Joyce and Todd’s mom hash out their issues and try to move forward.

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anita.kearney
anita.kearney

Kandi needs to put her big girl panties on and tell her mama to cut the BS. Really, when you gonna cut the umbilical cord girl...MJ is only worried about the money anyway, if she wanted her daughter to be happy she would not do half the ish she does...

Jerj
Jerj

My advice to Todd: Love Kandi and tell MJ she cannot come to the house unless he is gone.

Jerj
Jerj

I love Kandi but Todd's mother had Momma Joyce pegged right on with the name she called her. If Joyce ever becomes a full time housewife, I will have to quit watching the show. I was totally disgusted by how she talked to Todd about his father and she was being so smug before she tried to act like a teenager when she told him, "You don't tell me nothing" and bobbing her head.  

loree.collins
loree.collins

I love Kandi, she's my favorite housewife. However, its very sad to me that she continues to allow her mom to disrespect Todd and now his family. She seems to be offended when anyone suggests something negative about Mama Joyce so I can't understand why she wouldn't think that Todd would be extremely offended by the horrible things she suggests about his parents. Todd's father isn't even alive to defend himself. Calling his parents a pimp and a hoe are about the worse thing she could've possibly said against them. Kandi should've let her know beyond a doubt that that type of nastiness was unacceptable and would not be tolerated. That is disrespect on a whole other level and it seems that Kandi tends to avoid these things that will have detrimental affects on the marriage. It appears she believes if you don't talk about things, they will somehow work themselves out. This is a common belief and it has worked about zero percent of the time. She was sitting in marriage counseling hearing about the importance of communication and then in the next breath, she's talking about how she wants them to just leave it alone and hope for the best. I want the marriage to work out as I think they are a very cute couple but I'm afraid that by allowing her mother to disrespect her husband every time she comes into contact with him, Todd will get fed up and walk away. I think too often, women focus only on the wedding and not on the marriage or relationship. The wedding is incidental in comparison to the marriage. If I could say one thing to Kandi, it would be cleave to your husband. Be his support and back him at all times. At the same time, tell your mother that she needs to show your husband he respect he deserves as the man you love and choose to build a life with. And stand by that because if she continues to act nasty and negative, it is her choice not to be part of your life because that kind of ugliness has no place in a marriage. I'm hopeful and crossing my fingers that Kandi will realize that you cannot allow bad behavior in your marriage whether or not it's coming from your mother. You don't get to be right just because you gave birth to someone.

Cadee
Cadee

How sad to look at the wedding pictures and see MJ frowning in every picture (except the one with her daughter).  I respect Todd's Mom for sticking up for her son and not taking MJ's crap.  MJ is a very unhappy person and it would be wise for Todd and Kandi to live their life with as little interaction with her.  Kandi looked beautiful in her gown and was so happy at this wedding.  She deserves happiness and joy in her life as does her daughter.  Focus on the positive and stay away from the negative (MJ).  Much JOY and HAPPINESS in your future Kandi & Todd.

imtrin
imtrin

Whats up with MJ when did she become such a hateful person, the way she disrespects Todd and his Mother and the things she has said about Todd, his mom and is dead father who cannot defend himself. And whats up with Kandi who just sits by and lets her het away with it. Also whats up with MJ getting credit cards in Kandies name?

Quest3663
Quest3663

What's up with Todd for marrying into this BS? Any sensible person would have not subjected their mother to this vile woman and bowed out by now.