A little about Toya. . .
Everyone has a past, good or bad. . .We're HUMAN! It's what we take away from our past, the lessons learned and how you transition the negatives into positives. I consider myself to be normal, never trying to put down another or act above them. I have never been one to try to fit in, because I've never had too. The head and not the tail!
My husband, family and friends love me for ALL of me, (The Good, Bad, and Indifferent) which is why I in turn give them the best of me. I love family and I love that we have a blast. It's not always perfection, definitely not The Cosby Show, but I am thankful that God has his hand all over my relationships.
Juelz2cool I couldn't have said it better myself those snakes better known as "Kari and Toya" need to be sent packing ,while trader Dr Simon said that the atmosphere would be pleasant without Quad and Mariah .I beg the differ better without the wanna be.Toya is more than shady boots ,she 's ghetto trash and she got her degree from an on line University and marry from a dating site maybe she should have been on "the Bachelorett". You can tell she's a "Gold Digger" the way she talked about her want be uppity husband.Talking about her family was saying that he didn't look like the kind of guy she usually talk to ,well that just it all she saw was $$$$$ signs by any mean necessary. Good ridden to them Mariah if you have some say in this.Get the shanky boots out of here.
LaToya is delusional if she thinks that she doesn't try to be above people. She is always making inappropriate comments, as if because she is a doctor's wife that her behavior should be different than another husband's wife. She wants to be Mariah so bad, it is so apparent. She not satisfied with her current living arrangements, because her house is not big like Mariah, and not located in an area that signifies to all the people around her that she is trying to impress that she has made it. She is so transparent, and trying to convince that uppity Kari that she belongs in her company. I think it is so funny that on watch what happens live with andy on 5/19 someone asked her why was she acting like Mariah aggressed towards her first at the party, and she made every excuse in the book, no real acknowledgement of her actions and then laughed. It apparent that she aggressed first, so why isn't Kari mad at her,now that she has seen the tape. I can tell you why it is because they both are haters,. Kari is so annoying with that darling crap, disrespecting another wife husband's title constantly, acting stupid when she is corrected about it, They both are obnoxious, and the show would be fine without either one of them. If Mariah has the power she should get rid of both Toya and Kari, Toya would be destroyed because she would have one less forum to boast and be a snob in. Get rid of her Mariah, she is such a downer.
Mariah needs to sing her the song "Obsessed" by the other Mariah Miss Mariah Carey!! I was done when she (Toya) just cried to her husband over Mariah!! REALLY??!! She is such a wannabee and manipulating the husband to build the house with the lake and other features like Mariah's girl get your own ideas!! She is BORING, TACKY and needs to be replaced!! As far as the fight my tv showed Toya hitting or trying to hit Mariah FIRST with a damn glass!! after Mariah touched her stupid hair.. Then she lies and claims to have been the one attacked!! GET TOYA off the show!!
Toya is so messy!! ugh I wish they would stop bringing up her being from Detroit because she does not represent women from the "D" properly!!
I'm so loving the show but however the (FIGHT), Toya everytime someone tells you something they know you will tell it, Mariah put herself under the bus and sham her hometown, WOW.
TOYA TOYA TOYA., YOUR BLOGS SAYS ONE THING but the viewers saw something else. Y did you throw up Quads lil mis hap at Mariah Party. Youreally don't think you were out of order. Sister you messie. I cant wait for the reunion. they gonna eat you alive.....lol
From the first show, Toya seems like a undercover negative person. She stuck her nose in Quad's business about things in the past that no longer mattered. I don't know why she had to give an opinion when she probably would be offended about someone's opinion on her marriage. Ridiculous, and uppity!!!
Toya I was done with you Sunshine, when you mentioned Mariah's daughter being adopted on NATIONAL TV! What were you THINKING! OOOOPS, my bad, you were not thinking!
First of all Toya did not put Mariah business on National TV- (Mariah put her business out), Mariah put herself under the bus by showing her true self little girl from Chatt Town. (HOOD)
You are so classless for speaking to Quad like that after she was so nice to you and the other one
I like you. I love your family. Quad is a hoodrat and when her husband called the wedding off, it should have stayed that way. She is classless.
jai.simmons.9 Quad is a beautiful educated woman. She has a very good job and makes her own money.
Toya i watched the first episode and read several of all the cast members blog's. What baffles me is how these concerned nonjudgemental people say you are so wrong for your conversation with someone ( who by the way... called you names that only a "teenage mean girl" would pass out brownie points for) addressing an issue that I am sure we dont know the entire story to..I mean its TV. Now talk about an uncouth thing to do...this show has only just begun and already your cast mate is trying to define your image for you. Careful now ladies, your true color may shine thru and then we find out who you guys really are... If your only defense is to slander someone else...then what are you really about. Keep your head up girl... Get to know the real Toya...haters enjoy yourself hating because without someone else's business your purpose does not exist. :-) .
unspokentruth Yes, Quad had something happen but it was resolved in her marriage. Toya didn't mention it out of concern, she said "who would marry someone after that?" That was a judgement on Quad. If you are concerned about someone, you show empathy and don't attack the person.
I am just wondering - why did you mention the text blast that you got from Quad's husband calling off their wedding - clearly I would have thought you would have been more interested to find out what happened (in a friendly way) - I am sure you girls had a history before this show but I just can't imagine saying something to someone like that unless the intent was to hurt them by bringing it up in that fashion. I am enjoying the show thus far - good luck to you ladies!
PS - you clearly hit it out of the ballpark with your husband! He seems like a GREAT guy!
So Mrs Toya i had a chance to watch the first episode and read several of all the cast members blog's. What baffles me is how these concerned nonjudgemental people say you are so wrong for your conversation with someone ( who by the way... called you names that only a "teenage mean girl" would pass out brownie points for) addressing an issue that I am sure we dont know the entire story to..I mean its TV. Now talk about an uncouth thing to do...this show has only just begun and already your cast mate is trying to define your image for you. Careful now ladies, your true color may shine thru and then we find out who you guys really are... If your only defense is to slander someone else...then what are you really about. Keep your head up girl... Get to know the real Toya...haters enjoy yourself hating because without someone else's business your purpose does not exist. :-) .
You really went hard on Quad even though she appears to be a "hood rat" you could have shown her some empathy. We as women should try and build one another up instead of tearing down. I dont think you want to battle with Quad! LOL not a good look!
We only witnessed Toya asking Quad a question, Quad is the one who went hard in her response and for the remainder of the show. Quad appears to be an insecure, loud mouth and from reading her blog, I gather she and Toya had an unpleasant history, which would justify Toya calling her out on the wedding text.
Its not "what" she asked, it's "how" she asked. It was unnecessary to bring up unless the intent was to start drama. if she didn't want to go to the damn wedding because of the text, etc., then don't go.
ballerswife Daisyatl look you no thYe where aware of being on national tv. if toya was smart she would have let Quad run her ownself in the ground. But noW the public only sees what Toya did & they don't like it. Not every one will read the blogs . that's how toya is going to look bad. Just becuz she could've played nice. BUT SHE DIDNT.
i have found that people will tell you anything but they eventually show you who they really are.
you have told us about yourself, but you shown us that you are not all that nice. knowing that quad is easily inflamed you went at her about her marriage and additionally had the poor judgement to do it at someone else's home!
it is not anyone's business what goes on between quad and her husband and i doubt very much that you would not have married your husband had your circumstances been the same. every couple has some conflict but if they love each other and have resolved it, who are you to judge?
don't delude yourself. you say that God has His Hand all over your relationship, but maybe you should ask Him to put His Grace in your heart.
grannysgirl05 This was a great write up. I totally agree with you. I feel that Toya is very judgemental.
Can we please move on to something else. It's getting a little old. You guys really don't have a life. #readadamnbook#
Toya I think u looked beautiful haters will b haters. If they had a life they wouldn't b hating on u. Let them say what they want u r the one on tv with a great husband nd children not to mention family who all support u. If they watched the episode as they say they did they would see the conversation began with u clearing the air about hurt feelings on Quads part for u nd Eugene not attending which proceeded to the txt. Keep being true to who u r!!!!
latinalady1966 I guess either you didn't watch it like you say because you never saw the part where Quad said she was fine and not hurt in the least but Toya went on and on about it despite Quad saying all is good. Then Toya still went on and on right onto say who would marry a man who calls off the wedding blah blah blah as if it's any of her business. Why does every person who disagrees become a hater? It's a TV show, every person can give their opinion on it. Toya didn't come out looking good in this episode and I gave my thoughts as to how we saw her but as it's yet early to tell I haven't lost hope that I might like her.
latinalady1966 I totally agree with you! Toya asked a question without malice and Quad got defensive because she has issues that don't have anything to do with Toya.....
It was made clear to the viewer via Mariah's confessionals that Qaud's new to it all and is still in the changing and learning process as surely you were too at one point. I would've expected you to be more understanding, empathetic and befriend her. I think you see what you once were in her and you despise that. What a shame because I'd rather want her as my friend and I'm a doctor's daughter and a med student myself. I know exactly the perks and responsibilities that come with this life. My mother, a doc's wife, is educated, sweet, humble and empathetic. She embraces all kinds of people. She's nothing like you and I thank God, imagine the type of haughty, I'm-better-than-you-attitude, look-down-my-nose-at-you type of person I'd be? I shudder to think.
New to what? Clearly Quad is in her late thirties, therefore, she is not new to life and should know how to conduct herself! She is a grown woman and that has nothing to do with being married to a Dr. We don't know the history that these two ladies share, however, I gathered from Quad's confessionals, blog, and watching the show, that they are not friendly, (Quad said she didn't want to invite Toya to her wedding, Toya said she declined before the text was sent) so I don't understand why Toya is expected to treat Quad as if she is a fragile doll.
fr.mkt.9 Unfortunately, none of the Doctor's wives (on this show) seem to have those qualities that you mentioned above (sweet, humble and empathetic and embraces all kinds of people). But its still early in the program, so maybe we will see it later on. Both Kari and Toya seem to look down their nose at Mariah and Quad.
Don't judge the book of Toya by her cover. Toya did not get to where she is by chance. She is fierce...as a mother, wife, and as a friend. She has a "no holds bar" attitude. Many make the error in mistaking honesty for rudeness. With Toya, she has the transparency to keep it real....to your face.
mrsgrant08 Yes but she doesn't take responsibility for starting the fight between Mariah and herself. She did a little bit more than throwing a glass. She confronted Mariah to talk about her mother and she swung first.
Toya, you are all that and more! You are true to yourself on this show...and that is all you shall be! Don't change! Don't stoop to the level of the non-factors because they make no difference or serve no significance in your life. I can say I remember you when & from then to now you have always remained the same. If the others can't handle the truth, oh well. And for all the haters they can find the nearest rock & kick it! Love ya girl! Do you, boo!
Classiest and prettiest one on the show! What kind of a name is Quad anyway? BTW: your boys are soooo cute!
Neens More original and interesting than Toya that's for sure.
Toya, latoya, natoya, toyana- all cliche ghetto hood names for sure. She should've changed her first name when she changed her classiness by marrying her husband- oh wait she didn't change the latter either.
Toya, I don't understand why everybody trying to hate on you for asking a question. Isn't this reality TV? Quad's fiancé sent a text cancelling the wedding..you asked about it. What's the big deal? Maybe she was embarrassed but I am sure the other ladies got the same text. Some people just like to talk behind other's back, you seem like you are "real" and just say it upfront. I guess people don't appreciate realness.
prettynpink08 I disagree. Quad say everything was fine, why did Toya have to go on and on about it? And her intentions were malicious in order to embarrass Quad, it did not come from a place of concern.
What made Toya look bad was that she kept asking and asking and asking, despite the fact that Quad said that she was "fine". After the 2nd and 3rd time, it became mean girlish. Quad does not owe and explaination to Toya or anyone else about the circumstances surrounding the off again, off again wedding. Quad did not get indignent (and yes, she did get stupid) until this happened. Toya's confrontation with Quad did not come from an empathetic place....she was intentionally trying to put her on blast.
Toya, you were the bomb diggity last night, hold your ground! You had every right to ask Quad about her situation, she on the other hand, if she was secure in her marriage and her man, wouldn't have got so angry, acting completely off!!! #teamtoya #truthfultoya #terrifictoya #tastfultoya
Toya aways been smart and intelligent Toya alway been fly and glamours . Before the shows and before she got married Toya and always new want she want in life . God was first and everything follow now the door has open. So for the hater back the F%*** up she is that deal.
Love that you keep it real. Some people have to act crazy to get attention, then they want to cry......PLEASE........
It looks like Quad must have all of her family and friends on your blog! Lol! I thought the show was very entertaining. The show is about strong women with even stronger personalities. Good tv! ;-) I look forward to how everyone's story line develops. And that was clearly not a Beyonce' lace front, lmao! Somebody just tried to play you. Your hair and outfits were too cute. You and Carrie were my favorites Toya!
you are right , because beyonce has better... we couldn't have been watching the same show... her weave and attitude were garbage
What i'm thinking you are a little girl playing dress up!! your husband probably has to guide you to the bathroom. if you got lost in a train of thought the FBI couldn't find you.
That is so funny purpleprincess1. Poor, poor Toya. Is there a brain in her pretty little head? Not a hater, just calling it as I see it. You can take the girl out of the hood but you can't take the hood out of the girl.