Can I ask a question? Why do you have to talk about yourself in the third-person? When you walked into the birthday party you said "she is here," "she was fashionably late." Why can't you just say "I am here," "I was fashionably late." I really don't understand why you do that and I have noticed that Quad does the same thing. It makes you sound less of a person, it sure does not sound like someone who is married to a doctor. But then again, there are a lot of things that have been said and done that would not be expected of a doctor's wife. Just a little strange. Just saying.... 

Fighting people is never the answer, that is ghetto and trailer park trash. 

I love you. you Was 100 percent right to fight her. And if I was there ± would have helped. TEAM MARIAH!!

I do not see Mariah taking responsibility like the other blog said. This blog is full of sarcasm and pointing the finger at someone who had nothing to do with Mariah's horrific Actions. You came to a party two hours late after you drove around in the limo getting drunk!! My honest feelings are that you have not come to terms with your past. I think you keep saying "yaaaas, I have arrived" because you are trying to convince everyone that you are something because you married a rich doctor. Having money does not give you class.

Your mother is really the reason the embarrassing schene started at your husbands bday party. But most importantly you at least owed Toya an explanation as to why you were acting funny and out of control.....you explained to EVERyBODY BUT Toya what was said to piss you off and caused you to engage in a physical altercation..... That's the petty part... You should have poke to Toya about it outside the event.... Smdh

Mariah,

You are the bomb girl and your husband also. Thank god he stood by your side.  I admire your strength in standing alone but above all believing in your family and the threats that Toya is making. State your facts and continue to keep your head up. Don't stoop to her level. Toya is a snake and has something up her sleeve. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. I think that Toya has multiple personalities and can't keep up with which lies she is telling. She is calculating but one thing she can't do is wing it. I saw that she took the first punch and you were just pushing her back. Can't stand her......!

This was a bad situation no,  fighting was not the answer honey, you better than that but now that it's over remember to pray about everything, never let your emotion take you to the point were you forget about what's important to you. Still a fan Boom!

Real ladies do not resort to street fights irregardless of fault.  Rise up to the occasion and speak to Toya and apologize to Kari.

Actually Mariah - without us viewers "knowing" the true back story of the altercation at the party - most of us have guessed its true origins - jealousy. And it's as simple as that. Kari practically jumps on a soapbox with her insulting putdowns about you - even moments after scenes showing the two of you together as friends - and only another mindless biased half-woman could or would defend kari's insults or actions. The real truth seems to be envy on a massive scale - your beautiful home, beautiful children, handsome, devoted doctor husband - combined with your carefree "devil may care" attitude and personal confidence speaks volumes of your inner contentment and happiness - and the fakes take it like a stake to the heart! Ins't that always the case with jealous women who rather than compliment the girl "who has it all" will scheme and plot and while and scream they are victims when their plans backfire and they pay the price. I love it! You took it to the streets girlfriend - and sometimes that's the only direction to take it and I ain't mad at cha!

Speaking of "the fight" - didn't we hear Toya say "Awwwl naww MF"? If anything Toya should be grateful you flipped her hair first rather than rip her throat out like you obviously tried to hold yourself back from (I can relate) - anywho - enough with apologies. What occurred has occurred and is now in the past - contrary to popular opinion - doctors are not gods, angels from Heaven or Hail Mary Full of Grace but human beings with human emotions and fallacies like everyone else. If having a physical altercation with someone that grievously provoked you is the worst thing that happens in your life please consider yourself lucky - many many people - including those same "professionals" everyone else seems to be sooo concerned you offended - and/or their spouses - have much much more serious incidents in their backgrounds and some even really scary skeletons hidden in their closets - too many and too morbid to mention here. Only suffice it to say we are all human beings and as such we all have done or are capable of things that we sometimes wish (in hindsight) we'd reconsidered in the heat of the moment. And for the record - please do not allow people like Drs. Jackie or Simone or anyone else that feels they possess an undeserved right to judge point a crooked finger in your direction - otherwise you should check them too - then keep it moving.

Most people have an innate sense of fair play - but not all people - and also a sixth sense about who is genuine and who is not - and overwhelming viewer consensus says you are genuine to the core in your feelings and personal relationships. Maybe at this point it's best your opinion of Toya was vindicated - and your "friendship" with Kari was revealed for what it was - non-existent.

I personally wish you well and your family the best.  

Here's the thing:  When you disclose personal and confidential information to ANYONE - there's always a chance that it will be told to someone else.  This is true even for someone you consider your closest friend and/or confidant.  If you don't want it to be known - then TELL NO ONE.  Otherwise prepare yourself for the consequences if your secret is exposed.  There are no excuses for grown women to fight - especially at your own husband's elegant birthday party.  Also, the fact that it was on NATIONAL TV is even worse!  For those of you who seem to think this behavior is okay speaks for itself.  They were classless in fabulous dresses and jewelry...period.

Mariah, you are one of the producers of the show. This adoption stuff seems like a big ploy, set-up, for rating, b/c no one except the “mysterious people in Atlanta beauty shops” knows about your child paternity. Meaning that this didn’t have to be on camera for millions to see. Both you and your sister knew the cameras were rolling when the subject was brought up, in your bedroom. Even if it slipped, you could have made the executive decision to delete that scene, but I guess it makes good TV. Protecting your child is not coming on national television and talking about her adoption. Also, who are these people who supposed to heard Toya say this? How do you know this is not just gossip? I can go on and on, but come one! How is everyone missing this?

Mariah, I'm sure you realize by now that you should have continue to ignore Toya like you were doing. It was your husband's party. It's clear she started the fight. But you have to work on you. There is a time and place for everything. We don't chose our family, but your mother has got to learn how to behave, or she may have to sometimes be left off the guest list. Why you sat there crying at Dr. Jackie's house instead of saying what really happened. That was your opportunity to clear the air with the truth about how the fight started and the things that Toya had said about your daughter. As well as express why did she and Simone pass judgement before talking to you. Not to cut anyone down but so far on the show I have not seen anyone with real class. What I see is you ladies who are married to doctors really lucked out. Dr. Simone and Dr. Jackie are doctors, but Simone needs to work on her behavior at times, and Dr. Jackie sometimes tries too hard to be something she's not. Work on you. Tone it down girl, you don't always have to be heard before seen. As far as Kari, don't ever feel beneath her, she reminds of so many foreign women who's mission in life is to look for a successful American man, so they can come to the US and pretend to be something they're not. She is a gold digger who appears to have set her sight on another woman's husband. Just tone your voice down and get it together.

I don't usually comment on these blogs and rarely read them, but, this was so crazy, I had to see what each side had to say. I think you were both in the wrong. As a mother, I empathize with you. I have a sister in law that takes every single opportunity to take jabs at me in regards to my children. For the record, I have raised them both on my own as I am divorced, and my 15 year old is an honor student on track to graduate early, and my 4 year old is a sweet child who is manner full, courteous and respectful with his "Yes Sir/Ma'am and no Sir/Ma'am". That being said I have never in the 19 years she has been with my brother, laid a finger on her, ooooooohhhh but I wanted to! LOL! It's just not how grown ups behave, whether you're a Dr's wife or work part time at 7-Eleven scrubbing toilets with a toothbrush! It is not about class, it is about maturity. I say you and Toya should split the cost of damage to Kari's home and steer clear of each other until the smoke truly clears and you can carry a decent conversation and take responsibility for each of your parts in this mess.

Toya was totally in the wrong for talking about your daughter. I hate that she's playing the victim and painting you as the culprit. She is a snake. Kari right along with her.

I never write in these blogs, but I occasionally read them. I had to check out what you had to say about the fight. You talk about all the things that have been done to you or, in reality, what you perceived to have been done to you. You talk about being responsible for your own actions and then write justifications. That is not taking responsibility! You ladies hold yourselves as being superior to other people because you are married to doctors or a doctor. I know a lot of doctors and their spouses and do not feel inferior to them. However, with your superiority complex should come a higher standard for behavior. You failed that miserably. You say your past doesn't affect you at all, then why bring it up? Is it because you behaved in such an horrendous way? I don't care where you came from, why you felt justified, or about anything else you have to say. You behaved horribly and you aren't owning it and your mother is just as bad, if not worse! It's apparent that the apple did not fall far the tree. And I don't care if the tree was in Tennessee, Detroit, or New England! Grow up. Apologize to all the ladies and all the guests, without rationalizations, and prove you really take ownership of your behavior and show the class you say you have.

And that thing you call a mother is included

Even Ghetto birds flock together Quad and Mariah deserve eachother !!

Mariah pushed Toya and Toya reacted once they touched eachother it was a all out fight ....never should have happened ..........they were both responceible and they need to own that 

For the record from the footage i saw toya totally started the fight by baiting you into a conversation. She came up to you in front of others and started carrying on about your mother and as far as i am concerned she did it on purpose to get you alone. yes you should have walked away but i totally understand wanting to stand up for yourself and your family. what is totally appalling and makes me sick is that they are completely blaming you and bad mouthing you and your relationship with your husband which is none of their business. gossip queens need to shut up and take a look at the facts. Kari needs to let you and toya know the amount of the damages and to be a bigger person i would pay half and send personal notes of apology, no excuses or explanations, just an i am sorry to all that were there when the fight happened. That is how you rise above. Stay strong

I hope you and your husband work through this.  It was not the way to handle this situation.  Toyawas trying to hit you in the face but she never connected.  You were able to keep her under control.  I hope Bravo does not bring her back next season.  She is really hard to watch.

I like you Mariah. Being a "Queen Bee" though I don't condone violence, I get it. Toya is a shade throwing wanna be, who's nothing more than a hood rat trying to catch up. She was inappropriate at your birthday party, when she approached Ms. Quad about her wedding & she was inappropriate at Dr. Ayden's party to approach you about your mother. I watched the show & saw her throw a drink on you first. She is classless & utterly ridiculous! Kari is an ugly example of why you SHOULDN'T get collagen in your lips. Cancel those broads & keep it moving! I enjoy you, Ms. Quad, Drs. Jackie & Simone, but those other wanna be's....amongst other things needs to be replaced.

I'm going to give you a pass, because talking about one's child can make one see only red.  Probably the best thing you could've done, was cancelled and not go.  Toya brought you out of yourself thereby winning in away.  Duncan and Kari are not friends and I think they're phony but you do owe them an apology.  It was their home and you say you texted your guest, I would hope you texted Kari as well to let her know you would be considerable late.  I get your distress, but it does not excuse your behavior.

Team Mariah, girl you defended yourself and that us what you should have did, that is what anyone would have did, Married to Medicine or not! Toya is ghetto, she is trying to put a different image out honey but it is too deep. Kari, really, all I have to say is Quad called you out, you married money, it is not old school money that you act like you come from. Aydin, your wife defended herself, believe that.

Kari did not kick you out of your party. She kick you out of her home which you and your mother disrespected. 

Kudos to you Mariah!! Dramatic as the scene at the party was you were only defending yourself and your family. You are the lioness protecting her cub, and anyone can see that you were just reacting to a bad situation. #TeamMariah

Mariah,

I think that Toya was wrong for discussing your personal business, because everyone has a past. No one past is squeaky clean so I am sure her and Kari has one but you do not try to dig into their past or business and talk about it. I think that you were taken outside of your character but when you look at the situation wouldn't anyone. My mom always told me you do not have friends you have associates so you should have kept Toya and Kari at arms reach. I think that your mistake was thinking Toya was your friend, but we live and we learn. I am sure you will not make that mistake again.

Mariah love you and Quad on the show. I think Kari and Toya have never been truly  your friend. I think both women are gossip queens and it is a shame that their true colors came out during your husband's birthday party. You are sweet, funny and classy lady. What people fail to realize is when someone comes at your mother and daughter in a negative way your first reaction right or wrong is to protect. Sometimes in protecting the ones we love things may get out of hand and it this case it did however you in the moment felt the need to protect your family. I hope that you have learned from this entire ordeal. Much love for you and your family!

Money doesn't buy you class Mariah... that is something that you learn though hard work, respect, kindness, unselfishness, empathy and love.  And to be late two hours for a party you are hosting... you should have been there early to help with any last minute preparations and to be there to greet the guests who came to honor YOUR husband on HIS birthday.  You made this about you....shame on you.  Grow up and stop blaming everyone else for your behavior.  Life is 10% of what happens to us and 90% how we react.

Mariah, Mariah, Mariah, Why did you go and talk to Toya?  You appeared to already have had a few too many and you were definitely upset over what was said about your child. Mothers become beasts over their children.  Didn't you get that memo?  You were already upset and drinking, so what else did you expect to happen?  I like you and your husband.  He is so sweet but you kept it real and told him sorry about embarrassing him.  You then kept it uber real  when you told  him you wished you would have really beaten her down.  I rolled!  You definitely owned your part.  I can't say the same for Toya. Kari is not your friend nor is Duncan your husband's friend. They called the police and it could have hurt your husband's career.  That is what should be utmost in your thoughts before you swing a purse or your mother bang on a head with her purse.  I was most pleased that you owed your part, big time, but I was displeased it ever happened.  And if you need something to be kept confidential, keep it between you and your husband. . Mariah you really need to pull it together and control your temper.  Watch your backs with Kari and Duncan, I don't trust that duo!

What horrible, dispicable behavior. In no way did you behave like a lady nor a hostess; you did not help at all that day, and then you were 2 hours late.As far as your "coin", Kari returned your money at one point, and if you were no tgoing to help out you should have just stopped there. Another thing is...how do you know Toya said anything? Just because your ill natured and pot-stirring mother said so? Not evidence enough. And  Kari certainly did not cause a physical fight at your house. Both you and your mother should be charged with assault with intent.Your daughter certainly looks old enough to know that your husband adopted her.I find no reason from your behavior on television that you should be so pleased and self-satisfied with yourself. You should be terribly ashamed. "Queen Bee"? What queen behaves like an animal, and lets their mother continue to hit someone who is down? Atrocious!.

WOW is all I could say... First of all you show up at your party 2 hrs late...no class. RUDE. How ere you brought up...oh wait I guess I could tell from your MAMA. I hope bravo takes you off the show.

First of all, I love you, Mariah. I don't care what a n y o n e says. You and Quad are a couple of the most sincere and down-to-earth women I've seen on these reality TV shows that are plagued by relevance-seeking leeches like Tacky-Toya and Lil' Miss Kari, even Simone to an extent. And while people may feel like they can claim how "disappointed" or "ashamed" of you, let's be very clear that none of them were in your shoes. None of these sad folks waggin their fingers at you had another woman they thought was their confidant run her mouth about their child in such a malicious way. No one was in your shoes when Toya's raggedy a.ss showed up to the party and straight up approached you about something that had nothing to do with you. If Toya had an issue with Miss Lucy, then she needed to pull up her panties and speak to Miss Lucy directly. 

It was unbelievably evident that you were N O T the one that started all that. You came with the intent to enjoy your evening, and even said to Lake earlier that day that you would handle her another day. And did no one else see that when Toya approached you SHE touched you first? She says you flipped her hair and what not, but she came right up to you and started to do the same thing with your hair! Not like her hair wasn't a damn mess in the first place. And on top of that, she threw the first blow by tossing her drink straight at your face. Anyone who wants to play like they would walk away after that is only lying to themselves.

I think it's rightfully responsible of you to claim responsibility for how the brawl went down, Mariah. That's far more than Toya has done or seems to be capable of. If any woman had spoken about another woman's child, we all know our maternal instinct would be to protect our little one and attack whomever had put their well being in danger in the first place. Toya's lucky she didn't get her face knocked off with that purse.

Ms. Mariah, I saw the hold thing and when you were touching Ms. Toya’s hair it was in the way of a gentle touch but when she through a drink in your face, I know it was on. I believe it looked like Ms. Toya came there to start something because number one Ms. Toya was dressed to causal for that party, number two her husband did not come and she did not bring anything with her in his place or to represent what the party was for (it was a birthday party – where was the gifts?-I do not care how old or rich or poor a person gets if there is a birthday party gifts should be in the guess hands to give to whoever the party is for). Finally, all Ms. Toya talks about was you and your family it seems to me that she was trying to discredit you but no worries my dear Mariah. You are still great to me and I am sure to many others. I have learned when I person is talking about another to some many it is because they feel that something is not right in their own life. It seems that you are trying to give your goodness to all which is rough but sometime some are not ready to advance to a higher level even if their money status has changed - I do understand you wanting to be a friend and open to all within your circle but sometimes if someone does not what me around it would be a favor and a time saver for me not to have that person in my space or my face. Remember, what is on the top of the cover we all can see but what is hiding under that cover is yet to be shown. However, it comes out a little at a time. Keep your head up because I know you are doing the things to move forward in this situation. You husband is a smart man and is on your side because he knows you are on his side that is why I like him because she shows his love for you.

No excuses. You were wrong. Your mother was wrong. 

 It was very sad to see Mariah in this way. Maybe Mariah's sister should have waited and told her the next day.After getting the news from her sister she didn't even want to attend the party. So obviously that's why she was late...she was trying to pull herself together to be in the company of such trifling Biotches!(Kari and Toya). Don't judge! if you were in her shoes you would hope that your reaction would be more positive! But you never know until its you! She pulled herself together best she could and put on a "I'm fine, everything is ok" face for the guest at the party. Her intent as she said to her sister was to go to the party have fun and deal with Two-faced Toya the next day. I wish she would have not even gone to the side and spoke to Toya, she should of just stayed with her friends and kept talking them. Back biting Kari is a hater and jealous of Mariah! saying that they are friends is a joke!