i send my deepest sympathy to khandi and her fiancee's family :( keep ya head up.

Dear Kandi and AJ's family, Iam so sorry for your loss, I don't need to know the details but, I was devastated when I heard the news. AJ was so special, that the Lord needed him to come home his work was done here, and part of AJ's work was being a part of your lives, and that is a blessing. May the Lord give you comfort and peace through your hard time, my prayers are with you all. Barbi from Napa, Ca.

Greetings,I have a sense of generalized sadness for Aj's untimely demise. My condolences go out to Kandi and Aj's family. Kandi is my favorite cast member, just as Xscape has always been my favorite girl group. Kandi, I have been in your position , so i can truly relate on a personal level, the road is not easy and you never forget the hurt despite what people may say. Nevertheless, GOD is in control and he is a Great GOD. Just give yourself time,work through this on a daily basis, and feel comfort in knowing you are in my prayers. Much Love!

I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR THE LOST OF KANDI AND ALL THE KIDS LOST I KNOW HOW SHE FEEL BECAUSE WHEN I LOST SOMEONE I LOVE I WAS VERY HURT COULDN'T EAT ARE SLEEP SO I FEEL FOR YOU AND THOSE KIDS AND I WILL HOLD YOU IN MY PRAYER ME AND MY FAMILY ARE BIG FANS AND WE LOVE YALL.

Kandi,
I was so shocked to hear of your loss. You looked ay him in a way that spoke volumes. Take enough time to grieve. You are a breath of fresh air on this Ca-ca-mamie show and I hope you stay on it. But you will know when it is time to leave.....I love your work. You are a true entertainer so if it makes you happy do...we all deserve too be happy in life.
Ciao
Donna

Kandi I'm out of words to help you in any way feel better. I just hope God gives you the strength to handle this situation. My prayers go to you and AJ's family.

Kandi, I am so so for your lost and AJ's Family my pray's are with u and his Family. I can related with AJ's Family I lost my Son two years ago. Just take one day at a time and always keep the good times close to your heart. Kandi, I don't know you but I have seen and listen to you you a wonderful Mom and Daughter and everything will fall in place. I can't say that I know what u are going thought but I do know it's hurts and If you need someone just to shoot the biz over the phone I would be there. I know that corney but you know something people have to have friends who are not close to them to understand them. If I can be any help I hear all right!
Schantel from TX

I love you and you and AJ was a nice couple to be sorry for your lost god will see you through this he well bless you more and take you more places

what happened to aj, i watched the show but, didn't see anything, my prayers go out to all,

Kandi IM so sorry for you and the family I just heard last night on tv from watching the show my mouth dropped and I cried god bless you and the fams Love from Springfield, Ohio.

I ABSOLUTLY LOVE THE SHOW! I just started watching it and have been watching Bravo all day shows. Kandi...your in my thoughts and prayers. But your so strong and such an inspiration....love watching!

So sorry for your lost kandi keep you in my prayers you and your family my god bless you all

KANDI, I AM SOOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND
AJ'S FAMILY. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Kandi,

You are beautiful inside and out, I am so sorry for your loss. I know God is going to see you through this sudden loss... May God Bless AJ's Girls and Family. I pray for peace to be still, God will only make you stronger with time.

Love ya girl!

Aleshia
California

THIS TRAGEDY JUST SAYS THE ONES YOU TRULY LOVE TAKE THEM TO HEART. I KNOW WHERE KHANDI WAS COMMIN FROM IN HER RELATIONSHIP WITH AJ WHEN HE WAS STILL ALIVE. IM GOING THROUGH THE SAME ACCEPTANCE ISSUES WITH MINE. BUT TONITE WHEN I FOUND OUT THIS SUCH NEWS, I REALIZE THAT I LOVE MY MAN AND EVERYDAY IS NOT PROMISING SO I WILL GIVE HIM ALL I GOT.

Kandi, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are constantly in my prayers.

Kandi God will comfort you. he doesn't allow anything to happen without bring you through it. My prayers are with you.

I love all the RHW shows - they're great - so very, very unlike the "average" woman's life. There are so many great cities with interesting "housewives" - Bravo can air these shows for a long time to come! I haven't missed a single one yet.

Dear Kandi,I'm sorry for your loss. My heart & prayers are with you & AJ's families. God bless from Oklahoma.

kandi god will confort you and give you strenght to make it thur this will also pass just put your eyes on God

i think god always take care of loose ends and I believe he always has a bigger plan. did you ever think you were put in ajs life because he knew there were twin girls that would need someone..if thats true god must think you are a very special person if you were hand picked for the job...my heart is with you

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your kandi. You will get thru this difficult period with much prayer and keeping family close. Sincerely leonard

MY THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH KANDI & AJ'S CHILDREN & FAMILY, GOD BLESS YOU KANDI, SINCERELY CINDI FROM TOLEDO, OHIO

I Love Lisa and Sheree. They are a inspiration! Sheree and Lisa total up me! I am married and I love my husband and my family but I like to be private, classy, and with a hint of attitude! Love Yall!

Pray for Kandi. She is tough cookie, but she'll make it. This will only make her stronger one day. My heart goes out to that girl. It sometimes seems that bad things happen to such good people. God bless her.

I am so sorry and my prayers are for Kandi and AJ's family. I know Kandi is a strong woman and she will pull thru this.

Hola Kandi:

I am very very sorry for your lost, I enjoyed seeing AJ in the show with you. My prayers are with you and his family.
I am not going to sit here and even say I know how you feel, or anything else, that is the last thing you want to hear, so I decided to go to church and light candles for you and AJ's girls to find peace within yourself.

Great Fan
Yvette Elena Torres
Philly

DEAR K- i am sorry for what happen to aj.I konw you feel,you are in my payer,and his kids are too.

Kandi, I don't know how you feel, but I know that God will heal your pain, and my family and I send our prayers and love out to you and AJ family. God Bless you all.

Kandi, I want to say I am so sorry for your lost, you are my favorite on the show. Stay strong God had his reasons for taking him so soon. It will be very hard but be strong.

Love ya
Janice from Van Nuys

I want to say i'm sorry for what happen to kandi, she such a strong and respectful woman, not like the other woman who spend most of the show taking each other down. believe it or not kandi you will get thru this one day at a time.

god bless,
tara chew

I want to say i'm sorry for what happen to kandi, she such a strong and respectful woman, not like the other woman who spend most of the show taking each other down. believe it or not kandi you will get thru this one day at a time.

god bless,
tara chew

My sincerest condolences go to Kandi and her family. I just can not imagine what you're going through since I've never been in your position but I do know that I will be praying for you and your family.

Seek God and he will take you through the storm.

sincerely,
Monica
faithful viewer

Kim and Kandi, and even Sheree. The show should just be about you. Love you guys. And i can't wait until Sheree's clothing comes out.

I'm so sorry for kandi's husband and I hope the kids keep there haed up. god bless take it one day at a time girl good luck

Kandi im going to pray for you.Nothing about this easy baby girl.I lost my son in 97" and I still brake down.Keep your head up and try real hard to breath deep,because you got the rest of life to go on with and remember He wouldnt want you to hurt yourself mentally. love you and you will always be in my prayers

i feel so sorry 4 kandi i lost my husband 2 girl just keep ur head. take it one day at time.just a lonely girl from compton.