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Mariah: "This Was Not a Game!"
Mariah Huq explains why she is ready to forgive.
May 13At this point, I'm not sure where things will go with a few of these ladies, but I'm going to forget about all the drama, and put my best foot forward. I’ve decided to forgive, let go, and let God. I can't tell another person’s heart or intent, but I do know mine. Forgiveness doesn’t mean that I'm approving, accepting, dismissing, or condoning what someone else did. For me it means, I am releasing the past so it no longer has control over my thoughts and the way I feel. Instead of trying to change folks, I will learn to see them for who they are and interact with them accordingly. Holding on to grudges and negative energy makes me bitter and angry, and that's not who I am or who I want to be. I am a sassy mother, saucy wife, savvy entrepreneur, and stellar friend.
I would rather focus my time in those areas I've spent years building including Mariah Media Group and The Jewel & Jem kids bedding and pajama line that my sister and I co-own. Jewel and Jem will be available in several department stores late summer. Our parent company, Laura, Dare is available now at JcPenney's, Sears, & Nordstrom. I'm definitely ready to get back to work, put on my heels, and close a few more top $$$ deals! Yaaasss! She is #VeryBossy #CheckyourEmail!
@123dr You're a doctor? Your assement of the fight was wrong. Did you not see Toya approach Mariah while she was having a conversation? Did you miss the part where Toya threw the glass at Mariah? When did she approach Toya about what Toya said about her child? Toya apologized because she should have. Mariah didn't owe anyone an apology for anything except being late she owed her host and guests an apology.
Mariah, I think it would be best if your husband takes a job in another city. I thought this was going to be a great show but you and your attitude ruin it for me. If your secret was such a big secret then how did everyone else know it before Toya said a word. The bottom line is your husband is a great father to your daughter and will be no matter what. Get over yourself before you get the show cancelled or maybe they can find someone with class who is married to medicine to replace you.
Mariah, please tone it down,your doing too much. All of that attitude and neck shaking, vocal inflections.. it's like your trying to be something extra. Probably stems from deep insecutities and low IQ.. idk, but you're a train wreck. You need help. You have the worst judgement.. I can't believe you used your daughter and the puppies in paris party. Disgusting behavior! Shame on you!! I know you wont accept any of these things because you are in a great deal of denial about your poor coping skills and or you're just not smart enough to understand. You make black women look bad. you're too ghetto. The sad part is you don't see it. And after seeing your mother and her terrible behavior its clear that you were probably doomed to be the person you're percieved as. smh.
#TeamMariah.....you were in the right and to forgive is the right thing but never ever forget, keep the enemy close she wants to be you....smh
Mariah get over yourself! You keep saying you made Toya! wtf is that?! You said before she met you she was a regular ole housewife wearing flip flops!! whats wrong with that??!!
piperbeau
Right? What was Mariah before she bagged Dr. Aydin? NOTHING!
How do you know she was nothing? What man, a doctor at that, marries woman who is nothing. Stop hating it is not a cute cheracter flaw to have.@CookieKake @piperbeau
Mariah,
I don't think you have acted very well in these matters. You still have not apologized to anyone, especially Keri, that you trashed her house because you went all ghetto that night. In addition, why would any good mother put her young daughter in a position to ask Toya why she was univited to the party. That is so immature and poor judgement on your part and you should rise above all this. I am not a fan because you think everything revolves around you and that you brought all these girls in......who cares, act like a lady, a good mother and certainly a more mature woman.
Mariah even though you said you accept Toya apology, you really did not. I think you mother is wrong about bringing up certain things to Toya. This show Sunday showed me that you have not forget and will not forget. You have to move on for your child sake. The more mess you keep up the worse it will get. Dr. Jackie said a prayer while all the ladies was on the bus, let go and let God heal this situation, for you and your family. Maybe you should stay from Quad for a while.
I think Mariah is a liar and trouble maker. She lied about not taking back that money from the party, even when everyone sees the paper work. and i am sorry, but we did not know that Toya even said anything about her daughter because it was not aired, what was aired was Mariah and them talking about it over and over on national tv, (but its a secret) that Toya let out ????? Are you crazy. you and Quad are the most uneducated women that are in the show. You talk like you were raised on the streets of Atlanta instead of like doctors wives, something you all keep stating you are, I am not sure you know what that means. " we dont throw glass's of wine we are doctors wives" really, you and Quad could use a little bit of help from some kind of Dr.
Lets move on from the toya drama...bottom line: BOTH of you were wrong...I feel that you had a bigger issue with Dr. Simone...She seems like the one you admire the most and when she didnt come to your side you were more embarrashed, hurt, and jealous...Yes jealous b/c Toya doesn't have the history that you have with Dr. Simone and she got her sympathy first..but what did you expect? Nobody knew why you were so upset except your mom and sister..Sometimes its best not to shoot first and ask questions later...Im just being rational....
gen2wig
I agree. Mariah wanted all this sympathy, but never bothered to let people know. People don't have ESP. You need to reach out if you need or want something. Toya got all the support because she called people and met with them apologizing all the way for her behavior and telling them what she needed! If Mariah had called and met people explaining what was going on, she would have gotten support as well!
Mariah you still owe some people an apology!!
I dont think Toya is any angel, but a secret is no longer a secret when more than one person, knows about it, when its on National TV, its News. I thing you have a good heart under that craziness that you show, stay away from Quad and you mother, bad influence on you.
Rio2000 I agree. Your mom and your sister started the whole thing. Toya said she does not even go to the salon. She may have repeated the secret, but it doesn't look like it was at the salon. Plus, if it was such a sensitive secret, why are you telling anyone at all before you talk with your daughter. Your mom is still keeping the tension going. What is her problem?
Rio2000 I'm so over Mariah and her co signer Quad!!!
Lmao @ the last part about her mom and Quad!!! #truth #CatchThatDirt #Yaaaaassssss
I emphasize with Mariah when it comes to her daughter! But I seriously dont believe that Toya meant harm, she never denied that she said it, she did however said that she didnt mention it at the Beauty Salon becuz she doesn't go there since her stylist comes to her house. Mariah has been nothing but mean to Toya n Kari, and even Jackie!! The comments she made about Jackie not understanding becuz she nver birthed a child!!!!!!!! Ummmm I don't recall Quad having one either!!! #Lost, she is even mean to Simone and the remarks about her drinkin. The things that she and Quad says are just not cute!! Apologizing however is a start to progress and moving on> Kudos to you on letting go and letting GOD!!! #Yaaaassssss!!!!
@LifeSizeBarbiii I must say...I wish I could understand why everybody else can be so ugly to Mariah & Quad...but when they give it back they are the one's that are wrong. Toya did say she DID NOT SAY it. She said that Mariah & her family were lying on her to make themselves relevant....she put it in her blog. She flat out LIED. I think ALL of the ladies have done & said horrible things to each other...including the Dr.'s. Why are Mariah & Quad the only ones being called out. I don't condone everything Mariah, or Quad has done...but to me they have done no more than any of the other ladies.. AND her & Quad's actions have been reactionary to what is being done & said to them. I don't take punches lying down...so I don't expect the next woman to either. I have seen Toya be mean & hateful from day 1. Toya came for Quad about her marriage Ep1. She and her husband discussed Mariah's family business Ep2... I don't care about the whole "secret" issue...they discussed her family business on camera period, not cool. Toya discussed Mariah's family business further to some random "shop chic"... setting to play a horrible series of events. Toya makes comments like her values are better than Mariah because she chose to wait until after marriage to have children. Like she is better, or deserves a medal because she waited until after her wedding to stop taking the PILL! Toya tells Quad... "I could never marry a man that would do that". But you marry a man that calls another woman a B??? I have seen nothing but mean & hateful behavior from Toya since the onset. I don't care that she keeps apologizing... at some point stop doing BS to apologize for.
I do understand what you are saying about all the ladies have said mean things to each other!! But Mariah and Quad nvr stops!!! And honestly its getting OLD!!!
Here I go. One of the things you said set you off with Toya at the party. Your mother instigated this entire thing by approaching Toya and saying the things that she did. When Toya tried to speak with you about your mother you lost what little mind you have. It seems in the upcoming episode your mother is still instigating. Are you a grown woman as you claim or a little girl whose mother still controls her? Yo mama needs to get a hobby.
deila59
"What little mind you have" OMG! LMAO
You simply have no class. You should of already told your daughter that your husband adopted her. You act like your a child. Why do you always have to be loud and show no class? Your not above everyone just because your husband is a doctor.
jenboyce11
EXCUSE ME !!! but who are you to tell her when she should tell her daughter?!?!When she do it and how she do it is her business.I dont feel she made it where she is today by acting like a child.. Everyone on the show is either married to a doctor or a doctor, so I dont get how she think she is better then the others by being married to a doctor.
jenboyce11
well said
I see next week looks like a mess all over again!
I think the problem is Toya's unwillingness to take responsibility. Even if you didn't mean to if you make someone upset you should apologize. And she has just as much responsibility for the fight. Then she just sat back and acted like the victim. not cool
RevLALAAA Im no teamtoya but nobody knew what was wrong with Mariah until the lemon squeeze...We saw it on tv but Toya, Dr. Simone, and the rest still didn't have a clue on what enraged Mariah...I think Toya was messy for gossiping and should have apologized a lot sooner but to her defense she didn't know it was a secret...
gen2wig RevLALAAA
At the very least, when Mariah told Toya...maybe she should have mentioned it was a huge family secret!
I'm sorry I have a hard time believing that it's that big of a deal to Mariah or her husband. I mean c'mon people!! These are supposedly educated people with a background of some street smarts. None of them are naïve or stupid. Knowing and understanding this, I truly have a hard time believing that Mariah told Toya (who according to Mariah is a relatively new friend/acquaintance) a secret that was that big of a deal to her. I'm not saying it wasn't important, but who in their right mind would tell a secret that was such a huge deal to them. I don't buy that Mariah was that heartbroken or scared that the secret got out. To my knowledge she still hasn't told her daughter and yet she's been talking on national TV about the adoption. So I don't buy that it was that huge of a deal.
From what I saw, Toya never had any ill intent. I am paraprasing, but what she said was that Aiden was a good man for adopting Mariah's daughter and raising her as his own.
Didn't any of you ladies aever play that game in first grade where you whisper a phrase in someone's ear, then it goes around the circle and the last person says it out loud? It never comes out the same. Probably why 3rd party testimony is not allowed in court.
ESinAZ I disagree. Do you remember in the interview how Toya made a comment about how she had her children after being married, whereas Mariah did not? I don't remember the exact wording, but it was very snarky. Also, no matter how good of a man she things Ayden is, she did give out information that was told to her in confidence. That is not okay.
CarlaB ESinAZ I agree CarlaB and not only that but did anyone pay attention to the party when she walked up to speak to Mariah and played in Mariah's hair first......So when they walked off to talk on the side y wasn't it ok for Mariah to do the SAME????Instead it was considered as Mariah putting her hands on Toya first when from what I saw Toya then knocked Mariah's hand away and that really created the first blow....
serenc CarlaB ESinAZ
I agree with what you're saying. As for why it wasn't OK for Mariah to put her hands on Toya's hair...Mariah didn't say anything about Toya touching her hair, however, Mariah sort of (very slightly) tugged at Toya's hair. AND, I heard Toya tell Mariah to stop...when Mariah didn't stop, Toya knocked her hands away.
@CarlaB Exactly! and I also recall Toya saying it's Mariah's fault for not telling Lauren in the first place. Yes, that's some accountability! At the end of the day Toya needs to keep her mouth closed!
ESinAZ
The Problem is that initially Toya denied saying anything. Had she done that in the beginning, things could have been resolved sooner. But it was good that it came out.
Gingertee21 ESinAZ when did she deny, she kept saying she told it to here hair dresser friend at her home, not at a salon, something that was not showed on tv. how it came out on national tv was from Mariah, guess it was not to much of a secret!!!
ESinAZ I also disagree! As a matter of fact I disagree with the whole thing! First of all, Toya was as wrong as 3 left feet! She knows hair stylist gossip about all of their clients, exclusive and non exclusive. She should have just pushed Toya in the pool to make her keep her mouth shut about gossip with kids' lives. Aydin probably feels that Mariah should have never said anything to any of her friends or anyone outside of their marriage. Now that is where the real fault is. Mariah don't tell your business to everybody unless it's about business!!!!! Your children are you and your husband's concern, not Toya and all of the free world as we so found out.
Do people remember in either episodes one ot two Toya sitting by Kari's pool talking about they fact that Mariah's daughter was not her husbands? The way she broght it up showed me that when she was gossiping about it with her stylist it was with evil intent. @bigmama9 @ESinAZ
Cecil should have apologize to Ayden for call you a B**ch and the other on should have apologize for bring you a divorce. However, neither of them are man enough to admit they were out of line.
lfaunt52 You are right.. BUT it was Eugene (Treacherous T's husband) that called Mariah a "B". Cecil wouldn't say such a thing about a lady ;-)
sha_1 lfaunt52 why should he apologize if he is correct?
deila59 lfaunt52 Because a MAN does not speak to, or about a lady like that. My son would have no teeth if I EVER catch wind that he has spoken to, or about a lady that way. Mariah is no more a B than his own wife....and he would not appreciate it if Aydin spoke about his wife that way. I don't think men should insert themselves in catty women fights...it is pretty clear who the B is.
sha_1 deila59 lfaunt52
Sha_1 I ADMIRE what you said...especially about your son. I hope you have followed up your words with action and have told your son time and time again about how you feel. We women have failed in teaching our sons how to act regarding women. So many women have taught our sons that women aren't 'special' (I guess women's lib is to blame). BUT, women ARE special and should be treated as such. Maybe special is the wrong word, maybe respectful is a better one. Regardless, Sha_1 you are an AWESOME mom and woman!!! Thank you from all the moms with daughters!
Let those idiots be what they are IDIOTS!!! You and Quad are the most fashionable and by far the prettiest so you can expect those less admirable to be envious.
Miriah you and your husband showed grace, class, and professionalism! I truly believe Toya and Kari are jealous and don't mean you any good, yet you forgave them both! Good for you, just watch your back and move on. Forgive, don't forget, and watch your back!
howgrays
Jealous of what? The way she acts, talks, where she came from? Yea their jealous of that alright. NOT!
I'm so proud of you when you and Toya hug. However, in the next episode, you're talking to your mother and it seems that she may have changed your mind about Toya's intent. You can listen to what your mother has to say and keep it on the back burner. But it your decision not her's whether you want to forgive Toya or not. There's no way to tell at this point if Toya told your family secret to hurt you or not. At this point, just move forward with the ladies and stop throwing shade, etc.....The Doctors (husbands) really need to heal and build their relationship/business.
gjsimon3256@gmail.com Your mom is an issue. What mother gets involved in petty gossip to stir up friction between people? Bravo needs to leave your mom out of the show.
Mariah I wish you would STOP complaining and making fun of Toya and open up your heart more to accept her apology. I can tell Toya was really sorry and her apology was sincere. Toya is serious and you're still beating around the bush.
kuuipo She has that right, it was her child being talked about. I never see sincerity in Toya's eyes or facial expressions. I think she puts on a good act in front of the other women, but she is not one to trust.
As a black female doctor, i was ashamed to watch the fight. Honestly as it is said on the show, this is not how we portray ourselves. Yes, what Toya said was wrong, however this should have been dealt with, by having a conversation, yes it will be confrontational, behind closed doors, either before or after the party. And this should have been the advice from Mariah's family. In moving forward everyone has a role to play, they have asked for forgiveness, and it is healthy to accept it, not for them, but to heal your hurt, this is whether their apology was genuine or not. However , it is surprising not to notice that Mariah did not also apologize to the ladies for her part in the fight and how she handled it, instead it has been all about how hurt she is. How do you expect the ladies to call you, when they saw the way you behaved. What Toya did was right when she immediately called the other ladies and apologized, this should have also been Mariah. Reaching and apologizing to the other ladies, and explaining her hurt. Instead you are portraying a superior lady, above others. I do understand you are the boss, but that doesn't mean you can't treat others with respect. Do unto others as you will have them do unto you. we are all human beings, and are equal in this life. We live, we die.
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