Judy wrote:

Hello, I just wanted to say something is different about you this season.Don't need to be rude but did you have a nose job. I love the show and how you love your children, but ease up a little. I know I've been there don that. They will rebel

posted on January 24, 2007 at 1:48 AM

robert wrote:

VIcky, knowing how "reality" shows edit reality, I don't know exactly when you went to Europe. Was it June, July or August. Hopefully it was June, because I look forward to seeing if you've soaked up any culture while you were there. Hopefully your family & you did not just star at the monuments like someone going to Disneyland. Perhaps you've taken the time to understand the history, culture & the people of Europe. While I was in the Army, it also surprised me when men in my battalion were stationed in Germany & Italy & they came back to the US & it was like they've never left. There was nice photos of castles but they could not give educated dicussions about what they've learned. Good luck Vicky & I hope that you find true happiness.

posted on January 24, 2007 at 6:53 AM

mamie wrote:

Vicki: I really love your work ethic, I am in sales and I can relate to you the most. I wish I was in your area and could learn the insurance business and help you also, since I'm so organized. Anyway, good luck with everything and YES you do have to find time off to relax a bit and reconnect with family. Very important for your health and welfare girl!

posted on January 24, 2007 at 8:32 AM

Ubidiah wrote:

I am very impressed by your work ethic and your success. Really admirable. You remind me a bit of my sister who works, hard and doesn't like to ask for help. It's okay to ask for help. It doesn't make you less of a person. There's a side of you that is vulnerable, and it would probably do you some good to let your kids see it once in awhile. Sometimes you can't do it all, and you'll kill yourself trying if you don't recognize that.

posted on January 24, 2007 at 10:09 AM

Kim wrote:

Hi Vicki! Your vacation footage has inspired me, I have ALWAYS wanted to go to Greece, and now more than ever! But, all I want to know is, where did you get those gorgeous LV bags your daughter and you were sporting in the video?? I have looked everywhere online, including eluxury.com, and cannot find anything comparable to those gorgeous bags!

Take care, and keep up the good work!

posted on January 24, 2007 at 12:17 PM

JCoker wrote:

Vicki

You are my favorite on the show. My second is Lauri. You give a lot of credit to your father for your hard working mentality. I also see a lot of your mother in you in regards to your temperament and tell it like it is attitude. I love the way you sent your son to your brother and asked for his help with him. Just the fact that you stay after him so much shows the viewers that you came from a hard working family and that you understand what it takes to be successful in life. I also think that you totally get the fact that having a lot of money is not the only thing you can be successful at in life and you strive to convey that to your children as well. I think Donn is very cute and the two of you are cute together. Your children seem to be very well rounded even though they have been raised in a higher end life than most. I know that Michael gives you fits but you do all the right things as far as not giving into him and making him be responsible and accountable. Everyone in the world can learn by your example on that issue whether they have loads of money, just enough money, or no money at all.

posted on January 24, 2007 at 3:47 PM

NANCY wrote:

HI VICKI,
LOVE THE SHOW! YOUR CRUISE LOOKED FANTASTIC! WOULD YOU BE SO KIND AS TO LET ME KNOW WHAT CRUISE LINE YOU WENT WITH, AND ANY OTHER INFO RELATING TO IT? THANKS! I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO TAKE MY FAMILY ON A CRUISE, AND YOURS LOOKED SO FUN! THANKS VICKI!

NANCY (WASHINGTON STATE)

posted on January 24, 2007 at 5:53 PM

deirdre wrote:

Hello Vicky,
I enjoy the show and must say I admire the fact that you are married and such a hard worker.
I am motivated by your intent on earning enough money to live the lifestyle you want. I am considering doing something else to earn extra money other than my dayjob now that my son is turning 18 this year.
Do you have any recommendations about that...I thought about loan funding or something similar.
Thanks if you have any thoughts.
Good Luck.

posted on January 24, 2007 at 5:54 PM

Darvi wrote:

Vicki,

Love you on the show, thanks for allowing us a peek into your lives each week. I love your work ethic and I hope to duplicate your efforts (albeit in a different field) here in Chicago. I hope your children watch you and learn from your work ethic.

posted on January 24, 2007 at 7:19 PM

AMI wrote:

Vicki I would like to know what kind of insurance do you sell and how can I start my own insurance co. like you ...

posted on January 24, 2007 at 8:31 PM

Nichole wrote:

Hi Vicki,
I absolutely love the show...you are my favorite! I think you are an excellent role model, I am always eager to see what you have to say! I loved the episode, when your daughter was out with her boyfriend having dinner and you showed up..I thought it was awesome! You are a true inspiration..I think you are a wonderful mother! You seem like you are very open and truthful with your children and set limits! You have given me more ambition to go out and get what I want!! Thanks!

posted on January 24, 2007 at 9:01 PM

Stephanie C. wrote:

I think you are an amazing role model to younger women everywhere. Its so refreshing to hear a woman say that if they want a certain lifestyle with certain material things that they have to contribute and go get it themselves. It is very empowering as a young woman to know that I could start my own company from the ground up and be as successful as you are. ( Maybe you should give some lessons to Jo! She's a hopeless gold digging mess.) I love watching you on the show, and I think your kids are very lucky to have a mom like you, even though you can be a little controlling and overbearing. But, that is what children need these days- involved parents. Kudos to you! Thanks for giving young girls like me, such a strong, grounded, empowering, motivating, and successful woman to look up to as a role model. With a work ethic like yours, I know my wildest dreams can come true. Best wishes for 2007!

posted on January 25, 2007 at 2:24 AM

Vanessa Anacleto wrote:

Hello vicki, I love that your a Christian. I love the show. This is my first season watching it and I really like it. I want to know now did you break into your job, I am think you sell insurance, but I never see you leaving your house. I want to get into the same job. Since Lauri, is getting married, this week. Tell me what kind of insurace it is, I like that the commission you make. Could you help a sister out.

posted on January 25, 2007 at 3:07 AM

Deb wrote:

Hi Vicki,
Love you on the show! Since you are open and honest I hope you tell the people that want to get into insurance that it is not an easy career. There is alot of work in obtainging your license to sell insurance and then you have be hired/accepted by a company to be representative of that company. There a numerous laws and regulations that you need to be kept abreast of and you need to be the best at customer service. People need to know that you are an example of a rare insurance agent who makes an extreme amount of money. I am sure it is just editing but I don't seem to see how you have so much free time - I work in excess of 60 hours a week and am a representvie of a very large A rated company and make good money, but no where as much as you. I hope views understand that you are an example of a rare insurance agent who makes an extreme amount of money.

posted on January 25, 2007 at 1:54 PM

Melanie wrote:

Hi Vicki Love the show. I also love the clothes, where do you buy your clothes? Thanks

posted on January 25, 2007 at 3:10 PM

Mary Naleway wrote:

Vicki:

I, too, would like some insight on running your own insurance agency. I have an extensive sales background in finance and technology.

I had a life threatening illness (kidney failure) for approximately five years. I have since had a kidney transplant and I'm doing incredibly well. I've been looking to resume my sales career. You have piqued my interest in selling insurance. Do you by any chance need a rep for your agency in Northern California? I live in the east bay area.

Love the show by the way. Hope to hear from you soon.

posted on January 25, 2007 at 3:22 PM

lkd711 wrote:

Since you've proven to the world that you are a successful business woman, you owe it to yourself to spend more time with your family, traveling etc. I think that you're a good mom but a little overbearing sometimes which can have the opposite effect (I think). Anyway, I know that it takes alot of confidence to take a risk and make changes in your life, especially if you've had alot of success doing what your doing. I hope that you find a way to make the changes that you feel are important to bring you more happiness and closeness in your family life. No one will think less of you for doing so.

posted on January 25, 2007 at 6:52 PM

Mike Daly wrote:

Looks like you've gotten a lot of positive feedback. I read some of the posts for Jeana and they were not as kind - even though Jeana has been extremely successful in her business. If anyone reads this post, please explain why Vicki is getting all props and Jeana gets ripped. As lazy as Vicki's son as been and needs to get pushed sometimes, Shane has been drafted twice by the Major Leagues.

Vicki's daugher is clearly very close to making the mistake Vicki made by marrying young (something Vicki came clean about in Season 1). While Jeana's two other teen aged kids we are told make very good grades and we know are great athletes.

I guess what I am getting at - why are the two woman seen in totally different lights. Vicki is very demanding, sometimes to the point where it may be a detriment - while Jeana has her own way to get an idea across. Since it's mostly women who post comments, I find it very interesting social statement. I like both people based on what I've seen, and I didn't know there was such a different view on 2 people who have had simliar results in there lives and have similiar lifestyles.

Vicki, you may want to slow it down a little when talking to clients or vendors. Sometimes it seems your going a mile a minute. I'm also in Sales and have people working for me - just remember sometimes you just need to slow down. Not everyone likes to be on the phone doing business with people who talk that fast and correct themselves as they go. I used to be like that but over the years pulled it back a little. Everytime we see you on the phone - your are like the Tazmanian Devil cartoon- it's almost like when you leave a room there should be papers flying around behind you.

posted on January 26, 2007 at 1:08 AM

mk wrote:

Vicki,

When I first watched the show I did not like you, I thought you were demanding, into your kids business 24/7, pushy to the members of your family, but since I have been watching it, I like you, I really like you..

You out of all the other housewifes care about your family, don't get me wrong I am sure the others love and care for their families, but you really show it, kids these days need to know we care and are there for them, maybe we need to get into their business but they will turn out better in the long run.

You have family vacations and enjoy quality time with them. I hope in the future they learn to appreciate you and how much you do for them. Jeanna needs to learn from you, she has a whole other set of issues... best of luck to you and your family.

posted on January 26, 2007 at 1:30 PM

Stacey wrote:

Hi Vicki,

I, like everyone else on her also admire your drive and great work ethic. I was able to stay with my children while they were little and took college courses and had graduated with a degree in business only 5 years ago, however I am still trying to find the perfect career. I had done sales but the territory was too large and the travel was too intense... I would love to know what type of insurance you sell and how I could start my own insurance business as well...

PS I also think you are a great mother, very involved with your children...

Thanks

posted on January 26, 2007 at 3:45 PM

silvergirl wrote:

I think Vicki's mother can be mean. How can her mother not let her know she's proud of her? Vicki wants approval and instead her mother teases her about wrinkles and yellow hair. She may not approve of Botox but she can tell Vicki how proud she is of the things about Vicki that she does approve of instead of tearing her down. If she doesn't approve of anything Vicki does, why not? Is she jealous of her own daughter? Even adult children want to know their parents are proud of them.

posted on January 26, 2007 at 3:56 PM

kristin wrote:

Hi Vicki:

I am still on the fence of how I feel about you, but I look at all of you ladies and cant help to feel sad for you. You are a bit overbearing on your daughter and I know they dont show it all, but you seem to work too much. Its one thing to be a go getter and work hard, but you take it to an extreme. Anyways, good luck with all.

posted on January 26, 2007 at 4:23 PM

Kim wrote:

In answer to Mike Daly's question about Jeana vs. Vicki--yes they are both successful, self-made women. And even though Vicki's son Michael doesn't have quite the work ethic Vicki does, and Jeana's son Shane has been drafted x2 -- look at their children and how they handle them. Vicki's kids basically are regular kids (albeit with lots of money) who roll their eyes like all of our kids do at their parents. They're basically good kids, even thought Michael could use a kick in the pants in the motivation dpartment. (Briana even says she's not having sex until marriage! Of course, we don't know if that's true, but it's a nice sentiment.) Vicki commands and deserves their respect (even though she is controlling annoying at times--sorry, Vicki!) and it is obvious she loves her family. She keeps after Michael and hounds him about school and work because she wants to instill in him that it is important to work hard in order to make something of yourself. No matter your feelings for her, you have to respect her for that. She sent him to work with his uncle and dad to MAKE him see that it wasn't a walk in the park. They are an all-around good family, with a whirling dervish for a mother. Jeana's kids, on the other hand, while I do not doubt she loves them, are terribly spoiled and disrespectful of their parents and each other, shouting profanity and hitting each other all the time. I could not believe Shane and Colton were calling each other "fa****" last week, repeatedly, and not only was it not bleeped, Jeana said NOTHING to them. She does nothing about anything they do. Colton is 14 years old! Granted, other than that--defending himself against Shane, who is TWENTY (and has shown no redeeming qualities that I can see, except that he can play baseball pretty well)--Colton seems like a good kid.
On Jeana's board, many people have said "they're just being kids", but I beg to differ. I would not allow my children, one of whom is 16, to act like that at ALL, especially towards their sibling. They love one another and are expected to treat me and each other with respect at all times and if either of them ever dared utter "f*****", they would get a swift and severe punishment. (What if they had used the N word? Would she have corrected them for that? I shudder to think.) Of course, Jeana shows so much favoritism towards Colton, it's no wonder the other two are so whiny and bratty (i.e., last season Kara always saying how she wasn't the favorite. Last year the rivalry seemed to be Kara and Shane. I will never forget Kara whining and complaining that she didn't want Shane's Mercedes--"I always get the hand-me-downs, and of course he gets something new". What an insolent brat. She has no idea what the real world is like and that many, many FAMILIES don't have a car at all. Or FOOD). And Jeana couldn't care less if Shane passed a class when he started college--she said she "didn't care if it was one desk and a teacher, all that matters is his playing time". What if he had gotten injured the first week and couldn't play baseball ever again? She doesn't think he needs an education? I guess she'd support him forever on her couch with a remote in his hand.
Oh--and the golf cart thing? Tell your 20 year old son to leave the 14 year old's golf cart alone! Colton has to resort to dismantling it while Shane just charges through like a big bully and she kinda says "Noooo, Shaaaane" but doesn't do anything. Am I in the minority because my kids listen to me?

Well, I didn't mean to go on so long...but do you kinda get the drift now, Mike? That's my take on it, anyway. At first I really liked Jeana and didn't care too much for Vicki, she was too shrill and controlling. But as I watched them I totally changed my mind. Vicki is not perfect but none of us are. Not that I dislike Jeana, but I feel she needs some serious parenting skills and soon. Her kids are some of the most disrespectful ones I've ever seen. I get mad at the TV when I watch them! I can't believe how many people defend them on her blog comments. Are they watching the same show as I?

posted on January 26, 2007 at 9:19 PM

lan wrote:

Hey Mike,
I agree
We have written our true feelings about Vicki, cant believe she can function as horrible as she is, especially being on her high horse about construction workers and thumbing her (ahhhk) nose at it in front of her brother who DOES construction ",sooo rude, and told her son he needed to get rid of his dad's LAZY blood with a transfucion, WAY worse tha the other Moms-changeing their lives with her UNEDUCATED comments our theory is the blog editor must know her and they are friendas, everyone I KNOW dislikes HER the most and NON of it is posted. The editor is protecting her. It is also sad to see her hang all over her new co worker like she is in his ex's league (looks) it is embarrasing.

posted on January 26, 2007 at 9:55 PM

robyn wrote:

Viki,

Again, I say that I am so impressed wiht your deication to your family and work. If people can't see the difference between you and Jeanna, that's a shame. Although jeanna's done well. She spoils and throws money at her kids who have NO rules or manners. They call their mom a dirty whore and her friend Tit's due to her fake boobs which nearly all the women in OC and especially Coto have. But you on the otherhand drive your kids to succedd and give them list to stay prganized and do so many of the things my mother never did for me.
You had EVRY right to be pssed about the minivan. If everything didn't fit you could have missed your whole vacation and the owners typical "I don't give a dman" attitude would have pissed ANYBODY off. As business women we know that service is first.
So glad to see them show your lighter side too.

posted on January 27, 2007 at 12:17 AM

Ami wrote:

I am a single mother of two trying to find a new career. How did you get started in the insurance business? And set up your own company?

posted on January 27, 2007 at 3:59 PM

Tyesha wrote:

Hello,

What tips or advice can you give about selling insurance for a newbie? How do you establish a client base? What can I expect? Thanks!

posted on January 28, 2007 at 7:01 AM

JuJu Bee wrote:

Thank you for being the ONLY decent housewife on this show. I applaude you.

posted on January 28, 2007 at 10:36 PM

Christine wrote:

To: Mike Daly
The reason that Vicki and Jeana get different feedbacks is because it seem as if their fundamental ideals are completely opposite. Vicki wants her kids to be happy finding their niche in life, while Jeana has her whole kids' happiness consumed with success in professional sports. Where is Kara in the Keough equation? Is she professional quality? Don't think so, considering she is provided everything she wants with no effort. Do ANY of these kids work? Do ANY of these kids volunteer in any capacity? I watch this show to give me a better idea on how to raise my kids without this nonesense. Kids today are overindulged and spoiled no matter what socio/economic level they are. Vicki wants the kids to work; Jeana wants their genes to determine their future. Not a good plan.

posted on January 28, 2007 at 11:33 PM

Danika wrote:

hi vicki, i realize this question was asked in an earlier blog, but i am very curious. what cruiseline did you sail with? i've visited europe a few years ago and am very eager to go back.

posted on January 29, 2007 at 1:13 AM

Stephanie wrote:

I am interested in pursuing a career in the insurance industry. I would like to know what insurance industry are you in? I'm inspired by you work ethics, and would appreciate any information you can give me.

Thanks

posted on January 29, 2007 at 1:19 PM

Monique Cobos wrote:

Hello Vicki,

GET RID of Duff and I'll take care of business for you while you're on vacation! I'm sure you've been asked this a million and one times, but I'd like to what company you work for so that I can be your offsite assistant.

posted on January 29, 2007 at 4:48 PM

Kim wrote:

Hi Vicki..................

I have a meeting tonight.............but woke up knowing that I will be rushing home from the meeting ..........so I don't miss a moment of the 2nd episode of 2nd season!

I LOVE the show.............and you are my favorite housewife.
You are a great mom, partner and business person........

Kudos to you............

Kim/NH

posted on January 30, 2007 at 9:42 AM

Jason wrote:

Vicki
Love the show; I think it's very inspiring to many people. I hope there will be more seasons to come. I work in a 9-1-1 center here in Idaho where it's very stressful. I'm currently living with a medical condition that is very challenging at times. The condition I have is hypopituitarism (Basically I do not produce certain hormones, cortisol to name one, and working in a extremely stressful police dispatch center is difficult). Would you please be able to tell me more about insurance brokering, and what companies would allow me to stay at home?
Thanks!
Jason

posted on January 30, 2007 at 10:15 AM

Judy wrote:

I have to say your drive & determination working as hard as you do is admirable. But I did feel as though you had a major breakthrough when deciding after your vacation to slow down a bit & enjoy life & Don. You are so driven..perhaps too much at times. You get so hot headed & upset(not a criticism-just an observation) & work yourself into a frenzy. Life is too short to get that upset. You have good kids, a wonderful life, a husband that loves you & you are truly a success. Enjoy that.. take pride in what you've done & learn to relax. You deserve it. You've built an extremely successful business... now reward yourself with down time & realize Don needs you as well.

I did relate when you said you were going to have a nrevous breakdown when the kids left. Being a single mother, the thought of my children leaving at times is devastating to me. My girls are 20 & 17, & although I'm very proud & get tremendous satisfaction knowing I did a great job, it's heart wrenching. My girls have made me a better person. But... I know I have to let go.

posted on January 30, 2007 at 10:36 AM

Alex de la Torre wrote:

Hi there, I'm a State Farm agent in Austin, Texas and I'm also in the field of long term care. I wanted to see if there is I way I can pick your brain. I just opened my agency January 1, 2007 and I can use all the help I can get. Please email me. I look forward to talking with you...

posted on January 30, 2007 at 7:02 PM

Nancy wrote:

You are truly an inspiration. I would also love to know about your insurance business; how it started and how to get involved.

Thanks

posted on January 30, 2007 at 8:51 PM

Jackie wrote:

Vicki, im 16 and from illinois too! and i love the show and you. you're such a role model for me and how you've worked your way up to where you are now! and you're completely gorgeous =)

posted on January 30, 2007 at 10:18 PM

cynthia F. wrote:

You are the only on the show that is really down to earth and truly believe that is the kind of heart God looks for. Thanks for not being so judgmental like the others in Coto I watched you really enjoying yourself with your true friends and you said that your associates in Coto would not get caught dead where you were visiting. Well they don't know real people and real love I am glad you and Duff enjoyed yourselves.

Thanks for being real girl....

posted on January 30, 2007 at 11:32 PM

GjH wrote:

You Go Girl! I am so happy that you are starting to enjoy life. I think that is wonderful you spend time at the lake. Jeana doesnt know what she is missing. That is what my family does in the summer. Great bonding times happen in the most unexpected places! Your kids will be fine...you have raised them well! Must go now to watch encore of the show,...I cant get enough!
GjH

posted on January 30, 2007 at 11:40 PM

Kim Roozeboom wrote:

Hi there! I am another Kim writing. You are definitely the one I most enjoy on the show. You remind me of several gals I know around here, believe it or not. You are down to earth and level headed. You obviously have the midwest work ethic and know what really is important! The episode at Lake Havisu was fun! I really miss seeing Kimberly on the show. Jo is my least favorite on the show. Slade and Jo need a reality check. They are doomed to be miserable regardless if they stay together or not. Thanks for enjoyable tv each week.

posted on January 30, 2007 at 11:44 PM

Allie wrote:

I feel for all you ladies. I am a 24 year old Orange County native, with a beautiful two year old daughter. I have had a lot of sucess in the Real Estate business, and feel as if not many people understand what it is like to run your own business and be a mom! Our expectations from others and ourselves is very high; and I don't feel as though we are given the credit we deserve. I applaud you for being such a success in your field, helping others with their success and still being an awesome mom. Any parent who can raise kids and see them off to college deserves a pat on the back.

posted on January 31, 2007 at 12:36 AM

Karen S wrote:

Vicki: You and Jeane seem to be the two who have both feet in touch with terra firma....love both of you...your kids are great!

posted on January 31, 2007 at 12:36 AM

Galen wrote:

Well- I just saw the episode where Vicky and Hubby get away and go on the boat.. WOW.. now she really is having fun. I am glad there are people around her that make her feel like they would be there in an emergency. She works so hard and very determined to get it right. Her kids do need to find their own way. If you read this..Prayer does work Vicky. Vicky step back and let those around you grow. Take your own advice. He is still young and has no clue abt life yet, however that's no excuse to be a slacker. He's going to have to hit dirt before he wakes up. He is riding the the free train as long as he can. Most teens are just like him. Well I am glad to see you let loose a little. I also you to Myrtle beach and have dune parties with friends. It really is fun. Thanks for a good show..

posted on January 31, 2007 at 2:08 AM

Candi wrote:

Girl you are SUCH an inspiration. I am a realtor & while I watch Jeana on the show, it's you who most inspires me. You are amazing at what you do and my favorite episode was where you talked about WHY you do what you do. You deserve all the success that you have and more. I love the fact that you have so many different aspects of your personality. Your protective of your children, worried about appearances in Coto, fun loving in Havasu (sp?), yet still trying to seek approval from a mother who is obviously but sad to say jealous of you. I tivo the show & ususally skip over bimbo Jo's segments but find myself re-watching yours & Lauri's. You guys are my favs, I can't wait until next episode!! Keep up the good work. BTW I'm glad your kids are gone so that the show can focus more on YOU! :)

posted on January 31, 2007 at 11:34 AM

Melissa wrote:

Hi Vicki! I think you're great! You really know how to keep it real and you're not afraid to take any chances. I think it's great you can be so honest and up front about who you are and where you came from. If I had to relate to any of the women on the show, it would have to be you. You love your family, you're a hard worker, and you let it be known to everyone that your achievements were made from your hard work, not inherited or married into. Keep on your kids, spend your money the way you want, love your husband more than ever, and so what about what other "Coto" people think. You've been blessed with a great life, and family, live it the way you want. Let me know if I can ever be of service to your business with my home computer! NO JOKE! Take care!

Melissa

P.S. My family is just as "trashy" when we go to the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels, Texas. You wouldn't understand it until you try it, and the friends I've convinced to try it can't get enough of it now!!!

posted on January 31, 2007 at 11:57 AM

Thresa wrote:

Hey Vicki:

Is the lake great or what? you guys seem to have so much fun there because you can be you.

I love your work ethic too, it is awesome.

posted on January 31, 2007 at 12:35 PM

Kendal wrote:

You are an inspiration with all of your hard work and motivation. I hear you comment very often to people that they can do things themselves and still go far. That has inspired me not to expect things to be handed to me and to continue to work hard at what I do. You are my favorite on the show. It is nice to see how relaxed you are when you are at the lake. You are very well rounded and that is why you can accept people for who they are!

posted on January 31, 2007 at 12:38 PM

Kendal wrote:

You are an inspiration with all of your hard work and motivation. I hear you comment very often to people that they can do things themselves and still go far. That has inspired me not to expect things to be handed to me and to continue to work hard at what I do. You are my favorite on the show. It is nice to see how relaxed you are when you are at the lake. You are very well rounded and that is why you can accept people for who they are!

posted on January 31, 2007 at 12:44 PM

cindy miller wrote:

I think it is fantastc that you have your own business, how did you start it up and stay independent. Love your drive, inspiration to us all. and how old are you and how long have you had your business?

posted on January 31, 2007 at 3:20 PM

Joyce wrote:

I am totally a fan of the show, I love all of the mom's but I think you are the best and with the exception of your son slacking in school your kids are the most respectful. I also like the fact that you are not ashamed to acknowledge God in you life as long as you acknowledge Him and serve Him you will continue to be successful.

posted on January 31, 2007 at 3:55 PM

myles wrote:

vicki - your behaviour on the last episode with the van/limo was unbelievably childish and so disturbing. a lady doesn't behave that way, regardless of the circumstances.

posted on January 31, 2007 at 6:30 PM

Victoria wrote:

V- My name is Vickie also, I'm fifty and you so remind me of myself, I'm a latin version of you. I love my job and work really well underpressure. I have 3-kids and I would have to say I look pretty good for my age, with no surgery ...YET..
My oldest is a chef...my son plays water polo and so does my youngest and they play petty well !...I laugh along with my youngest, her hame is Jazmin and just to let you know Jazmin & my oldest (Camille) call me CraZY!...cause I get just like you!
so they either call me VICKI or CraZY!... I love that you are a great inspiration to all woman...especially to our daughters.
I do have to say.... I only wish that I could make more money cause I love my job and I support my kids and would do anything in the world for them. Good luck ..God Bless you and your kids.

posted on January 31, 2007 at 8:32 PM

alexandra wrote:

you are sooo funny and hyper. glad you got to go on vacation and slow down and enjoy your family because they are super and probably miss you very much due to you being such a work-a-holic. you really needed the down time and it did you a world of good. hope you really are going to not be so focused on material things and make quality family time a priority. good luck, girl!!!

posted on January 31, 2007 at 8:34 PM

bagheera wrote:

Vicki, you deserve high marks for making sure that your kids see what it means to work for a living, and for your encouragement to them to work for what they want, and not expect it to be handed to them. But consider one thing with respect to your kids -- I know you want to make sure they "know everything" and you want to protect them from making any of the many mistakes that are all too easy for a young person to make. But when you constantly tell them over and over again what to do, what you are really communicating to them is that you don't believe they can do it without your help. If you really want to raise strong, independent kids (and I really sincerely believe you do) then you should speak your peace and then BACK OFF. Believe in your kids. Believe in the job you've done so far. Because the truth of it is, your kids' character was formed years ago, and there is very little you could say now that would change it. Give them the gift of your confidence in them. Because that is the only way they will truly learn to stand on their own two feet.

posted on January 31, 2007 at 9:27 PM

Asa wrote:

Vicki,

You are my favorite on the show. I loved your Havasu trip. It really solidified for me what makes you who you are. Coto is one part of your life but I think you really get what life is about. I also love the way you are into your kids. You show them what a strong work ethic will get them. I suspect that your son will start to make some changes.
Whenever I watch you work, it always make me think about how much effort I give to my own work. The money is the perk but more importantly its the need to be the best. I also notice that you are a little less hyper (except for the van issue - ha!) but seriously, you seem to be able to check yourself. i love it!

posted on January 31, 2007 at 10:09 PM

aw wrote:

HI Vicki- I am also interested in starting my own insurance agency in Los Angeles. I lost my husband to cancer a few years ago and I need to start making money again. I'm a single mom of two girls (6 and 7), and boy is life expensive here in LA! I truly admire your work ethic- any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for the inspiration!!

posted on January 31, 2007 at 10:21 PM

Kathy T wrote:

Vicky, I am writing to you for advice! I am currently working as a Registered Nurse (for 10 yrs). It is a good job, but physically draining at times. I have three children 8, 5, and 3 at home. I am married. My husband is an administrator on the city's police department and helpful as much as he can be.
I really am inspired by you to see what you have done on your own with your own business. I would love to talk with you to see if you would consider mentoring me to look into the insurance business. I do live in the upper midwest, so there may not even be any market for this, but it is worth looking into.
I am a consistent watcher of the show, and this week I convinced my reluctant husband to watch. He is not a huge reality TV fan. With his law enforcement exposure, he has a habit of noticing worse case scenarios. When watching all of you ladies and how you deal with your children, he was very impressed of all the values you instill in them and was also impressed with their respectfullness. I enjoy watching you ladies. I am "middle class" and in the upper midwest as well, so your lives are a far stretch to imagine for me!
However, we can all dream. I would love to be able to work from home, and to get out of the corporate "hairball mess."
Would you be willing to talk with me? I imagine you get many people with this request- Go Ladies!

posted on February 1, 2007 at 4:30 AM

Nina wrote:

Vicki in many ways you are a freak, but a loveable one. It's clear even though your kids roll their eyes at you they love you a lot.

posted on February 1, 2007 at 9:04 AM

jordy wrote:

Vicki, I think you are the only one on this show that thinks about anything other than herself!! I admire you, and I feel so bad when your mother talks to you the way she does. She really has some issues and it's heartbreaking to watch you have to ask her to be nice. I don't always like the way Brianna talks to you either, she can be very bitchy too. Seems like everyone dumps on you, and all you do is "do" for them! Here's to standing up for yourself in this new year!

posted on February 1, 2007 at 9:57 AM

markina wrote:

Vicki -

You are my absolute favorite on the show. While all of the other ladies are interesting, you are the reason I eagerly await each episode. You are a great mother, wife, friend and role model. You remind me of myself and the kind of person I am working toward becoming. You keep up the great work and continue being the wonderful person that you are.

posted on February 1, 2007 at 12:09 PM

Brian Smith wrote:

Hi Vicki. I was just watching the reunion special. I'm very sorry to hear about you health issues. But I commend you for having such a positive attitude. Also I love the fact that you have some morals when it comes to raising your kids. It's good for teenagers to see that MTV and other pop culture aimed at young adults especially, aren't exactly positive. Keep up the good work. But also make some time for your husband, he seems to miss you alot when you work alot.

posted on February 1, 2007 at 3:36 PM

Denise Wilson wrote:

Vicki, I love you on this show!!!! How did you get involved in the insurance business? Like you I have had many life-changing things happen to me in the past year, and now I find myself jobless. Although I am trying not to let it bring me down. I guess I was just interested in how you went from being a cashier to being such a force in the insurance industry.If you read this e-mail please let me know how.Thank you very much for your time.

posted on February 1, 2007 at 4:25 PM

Danielle Butler wrote:

Dear Vicki, I want you to know that I love how you are with youe family. I am trying to start a home base business and you are inspiring me to do that. I have three kids and I am a stay-at-home mother and a good wife of 12 1/2 years and it is so amazing seeing you work that hard and accomplish pullinf off a 2 1/2 week vacation in Europe. I also want to say that I just LOVED your Louis Vuitton purse you and your daughter had. I am a purse fanatic.
Danielle Butler Romulus, MI

posted on February 1, 2007 at 10:57 PM

Jason wrote:

Hi Vicki, YOU ARE MY FAVORITE on the show!!! I'm a 28 year old male from Indianapolis (close to your hometown Chicago). I saw the interview about Midwesterners not caring for the show. I DO!! I think you are great and please DON'T change a thing about yourself. You remind me a lot of my mother. I've become successful myself and I thank my parents. I've read some of the other blogs and people say you're too hard on your kids. I think you're perfect. I know if my parents didn't guide me, give me lists, follow up on me or ask me questions I would not be where I am today. I remember 10 years ago being in your kids shoes and thinking how my parents were too hard and how great it would be if my parents were like my friends parents. HAH! Now when I talk to my friends they wish they turned out like me! Many of them graduated from college and are doing nothing with their degree. Keep up what you're doing!! You're definitely an inspiration. To all the other housewives; you rock- Go Jeana; sell those houses! Go OC kids-you rock! Why are there so many negative blogs (kudos to those who write positive things) about the OC-HW? Is it out of jealousy? Keep in mind people these housewives, minus the money & beautiful lifestyle, are everyday housewives & moms. No one critiques you on how you are running your family and lives; or do they? To each his own! More than well Vicki, Jason :-)

posted on February 2, 2007 at 1:25 AM

Dee wrote:

Vicki,
I commend you on your extradionary work ethic. I am 24yrs old and my mother worked just as hard as you to raise me and my siblings. Granted we don't live in Coto just the little Midwest (my name for this country part of the U.S :) She has managed to have a magnificent home and raise all of us to work for what we have. I hope to be like both of you one day, Im in college now pursuing my Nursing Degree, but you show the audience that all things are possible as long as you work hard a stay true to yourself. I thank you for that because not many people can accomplish what you have.
Dee
P.S. you do look amazing this season..

posted on February 2, 2007 at 1:52 AM

gabe wrote:

Like you said in the show, i would rather work like the europeans 8 months for a bit less and enjoy the other 4months.Life is much better from the european perspective Vicky. You get to enjoy life more and smile more, instead of working like robots for a home that has no value once we reitre 6 feet under.
In the politcs cirlces its a funny saying, europe lives while amercians work,we live to work, or work to live.

Anyway Vicky, I write to you because I try to see behind this show and i do think that you have a good hearth and i thought you should be more real if you can, i do understand that the producers of the show wants you guys to play a "particular" role. It seems like your holding yourself back from being yourself at times. Like u said last season "when I leave the gates, i can leave my hair down and be myself".
Take care Vicky

posted on February 2, 2007 at 11:16 AM

Sherrie wrote:

Hi Vicky:

I, like many others posting here, admire how you started your own business and are working from home. Your discipline pays off. I laugh at the lists you write because I am the very same way. I feel much more organized that way.

If you have any tips for me in regards to your business I would love to them. Maybe I can be your East Coast branch!

Great show and I enjoy watching it.

posted on February 2, 2007 at 1:34 PM

Nikki wrote:

Love the show! I completely understand your work ethic as I have the same! I have been struggling with the work/ family balance thing and am interested in running my own home based business. I commend you on your success. An above post mentioned giving advice on starting a home based business or maybe becoming a mentor. I would love to sign up for mentoring from you on a home based business. HMM, a new business venture for you?? Maybe this could be as lucrative, or more, for you as your insurance biz. Think about it!! If you're interested, I will be the first to sign up!!! Let me know. Congrats on all your success! Remember to breathe!

posted on February 2, 2007 at 1:44 PM

Susan wrote:

I have to say this!
I hope SNL does a spoof on your flipping out over the mini-van incident. Sorry, life isn't always a stretch and a mimosa.

posted on February 2, 2007 at 2:57 PM

Tina Marie wrote:

Hi.. I only wanted to comment about how it's so obvious that you really do love your children. I admire you and how your love for them shows through, even if you're not seeing eye to eye with your kids. I think a person can tell just by seeing a small glimpse of your life, that your family means the world to you.. .. Tina Marie

posted on February 2, 2007 at 2:58 PM

Carla Stream wrote:

Dear Vicki,
Not sure what to think of the show so far.....:) But I do keep watching!! I love that you talked about your daughter and saving herself for marriage and then you shared about your past and I appreciate that so much!! I have 1 daughter and 3 sons and it is my earnest prayer that they save themselves for the one God has chosen for them. Thank you so much for standing up to a culture that says, "If it feels good, do it!"
Sincerely,
Carla Stream
I am a real housewife!!! I may not have tons of money or live in Coto or vacuum in high heels but I pour my heart and soul into my mothering profession.

posted on February 2, 2007 at 4:20 PM

Lee Smith wrote:

Hi Vicki,
When I watch the show I am always struck by the interactions you have with your mother. I know you are loyal and kind to her and that you want her to love you in the way you deserve to be loved. You mother steadfastly refuses to acknowledge your accomplishments or love you as a mother should. I am sure it is as painful to experience as it is painful to watch. But you should know that her meaness is a reflection of who she is NOT of you. You are a worthy, beautiful, hard working and successful woman. She has so far demonstrated that she is simply jealous of you and cannot allow herself to be the mother you deserve. I am sorry for your loss, but hope you can acknowledge and love yourself in the way that she never will.
Life is short; I hope you can embrace the life you have created for yourself and good riddance to your mother-she is an awful woman.

posted on February 2, 2007 at 5:31 PM

Monet wrote:

Vicki ~
I admire your ambition to excel in work, as a parent, and as a wife. I'm sure many viewers assumed many "housewives" only ran the household and didn't have corporate jobs. I'm in sales myself, and really admire you. You give me the boost to go the extra mile!!
Thank you for sharing you life & success!! Meanwhile, I'm glad to see in the new season that you're making more time for your husband. I love that the two of you have a place to really unwind with "real" people. You both look like college kids & so happy. Continue...

posted on February 2, 2007 at 6:49 PM

melanie wrote:

Come on! Tell the lady where you got your bedding and comforter set!

posted on February 2, 2007 at 11:30 PM

debi wrote:

Hi Vicky,
You seem to be a little less materialistic in session one versus session two, and you actually seem like a nice person. However, I just want to tell you that you refer to Midwesterns a lot and seem to think that all Midwesterners think that California is the ideal place to live. I'm from chicago and let me tell you I nor anyone I know is in aw of California. We could actually care less about California and are definately not jealouse of anyone living there. You mentioned that when you lived in Chicago(I don't think you actually lived in Chicago) that you were enviouse of people in California and thought all the "beautiful people" lived in California. Believe me, that is the farthest from the truth in my and many other people's opinion. I have travelled all over the world and believe me there are beautiful and average people everywhere. Please stop claiming midwestern people are "average joe", conservative, people. Most of my friends are beautiful, successful, wealthy, highly educated, open-minded, great-bodies women. They could go anywhere and date anyone they wanted--including New York (which is much more hip then california).

posted on February 3, 2007 at 1:23 PM

Beverly wrote:

Vicki:

Just wanted to let you know that I'm also a fan of you on the show. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us - I feel that you have been so honest and present your family just as they are, warts and all. You've got a wonderful family, both in California and Illinois. Many of the comments on the blog seem to come from younger individuals, although I could be wrong. I'm 50, also a very hard worker and I really can relate to all the 'reaction' you get from your husband, kids and mom about working hard and wanting a good life - just do what makes you happy and don't let anyone drag you down. They love you but they don't really get it, and that's fine. When you heard that Lori didn't have time to plan her wedding, and you thought 'if I sleep one less hour a night I can plan this' - that's me - and when you have that kind of drive you truly can do whatever you set your mind to.

You are a very caring person with boundless energy, and that's why everything around you is a success. Your son will turn out fine, he's a good kid. I had the time of my life watching the footage of him doing construction with his uncle and father telling everyone to get out of the way. I admire your son for spending time around his father even though his life will be very different due to your efforts. Also,

posted on February 3, 2007 at 3:28 PM

Janelle wrote:

Hi Vicki,
You are my favorite character on the show. I am 31 years old and just find your work ethic and get go inspirational. I live in the heartland of the country and love this show. I find it humurous that because of your assertiveness with getting things "done" some woman say you need to slow down and calm down. I think if you're ok with your pace and the home life is happy keep doing what makes you happy. I get motivated and energized just watching you for an hour on the show. I thank you for your honesty and sharing part of your family and life.
God Bless!

posted on February 3, 2007 at 4:06 PM

Vickie J wrote:

Vicki is my favorite character on the show because she is the one I can truly relate to. She is such a hard worker, and so devoted to her families success. Her mother drives me nuts!

posted on February 3, 2007 at 4:49 PM

Cari wrote:

Vicki,

You are a hard worker and expect alot from yourself. I think that working for you have and not sitting around whining is refreshing. You could lay off you kids just a little. Some of the questions you ask them have nothing to do with their future or their ethics and morals, they're just being nozy. On the other hand, you do seem to genuinely care about their character. You want them to be able to provide for themselves and make good decisions about life. Kudos to you.

Slow down more, like you said in Greece. Have less stuff and do more with your family, The trip to Havasu was awesome! Give yourself a break and shrug off some of the pressure. Have a good time.

posted on February 3, 2007 at 5:52 PM

Sheri wrote:

Vicky,

Watched the new episode a few days ago and you look fabulous. Have you lost weight or toned up since last season? I thought you looked great then but there is something different about you. Not sure if you remember me but I work for an Insurance Company and I help you with your senior clients when necessary. It would be nice to chat with you if you have a moment.
Sheri

posted on February 3, 2007 at 8:50 PM

LeAnn Schmidt wrote:

Vicki - I think you are my favorite so far. Maybe its because youre from Illinois. I have an aunt who lives in Cary, Illinois - small world huh? I have an odd question. In one scene, you are at a restaurant, I think at Lake Havasu. You are holding a glass with a blue rim on it, reminding me of a mexican hand blown glass with dark blue rim I once had a set of. I have been looking for those style glasses for a few years now. Any idea what store might carry them? Id love to order some online. What a beautifiul life all you girls in Coto have - at least I get an hour every day to dream!

posted on February 3, 2007 at 9:46 PM

brian swinford wrote:

Vicki:

Yeah, I remember you from that act in Las Vegas and from the show Mama Family and you did some singing too.

Oh wait, that is Vicki Lawrence. You two look a lot alike.

posted on February 4, 2007 at 8:23 PM

Michelle Hayes wrote:

I just started watching the show and I am very inspired by you to have such a wonderful successful career. I have four small kids and I would love to go back to work for myself. Keep up the good work and yes breaks are good for you!!!

posted on February 4, 2007 at 8:23 PM

NancyK wrote:

Vicky, I can completely relate to your freak-out about the van. I'm the same type and we hate it when despite our best efforts to plan every detail, some idiot screws up. I was curious and actually felt kind of bad about how your mother treated you. Maybe it was just editing -- but it seemed like she just can't accept the way you've turned into a "California girl". I'm from the East Coast and lived in the OC for 2 years -- it's a different world, and you either change and assimilate, or you come back (which is what I did). It seems like she's hurt, annoyed, or whatever, that you've abandoned your Midwest roots....and she seems to give you digs about it at every opportunity. Also, I think I may have missed some episodes but I am not sure where your husband stands with employment -- and is it your money that enables your family to live the Coto lifestyle, and he just supplements -- or is he the major wage-earner and just was "between jobs"? I know, not really my business, but I was just trying to understand the family dynamic. Thanks and you go, girl!

posted on February 5, 2007 at 1:42 AM

Dee wrote:

Girl, you rip and run so much you make me dizzy! Life is passing you by.

posted on February 5, 2007 at 2:30 AM

JenJen wrote:

Vicky, you're the only one on this show with her head on straight. You might be a little nitpicky, and I'm not wild about the way you address service workers, but it's clear you care for your children, spend time with them, are trying to rekindle the fire between you and your husband, all while being as independent as possible within that shallow Coto world.

Great advice that you gave Lauri, too... although I doubt she'll take it. In fact, you'll likely be looking for a new employee soon.

Keep it up Vicky... you make this show worth watching, and make me think that maybe there's at least one woman in Coto that isn't a golddigging shallow surgically-altered-to-within-an-inch-of-her-life creature. At least you work for a living.

posted on February 5, 2007 at 5:38 AM

Carron wrote:

Vicki, I truly admire your work ethic. Who wants to be lazy procrastinators in life? But, like yourself, I also struggle with balancing work (I am finishing up my Masters degree) and downtime with family and friends. It is a struggle to find that balance and to know when it is ok to set work aside. So, I am looking forward to watching the rest of your journey this season to see if you as a successful woman can provide some much needed hints!!!! I wish you all the best!

posted on February 5, 2007 at 10:08 AM

katie wrote:

Vicki, Lighten up girl.....you can be a hard worker and a succesful company owner without losing your mind. If you have trouble doing so you might want to get an RX for a calmer demeanor.

posted on February 5, 2007 at 10:18 AM

MDavila wrote:

Hi Vicki, I just wanted to say that I admire you and everything you have accomplished in your life. You are truly an inspiration to me. I started in this industry 5 years ago. I was always told that I would never make it and that it's tough cause it's a man's domain, but when I saw you on the show and what you have done all on your own I was very impressed. I realized that I should stop worring about what others have to say and take control of my own destiny so I started my own insurance agency this year and I must say it has been very challenging. Only God knows whats in store for me but I am up for the challenge. Any advice you can give me will be greatly appreciated!

posted on February 5, 2007 at 4:50 PM

Sadie wrote:

Hello Vicki,
Ever since I started watching the show I have been addicted to it! Especially the fact that you are all real people with real problems. I have to say that you inspire me to achieve my goals even though I do not have a college degree. I am a married mother of 3, and I work full time and I am desperatley seeking a career change. Just watching you and how goal oriented you are and how you have your own business based out of your home, gives me hope to one day be as successful as you are! If you could offer any advice on how to get started, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks

posted on February 5, 2007 at 5:31 PM

Elena wrote:

Vicki, I am quite pleased with how you manage to balance family, marriage and a career. As well as your morals in life, how you carry yourself and our perspectives on life and your attitude. I must say you are truely an inspiring role model to me.

posted on February 5, 2007 at 8:36 PM

rebecca wrote:

~Vicki,
I admire very much your drive and goals in life!do'nt let anyone get in your way of finding true happiness!!I too am from the midwest,near chicago,and i understand the desire to leave here.I think you are a great mother even if the kids complain!thats what parents do.you and jeana seem to be busy women/with work but both of you are working and being great mothers!!!kudos!!!!i have much respect for you and all that you are doing!keep it up,you inspire me!!

posted on February 6, 2007 at 1:16 AM

Donna wrote:

Dear Vicki
I admire your work ethics. Many times during both seasons of the show I have heard you say you don't think your children understand how hard you work to give them the best. Beleive me they do and in the years to come you will see that. You don't need to be on them all the time, the example you set is what is going to stick out in their minds. I also enjoyed the show where you and your husband took a weekend vacation to the lake. You have a wonderful family, don't miss out on that because you have buried yourself in work. It's clear you have worked hard, now it's time to enjoy the fruits of that hard work. Houses and expensive jewelry can be lost but memories last forever.

posted on February 7, 2007 at 2:56 AM

chelsey wrote:

Just thought i`d let you know...
your son is goregous.

i`m addicted to the show & love every minute of it!

posted on February 12, 2007 at 1:06 AM

Christy wrote:

Dear Vicki,

Love the show! You're a great parent and have great work ethic! Which are two things that are very important to me as well. I've become very interested in your insurance sales business. I have a 6 and 7 year old children, and was diagnosed with MS about a year ago. I am in great need of something that I can do from home (for the most part) and make a decent income. Thanks in advance for any info and/or guidance that you can provide.

posted on February 13, 2007 at 3:47 PM

Katherine wrote:

While I admire your work ethic, I think it is important to know you cannot take the material things with you. When you are long gone, wouldn't you rather your children share stories of time spend with you rather than the awesome birthday present or huge mansion they live in? While I would LOVE to have all the money in the world, I take joy and pride when my daughter responds to the question "If you could pick one thing in life to be, what would it be?" "A mother like you who spends time with us and has fun with us".

posted on February 14, 2007 at 9:10 PM

Debbie wrote:

Ohhhh Vicki, I can't quit seeing that insecure look in your eyes all the time. There is something that is not fulfillilng you in your life. Money, things, plastic surgery, etc.... is not enough. I hope you reconect with your husband. Ask him how he is doing by looking into his eyes and really listening . Working and fulfilling your dream my be the one thing that leaves you alone and lonley. Men still love the be the head of the household. Things come and go but, family will be there for you when all is down the toilet. Remember, "Today is the tomorrow that we worried about yesterday" And please, no more plastic surgery , it only makes all of you look llike you've had a stroke, not younger .

posted on February 23, 2007 at 4:42 AM

Lindsay S. wrote:

I would have been pissed too!! =) I think you are so amazing, you are truly a great example for today's' woman! I am only 21, but I really strive to have the same work ethic in my own life. I also have a 1 yr. old little boy, and I just hope that I can give the same example as you do to your children! You seem to have a wonderful family, and you have done a great job! I think you may need to relax a little more often though, it can't be all work and no play right?! I am a huge fan of the show and watch every week!!!!
Sincerely, Lindsay S.

posted on March 1, 2007 at 11:22 PM

jules wrote:

Seriously, you women HAVE the best of everything don't you? You just can't have enough $$, can you? You know, not everyone can afford to go on a European vacation sweetheart....or on a vacation period! Screw your stupid Coto community ( oh please) and all of your friggen money. Let me ask you a question....how much money do you actually give to charities every year?? I'll bet you don't.

posted on March 21, 2007 at 2:05 AM

Kim wrote:

Vicki, all I can say is that you are great. I admire you, your values and to me, you've REALLY earned all you have. You should be very proud of yourself, your children and your life. I'm a huge fan! Hope to see Season #3.

posted on March 21, 2007 at 2:58 AM

Amy wrote:

Vicki,

Your not controlling your what they call Organized. Nothing wrong with that. Last night seeing the show you look shooked at them showing what you said about Lauri and being jeaslous of her. I see were you are coming from if I am right. You feel that she is so lucky because you want a man like that who would take care of everything and you wouldn't have to work so much and be so stressed out. Someone who would be the man in the relationship and take charge. I don't know the story with your husband and work but seems to me that you take care of everything financially? I understand I had a business and supported my husband and now two kids and just burned to the grow with all the stress and everything on me. Believe me take it easy or you will crash and burn. I did and man does it suck. I am now losing my home, vehicle, everything and moving into his parents home. And I am 31 years old. Let him take some of the parts of life. I only wish my husband would have when I was stressed

posted on March 21, 2007 at 2:19 PM

jules wrote:

Good God woman! You must drive your poor family insane. Serioulsy, the"COTO LIFESTYLE"? The O.C life....as someone previously commented? give me a break. "Living in the O.C. is a completley different lifestyle."....BARF! Oh, I guess all of us "normal" people are just in the gutter because we don't have all of the money, fake boobs, Botox, and fake nails. you girls have to work wa too hard to be perfect or to "keep up with the Jones' ", as one might say. What would you do if you actually HAD to live somewhere like Riverside( OH My GOD NOOOO!!) or Corona? your worlds would come crashing down wouldn't they. how about giving some of that "cold hard cash" to some charities...such as Shriners Hospital For Children or the Cancer Society?? Bet that never crossed your mind.

posted on March 27, 2007 at 2:37 AM

Margo wrote:

What is the name of Vicki's Insurance company?

posted on February 25, 2008 at 12:13 PM