“I would tell him to suck it!” 

Never one to mince words, that’s what Brandi Glanville says she would say to ex-husband Eddie Cibrian if he ever decided to reconcile, when asked during a recent visit to Access Hollywood to talk about her book, Drinking & Tweeting: and other Brandi Blunders.

We're starting to think maybe she's been watching a little too much Kathy!

While this isn't the first time the Housewife has rejected the notion of getting back together with her ex, we certainly appreciate the new and colorful ways she's choosing to do so. When asked by Andy Cohen on Watch What Happens: Live if she had ever considered reconciliation, she said, "I just would say no." She continued, "At this point, I care about him as the father of my children, but honestly even if we're in the same room, he makes my skin crawl. I've lost my respect for someone, and once you lose your respect, you can't really go back."

This time, though, she also told Access Hollywood co-hosts Kit Hoover and Billy Bush that getting divorced was an incredibly tough process.

“It’s like a death -- you take time, you mourn it. It took me awhile and I was not OK for probably two-and-a-half years,” she said. "...I can’t look at him the same way. I don’t know him anymore.”

She wishes her ex and his new spouse, LeAnn Rimes happiness and added, “I’m definitely a better me now.”

Is Brandi a better, newer version of herself? Let us know in the Comments section below!