Melissa....If you cant be good, be careful...If you cant be careful..then be good...But what if you cant tell what constitutes good, bad, careful, or just plain careless? Sounds like your sense of perspective about yourself is somewhat distorted... Its folk like you that dont question themselves...that people like Teresa needs to worry about...There is never anything good about arrogance.....try being humble and take a more humble approach...I said all of that to say this...must I remind you that you came out swinging and sending a punch or two to Teresa in the very beginning....you are doing what is expected of you and so is Teresa....If you get it wrong..who knows what will happen and if Teresa gets it wrong..who knows what might happen...I would say to you that we the viewers have a different perspective on who threw the first punch and that was you....Humility can build bridges and restore relationships to a much more meaniful level...that is...if that... is what you really want...

Maybe Melissa should go back and view the first couple episodes of S3 RHONJ, and see how she did INDEED throw some of the first punches. She's the epitome of passive-aggressive, and following her on twitter, I must she she is full of it. Additionally, she has her sisters and make-up artists mean tweet abt Teresa all the time.

P.S. I'm sure a conversation with President Obama and her would go over real well.

Melissa, seriously, you ARE right. You need not fawn all over anyone. Be true to yourself. You go girl!