Kari Wells

Kari reflects on this season and is thankful that the season's drama are merely hiccups in her life.

on May 28, 2013

As we wrap up season one of Married to Medicine I would like to reflect on the things that I have learned.

I have always said that any problem that can be solved with time or money, is not a real problem. This statement and belief has helped me get through many hard times in life and helped me work through some of the issues I have faced, with a better understanding.

Most of our problems in our lives, which we see as problems, are not really problems; they are temporary downers or hiccups in the road.

A real problem, as such, is a health issue, the loss of a loved one, a terminal condition, untreated depression, or something we refuse to accept and hang onto, to the effect that it harms our happiness or our wellness.

The problems that I faced during the season, were not real problems, just petty issues with other women, which I have long since put behind me.

Although, the Reunion definitely opened up some serious wounds, for all of us. I have learned not to hang onto these things. It is a truly a shame that Mariah did not feel mine or my husbands apologies were sincere. You cannot force a person to forgive you; you can only reach out with a sincere apology.