Kenya has repeatedly ruined several events she was invited to including Nene;s events, the shoe event when she showed up with butt pads and tried to humiliate Phaedra but just made a fool of herself and jacked Nene's event The Peter and Apollo thing at Kim's wedding party was after heavy drinking, and he was in Phaedra's face and the Kandi thing was after heavy drinking and he was slurring his words and stepping into her personal space, we won't even talk about Cynthia's sister pushing Todd who she does not even know then pushing Kandi like the coward kid who kicks a person being beat up by someone else to get there licks in because they dislike the person and runs. I was shocked when Kandi said your sister pushed me and Cynthia's response was if she pushed you I am sorry? What was that about? She had no right to put her hands on Kandi and actually escalated the matter and she was not trying to defend Peter she cannot stand Peter so clearly it was to bully Kandi while all hell was breaking loose. Cynthia was also all in Kandi;s face waving her arms and hands right on front of her nose when she is taller and must remember she towers over Kandi and the way she was swinging her arms they were right in Kandi;s face which is too close, very intimidating and threatening swinging those long nails and hands right in her face and she could have easily hit or scratched her in the face accidentally then what. The other issue that bothers me is why many of the girls including Cynthia make comments about Kandi's eating and weight behind her back and laugh and this episode as soon as Cynthia makes comments on her own slimming down after suffering for months she says some of us need to lose weight more than others, really? Kandi is healthy and not out of shape and looks good in her clothes so why are you girls always sweating her ? Is it just there needs to be someone to pick on and because she is not stick thin she is a good target to put down and make yourselves feel superior or is it jealousy she really is wealthier than all the women and their men put together and never makes an issue of it nor brags about she's rich, but is? Real rich. so finding a reason to put her down means bringing her down a bit and to make yourselves feel better? I do not know I am asking because Kandi is sweet and respects all of you and she has a daughter that hears what you say about her also, it is something to consider since you are so sensitive about your daughter and what is said about your parenting skills. A part of good parenting is setting an example of respecting other women as they are, not downing them because they are not like you and your peers, there is a name for that. Scripted or not I do not like the cracks and comments about Kandi's weight. A joke by definition is something all involved finds funny, right? I am a bit disappointed in Cynthia being in on it, a few times when Kandi is talked about cackling right with them instead of saying she looks fine we need to worry about our own weight and if Kandi is happy with the way she looks and her man is why are they girls constantly discussing it and putting her down like she has a problem? Kandi works out and eats like normal people do, and she may gain a few extra pounds but she loses them and keeps stepping and does not spend her time discussing her friends weight. After this Fibroid scare which made Cynthia gain weight I would hope she would be kinder and remember maybe a woman has a medical issue that is causing her to gain weight and it is private and possibly out of her control or maybe they are happy just the way they are so why are'nt you? As her good friends sitting and making jokes about her weight not knowing if she may be privately or unknowingly suffering medical issues and after they are discovered you will feel real low, having sat downing her when it the weight gain was onset to a medical illness. Even if she is not ill it does not look good on Cynthia who seems to be a sweet person, good mother and a good friend to all the women but maybe is meddling in other's life issues a bit too much. Her home seems to have enough issues to be resolved without looking for more for her ans Peter to disagree about. Why is Peter so argumentative and even hostile when discussing issues. I do not tolerate men yelling in my face who claim to love me without an explanation and attitude adjustment. Yelling is a form of bullying the other person to be quiet and back down or else, and now he is doing it to your friends while you stand back and watch and them make excuses for him. What about that? He is no spring chicken and he needs to stop getting right up i folks face before he meets his match, someone who may not want to know what he had for lunch as he expresses himself. Maturity and elder status has privileges of the utmost respect from all the friends and others younger than himself and a calm, steady, touchstone and guides others younger with wisdom, intellect and is a walking, living example to the younger adults and couples on how to conduct ones self with self respect and respect for all those in their circle and community to better communication and bonds of friendship and brotherhood even in the most heated misunderstanding. Cynthia takes care of the sisterhood issues and Peter takes care of the brotherhood issues. One can express themselves without rolling up nose to nose with a woman and stepping into her personal space with harsh voice and tone over the simple issues you all seem to lately blow way out of proportion which serves no one? In real life folks go to jail for behaving that way/ Is that really the image of a hothead, easily angered brother Peter wants to put forth? Is that really the way you speak to family and friends you are supposed to love and care about and be loved and respected by and cursing and raising his voice with such hostility for what? it is not a good look we know Peter and you can go there but is it really a winning image? I loved the show until Kenya's bad vibes everywhere ruined what used to be fun break ups and make ups between friends and family the problem is she is neither to any of you. The transparent,relentless project for one of your women friends to be close friends with Apollo after being asked to back off repeatedly is just embarrassing now, He has two children to care for and raise that adore him and Phaedra as husband and wife. Someone needs to speak to him and her about that mess they keep starting side eyeing each other when Phaedra's not looking and now when she is looking. What is wrong with Apollo does he want to be married or not? If not divorce but he needs to stop acting so disrespectfully gawking and drooling at women and over women when his with his wife. Who does that? It says I have no respect for myself or the woman I am married to.