Ok all of this is so disturbing and sad that I USED to watch all the episodes of real house wives of new jersey but it's so DRAINING!!! I saw a few of this episode and it's all terrible! I think it's all sad BUT I think everyone has there part in different ways... I will say this Did anyone else notice MELISSA I like her BUT come on telling her husband to yell out the window JOE tell your sister shame on you! Yell it out come on let him get on her don't do that.