unbelievable...even schoolgirls have the decency to talk behind the other girls back.  Tamra is utterly classless.  You would think some of that money would by some tact.  I don't care one fig if Alexis is pretentious.  Their behavior was despicable and therefore completely overshadowed whatever unforgiveable offense Alexis may have committed.  Has anyone noticed how Tamra gets along with no one for any length of time? 

Tamara can dish it out but can't take it. Will Tamara ever post again or will Gretchen and Heather be her puppet and do her talking for her.

Really tamra, the trailer trash ignorance comes through a lot now. You are so wrapped up in trying to appear the victim and not the bully it's nauseating. I really hope Eddie opens his eyes before saying I do. Your little lap dogs heather and Gretchen are the only things as nauseating as you. Grow up please.

The letter writer is probably the only person more clueless and offensive than Tamra Barney- but its a definitely a close race.

I was really disturbed by the "women's" behavior during tonight's episode, but what REALLY just made me loose the little respect I had left for her, was when Tamra referred to her Eddie's inner "BEANER", really Tamra, just goes to show that you are a person with no class or respect for others. Even more puzzling was that Eddie was not offended by your remark, so he was a let down too! FYI...BRAVO, last I checked the word "Beaner" is just as offensive as the N word for most of us (not Eddie :o(..)

Tamara should not drink, she is physco when she drinks!

Barney's bullying, Heather's hubris.....I miss the old days.

What is going on with Gretchen and Tamra. Gretchen is being so mean since the first few episodes about Alexis. How does Alexis all of a sudden become her enemy when she was the only one with her and Slade when everyone was not. And she doesn't even care. At least Tamra seems to care about Vicki. Tamra and Gretchen should be long gone out of Tv and take Heather with them.. Unless they get their thing together don't they see how they look on Tv.

Tamra is obnoxious, and I can't stand watching Gretchen and Slade together, what a group of posers! What the viewers see: Tamra jumps from man to man, never finding her own identity, and so insecure to be on her own without a man, she rushes into another relationship. Poor kids! Gretchen Slade is a joke, and you are so fake! Your were treated so poorly by Tamra in the beginning, and now you are acting just like her!

In a society that is constantly talking about bullying and mean girls these education blessed women are contributing to the problem. I am not sure who is worse Tamra or Heather. Their better then thou attitude makes me want to vomit.

Where Tamra went wrong is when she told Vicky, Alexis could attend her party. There are just some people that can't get along. I don't think Alexis should be playing this victim bully card. Tamra, Heather and Gretchen in my opinion were not bulling Alexis. Look at some of the comments here about Tamra if we go by Alexis's "meaning" of bulling then its looks like these comments are bulling Tamra.

I was disgusted at how Tamra treated Alexis Bellino. All the women at that table ganged up on Vicki, and Alexis. If you are that insecure and feel the need to be vicious because of it, then you need to take a really close look at yourself. I understand defending yourself at the same time, I think you should conduct yourself like a lady. Kicking a woman out and treating her in that manner and spouting out as she's leaving is not only childish but disgustingly unsophisticated.

AMEN CALICORVETTE!!!! WELL SAID :)

Okay....Tamra Barney is an idiot. A total screeching shrew. Shes on this show because shes "the one they love to hate", but seriously, think back...look at her behavior throughout her stint on RHOC...she's zeroed in on someone every season and just pecked the eyeballs outa her victim like the old crow she is. And is it any wonder the boyfriend appears to be getting chilly feet when it comes to this bag and her baggage? I own several successful salons in the Santa Barbara area. I count on my good name and impeccable service as well as good decent behavior to bring in my amazing clientelle. Tamra's nasty attitude and the way she looks down on people she knows(such as cast mates) , trashing them all at every opportunity should be a HUGE red flag for anyone thinking of joining her gym. If she'll cut down her friends and laugh all the way to the bank doing it, why would anyone in thei right mind pay her to add themselves to her list of potential targets. Actions...and boy does she have a ton of them...speak so much louder than words...unless you're Tamra. In her case she should just sit down and shut it..."

Why are we listening to Tamera read her own letters? I bet this is her sister!!