The 'Wives weigh in on Aviva's apology and other battles.

on Oct 9, 2012 - The Dish0

Aviva Drescher
The Real Housewives of New York City reunion turned out to essentially be one big, blanket apology from Aviva Drescher, and though she seemed genuinely sorry for her actions through the season, Ramona Singer and Sonja Morgan simply weren't having it. And as is the custom, the 'Wives are expounding upon their reunion arguments and stances in their blogs this week. Here's some choice snippets:

The Aviva Apology Tour Continues: "Tonight I apologized to Ramona and Sonja for the way I spoke to them in St. Barths. I was wrong to allow my emotions get the best of me. As a result, not only did I hurt people, but my message was lost. I have really learned my lesson and only wish that I had sincerely apologized sooner. Seeing myself get over-emotional I know that I have to take a break before I speak. I need to give myself time to process what is going on and how to reconcile the given situation at hand before I offer my own contribution. I see in retrospect how my emotion sometimes blurred my perspective and how I shared it. My problem was that I often said what I was thinking instead of thinking about what I was saying." Read Her Full Post



Ramona Gives Her the Hand: "Aviva, Aviva, Aviva. Where do I begin? It seems as if she allowed her phobias and anxieties to overrule her and our group. It also seems as if Aviva used her anxieties as an excuse for the name calling and displaced anger toward me. Aviva apologized to me on the reunion. Do I believe she is sincere? You tell me. It seems to me that she only decided to apologize after the fans turned on her. The first part of St. Barth’s, Aviva was not there or featured in the episode. She still took it upon herself to write her blog trashing me and Sonja. Leading up to the episode where she lost it, Aviva was talking to many different press outlets and taking to her Twitter to attack us. It was only when there was a major backlash against her on Twitter, the press, and Bravo blog comments that she decided to apologize on the reunion to me. I wish no one ill will and I am taking in Aviva’s apology. I am cautious though as her actions have not matched her words. I do not open my heart easily. I admit I have a tough exterior, but inside I'm a mush ball. I befriended Aviva quickly and am really shocked how things turned out." Read Her Full Post

Carole's First Reunion: "I thought the reunion would be more like the presidential debates -- a few lies and some posturing, a handshake then back home. But there were surprises on the couch. For one thing, it was freezing. It felt like a vault. The room had the ambiance of the opera after the curtain went down and the Phantom had gone home. We were instructed to wear: 1920s evening meets Truman Capote Black & White Ball. This seemed, on the face of it, a contradiction. The famous ball was in 1966, but six of this, half of that. This is the Housewives where contradiction and frack and friction go hand in hand. It felt, a bit, like a closing argument in Law and Order. Objection! Overruled! Steely Glare! It was great fun, with echoes of all the best potboilers, and a little bit of Clue. Who took Colonel Mustard and a Pirate into the Ballroom?" Read Her Full Post

Sonja Sympathizes, But Is Still Scorned: "I just know at that moment when Aviva shared her story, I remembered the girl I first met and who trusted me. The one I embraced happily. I think Aviva's hard on herself so she's hard on others, and if she could wake up each day and love herself and know that other people meet her to love her, that would be a good start. Ramona did not set her up, and I'm not a double dealer! We really did want to be friends with Aviva and her hurtful words are hard to erase. At this point, Aviva's apologies are like the boy who cried wolf. We have to see over time. I hope she can keep her promise this time and not continue to insult me and make up untrue stories, because I cannot accommodate "friends" like that, no matter how hurt they are from past trauma. I have a little girl to support, a world I built for myself, and people who depend on me." Read Her Full Post



Heather's 'Holla' Etymology Lesson: "But before I get into my perspective on Part 1, I would like to take this opportunity to explain why I use the term “holla” and what it means. I will start by telling you that I did not "plan it" as part of my opening title line for the show, it happened while recording my line, "My success is built on making women look and feel there best." In the studio while recording it one of our producers said, "It feel like it needs a 'Heatherism' on the end? Maybe try ending it with something that comes organically to you and we’ll see how it sounds?" “Holla" naturally flowed out of me as a positive shout out to all the ladies who over the past 4 years have been rockin' and lovin' bought my Yummie Tummie products and it stuck. Now I can’t go anywhere without out getting a "holla" from folks I meet on the street, to every tweet #holla and even from my closest friends, who say "holla" when I walk into a room. On Twitter, my newest Jewish friends shout out to me with a "challah" (which is a Jewish bread that is pronounced very much the same way as holla, that among other things, is traditional to Friday night dinner), wishing me a lovely Shabbat and I LOVE IT ALL! It's so fun and feel good! I have always used "holla" as a positive "shout out," or as an "acknowledgement" that I use with friends. Some use it as a follow up, i.e.: "Holla back when you can" when leaving a message. "Holla" is a term that I picked up years ago and whether I am 30 or 42, I use it when it feels right, but it has never defined me until the show aired." Read Her Full Post






6 comments
EllieJ
EllieJ

I hope Aviva does not come back next season. I enjoy watching the show. I'm usually left feeling bad if the story line is built around her. Ramona and Sonja are fun to watch most of the time. Yes, they do act unappropiately off and on but nothing that makes you feel bad like Aviva. Maybe Carole could leave with her.

Whatnow
Whatnow

Avila, I think you are wonderful. I feel that Ramona and Sonja are crass, crude and unrefined. I also feel as though you did allow your emotions to take over. You were hurt and disappointed in two women who you thought were your friends. I know you regret how you responded and you have taken responsibility for your mistakes. Move on and don't waste your time and energy on those two. You are much better than that.

linnin@1
linnin@1

Really just how sorry are you? You need to get a real life just saying. You can always come and hang with the real housewives of our White Trash town!

abbys_mom
abbys_mom

Aviva expected everyone in St Barths to treat her and Reid as royalty, which they arent. I'm sick and tired of hearing her whine about her anxieties. She is so hooked to Reid its ridiculous. She needs to focus on acting like an adult and not some needy child.

EllieJ
EllieJ

Aviva posts, her problem is she will often say what she is thinking instead of thinking of what she is saying. That sounds like another Rush Limbaugh type line.  So all the vile comments you made toward Ramona and Sonaj, you meant and you feel, but you made the mistake of

telling them.   I cant help feeling you had to hold yourself back from biting your tongue off when you were apologizing during the Reunion. If I were Ramona and Sonaj, I would stay as 

far away from you as possible. Ramona was right.  You did a big turn around when you saw reaction from viewers because of your terrible hate filled comments.

You'll always have Carole. She can sympathize with you again.

EllieJ
EllieJ

@Whatnow I don't think Aviva regrets her behavior one little bit. Whether you Like or dislike Ramona or Sonja, they did not deserve her coming at them as she did. Aviva continued this hate campaign up to one month before the Reunion and yet wants them to believe she is sincere.