Toya Bush-Harris

Toya calls out Quad and Mariah on foolish gossip and explains that she's far from lazy when it comes to family.

on Apr 5, 20130

Life, a Beautiful Blessing...

Wow! I'm so filled with joy for Jacqueline... As you will see, she's like a big sister to me. I love her drive, her focus and I admire her strength. I'll tell you one thing, had my family not been in Costa Rica, we would have never missed the Cancer Awareness Walk or the luncheon. I believe it is very important to praise God and give all I can for such a worthy cause. We'll see you next year sis, with my workout apparel on, and I'll be with Team Harris.

FYI... if my kids get cranky, Simone, I'll be dropping them off to you. LOL Since you'll be cheering us on from the side line.

News Flash... Friend + Enemy = Frenemies

If you haven't noticed, I don't give much energy to Quad or Mariah. I recognize who my true friends are and who respects me as a women and mother. I think it is very messy of Mariah and Quad to continue to be malicious liars. Mariah tries very hard to control people: notice how she's always giving Quad permission to speak and those horrible pep talks. They both continue to talk behind everyone's back and smile in their faces. If you don't think I know this, you're the fool. I am sure of this since every other word out their mouth is "Toya." They are sitting at home plotting of ways to slander and cause me harm. These two thrive on hearsay and gossip.

70 comments
tkwilliams01
tkwilliams01

You are hatting on Mariah and Quad, you want to be them....I can look at you and tell you were a hot ass mess and really still are....trying to dress up and look better, and now wanting a bigger house, to keep up with the ladies.....smh

alexceeia
alexceeia

toya doesnt know how to be a friend-shes not to be trusted. and she started it. she has no class

ruffdoggentllc
ruffdoggentllc

Forget these bums cuz.I know the type of person you are and if they can watch this show and not see where these women cross the line then there mind is made up and judgement has been past!  do you.  and dont worry about the crazy women on this tv show!!

sterry5817
sterry5817

I donot like Toya she started everything,  like Mariah better

joqu
joqu

If someone considers you to be a friend and they tell you something, you should keep it to yourself. Toya Bush-Harris, you need to grow up, your definition of what it means to be a friend to someone is way off. When a friend tells you something that's very private you should not go around running your mouth. It was wrong for Mariah and you to fight at Kari's home, but you should have seen it coming. I believe you have a lot of maturing to do. Your family loves you, but you need to learn how to love yourself. What if Mariah's daughter heard you say Dr. Aydin was not her biological father? Think twice before you run your mouth.

Mrsli_
Mrsli_

Toya, You are not a nice lady. I understand editing but you dear give them enough material. Who are u to talk about Mariah, her pregnancy r her mama? I question why you chose to portray the mean girl... I question why your husband has not paid to fix your face... Something is off, all that money, yet cheap wigs? Why? Just remember karma dear... I predict a future season with you husband looking for a classier.. Prettier new doctor's wife..ppl in glass houses should not throw stones... U watch.....u gonna look foolish when he replaces u.. .. Cause word around town.......humpf!

Zandra
Zandra

Please understand that if a person have to proclaim "I'm real" they are not. I don't like you. You are obviously jealous of Quad. By making the statement she must have dated a drug dealer. I think it take one to know one. Stop hating on her. Your husband is he a down low brother? It seems that way?

le501wh
le501wh

I believe you come off wrong in Ep1 with Quad. That was not your place to say, who would marry a man like that. When she said she was good, you should left it at that. Your approach was wrong all the way. Go back and watch what you did.

piperbeau
piperbeau

You are soooooo annoying!! I'm already over you....

allin
allin

Toya is nothing but trouble

Ann923
Ann923

Toya do you , cause nobody else can do Toya ---

shellywalker
shellywalker

Toya,  You're not looking good at all. I would 1st recommend that you crawl out of Kari's butt and get some daylight so that you can see yourself.

ibrake4bravo
ibrake4bravo

Toya,

I have just seen a clip from next week's episode. This clip proved, once again, that money and  "class"  are not synonymous. "Class" is something that comes from within and will speak for itself through one's behavior. SAYING you are a woman of "class" and BEHAVING like a woman of "class" are two completely different things. Mariah came to YOUR home bearing a gift for YOUR son. Etiquette 101: When someone gives you a gift, you thank them for it, regardless of whether you like the gift or not.  

9japride
9japride

Can't wait to see you get worked next week :)

loejj77
loejj77

Toya, you really need to grow up. Mariah's daughter is not your business. You running yo mouth, but don't want to be called on it. You almost got it from Mariah's mom. Learn to close your mouth and you won't have to worry about defending yourself with lies or otherwise. Simply grow up!

charlie@company
charlie@company

Toya I'm sorry, but you are as dumb as bricks & all you care about is "keeping-up w/the Jones"!!!! I feel for your husband, as he certainly married down!!!! Most hilarious & embarrassing scene yet: was when you pronounced Czar (Zar)........."C-Zar"!!!! The look on your husband's face was priceless!!!!!

ballerswife
ballerswife

Toya, I enjoyed your blog. I think you are either misunderstood or people are narrow minded with tunnel vision when it comes to your relationship with Quad and Mariah.

 

How people can say you "started the incident with Quad" just goes to show how ignorant and shallow people are. My goodness, you asked her a question, and Quad took it from 0 - 10 from there. I am sure as outspoken as Mariah is, she would have pulled you aside instead of Quad if she felt you were not being appropriate in her home. Quad purposely went after Kari, to hurt, humiliate and expose her marriage and illness, yet some viewers what to give her a pass.

 

I am not sure what Mariah lied about but she comes off as phony and an instigator. She does not try to defuse situations but she plays them up! I am weary, a dog that brings a bone, will carry a bone. Stop telling Mariah to "go get your friend", she knows what her friend is up to and she could prevent it from happening, but she enjoys seeing the drama unfold!

 

You appear to have a beautiful family and a husband that adores you, let these silly girls live their lives, their true colors will be exposed!

peace_is_mine
peace_is_mine

I really think YOU are a liar and a trouble maker!  You started the drama by talking about Quads wedding in the first place!   You and that medical mistress are truly a hot mess.  Always got something to say about someone else instead of looking atthe mirror and seeing yourself!  I think you are jealous and insecure that mariah and quad have what you WISH you had so get a job and stack your coins coause your gonna need them!

Co-hen-n-nc
Co-hen-n-nc

You brought up Quads wedding issues to be mean,period!! You have a lot to learn....you cannot lie about your intentions and think people will not see that. You brought that up on camera to be mean & Kari joined in the game. Ewww

lsimone5
lsimone5

Toya you started the Quad incident. She was not coming for you until you came at her disrespectfully. What exactly did they lie about?

brownsuga21
brownsuga21

Toya to  stop fooling yourself, you are the issue you are the one who always talking about someone and the cause of all the drama. You always blogging about you are this and that and trying to redeeming yourself, why? because you know you are tacky and messy. You want  house and you know damn well and good yall can't afford it at this time, wait at least till the man practice takes off; come on thats what a smart, sensible woman will do. Stop trying to keep up with the Joneses.

Shirley-TN
Shirley-TN

You're pitiful.  What's missing from your life that you had to attack Quad?  Look in that mirror girl, just look in the mirror and ask yourself, what's missing from your life.

terry47
terry47

@allin I agree with u toya u want to be controling but the only person u can congrol is that slow husband of urs

phoenix.rising.3517
phoenix.rising.3517

 @Ann923

 Who else would want to do Toya?????????? She's straight ratchet, and I don't think anyone would want to associate themselves with pure ratchetness.

sha_1
sha_1

 @ibrake4bravo  You are so right! I think the problem is that WE assume people with money have class, or are above pettiness, & messiness. Brandi (RHOBH) tried to tell us... just gives you money. LOL ! Perhaps the problem is US... maybe we are giving these women to much credit off top just based on who they are, or what they have, or who they are married to. Just a thought.... 

syreeta1
syreeta1

 @ballerswife

 wonder if you still feel the same way after the lastest espisode. Toya is a mess, she needs to get a life, then a job.... Her husband should be careful, cause she will ruin his life.. she got what she deserved from Mariah, she is soooooo jealous of her.. get out of Kari's butt and see the light.. I was hoping you went into the pool to cleanse your soul.. You can not be trusted!!!!!!!!!!!

Zandra
Zandra

@ballerswife Are you watching the same show? She did the same thing to Quad. She had no business to tell that woman anything about her husband.

Zandra
Zandra

@ballerswife you must be her friend.

Ann923
Ann923

@ballerswife Bravo bravo

ballerswife
ballerswife

 @peace_is_mine

 What has she lied about? Maybe I am for the underdog but I don't understand this dislike for Toya. I didn't hear/see her mention Quad or Mariah during this last episode, yet you claim she "always got something to say about someone else". I heard Quad and Mariah speak negative words concerning Toya, it seems they are the ones that "always got something to say". As far as being jealous, where did you gather that from? Toya has a husband that adores and respects her, Quad's husband disrespected her, who would wish for that?

Ann923
Ann923

@Co-hen-n-nc correction -- quad asked Toya a question , Toya answered plain and simple -- if you don't want the truth don't ask the question

Ann923
Ann923

@lsimone5 quad shouldn't ask questions she doesn't want answers to ---- the truth

Ann923
Ann923

@brownsuga21 --- your comments make no sense , how do you know Dr. Harris doesn't want it too

breezie_bre
breezie_bre

 @brownsuga21

 Let her keep trying to keep up with the Joneses and she will find her self divorced alone and probably be broke that is what usually happens when people want to keep up the Joneses. Right now it is coming off as if she is only interested in her husband money if she wasn't then she wouldn't be trying to live outside of her means

ibrake4bravo
ibrake4bravo

 @sha_1  @ibrake4bravo I do agree that there are people who will always equate money with "class". Even though shows like this and the "Real Housewives" continue to prove that you cannot judge a book by it's cover. Or, in this case, a woman by her handbag. 

TexasGyal
TexasGyal

 @ballerswife  You must be Toya. Why are you trolling the thread defending that lying liar?

sha_1
sha_1

 @ballerswife  @Co-hen-n-nc   I do, & as a wife, & woman who understands the drama involved with affairs of the heart I think Toya was completely inappropriate & out of line. I think she tried to suggest that there was no wedding based on the text she received. She did not ask her out of concern, or wanting to hear about her beautiful wedding. She did it to put her, & her marriage on blast... 5 mins after walking into party. I don't understand how you don't see where Toya clearly came for her off jump. She set out to expose her early...before the show even gets into full swing.  What are you suggesting was done with the editing? If you don't mind me asking...

Ann923
Ann923

@loving_my_life @ballerswife @Co-hen-n-nc loving my life --- you should talk

Ann923
Ann923

@sha_1 @ballerswife @Co-hen-n-nc and y'all are mind readers now