Single this Valentine's Day? Before you crash into stupid-cupid mode, hear out Bethenny Frankel. "Valentine's Day is all about love. If you're single, don't get down on love, but rather celebrate with those who love you the most: your friends," the Skinnygirl blogs. 

Cheers to that. Speaking of, "Get into the spirit of the holiday and throw a red-themed cocktail party," Mrs. Hoppy suggests. "Get or bake some red velvet cupcakes and put some red licorice, red hots and other festive red candy in decorate vases for your table setting. Make a signature cocktail for the event or just add some frozen cranberries, raspberries, or strawberries to a Skinnygirl White Cranberry Cosmo. And to go that extra cheesy mile, make individual flatbread pizzas with heart shaped tomatoes. It is all about the love."

And spoiling yourself, right, B? The Bethenny Ever After star validates V-Day as an excuse for guilt-free pampering. "Go to the spa with your friends. Most spas have specials so you don't have to break your wallet for some luxury." Now who's ready for Cupid's arrival? Head to Bethenny.com for more red hot ideas.