Bravo bites you missed last night (or saw and have to see again.)

Oct 28, 2009 - The Dish0

The Flipping Out reunion special was last night, and if you saw it, you probably spent time this morning Googling Jeff Lewis and Ryan Brown to see if Ry-guy is really a Google link stealer/deceptive web site webmaster/manipulative BS'er/snake in the grass. Unfortunately the clip below won't clear any of that up; think of it more as a PSA on inter-office dating. The message? It won't end well.

So, who shouldn't be "able to f'ing sleep at night"? Vote here!

59 comments
Niecy
Niecy

Does anyone know when the new season is going to start again? I can't wait to start watching it again. Tanks

kellie
kellie

Jeff I totally adore you. I want to hangout with you and Zoila, drink martinis!!! Can't wait fot the new season! your taste is impecable!!! (THINK I SPELT THAT WRONG.) HEHE1

Kevin01
Kevin01

One has to ask yourself : Can I live, be happy and content with this person not in my life? There have been times I have actually hurt myself more from an action than it was worth being right.

thoreau
thoreau

Jeff/Ryan,

I've never partaken in a blog before but I just finished watching the reunion. I'm 43 and I lost my 45 year old husband last year and I am telling you both - it's too late then. I think you are both amazing with a rare friendship and it's not about right or wrong, life is not that black & white but a million shades or grey and there was no evil intent - it's simply a misunderstanding that is not worth losing what you have. I would do anything to have one more day with my husband/best friend - you have that opportunity and you're both foolish if you don't take it. In any case, I wish you both the best.

blt
blt

sometimes you just have to move on..

paula l
paula l

I recently started watching the show again,after being turned off by Jeff's caustic personality. Since returning to the show in this season,I've noticed a change in Jeff that has made the show more palatable to watch. It's a funny, cerebral, sad slice of his life that he has allowed the public to be a part of. Maybe it was good for him to see himself in the 3rd person on TV. Sorry for the loss of your friendship, but maybe it had to happen for something better to take its place. I love Zoila and Jenny and hope the best for them as well.

Paula, Bklyn, NY BigUp!

Kim in St.Louis
Kim in St.Louis

Jeff, I think you are HILARIOUS! I totally get your humor. I don't find it "unkind," I think it's cerebral and it's clear that Zoila and Jenny and Jett get the joke too. Love, love, love you.

kirk
kirk

i just think from watching- that jeff is still in love with ryan!! why not let it go?

DH
DH

I believe Jeff is right, but when it comes to family or a close frined that you could say is family, does it matter who is right or wrong.

Think about this for one second both of you. If either one of you were in an accident right now hangging on for life, do you think this matter (how great or small it might be) would it really matter, I think all you would be thinking is (hoping your friend is okay), not one minute would be spend on the situation would it?

I know its hard to think this way, but honestly you don't know how long you are here for, so just think on that for a moment,

Have a good day, Chloe is very lucky to have all of you who love her. Don't let that slipp away. The world can be cruel, and she will need to see that problems, disagreements can be worked out.

Just takes work. Anything worth having does not come easy. Ask yourself why should it.

Work hard at it Jeff and Ryan GIving up is not an option, time maybe, but not giving up totally. Love you guy's Bye

Jean
Jean

this is my FAVORITE show on t.v.! Its funny, sad, entertaining, and interesting! Wish you were in NC and would come and do my house! I hope the relationship between Jeff and Ryan can be repaired! Can't wait for next season!!!

Mari T.
Mari T.

Jeff, my heart was breaking for you last night as I watched the reunion show. I think you are a great guy with a heart of gold. This was the best season yet for Flipping Out. I disagree with Andy, you were not reflected in a negative manner On the contrary I think you were more honest than ever. Do not be embarrassed by any emotion you have shown, the walls came down a bit and what we saw on the other side was a really nice guy. (Don't cringe!) P.S. Forgive Ryan. The relationship you guys have is more important than your blasted egos. Lastly, Hi Jenni, Hi Zoila, love you guys!

Tish
Tish

Jeff, you and Ryan have to much to lose, get some perspective and you and Ryan should have a good sitdown alone. Counseling can really help you both if you truly want to save your relationship. I do not know if your friendship is saveable, but im so hoping that you to can come to a better situation then the one you have now. Good luck and God bless.

SeanaScruggsViewer
SeanaScruggsViewer

Love Ya! You are so funy! Great Person.Love you and your Design's.Can't wait for season 4.You are not crazy it's Life that is crazy.My mother alway's told me "Get A Back Bone and Be Strong!"That alway's seemed to help me get over thing's faster.God Luck,I will Pray for your heart to mend. Seana

South Carolina

Trishcuit
Trishcuit

I cannot believe I was moved to tears at the pain both Ryan and Jeff allowed us to see. Such betrayal. None of us know what really happened- even Jeff. My advice would be to try to get past it- for Chloe's sake. You may not ever feel the same about him, but might find Ryan was innocent. I think perhaps he was misguided, although I would have felt the same way. But Jeff trusted Ryan for so many years for a reason so until he's proven to be a liar and a cheat you gotta keep that faith. Just be on guard. Forgiving is not always forgetting.

Babyshoe
Babyshoe

Jeff, love you, Jenni/Deb, and Zoila! ("C'mon Jeff!") Just watched the Reunion show, and my heart is broken for you all. Although I suspect you are probably right about Ryan, I say let it go. Sometimes, it is better to be happy than be right. (Just ask my husband!) Looking forward to Season 4, because you guys are flippin' hilarious. Knew you would find out where Jenni lives! What took you so long?

cocoa
cocoa

jeff,keep your head up!

Christina Johnson
Christina Johnson

Jeff, I want to thank you for showing yourself in a different light. I have always enjoyed watching you. Your sense of humor puts a smile on my face and I know that you mean no harm to anyone that gets put in the punch line. Please don't be so hard on yourself about being "ocd" being organized/controlling just shows that you know what you want and you know what you need to do to get it. I see it as wisdom. I hope you and Ryan find peace I would really like to see you guys work it out. There is no denying the chemistry you both have. Thank you again for making my heart smile you are a real MAN!!

Kimberly Jane
Kimberly Jane

WOW!...What a horrible ending!...I feel for them both as I watched this season unfold & saw how the Jeff was putting puzzle pieces together that would later show his best friend as a dishonest person was very upseting...From personal experiences I can say that Nothing Is Ever As It Appears To Be!...I do feel like Ryan might have made a few bad choices BUT I don't suspect he was intentionally out to harm or theft from his long time companion and friend and business partner. WHAT WOULD HE HAVE TO GAIN!!!....He had more to loose and unfortunately for everyone thats what happend...I would love to season 4 begin with where last night left off...Which was Jeff and Ryan making peace not WAR and moving on in the best interest of Chloe and themselves with LOVE not HATE or distrust in their hearts...Jeff is someone that does have a big heart and compassion and I hope he shares that with us AGAIN next season...Thanks for making a short, ugly, old fat girl smile with your wonderful show!!!!...

friendships
friendships

I can understand how hurt you are Because you still have strong bond . I wish more people could feel your passion for love,trust and friendship. Just realy think about your future and your pass and you should find your answer. GOOD LUCK GUYS

P.S Love your show your are doing what i always dreamed of, keep up the good work

Neal
Neal

Life is too short to be so angry. Being unable to forgive is a form of self-abuse. Take some time and find a way to make up. It's not worth losing someone who means so much.

christy
christy

jeff, i have a dear friend alot like you. he only lets a few people in his circle but in doing that it puts alot of pressure on those few friends of being perfect and being always under a microscope.

Rebecca, St Louis, MO
Rebecca, St Louis, MO

Jeff I cried last night watching it. I have never seen you show so much emotion as I did this season. I hope you do have a child in the near future. You would make a great father. All I can say is, I hope you and Ryan can work through this, regardless of what really happened. I can tell that you truly love each other. I think you should forgive him, and give him a second chance. I have family members that have disappointed me many times, but you keep on loving anyway, because it is the right thing to do.

Lisa Dawn
Lisa Dawn

I love your show. You and Ryan break my heart. I hope you take this as a learning experience and stop doing business with your close friends and family. I fear for you and your brother's relationship if you keep your sister in law as your realitor. Think about it...

Jeff T
Jeff T

Jeff,

WOW!! What a reunion show! Clearly you are hurt by what you feel Ryan did or even attempted to do. The way I see it Ryan may never apologize (that would mean he was culpable and that could hurt any future business)I've been there w/ 2 brothers. Definitely not a fun feeling. My partner and I have watched since season 1. We look forward to season 4! Tell DEB we said hey! (love her!) actually entire cast is great!

Jeff Ft. Lauderdale

DMarieDar
DMarieDar

My God, I don't believe I've ever felt as much emotion as I felt watching the interaction between Jeff and Ryan on the show last night. My heart hurt just as the both of them did. All I can say to Jeff is that if he could focus on Ryan's genuine love for him that just maybe he could find an answer in this mess. Is the answer to shut him out your life? Maybe not. Yes he may have betrayed you, but for as many times as you would like God to forgive you is as many times as you should forgive your brother. You guys love eachother. Is being right or wrong even important at this point? I would think no.

cathyrose
cathyrose

Jeff, I watched your show last night and saw how deeply upset you are with Ryan. He is telling you that he didnt do anything. I think he is telling you the truth. HE didnt do anything, but I'm sure that someone else did and he knows it. In the end, you know that in order for you to move on, you have to forgive. You don't have to like it, but forgive for your own sake. Things happen for a reason and every experience that you go through is what you created. Forgive and move on.

Central Cal Gal
Central Cal Gal

Jeff and Ryan: You both need to let it go! People enter and exit your lives all the time. However, that's people you two are family and family needs to be there for one another. It is apparent that there is still strong feelings between the two of you and it would be so sad to not see you guys put this behind you and make season 4 a happy season of great successes and a time to reflect on what's really important in life which is relationships that are dear to you. All my best wishes to you to reconcile and to many years of happiness.

Reshawnda
Reshawnda

I love this show and Jeff I want to say "I'm Sorry" in hopes that, that will enable you to move forward and forgive. At the end of the day when its time to rest forgiveness will ensure that you receive yours. At this point all that you are able to do is pray for people who betray you as did Jesus to Judus.What makes you a better person is your heart and the love inside to enable you to be BIGGER and forgive as Jesus did for us.

Kaye D
Kaye D

Hi Jeff, I'm your biggest fan! Last nights show was unbelievable to watch...so sad! I've watched from day one and can't wait for next season. Jenny and Zoila are your support so use them. Forgiveness is what both you and Ryan need...think about Chloe; she is an innocent little girl who knows you and loves you and wants you around. Jenny, I've been a personal assistant to a real estate agent for many years so I really relate to you and your position...you're my idol!!

diane williams
diane williams

Love the show.Any problems between Jeff and Ryan need to work themselves out if it's meant to.Sometimes your first suspect feelings are the right ones.I hope not.Whatever season 4 brings...hang on...it will be a bumpy ride!!!!

Robert N Kearney
Robert N Kearney

Jeff i'm vary proud of you, how you opened up, you needed to vent and get it off your chest, you love and really care for him, time will tell, moving forward your the best, and motivting to people. . Good luck,

Melsy
Melsy

Love you Jeff. Love you Ryan. Take some time and some deep breaths and move ahead. Good friends aren't easy to come by.

TD
TD

Love you Jeff!! I hope you find peace and happiness soon, you deserve it. Looking forward to next season!

paul m
paul m

Jeff, I know that you are hurt but you should forgive Ryan for yourself. You said you could forgive him if he apologized so forgive him anyway. It is not always important to be right, it is more important to be loved. Chloe loves you and you love her so forgive for her.

JC
JC

Jeff, my family and I love your show and wish you and your staff nothing but the best. I love how you care for Zoila; and deep down is such a great guy. In regards to Ryan, I hope you can forgive him and give him a second chance. We're not perfect beings in any way and all of us fall short at one time or another. My heart goes out to you during this time and I hope to see you next season.

SueB
SueB

Jeff, I just hated what happened to you. I found a quote to help me through the worst betrayal of the closest person in my life a few yrs. ago... "Life is like a garden. Quite naturally, leaves wither ande flowers fade. Only if we clear the decay of the past then and there can we really enjoy the beauty of the new leaves and flowers. Likewise, we must clear the murkiness of past bad experiences from our minds. Life is remembrance in forgetfulness. Forgive what ought to be forgiven; forget what ought to be forgotten. Let us embrace life with renewed vigor...We should be able to enjoy every moment of life with renewed expectation, like a freshly blossomed flower." Mata Amritanandamayi

Jackie R
Jackie R

Jeff, Love your show!! I hate to say this but I had to watch twice the last episode unfortunally I had tears in my eyes both times. I was hoping for a different outcome. I totally understand where your coming from. I've also lost close friends in the past due to dishonest situations. Like you, I give everything to my friends and family and the only thing I expect from them is their love, trust, respect and loyalty. Once they break that I can never be the same. I admire you for confronting Ryan it only shows that what you feel inside it's nothing but REAL, and that's enough proof to me! Good luck with season 4 and remember YOU ARE A GOOD MAN!!! Jackie Moreno Valley, CA.

Gloria S
Gloria S

two words, just two words, (i'm sorry) would change the whole dynamic for the next season, i can't believe after all those months that they didn't speak to one another neither ryan or jeff could see the danger of what would happen, for all of jeffs' ocd pleeease get over yourself. zoila, please put him back to bed for a few days...

Midge Borer
Midge Borer

Hi Jeff, I love your show. You're extremely talented and passionate about your work. There are times though when I can't tell whether you're kidding or not and I believe the same holds true for the people around you. I do love your sarcasm and dry wit. Also, I love when you smile and laugh, you don't do that enough. I can't wait for next season. Midge, Dumont NJ

Bev K.
Bev K.

Jeff,

Your show is my favorite above all other shows! I love the cast, the animals and the interactions of everyone. I watched last night and I am so sorry about you and Ryan. I want you to know we have a big God and I am praying for you guys.I know He loves both of you and can restore your friendship and trust.

"Call unto me and I will answer you and show you great and mighty things."

Jeremiah 33:3

hatty
hatty

Poor Ryan...this may really hurt his business. He's now been labeled as a cheat and a liar.

Cathleen
Cathleen

Hi Jeff, I too noticed all season long that Ryan was acting different. Even on the tapings of just him or him and his staff he seemed extremely nervous and jumpy. His mannerisms and the way he spoke (he used to be more laid back) Not only the google thing was a poor choice on his part but the magazine article and what really pissed me off was the smug way he came over to your office to tell you about the "Hollywood client" That was not cool. I love your show and I will hope for a 4th season because I love to watch you work, your sense of humor, etc. I hope we can also see more interaction with Oliver and Casey next season, they are too funny! Monkey too! Ryan and Dale need to move out of LA and go somewhere where they can be fake together and not get on tv for it. Take care Jeff! Cathleen Delaware, Ohio

Lisa P
Lisa P

How sad for everyone involved. Especially Chloe! She obviously loves you, Jeff, very much. Could the mistrust be put aside for the sake of the baby? It would be heartbreaking if you lost them both. I enjoy your show and everyone on. Can't wait for season 4! I will pray that things get better and that they work out for the best.

WW~
WW~

I seemed like a short season this year, but LOTS of drama...Love it! I hope Jeff & Ryan make up, the show won't be the same without Ryan in the picture. He's a big part of Jeff's life. I think Ryan shouldn't be declared guilty until Jeff has proof of his suspicions. In life a lot of things are not what they seem. Can't wait for the next season. Jenny needs a boyfriend and I'd like to meet Jeff's new partner. Jeff, I absolutely love you and the show.

rachellehcar
rachellehcar

Ryan bought a domain....sponsored it....and used Jeff Lewis name as a jump word to google and get to his site. and never had jeff lewis information on his site. Ryan sits all innocent. he is smart. he knew jeff lewis name would bring in the clients. such a slime ball

Just Diane
Just Diane

Great, fast-moving show. Loved the reunion but would have called it "intervention." Why weren't the dogs interviewed(?; they see a lot from their level. Jeff is right on-track with Ryan's betrayal. Why do you think Ryan wants to get-outta-Dodge? Jeff needs to adopt next season; would love to see him flip a diaper. Just Diane - Milford, PA

LaDell
LaDell

Jeff and Ryan: There isn't a right or a wrong. There is only love and understanding. Sometimes, one or both need to "man up" and forgive and forget. If you love someone, it isn't a hard thing to do. Time does heal all wounds.

Jeff: I love the show! You sarcism cracks me up! Try to "play well with others"..No running with scissors!

Ryan: You;re a great guy and I hope we will see more of you in this next season. If not, good luck and God Bless you and your wonderful family!

LaDell Danville, IL

KarlaViewer
KarlaViewer

I think you handled yourself with perfection, Mr. Jeff!!! Truth rises to the top, and you are the tops!!! Hang in there!

Doris
Doris

I totally love watching Jeff on the show. He has such a personality. He will say something off the wall and I just turn to my husband and say, "I just love this guy". I would love to set quietly in a corner and just watch what happens during the day while they are taping.