I was a not impressed with Jill at all the way she handeled Bethanny...But my heart went out to her in the surprise episode. She did not deserve that treatment at all. She was there with her heart in her hand.

I used to like Jill, but I've since changed my mind. She and Bethanny have been through a lot (good & bad) but to put Bethanny on speaker phone and let Luann listen in was so childish. Just face facts and go your separate ways. Jill, you stuck your fork in that relationship and already deemed it done.

I wish everyone would get off of Jill's back!! First of all, Just because the majority of the women are against Jill at the moment does not mean that all of you should be!! Let me start by saying that Alex is the one who has kept this drama alive between Jill and Bethanny! As some of you have said, "I am not impressed with", the way she went about telling Jill what Bethanny had said. She should have politely told Bethanny that she was staying out of it because it was and is none of her business. I think it was just a way for Alex to feel as though she fits in and to get attention! Let me also say that as far as Ramona goes, she is two faced as the day is long. I do remember the episode where she went to lunch with Jill and Sonja and told both of them that she wanted them BOTH to go because she was close to them and wanted them there. I think the way Ramona acted when Jill arrived was very childish and immature after she had invited her. I see why all of you think that Jill was in the wrong for showing up, however, I can sympathize with Jill on the way she feels about her friendship with Bethanny! Do NOT act like most of you have not had an argument or fight with someone where you thought you were superior then realized that the way you reacted to and/or handled the situation was a mistake!! I know I have and have apologized to that person to make things right! I hope that Jill and Bethanny do become friends again.

i think the way ramona acted was justified jill decided she wasnt going to go then thought she would suprise everyone well when half the people are there are not on good terms with her its not much of a happy suprise. romona did the right thing by standing by those who came to support her threw the hole trip. sorry jill. i think the ladies need to just wash their hands of all the petty gossip that they have been doing and get over it. it seems to me that since the jill and bethany fight we have 2 teams and the girls are doing all they can to keep them seperated and upset wtih eachother. real friends would never keep this going for this long.

OK, I am not sure how much anyone has watched this show according to the comments. In my opinion, Jill is learning the "everything you do, comes back to you". I am sorry to say but, if you look over all the seasons you will find that she has to be center of the drama and wants to be with the needy one because she feels a sense of power. I also wonder if Jill is ever going to open her eyes to LuAnn, she is the biggest drama queen ever! Jill needs to learn that the problems she has with the other housewives is being blown out of proportion because LuAnn adds fuel to the fire. LuAnn is another that does this out of mere jealousy because for once she does have a best friend and omg, with a friend like LuAnn, who needs enemies? Alex, is the most level headed of them all in my opinion and the most sincere friend. Hmm, maybe Jill and LuAnn should take some pointers from her. My heart really goes out to Bethanny as I feel she has been through enough.

Why is everyone comming down on Jill so much. What about what Alex did to Jill with her "message" from Bethany. I can't stand her. And Bethany needs to grow up.

I have to say Jill was one of my favorites too when I first watched the show. I can't believe Jill made this little dumb message into such a big thing. Why didn't she confront Bethany in the beginning?? Then she saves her message for Months and plays it for a psychic and luan that is just plain dumb although it did make me laugh. I guess she just wanted attention. I really do hope that Bethany and Jill don't become friends again. And as for Alex, poor girl she has just always tried to fit in with all of these ladys. I guess she just blew up. I understand her frustration. Everyone cracks jokes about her book and about her kids. Just leave the women alone. I think Alex is a good person and she has taken so much from all of the housewives. I am glad Ramona is good friends with her. Oh by the way. I love Ramonas new look/attitude. I used to dislike her in the beginning but now it's Jill everyone dislikes.

Jill is very self absorbed. I said it before and I'll say it again money brings out the true character in people and Jill is the definition of a witch. We all watch because these women live extraordinary lives because of their wealth. But when all is said and done they are just like average people who are lucky enough to enjoy the finer things in life. Jill is as Alex so perfectly put it a mean girl and funny enough how her friend LuAnn put it money can't but you class.

I felt sorry for Jill, but she had it coming. Why did she even go. On the other hand Kelly needs help.

Kudos to Jill, she is really trying to re-friend Bethany!

I agree with Barbara, LuAnn has just been egging Jill along to avoid Bethany, etc. She's as much to fault as Alex is . Alex just did what Bethany told her to do. And LuAnns voice.....OMG I think I'll make a CD The fella that helped put the CD on isn't very bright either. He needs a vocabulary and she needs a voice. Kim's song is much better as is her voice.

I really like Bethanny. She is just so real to me. Jill is a real pill, not every thing is about her. We should all have friends like Alex/Ramona.. Jill needs to go check her self in some place, and not come back till she is in the real world... LuAnn is a little in play land I think, and she can NOT SING...

The reason Jill did all of this is to have the public back on her side again. She never wanted Beth back, just wanted to be in the public eye and part of the party Beth is having with her life. She is just plain phoney. Save your sympathy for someone who really needs it.

I love Alex and Bethanny as a long time viewer and fan. I think Jill and Luann are the BAD girls this season and not so nice. They need to take thier own advice. I can not wait for the reunion show and I think the topic of the conversation with Bethanny to Jill where Luann was listening should come up. Love Andy and all the housewives shows.

Realist, You have looked into my heart and said exactly the same things that I think. I do not understand why most people can't see how happy Alex was to ruin what little was left of Jill and Bethany's friendship. Alex is a snake...hissssssss. Jill was treated horribly buy Ramona , Bethany, Alex and Sonja. Sonja even said it was unacceptable. I would have never forgiven Ramona. Must not be a lot of people to choose from in New York! I would move on.