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    Kari Wells

    Mariah and Quad's Double Standards

    Kari can't believe that neither of the ladies could say thank you or that Aydin couldn't apologize.

    May 9

    Duncan made a very sincere apology to Aydin which reminds me why I love him so much. He always takes the high road and is able to see his part in any and all situations. It is a wonderful quality he has, and it allows me really to respect him. Sadly for Aydin, he was not able to receive Duncan's apology and Aydin has made no attempt to ever apologize to Duncan or I, for the damage his wife's fighting caused in our home.

    I really feel sorry for the Huqs that they have not yet learned the benefits in the art of forgiveness. So to watch Aydin take it out of Duncan was very sad. Watching all of the events unfold I can now honestly say, that I really tried to make peace. I tried to be kind to Mariah and Quad, but their constant cattiness and double standards makes it very difficult for me to be around them. If I compliment Jackie it is BS, when Quad compliments Jackie it's healing. Such odd double standards. Her quote "no tea, no shade" --  another double standard, as Quad brings up other peoples business all of the time. They ate and they drank and spent a lovely day at my invitation. They were comfortably chauffeured, so that nobody had to drive. Through it all and at the end of the day, I did not receive one simple "Thank you." Just a common courtesy, two small words that can mean so much.

    When those words are not spoken, to me, it speaks volumes.

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    vfmcc 178 pts

    why are you even on the show?  you don't look comfortable being amongst these women. and you put yourself above them.

    Suzanna 400 pts

    You have a statement that I am tired of hearing.. This is how it goes " She comes from nothing... little girl from nothing makes good" This is how you talk about Mariah. And that was before the fight. You are operating under the thought that you are better. You know what they say about pure breed dogs? That they are weak and have illness according to the breed itself.  Yep I went there and YOU go there too.  Kari.. you are NOT better than anyone else. I think you are more rude and arrogant than anyone else.

     

    Oh about Quad, she isn't going to put up with you.. and you did start the digs first and now she is getting you back for it. Cannot say I blame her a bit. Matter of fact Quad is funny, a well rounded person.. You are stuffy and boring and ride that horse of yours way too often.  Most people start out their blog by saying " Lady there is something wrong with you" I have to agree. 

    kissthegyrl13 13 pts

    

    I just love how you come across as the victim in all of this. I still hadn't gotten over how you can say Mariah "comes from nothing", then you insult the woman by offering to write her a check to buy her off- horrible. Do you really think your money buys class? It really doesn't. It's very obvious that you nor your husband would have anything to do with Mariah if you weren't trying so hard to be friends with her husband (I'm sure you two have selfish agendas there too). The both of you look down your noses at anyone you don't consider to be on your level, it appears. What level that is exactly I couldn't tell you because you possess nothing I envy. If there's one thing I can't stand it's judgmental people - and that's exactly what the both of you are. It's very wrong that you sided with Toya in this ordeal, after watching the show you saw firsthand how that whole mess started. Mariah didn't want to address the situation then because she didn't want to bring drama to your home nor ruin her husband's birthday either so she kept a safe distance from Toya. Although I could understand that Toya was offended my Mariah's mom (I would've been too) it was completely inappropriate for her to attempt to address it at that time. How could you not agree with that. What I find most offensive and more fake is that when Toya reached out to you  were only willing to forgive her when she apologized with a "check in hand". Rather you took it or not the fact that she felt she needed buy your forgiveness shows what a fake person she is and what type of "friend" you are. It's disgusting. Toya wants so bad to fit in that she will tuck her tail and include herself in the firing squad instead of being woman enough to admit she initiated the situation by approaching Mariah on her husband's night in the first place. I like Mariah very much but I'm not too happy that she's disguising the situation by saying Toya but her baby in a bad situation, I don't think that's the case at all. I think Mariah should and should've been forthcoming and just told Toya honestly that she was "hurt" and felt betrayed that she would even discuss something that she shared in confidence. I think that would have made her upset more clear. Doesn't negate the fact though that Toya shouldn't have been running her mouth about someone else's business in the first place.

    Mrs.AMBITION 13 pts

    Lady there's something wrong with you. you put those people out your house it was Aydin's birthday party to not just your husband and you took sides immediately with the whole situation seems to me you don't want to admit your faults or your husband you need help!!!

    Rio2000 11 pts

     Mrs.AMBITION  Not her fault. wait maybe, it is, Mariah has no class, and Kari should know better.

    SharmagneW 18 pts

    Duncan owes Mariah and Aydin an apology for prognosticating the demise of their marriage.    It was a real classless statement to make. 

    Suzanna 400 pts

     SharmagneW I thought I had heard what he said wrong! I could not believe that Duncan thought he could speak for Aydin in such a way as to say OH Aydin likes me better so he is going to throw away the life he has with his wife and children over me... Thats just stupid. If I was unfortunate to be Duncan's wife I would wonder why he felt he had a better relationship with Aydin to predict such a thing. This is clearly crazy.

    myper2a 27 pts

    Kari you need to go back and watch the fight episode because Aydin apologized to Duncan right after the fight. Also I don't really think it's so much a family secret, it's just a secret from their daughter, Lauren.

    Mikez 10 pts

    Miss Karie, you are so funny.  I like to laugh at all of the stuff you say.  You put up with so much crap and never did you crack.  I saw your web site you are so much prettier than this photo.  Love you on the show and love Dr Dunkin.  I can tell you have a real marriage and that you support each other. 

    shysharon 1767 pts

    I think you are dilusional! You keep saying you don't engage in gossip and this blog and your other blog is full of gossip! By the way, Aydin doesn't owe anyone an apology for what his wife did! And now that Toya admitted what she did, neither does she! Noone said she Toya did it maliciously, but she do it and has denied it endlessly!

    cappy69 204 pts

    Kari,

    I'm sure you've made your mistakes, but at every turn, Mariah is going to remund you that "she" put you on the show, so you should "bow" down to her foolishness. Was she ever your friend? I don't think so.....society today, don't know the difference between manners and put downs...

    LillyOfTiger 50 pts

    Kari, Kari, Kari, I am so proud of you for holding the lie to the light. Ghetto Mariah has no idea how to resolve conflict because she is too busy admiring herself to learn leadership skills. Another lie is that anyone other than her is responsible for her family business being out. If you don't want it discussed don't tell it -- called personal accountability. Plus she is a "so called producer" which gives her other options. Did she get into a physical fight with Bravo when they told her they were airing the footage? Perhaps getting that message from Bravo was the real reason she was late to the party, drunk, and amped up! Aiden needs to direct his anger toward his wife and her poor choices. Solicit the help of a professional in telling his daughter and move on. Mariah continues to mess with her daughters head by pushing her to confront Toya -- an adult. What Mother does that? There is so much to talk about!

    misbehavin911 226 pts

     LillyOfTiger

     I totally disagree,  Kari stated Mariah withdrew all the money which is not true. Even in the conversation last night when she showed Mariah the Pay Pal bill Mariah told her yes, she did try to stop or stop payment because she felt that she had already paid more than enough...Im sure you have told a friend something personal but that dont mean to tell your hair dresser...If Toya told the hair dresser I can imagine who else she may have told. As far as the fight, Mariah was defending herself rightfully so. Ayden is only right by standing up for his family. I love the friendship Mariah and Quad  have. 

    Viola13 86 pts

    What makes you think it's okay for your husband to continuously talk about Mariah? When he said her husband would divorce her the following day you still thought that was right? He asked you if she came with her tail between her legs and you still think he is justified to attack this lady. Kari did you watch the same episode we did? Your husband made a fool of himself bringing up the fight between Toya and Mariah in the Men's gathering that Cecil had to put him off. Common Kari you and your husband need to get off your high horses

    sha_1 507 pts

     Viola13  In deed they do. He is just as 2-faced as some if these woman. Talking to his wife...he is talking BIG ish. They both do... Kari talking about Mariah having to bow down & kiss the ring. Duncan talking about Mariah needs to come with her tail tucked. But when he gets with Aydin...it's all "love". Kari & Duncan to me are the absolute worst on this show. They look down on everyone...talk down to everyone...they are just the WORST. 

    gjsimon3256@gmail.com 467 pts

    Aydin is extremely hurt that his family was asked to leave his birthday party. He felt Duncan was his friend.  Cecil felt he was still upset about his family secret getting out which he is also. But he mentioned to Mariah that he was really hurt by being asked to leave the party.  

     

    I do believe the wives need to stay out of this. You typing on this blog is not helping Duncan or Aydin business/friendship.  Especially since you're attacking  Aydin on this blog.  The doctor's need to talk to their wives (Kari, Toya, Mariah) before this gets any further out of hand.

     

     

    janmother01 204 pts

     gjsimon3256@gmail.com

     This was taped a while ago, everyone has moved on except us.

    ccollier08 50 pts

    @janmother01 @gjsimon3256@gmail.com if everyone has moved on, then why is there still such venom in these blogs??? It is apparent that she folks have not moved on...

    erik.hinton.56 86 pts

    Well the question I have to ask to all of you "ladies" is did you thank Mariah for giving you a platform to share your ventures with the public in such a huge way. Kari you may have had your Business of Living Philosophy for quite some time, but you have to admit that you have been able to reach many more people being on this show, in which Mariah is an executive producer. Same for Nomad MD. Yes, people may have heard about it. I actually went to the website and it states "As seen on Married to Medicine". Yes, it may be a successful business but you cannot deny that being featured on a show that was Mariah's brainchild which by the way is a hit did not influence the success

    zoeyandzacksmom 109 pts

     erik.hinton.56

     I do think the other women have expressed their gratitude to Bravo and Mariah for the platform "Married To Medicine" offers.  Without the others there would be no show so the thank you train runs both ways.  I just don't think Mariah ever thought anyone would disapprove of her or her behavior. 

     

    I do think Kari and Duncan are owed an apology from Mariah, Mariah's mother and Quad for assaulting one of their guests and breaking the furniture.  For someone as educated as Ayden to think he is owed an apology is baffling.  Getting thrown out of the party is a consequence of being involved with a group of people who decided to use physical aggression to solve some sort of social slight. There was nothing to be gained by the involved parties all remaining on the premises.  Ayden should have been ushering out his family and guests instead of feigning outrage f being asked to leave.

     

    Whether Ayden likes it or not the fact is he did not known Mariah at the time of his daughter's conception.  It is not a family secret it is a fact.  If he and his wife were so determined to keep it a family secret they should have never agreed to go on a show. 

     

    I  believe Duncan's divorce comment was more of an observation as to what Kari might expect were she to involve herself in a physical altercation.

    MsLeilah 99 pts

     zoeyandzacksmom  erik.hinton.56  Was Toya thrown out because of the consequence of being involved in a physical altercation? No she was NOT.  And when I say "Involved," I'm talking about throwing a glass at a person because they touched your hair. But even worse, the glass was thrown AFTER Toya touched Mariah's hair first? 

     Mrs. Kari owes Mariah an apology, because she allowed Toya to stay, but the birthday boy and wife had to go.  Mrs. Kari put Mariah and her family out as if Mariah had a fight with herself.  Having said that, I think Mariah owes Kari an apology also. The fight was unacceptable and it's just that simple.

     

     

    gjsimon3256@gmail.com 467 pts

     MsLeilah  zoeyandzacksmom  erik.hinton.56 I agree with your statement- I looked at that episode several times-When Mariah was touching Toya's hair, Toya (left hand) was touching or pushing Mariah's hand/arm.  Then Toya raised the glass and threw it at Mariah.

    erik.hinton.56 86 pts

     zoeyandzacksmom

     It wasn't the fact of outside people knowing per se as it was the fact that outside people will begin to talk and then they would have to cope with telling their daughter sooner than they were ready. And Mariah did apologize to Kari when she was at the photo shoot. What vexes me is Aydin wasn't mad about being thrown out the party. He was mad that none of his so called "friends" bothered to contact him or his wife to see what caused the fight in the first place.

     

    I would be mad too, because it gives the appearance that there was a rush to judgement. BTW, Aydin was not involved in the fight, so why didn't Duncan or Eugene contact him? They are not true friends to me. 

    gjsimon3256@gmail.com 467 pts

     zoeyandzacksmom  erik.hinton.56 Toya started the fight not Mariah.  Both Mariah and Toya should pay for the damage from the fight.  Mariah and Aydin planned to tell Lauren when she was a little older.  But it's their decision when they want to tell her not Toya's.  It would have never gotten out if Toya kept her mouth shut.

    TexasGyal 576 pts

     zoeyandzacksmom  Mariah could have chosen other DR's wives and not them. They should show a little more gratitude and humility. 

    ccollier08 50 pts

    @zoeyandzacksmom @erik.hinton.56 Are you serious? Quad attacked Toya?? What show are watching? If memory serves me right, or i can go watch it again since it is ON CAMERA - Toya was the one to attack Mariah first by throwing the glass of wine... As far as touching hair, we saw toya touch mariah's hair first, so that should not be a reason to say someone started a fight b/c she touched my hair... Whatever, the fight escalated because Toya threw a glass at Mariah, point blank.. no way around that fact. It doesn't matter if everyone knew of the child's adoption, the fact of the matter is... DID THE CHILD KNOW OF IT??? talking to hair stylists and random folks about a child or even speculating about their parentage is silly and immature. Anyone who has eyes knows that Ayden is not Lauren's father, but perhaps, they didn't tell their daughter this fact yet. What would u say if it ever had gotten back to lauren this drama at the hair salon, which was STaRTED by Toya... You people need to get a clue... As far as Duncan's comment, apparently he was wrong in his assessment, and he should've just kept his damn mouth close as his wife as well.

    TexasGyal 576 pts

     erik.hinton.56 Very well said

    gjsimon3256@gmail.com 467 pts

    Kari,

    I really don't understand why you always have something negative to say about Quad in your blogs or Mariah.  Quad really didn't mean any harm about the bus being too small.  I believe you took it the wrong way. It was just a comment.  

    zoeyandzacksmom 109 pts

     gjsimon3256@gmail.com

     Quad adressed it again in her blog with all sorts of hash tags and the like so it was more than a mere comment.  Quad does not like Kari.  The feelings seem to be mutual.

     

    It was a nice effort for Kari to follow up after the Lemon Squeeze and progress seems to have been made.  Comments regarding the size of the bus were just unnecessary.   

    cappy69 204 pts

    Quad is CONSISTENTLY catty! What episodes are you watching?!!!! Quad is VERY intelligent and know's exactly what she is doing and saying. She, I mean she as in "her" needs to grow up!! Period! This is not an "eye for an 'eye" It's basic common manners; when someone extends themselves to you, you say "thank you". Kari didn't ask for anyone to move mountains or gravel at her feet! How do you justify ignorance?! Just because Mariah introduced these women to this show does not mean she can treat them any kind of way. it doesnt mean everytime she feels like it, she can throw that up in their faces. With every episoed her, head is getting bigger and bigger. She insulted Dr. Jackie he extended herself, would you say that was just a comment too? She's ignorant plain and simple.

    Mikez 10 pts

     gjsimon3256@gmail.com Check out the second episode.  Quad attacks Karie calling her an anorexic medical mistress

    TexasGyal 576 pts

     Mikez  After Kari attacked Quad first at Mariah's party.

    ccollier08 50 pts

    @Mikez @gjsimon3256@gmail.com ok, you like Kari, cool. BUT, get your facts RIGHT!!! Why dont you check out EPISODE 1 and see kari throw jabs at QUAD. In my opinion, Quad doesn't like KARI, and since they HAVE to be on the show together, she can throw whatever jab she wants at QUAD, because KARI throws the same jabs. Stop being jealous of the relationship between Quad and Mariah, and learn how to be a friend from them. It would definitely be helpful in your life.

    Suzanna 400 pts

     Mikez  gjsimon3256@gmail.com LOL I am sorry I thought the medical mistress was funny.. Regardless you know how people feel if you are still married and begin another relationship before your old one is over. That does not bother me but people in their circle.. it does. So if you choose that way.. then you know people will talk. Don't start a new life with the old  intact if you cannot handle judgement because thats what you will get from that group. 

    tanwayparker 914 pts

    You seem so very negative, it doesn't make you superior you only look like the protagonist of the show.

    mayleren 225 pts

    Just so you know, your "events" are boring as hell. You are so jealous id mariah it oozes out of your pores. The reason no one really goes after you is because you are irrelevant. If you sidnt glue yourself to tacky toya and her mess you would never be on camera because no one cares about you. As a matter of fact im getting sleepy now writing to you. Gotta go take a nap, bye.

    princesspr 278 pts

    IMO the reason Quad speaks that way about you, Kari is he way  you speak about her. It's your delivery. Remember is NOT what you say, it HOW you say it. Now, we all know it's an edited show; however, from the FIRST moment you were on television you have ALWAYS give that air as if you are better than EVERYONE especially Quad; so, it we as the viewers see it, I know Quad not only sees, hears, but she feels that air as well.

     

    Note To Kari: To be a friend; mean you must act as if you WANT to be friend; and honestly, you NEVER act as if you want to be Quad's friend.

    cappy69 204 pts

    Quad needs to STOP going to these "free" events...REAL women would decline..freebies and all, but Quad want's that camera time huh?

    TexasGyal 576 pts

     cappy69 They are contractually obligated to attend...lol

    MsLeilah 99 pts

    You're happy to see that Maria is now having her PR person write her blogs, because they have been somewhat kinder and less put downs?  Is that right?  Let me ask you a few questions: 

     

    Are you aware Mrs. Kari that your entire blog is a put down?

    Are you aware that the Hug family is still offended about you putting Mariah out, but NOT Toya?  

    Are you aware that the Huq family is still hurting about Toya gossiping about their child to the help (stylist)? 

    Are you aware that you come across as  self centered and arrogant?

    Are you aware that you talk more about the party than what's really important? 

    What would be more important than your party?  Mariah's child. 

     

     

    chattyone 1624 pts

    You have to see by now , that they are using you as a punching bag . They truly are enjoying themselves.  

    onome 50 pts

    YOU?? tried to make PEACE?? you are one funny lady. i am beginning to believe you are delusional and have made up stories in your head that only you and your equally delusional husband believes. Yes Duncan needed to apologise to Aydin. Aydin doesnt need to apologise to Duncan. you and your husband havent still apologised for wishing a couple with 2 young kids separate. Kari i know you were successful in ruining Duncan's first marriage but you wont be able to destroy the Huq's so please take a seat.

    bjunebug28 646 pts

    Kari I'm starting to like you more, though you still need to dial it down like 25 notches on the better than thou tip.  Still, I agree that Aydin was being quite ugly about Duncan's apology, while not offering one himself for his wife's ugly behavior.  I thought he was supposed to be a man, deal with it and move on, unlike women who hold grudges, but not so with Aydin, I see his bitter ghetto wife has rubbed off on him.  And finally, Mariah admits the paypal, but not before you shoved the papers in the camera!  

    rynradnm 67 pts

     bjunebug28

     I'm confused why Aydin owes Duncan an apology for his wife's behavior but Eugene doesn't owe one for his wife's?

    ccollier08 50 pts

    @bjunebug28 mariah never denied the paypal - she has said it soo many times... Seriously, am i watching the same show as some of you people??? Mariah called KARI a liar, because Kari continued to claim that mariah did not PAY FOR THE PARTY!!!!!! Mariah already stated that she challenged a payment that kari sent for damages to the party and house. Did she send the same statement to Toya? This is so one-sided, and i cannot understand how folks do not see it. In addition, why should aydin apologize to Duncan AGAIN for Mariah's behavior... did Eugene apologize directly to Kari and Duncan for his wife's behavior. I see that you ladies on the show still continues to see the fight as being started by Mariah...

    NeutronBomb 751 pts

    Love you, Kari! You are the epitome of class and grace. You shoulda had Mariah arrested for damaging your property and assaulting a guest at your party!

    misbehavin911 226 pts

     NeutronBomb

     Sorry you got it wrong...TOYA would have gotten arrested.

    jai.simmons.9 216 pts

     misbehavin911  NeutronBomb

     No, NeutronBomb got it right, Mariah should have gotten arrested for assault and she didn't even pay for the damage.