The Real Housewives of New Jersey's Melissa Gorga can pack a (verbal) punch... but only if someone else takes the first swing. "You have to push me first, I will never make the first move. I will never go and hurt you," she tells RealityTea.com. "You have to kinda egg me on to get me going. I don't come in with problems. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I love everyone."
Preferring to hit high notes rather than below the belt, the RHONJ star adds, "You could put me at dinner with Obama and I'd try to find a way to work it out and you could put me with the Rock of Love chicks and I'll get along with them too!" Now there's a dinner party to give those Beverly Hills 'Wives a run for their millions. "I'll never, ever throw the first punch. I think you'll see more of that on season four."
In keeping with that big love message, Melissa also hopes to keep the peace in the blogophere this season. "If I ever see anyone tweeting really negatively towards my sister-in-law, I don't want that. I don't look for that. If you're gonna support me, support me. Don't hate on someone else; just support who you like."
How will Melissa's peacekeeping plan be tested this season? Find out when The Real Housewives of New Jersey returns this Sunday.
Melissa....If you cant be good, be careful...If you cant be careful..then be good...But what if you cant tell what constitutes good, bad, careful, or just plain careless? Sounds like your sense of perspective about yourself is somewhat distorted... Its folk like you that dont question themselves...that people like Teresa needs to worry about...There is never anything good about arrogance.....try being humble and take a more humble approach...I said all of that to say this...must I remind you that you came out swinging and sending a punch or two to Teresa in the very beginning....you are doing what is expected of you and so is Teresa....If you get it wrong..who knows what will happen and if Teresa gets it wrong..who knows what might happen...I would say to you that we the viewers have a different perspective on who threw the first punch and that was you....Humility can build bridges and restore relationships to a much more meaniful level...that is...if that... is what you really want...
Maybe Melissa should go back and view the first couple episodes of S3 RHONJ, and see how she did INDEED throw some of the first punches. She's the epitome of passive-aggressive, and following her on twitter, I must she she is full of it. Additionally, she has her sisters and make-up artists mean tweet abt Teresa all the time.
P.S. I'm sure a conversation with President Obama and her would go over real well.