Jacqueline Walters

Jackie wonders if the Reunion really will be the last supper for Mariah, Kari, Toya, Quad, Simone, and herself.

on May 29, 20130

Will this be the true last supper for Married To Medicine? 

Is it true that time heals all? This group of ladies has certainly tested all boundaries. Are they stretched beyond repairs? Will it require reconstruction or total transplant?

We have seen into the lives of doctors and doctor's wives. We've learned a lot about each other and had some laughs and lots of tears. What can repair broken hearts? We may not get these answers tonight but stay tuned. . .

J.M.Walters, M.D.

61 comments
The.princess
The.princess

Dr. Jackie, I really appreciated your "class". it was incredible to retain your dignity, try to heal others, even when they could stoop so low! i admired your ability to do this, and hope I have learned something from you, when others are rude or cruel, to maintain my cool, to persevere when things get tough. I really admire you- the charity, taking care of yourself, being smart and nice - all of it! Keep it up, you look great too!

sweetcee
sweetcee

Doctor Jackie, I believe you also took sides, how could none of you put Toya in check?? which part did you think she was right  to discuss a sensitive subject with a Hair Dresser?? HELLO EARTH TO JACKIE

Filafel
Filafel

You're the epitome of class. Sadly there isnt more of you on tv. Much respect.

LadyHen
LadyHen

I just watched the reunion and I hope Jackie reads this because I want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for behaving like a Black Woman. Even some of us without M.D.

CarmenE
CarmenE

Dr. Jackie as I re-watched the part 2 reunion it reminded me of just how unfair you have been with Mariah. I don't know if you read these posts but hopefully you do and can learn from them and your mistakes.  When Mariah said she did not think Kari's apology was sincere and most of us viewers understand why, you once again said you all should to accept each others apology period (not in those exact words).  Kari has not been sincere in her apology and up to the end when Quad asked her “is that you singing Kari” (talking about the theme song) she told Quad “you're hearing those voices in your head again”.  How can that be from a repetitive and apologetic person?  She spoke horribly about Mariah up to the end also. She continued to the very to be offensive and very mean.  What you should have said is “we need to be sincere in our apology” or else let them move on.  I know you love getting all the praise posts but it is us that have nothing to gain but to tell the truth in hopes that it helps you be a better person that you truly should listen to also, pray about what they are telling you, so change can come.  I am not saying you have to agree with Mariah on everything but at least be fair.

keeshboo
keeshboo

Jackie, thank you sooooooooooooooo much for representing All women in a positive light. I thoroughly enjoyed all of your wisdom and the other ladies would fare better to take a page out of  your book.

jennifer.alexander.33
jennifer.alexander.33

Hello Dr. Jackie:Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.  I recently had an incredible betrayal amongst someone I have to work closely with everyday.  I think about your words and take the high road. What stuck with me is when you said, "I don't let that injury determine how I'm going to react when that person is in my presence again."

EloiseM
EloiseM

Just wanted to add....I think you would make a WONDERFUL MOTHER regardless of the way you become one.  When you addressed Mariah at one point (while trying to calm her down)  I simply cracked up.  Like any good mother....using the child's complete name for emphasis.  "  Now, now..Lakeisha Mariah Huq" in such a stern calm manner .  That was so funny and so real.  Reminded me too, and I mean too much of my mother with me and me with my child.

Lucindarose
Lucindarose

I wish there learn from you. So much of the time the other ladies acted out the most negative stereotypes. I just don't understand why they want to do that.

methinks
methinks

For a smart woman you're kinda clueless.  Forget the comment, "you don't understand because you don't have kids."  How about this one?  You don't understand because you're not capable of empathizing with a child.  Get it?  As for the comment, "You have no children on this couch."  Translation.  "I'm not you're child.  Stop scolding me like you're my mama."  Get it?  Geez you brainiacs are dense.

Breezy4
Breezy4

Dr.'s Jackie and Simone  - Thank you for being the adults of the group. Your empathy, neutral and rational approach, even when situations were not so deserving and did not produce the desired results, was encouraging. Both of you are a breath of fresh air in regard to the representation of black women in reality TV. We are all flawed and fall short at times. Choosing to address issues without exhibiting condescending or bullyish behavior or passing judgement on whose actions are worse or warrant forgiveness demonstrates volumes in regard to strength of character. Bravo to both of you and hope to see you in season 2!

 

dluizza
dluizza

Dr. Jackie, Please keep your standards for being a well educated doctor and speaking the ENGLISH LANGUAGE and not that "shady" bullshit that Mariah and Quad entertains on a

regular basis.  As women of their standing they shouldn't talk the way they do! They are embarrassing to the black race. They're discusting, low class people that I am having a hard time listening to on the show.  I was totally in love with this show, and then Quad and Mariah

just dragged it down for me.  You have been such an inspiration.  Also, there is something wrong with people when they refer to themshelves as the third party.  Please tell them that the public does not want to learn their own new getto language. PLEASE MAKE IT STOP.

gmopamt7
gmopamt7

I would absolutely want the names of these wives doctors and I would never go to them ever.  These women have no class whatsoever.  Simone is as bad as they are.  The only one who is above this nonsense is Dr. Jackie.  You are a classy black woman and someone any woman can look up to.

GirlFromKY
GirlFromKY

FINALLY!  A reality show female who didn't end up acting a fool!  THANK YOU FOR BEING ON THIS SHOW and illustrating how people should act and treat one another!!  Am SOOOO impressed by you Dr. J, and don't you DARE allow anyone out there to make you feel badly for commanding respectful and appropriate behavior among adult & grown women!!!!!  We need more people like you who will respectfully lead such civilized and dignified behavior rather than the loud mouth below the belt neanderthal name calling adolescents who condone such horrifyingly embarrassing messages to our daughters we're so desperately trying to appropriately raise and teach!  Shame on them!  ALL these reality tv shows desperately need someone JUST LIKE YOU to FINALLY show people on television how we ALL should approach miscommunication and/or disagreements!!!  YOU"RE THE BEST MY DEAR!!!!!!!! KEEP being you!!!   -Forever grateful :)  

miguelmikel.nunez1
miguelmikel.nunez1

i love jackie. she says it as it is. she is real and she is sane. without jackie or simone i would not watch. all the other bitches are rplaceable but not these two

kstcyr
kstcyr

YOU - Dr. Jackie ... are waaaaaay to classy for this group ... PLEASE get out now before your reputation is tarnished just from associating with these "girls" 

EloiseM
EloiseM

I absolutely LOVE your title "Principal"  It's funny to see the women say, "well today I got called into the PRINCIPAL'S office.  I crack up.  Keep up the good work and STAY GLAMOROUS.

jso424
jso424

I think all your words of wisdom should be listened to. People can learn a lot if they just stop to think and put themselves in the other person's position and when you truly learn to do that and be nothing but be understanding of who someone is, you find peace with yourself and even when everyone around you is going hectic and can even aim their anger towards you, you stay calm because that is true confidence. But to avoid future heartache, you have to know that you cannot reason with unreasonable people! Btw, you are a great representation of the African American woman and I saw you on Tamar and Vince!

lperry430
lperry430

Jackie, I applaud you for being a survivor big time BRAVO!!  However having survived a difficult life challenge experience  and having MD behind your name does not give you rights to sooooo judgmental.  Maybe that is the reason your lemon squeeze and your presence on the show fail so horribly.  It time to take the stick out of your behind and relax.  All the women featured on the show are adults who have mothers of their own.  It was difficult to connect to you throughout the season....maybe you are replaceable.....I sure hope so!!

alana7
alana7

Dr. Jackie,  I wish you were my doc and that one of your spas was in my town.

Just love you, and thank you for standing up and being a real woman, and doing

so without rustling feathers but by just being true to yourself like a Prov 31 woman.

All the best to you and your family and practice!

docjam
docjam

I say this out of concern but  a lack of empathy, admixed with passive aggressiveness, and coldness is what is perceived from you.  People make mistakes, get angry, get hurt, and argue... its life.  To chastise adult women like children is unbecoming.  I can understand why Mariah struggles to move on when there is failure to even admit the smallest legitimacy of her claim.  Real leaders lead with open hearts and minds not judgmental uptight castigation.  A little self-reflection may be a bit over due. People with MDs can and should reflect on their actions as well.

slammers23
slammers23

Jackie, I just love you!  I love that your not afraid to go against the grain and stand for what you believe in. You are truly a class act, choosing to fly above all the drama. I think you've discovered the true meaning of life, being true to yourself as well as others!! God speed!

janb55
janb55

Some of your castmates need to sit down and watch this season, then take a long and honest look at their behavior this season. If they aren't willing to do that, no healing will occur.

fiesta
fiesta

Those ladies should take some lessons from you! I can't stand the segments, or reunions where women scream over others, or don't let others finish their statements. Bravo needs a talking stick! You made mariah look the fool by not letting her talk over you. I do want to hear what you and the others have to say to completion!!!!!!!!!

Constance1
Constance1

Loved watching you try to navigate the craziness of some of these women but Jackie, it's just not worth it.  Pack up your stethoscope and say adios to some of these classless women.  In case you're curious, that would be Squid and Mariah.

jazziegirl58
jazziegirl58

Having MD behind you name, only means you have MD behind your name.

lizw3boys
lizw3boys

Dr. Jackie, you are a wonderful women and I am sure a excellent Dr.  But I will have to say I am very disappointed with the show.  It was pretty bad all season.  My son who is 18 and headed to college watched a little of the show with me and his response was, " Mom, those women are losers".  That sums up what my son who is a great kid thinks.  If Mariah was so worried about her daughter all season, how could she speak like that and act like that knowing her daughter may watch the show someday.  I'm sorry Dr. Jackie but i will not be watching next season.  I have much to much self respect and I want my kids to know that I don't spend my free time watching Doctors wives act like that. Very bad show.

shysharon
shysharon

I'm  sorry you had to go through all that with cancer and adoption, sometimes things don't make any sense!

 

I just wanted to say I thought when Mariah said you don't have any children on this couch she meant that she felt you were talking to her as though she were a child, not that you don't understand about having one!

riann
riann

I think you missed Mariah's point she was trying to make, the situation she was so upset about was not childish it was very serious to her and you could not even relate at all. You appeared numb to her situation with Toya.  Even though it did not go over well , I did like the idea of the lemon squeeze.

funnygirl6
funnygirl6

Love you Dr. Jackie!  You an intelligent, thoughtful, caring and well spoken lady.  Bravo needs to have more ladies on the show like you.  But, I am guessing ratings soar for they want to see the ghetto/thug mentality.

tylergirl
tylergirl

Dr. Jackie, It was so gracious of you to forgive/overlook those barbs about  babies that Mariah made to you.  Her husband is an adoptive parent--of Mariah's own daughter!-does Mariah think that he loves her less because he adopted her? Strange thought process.

SENT0414
SENT0414

with all due respect Dr. Jackie and please understand that I do mean respect!...But, women who are your patients, young friends, young colleagues do not need a scolding for living their lives...you seem to believe that your passive-aggressive way of getting through life is the only and best way...as an African-American successful woman raising a "jewel" I offer to her the advice to work hard, to fight for what she believes is her Truth and to be kind and gentle with "fragile" people...you are not the judge and your constant declarations are mind-numbing...these women are living their true, authentic selves but it seems you have decided that is not GOOD enough behavior for you...you seem embarrassed by women of colour living their authentic selves...can you at least give Mariah some Credit for being educated enough to get the show to Bravo...we would have never known you if she had not...as you can see...I am TeamMariah, lioness, who acted out of pain for her cub...quit the passive agressive behavior and let out a roar once in a while...otherwise, I don't Believe You....

Aqualover
Aqualover

@CarmenE I don't think any of us can judge whether Kari's apology was sincere. I don't recall hearing Mariah apologize to Kari for being late to the party and fighting at her house. Both women made mistakes.

ksmalls
ksmalls

I agree with you all the way, but that's not the real world unfortunately for most people.  I think emotions get in the way of our better judgement.  This group of women are beautiful, talented, and have a lot to offer the world, but have to learn how to get out of their own way.  We all don't handle things to the best of our abilities for we're human period.  We learn after the dusk settles and the smoke is clear for the most part.  Hopefully for most of us.  I have learned that there is something else going on with these ladies when it comes to resolving conflicts.  And this particular situation started way before the show aired. How some of them dismissed the other feels like it don't matter.  How a couple of these ladies did resent Mariah, I saw that from the very beginning.  Even though Mariah made some comments that were unflattering.  Some of the other ladies were down right cruel.  And they felt they were better than Mariah.  At least that how it came across to me.  As a male viewer I don't know why women hate each other so much, and many of you like to keep things going, and whats worst some of you hold grudges.  Why is that?  Can someone explain, it seem so stupid to me.  For men we either fight it out and become friends later or leave each other alone period.  Women just don't make no sense to me at all.

miguelmikel.nunez1
miguelmikel.nunez1

 @lperry430 oh hell to the no. jackie is not replaceable. i love jackie. judgemantal" hell no. she tells it as she sees it. that is not judgemantal that is being real

liz675
liz675

 @fiesta Mariah needed to be knocked of her high horse. The one thing I wish miss Jacky would have not let Mariah get away with was saying she did not understand what she was feeling cuss she had no children. You do not have to give birth to a child to care for and love them like they are your own flesh and blood and if anyone should know that it would be Mariah cuss isnt that what her husband is doing. 

quette432004
quette432004

@shysharon All Dr. Jackie wanted to do was complete her statement. Mackerel (Mariah) did not allow her to do so. I really started disliking mackerel and squid. No one is going to bow down to these b$$$$es. That's all they wanted from toya; and she stood her ground.

CarmenE
CarmenE

 @tylergirl

 Get over it, Mariah explained she didn't mean it like that and apologized and Dr. Jackie accepted it. MOVE ON PLEASE! LOL

Constance1
Constance1

 @SENT0414

 I am not a woman of color but am curious to learn what you mean by "these women are living their true, authentic selves" in your entry.

CarmenE
CarmenE

 @Aqualover  

 My message was to Dr. Jackie, I really don't care if you can tell or not tell if it was sincere. I'm not debating any of it anymore just giving the Dr. something to think about if she reads these posts.

quette432004
quette432004

@CarmenE @tylergirl She made a valid point! Aydin adopted mackerel's daughter and loves her as his own. Mackerel threw shade at Dr. Jackie for not being a birth mom and not understanding. Double-edge sword, I say!

quette432004
quette432004

@Constance1 @SENT0414 ditto to that question. Mackerel exhibited bad behavior no matter what color or race. Mackerel presented this show to off-set the RHOA behavior. Yet, they are not above them after all. Hahahaha!

CarmenE
CarmenE

 @Aqualover  @CarmenE

 I understand and you can debate and or express your views all you want, I was just saying I am not going to.  I mean no disrespect just done with this blog and wanted to post that to the doctor.  Sorry but some people just got very disrespectful on the blog here so that is why I am done with this one but best wishes to you also.

Aqualover
Aqualover

@CarmenE When you post on an open blog it is open to others expressing their views. I wasn't debating rather sharing my opinion. Best wishes.

KikiLou
KikiLou

 @ajsblessed  @CarmenE  @quette432004  @tylergirl

 And that's why Dr Jackie is MILES ahead some of those women. Lakeisha Mariah knows there was ill intent in her statement to Jackie; she backpedalled because viewers were all over her. The fact that Jackie let it ride was just an act of maturity, period.

ajsblessed
ajsblessed

 @CarmenE  @quette432004  @tylergirl

 Mariah was throwing shade from the first time she said it until the reunion and it was malicious.  Dr. Jackie is just mature enough to let it ride.

CarmenE
CarmenE

 @quette432004    @tylergirl

Let me try to explain once again where you might be able to understand. Yes she said it, yes she apologized for it and was sincere.  Dr. Jackie said she understood that Mariah did not say it with ill intent but was hurt and trying to prove a point.  If Jackie has accepted her apology then why are you two still bothered by it. The point is not valid anymore.  So move on to valid points!