Kim Zolciak

Kim was extremely nervous about writing her own vows.

on May 18, 20120

I loved the beginning of this episode with KJ and I! How precious is he? He knew I was stressed so he leans over and hugs and kisses me. Doesn't get any better than that. He is truly such a gentle soul.

OK lets get right into it! My uncle John has been a HUGE part of my life since I was very little, and sadly a few years back he was VERY sick, in fact I was told he wouldn't make it through the night. So I packed my girls and drove like a bat outta hell to South Carolina to see him, I kicked everyone out of the ICU room he was in and had a heart to heart with him. He wasn't really coherent however when I said to him, "You lied to me and said you wouldn't leave me on this planet without a perfect husband and father for my girls." But then the tears streamed down his face! It was turning point for him, his blood pressure increased, he quickly turned the corner and thankfully by the grace of God he is still with us. So I knew when I did get married that he too would walk me down the aisle with my dad. I asked my dad if he would mind, and of course my dad understood. I was so excited to ask my uncle, I could hardly contain myself!

Coy Wire played in the NFL for 9 years and is now a motivational speaker and has a book out called Change Your Mind. He is an amazing person with such positive energy! When Kroy and I first met and started dating, there weren't a whole lot of people that supported us, but Coy always did. I knew when Kroy asked me to marry him that Coy would be the perfect person for us to officiate our marriage.

75 comments
Kadena
Kadena

- OMG! I can just imagine sdtaning outside the photo booth, waiting for my turn. I hear rolling laughter, out of control, and see a foot kick under the curtain here and some arm-bumping there. You guys emerge like nothing happened. Hilarious!I simply sit down and smile and wonder why I'm not cracking up like you were.We got to do a photo booth at a preview event for Kinect XBox a few weeks ago and it was a blast!

Hannah Marie
Hannah Marie

Dear Kim,

I love your show its my FAVORITE!!!!! :) And i was woundering are you going to be doing the show after the wedding?????? I dont want it to end

MeanDonnaJean
MeanDonnaJean

Kim, Kim, Kim....

Why oh WHY would ya prefer to wear a wig when ya gotta headful of gorgeous luscious healthy locks on your head? You look SO much younger & sexier....yes, MUCH YOUNGER and SEXIER!...without the wigs. Compared to your real hair, the wigs make your face look long, drawn & droopy....and they hide the real, beautiful you. I realize ya gotta wig line 'n all but if I were you, I'd totally scrap the idea of wearin' 'em in public from this day forth. The proof is in the puddin' my dear, and I'm not the only one who has just putta huge plate of tasty black 'n white puddin' right in front of ya :-)

Lanie Juceam
Lanie Juceam

I think your son is the cutest baby ever, You open your show with your son and it is just amazing,I love to watch him, he is always smiling and happy. So glad you found the love of your life, you deserve to be happy with your children and husband

sydsmama1
sydsmama1

Kim... You have been so much fun to watch on your new show. You have a fun loving personality that we didn't get to see on houswives. I'm assuming it is because you always had to be in defense mode around those "mean girls" But surrounded by friends and family you have shown a softer, sweeter side. You have a lovely family & kroy is a lucky man....as you are!!! Good luck. Hope theres a second season! BTW.... I like the wigs but your own hair is gorgeous!

msfaith505
msfaith505

Hey Girl! your are so awsome! Funny, beautiful, I love your little baby your very fortunate that you have a great man, supportive girls. I'm happy for you and I hope you all have your own show after this. I didn'nt watch R.H.W.A. not a fan so board..but you having your own show,, your the bomb..You make me feel so happy-especially now that my life is so painful, sad. Bless you all..awsome show

TexasLady
TexasLady

Kim - I'm with everybody else - just love your real hair. Makes you look young and "chic". Why not just wear the wigs when you are going out to party? - and go "au natural" rest of the time. Kroy is such a gentleman, and I'm so glad things are working out for all of you....and congrats on the coming second baby!! Some of the viewers are right....time to "clean up your mouth" as it is not becoming and shows a lack of class. Just so you know, I am working on doing the same. I don't think using swear words (particularly around children) is becoming to any of us. Are we so lacking in a vital vocabulary that we have to overuse swear words? Shame on us all. I think this is the only thing you really need to work on.....and Kroy would be proud and supportive. Otherwise, looking good, girl!! I hope the advice we express makes you realize we are doing so in your best interests. Also, sorry about your Mom and the wedding stuff. People fail to realize you are a grown woman with children, not getting married for the first time....so definitely you wanted to plan your wedding as you and Kroy wanted it -- rightly so. All anyone else needed to do was support you.....and show up. Looking forward to seeing it all on TV. Hugs to Kroy and your family.....it is blending in a lovely way to see.

jb5513
jb5513

Kim--love your real hair. You look much younger with it. Love the conversations you have with KJ at the beginning of the episodes, especially when he gave you a hug and kiss. Kroy is an amzing man who truly loves his son, the girls and you. Don't mess it up. My mom passed away a few years ago, and I miss her a lot. Mend your relationship with your mom while she's still around.

Parker
Parker

Your real hair is GORGEOUS!!!! You look so young and fresh ....but I understand how much fun the wigs can be.....you're beautiful either way.

jeant
jeant

please ditch the wigs - you look 15 years younger with your natural hair. the wigs are so 1970's and make you look like a white trash hooker all you do is to keep having to brush it back with your hands - which is so annoying . have always loved you and happy you have finally met a great guy - good luck in all and that baby of yours is just absolutely adorable and hope the nect one will be too!

Viewersacb bmd
Viewersacb bmd

OMG - Kim - You look awsome without your wig. Get rid of all of them......you look beautiful in your own hair.

Viewer789
Viewer789

You are one sassy mama - I LOVE your real hair! I am really enjoying the show - it is so much better without all the housewife drama. Love you and Kroy together - he is a true gentleman. Your children are precious. Hope there will be a season 2!!

Gale Walton
Gale Walton

Kim you have changed so much this year. Definitely for the better. Loved the show this week. Loved your hair. Ditch the wigs!!!

Sherry
Sherry

You look much better and MUCH younger with your own hair!

Colorado Kid
Colorado Kid

Kim, I love your real hair! I was expecting something much different. The cut and style is terrific! You look so much more sophisticated and put together! my vote is "wear your own hair". KJ simply is adorable and he seems to be a very good natured baby. I'm an Event Planner and can't wait to see the wedding. Good Luck and Best Wishes

marandia2
marandia2

KIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH MY GOD!!!! YOUR REAL HAIR IS AWESOME !!! GIRL I just do not understand why you wear wigs all of the time. I like wigs too Kim, but, you really should wear your natural hair more often. You look so classy and elegant with your own hair, Those wigs seem to cheapen your look, Wigs are ok sometimes too, but trust me, you look much better without them. Now I understand why Kroy really likes your REAL HAIR..GIRL YOU NEED TO FLOW WITH YOUR HAIR.

Cbam
Cbam

Your real hair is amazing and so chic. I hate to tell you but your wigs make you look twice as old and they also make you look heavier than you are. Your real hair shows your bone structure in your face, your eyes and you look more confident and much more elegant. I would strongly consider getting rid of those wigs. You looked very, very pretty and chic without the wig.

Linda Howard
Linda Howard

I like your real hair. I think it looks great. I think it makes you look younger, cuter and more current. Your wigs are very sexy but your own hair is pretty damn good. I think you ought to at least switch off occasionally. I'm surprised you wear wigs when your own hair looks so good.

PS $400,000.? Yikes!

Kimby12
Kimby12

ABSOLULUTELY LOVE KIM'S NATURAL HAIR AND THE WAY IT'S CUT! MUCH MORE FLATTERING TO HER FACE AND MORE AGE APPROPRIATE! SHE SHOULD DITCH THE WIGS...THEY DRAG HER FACE DOWN AND COVER UP HER CHEST.

salima
salima

Hey Kim, I know I'm late on this one, but I love your show glad that viewers could be a part of your wedding. However, I know the situation with your mom was a little crazy, but both of you needed to apologize to each other. It would've been better to not lie to her and just told her, listen mom, Kroy and I decided to just go alone because we really haven't had time to do anything for the wedding together. She would've been mad still, but it wouldn't gone as far as it did. Your mom was wrong for saying she would be sick on your wedding, she needs to realize it's not her wedding, sometimes the best support a mother can give, is just being there, listening, and making sure that the bride is happy. So it goes both ways. Love u keep up the great work

Marmit
Marmit

Kim, You are stunning without your wigs. You should really think about leaving them behind. Don't hide behind them when you are beautiful with your natural hair. Wishing you all the best!

Rubycutie
Rubycutie

I know this is an older blog, but damn girl you look so fantastic without the wig

Oklahoma Viewer
Oklahoma Viewer

Just as I sent in it came true this week, the maid of honor didn't like the "on display" and cameras following all the time. I am glad she owned up to her feelings and just told Kim the truth. But I think she still should stand up beside Kim for the day. But we will see!

jinx75
jinx75

Just wanted to say that when you walked out on last night's episode sans wig it literally took my breath away. Your natural hair is GORGEOUS!!! Those wigs are taking away from your natural beauty. Can't wait to see the wedding!

lree44
lree44

YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL WITH YOUR REAL HAIR!

napgrl
napgrl

Kim, your real hair is beautiful! I think it is great you have the option to wear the wigs, but the bottom line is no matter what is on your head, you have a beautiful face that would look good with any style. I am sad that the wedding will be shown next week, because I have really grown to enjoy the show and do not want it to end:(

susanp
susanp

Kim - I have to say, I never saw this great side of you on the RHOA but I love what I am seeing when you are with Kroy. You hit the jackpot with him and it's clear that you two truly love eachother. Best of all, he brings out the best in you and that is what a true relationship is all about. I agree with the other comment about cleaning up your language - no need to constantly use the "F" word. You need to be a good example for your kids. Your two daughers are so sweet and KJ is beyond cute. You truly have everything you could want. I wish you and your family the very best.

April in VA
April in VA

Your hair is gorgeous! I do like the long wig though.

ambbigious
ambbigious

OH Kim..........it was clear that the entire Jeweler scene on tonight's episode was soooooo staged, as we all saw when you looked over to make the sure the cameras were capturing it all!!!! Now please explain to me how Kroy can afford to buy you a half million dollar bracelet, but you can't pay your Interior Decorator's bill?!?! And how is it that all of your so-called friends are all turning on you before the wedding........you have to take some responsibility for all that is going down!!!!! Can't wait to tune in for the Wedding Day Drama!!!!! All I can say is that poor Kroy's family must pray for his well-being on a daily basis, being married to soemone as crazy & high maintenance as you are!!!!

Smart Lady
Smart Lady

Just saw your real hair reveal. I will say this: You looked younger with your real hair. It was fresh and the cut was fashionable and framed your face. I can understand, however, wanting to stay with a wig for the wedding, so eyes are on other details. I think it would be great if you would wear your real hair some of the time.

Judy Handschug
Judy Handschug

OMG When you took your wig off you showed what a beauty you truly are. I know you love your wigs but girl, you look a thousand times better without them. Please quit hiding behind a wig, your not doing your looks a favor.

Ruby2
Ruby2

Love your hair!!! Toss those wigs in the trash!!

gretchentexas
gretchentexas

OMG - your real hair is gorgeous! Why dont you wear it every now and then???

sissyhippo
sissyhippo

Kim. I wasn't a big fan of yours on the HWOA but I will say that I'm happy for you and that you are bless with a Good man and a happy family. but this is what I want you to know. Girl I saw your real hair tonight and I will say keep the wigs off. you have beautiful hair and you don't need all that mess on top of your head. so what is it, your can't get your hair to grow longer is that it? I love the short look. what does kroy think about your wigs? and if I know your man he wants what ever makes you happy. I will say I love your hair as is. so peace lady of the day. sissy

Viewer1960
Viewer1960

Kim, Absolutely loved your own hair. I would kill for it to be mine. I know that you want to wear a wig for the wedding and thats ok by me but I would love to see you more often without it daily. I know your wedding will be just wonderful. BTW KJ is just the cutest little guy. He seems like a very happy baby. He must be surrounded with a loving and happy family.

TheRealDoll
TheRealDoll

Omg! This whole hair reveal scene is just so dramatic to the point where it's sickening. Take the wig off, show your hair, and be done with it! It's not a big deal. this whole dramatic scene over showing your real hair is really annoying.

Pretty is, as pretty does
Pretty is, as pretty does

Kim, You have a beautiful family and you are a pretty girl but every time you open that trash mouth of yours you ruin everything. We all drop bombs from time to time but you seem to lack any self control whatsoever.

Bay Area
Bay Area

Kim, I Love the show, the kids are cute as anything and you all look and seem to be really happy. Good luck and much happiness. One thing.. Try and not use the "F" word so much, KJ will probably repeat everything he hears and it'll damage Kroy's family big time if he repeats "that". Remember they're from Montana. And be nice to your Mother. Love You.

rhonda mcdowell
rhonda mcdowell

Kim, have to say I never watched the real housewives of whatever city, just happened on your show a few weeks ago and fell in love with you and KJ. He is tooo precious. Hope you and your new hubby and family have a great life, dont sweat what others say, they dont know the whole story. If you dont respect somebody, why would you care about their opinion?. I think you are a great person and mom and new wife! Love ya!

rhonda mcdowell
rhonda mcdowell

O me gosh, I never watched the housewives show, but when I saw you and KJ and couldnt stop watching. He is absoutly precious and I love your show. Best of luck to all of you, Your hubby is a wonderful guy, and all that matters is that you are happy and loving your wonderful life. The rest will come around in time. Spend your time being in this wonderful part of your life and dont sweat the rest. It's not really YOUR problem. Luv ya!

ilcntrygrl
ilcntrygrl

Girl, you got it going on. I think you are funny, a great mom, and you look happier than I have seen you on TV. LOVE, love, love your spinoff! My mom is SO like yours. You handle yourself so well there, you show love yet set limits. My favorite part of your show is you and your sweet baby in the beginning. ...except when you make me laugh out loud. Life will never be boring for you, and you will always make time for some fun. Looks like there is drama at your wedding, but the marriage is the real deal. Happy for you! Love to see you and Kandi stayed friends, as for the rest.....mean girls.

A. Fleming
A. Fleming

Kim I totally agree with how you felt & how you responded to your friend Jen's behavior toward your wedding. I am so happy for you & Kroy and have always liked your style & personality. While watching the show, I often felt your friend Jen was very cynical & often a 'class clown' during your meetings regarding your Big Day, and felt you needed a real friend who brought the right type of energy to the details and not often a 'joke' or a smart ass comment about how & what you do. She may be a lot of fun at times, but I really don't think she is on your level as far as being in your life daily. Really I think she is envious of you and uses her 'humor' to hide it. Whatever you decide to do, your true fans will support but I was ecstatic when Kroy stepped in and defended and protected you. I wish you & Kroy and your entire family the best!

zoez
zoez

Kim love the family. god bless on the family and both moms are sweet . you and kroy blessed.

April in VA
April in VA

I agree, the show should be an hour long!

Viewer SweetHarts
Viewer SweetHarts

Kim your baby boy KJ is the light of the show... When he smiles he can open up anyone's heart with joy... You've been truly blessed by God with him and Kroy.

Sorry to see the problems with you and your mother, but you are soooooooo wrong to treat her the way that you do because she is your mother. Mother's don't always have the correct way of doing things, but you are her only daughter, and she does want more input in your wedding plans... To hear you say she's not putting up any money and has no say makes me think how did you get here, and who was the one that cared for you after your birth and while you were growing up??? Your mother right???

I also see that you don't know how to speak from the heart about the love you have for Kroy... That should be a no brainer... Nothing written, speak your vows from your heart, and the words will flow with true love on your Wedding Day...

I hope you invited all your co-stars even if they all don't show up because that shows good manners...

Smart Lady
Smart Lady

Kim, I agree with other viewers that you need to be a little more considerate of your mother. She didn't handle it right, but neither did you. It would not hurt you to allow your mother to help/take part in planning of the wedding. This would be the unselfish thing to do. Also, instead of coming down on Jen, like Kroy did, has anyone asked if something is going on with her. Maybe she has a reason for not being involved. Ask. Talk to her. Again, the unselfish thing to do!

 marcia
marcia

be nice to your mother you have hurt her feelings by not including her in your plans make her feel part of the excitement she loves you

canadianhwfan
canadianhwfan

Kim, to be honest I never did care for you much in earlier seasons of RHOA. But to see you and Kroy together, and to see how he interacts with your girls and how much they adore him, is one of the sweetest things to see. Even at his young age, Kroy is very responsible and wise. Congratulations and best wishes for your future together!