Mariah Huq

Mariah reflects on which friendships she's pulling the plug on and where she stands with the rest of the ladies at the end of this season.

on May 29, 20130

YAASSS!

With the conclusion of Married To Medicine's Renion show, I feel positive about some of the issues resolved. I was moved by Dr. Simone's apology and acknowledgment that she had erred by not contacting me after the altercation. I had already accepted her apology when all of us visited the winery, but I can see that she felt more needed to be said.

Dr. Jackie and I are definitely in a better place and our friendship remains in tact. She is a courageous woman and I have much respect for her. I think the Reunion gave her a better understanding of what I was trying to convey earlier in the season and the pain that I was feeling. And I realize that my words had inadvertently hurt her although she knew what I meant.

422 comments
basmitch
basmitch

Your simply amazing !!!  and kari doent know how to be real honey you cant fault her for that you keep it to real....for most! they dont deserve your friendship !

mrsbernac
mrsbernac

I honestly believe you were right to not trust Kari.

kellsmore2303
kellsmore2303

Hi Mariah, 

 

I'm from Australia and the show in Aus is very popular. My friends and I love it but we dont love you!

 

Out of all the reality shows i have seen, you are by far the bitchiest most immature women i have ever seen!!! 

 

If i was your child i would be so disappointed and embarrassed. You and Quad are nasty and your  far from classy you are CLASSLESS!!!

 

Kari and the 2 female doctors are the real true classy women of the show. You and your mother should have a lesson in manners. 

 

Speaking for all of Australia i am sure of it!!!

cottager83
cottager83

A.K.A. Mariah, Thank you for proving you are not mature or classy enough to engage in the same social circle as the rest of the ladies. Unless Quad is playing Dr. Jackie, even she almost "can" fit in.  Kari dumped you and you owe her a major apology, on air!!!  Hopefully, Toya, Simone, Jackie, and even Quad will exclude you from all events until you grow up. 

MacBee
MacBee

Mariah, I love yours and Quad's personalities.  You are very entertaining, fun and exciting to watch.  I get tired of boring people like Dr. Jackie.  She is okay but boring and overly maternal with her friends.  She should adopt so that she can have real little ones to mother.  The other doctor is a factoid of a friend.  I really can't see how she missed a compassionate response to you.  She immediately took sides.  I believe she only apologized because her husband did not go along with the BS.  He seemed to be more of a friend than she.  He said that his opinion of you had not changed.  A true friend would have had your back, just like that.

 

Toya and Kari are jealous.  It is obvious.  Toya's husband is jealous that his wife does not have it like you do.  Who wants an emergency physician to come to the house.  Isn't that what Paramedics do? He cannot carry around  X-ray or blood analysis equipment; can he? 

quinome
quinome

You are awesome!  Kari and Toy needs to bow to you.  Toya wishes she was you.  That is why she was begging her husband for a bigger house.  

 

Please don't lower yourself to them anymore.  You have shown their true colors and have nothing else to proof, but to continue to elevate to higher levels.  I wish you the best!

SpeakingTheTruth
SpeakingTheTruth

I was just on the Bravo site (which I love, btw) and decided to stop in and visit Miss Mariah's blog. OMG!! are these folks (#TeamToya #TeamKari) still upset. LOL Lawdhavmercy!! 

 

MA-RI-AH...set the world on fire girl!!  You know you got a hit show, when people can't keep your name out their mouths, long after you've returned to building your Queendome. I think it's hilarious how much people personalize, judge, condemn and make character assassinations (about people they simply don't know)  - yet watch, pick sides and over analyze. It's Hilarious!

 

Anyways, hope you all are enjoying this time away from the cameras and I look forward to seeing you all back for another season. And yes, I said "you all". I believe an original cast should at least return to give viewers the chance to see "what became of...". And then, if you just can't take the heifers any more...then snip snip. I get it.  

 

Either way, have an incredible summer and all the best.

 

STT

titilaya
titilaya

Mariah, you were a disappointment for the latter half of the show.  I think your biggest problem is deep-seated insecurity that made you overly sensitive about your daughter's adoption, and the inability to step outside yourself long enough to understand that you are not the center of the universe for the other cast members.  They are the center of their own universes.  The self-annointed appellation, "Queen Bee" and the statement that you chose the cast members demonstrated that you felt they are disposable.  I have not seen another very grown woman/wife/mother who is so self-absorbed that you kept the adoption storyline running three times as long as it should have.  You are not the only woman/mother this has happened to.  Thousands of mothers have endured having their child's adoption announced or discussed by someone other than the child's parent(s).  Get over it.

pennyfurr@hotmail.com
pennyfurr@hotmail.com

Mariah is a bully. She used Toya to promote conflict and her jealousy of Kari is painfully obvious. Kari did nothing but be nice to you. She removed everyone from her home when you started that fight. Your mother walked up to Toya and starting picking on her before you even got there. If you had a problem with Toya you could have discussed it with her in private.   Toya did not make the information about Mariah's child public, Mariah did!! She was looking for a controversy to draw attention to herself so she used Toya. If she really cared about her daughter she would have made sure her daughter was away from the cameras. She brought the issue into the spotlight. Her need to stir controversy to draw attention to herself was more important than her child.  Mariah must have said "I brought you here" 1000 times. Does that mean everyone should bow down to Mariah? This is why the producer should not be in the show.  

 

sweetcee
sweetcee

We love you in the UK Mariah, i mean it is only natural to defend yourself when a glass is being hurled at you!! Hello.  Furthermore you are most deffinatley right about Kari and Toya!!! they both are jealous of you for what you have achieved and accomplished not to mention your vibrant character which clearly is a threat to them both, more so Kari!!! That is a different kettle of fish altogether!!! she (Kari) clearly has insecurity issues, and needs constant reassuring from her husband, Hence the following comments he made: she's finished now, her husband will divorce her!!! Hello can anyone else see how disturbing the whole picture is??? the man said this to reassure his weeping wife!!!! Get Kari and Husband off the show!!!! Love you Mi xx

willydog
willydog

OMG are you for real, if you are I hope I never run into you, in a doctors office or on the street., and especially your husbands office.  Talking about yourself in the third is just ridiculous, lets not even talk about your hair

FilthiMcNasti
FilthiMcNasti

Mariah....just words......you embarrassed yourself, your husband and your daughter(by telling the world on national tv that she was adopted before you told her). If you didn't want anyone to know then you should have done as they did on RHOBH...no one "knew" the secret that Brandi spilled of Adrienne Maloof. The cameras were not rolling when Toya told her beautician..you and your mom told national t.v. I can't imagine any of your husbands being proud of you "ladies" as their wives.

@LifeSizeBarbiii
@LifeSizeBarbiii

Well Miss Mariah, I'm happy to read this blog of yours. Its different. #Niceeeeeee!!!  Im happy  to see that you have chose to look beyond the drama and move on from it. I do however feel that you and #Kari need to sit and talk some more, I think you girls have unfinished business to discuss behind the cameras that is.. to save the friendship you girls once shared. I also believe that all the ladies have brought something unique to the show hence its ratings. We like everyone for who they are.. well who they potray. As #Quad said...time heels all wounds. So lets see what happens. #Lovetheshow ..it was a success. I am hoping tho that some  #Class and #Etiquette will be shown on the next season.

gwenreggie
gwenreggie

Mariah I've been trying to figure where to post my apology to you, to make sure you see it.  I didn't realize that you were younger than Tamar, that explains a lot of it.  I thought you were much older.  However, please be true to yourself.  I hope you are right that you learned a lot from this season.  I will be watching next season to see because I will always support my young black sisters I do believe the show has potential.  If you just take heed to both the negative and positive comments of the viewers.  Good Bless you and tone it down a notch.   I know you can't to much because you are trying to keep your ratings.  But don't allow them to make you look like the but of the show.  I think you have to much going for yourself and have a long way to go.  Stand for something or you will fall for anything...I think you know what I mean...God Bless

McKitty
McKitty

Love your show. It feels like a show about "real people", with real jobs and real lives (that are similar to mine, except you all look fabulous). I really liked the dynamic of all the different personalities on the show. Great group. But when Kari threw you out of your own party, and then sent you the bill for it, . . . well that was pretty unforgivable (plus no apology from her or her husband). And Toya AND her hubby uninviting your daughter to their kids party, . . . that's pretty unforgivable, too (not to mention her CLEARY throwing a glass at you. I am still not over that one!! My thoughts: you probably have to get rid of Kari and Toya for any future seasons, and I hope you have future seasons! Their "mean girl" and divisive ways are uncomfortable to watch, and much like RHONY, every time I saw that Jill, I turned the show off (it was painful to watch her be so mean to Alex, I just started to dislike the show). There is enough negativity in the news and in real life, I don't want to have watch it on TV during my "downtime". It seemed like you were doing something different on TV, and I am a fan of that original, upbeat, positive, educated women friendship, story, that you had going on. Please keep it up. You are my new favorite show (partly because one of my closest friends IS a Dr., and I have experienced some of those situations with her). And you are my fave, with Quad a close second (and of course I love the Dr.'s).

Lyricg1
Lyricg1

I'm so glad to hear you'll be back next season. I'm happy to see who Kari really is a SNAKE. She act as though all of you were beneath her. She was never a friend of yours or the other ladies .

dcelite
dcelite

I love Queen Mariah & Ms. Quad! Right, wrong or in-between, I love to see the friendship & loyalty between black women, in-which many don't believe exist anymore. From day one, both ladies (Toya & Kari) intents were malicious. Toya knew she was wrong & that's why she was crying at the roof top event. Oh, I love Dr. Simone & Dr. Jacky as well (Ying & Yang). So go ahead and take a month or so Vacation & Come back for "SEASON II" 

biloximeemaw
biloximeemaw

Oh and one other thing, you might want to let your BFF mean-girl friend, Quad, know that it was perfect when she was holding the "dellusional" plaque above her own head.  That was great and I literally laughed out loud.

cbennett1
cbennett1

Mariah you alone will ruin your husbands career.  Can you see that?

Beyoncca
Beyoncca

Mariah's such a class act, Quad as well. I especially was pleased to hear that you have ended your friendship with Kari. Kari' s miserable. I think she wishes she looked as beautiful and youthful as you.

Simone was such a liar,on part 2 of the reunion, she claims she didn't take sides but she definitely did. In just about every episode Simone bashed you, your behavior, yet in certain scenes she mimicked you and Quad's, referring to herself in the third person. Simone's such a hypocrite.

I actually liked her until I saw her throw shade your way. 

Judysea
Judysea

Thanks for a good season...especially the cat fight. 

Poolside brawl, one of the best moments of Bravo TV.

 

marcisue
marcisue

Please, don't come back and waste air time. You and Quad were the worst and your show was the worst show ever!!!

crdwp3
crdwp3

I love me some Mariah and Quad,

Quad never lied on anyone on this show. She rubbed toya nose in her mess, just like toya dried to always be messy and rub quad nose in hers. it became funny to me how kari the prim and proper and Toya the dumbest would search and seek out the gossip that they were always claiming to be above. I truly dont need to see that delusional ass Kari on this show again and toya need a friend and a clue as to who she messing with. You dont talk about anyones child and think that's ok! if it was her child she would have been out for blood.

Keep being you MARIAH AND KEEP UR HEAD UP BOO!

haveagoodday
haveagoodday

Maria I cannot believe anyone would follow you you are an idiot and Dr Simone I have lost all respect for. I love Dr Jackie.

rose123
rose123

 @kellsmore2303

I'm not trying to offend anyone here but I live in Melbourne and I love watching Mariah and Quad, their funny, so you definitely don't speak for all of Australia.

 

You shouldn't cast stones because you have never walked in her shoes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

ksmalls
ksmalls

I don't condone the fighting, the shade being thrown, and the back stabbing by these two group of women.  It's always good to take the uproad, but often times that don't happen.  It is reality of life, but I must admit that Mariah did apologized to her guests after the altercation with Toya for it was mentioned.  For I believe all parties involved were being a bit childish and it happens.  What kills me the most is the sensitive level people have for one another children.  If a friend said something to me about a child of theirs believe me it would go nowhere.   I don't like to talk about other people for you see what can happen if you do.? 

Jndixson
Jndixson

@titilaya  Everyone knows that when a child is adopted this is not a topic you bring up or spread. Even if the child knows. People who adopt children want their adopted children to be included and feel like any other part of the family. Also I don't feel that anyone should judge when its time to tell your adopted child that they were adopted. Until you have walked in that persons shoes don't judge. I am not adopted and I know that. I have adopted cousins through my uncle and that isn't even a topic ANYONE speaks of. We treat them like blood. Everyone knows but no one has ever mentioned it and I can't even tell you when they actually found out. Another thing, I dont know if you are a mother however, most parents can take any hit you give them. Mothers are tough, but when it comes to my child that's a whole different ball game. Most parents especially women who go through near death to bring a child into the world will do whatever it takes to protect them. ijs...

ksmalls
ksmalls

I believe we are all insecure about things in our lives, and as free spirited as Mariah is she did admit she is sensitive.  I don't believe there is such a thing as being overly sensitive.  Either you are or aren't.  And I don't think people get over anything.  I think we learn how to live with it the best way they know how.  We all process things differently than others.  I don't think Mariah was the only person keeping this storyline going, everybody had there say.

ksmalls
ksmalls

Please don't take what you hear seriously.  Those are slang conversation I know a lot of people who use them as a different form of communication, nothing to be alarmed about.  Damn!

ksmalls
ksmalls

That Beverly Hills and what's your point?

pennyfurr@hotmail.com
pennyfurr@hotmail.com

 @@LifeSizeBarbiii It appears that only people who bow down to Mariah will be on the show in the future. Did you not hear her say "I brought you here."? If Mariah is jealous they will be off the show. 

pennyfurr@hotmail.com
pennyfurr@hotmail.com

 @gwenreggie We will know a lot when we see who is on the show. I believe Mariah will want anyone off if she is jealous of them. Let's wait and see.

pennyfurr@hotmail.com
pennyfurr@hotmail.com

 @McKitty Kari did not send her a bill. Mariah sent a charge back taking money back that she had paid. It appears that Kari paid for the entire party. If someone was fighting in my home I would throw them out too. Mariah's mother started picking on Toya as soon as she arrived. This appears to have been set up so they could have more conflict. I am not surprised she would want to remove the only white woman on the show. 

DeeDee5304
DeeDee5304

 @dcelite

I think that is the problem with Mariah, she thinks because she got the ladies together she is the Queen. She definitely didn't demonstrate that on the show, I was truly disappointed in her and Toya, because they both could have avoided the whole situation. I have to say I believe it was Toya that started with Mariah, by approaching Mariah about her mother. I don't think that was the time or place, but Mariah didn't have to feed into Toya silliness.

I personally think the reason all the ladies except Quad resented Mariah is because she felt she was the "Queen" over them and that should never have been the case.

If Mariah is that serious about what Toya did, she would not continue being on that show if Toya is still a part of the show. She was so hurt and nobody could understand about what Toya and her husband did to her. Well we shall see how hurt she is about what took place. I don't understand why she is so angry with Kari. I know she felt Kari turned on her since she brought her on the show. All the ladies turned on her except Quad.

 

A.
A.

 @Beyoncca Classy? Really? If you really knew what REAL class is you'd be saying Jackie is the classiest of them all. Smh.

bpster
bpster

 @Beyoncca Good lord if you think that is class you certainly need to get out more. They don't have a classy bone in their bodies. Are you for real? Do you honestly think that is class? Please explain....

dcelite
dcelite

 @marcisue You know you wouldn't be watching if they wasn't on there!

shortmean01
shortmean01

 @marcisueyou know they tell me that TV's com with remotes now you don't even have to get up now days So................. Just change your channel and let us that love the show watch. with over 250 channel there gotta be something you like. just saying, I thought everybody could work a remote

 

EloiseM
EloiseM

 @marcisue

 You must be Kari or Toya or just a sucker for low level entertainment.  Shame on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@LifeSizeBarbiii
@LifeSizeBarbiii

Sigh..its shameful tho!! I believe that all the ladies should return to the next season as they each hve somthing special to contribute.

ksmalls
ksmalls

How can Mariah be jealous of people she is more successful than?

ksmalls
ksmalls

I think Kari is phony.  She doesn't seem genuine at all to me.  I saw right through Kari from the very beginning and Mariah found out later on what type of person she really is.  Not excusing Mariah for her behavior, but thinking you are better than someone else is not a person I want to deal with at all.

pennyfurr@hotmail.com
pennyfurr@hotmail.com

 @DeeDee5304  @dcelite Mariah should not have harassed Toya at the party. If they had something to say to Toya they could have done it privately.  Toya did not make the issues about Mariah's daughter public, Mariah and her sister did.

Queenme2
Queenme2

 @A.  @Beyoncca

 Even though I have a feeling that Jacky is pretending. Were she that classy she wouldn't be telling them off that much, like hallo she has no business correcting Dr Simon all the time! She should mind her own business!

vcskygirl@sbcglobal.net
vcskygirl@sbcglobal.net

@bpster @Beyoncca I know, some people just don't know what class is. It appears they associate it with having a nice home and being married to a doctor, not!

Queenme2
Queenme2

 @pennyfurr@hotmail.com  @DeeDee5304  @dcelite

 What? What show are you watching? Toya  harassed Maria and even put her hands on First Marria! Maria wasn't going to bring this up of course she wasn't going to ruin her own Hubbys party!