sobbed for 20 minutes then immediately laughed so hard just remembering the bit with your Mom and Dad at happy hour at the gay bar that I literally wet my pants!
Those memories and many others will keep him always with you. But hopefully with dry underpants!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:32 AM
kim bushing wrote:
Hey Kathy,
I'm on West Coast time, and didn't realize until this moment that your beloved father has died during this episode... I knew from Rosies blog (awhile back) that he died, but this is sooo real. My heart aches for you and your lovely mom. God Bless...you ROCK!!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:33 AM
Mary-Kate wrote:
Hi Kathy,
My dad also passed away on that day from Pulminary Fibrosis (a lung condiditon he develop from meds he was given...dr. mistake). ANyways, I am sending my best wishes to you as I know EXACTLY what you and your mom are going through, I was very close to my dad too!
With deepest sympathy...Mary-Kate
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:34 AM
Ian wrote:
Hey girl,
Yes, even though i am one of those dreaded, "kids," i just wanted to let you know how sorry i was when i heard. You always seemed to be such a radiant person, and seeing something so tragic happen to you just broke my heart. I hope these episodes do bring some extra joy into your heart. I want you to know that i do understand what has hapened to you, and offer some words of encouragement. You will get through this, and you should cherish those moments you have.
Your midwestern, 16 year-old superfan,
Ian.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:35 AM
Marco Castro-Bojorquez wrote:
Kathy de mi corazon!
I am very very sorry about your father... I was not following the news but I just learned that your dad passed away in Feb...
I love you and your family and feel very sad...I lost my mother a few years ago in Mexico.
You are such an inspiration, I work for a non-profit oganization that supports queer youth and they all love you!
Sweetie all my love and know that you have a "family" in your public...
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:38 AM
Corrie C. wrote:
Hello Kathy,
I just started watching your show recently and I admit they have been quite entertaining!
First, I wanted to let you know that I am praying for you. I can relate to your situation since my father passed away when I was 13 yrs old. It sucks to have him gone, yet at least there is someone close to us prayin for us up there.
Also, I have to let you know that I am a hardcore Catholic and I still couldnt help but laugh at your Catholic jokes. I agree, us Catholics swear so much! Also FYI -- according to some of the gnostic gospels, Jesus DOES swear! He "damns" the pharisess(other translations would write "woe to..") and other things! (in "Sayings of the Gospel of Thomas")
Anyways, I couldnt fall sleep tonight and I felt this tug in my heart to send you a message. To be honest, I didn't want to be Catholic anymore just a few years ago. I am a "cradle Catholic" but back then I was like WHOA - I dont understand all this Catholic crap! ahh! - but after taking the time to truly learn about the traditions and why we do the things we do and just being open to it all, it helped a lot.
All the Catholic schools I've attended (I graduate with a theology degree in a year!) were great in the sense that I learned a lot of knowledge and facts, the head stuff, but it takes time to open up and recognize the experience and the heart stuff. I encourage you to check out a Life Teen mass (lifeteen.com) -- it originates from a youth ministry organization yet the Masses are for all people who are young at heart (like you!). These masses are usually more fun, with upbeat music, and a great spirit of joy!
Kathy, I usually dont write these kinds of letters but I hope it gives you hope and peace. There is a God who loves YOU for who you are and what you do. God is not just somewhere in the clouds, but He is HERE WITH US through Communion and Scripture of course, but the least recognized way is within each other.
I see that God created you so beautiful and unique! Thanks for the laughs and fun and God bless you always!
~Corrie from Wisconsin
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:43 AM
Elisa wrote:
Kathy,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. From the show, he seemed like such a great dad. Thank you so much for sharing him and your mom with us.
Hugs,
Elisa
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:46 AM
Ashley wrote:
Kathy, I felt exactly like you described at the beginning of this blog. It does seem weird, but it felt like your dad was just a hilarious buddy who I could always look forward to a laugh from. I definitely found myself getting emotional with you throughout the episode. I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss, and as I'm sure y'all know, your father was so dearly loved by many! His jokes will always be classics in my mind! Much, much love to you and your family.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:46 AM
Mary Ohio wrote:
Kathy & Maggie,
Stay strong and know that your Dad/husband is likely giving Jesus tips on wine making at the moment. From water to Pinot...waalaa...
Thank you both for sharing, with all of us fans, such an intimate moment in your lives. God Bless your family and may his legacy live on. Carry the torch with PRIDE!
Hope to catch a show on your tour.
Mary
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:47 AM
Michael wrote:
Kathy,
My heart goes out to you and your family. It was a shock to me about your Dad. I didn't know. I feel like someone in my family is gone...I have followed your career and television show for a long time. I LOVE you and your parents. You have really been an inspiration to me lately. Kathy...I think you are a truely FUCKING amazing person!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:48 AM
Reva wrote:
Hello Kathy,
I am a big fan of you and your show. I watched tonight's episode about your father and was truely shock! I am so sorry for your loss. He was truely a funny man!! I now see where you got your humor from (and mom too - smile). He will truely be missed. God bless your and your family.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:50 AM
Debbie wrote:
Saw the show, you are a brave soul!! My Mom, was put in the hospital about a month ago, she made it out fine, but now I am left wondering if that next call will be from my dad telling me mom had passed. I dread that, just like you said, almost thinking it won't come but knowing it actuallly will. You will get through this you are strong, beautiful, smart, witty, you have it all Kathy, and the memories of your dad will be as strong as ever!!
From a big Fan in Lawrence, Kansas
Come back to Lawrence we miss you!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:56 AM
Carol wrote:
K! You are SO funny - SO talented!
I am SO sorry about your dad. I lost my mom (best friend) last year and thought I would never get over it. But you do. The intense pain goes away and we are left with great memories. You'll cry from time to time for the rest of your life, but it's good because it means we experienced true love and joy with them and that's what happens when it's gone.
Hang in there. We love you and your family. Your show is terrific and all your hard work is much appreciated.
Blessings!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:57 AM
Kim McD wrote:
Kathy, I love watching your show and have followed since the very first one. I cried w/ you tonight! My father is getting older and reminds me so much of yours. I really knew what you meant when you said that the moment you had tried to prepare for had finally came. My prayers and with you and keep laughing and going on. Peace and love to ya! Kim
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:59 AM
Lana wrote:
Dear Kathy, I was just watching your show. I have been a fan from the beginning. So naturally I have seen you and your parents many times. I thought he was great. Your Mom too.
I am so sorry for your loss.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 1:59 AM
dale wrote:
I'm so sorry hon, theres nothing tougher than losing a parent.
wish I could hug you.
your dad was simply an awesome man.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:00 AM
Lisa wrote:
Dear Kathy,
I just finished watching your show on (Life on the D List) and i'm so very sad that your dad passed. I never do these blog things but I felt compelled to write to you and thank you for sharing your dad with us (the viewing audience). He seemed to be the greatest dad. I hope you won't be terribly sad for too long. God bless you and your family and keep up the excellent work on your shows.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:01 AM
Mitch wrote:
dear kathy -
The D in D List, as far as I'm concerned stands for oh so much - darling, daring, divine, delicious, decidely different, dynamic, da bomb! I wanted to offer my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your dad. I know that we are just about the same age, I a bit older (47 come June 24th, 2007), and i lost my father June 30th, 1980, just six days after my 20th birthday. I know it's doesnt take the pain away, or even ease it, but as time moves forward keep in mind what a precious, special and unbelievable gift from God it is to have reached your age and have had both parents up to that time. Many of us, I would venture to say the majority are not that lucky or given such gifts. Count your blessings (an Oprah lesson) and your father being among them. My special condolences and best wishes and prayers go out to your mother as well. Keep her close now and remember you don't get over the passing, you don't get over anything because that would suggest you avoid it. Rather you get thru it, and then having dealt with it, you file it away in a special place, and then bring it out on occasion, as a way of remembering, reflecting, and relearning and reliving all the value and meaning and joy and love and unending signifigance it has, finding something new in it each time. Then put away until the next time. And more over, when my father passed he was 48. Just getting to halftime. Being 20 at the time I didn't fully absorb and ingest just how young and how interrupted passing at such a tender age it was, but now approaching 47 this Sunday the impact is full throttle. And therein is even more joy regarding your father having gone the distance. 91 is a long life, well lived, having been well loved, now and forever. Your father is still with you, so keep him close, keep in your comedy as well, with the respect he deserves having been a great part of the well from which the comedy springs! It never dawned on me the age of your parents as they came across on your show as so vital, so young, and so full of life! Truly! I thought maybe they were late 70s, early 80s at best. He was, your mother is truly special....cherish only that which matters in the final analysis. Fuck the list...you're top 'em all! With much admiration and affection...Mitch (A Vegas Gay!)
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:05 AM
nanci johnson wrote:
I must have been living in a box or something 'cause I had no idea that your father had passed until I saw the show tonight. I am so sorry for your loss and while I am doing this I want to let you know how sorry I am that your marraige didn't work out. My heart weeps for you. I love you and I can't say enough about how fabulous your dad was. My mom is kind of the same sort of "spirit" and is dying of cancer. I don't know what the loss feels like but I feel like I could face it with courage after watching your gracefulness as you face your greif. Thank you for sharing your world with us. God bless you and your family.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:05 AM
Ryan wrote:
Kathy,
I just heard the news of your Dad's passing. It seems so weird writing to someone I only know from Tv. I just wanted you to know that this episode touched me. It was sad and sweet and I didn't know what to feel. Your Father seemed like an amazing, funny man and so selfless in his passing. It was endearing.
I love you and your show.
Keep making us laugh.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:07 AM
Sue Raymond wrote:
Hey Kathy, We're so very sorry for your loss. What a character, he was so charming, and funny and real. I loved the way he always stood by you and protected you and told you what was what. I know you are a great support to your mom. Our thoughts are with you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:07 AM
Vee wrote:
Kathy,
I love your show!! So sorry to see on tonight's show that your father passed. he was such a special person from what I have seen on the show and your refection of him at the end of the show. What a wonderful tribute to him and his legacy. Hang in there, each day does get better. I am so glad to have "known" him thru your show.
I can't wait to see you in Sept. in DC!!
love youm your show and you are so freaking funny!!
smooches!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:07 AM
Georg Hawkes wrote:
Hi Kathy,
I wanted to let you know that my thoughts are with you and your family. When I watched your tribute to your father I cried. As one of your many "Gays" I felt the need to tell you that I normally give you the ovation for your performance. Tonight was different, I stand with you to in giving a standing ovation to a man that gave you the support and confidence to truly be an "A" list personality.
Continue to be strong and remember he was proud of you and his love was seen by all who knew him, whether that was in person or when he appeared on your show. You are really lucky to have had him in your life. Keep smililng, it looks good on you and your Dad is smiling back from Heaven, cause that's the only place he could be.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:08 AM
Carrie wrote:
Dear Kathy,
I have been a devoted fan of your show since last season and like many people, I found myself loving your parents and their sense of humor as much as you. Your dad was an absolute kick in the pants- sooo wonderful, sweet and a PG smart-ass that I couldn't help but but envy you for having him as a father. I admire your emotional strength for doing the Vegas gig so shortly after his passing, but hey, that's what you do and you are damn good. Please show some love to San Diego sometime...I have an effing hot handyman for you that will take your mind off things if need be :-) Warmest regards to you and your lovely mom...take care. Carrie
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:12 AM
Elizabeth wrote:
I wish I could think of something to say that isn't just like what everyone else has already said. I haven't been able to stop crying since I saw this episode. Your parents are two of the most wonderful people that I've never met. Your dad reminds me so much of my grandpa, who's 92. I haven't lost him yet, but watching you go through losing your dad hit me close to home nevertheless. You've gone through alot since you started this show, but you give alot of us hope that we can make it through our hard times too. Thanks for the show. You're awesome.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:14 AM
Scott C wrote:
Hi Kathy,
My partner Donnie and I just watched your show and wanted to send our deepest sympathy. We love watching you and your Dad on the show. The two of you had a wonderful connection and it shows. It does feel like we knew him and cried with you during the show tonight. You bring much joy and laughter into our lives and many others and we appreciate all that you do!! Keep on laughing Kathy...YOU ARE THE BEST...Donnie and I know that your Dad will always be watching.
We love you Kathy!!! Scotty and Donnie
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:15 AM
Kevin T. wrote:
Hi Kathy:
I just watched your show that showcased your wonderful father. I am deeply sorry for your family's loss. I am a hairstylist who was lucky enough to "crash" the event that you were at in Vegas for the Redken distributors. In a million years I never would have guessed you were going through one of the roughest times a person could go through. Crashing the distributor event and seeing you was the highlight for me of the entire
Redken event. My sincerest condolences go out to you and your family. Your dad was definitely one of a kind. Thank you for sharing him and your Mom with all of us.
Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:15 AM
Melinda wrote:
Kathy I was crying when I watched this last episode. You have my deepest sympathy and I have you and your family in my prayers.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:15 AM
Samantha wrote:
i was so sorry to hear about your father, he was such a funny man, i luv u so much and i will keep your family in my prayers
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:20 AM
Maria Dugger wrote:
I cried too. The one thing that will always stick with me is the way he chose to leave on his own. That was so inspiring. What a wonderful spirit.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:28 AM
Hazel wrote:
May you rest in peace, in heaven, playing golf, watching over your better than A-list family while enjoying the best wines ever, Mr. John Griffin.
To the Griffin family, my thoughts are with you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:33 AM
Fernando Quinones wrote:
Kathy, I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but your dad has been my favorite part of your show. The world would be a better place if more of us had his humor, tolerance and capacity to love. Thank you for letting us get to know him. I have never taken the time to write to any celebrity, regardless of their ranking, because no matter how much I may love their work I have never been able to connect to their humanity. You and your family have given me, and the rest of your fans, something special by letting us witness your uniquely loving and supporting relationship. I regret I don't have more photos or videos of my mother, whom I lost a two years ago, so I'm glad for you that his last smiles are there for you to come back to when you need them. We're lucky that our parent's last words to us were kind and supportive (my mom told me she loved the night before she died - one of the few times in she ever said it). Not everyone has that privilege. I wish you, your mom and the rest of your family love, happy tears, and a life of fond rememberances of your dad. I'll be having a glass of Pinot Grigio in his honor tonight. Much love from San Francisco.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:34 AM
trish wrote:
kathy i am so sorry you lost your dad.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:37 AM
Rick wrote:
Kathy,
From one of your gays (who also lived in OP, IL at one time!) I just wanted to let you know my father also passed away, just a month ago. His situation was very similar to the problems your father was having, although my dad spent his last 8 months in hospitals and nursing homes.
As a child living out of state you put all the guilt, worries and everything I felt (and still feel) in perfect words, especially the problems communicating when he had his trach.
Thanks for touching my heart the way not many other things can.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:37 AM
DUKE ROSE wrote:
dear kathy,i'm a straight guy who LOVES YOUR SHOW,and am SO SORRY to have heard the news about your father stay young cause not only me but everyone loves you and your show and will really miss your father YOUR BIGGEST STRAIGHT FAN DUKE P.S.MUCH LOVE TO YOU AND YOURS AND AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST MUCH LOVE DUKE
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:39 AM
Jessie wrote:
I just wanted to send my condolences on the loss of your Father. I lost my Dad 2 years ago. He was only 59. We had reunited 10 years earlier after he had been absent for most of my youth. Nothing replaces your father. Your strength was so inspiring. Your grieving will get easier over time. The first year was very difficult for me becuase it was experiencing everything wihtout him for the first time. Its an unfortunate part of life. I'm sorry for your pain.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:48 AM
Kathy wrote:
Just finished watching your show this evening. Very bitter sweet show. Enjoyable, funny and the tears.Tears filled with memories and happy times. Your dad seemed to be a very genuine, funny, no airs, what you see is what you get kind of person. May you and your family find peace in the happy memories.His legacy has obviously been passed on to you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 2:59 AM
Paul wrote:
Kathy,
Thanks for sharing your Mom & Dad with your DList fans. It's really clear you have "A" List parents and as one of your gays that understands the loss of parents and close freinds, it's the memories that help you get over the greif. Sharing your thoughts and pic's of your dad with us was very special. He was very proud of you! Take good care of your mom, as I know you will.
Thanks for makng us Laugh and Cry. Wishing you and your family the best.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 3:05 AM
jimthomas wrote:
I am watching you on Bravo right now and can't help but feel for you and your family! While it has been 8 years since the passing of my Mom, I still have days when it seems as if she left us just yesterday! Surely, you will have days that are better than others, and on the days when it hurts the most, I hope that you will find comfort in remembering your father in the fondest of ways!
...continued success in both your professional and personal life! Take care!
Jim Thomas
posted on June 20, 2007 at 3:08 AM
Angel wrote:
I am so sorry for your family's loss ((((Kathy))))) Your show is a beautiful, touching, funny tribute to him.
I'm straight, but OMG Jackie *is* hot. I love her show too, would love to have a trainer like her. You should be proud of that workout!!!
posted on June 20, 2007 at 3:11 AM
Lu wrote:
Kathy you are a very brave ,together women. My Dad passed a few years ago and I was a blubbering idiot.........It's been so great getting to know your parents along with you on your show..I cried with you ..it's a great loss...but in a way it does help to know how much others care, and how much we all came to love your Dad.....thanks for sharing him with us....Yours is truly a 'real' show. thanks for the humor much success getting off the 'D' list.....but honestly it's more fun here..isn't it !!!!! Best regards to your mom.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 3:11 AM
Rebecca wrote:
Oh Kathy I am so sorry about your Dad. I have never lost a parent myself, so I can't say I know how you feel, because that wouldn't be true. I can say that seeing the relationship you had with him on your show it's quite obvious that you had a wonderful relationship with him and I think you are lucky in that as not everyone has that. I think that much of your sense of humor came from him, and that he will be greatly missed by everyone, even those of us in TV-land that never met him.
And don't worry too much about your mom. She has loved him for a long time, and it will be hard for her, but I think she will be okay. She's a tough broad, just like you.
posted on June 20, 2007 at 3:18 AM
Sergio wrote:
Kathy - my heart goes out to you and your family - your father was a character (in a great way) with the best sense of humor and love for his family. We are all blessed to have you share him with us on your show. Before I even knew that tonights show was about your father, I was feeling real down because I was dreading having to face