As we wrap up season one of Married to Medicine I would like to reflect on the things that I have learned.
I have always said that any problem that can be solved with time or money, is not a real problem. This statement and belief has helped me get through many hard times in life and helped me work through some of the issues I have faced, with a better understanding.
Most of our problems in our lives, which we see as problems, are not really problems; they are temporary downers or hiccups in the road.
A real problem, as such, is a health issue, the loss of a loved one, a terminal condition, untreated depression, or something we refuse to accept and hang onto, to the effect that it harms our happiness or our wellness.
The problems that I faced during the season, were not real problems, just petty issues with other women, which I have long since put behind me.
Although, the Reunion definitely opened up some serious wounds, for all of us. I have learned not to hang onto these things. It is a truly a shame that Mariah did not feel mine or my husbands apologies were sincere. You cannot force a person to forgive you; you can only reach out with a sincere apology.