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    Kari Wells

    Mariah Is Not the Girl I Knew

    Kari is disgusted by Quad -- and Mariah's -- bad behavior and discusses her difficult past.

     

    Mar 31

    Quad made such a grand entrance at Mariah's party. I greeted her with politely, but from the moment she arrived, it was obvious that her intentions were to hurt me.

    Nonetheless, I continued to try and be nice but I knew that she was just looking for trouble. As she said, she wanted to "skin a cat",  and she chose her best friend's party to do it. I am still puzzled as to why she was so hateful towards me, I had been nothing but nice to her, apart from the psychologist instead of psychiatrist comment.

    I have to congratulate her on her use of alliteration with her cute little term "Medical Mistress" But she is wrong. I was never my husband's mistress or anyones mistress. A mistress implies secrecy and deceit. From the very beginning our relationship was out in the open. I always had too much self esteem to play second fiddle to another woman. I come from a family that values marriage. My parents have been married for 60 years and they are still going strong. I have great respect for that. I never had trouble finding a man and would certainly not pick one who was in a marriage. When I met my husband 11 years ago, I would not even have dinner with him until he faxed me a document showing me he was legally separated. He was leaving his short childless (and loveless) marriage. They both amicably signed the separation agreement and went their separate ways until the divorce. Since then, we have shared 11 magical years together and we are proud parents of our two wonderful children.

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    susanzavagli 759 pts

    I am very disappointed with this show. ....Dr. Jackie and Dr, Simone are credible professionals ......the wives of the Doctors are hard to take......I hope there won't be a season 2

    mollygolly 5 pts

    I think the whole lot of you are terrible, disgusting people!  I am married to a Doctor who watched this show once and stated that if his wife acted like you all do, the marriage would be over!  You and your doctors are NOT gods!  Get a real life!

    BrooklynBravo 264 pts

    What is with these grown ass women calling each other "friends' when at best they are acquaintances? If you can count the number of times on one hand that you have met, you aren't friends. 

    Lysmith 27 pts

    I do not blame you for shutting down the party, that fight was shameful.

    mscgibbs 476 pts

    It wasn't just Mariah that wanted you to invite Quad and her husband.  You're own husband told you to invite them so what does that say about your husband?  It sounds like you're saying that your own husband doesn't support you.

    debraharris07 37 pts

    Kari, you are a very classy lady. Even when you throw shade, you do it with class. It's not always what you do but how you do it. You and the two OBGYN's are my favorite ladies on the show....Here's to keeping it classy.

    ban07c 12 pts

    Team Kari ALL THE WAY! Qhad is a such a loser! To bring up such a serious part of your past just because she was losing an argument is not only a low blow but shows how ignorant she really is. She always has something to say but shes still says absolutely NOTHING. I would think she'd be more mad at Toya than you! but I thought you handled it like a lady...and Qhad...not so much.

    P1976 7 pts

    You have every right to be insulted -  Quad is a loose cannon. I would not want her at my party, either. I am glad you stick up for yourself. You're a strong woman, Kari!

    fr.mkt.9 711 pts

     P1976 kari's the lose canon. She started everything and insulted Quad first. She had a right to feel insulted. We must be watching 2 different shows because Kari's not a strong women. she's a condescending, petty and immature bully that has no wisdom for a women her age. In Mariah's words- I feel sad for her.

    Haukku 288 pts

    You and Kenya Moore from the RHOA have so much in common, except Kenya can't seem to get a husband! Both of you have inflated egos. You both blame everyone else for problems you actually cause. You lack humility and have low self esteem, which is why you are so quick to condemn others. And both of you have had plastic surgery when what you truly need is a Psychiatrist.

    fr.mkt.9 711 pts

     Haukku SPOT ON!! I could not agree more! You hit the nail on the head.

    suprafreshkid 196 pts

    I give Quad points for going in on the attack against you 

    cstafford 43 pts

    you are as fake as they come! you have fake body parts but call others fake...wow you need to take some of that money and seek professional help!

    yolsmoo87 271 pts

    I give Quad credit for standing up for herself when you and her had the argument at Mariah's home, but I felt that the comment she made about your condition was over the top. You seem very arrogant and why put down Quad's husband's profession?  What was that about?

    iatnok 6 pts

    Kari, how could a woman in her 50's acting so crazy on the show.  You're married to a doctor isn't that enough accomplish in this lifetime for you?

    cutetay7 250 pts

    In the words of Quad catch fire please.

    sinsin 769 pts

     

     

    You obviously knew the difference in doctors titles as you must at some point during your struggle with Anorexia seen a psychiatrist......so right of the bat to mix the two up speaks volumes about your classless and underhand BS.

    Next time you need to be very careful when you decide to be a B**ch  and throw shade.

    FlutterBy 1173 pts

    Why are you even hanging around these women??

    casm007 7 pts

    Kari,

    I do not think I have someone as shallow as you, and why in the hell would you get lips that big.

    Brwilliams57 26 pts

    ...and yes Mariah is not the girl you thought you knew!

    Brwilliams57 26 pts

    Now Mrs Kari, don't play so innocent. The very first episode you said some not so nice things about Mrs. Quad before she ever attacked you! You cast the first stone and open the door!

    Ish 129 pts

    Still trying to play the victim!!! Its so funny how you picked on the wrong person, she just gave you back what you gave her. Don't mess with the Bull or you'll get the Horn !!! You deserve what you got from Quad, she is so cool how she handled your bullying, it was awesome. You might want her on your team next time you want to pick on someone.

    lavanette@yahoo.com 62 pts

    Well Kari, let's hope al this bickering between you and Quad stops. I'm sorry that the anorexia comment was used and hurt you, and am sure Quad will soon apologize for that. Although she was trying to be hurtful, I believe her when she said she was not aware of your past struggles with this disease. However, Mrs. Wells all is fair in a fight...and we all know besides stocks and stones words do hurt and "break bones". Hopefully you can heal from this and get to know her and she get to know you. Although you struck a cord with many people, I believe you are a wonderful person, wife, mother, and friend., Along with smart and supportive. Just try not to participate in the bullying that others ensue... Ex. Toya.....keep your head up ;)

    RHOtheCaribbean 485 pts

    I forgot to say that the term "Medical Mistress" was hilarious!!!

    RHOtheCaribbean 485 pts

    The beauty of this playing out on national tv is that we all saw you attack Quad first. Your actions were mean and tasteless and your tone overwhelmingly condescending. Since all the episodes have been taped, It is too late for you to get over yourself this season. The best you can do is go on a remorse tour and apologize for any rude behaviors via your blog. And if you are back next season, take a fresh, new approach to your relationships. Peace.

    Muffie239 88 pts

    Not condoning Quad's behavior, but maybe you and Toya will think twice about criticizing someone marriage. At Mariah's  birthday party the two of you went in on her about her husband sending an email saying the wedding was off.

    OliverBStyles 127 pts

    I only caught a few minutes of this show for the first time, and I thought you were somebody's second wife/ prior mistress (or homewrecker since you weren't a secret). I was right just on appearance alone. From what I saw you went after Quad in a cowardly catty way and she took you down publicly and to your face without hesitation. I think you're just a sore loser. If you're gonna play the game, you better read all the rules, and know your opponent well.

    msgsm 25 pts

    Kari, you are a hypocrite. You think it was ok for you to constantly call Quad crazy, but when she struck back and alluded to you be anorexic then suddenly she was so wrong. 

    brownsuga21 104 pts

    kari stop talking about class and  start acting class. You and #tackyttoya keeps talking about being classy but shows and act totally opposite. From day one even before meeting Quad you two were speaking negatively about her, and when you finally do it was like you two were setting. #tackytoya just sprang on her and you faithfully join your friend but yall got the shock and didn't expect t get the reaction you did, thought she was an easy walk over. So stop blaming Quad for her outbursts and wanting to get back at u when u two came for her without a reason, take responsibility for your actions.

     

    What i would suggest is you two meet one on one apologize to one another and get to really know her and stop worrying with #tackytoya. You have the potential for viewers to like you and see the class in you, but we can't if everytime you meet with toya is to talk abut people thats not class. e has supported both you and

     

    Lastly  please don't step to Mariah because she sees you for whoo you really are, she supports both you and Quad, But when you wrong you wrong and you are.

    UnrealHousewife 70 pts

    For someone who undoubtedly needed counseling while dealing with your anorexia, one would think that you would be less dismissive of psychiatrists.  You have, on more than one occasion (mind you we're only 2 episodes in), implied that Quad's husband isn't a "real doctor;" that he is "just a psychiatrist" who would be more useful if he would prescribe Quad something.  Mental health isn't something to make light of and it is extremely irresponsible of you to make the comments that you do.  You clearly don't know Quad and yes, she may have rubbed you the wrong way, but had you approached her like an adult and apologized after your initial meeting (which you admitted you thought Quad was upset about), things would not have escalated to this point.  However, you seem to like the drama and continue to fan the flames.  You can't call her low class and trashy when you keep antagonizing her.

    g0ttal0v3m3 120 pts

    I kinda feel something likeable about you, but you seem waayy too pretentious and into this 'doctor's wife lifestyle'. You seem to be riding on quite the high horse. Your insults are always about people being 'low class' which is ridiculous. Your husband is a surgeon, and you do represent him being his wife, but you don't have to be so snobby.

    And how is Quad calling you a 'medical mistress' any worse than you calling her a 'low class whore'? Sounds tit for tat to me.

    jgreene 52 pts

    I cant believe with what and who you have to deal with.  Quad and Mariah are so trashy and an embarrassment.

    judy@london 958 pts

    Get over yourself.You're a mildly attractive woman physically but as soon as you open your mouth(and what's with the accent?)anything attractive about you goes out the door.Not a good look.

    lfaunt 291 pts

    The fact that she can make a grand entrance really pisses you off.  Would it be that you have play out  and are no longer relevant.. 

    phoenix.rising.3517 80 pts

    Mariah shouldn't even be mentioned, she has no control over what another Grown woman says or does. You want to sit back and act like you are so nice and sweet, when we see all of you throwing shade. The eating disorder comment may have been hurtful, but im also sure that the comments about Quad's marriage we equally insulting to her....you get what you give.....

    loving_my_life 1260 pts

    loving_my_life

    So, it's "ok" for YOU to judge Quad's marriage and her husband's credentials, but she's not allowed to say anything to you in return?  PLEASE!  If you're allowed to say what you want about her, then she's allowed to say whatever she wishes about you as well!  If you don't want her to say anything about you, then don't say anything about her....  PLAIN AND SIMPLE!

     

    P.S.  Who wouldn't get loud an aggressive if they're being nice to someone, but is rewarded for it with ugly trash talk and insults?!  LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE AND YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO WORRY ABOUT!

     

    jescob 6 pts

    Kari, you are intelligent, beautiful and elegant! You cannot waste your time arguing with people! You don't have to answer to anyone.

    loving_my_life 1260 pts

     jescob Really?  Well, we all have our opinions and that's definitely not mine.  And she may not have to "answer to anyone," but she doesn't have to talk about them to make herself feel better either!  She's no better than anyone else!

    breezie_bre 531 pts

     jescob

     there is nothing elegant about her Kari if she was so called elegant she wouldn't have continued with Quad. If she was intelligent she would know that a mistress isn't just someone that is kept secret.

    Drsoutherbella 222 pts

    I bet you won't return next season because you can't take the heat. Now it looks like you are about to attempt to put Mariah under the gun, bad decision, after you acted "classless" at her house twice. Called the other trouble maker Rough around the edges and provoked a fight with the weakest link. It is so crystal clear that you don't fit with this group of women,you just want the spotlight, but your light is very dim.

    angel22 296 pts

    You and toya attempted a verbal, double team attack, but began calling names when it was reciprocated...

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    Drsoutherbella 222 pts

    @BelGis this lady is trash Not class.People with class don't brag about it nor do they treat others poorly.

    sinsin 769 pts

     BelGis

     as a British person I can sincerely tell you that a  accent does not automatically mean you have class. Class is in the way and manner in which you conduct yourself and for this woman to be so condescending and rude to  another in such a demeaning way shows no class at all.

    GaPeach88 161 pts

    The moral of the story is don't let your mouth write a check your behind can't cash.

    RHOtheCaribbean 485 pts

    @GaPeach88 LOL!!!! OMG...how funny...and how true!!

    Faithful744 98 pts

    Kari, please don't bake a cake you are not willing to eat!  You came for Quad on the 1st episode and you didn't even know her.  You got exactly what you deserved.  You pressed play and Quad did the dance on your ego!!!  Stop following Toya, she's going to get you hurt.  And I never once heard her stick up for you last night either.  At least not while Quad was reading your resume'.  she was all wispering in your ear behind Quad's back.  She don't want none of that!.