I was so turned against Kandi for her gross insensitivity to her fiancé and her own new mother-in-law and stepdaughter that the wedding vows made me sick. I used to like Kandi, but no more, she has turned me against her watching how she treats Tod and his family. I wish he had run for his life, he is a fool to waste one minute on anyone who lies and disrespects him and his family. Kandi is the opposite of a role model for our daughters. She is leasing Tod like a used car and spending his money-making years to be her puppet pet. It's disgusting, extremely disturbing. Tod is a fool for going through with this with her, she is in denial about her double standard. It's pathetic to watch.