As we wrap up season one of Married to Medicine I would like to reflect on the things that I have learned.
I have always said that any problem that can be solved with time or money, is not a real problem. This statement and belief has helped me get through many hard times in life and helped me work through some of the issues I have faced, with a better understanding.
Most of our problems in our lives, which we see as problems, are not really problems; they are temporary downers or hiccups in the road.
A real problem, as such, is a health issue, the loss of a loved one, a terminal condition, untreated depression, or something we refuse to accept and hang onto, to the effect that it harms our happiness or our wellness.
The problems that I faced during the season, were not real problems, just petty issues with other women, which I have long since put behind me.
Although, the Reunion definitely opened up some serious wounds, for all of us. I have learned not to hang onto these things. It is a truly a shame that Mariah did not feel mine or my husbands apologies were sincere. You cannot force a person to forgive you; you can only reach out with a sincere apology.
OMG I cannot believe how plastic, fake and self involved Kari is! Evil and condescending are just her better points. Kari and Toya obviously set out to "dethrone" Mariah. They set out to bring her down and attacked her ruthlessly. Kari showed how shallow and basically jealous she is of Mariah and her continued attacks on Mariah constantly diagnosing her with psychiatric illnesses showed how evil, unkind and delusional she is. Firstly she put down Quad's husband by intentionally calling him a psychologist instead of a psychiatrist then tried to be clever by playing the psychiatrist and accusing Mariah of suffering from an extremely wide and bizarre number of conditions which by the way are real illnesses from which a lot of people really suffer! When Kari said "it has to stop, all of the backstabbing, bringing me into this circle of hate", I was so shocked when no lightning struck her down on the spot and I can only assume that the stage was surrounded with invisible lightning rods! The only one bringing anyone into a circle of hate and in fact creating and maintaining that circle is Kari herself with a lot of help from Toya.
I dont understand why people would think that you think that you are better then everybody else. It's those like the "unstable" Mariah who have said that. Who is she???
Dont let someone like Mariah tell you who you are, considering she gets in physical fights at a doctors party. She behaves like a wild animal fighting over food.
I love you and i am sure the rest of Australia does too. I think you, Jackie and Simone are by far the most natural.
I really hope you stay on Married to Medicine. You are great!! I feel they do not show enough of you.
Kim and the rest of Australia xxxxx
I loved your spunk and class on the show and I will not watch unless you are there next time!
I didn't realize one of the ladies on the show had so much power, to not invite you back if it continues? i also thought Dr. jackie was a class act! Hope you are there, if there is a next time? By the way a lot of these other blogs are "out of it". I've spoken to many others who watch - and see things differently. So, don't buy their critiques!
Kari i really dont understand why you act better then everyone and talk down to them. you are not a very nice person and try to make yourself look better at the other girls expence. you are like the peice of salt in the peper shaker. are far as you being a pure woman all i can say is WHATEVER NOTHING PURE ABOUT YOU....
Kari, i believe you have instigated a lot, and you have clearly shown your insecurity of yourself on the show. You are clearly jealous of Mariah and you tried to go out of your way to paint a bad picture of her!!! you had your husband even reassure you that Mariah was finished and that her husband would now leave her!!! he said this to make you feel better!!!! you are PLAIN EVIL!!!! Further more your accent is Regional d you try to speak posh!!! being from England i know the difference! You are from Yorkshire where you probably come from working on Farms!!! wow how you pull the wool over peoples eyes LOL it's Funny
You are a true lady try not to let the crazy mariah get to you, I was just watching the reunion and it seems to be that Mariah was trying to get you off the show she thinks it is her show, there is no way that people would watch if it was just her mad business going on, I enjoyed watching all the lady but the fight was just terrible these women have children how could they carry on like that.
You have a beautiful family! You can tell you folks are tight. Blessings always. You are so fortunate to not have to deal with Mariah's demons. It's sad when people are so unhappy that they lash out. She behaves like a criminal.
Kari, I liked you in the beginning. If there is anyway that you can keep apologizing to Mariah "until" (like Dr. Phil always says) it's okay with her and maybe you can stay on the show? Otherwise, you've got to go. I appreciate you, being yourself on the show. But towards the middle of the show you seemed to get mean to Mariah, undeservedly so, and it was just painful to watch. I am sure there is a lot that the viewer doesn't see (that didn't make the show), but from what we did see, your apology (and your husband's) came out looking pretty insincere, your excluding Mariah and Quad from your party appeared very juvenile (I would expect that from Toya, but not from you), and you sending Mariah the bill AFTER you threw her out of her her own party, . . . unbelievable, . . . there are just no words for that, . . . . unbelievable, . . . in such poor taste. As a side note, your husband saying to you that Mariah's husband would leave her after that poolside incident, . . . . well that was very telling of his character, and I am sure one of the low points in his life/career. But all-in-all, if there is anyway you can patch it up with Mariah, and distance yourself from Toya, . . . . well it would be nice to see you again next season, . . . the way you were when the show started, . . . . please think about it.
Kari, you are right, Mariah is not a real problem, in fact, she is very small. If she keeps on like she is, her husband will not have a career and she will be blackballed from social circles because of her craziness. Anyway, you and Toya both apologized and you can do no more, so my advise is to leave it alone and go on without that relationship because you don't need it!
Hold your head high. You and your husband along with the two lady doctors bring class and dignity to this show. I felt sorry for Toya as well. The others, Mariah, her mom, and the one with the signs, are IMO a disgrace and without CLASS. Their husbands must be so ashamed of their actions on national TV....or should be. I would think twice having a doctor with such a trashy wife. Who knows, a patient's personal business could be a topic of their Ghetto conversation on TV!!!
Kari, it seems to me that people are not educated enough to realize that you were not raised in the USA and when you are from a different country you are raised differently, speak differently, etc. People think you are stuck up, but I don't think you are. Mariah on the other hand is beyond stuck up, here and her sidekick Quad. Hang in there, things will turn around.
You are without class....First you saw Toya husband call Mariah that ugly name...watch Toya start the fight....use bad language throughout the reunion...yet Mariah idea for the show gave you a new opportunity to and income to your family yet you constantly attract this so lady. In the words of our Queen B you have been revealed honey....It's not a compliment for you husband to make those r e marks to a married lady especially in front of his wife(you) it was disrespectful even it it went down like you said. You just kept putting your foot in your mouth....you can't go around speaking down on people learn how to choose words wisely in the future.....teach your children about the blessing of being able to give back to those who are less fortunate...stop with the poverty words.....little girl from nothing....you do sound like a snob....maybe you just don't know and if that is the case take this experience and learn from it. The Best lesson my mother taught me was never ever burn bridges. You was very wrong in your treatment of Mariah and Quad and as a viewer I was ready to give you the benefit of doubt but you refuse to see your error...throwing poor little Toya under the bus blaming her for all that was said....still insulting Mariah...lying. It was a small door for you to save yourself from the bad expression we have of you but you let the door close....shame on you for that. DO US A FAVOR JUST BE A WIFE. Not many wants to see you on t.v.
Kari ... you are an easy target on this show! Watch yourself with the two clowns!
Hopefully, Mariah will think of her Husbands reputation and wont come back. Bravo could get another woman of class like Dr. Jackie ... Quad shouldn't be a problem then, everyone knows ... she's just a follower.
Good luck to you otherwise ... seems like you'll always be the target if Mariah's on the show. You know the saying ... To lift yourself UP, you need to put someone else DOWN ... Mariah's bumper sticker.
Kari, it's difficult to believe, much less except an appology when the person appologizing is stabbing you in the back at the same time. How can you say you gave a "sincere appology" when you're talking crap about Mariah and Quad in the very next breath??????? If that's your example of a sinsere applogy than, I'd have to say, "no thankyou, go away." You don't know the true meaning of what a friendship is.
You stated that you were there not for friendship but to tell the truth. Unfortunately, that didn't happen on this show. Basically, you believed everything that Toya told you.....Bravo showed the fight scene, but they should have also showed when Toya approach Mariah. Mariah was talking to her guests when Toya interrupted her and touched her hair. Toya touched Mariah's hair first which Mariah pointed out at the re-union. Next, Toya said that she wanted to tell her what her mother said to her. Mariah did not want to talk about it, but Toya was persistent. Then Mariah started touching her hair and Toya started touching Mariah's arm. Then Toya threw the drink at Mariah and Mariah started hitting her with her purse. She was defending herself after the drink started flying at her. It would have never happen if Toya hadn't thrown that drink at her. Both ladies were wrong and it was wrong for you to take Toya's side. You should have been neutral.
Next, I hope that you can see another side of Toya. Toya denied that she had a DUI and you believed her once again. There were two and QUAD was able to pull the docket number for the most recent one and the other one she put the citation number in one of her blogs. But you said that Quad was making it up. Well, proof is in the pudding. Toya is all about denial.
At the re-union, Mariah admitted that she was wrong having her daughter approach Toya about the halloween party. Toya only admitted about throwing the drink at Mariah which could have been a real serious charge, but she doesn't take ownership of anything.
This show could have been really nice. But you and Toya want to throw around that you have more money than Mariah which is really petty especially when no one ask you that question. Just because someone's house is 1.3 million and someone else has a house around 500,000, doesn't mean they can't buy a 1.3 million house. Maybe they choose to spend their money on something else or save it.
You shouldn't return to this show next year. Obviously you want to portray Doctor's wives differently than mariah, and take your husbands practice very seriously. Let mariah find someone similar to herself (if there are any other doctor's wives that really act like that), walk away with some dignity.
Kari and Toya, I appreciate you being able to stand on your own and not follow or mimick the language of Mariah and Quad. It is one of the most stupid things I've ever heard. Just shows how d esperate they are to try to be unique. Your class did set you above the others.
You should be booted from the cast because you are a straight hater, you are boring as hell and very hard on the eyes.
Ahh, i get it now. You hate mariah because your husband has the hots for mariah, got it now. You feel inferior to mariah because she looks better than you could ever dream to look, you can't compete so you lash out. You are so crazy with jealosy you husband has to apease you with outrageous lies that mariahs husband will divorce her over a fight you helped to start from the first episode when quad came on the scene. Your hatred for mariah is sick twisted and obsessive. The pass people give you because you are white is despicable. You are rotten to the core, period. That pass is the very reason you are delusional and a mental mess.
Heck Girl. You sure know how to heap it on. You apologized? I wouldn't be surprised if you were the one telling your husband that Mariah was getting divorced. The poor man wasn't even able to clear his name. You are a piece of work. A lot of work. Do believe that's Andy's second time asking you about your lips... The story does not change by one itty bitty bit. Mariah's right. You and Toya can prance on out into the night. You were right about the kiss the ring, where worshippers genuflect and kiss the ring of the pope or a bishop. But you? Now there's a leap. Delusional is right.
Kari, I am glad that you are on this show. If it wasn't for you, Toya, and Dr. Jackie, there would be NO class left. This show would be 2 clowns short of a circus! Oh wait...They do have 2 clowns! Mariah and Quad literally act like clowns on every show. It is childish and irritating, and so not cute. Glad you bring something more to the show!
Team Kari all the way!
Kari, I told Toya and I'm going to tell you. You both are crazy if you come back for season 2. I wouldn't be caught dead keeping company with Quad or Mariah. It's hard to believe that all this hasn't effected your husbands reputations.
I dont know what to say but I am truely disappoinedt with everyones behavior. Even though you think you did not have a part in this MESS and the issues ....well you did....... by taking sides. Yes it was in your house and it was WRONG for them to disrespect you, I understand that. I think all the fighters should have been KICKED out. It appeared you wanted to seem like you had nothing to do with it, but you gossip it too. Which put you in it.
Kari, I felt that you were above the foolery that was going on this season. The show didn't really put Doctors Wives in a good place. Some of the Husbands on the Show would never see me as my Doctor. Just by seeing the behavior of their wives. Here's a toast to you for trying to keep an air of class to the show.
I think that you need to socialize with the 2 doctors on this show who display the same level of class as you do, that's where you fit in, and that's why Mariah doesn't like you!
Kari, .you're too classy and above these women. All these accusations against you are unfair. Move on to better things. (Definitely can't do worse) Best wishes to you.
Are you kidding?!?! You have spent the intire season being the poster child for insincerity.
You and your side kick Toya both need to go. Between the two of you, you both couldn't spell class. The last thing women like the pair of you need is a public platform. It really is women like you and Toya that destroy the great strides that our gender has madeover the past forty years. Go Away!
How is the "Queen of Class" feeling after the reunion? I like it that Andy said that to you. I did not feel they were fair to you on the reunion and the thing that Mariah said about your husband is totally off base. It just shows the type of woman she is. She would love to have your husband/ life / class / education / money. How can you ever forgive a person that takes it to that level? I know I would find it very hard to trust her after that. She has shown you what type of person she it. Understand it Kari and remember what she is capable of.
@kellsmore2303 please do not speak for the rest of Australia. Kari is the most fake, most superior, most condescending person on any reality show and that is pretty big company! Kari is a biaatch!
@email@example.com Toya was not convicted of DUI. she had the charge temporarily because she refused the test. Once she took the test the charge was immediately reduced. There is a huge difference between DUI and aggravated assault (Quad's charge). Agg assault is a felony and carries a possible sentence of 20 years. DUI is a misdemeanor and carries a maximum sentence of 12 months. If you are stopped in Georgia and elect not to take the test you will be charged with DUI. That does not mean you are DUI. It means you did not take the test.
@firstname.lastname@example.org You beat me to the punch!I just finished watching the reunion and came here to question that very statement of 'I'm here to tell the truth'. Kari must have thought she was on that old game show, because nothing she's said on THIS show has appeared truthful. Kari, since the show has aired and you watched as the audience did, you should know, you fooled no one. Well, maybe you are fooling yourself (how fun). The reunion was your chance to try making amends for bad behavior, but...well, as I said, you fooled no one, but yourself.
@email@example.com you be on point sister...love your comments
@fiesta kari needs to leave because she's a snake. She doesnt fit because she's a true hater and trouble maker. Kari has no dignity and she's a liar. Shes the main reason mariah and toya got into the fight. Kari has been stirring the pot getting toya all hyped up. Kari is a typical hater. She should go. She tried to belittle the women acting like she's better and above everyone else when in fact she's a pig she's jealous and she's low class. She's jealous if mariah and hates the fact that her husband has the hots for mariah. Kari needs to go. The ladies will never ever get on common ground with kari there.
What class may I ask?, give me a break with such nonsense, first of all Mariah and Quad are educated women and they're just joshing around but that don't make what they say stupid and they're not desperate stuff shirt. By the way just because Kari speaks with a British accent don't mean crap because not everyone from England are wealthy okay some are poor and others are wealthy so she can get off the show and hub nub with her so call upper class Brit like herself. Keri is a snake and that is my final comment to you.
@sunrisesuzie you appreciate toya not picking up language from quad and mariah? So you support toya cursing like a back alley hoodrat and her husband calling mariah a bitch, in their home where their children are? You also support manly kari calling quad a low class whore? Wow, OK.
No, she is wratched. Quite a lovely dress she had on though.
Quack, quack Dr. Jackie yes but those two nuts no. Oh by the way please take a look in your mirror and you definitely will see a clown.
" LOL He was mocking her" LOL You guys don't even get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Correct, if Kari is replaced with someone similar to Mariah, it will make viewers like you happy.@mayleren
@CarmenE @Mikez -I agree, Andy was being facetious(lol). Some people have a tendency to mistake her "accent" as classy without looking at her behavior! Sayings, "Kiss the ring" and being a raging "petty" gossip, and a myriad of other ugly behaviors are not equivalent to classy. There is nothing "classy" about Kari or her husband who sounds depraved! LoL.
@fiesta if karis replacement is like mariah at least we know that this person will have the ability to admit when they are wrong and know to apologize and be sincere. Kari is a heartless hater and it doesnt help that she's got the delusional sense of superiority syndrome. She's gotta go.
fiesta, mayleren did not say she had to be like Mariah, that is where Kari and Toya fans lose credibility, you start making up stuff and putting words into it that are not said just like Kari and Toy, where Mariah and Quad fans stick to the subject just like Mariah and Quad. She doesn't have to be like Mariah, she just doesn't have to be a gossiping, backstabber that lies about everything like Kari and Toya. I know it will be hard for you women to understand but there are others ways to be entertaining besides being evil. That is why Mariah and Quad fans like them, they are intelligent, fun and very honest. They may get messy at times but they aren't evil, BIG DIFFERENCE!
@bravofan12 @CarmenE -You really don't deserve a response, but I believe in public education so here we go. First off does the "12" represent your IQ because I really want to know if I'm dealing with just a typical witless "Kari Fan" or a certifiable knuckle dragger? Seriously, you can't sling mud and not expect to get dirty! Everyone on this blog should be of age, AND if you attempt to question my maturity or intelligence then expect a suitable response back. That is all. And by the way, do not attempt to interpret or define maturity, then proceed to act like a rude child! Using a vocabulary that incorporates, "wiping YOU behind" is a telling reflection of your maturity level and on the attack.
@Matzinger1 @CarmenE you guys are out of control..acting like children and attacking everyone. You have proven how trashy you are. Please reply to Lakeisha maybe she' ll have you guys on the show-eating with your hands and wiping you behind..that should come easy to you!
You're hot off the press with that breaking news that she's the queen bee WOW back to you back to you too. Mariah we truly love and support you and please don't let that woman get you down especially when she broad cast that you came from nothing as if though she came from wealth 100%, please don't let that accent fool you all into believing that she had it all 100% from birth because not all Brits were born in wealth many of them are just like some of us here in the States, scratch, scratch our way to the top and proud of it.
24hrhousewife If you’re talking about Mariah, that makes her EXTREMELY intelligent, I don't know of any boss that would put up with those two snakes, Kari and Toya. As producer and investor of the show, yes she is their boss or WAS. Kari and Toya were given a great opportunity too bad they were too dumb to know better. If you are the type that would put up with that nonsense 24hrhousewive then that is probably why you couldn't run a business. I run two from home and have several employees and there is NO WAY they would EVER be allowed to treat me with such disrespect and hatred. YES KARI IS THE BIGGEST LAIR ALONG WITH TOYA
@CarmenE @bravofan12 - Remember, your dealing with "Krazy Kari" fans ...that says it all, but I think they all drink from the same "kook aid" hahaha!
@Karlosmonty -Attn: Ms. Simple, AKA Karlosmonty, The "Catch that dirt & Mud Pie" reference is called a metaphor. Now are you smarter than a 3 year old? I suggest you spend your time reading a book in lieu of playing bully on this playground(lol)! That was a verbal spank!!! Hahaha
@Matzinger oh no! Not mud pie? How old are you? Five? My three year old finds those jokes funny. You really have no clue about intellegent humor. that is why you don't get Kari lol.
Matzinger1 have you noticed just how disrespectful the Mariah haters are calling her by her first name when she goes by her middle name and then they say she is the mean and disrespecful one. I never get that kind of mentality. If someone is going to correct someones behavior, then at least try and do better, don't act worse LOL
@CarmenE @bravofan12 @Mikez -LMBO Carmen!!! Catch that dirt Krazy Kari fans! I believe Carmen just served you mud pie hahaha.