Have to say Aviva, you are very rude and selfish,a lot of us have had more than what anyone person should have to deal with....all you care about that you can not go to Paris with your daughter.... So when you are being judgmental and criticizing.... You are fortunate to have friends then you need to stop thinking of only you!!! And be a friend...you don't have the added stress most a lot us must deal with! some of us don't have money to food shop or heat the house, or maybe we got layed off and can't get a job and then lost our homes, and we are great moms with kids not really getting to be kids because we can't buy healthy food or take our kids on a trip or clothes shop, because we can't afford it.... Please realize what you do have..