Too bad that's exactly what happened.

on Aug 15, 2012 - The Dish

Ramona Singer and Heather Thomson

Remember when Heather Thomson said she just didn't gel with her Real Housewives of New York City co-star Ramona Singer? Yeah, she wasn't joking.

"The last thing I wanted was an altercation with Heather that night," Ramona writes in her blog about the she-said, she-said shouting match that went down at her Ramona Red Wine launch party.



But did R's BFF Sonja Morgan unintentionally pull the pin on their latest grenade? "Sonja had told me that she wasn't being listened to at the photo shoot and wanted me there to make sure her voice was heard -- and told me point-blank that Heather did not want me there. Heather and I had a conversation a few weeks prior that in the future she would communicate with me, so the London scenario wouldn't be repeated."

And here's where that difference of opinion comes into play. "I felt [Heather] should have picked up the phone and said, ‘Ramona you can be a pain in the ass, so I don't want you on the set,'" Ramona says. "I felt Heather was being dishonest to me by not personally conveying I wasn't allowed to be there."

So, back to Sonja stirring the pot instead of the drinks: "After watching the episode, I'm thinking Sonja may be riding both sides of the fence with me and Heather?" Ramona says.

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