The Real Housewife has a message for little girls.

on Mar 22, 2013 - The Dish0

Porsha Stewart is one domesticated lady. 

The Real Housewives of Atlanta starlet is more than happy to spend her days cooking, cleaning, and performing charity work. But she’s also proud to call herself a “black trophy wife.”

Say what?!

“Being a trophy wife per se is not just about your outer looks. It's about the man who has put you on the pedestal and him admiring you and thinking well enough of you to put you up there," Porsha told ABC News Radio. "And I think it's important for our little girls to know that they can be princesses and they can have it all...So I feel proud to represent -- and I use the word lightly -- the black trophy wife."

Porsha is married to football player Kordell Stewart, and the rest of the ladies of RHOA are already skeptical about the couple’s marriage since the girls' trip to Vegas, when Porsha refused to visit a strip club. 

Porsha and Kordell are currently looking to add another tyke to their brood. (Kordell has a nine-year-old son, Syre, from a previous relationship.) They’re going on two years of wedded bliss right now, and Porsha says that any rumors of Kordell not wanting another child are completely misconstrued. 

"With me suffering a miscarriage before that was difficult for both of us and... at that moment he doesn't want to put too much pressure on it because he knows how much that means to me," she said. "And really when you're trying to have a baby the best thing to do is to just not concentrate on it, just let it happen."

But Porsha may not be a housewife forever. The stunning southern belle is working on starting a music career, which means Kordell’s stay-at-home-wife may be a burgeoning career girl. 

"I'll be coming out with a project," she said. "...I've been working with different producers to get that together. It's a very serious thing to me. It's not just play-play. I'm not just trying to put out a one hit wonder."

16 comments
purplelisa
purplelisa

Porsha, I think you're the prettiest RHOA by far, and the classiest, too. Keep your chin up and your standards high.

angel367
angel367

 Don’t know what happened, but I’m still rooting and praying  for you.  You’re a sweet lady!

SassyCountryGirl
SassyCountryGirl

not sure if anyone knows this or not, but the day this was added on site 3/22 is also the day that he filed for divorce! TMZ.COM

susieq0729
susieq0729

Posted March 22nd; the day he filed for divorce.

yvonnelockridge
yvonnelockridge

Wow! I just read this morning that on Friday, March 22nd, Kordell filed for divorce.  Sad for those two. However, Kordell never seemed interested in Porsha or anything other than himself.

tirimoana
tirimoana

I HOPE YOUR MAN IS A BETTER HUBBY THAN HE WAS A QUARTERBACK!!!  NOT SO GOOD IN THAT DEPARTMENT.  YOU SEEM LIKE A LOVELY YOUNG LADY BUT AT YOUR AGE I THINK YOU WOULD DO YOURSELF A FAVOR IF YOU ACTED LIKE A LOVELY 'WOMAN'!!!!  KORDELL TREATS YOU LIKE A CHILD.....DONT LET HIM DO THAT.....JUST SAYIN!!  WOMEN GOT THEIR INDEPENDANCE RIGHTS AGES AGO!

Fluff
Fluff

Has kordell ever been to a strip club? Would he tell his friends he cant go cause his wife wouldnt like it? Either way, you should have enough trust in each other to behave correctly wherever you find yourselves.....as long as its a two way street. Love u on the show!

Taj_Marie
Taj_Marie

I wouldn't brag about being a trophy. People put trophies on shelves to be seen which only collects dust in the long term.

EloiseM
EloiseM

Boy!  Am I happy to see you blogged somewhere.  Just want to say, You are truly exemplary to young and older women.  Please stay as you are (I'm not talking about not growing).  Continue to grow in the right as you are now.  Kordell has a jewel in you and he knows it too.  Keep respecting this handsome man. He is an excellent example of how real men treat their wives.  It's absolutely NOTHING wrong with being a Trophy Wife.  You wear it well.  He loves it too.  I've stated it before "The Stewarts are subconsciously Leading By Example"  And a good example at that.

DDragon107
DDragon107

Trophy wife? Proud? There is a thing called a "macho syndrome" and he has it... Think of the way latin men are, especially Mexican men that think women are to stay at home cleaning, cooking and raising the kids. And no, that's not a good example for little girls wether they are latin, black, white, asian or any- especially the ones that want to have a REAL career and go to college to be somebody successful. Porsha is basically telling girls that if you really want to be a "princess" and have a man give you everything, you have to stay home and do whatever he says- in a nutshell. Girls, definitely, Porsha's definition of a princess is not the one in the dictionary and if you're smart, you will know the difference!

TweetyCornelia
TweetyCornelia

what a insult to black woman please just say trophy wife black woman r strong n independent having a man is bounus to our qualities unlike u who needs man because u have none black trophy wife lmao

auntjack51
auntjack51

Porsha I am happy for you, and yes you are a TROPHY WIFE, you are so pretty and this is why so many are hating on you, girl continue to do you and whats working for you and your husband in your marriage. Those old bags that you are on the show with are you first line of haters. Execept for Kandi, thats my girl anyway when there is a couple that is doing as well as you guys do with no drama out of no where your haters will appeal. Jealousy doesn't look good on many. Just look below at a comment that was left by a hater, Oh! Ms hater everyone is entitled to their opinion and this is my. hahahaha!!!!

ShiningStarr
ShiningStarr

Unless Kordell is different off camera, he doesn't seem to put you on a pedastal. He treats you like a child on the show. I'm not sure if you wrote this blog for damage control now that people are seeing that you don't have the picture perfect life/marriage that you want people to think that you have.

MerryLynn
MerryLynn

. I am seventy ande soem advice to you: I would run so far from those old broads. What ever you do, do NOT GO to KENYA'S  party dressed like anyone she suggest to you. She is trying to play you and undermine you.

Stay with your husband and you too get away from the sillyold ass men and the wanna-be female (note, I did not say ladies).

agirl_25
agirl_25

A trophy wife huh...lol...well she is young and dumb as a box of rocks, as someone said, but a trophy wife?  NOT.  She isn't even striking to look at.  Well to me she isn't and I am entitled to my opinion. 

guest1000
guest1000

 @EloiseM He not only filed for divorce but this "excellent example of how real men treat their wives" (your words) told the court he wants to leave her without a cent. Yeah, that's a wonderful example for young women to NOT listen to anything you just said.