Quad Webb-Lunceford

Quad gives you a lesson in psychiatry and has some choice words about what Toya and Kari see in the mirror.

on Mar 24, 20130

Psychologists: have a graduate degree, usually a PhD or a MA but, not an MD.

Psychiatrists: have an MD, are authorized to prescribe medication, conduct physical examinations, order and interpret laboratory tests, and may order brain imaging studies such as a CT or CAT scan, MRI or PET scanning.

So, now Kari has been schooled. This has been another class in #Quad101. My husband has worked hard and sacrificed many years of his life. He deserves to be properly addressed.

After she was nicking at my heels, and I scratched back "claws" she now doesn't want to invite me to my best friend's husband's party and she feels that she has the authority to do so, since it will be held at her house. She has no idea that Mariah will change the venue if it means me not attending. So, if she wants financial backing it's best she keep her mouth closed and shell out the invitation.

Moving on to treacherous Toya. She would like people to believe that she declined the invitation to my wedding. But, truth be told I was reluctant to send her one in the first place. It was my husband and Mariah, one in my left ear and the other in my right ear, begging me to send her an invitation. They thought it would be the right thing to do. WRONG! We are not friends. She wanted to be invited to my wedding so badly that she would have ran valet for the evening and I mean that literally. #trackstar

100 comments
swimmer94
swimmer94

Quad is unprofessional grudge holding immature woman living in fear of losing her life instead of living her good life. Appreciate what you have & use it for good not highschool gossip.

TinKie@88
TinKie@88

Quad I owe you and your husband Dr. Lunceford, an apology. In an earlier blog I expressed how I love and respect you most of all for being GENUINE. Being passionate in the defense of your husband's title, I mistakenly said Psychologist. I was furious with myself. I know he's a Psychiatrist. I responded the same exact way on FB. Can't seem to find my Blog.  Hell, I'm not even a blogger. You gave me the inspiration to BLOG because those 2, Toya and Kari are Shameful. You are true to self. You are at the top of your game. If you can't be true to self then who are you? Don't stop being Ms. Qaudrea. You are Beautiful, Vibrant, and you have something to bring to the table. LIGHT the UNIVERSE!!!!!! 

Dina12
Dina12

Love you Quad and your honesty!  That was trashy of Toya to start with you.....  Quad let them have it....kari and Toya!

BrooklynBravo
BrooklynBravo

Enough of the twitter hash tags already #extra. It's very immature. I do agree she was wrong for questioning you about getting married after a cancellation. But you shade about the speed dating doesnt even make sense. Whether your met at the grocery store or a dating event who cares. You are both married now. You are both to beautiful for this pettiness. it is sad.

le501wh
le501wh

In Ep1 you were approach wrong by Toya. You could do better in how you respond two people that do not understand who you are. You do not have to prove anything to anyone. But know that you represent your husband at all times. because kera and toya do not understand who you are they are very judgemental.

jwwhitegul@yahoo.com
jwwhitegul@yahoo.com

My girl Quad in the house lol love me some Quad!!!! Mrs. Quad you keep on putting them in line!!!! My favorite girl and show!!!!!

princesspr
princesspr

I do not care if people do not like this Chica, I LOVE HER! There is nothing like a person; who is way to honest!

crossusa1
crossusa1

Last I checked, a PhD is a doctorate.  Therefore, a psychologist does have a Dr. next to their last name.  Furthermore, they can have multiple degrees and more education than a doctor will ever have.  In certain instances, they can even work in the school of psychiatry.  Yes, amazingly, they collaborate with one another.

 

According to my mere graduate education with an MA plus additional graduate credits, I can state that the major distinction is the ability to prescribe medications.  Psychiatrists and doctors have a prominent place in our society.  However, they are not the only people to act altruistically.  All of us work with distinction and honor.  Some could argue that those making less money can serve the public more.  Did I mention that I also attended Punahou - many years after Obama?  Many people work to gain an education without using it to the detriment of others.  Just a thought. 

 

Knowledge is power.  Hopefully, as time progresses, the assumptions will cease.  Please relax and acknowledge everyone's strengths.  We are all made in God's image.  Also, each of us has talents and gifts, not just some of us. 

Sheila0729
Sheila0729

I dont know what it is, but I just like you.

1Nadialee
1Nadialee

****Toya said she can see ghetto a mile away. Hontey, she can see ghetto in her compact mirror.***** Oooooooh weee!!!! LMAO!!! Ms. Quad, Ms. Quad she got it, she got it!

Katie247
Katie247

I just want to ask Quad when Barak Obama attended University of Chicago?? It was my understanding that Mr. Obama attending Occipital College, Columbia University and Harvard. Does Quad know something that the rest of American doesn't!!! Inquiring minds want to know Quad. Or do you want to admit you were WRONG and correct yourself!!!

9japride
9japride

Married to a doctor or not, you handled yourself better than most people would if Toya threw that outrageous question out there. How trashy of her

drjohnson735
drjohnson735

miss quad, keep on doing you honey!!!!!  there's so much dirt to catch, i don't even know where to begin.....first, let me say that i am thoroughly enjoying watching you on tv.  girl,you were giving it to them the other nite on watch what happens live!  the fit and shoes were on point....as always {*_*} 

 

i really am feeling you and your presence.  i get what you were telling mariah at her party re: how you're trying not to go back to where u came from.  BUT, as you are showing them and the viewing audience, sometimes you gotta give it to people in a way they understand AND ASK FOR when they come for you. and, them chics were trying to come for you.  but, you handled and are handling them and yourself very well. 

 

how DARE the other women try and throw shade on your husband, his accomplishments, and his success.  whether its a ph.d./psychologist (like i am) or an md/psychiatrist (like your husband), its a doctorate and medical degree that some of  those women DON'T HAVE!!!!  they need to stop trying to stunt on or ride off of their husband's accolades and get their own.  i luv how your identity as a woman is not solely tied to and dependent upon your husband.  i appreciate your showing us your press and grind for yourself and on your own as a business woman.  i also find it refreshing and delightful to see a woman on this kind of show be authentic and genuine to who she is, beyond the labels and roles that others try to superimpose onto her.  and, the fact that you appear comfortable in your own skin and identify might make some of the women uncomfortable.... remember, jealousy and envy comes in all forms.

 

lastly, i wish you and your husband many, many, many years of wedded bliss, peace, and love.  folks need to stop trying to talk about you and your husband and what they think happened between ya'll leading up to and since your nuptials, and focus on their own household and marriage.  as long as your husband and you luv how and what ya'll do, who cares about the rest?!  KEEP ON DOING IT FOR THE GODS BABY!!!!!!!

phoenix.rising.3517
phoenix.rising.3517

QUAD, Im hollering, screaming, and rolling on the floor.....Honey you were doing it only for the gods on this blog....Ms. Toya really should keep it a low profile right about now, because with everything that you just disclosed I would shut up and sit in a corner real still.

AnalogGirl
AnalogGirl

I really like you. Love your blogs.  You're quite witty, but stop letting these women have so much control over your emotions.  They shouldn't matter that much at this point in your life.

cmagl
cmagl

Keep on keeping it real for these pretentious women. I've enjoyed reading your blogs so far. I love your witty sense of humor. Those girls think you're ghetto. Maybe they don't own a mirror. Toya is a cruel gossiper (#meangirl) 

th2932
th2932

Quad, you are my favorite person on the show! I think that Toya and Kari are the "mean girls" they have been rude since the first episode. If they are removed from the show I think it would make the show much better for the viewers. Please don't change, continue to be the fabulous woman that you are!

nth3276
nth3276

Quad I love your strength and fire!!! I Love the fact that you confront the person in their face!!!! Theirs nothing ghetto about you!! It's ghetto when a sister degrate another black sister...very messy and shameful!!! This is the main reason black women can't get along...backstabbing and slandering one another! I wish more black women would stand up and confront the source the way you have been doing and maybe the nonsense between us will stop!!! It is obvious the women are hating and they are jealous of your confidence and cockiness...I love it!!!! Keep Standing your ground!!! Kill all that messy negativity whenever it comes yur way.

TLValdez
TLValdez

OMG Quad - I could not LOVE YOU MORE!!!  You are SLAYIN' these messy boots - HAHAHAHAHAHA!! Girl, you drew me in during the FIRST episode - cal lme your #1 Fan because I LIVE when you hit the TV screen!!!!

 

Cryspaige
Cryspaige

Mrs. Quad girl you are a firecracker wrapped up in a petite package with fabulous stamped all ova it!!!!! It was such a pleasure meeting and working with you. You are so sweet, kind, humble and your personality would light up the darkest of rooms! Continue being you despite any negativity that attempts to break your spirit. I will stay tuned and watch the season unfold. Much Much love!!!!!!

shirlene.coppage
shirlene.coppage

Quad, I love you. You keep it real. It was obvious everyone except Mariah is intimidated by you and they should be. You didn't ask for that mess but you handled your business. Toya has her day coming for sure and anybody else who cross Mrs. Quad. 

Carmetha407
Carmetha407

Quad I like when you say let the good time role. Your rolling yourself right out the circle . The hood has arrive how can you talk about anybody look in the mirror .

Dorrian
Dorrian

HOW COME? NASTY IN A WOMAN...ITS GOOD?

tlbharris
tlbharris

Quad,

 

Thank you for getting with Mrs. Kari tonight.  Apparently she can dish it, but can not take it.

Now everyone is so offended, but were they offended when Kari and Toya insulted Quad last week.  Keep your mouth shut, if you can't handle.  My kind of girl. Don't pull no punches with them.

brenda.caltagarone
brenda.caltagarone

Quad, I really enjoyed watching you on the show.  You see right through Kari and Toya's fakeness and their condescending attitudes.  I love that you speak up for yourself and tell it how it is!  Good luck to you this season. 

yolsmoo87
yolsmoo87

Quad, I like how you defend yourself against women who don't know much about you, but have the nerve to prejudge you.  You know you more than anyone and always keep your composure because you're married to a man with a well known profession who has many clients so try to pray about things and ask God to help you handle situation.  Kari and Toya seem very intimidated and insecure of themselves.  Kari needs to have surgery because she looks abnormal IMO.

Roxy@50cali
Roxy@50cali

Mariah and Quad are my favorite thus far. I guess that the norm is you have to be bitchy and behave like it too.

bpurselle
bpurselle

Love me some Quad!  You and Mariah make the show!  Can't wait for the next episode!  And thanks for getting them straight on the difference between Psychologists and Psychiatrists! I have to do it all of the time! #atlpsychiatristwives 

lavanette@yahoo.com
lavanette@yahoo.com

Hey Quad... Just wanted to let you thus far you're my favorite. I've read one f te blogs stating you acted insecure, classless, etc. in my opinion, you acted how anyone put in the position you were put in. You handled thing she way they should have been.... Lets hope the other women learned and saw that you won't sit and let them cast stones. Like you stated everyone has skeletons in their closet..., and I'm sure this group of ladies don't want for need for them to be exposed. Be good and blessed and congratulations on your marriage.

HousewifeFan@54
HousewifeFan@54

Quad,  It sounds more like you are insecure.  I know I am and whenever ANYONE says something that I think is negative about someone, I assume they are talking about me.  You should talk to your husband and work on building your self esteem.

prpolk1
prpolk1

You,my dear, are my absolute favorite. Attitude and all. They tried it and honey you let them have it. As it should be. I expected Kari to hate and turn her nose up.... That is what they do. Toya is a trip and not in a good way.

littlewingporter
littlewingporter

You seem vulnerable, deep down. It must be difficult to try to fit into a group of women you don't have a lot in come with. Just don't try to be something you are not simply for the camera. You have the potential to be the most "real," but don't become a classless train wreck with your words. Find a balance.

Babybug
Babybug

Quad what happened during before or after the text is no NO bodies business, Toya Knows people react immaturely Just keep your nails sharp and your mouth close. You can catch your prey before it pounces. They ain't got nothing on you girl.

kezco
kezco

I truly appreciate your realness and keeping it honest. Don't worry about those others "Doctor's wives",  and remember if they are not  Fu#$ing, Feeding and Financing, then hey have not validation in your life...keep it moving forward and strive to be the best. #TEAMQUAD

shereenmo
shereenmo

,y mother is a doctors wife. Love ya quad but keep it classy, don't let that scary Kari get to you.

murkatt
murkatt

Quad, You are a beautiful woman who has the world at her feet, but you MUST lose the attitude. You simply cannot allow those catty women to upset you. When you over react, it makes you appear insecure AND it gives the offender exactly what she was looking for. Good luck sweetheart! I love your show!

robinwhite
robinwhite

Yes! You are right Quad. Whenever a woman gives you dirty looks, there's insecurity. If they are mature enough, they will get over it, but I wouldn't count on it. You need to be the bigger person and do not react, stay cool. No yelling GF. Be cool. The truth always comes out.

butterflytrish
butterflytrish

Miss Quad....you are everything! I just love you on the show. I love your truth. You are the reason I am watching the show. Get it girl!!! 

Tessalou01
Tessalou01

@crossusa1 She didn't say that a psychologist is not a doctor. She said they didn't have a MD. They are not medical doctors. If you really believe that the only difference between a psychiatrist and a psychologist is their ability to prescribe meds, you are fooling yourself. The fact that you think a psychologist is more educated than a psychiatrist is also ludicrous and downplays the 12-14 plus years post secondary work of intense education, sacrifice, and diligence of a psychiatrist. Not to mention the debt, long hours, and potential malpractice that they experience.

beelamar
beelamar

 @Katie247 Actually, he was a fellow at the School of Law for two years. Then taught at the University of Chicago for twelve years. #inquirysolved

bella7155
bella7155

 @nth3276

 For the record, white women backstab and slander each other as well, as do unfortunately most women

AtticusFinch
AtticusFinch

 @brenda.caltagarone Yes, that's all well and good, she sure got even with Kari.  She sure called her out.  Flinging her disease in her face on national TV. BUT, how is that gonna work out for her husband?

 

It seems that he hasn't got much talent for his profession IF he can't even see his own wife needs to be treated for what is clearly a huge personality disorder.

 

Her husband is gonna be judged by her behavior. Like it or not, she represents him, and she makes him look bad.

 

Perhaps he should have listen to his first inclination, which was to call off their wedding.

MamaJoe72
MamaJoe72

@butterflytrish I agree with your post 100%. Quad is my kinda girl. When they do it they are putting her in her place when she does the same thing she is being rude or god forbid ghetto. Fake, fake, fake. The only thing this show needs is for Ne Ne to show up and give Quad the seal of approval.