Please look at the fight episode very closely with your husband.  He seems to be a very fair man. The fight episode is still out there on married to medicine bravo web site.  Although when you look on the website, the screen is very small and you cannot tell that Toya was touching Mariah's hand/lower arm with her left hand and had a glass in her right hand. This was happening when Mariah was touching Toya's hair.  However, when Bravo showed the fight episode, you can everything cause the screen is larger.

I looked very closely at the fight episode.  Toya confronted Mariah about her mother.  While she was confronting her, she started touching Mariah's hair.  Then they started walking to the pool area, she told Mariah her mother would never approach you like that.  Mariah did mention previously that she did not want to talk about this now, because Toya looked very nice, etc...Then Mariah  said that's my mother, she touched Toya's hair.  While she was doing that, Toya was touching Mariah's hand.  Mariah said don't touch me and Toya raised her arm and threw the glass with liquid in it at Mariah.   Please look closely at the fight episode.  I do believe everyone owes Mariah an apology.   Both women were clearly wrong.  Yes Toya should have never confronted Mariah.  Eventhough she told Toya that she want to talk about it now.  She should have walked away and called security or got you to talk to Toya.  Even Toya's husband had to shut her down on one of the episodes, he told her that she doesn't listen and she's thinking about what she wants to say.  

You knew Mariah's family secret.  Did you ever find a need to tell your friends /hairdresser?  I'm talking about  outside the medical community about it.  Then on national tv Toya says that Mariah's mother is ghetto and Mariah is also.  There was no need to say that on national tv.  She also mentioned again that she's different than Mariah.  She decided to have her children with her husband.

I believe there's lack of communication.  Toya is saying that Mariah touched her.  Everyone thinks Mariah hit her first which is not true.  Then Mariah is not going into detail of what really happen at that party. Mariah touched her hair, but Toya touched Mariah's hair when she confronted her at the party.  While Mariah was touching Toya's hair, Toya was touching Mariah's hand/lower arm.  Then Toya raised her arm and threw the glass.  I feel that Toya should pay for the glass clean up at the party, because she threw the glass as well as confronted Mariah.   

Dr. Simone -After the fight you didn't get a chance to talk to Mariah,  why didn't you call her  to get her side of things?  

The comments you make are passive aggressive. You have an extremely annoying and sneaky way of taking jabs at ppl. Especially to mariah's friends. And you dont hesitate to call a woman or female child a b. Honestly if I was there as mariah's guest I would have chewed you out. You are no better than toya and kari, as someone stated earlier. You are a crap stirrer. Get off your high horse.

On now you are worried about Mariah ,how funny You are. I am very disappointed

Dr. Whitmore, I can't tell you how disappointed I am in you.  I am referring to the comment you made when talking about your young son's, maybe, love interest (he's a kid, so it's probably nothing).  Reality shows are filled with misconduct and bad behavior, that's what makes them popular.  When grown women call each other B'es, it is almost expected.  However when an educated woman refers to another woman's minor aged daughter as a B, they have entered into a danger zone.

Here is my BIGGEST problem with you using that word.  You try to school Toya, by telling her she should have walked away and she could have diffuse the situation, by taking a step back.  However you were unable to pull back on your words, which for some parents would have been considered fighting words.  Ummmm, why not try an experiment and see how any of your cast mates would react to you using the word B when talking about their children.  Could your son use that language to describe his friends?

You went too far with the humor, Dr. Whitmore.  It is unacceptable, I think you know this and that is the sad thing.

you and the other womens rush to judgment against Mariah and not coming out equally against the violence was very disappointing.  I live in Atlanta and see you and the others when I am out and about and I was ashamed.  You claim to be among the elite of Atlanta but I would not want my friends, family and associates to know I even watch this show and take the time to write about it...

How can you say Mariah is your good friend of 9 years and u know that it is completely out of character but talk to everyone else and not her? What kind of friend is that? If you say that is not in her character then you of all people should know that what they're saying might not have been true. Shame on you! Kari and Toya are expected to behave this way but you and Jackie should both be ashamed of yourselves.

You went around doing the exact same thing as Lucy at the party. Weren't you also hyping up Mariah's guest about her being late? That was not in fun or your business. Then calling the little girl a bitch? Your behavior has been no better than the other ladies.

How can you say Mariah is your good friend of 9 years and u know that it is completely out of character then talk to everyone else and not her? What kind of friend is that? If you say that is not in her character then you of al people should know that what they're saying might not have been true. Shame on you! Kari and Toya are expected to behave this way but you and Jackie should both be ashamed of yourselves.

After watching all the episodes that have aired so far, I find you to be as bad as Toya and Kari. No one asked you to keep talking about the fact that Mariah was late to her husbands party, but you just kept running your mouth. You are an educated shit starter. You are also an ass kisser. Did you not watch the episode regarding the fight? There is no way anyone with eyes can not see that Tacky Toya started that fight by walking over to Mariah who was talking to two people just to tell her want her mom said. Mariah is not responsible for her mother's action. Toya touched her hair first, started using profanity and then threw a drink at her. Mariah was right for beating her ass. Sorry, you, Kari and Toya can kick rocks!   Team Mariah, Quad and Jackie          Oh and who calls a child a Bitch on national TV.....SMDH

Dr. Simone, you seem down to earth, but to call a young girl a B is totally out of line. Statements like that are the reason why it's so much harder for women to gain respect when we downgrade each other.

I can not believe you called someone's daughter a "B_t_h"! Your son is in elementary school or at the most middle school, why would you say that about someone elses' child?

Simone you are my favorite of all the ladies! I love your humor. Your family seems so balanced, and I know how hard it is. Again thanks for you being you!

I do like you and how you come across on the show. Your relationship with Dr. Jackie is probably one of the funniest I have seen on TV in a long time, having you two on is REFRESHING!! I don't know how close Mariah and you really are (there are people I've worked with for YEARS and don't really know them or consider them a close friend) but I believe what you saw was a woman in distress. She didn't look happy when she came to the party (actually no one in her party did) , she already seemed on edge and Toyas mere presence probably would have been enough to get something started. Mariah seemed ready to explode and Toya was holding a lighter. I think you're being diplomatic in your approach to the entire incident. It does seem like there are two differing stories between Kari and Mariah (didn't know you could send a invoice for damages through PayPal but I guess you can), maybe both things happened? Both of the women involved in the brawl are immature enough to deflect ownership or minimize their involvement in the fight and what led up to it. Both should be concerned about their husband reputations and how this could affect their practices or relationships within the medical community. I'm embarrassed for them and I hope this doesn't affect either marriage...but I could see how it could. Anyway, I like your laid back ,approachable and no BS approach. Keep on keeping on Doc!

I think the thing that bothers me most about this show is that there is an extra level of "pretense" among almost all these ladies about social status and position, and yet they behave worse than people that they would look down on as not  "in the medical community".  When they talk about behaving respectfully, or with good manners, it's because of their husband's status or the fact that they are a dr., instead of because IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO (treat others with respect and don't engage in petty gossip and judgement).   Dr. Jackie seems like a good role model, but she also seems a little full of herself and materialistic, but there are far worse things like disrespecting other women and girls, and encouraging violence and nasty behavior.  Dr. Simone- (why I am here on this blog when I NEVER go on blogs)- YOU REALLY LET ME DOWN.  The "little B" comment- disgraceful, on a level that I can't even comprehend.  How do you expect women (of any race) to feel good about themselves if you call them "B" when they are still growing up?  Calling a grown woman a B is not cool, but calling a 10 year old female a B is just STUPENDOUSLY ignorant.  As for the whole fist fight thing, news flash- they were BOTH WRONG, because if it was one sided, somebody would have been running and screaming, not fighting back.  It was the kind of fight you see in a bar- escalating bad behavior until both parties are beating each other.   They both need to own up to their behavior.  This show is really the worst level so far, above the Real Housewives in my opinion.  Dr. Simone- c'mon.  Get it together.   You seem like you have a lot to offer in terms of being a positive role model for young women of all races, so please don't be disrespectful to them again!

Dr simone is catty and an instigator. She really gets on my nerves!

You are awesome lady doc!  Wish you were my doc back when  had my children but you probably were still in school or residency lo! I am going to get my NP in OB/GYN and Im  looking you up! LOL You have to balance fun with work and you seem to do that so well. As for your nephew do not enable that big boy.  I know you need help with your sons and he has done a great job but he needs to be back in school post haste! My daughter is at UWG in Carrollton and she is going for Pharmacy at Mercer in a few years. She wanted to take a  year off and I was like no ma'am. You take a year off and you are getting a job and paying for rent, car note, insurance and your hair and mani pedi's! Dr Simone that change her mind quick! She signed up for summer school to get the hell away from me! Im so not the one! Tough love, tough love!! LOL

also, please stop using the b word very, very inappropiate.

toya started the fight, she touched mariah's hair first and she threw a glass at mariah. toya is one big delusional liar. it's all on tape visible for the world to see.mariah was in self-defense mode who wants a glass pitched at them and not instictively respond? divorce i don't think so. apologies needed yes, reimbursement to mariah yes.

Dr. Simone I've liked u from day one but I'm very confused about u. I didn't care so such 4 Dr. Jackie because I felt she was stuck up and 2 judgemental but I found new respect her this episode unlike u she exactly talked 2 Mariah and is not taking sides. If Mariah is your good friend of 9 years and u know that it is completely out of character 4 Mariah 2 act like that u should have been the first one 2 talk 2 her. U claim that u didn't know what 2 say 2 her but u knew what 2 say 2 Toya. It is obvious that u have taking Toya side but a real friend would have heard both sides before passing judgement. I know 4 a fact that at the reunion u and Kari are going 2 be apologizing 2 Mariah because both of u guys are wrong in how u treated Mariah.

I liked you so much.  I thought of you as that doctor but I can see now that not only are you not a friend but you are flighty as well.  The first think you should have done was reach out to Mariah about Toya.  I hope you can see now that Toya is a liar. 

Dr. Simone you have your own issue to deal with. Why would  you call a little girl the "B" word?  I see you didn't mention that in your blog.  You jumped to conclusions and heard one side of the story. Toya's.  Get over yourself; you are no better than Mariah & Toya.  You owe that little girl and her parents an apology.

I love me some Dr. Simone!  I love the way you talk to each and every one of those ladies, you keep it 100!  And that is attractive.  Mariah and Quad are messy, but that is why they are favorites, but you stay and lady while keeping everyone in check.  I didn't see you take any sides, but until then you are definitely one of my favorites.  I will not comment on "poor" Kari, enough said.  I will say she is very boring, I'm still on the fence about her husband.  He seems like a really smart pimp, and I love it!  You three ladies are why I believe the show is a hit, and will continue to watch it because of that!

Dr. Simone you are shady and two-faced. How could you not speak to your friend of NINE years after she got into a fight (when it was her HUSBAND's birthday party you were at) but we saw you in scenes with Toya? Hmmm...I don't like you at all right now and calling ten  year old girls the "B" word was not becoming. I know you were kidding but you probably delivered the little girl your son has a crush on. Very tacky. 

Dr. Simone, you were messy that night! But glad that you stated this is not the Mairah you know.

Your words "being a doctor carries a certain amount of power and authority".  If you believe that is true should we now follow your lead and through our oldest friends under the bus and start calling our girl children little bitches.

Exactly, we all make mistakes, unfortunately your was on national TV just a MAriah's was.  Can you feel some empathy now.  You were not under stress when your blurted out your mistake and Mariah was dealing with painful, personal and private issues which Toya knew very well would put her at a disadvantage.  You were not a friend to anybody but Toya and a role-model to no one but Toya.  Good luck with that.

Dr. Simone you are wonderful, and I do believe you are right that both women should take full responsibility for their actions.  Like I told Dr. Jackie pride and egos a lot of the time seem to get in the way.   Not so much as for common sense, but just doing the right thing for the right reason.  That was neither the time nor the place for that type of discussion to have taken place.  Toya could have waited until the party over to confront Mariah about her mother's comments, or Mariah could of refused and scheduled a talk at another date and time.  Keep it simple honey!

Look, I like you as a doctor and I can tell you love your family and your patients.  Though you were wrong for the B---- comment, I must admit, I did LOL from the shock of your boldness.  I know you were joking, but you must consider your audience and you must consider how that looks on your character.  You won't live that one down for awhile.

And about your nephew:  at first, you seemed to be saying, "Thanks for your service; now go the hell on," in your commentary about him.  That said, I do NOT believe that if he is going to sit out of school when school is in session that he should just able to kick it at your house.  Summertime is different because for most students of all ages, it's a vacation of sorts.  But after the summer, he should have either taken himself back to to school, gotten a job if he wasn't going back to school as a measure of good faith OR taken his behind home to HIS mama and daddy to chill with THEM if THEY were willing.  You took care of him for the summer while he was helping out with the boys, so it was a win-win for all of you.

About Mariah, Toya and Kari:  be careful of Toya and Kari.  These two are burners because they are both jealous-natured and conniving.  Kari put Mariah and family out because Toya is her FRIEND.  Pay close attention to the things they say and best believe, neither you nor Dr. Jackie will be off limits to their vitriol for long.

I'm so not understanding as to why you'd call a 'little girl' the B word to your 10 year old son.

That was so uncalled for.

I like you Dr. Simone, but why would you comment without knowing all the facts.  Thats like saying your patient is having twins before doing an ultrasound.  And so what, Mariah was late, ummm you were late getting to your patient who was ready to deliver,  5 minutes out, really; not in that (LA, Ca,  405 fwy looking) traffic.  And maybe you made it in five minutes, but none of you are perfect. You were just to quick to rush to judgement and throw Mariah under the bus.

To sum it all up, you have "known of" Mariah for nine years, not known her.  You said it yourself many times.  Medicine takes up most of your time, so with what little you have left you give your family; which leaves little to  none to cultivate lasting "loyal" friendships.

I am glad you pointed out that Mariah says she was billed for damages, and Kari says that did not happen; and that Mariah withdrew payment from Paypal, so she did not pay for the party.  Who arrives two hours late to their husband's birthday party?  You are right to indicate that someone is lying and these women are not taking enough responsibility.  At least Toya did apologize, which is more than can be said for Mariah.  

I can't believe all the negative comments directing at you and Dr. Jackie, because the two of you disagree with the fighting and expected more of the women.  Fighting is never right, and both women bear responsibility.  I admire the work of you as a doctor, as well as Dr. Jackie.  You both are too classy for this show (Kari as well, except people want to call her a snob).  Mariah as an executive producer is using this show as a jumping off point for her and her family to become "celebrities".  She is looking for fame and thinks that the "ghetto" behavior and the Queen Bee attitude, will gain her that.  Quad is looking for the same thing.  It's too bad Mariah has set a tone for this show, instead of highlighting the lives of the doctors and the work they do and how they try to balance that with home life.  I also get that you were completely joking about calling a possible girlfriend for your son, a little bitch.  You were joking!!  Good luck with your family and your work. 

I was so shocked to hear you call any young girl the "B" word that would be interested in your son.  That was totally uncalled for.  As a mom  I totally get you wanting to meet them but that was over the top and unnecessary.  Imagine yourself having a daughter and someone said that.  NOT a good example.

Mariah AND Toya share blame but Toya STARTED it.  Mariah should've taken the high road and completely ignored her until calmer heads prevailed. 

You must have missed a class. You are a role model for African American girls. How dare you call any little girl little B--. You also need to watch the show again and talk to both individuals. Toya initiated the fight. Thinkingb4speaking123

Simone I need for you to have a seat and just shut up you do too much talking. You stir a lot of drama up and every episode I get more disgusted by the way you behave. You followed Toya into the bathroom to be nosey not to check on her and see if she was okay. Did you call to check on Mariah since you didn't get the chance to check on her or did you just automatically think Mariah was wrong. I can't believe you said you don't care if your son has a girlfriend you just want to know who the lil b is that was out of line and tacky can you start acting like a doctor and not some ratchet chick that doens't know how to shut up

I THINK  YOU HAVE A BIAS AGAINST MARIAH.

Simone your awesome! you and Jackie keep fighting the good fight!

Dr. Simone,

I think an appology from you is in order!  You help instigate this fight with your mouth!  Who are you and Dr. Jackie and what makes you 2 judge and jury of who is more right and who is more wrong??? You were at the party but still have no idea of what happened or why but you seem to be taking Toya's word as the truth without bothering to talk with Mariah. You're really not a friend after all. You're Dr. simone the "Pot stirrer".  This show is not intertaining, it's a waste of time.

I find it disgusting that Quad is twisting things about you & trying to make you look bad. It's just crazy! You are great & down to Earth! I like watching you & Jackie together. Seems like a great, real friendship!

You are some friend of 9 years- you haven't spoken to your friend "since the fight". WOW- with friends like you who needs enemies, instigator. And don't call a young lady a "B", hopefully she doesn't watch educated woman disrespect the youth!

I really liked you and Dr. Jackie on other episodes but I was taken aback to hear you refer to someone's little girl as a b---ch. You seem better than that and I hope you are teaching your sons better.

So after 9 years, you are not friends. You don't know who started it, so why not reach out to the person you have known for 9 years? I loved watching the baby's delivery- they were a sweet couple!

I think you're the most authentic women on the show. If it weren't for you and Jackie all we would see is a bunch of competitive, backstabbing, HBIC wannabees overacting for the cameras every week. I can't believe people are being so hard on you. You're a married adult, with a family to maintain and a very demanding career. I don't blame you one bit for not contacting Mariah. I really enjoy your scenes on the show, but I hate that you have to deal with all these ignorant comments from people harping about a fight between two grown women that are competitive with one another. You are not to blame at all for what happened between those two women. I notice your blog says that you've known Mariah for 9 years. There's a difference between knowing someone and being friends with someone so....yeah.

You're still waiting for ownership?? WOW you helped instigate a good part of it, why have you not apologized? You also say this was not the Mariah you know, well then that should let you know that what us majority of the viewers are saying is true, she did not start the fight, she tried her best to avoid mean Toya. You may be education but you don't use common sense and you sound really tacky when you call other women "Bitches".