Get Kandi’s take on her big day!

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cars121
cars121

What does it say about Kandi that she routinely expects others to ignore abhorrant behavior directed at them (by her family members & herself) that she goes on record as saying she would not tolerate if it were imposed on her?

housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

I am happy that Kandi and Todd are married. I believe that now they need to concentrate on their empire as this couple has the potential to be the next power couple. Todd and Kandi need to concentrate on their next project and forget about Joyce and leave her off the show. The show should now be about the two girls and projects that they will bring them money. Todd is a creative guy and has the ability to bring it together. She has great ideas and is a can do lady. I can not wait to see what is next for them. But please keep Joyce off the show and the negative behavior away from these two very bright people. 

terryreed123
terryreed123

P.S.  Kandi, your mother needs to go off the show.  She is rude, mean, and offensive.  She adds absolutely nothing to the show except classless behavior.  She may be your mother, but she treats you with absolutely no respect.  And, you are starting to act just like her.  

terryreed123
terryreed123

Shame on you Kandi.  What if it was Todd with all of the money and he made you sign something that said you would walk away with nothing no matter how long you were married?  It's fine that whatever you owned before the marriage should stay with you, but anything you guys accumulate during the marriage is a marital asset and should be divided equally. You guys are going to be a married couple working together to make a life. But, if things don't work out, you feel you owe him nothing.  And you don't understand why that would be upsetting to him.  I really don't understand why Todd married you.  You mother treats him like crap and you let her get away with it.  Then you treat him like a poor relative you can get rid of with a 30 day notice.  The people who are the most concerned about money are you and your mom.  I always had respect for you, but no more.  

generic.searchuser
generic.searchuser

I have totally lost any respect for Kandi - would ANY woman EVER consider signing a Pre-Nup with the same conditions as Todd's did?  That would be a big fat NO.  Don't even get me started on her Ghetto Momma.....I feel so bad for Todd.  My advice  - using Kandi's connections, make a ton of your own money and sock it away in the bank for that day Kandi tires of you and gives you your 30 day notice.

1135g
1135g

I find your attitude about  tardiness to be beyond arrogant and disrespectful. You seem to think that other people's time is not as important as yours. As I have watched over the years there are many examples of you being chronically late. Then when challenged about this, you always get annoyed, have a million excuses and laugh as if it's not big deal.  Apparently, it's not a big deal to you but it is to others as it's their time that you are wasting.  I also thought the entire pre-nup stuff was hard to watch and that Todd was most definitely strong armed.  I think Todd has walked into the lions den and having to put up with you and your Mother's relationship is not something many people would want to take on.  You and your Mother made the decision to put yourselves on display on public TV. If you don't want judgement, then TV is not for you.  Your Mother is a sour, bitter, ugly, ill mannered woman.  At least that his how she comes off on TV.  She conducts herself as if she has absolutely no breeding, no class and doesn't even seem to know wrong from right.  I cannot imagine why on earth you would want that aspect of your life on TV.  I personally think you have done yourself a great disservice putting all of this on Bravo.  I sincerely do wish you and Todd the very best and hope that you do have a successful and happy union.  But I've got to say again, what you have put out there for the world to see on TV has been very unflattering and uncomfortable to watch a good deal of the time. 

zocola
zocola

You were a lovely bride Kandi. The corset was wonderful. Your shape was awesome. The wedding place was so ghetto outside! It looked like a strip mall. Horrible! Your mother should have stayed at home. She made a fool of herself. Speaking of corsets, she needed one for that gold dress. She had more fat bulge than anything and the second dress was childish. How lovely Todd's daughter looked. What a beauty she is. Riley looked nice but she ruined her look by walking in those shoes. Your father looked handsome. Todd looked short and drunk. Todd's mother's dress was beautiful and she looked lovely in it. So rude of you to make the guests wait so long. Best wishes for a life of happiness and success.

withak
withak

Kandi, My heart broke for Todd when he was answering to your attorney about all the things he gave up in order to marry you. That one-sided pre-nup that you manipulated Todd into signing makes me realize how much you are like your mother. (And, that is NO compliment, believe me! Both you and mother's conduct the night of your rehearsal dinner and the day of your wedding was deplorable! The way your mother hurt Todd's beautiful little girl's feelings was awful! Hell, the way she treats Todd and his family is just awful! The question I have is why you are even bothering to marry Todd? What's in it for him? What kind of marriage is it when a married couple aren't working towards a common goal? Seems like you want your cake and you want to eat it all too! I hope that Todd comes to his senses and leaves your butt - what does he have to lose besides a self-centered diva who let's her mother be the awful witch that she is. It is clear you are all about money without room for real, true love!

kerri.margara
kerri.margara

Kandi i loved your wedding dress and cake honey!  i wish you and todd and your now 2, beautiful young ladies the best in life as a family and nothing but happiness together from here on out cause the good lord knows ya'll deserve it after everything joyce put y'all through.  i'm sorry, but i can't call her momma joyce, i don't feel she deserves that title cause a momma don't act like that and do the things shes done to you.  there's just one thing i hope to god for mrs. kandi.  that after you saw the wedding episode, and how she started going off and made your daughter cry, then hurt todds daughter while in the same room ignoring her and talkin' about how she'll never be family or as good as riley that you and todd came as one and defended those babies and their feeling to your mother.  first off, how can a mother even act like that to begin with??   i don't understand how all y'all let her get away with this dispicable behavior.  if that was me sittin' there watching my wedding and i saw what really happened i'd be madder than hell.  and she had a lot of nerve starting a fight with you, yet again, on your wedding day making riley and yourself cry.  But much respect to Todd's mother cause i'm sure his daughter was hurting just as bad after everything joyce did and said, and they both kept it strong for you on your day so as not to cause you any more stress then you were under.  i just hope watching you two get married was like lemon juice to a cut for her.  it disgusted me watching her hateful looks and facial expresssions and ruining your wedding pictures by not smiling.  i feel sorry for your Kandi, and i felt for you and todd for all the pain you endured throughout the shows from your mom and am so sorry for everything you went through.  but now all you gotta do honey, is run your empire, be a happy wife and mother and have a good time doing it!  much love girl and i'm sorry for the hating.   it just hurt and disgusted me seeing you and them babies hurt on your day.

pierpont
pierpont

Kandi you don't owe Mama anything.

  She is so full of herself - yet I ask you why is she still single?  Really,  what does she do to make money?  How long was Kandi at home and Mama Joyce paying her bills?  So how long has Kandi been paying Mama Joyce's bills.  All Mama Joyce's does is suck off Kandi's money and she has the balls to accuse Todd?  Get over yourself Mama you are just a user who thinks the world and Kandi owes your a free ride for the rest of your life.  I'll bet you probably haven't worked for that past 3 decades.

CharlesCochran
CharlesCochran

OMG!  You told them to be there at 5:00 p.m. and the ceremony didn't begin until 9:00!  That's why so few people.  I would have made my exit too. 

JustSayin....InMn
JustSayin....InMn

I am glad it is all over.  But....WHO are these people making their guests wait 90 minutes before the wedding.  Very disrespectful. 

withak
withak

What you say would be true if Kandi didn't ruin any collaboration they might have had to build any kind of empire in light of the ridiculous, one-sided pre-nup that Todd was forced into signing. Since there would be no equitable division of community assets (since there won't be any community assets earned during their marriage), what incentive would Todd have to collaborate with Kandi, when there would be no long-term benefit for him? Todd would be better served to simply work on his own projects and therein all earnings would go to him only. Just like Kandi. I do agree that Todd is a very creative producer and could end up surpassing Kandi financially, and end up walking away (should they end their marriage ((and, seeing how much like Joyce, Kandi really is, I think Todd is going to jump ship)) with his own money. I truly believe that Kandi went totally overboard on that pre-nup and it's going to end up biting her in the ass when it comes to Todd and their one-sided and divisive marriage.

BeWiseNotFoolish
BeWiseNotFoolish

@terryreed123 "What if it was Todd with all of the money", but that's far from the reality and Kandi wouldn't have to sign an agreement with his terms if she didn't want to.  I agree wholeheartedly with Kandi's pre-nuptial agreement and I applaud her for being smart enough to seek guidance regarding its terms.  The marriage is too new to give Todd automatic privileges, he needs to earn it.  Maybe the terms will change over a period of time - maybe they won't.  PLENTY of scorned divorced women wouldn't be stuck in downtrodden financial ruins had they been aware as Kandi and taking the measures she has.  Todd now lives in the lap of Kandi's luxury and will continue to do so as long as they're married.

withak
withak

I so agree with your post! Especially the part about Todd being treated like a poor relative. I felt so bad for Todd when Kandi's attorney was ticking off the things that he was giving away his rights to. Why Kandi would want Todd to go without what most married couples get married to work towards is cruel and selfish. Like you, I also agree that what she comes in to the marriage with should be hers upon a split. But, I don't understand her rationale that money and assets that you know they will accumulate as a married couple shouldn't be divided equally. I mean, isn't the accumulation of assets the reason to get married in the first place? To work together to build a life together? If I was Todd, in light of the treatment from Joyce, and the way that Kandi treated and manipulated Todd into signing that one-sided, self-serving pre-nup, I would run -- and not walk to divorce court before he invests anymore of his time and love.

vetalana
vetalana

@withak 

as Suzy Orman is saying: people should come first, money second'....Kandy and her mom just do not follow this rule. Money comes first...Kandy indicated that she would rather keep all her money then marry Tod. God forbid she has to share some of her future income with him....Kandy and her mom are twins. Kandy compared kicking Tod out of their place to being boyfriend and girlfriend who break up...

Then why dos she want to be married? She wants him to be a father to their child....but building community as one 'body' is not in her plans....being a living girlfriend should be an ideal proposition for her, not a wife.

BeWiseNotFoolish
BeWiseNotFoolish

@withak I saw the video where Todd willingly picked up the ink pen and signed the pre-nuptial agreement before his attorney.  The event was video taped.  Todd didn't appear to be drugged, forced, and his attorney asked Todd if this was the case before he signed.

  Todd wasn't forced to sign anything.  He signed the pre-nuptial agreement on his own free-will and h didn't have to sign it if he didn't agree with it.  I'd be more than happy and agree with you regarding Todd being a VERY creative producer, but I've never heard of him BEFORE he met Kandi.  I've never seen him name affiliated with anything before Kandi's play, "A Mother's Love" so his skills and abilities have yet to be verified.

withak
withak

I agree! And that part about Kandi doesn't understand the concept that being married isn't at all like being just live-in partners. To me, marriage is so much more of a commitment to building a life TOGETHER. If Kandi doesn't want to have to share any community assets, how does she think things should go if they have children? Does she get them too, automatically upon a divorce like she gets all the money? I don't get it!