Brandi:  I SO underderstand why you didn't want details from Scheana.  You shouldn't have to go through that.  I've been in situations when my ex took his new spouse to the same places that he took me and had her wearing the same shirts of his that I used to wear.  I felt so unspecial, and I can see how you didn't need that -- you've been hurt enough, but I wish you weren't worried about looking weak.  Your crying -- especially about your concern for your kids, enears you to us - makes us feel closer to you..  Him cheating with Scheana is not because she's more beautiful than you.  You are both beautiful, and I think you are more striking and interesting.  Your love for your kids is obvious.   At the same time, I think other people like me -- not being part of the situation --may have been able to see that you both have more in common than you think.  You were both betrayed by him, although it is more wounding for you, since you had a marriage and children to look after.   What he did to your family was aggregious -- Nevertheless, you both are lucky to be free of him.  If you ever listen to Dr. Drew, he'll tell you that 20-something men and women tend to be awful to each other, and I think that Scheana, despite the fact that she lacks the wisdom of age, was honestly trying to explain how she got sucked into Eddie's web.  I don't think she was trying to wound you by explaining the time and attention he paid her.  I think she was trying to explain how she  got seduced into believing he was separated and invested in the fraudulent relationship.  I feel fairly certain that Eddie took advantageous of the fact tha she was young and stupid, and that she is less to blame than Eddie, and that the pain of having him cheat on her with Leanne, as well as the conversation she had with you,  has taught her how to understand the pain you've been through..   I'm woried for you about Adrienne.  Either the way the show is edited, or the things you are projecting about it aren't helping you, because you are so vague about what it is that Paul and Adrienne did to you.   Unless you ge more specific about that in the show I think public opinion will not be on your side.   

Brandi, THANK YOU watching the show especially this particular episode made me happy(and that's rare these days).   I am going through a very similar Divorce when I watch the show I feel as if my soon to be ex husband and your ex are BFF's.. Watching this episode that you sat with the other women, everything you said is everything I would love to have the chance to say to my other women.. Questions that I would love to have answered you got your questions answered.. I know I will never have that closure... Thank you again... I can't wait to get your book

-- Brandi you need to get help!! Your not married anymore to Eddie.. I found it sickening that you wanted to confront Scheana about the affair, "DETAIL BY DETAILS"" is what you were pushing for .. I was waiting for LeAnn Rimes to pull a cameo appearance. So Scheana could confront her as well ... I bet Eddie watched the show with a big chessy smile, As you made a"DAMN FOOL""of yourself..

Brandi

You are a rockstar! We single moms are the true winners from bad marriages. Your kids are your gift. My daughter is my everything. I am glad I got her away from our situation b/c I did not want her growing up thinking that is how a man treats a women. You will teach those boys of yours different. Break the cheating cycle. Surround them with good positive people in good relationships. Hang in there...you have come so far since last year.

Brandi,

Keep up the modeling career!  You are beautiful!  Stop being so negative about yourself. 

Remember, once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!  Eddie and Leeann will not last, he WILL go looking and SHE will always wonder....... I'm sorry you lost the love of your life but girl your worth so much more then THAT!!!  

Peace & Prayer's 

Brandi uses her conversations  to wound people. She  thinks that telling the truth at any cost is a mighty thing; Here's the thing Brandy; if you're causing harm you're not doing good. Maybe ask ext time if that someone would like your input, if the answer no you need to respect that.  Telling someone to" shut the f up" is so far out of bounds it's  crazy.  When the tables are turned  and you get called on the carpet, you run out of the room, cry and  suddenly become the victim.  Are you that narcissistic to think that your above consequences?

Brandi , I feel so badly for you because you remind me of me! I say what I think and don't lie to people. I've watched most of these girls at one time or another, be horribly ugly to you and while you don't take any crap from people you really tried very hard to fit in with these girls! The only person whom I've seen be a friend is ( of course) Lisa , she's a class act. I'd swear that she was from the south ( not Britain :). Getting to my point, I hope that you stay true to your heart and values! We all are eccentric in our own way but I want to say this for the record. You have Never been as ugly to these girls as they have been to you. Kyle and Kim especially ( and later Adrienne and Paul and we all saw that you and Lisa were right ! They were liars and disgusting people) When I saw how awful those two acted toward you I wanted to slap them. Kim did not surprise me At All! But Kyle kind of did! How nasty they were to you and all that you did was try to take up or yourself! Honestly, EVERYTIME you have a problem it is because you are ambushed. Believe me, viewers see this! Kyle is a tad two faced and I will never feel the same about her because of how she acted toward you and Lisa also!! So, lastly ! The dinner with That low life Resnick ( PLEASE) how dare she attack you at a dinner party at ( supposedly her best friends home???) It clearly showed that you can take the gal out of the trailer park but " you know the rest" it showed a lack of respect for Kyle and actually Kyle as a hostess should have stopped Faye from going ON AND ON!!!! It is amusing that she talked like she was somebody!!! I WISH YOU THE BEST ! HANG IN THERE, you are sooo Pretty and smart and you don't need to defend yourself to anyone! ONE MORE TIDBIT! You are so much better off with Eddie gone Also! Purge and steam ahead! You Go Girl!

Your ex is a loser. I'm sorry for you that you were involved with him, but you got out. It's a shock and hurt to see the ones we love for who they really are. All people tend to project what we are and when we think the other person is love and are splapped with the truth it hurts. And when you love someone so much but they put someone above you it makes you doubt yourself and not them. It's not easy. I couldn't believe your meeting with sheena, you were beyond classy. Not that you're old because you aren't, but seriously the first question sheena should have asked herself was, why does a man old enough to be my father want to go out with me. He's a huge loser and she has major issues. I look at both of them and think, sucks to be you.

Brandi, I can't tell you what an inspiration you are to the 100's of women out there who have unfortunately been through the same thing! You are strong, smart and beautiful. Everything happens for a reason....and look at you now! Hit reality TV show, healthy boys and a new book deal. If anyone should be shedding a few tears it should be Leeann ... Look who is getting the shorter end of the stick now! Some words of advice my grandmother gave me: "A man who marries his mistress, is only freeing up the position"

I thought the point of the meeting was for Scheana to apologize to Brandi, but all she did was twist the knife a little more.  Shame on her.  She's not sorry for what she did, she's only sorry that he made a fool out of her.

In the most recent episodes you have really started to be the bigger person and handle challenging situations In an extremely mature and classy manner. I give you mad props. Faye had NO RIGHT to express any judgement toward you; it was not her place and extremely classless. Who is SHE to act all high and mighty and call YOU out on something she's only known second hand? Additionally, your meeting with Scheana was really big of you... It was awesome to watch and a good example to many women

Hey Brandi.. IMHO Kyle set you up with Faye at the dinner party... she has a tendency to do that & then act all innocent... she's an instigator & her sister can be one too... she did it on the trip.. pounding on the floor, then next day asking Yolanda.."did you hear any pounding?" then acting like it wasn't her!!

Steer clear of Kyle... she's a "mean girl"

Brandi, you have come such a long way and the world is your oyster. Only thing that stands out as a glaring negative is your foul mouth. It makes you look classless and cheap. You can be strong without the f- bombs. Your beautiful, amazing, and such an inspiration. Just tone down the foul mouth, at least for your boys. Stay STRONG!!

He doesn't deserve your tears.

Brandi, you are such a strong woman.  When I heard you say that you wouldn't even want your ex husband to divorce Leann because you didn't want your kids to go through that again, really showed what a beautiful and loving person you are.  I can't believe what hell you've been put through and you still have a light hearted soul.  You're an inspiration!  

Brandi, I was so proud of you tonight!  We have similar situations, and like you, I was devastated when my marriage broke up.  We were married for 23 years and have three sons together.  He fell in love with a girl that worked for him, and she was only three years older than our oldest son.  .  I was so happy to hear you tell Scheana that you would never say anything negative to your boys about their dad.  We both know that saying anything negative about a child's parent, only hurts the child.  I told my boys that I would always love their dad, but our time together was over.  I have no regrets about my marriage, because out of that union, I got three precious gifts.  Even now, I have friends that are still so angry with my ex, I have to tell them, that I'm the winner.  I have my own life, I am my own boss, I do what I want to do, when I want to do it. 

I was so hurt when my marriage broke up, after two years, I let it go.  I knew that if I held on to the hurt feelings and anger toward my sons "stepmother", it would destroy me.  We all have a wonderful relationship now and they have given my sons a baby sister. 

So, hold that beautiful head up high. 

May there always be angels watching over you.

Girl you rock!  And I hope they keep you, but I see HUGE THINGS FOR YOU GORGEOUS, and I am a straight woman.  Did you see all the other ladies could not take their eyes off of you when you all were in the hotel room slumber party (sans Yolanda and Kim), when you were on the floor flinging your hair back and forth in that on the floor dance.  OMG you are going to be a huge huge glamour star.  I may be nobody, but the first time I saw George Clooney, Tom Hanks, Bruce Willis, Johnny Depp (etc) when they were nobody, I knew they were going to be huge stars.  Your time is coming quickly, and forget about anything else.  You've got it and they know, so don't settle for small stuff any more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  BTW...Adrienne who?  PLEASE!!  YOU ALL HEARD IT HERE FIRST!!!

Don't cry over that ex-husband of yours. He isn't worth one single tear.  A real man, who has taken vowels of marriage, doesn't treat a wife+mother of his children with so little respect.  As you can witness, he cheated on you, he cheated on the cheater and he will certainly cheat on the new wife.  Men like that are immature and you are better off without him Brandi, you will see.  God has something much better for you and your boys.