Kandi and Joyce’s fighting take a toll on everyone, even Kandi’s daughter.

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conishkee
conishkee

Joyce ruined majority of the wedding pics, except for the one she took with Kandi by herself.  Kandi and Todd will see that down the road.What a sad and selfish woman Joyce is; she couldn't even fake it for her daughter's sake on her special day.   My thing is, if Joyce felt like she was going to a funeral instead of her daughter’s wedding, why didn’t she stay home?Oh, I get it, because Joyce would much rather be present to show how dissatisfied she was to everyone rather than to give it the benefit of the doubt and stay home where she couldn’t ruin the day, namely for Kandi. What a miserable individual.

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

this show is the best thing that ever happened to MJ ...she has created a character and most of her shananigans has got to be a act and if this is really her off camera she is a horrible miserable woman

1truefan
1truefan

Why didn’t Kandi get up off her ass and comfort her daughter.I am still trying to figure that one out.She should have been the one reassuring Riley not her crazy ass mother.

gjb
gjb

Omg. Mama Joyce is a scary mother, The only person she is worried about is herself! She isn't worried about Kandi's happiness, she's worried about her meal ticket! Her behavior is so trashy and tacky!, Kandi needs to protect her marriage because momma Joyce sees anyone that Kandi loves as a threat. How cruel she was to Todd's daughter! How disgusting to treat a child like that, no possible excuse!

SwagR
SwagR

I wish mama Joyce would go to the wayside. she should be let go.

peanutshelle
peanutshelle

Kandi, you USED to be my favorite housewife, but after seeing this weeding series and the way you allow your mother to treat the people around, and giving Todd prenup two days before the wedding has completely changed my mind about you. You allow your mother to treat the people around you like dirt, and expect everyone to put up with her nastiness and disrespect just because you do. I AM DISGUSTED by the way you let your mother disrespect Kayla - you keep saying that she's your daughter now, you need to act like it and be protect her from your pathetic, jealous mother. And the way you handled the prenup showed what you REALLY think of Todd. It was just plain disrespectful for you to give it to him two days before the wedding and expect him to just sign it. Todd is not you employee, he is your husband, your life partner, and frankly I now see that he is too classy and sophisticated for you. Stop living in oblivion, get your crazy mamma in check, or you are going to lose a REALLY good man because Todd isn't going to stay around for that bull. After watching the wedding special, I think he should have run for the hills rather than marry you.

kerri.margara
kerri.margara

Kandi i have so much respect for you as a strong woman for all you've put up with, i love you and you and phaedra are my favs on the show.  but i hop to god that after you watched your wedding show and relived how your sorrry excuse for a mother made you and your beautiful daughter both feel and cry, then heard how she negected to acknowledge todd's daughter cause she aint family and put her down continuously while she was in the room sayin' she don't have to speak to nobody, she aint family, she ain't never gonna be riley or as good as her in any way and imagined how it made that beautiful young lady feel that you and todd came together as one and told your mother you will not hurt us anymore or speak out of line about any of us especially the children.  we are a family now wether you like it or not, but you will not talk to us or about us like that.  she don't even deserve the title momma joyce, because a real momma, hell a real woman would never do that to a child.  you're mother is wrong on so many levels yet ya'll continue to put up with he b.s.  much respect to todd's mother though for not stressing you out anymore than you were by letting you know what your mother did to todd's daughter and opting to tell you at another time, and to hell with your mother for lying when you confronted her on the situation of what was going on or wrong with her.  she's just flat out disrespectful, manipulative, and wrong on so many levels it aint even funny.  but i'm so happy for you and todd that ya'll finally got your day, and it seemed happy for you two and your daughters and the ones that truely loved you.  and as far as your mother goes and all the hateful faces she made and ruined your wedding photos by refusing to smile,..i hope your wedding made her feel like lemon juice to a cut.  congratulations on your new role as wife and step mom and i hope ya'll stay blessed and happy.   and i really do after seeing your mothers behavior have done something about it especially after hurting them lil ladies.  that's just wrong.  it's bad enough she hurts you honey.

lori.hickersongarner
lori.hickersongarner

Mama Joyce acted so bad. She is so jealous and looked like a big  sour puss green with envy! Why was she even here

jjc2924
jjc2924

"Mama" you do need to be checked when it comes to how children should be treated. Not cool the way you treated Todd's daughter. It was bullying. It was twisted. Kandi, looking at your mother's face, she couldn't even pretend to be happy for you. It was sad. If you want your marriage to last and peace in your newly blended family, please limit your mother's contact with both those girls and Todd. 

simms
simms

While I am happy for Kandi and Todd getting married...I am also bewildered by the whole wedding "production".  It seemed like there was very little "Todd" in the ceremony and a whole lot of Kandi.  Throw in the rushed pre-nup signature, obnoxious "Momma Joyce" and this train looks like it could derail.  Once the "honeymoon period" is over reality will set in.  Momma Joyce drama will be there for life, Kandi being the major money maker and controller of finances will grate on Todd eventually, you can already see he feels disrespected and emasculated.  I am hoping for the best, but expecting the worst </3

1jwatcher
1jwatcher

Ha ha ha ha ha, Momma Joyce!! Your spoiled a*% didn't get your way!! Kandi got married. Kandi got married. Kandi got married. Nan nana boo boo........bye bye momma Joyce.......Just trying to get down on your level

ritavala
ritavala

Just sick of Joyce's nasty behavior toward Kandi's wedding. Is that a mother's love. So sick of her. Please get her off the show. Not enjoyable just mean spirited hateful mother.

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

when a child has to say stop fighting and storms out upset that should be enough ..Joyce not only hurt Riley but she hurt Todds daughter too ...she has crossed the line....enough of her 

Arsha63
Arsha63

I feel the same way Jagger.  I just hate that mama joyce argue with Kandi on her wedding day and upset Riley Kandis daughter.  I hope mama joyce watch the how tonight to see how foolish you act and look.  mama joyce is a disgrace to all mother

Kiahbear
Kiahbear

Who waits until two days before the wedding before giving the pre-nup to the other person anyway? Kandi is LUCKY to have found a good man to put up with that and her "MAMA". After 2 or 3 photos of no smiling she wouldn't have been ruining anymore of my wedding photos. I would have asked my mother to step aside. Everyone clapped when they were announced but her, pathetic that she can not be happy when her daughter is! I went through crap like this with my family that's why I can say, I would say to my mom if you can't be happy please do not ruin our happiness. You have to put your family before your extended family, or you may loose it

JAGGER
JAGGER

I can't watch another season of Mama Joyce. Please let her fade into the sunset like her gold dress...

JustSayin....InMn
JustSayin....InMn

WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE?  90 minutes late?  How disrespectful to their guests. 

GreetheGreat
GreetheGreat

I know you now. You listen to your mother talk about Todd and then go back and tell him what she said then you just set back and watch them fight over you. You do the same thing with your friends and that is why they don't like each other. My husband was in debt when we were married and he has been the best husband for 29 years. Greed will get you nothing.  You and your Mother are from the same tree. Todd wll see what you are someday. You just are prettier that your mother.

Shelana1221
Shelana1221

Bell Biv Devoe...FOR REAL??!! How cool is that?!!

kayla2091
kayla2091

HAppy for Todd and Kand i Love your dress ....bye mama Joyce

Shelana1221
Shelana1221

I can't believe how selfish Mama Joyce is being. It's Kandi's day, NOT YOURS! Suck it up and roll with it for everyone's sake!

JustSayin....InMn
JustSayin....InMn

Some needs to "check" Joyce like they do in a hockey game!  She is beyond crass.  She is an embarrassment.

shacarr12
shacarr12

Mama Joyce everyone is looking at you because you are the FOOL!!!

GreetheGreat
GreetheGreat

Kandi and your Mother are to faced. Money is tthe only thing you think about. You let every one think you love Todd but you don't. How can you set and allow your Mother talk about him. yOU DO NOT DESERVE HIM

Curiously
Curiously

I am a big Mama Joyce fan. Riley was right about a no argument today.   I cannot believe how many people would allow someone fall out of a plane without a parachute.   You better believe I am watching my own daughters even when they make their own rules.   I keep a parachute ready and will keep them for you too!  

JustSayin....InMn
JustSayin....InMn

I am so sick and tired of Mother Joyce's ignorant comments.  She is trying to be coy and "cute".  It is obnoxious and tiresome.  Her 15 minutes of fame is 14 minutes past due.  Kandi sitting there appeasing her is pathetic too.  Good luck, Todd. 

Shelana1221
Shelana1221

Mama Joyce needs to keep the hell out of Kandi and Todd's business and take the next bus back to the intersection of shut up and sit the hell down! Happy for Todd's mom that she has kept her composure. Take a lesson Mama Joyce!!!

saract
saract

Kandi has no backbone when it comes to her momma but when it involves money,,look out!

  Todd should have left her long ago. She just wants a boytoy and she is lucky Todd is good looking and understanding.  I hope he wakes up and leaves her. Kandi and her momma are just alike, she will end up old and alone, just like Joyce.

November55
November55

Mama Joyce wants so badly to be the star of this show that she is making a total fool of herself. Please do not bring her back!

0815
0815

Kandi I really think your are a nice person but your mother is a horror show!  If I were Todd I would have seriously thought about not marrying you because of your mother.  This may not be how things really are but the way she acts seems a desperate attempt to keep her savings account active with your money.  Having said that, I know you are very defensive about her and it makes me wonder why.  I also love my mother dearly but I would never allow her to treat someone I love with such disrespect.  I can't believe you would allow her to treat Todd and others close to him as she does.

BFood
BFood

If this is staged then, It is OK!  If not, Then I cant stand that women!

shacarr12
shacarr12

Damn Joyce you know damn well you did not hear your name

shacarr12
shacarr12

Mama Joyce breathes negativity. She will be the driven force between her and Kandi.

deek_S
deek_S

@peanutshelle  This marriage wont last long, Kandi les her mom run things. Someone on here said Kandisould have gotten up and comforted her own daughter and she should have. Mama Joyce I not the person I would want leadng my daughter, she Is mean and vindictive, and more worried because she isn't living in Kandi's house and I bet she doesn't have access to Kandis money anymore. That's one mean woman.  It wasn't fair to Todd to have 2 days to go over the pre-nup, Kandi, I wonder if you would have signed it given you only had 2 days Whos pre- nup was this anyway, Mama Joyces or Kandi.

randrew
randrew

@peanutshelle ICAM with your comment. I was hoping that Todd WOULD have run for the hills. I don't get why Kandi lets her mom disrespect him like she does. She is a horrible Mother... I used to really like Kandi... now? Not so much.

Don't see this marriage lasting long.

ritavala
ritavala

Simms, very few men have a "dream" wedding in mind. Face it it is the women who have dream weddings in mind most of their lives. Wow did Kandi have a dream. It was perfect.

withak
withak

Boy, do I agree with your post! That spectacle disguised as a wedding was a monument to Kandi's narcissistic personality. Seems to me she only married Todd because she wanted the party! Poor Todd is in for a world of hurt with Kandi calling all the shots and Joyce who acts like a fool without reproach. I understand that Todd's darling daughter was planning to move in with Todd and Kandi. I can only hope that Joyce doesn't heap more hurt on the child for "freeloading" off of Kandi! I wouldn't put it past her!

withak
withak

If Joyce is on next season I am not going to watch!

GreetheGreat
GreetheGreat

@Shelana1221 Kandi liks to keep them fighting . She lets her mom talk bad about Todd and then goes back and tells Todd and then lets them fight over her.

Quest3663
Quest3663

I feel exactly the way you do. Todd should have left Kandi and her mother alone. In a few years he is going to wake up and realized that Kandi is just a younger version of MJ?

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

@BFood I think Joyce plays it out for the camera...she is a celebrity now and has negative star power and we watch her ....maybe we should turn off to her and not comment

1truefan
1truefan

@withak 

It may be her house but she is the one that has defended Todd every time her mother said anything about Todd and the house. She’s stated that “he pays bills in this house”.Not wanting him to take jobs that may take him away for long periods of time was her decision. We’ll never know how many jobs he gave up to appease her. Knowing the circumstances he’ll be living under he should take every coming his way.Make all the money he can, not just for himself but for his daughter.Clearly money defines status for Kandi so Todd do what you gotta do and keep it to yourself and whatever you do don’t get sick cause your ass will be out like no body’s business.

Quest3663
Quest3663

Me neither. By the way, has anyone noticed that Mama Joyless has paired up with a man who has the same sour, dour, nasty expression that she wears. Yuck!!!

deek_S
deek_S

@1truefan @withak I agree, Todd should take the joswhen they come in. The way it is now, It makes it look like he isn't working and I doubt mama joyce  knows this Kandi who doesn want him working  If he doesn't work and buildl his own nest egg, it wont be long and he will b out on his A--, with absolutely nothing.  If something was to happen to Kandi, who is supposed to get Kandis money to take care of her daughter and future kids? Mama Joyce?I dot think Todd would go along with that.  from Kandis behavior, I highly doubt she wants more kids.  She is as selfish as her mom.