I am so happy for her..you are so beautiful and fun Tamara...you do what makes you happy...

I am happy for Tamara! I was in a 8 year relationship engaged to be married and broke everything off....within 3 months I found my now husband who makes me happier than I ever thought was possible! Who are we to judge! Live life to the fullest as we don't know what tomorrow will bring!

Way to go , Tamra! What are you supposed to do, what until Simon is ready for you to move on? Forget that, he filed for divorce so it's his loss. You do your thing. You only live once.

Go get your lovin tamara! you deserve it!

All I have to say is "You go Girl"!! If your Happy that is entirely all that counts.

i like Tamra but dam girl you move fast.

Who wouldnt be happy for someone coming out of a divorce to find love - fast or not.

VERY HAPPY FOR TAMRA!!!! She deserves to find happiness after having put up that jerk Simon for so long... and after being verbally attacked about her divorce by that lowlife Gretchen!!! You go, girl!!! Tell everyone else to kiss off!

I LOVE IT! LIVE YOUR LIFE AND BE HAPPY!! YOU DESERVE IT TAMARA!!

Absolutely...Simon was (is) a total jerk...she deserves to be happy.

Go Tamara! Simon was a belittling jackass!

wont last. rebound love. happens frequently with newly separated couples. this guy is showing her the attention she craved and she was vulnerable for this kind of affection. she is in lust not love. and she is not divorced yet...this will be hard on her younger children. I hope she hasnt introduced him into their lives.

Very Very happy for her! Even if it's a temp thing.

You know, she did glow last night. In fact, she wasn't as "mean" and confrontational to others last night... I agree, don't let the grass grow under your feet.

Realistically, she and Simon have been done for a very long time. Gotta give her credit for trying to stick it out for the kids, but that's not always the healthiest for the kids.

Ya know, more power to Tamra! It doesn't make her a freaky woman, she knows what she wants, plain and simple. Is that something I would do as a woman? No. Then again I'm 26, have never been married and don't have kids. If she emotionally left Simon 5 years ago, then she's ready to be loved how she wants to be loved. Do the damn thing girl!

Good for you Tamra. I have been watching the show since the beginning and I am truly happy for you. I never really agreed with how Simon treated your son. It seems as if you were always caught in the middle. No marriage can work that way, nevermind all the other struggles you had. I was in a very abusive marriage (mentally). I stayed bacuase of our children they were not yet 1 and 2 before I finally couldn't take anymore. Once I left I never looked back. Here I am now married for almost 9 years been together for 11 years. We are so much in love it is amazing. You will find that man that accepts everything about you. When you do I will be so happy for you and your children. CONGRATS AGAIN

That is way to soon for her.But i'm glad she found someone at least she is happy.Congrats Tamra!Still way to early!

good for you Tamara,.... Simon is a big control freak!!!

Tamara is the pot calling the kettle black! Her true colors are coming out, in my opinion. She has only been separated from Simon a month or two and she has already found love? Gimme a break! She was obviously cheating on Simon. She threw such a huge can of whoop ass towards Gretchen and now she is doing everything she apparently hated Gretchen for. I knew Tamara was jealous of Gretchen and now her actions absolutely prove that! She wanted a similar life and was frustrated at not being able to have that, well I hope she is happy, be careful what you wish for Tamara.

Just shows how big of a hypocrite Tamra really is!! She wanted to say all that crap about Gretchen and how fast her and Slade got together after Jeff passed and here she is "in love" with this guy, and the divorce hasn't even gone thru!!

If Tamra is happy who are we to judge? Everyone deserves happiness in their life and as we all know, Tamra and Simon were far from happy with each other. Divorce is hard for anyone and children, but it's what we allow our children to see and hear about each other that matters. Tamra's children, besides her oldest son, probably will not be reading blogs, articles or interviews from either parent since they are so young. Vicki was divorced when her children were young and remarried Donn, a great person/father/husband. I believe any child would rather have a happy parent than a lonely one.

Omg!!! Yes...so happy for her. Simon ...he was a jerk to her! Tamra never changed as always described by Simon, he just realized that a lot of people like her and he hates that. I love Tamra she is one of my favorites.

Did someone say "rebound" "honeymoon phase"? I wish Tamra only the very best. But it's too soon. She has 3 little children whose lives have been disrupted. As a former single parent myself, she needs to focus on their needs and settling them. The last thing Tamra needs (right now, so early) is another love interest. Tamra, think, lady! Slow down! Test yourself - is this love, or lust?

I am totally happy for her! Everyone needs love, and you only live once! Good for you Tamra!

who are we to judge tamra, come on. its her life let her live it the way she so chooses. have you walked in her shoes? i seriously doubt it so before you decide to say anything, think. think long and hard. would you want to be judged for the way you are living your life? hmmm?

Look Tamra you need to be a better friend to vicki, you let Vicki out to dry! If you can't be a good friend, then how can you be a good partner? Liz

I like Tamara and Simon together until this last season..who knows what goes on behind closed doors. Good for her and good luck with the new guy.I hope all your dreams come true. But first can we get rid of Alexis and her husband. They are trying to ride on everyone elses coat tails and believe me they are not up to the task. POSERS...does this guy even know that he has kids?? Wife? Respect? Are you serious? These 2 need to get a grip.! Oh I am sorry he is a god fearing man!!!!!!!!!!!! I guess we all have dilussions of what our" GOD" thinks is proper. People who shove religion into other peoples faces are hiding something....sorry....if you are a good christian there is no need to advertise it...your actions will speak for themselves.

I am Happy that she finally got out of the relationship with Simon BUT...I think after being in an abusive relationship she needs time to heal and find herself. She is only setting herself up for potential disaster. Date have fun but most importantly find herself.

My comment is about Gretchen and Slade. On the OC Reunion Show, both Vicki and Tamara said that Slade was dating Gretchen, as he has other housewives, just to be in the limelight on TV. Well, he proved it on the reunion show last night. He was lashing out at Vicki, which is a huge mistake! Vicki is the Queen of OC, and deserves respect. And, he just couldn't seem to shut his mouth, proving that he wants the limelight shining on him. I think he's disgusting!He gives me the creeps. Gretchen better wake up before it's too late. I think her mother can see the slime that is Slade. I'm a 60 year old grandmother, and I can see him for what he is, right through the television set!

After ALL the comments she made about Gretchen moving on TOO soon. I don't get it?! She's quick enough to point fingers at everyone else but NOT herself.

I'm very happy for Tamara.I hope the next man in her life and heart lets her be herself and not what his idea of what he wants her to be .

Is it just me or is she moving way to fast the ink on the divorce hasn't even dried yet. I just hope that her kids don't get hurt in the mean time they are so little they don't understand what is going on. She needs to stop thinking about her labito and start thinking about her little ones.

I'm glad she found someone. Now maybe she'll get off of Gretchen's back for finding new love so quickly.

I think she needs to find out what SHE wants out of life and not latch onto another guy just yet. Latin lovers are great but in my experience and the experiences of other close to me the majority tend to be very controlling of their women once you are "theirs". Read some books, talk to a professional and find out why you are attracted to this type of man before repeating mistakes again and again. Best wishes.

I am very happy for Tamra. She does not need to be around someone like Simon. Life is short. Gretchen needs to wake up an see Slade for what he really is.. He has her sooooo snowed. Gretchen do not trust Slade. He is using you... Seems like Vickie an Don are the only ones that make any sense to me.. Alexus makes mountains out or molehills. Stop picking on Vickie. Try to understand her. I like Jim.

I am very happy for Tamara! She is my fav. housewife, she is real and down to earth. And Simon, thank God she got rid of him. He was so obviously jealous of her, he made me sick the way he treated her. I have stayed in a marriage like that for 9 years, and needless to say, I found happiness in a wonderful man that loves me and the two children that I have from first marriage. Tamara will be just fine and I am so happy that she has a new man. What's the use in waiting around?!!

you go Tamra you need someone to take care of you and respect you they way you deserve and not control your every move. your beautiful,smart and a great mom so don't let anyone change that about you

Good for you Tamra. Simon was a controlling ass. I can't believe Jeanne said you should be with him. She has some nerve, isn't she divorced!!! And I hope you and Vicki are friends for life. She is a true friend to those who deserve it. Good Luck moving forward.

I'm so glad for her. She put up with so much for too long. I felt so bad for the way Simon treated her. I hope this new guy waits on her hand and foot. She needs to see what real love feels like and especially when its a hot Latin Lover. I have mine and I would'nt trade him for the world. Now Tamara can dress sexy. I hated when Simon told her dress like a married wife. OMG roll over and die. Then she obeyed.Tamara tried so hard.I think Simon was oppresive with Tamara. I wish her the best and she is a GOOD MOM.

OC Housewives Reunion:

Simon,,,you showed good judgement and true concern for your family by "not" coming to the reunion show! Many women would love to have a loving devoted husband like you. However, in todays society the "family" is not the same as back in the day! Some things are better and some are not! I have been where Tamera is and now looking back I'm sorry to say that I too had a midlife crisis and made a complete and total idiot of myself. It may be "fun" for her now, but the day will probably come when she wakes up and sees that nothing is more important than marriage and family. All of the midlife chaos will settle and Tamera may very well regret looking back at last nights show that her little ones will watch someday and feel sad. A mother is a mother is a mother, and right now I don't believe she is thinking clearly? I may be wrong, but I can tell you for sure that for most "the grass is not greener for very long." May the coming year bring peace and love to your family. Bella PS, Tamera my heart goes out to you as I have been where you are and now five years later I look back at the path of pain I caused. Why??? Well, I guess it was all about ME and now I am deeply ashamed and sorry for the pain I caused my family.

Of course! Doesn't a girl deserve to be happy? Especailly after being released from the clutches of Simon!

Tamra you go girl!!! life is too short, live it to the fullest! Latin lover are the best in bed so have fun =P

Yes, I am happy for her..She seemed in so much pain on the reunion show..Everyone deserve's happiness..Hopefully this one won't be so controlling..

It is a liitle soon is it, Look the way she talks about Gretchen with Slade.

WOW! Wasn't she looking all hollier than thou, when Gretchen dated soon after her boyfriend died. No wonder she hated Gretchen so much she wanted to be her and Simon was stopping her. I have a ? for Tamara. She believed everything that Gretchens, informant said about her, should we now believe everything that Simon said.

I don't care and I wish she wold not return next season. Jeana and Laura, please come back!!!!!!!!!!

Yes I am happy for her. I think if she is happy then we all should be happy for her. It is her life and what she decides is up to her. I am truly happy for her. I can't say I am sad about her divorce, it seemed he was alittle too controling. Like with the whole dress thing. She should be able to dress the way she wants, she was still going with him. Not like she was dressing that way and going to a club to pick up men. She is a strong woman and if she got hit on then let it be. It is flattering but I am sure she would have just left it at that. Men say women are more jealous than men, I believe it is the other way around. You go girl! Live YOUR life!

GO TAMARA!!!!!!!!

I am happy for her! You know they had been married for all those years and then when she get on this show, they end up getting a divorce!! There is two sides to every story and nobody knows what really went on behind close doors at their house but them & the children. I don't think she should be sad or dwelling in the past, but I still think it is too fast..

Right on Tamra! I am sure that you will be treated like you deserve to be treated with your new latin lover! They are very compassionate and know how to treat ladies. Sure, it seems a little bit fast, but you have been miserable for awhile with Simon bringing you down all these years and you deserve to be happy! Wish you all the best girl! It's so good when you can be yourself and not let anyone hold you down! Simon needs to be with someone who will do whatever he says. Really really sad that he is so controlling. I hope that you have inspired women to take a stand and not allow men to try and control them. Love you girl!

I'm soooooo happy for her. She seems to be a great girl she deserves to find a good man !!!!!