Toya Bush-Harris

Toya can't believe that she's still dealing with Mariah's gossip and emotional ways.

May 3, 20130

NoMad MD. . .Yes, I was lurking in the shadows. My husband thinks NoMad MD medical concierge is just his baby, but he's sadly mistaken. I was brought into his life to be his help and I am not going to fail at my job. He is the king of this castle, but this queen is his right hand. So yes, let's gets to the point: what can you do for NoMad MD? We have bills to pay and I ain't playing no games. While I appreciate their meeting to discuss marketing strategies, let's get to the bottom line.

Jackie. . .wow! Watching you with your patient brings me back to my first appointment with you. You were sassy, caring, knowledgable and a fabulous OBGYN. Thank you for helping me through my first trimester with Ashton. I felt like I had a big sister holding my hand along the way. You were extra professional, never mentioning how breast cancer stole your fertility. My heart dropped when you said, "watching it happen has to be enough, cause I can't know what it feels like." I just want you to remember, God is an awesome God and he would never give you more than you can bear. You are anointed with a gift like no other and this Mrs. MD thanks you for your strength and dedication. Not many women would do what you do in the midst of their struggle. I thank you for ALL mothers! Muah xoxo!

Simone. . .my homey, my friend. Thank you for listening to your gut. I appreciate you seeing my pain, my hurt, and wanting to cheer me up. I truly was hurt by Mariah and her mother's attack.

148 comments
tuhtuhdayjunya
tuhtuhdayjunya

you are perfect. you do you and thats it. forget what other people are saying.

techlady
techlady

It looks as if you where very sad with yourself on the wine visit. I think you wanted all the other ladies to ignore mariah, especially kari. Get over it and put up your weapons. Grow up, you and your husband. He is more into this than you are.

techlady
techlady

If looks could tell (on the bus to the winery ). You ma'am are jealous of mariah. Enough said.

Whoa
Whoa

Do you know you blink your eye everytime you lie. You lie a lot and that eye just keeps blinking. BLINK BLINK BLINK BLINK BLINK Girl..stop!

PRINCESSLY7
PRINCESSLY7

Toya it's sad how you obsess over Mariah! She is all you talk about! Check yourself ASAP!

peaches-S
peaches-S

toya - i am so a shame of you and the way you acted i watch it again to be sure before i said anything you owe mariah a sincere i am  sorry, for both things you did how can you burn a gift from a friend. thats so wrong in all the ways that are wrong how can you throw a drink at some one that could have harmed them and think you are right. you are a black women on t.v. trying to be classic...yet what you did was not. maybe you had to much to drink. i feel sorry for you.

DariusMommie
DariusMommie

Your personality is that of an immature little girl who doesn't understand the value of patience and moderation. Only a child feels a need to keep up with the Jones'. The money that's in the bank is what generates respect and security, not the debt that is transparent to others who really don't count at all.

eyeAM
eyeAM

I truly don't know what kind of delusional world you're living in BUT YOU STARTED the FIGHT with Mariah! and somehow you managed to not only convince the other woman that you weren't at fault because in your crazy mind "Mariah put her hands on you" correction, Mariah simply stroked your hair and said sweetheart you are too beautiful to be angry. You mistakenly MISTOOK that gesture as an act of aggression and chugged your ice in her face then the glass and proceeded to throw blows. I still can't for the life of me understand how even after seeing this footage that anyone would sympathize with you and not turn around and apologize to Mariah. I can understand Mariah's feelings of betrayal and can clearly understand why she hasn't apologized to either you nor Kari because both of you are LIARS. Kari DID throw Mariah out of her party and YOU initiated the fight between the two of you. Didn't any of you women watch the replay of what happened?!?!? How can you continue to lie about what took place. That is what has warranted my dislike of you, Simone, Jackie, and Kari. Clearly none of you women are honest enough to say you never really liked Mariah and were dying for the chance to team up against her! You women are typical Doctors, Doctor's wives or otherwise, you're nothing more than DRAMA, ghetto fabulous, dishonest, delusional, low self esteemed, envious women and you need a REALITY CHECK!!!!

chazzmother
chazzmother

Im still trying to figure out why you felt the need to bring up Quads wedding situation at Mariah's birthday party. You looked into the camera and talked about if a man sent a text out that the wedding was cancelled how you wouldn't have married him. Now this was the first episode and you entered information no one needed to know but you told every viewer Quads business. This was intention and done with malice. Now you expect viewers to think you wouldn't speak Mariah business about her daughter with the same intent? Toya is an evil and dangerous personality. She knows full well what her actions cause. Its funny how people justify you ignorant and evil actions but that says a lot about them. LOL!!! Cause from what I see without editing your mouth is your worst enemy oops I meant to say your heart. Not Mariah. You need to fix yourself not worry about Mariah she had Quad and the two of them are hilarious and happy with their lives.

2Juicy36
2Juicy36

Toya,

 

I must say, I'm not sure what the word "Friend" actually means to you? But, I do understand the anger Mariah has with you. Then, the fight! You know you took the first lick, she was just twirling your hair so it wouldn't  go to the next level. I hope you can find a way to work things out, cause me you would be out of luck. But, because your husbands might have to run in the same circle, for business purposes it would be best to be able to be business-friendly.

Militarybrat
Militarybrat

Toya I love you and I love Mariah. Please repair your friendship and be friends again. Let go of that evil spirit.

biglorri
biglorri

Toya,

 

As I have written to Mariah and Dr. Simoen, I feel you were set up big time.

 

#1 She was 2 or more hrs late for her own party and came in totally wasted... that was so obvious... then when she saw you she thought about what her sister planted in her brain earlier which Im sure they talked about from the minute she told her to the minute she got to the party.... so she was fueled big time.... and especially at you.....

 

People werent treating her like the queen she thought she was so guess what, next step being from the streets lets cause a scene, and she went after you.... it was terrible... and so so obvious... 

 

Even after the party I mean weeks after shes still using the Lauren card and as everyone that was on the show with their clips all said they all knew about Lauren being adopted... SO it was not a secret as she portrayed on TV.  Also for her Mom to be so terrible to you and ghetto OMG it was pathetic the way her Mom comes through,  and Oh MY does she want to come and kick my ass because I said that???? Well I am a white  52 yr old women from Detroit also.... was not raised to kick another girls ass to make my point BUT can hold my own if need be.... so you were totally set up in my book....

 

Then to go after Dr. Jackie about not being a MOTHER not having  HAD a baby was just .,.,.,. I dont even have words for how terrible that was to say to her..... I have never had a baby myself but thats why they call me Aunt Lorri and Ive probably been a better Mother to some of the kids I have helped raise then there TRUE Mother......

 

This women has not outgrown her streets, I think in her mind and her mind only has she....

 

You admit where you came from and what you had to put up, BUT you dont use it as an excuse thats the difference.....

 

I could see you were trying at the Lemon Twist Party, and you didnt back down which I thought was great,,,, so keep it up as in my opinion your the one doing the RIGHT thing.

 

AUNT LORRI

vonnievonn65
vonnievonn65

 Toya you started the fight. You are a butt for discussing someone's child on National TV she did not sign up for a reality TV show but the adults did!!!  Dr. Jackie you are not Ghandi....sit your judgmental butt down because you judgement sucks. Also you ladies do not represent all women so you are not making a mockery out of women you are just making a mockery of your own life. I said this last week and I see Quad eluded to it in her blog. Mariah "this too shall pass". You are funny a lot of people do not get you because you dont project your speech out so folks can really hear what you are saying. Quad. LOVE YOU GIRL!!!   Ok this is summation of all my comments!!!!!

TSan
TSan

How were you defending yourself when you started the fight? I am confused on your thought process.

hlgraham1016
hlgraham1016

Toya you are faker than a knock off Gucci bag

Cocostilletto
Cocostilletto

I am cracking up at these Mariah "mini mees" bashing Toya. Let it go sweeties.. They both had some fault but the "drama queen liar" award goes to Mariah. She lied and said she didn't return he money from the PayPal account but se admitted on tv that "she wasn't paying for a party e was Ike out of" then when Kari pulled out the magic invoice Mariah lied numerous times about Kari bring a liar even when the proof was n every bodies face. Mariah thinks she told Toya in confidence about the adoption but she told everybody in town about it herself...lol! Both of the ladies had two different reasons why they were fighting and it could have been avoided if Mariah spoke to Toya like a woman and not allowed her ignorant mother to con to the party and act like a 16 yr old in a 80 yr old body. After all is said and done Mariah knew she messed up that party and he has not apologized to anybody especially Kari who paid money for that engagement. So that's enough to say thy Mariah is the drama queen liar...

alma13
alma13

Toya who is telling the truth? How did Mariah's sister find out that you been talking about Mariah's child then? Did your hairdresser spread the rumors? I'm confused! Something smells fishy. You and Mariah should apologize to each other for your childish action for your kids/husband's sake.

ToniTX
ToniTX

Friendship should not have to come with warnings.  It's obvious Mariah told you about her daughter's situation in confidence and didn't feel the need to end it with this is "confidential."  You should have known better.  You owe her an apology and if she doesn't accept it, then move on.  Either way, own it.

chazzmother
chazzmother

Funny how Toya found the time to apologize to Kari, and didn't feel the need to apologize to Mariah, but sat at the Lemon Squeeze and felt she was owed an apology.

jennanj
jennanj

Why do you keep trying to fight with Mariah?

 

She tried to avoid you at the party - You apporached her with mess.

 

She tried to avoid you at the dog show - You went to the room that she was in, alone, to approach her with mess.

 

She tried to avoid you at the winery trip - You just HAD to stand next to her.

 

I know that you are trying to bring her down to your level but that will never happen. She is better, married better and has done better than you. Get over it and learn to love yourself.

 

Also, if you sting her with that Tazer I hope that she takes the $1.3 million house from  you and your husband.

Klacee
Klacee

HAHAHA, press charges? The evidence was right there. She's the one that can press charges! You hit her with a glass you moron! What a joke. I can't take you, your messed up extensions, or your phony "ph"riendships seriously! Married to "PH"Ds lol. You shouldn't be. You have a peanut for a brain. 

9japride
9japride

You said you had the conversation with your hairdresser at your home without knowing it was a secret. Chances are, she shared the hot gist when she returned to the salon... See how you in fact did spill the secret?

ClarityDiva
ClarityDiva

I must commend you for taking the high road! It is always admirable to be humble and accountable for our actions. I believe you truly desire to move on and I think you have learned from it. Now the real work in order to truly move ahead is to work at maintaining that same integrity, humility and grace, when you are confronted by someone who has not yet acquired those attributes. You have one foot solidly planted, now plant the other one! Not only are you a beautiful and intelligent black woman, but you are all those things with millions of people watching! And thats hard! You have a great opportunity to influence others who have not yet mastered the art of growth through our mistakes with grace, humility, and forgiveness.

Marijune
Marijune

Stop saying you're not interested in Mariah, but then that's all you talk about....

Marijune
Marijune

Apparently Mariah's sister was a good source (damn good source) because you admitted you told your hairdresser.  You get caught in your lies alot and still won't own up to them.  You are such a turn off to the show.  I started out liking the show; and now I just like missing the show. 

Mrs.Summersett
Mrs.Summersett

Darling, the greatest thing in this world is being a women, we can do many things. One of the greatest things we can do is ADMIT. Darling on many levels you deserved an ass cutting, speaking about someones child........ not a good move. But what you can do to fix this pressing issue is to ADMIT. Admit the fact that you were wrong, Admit the fact that you did say it, rather you knew it was a family secret or not, I'm sure Mariah told you cause she felt comfortable to. Admit the fact that you swung at Mariah first. Admit................... once you do this you will find peace with yourself and Mariah. No this fight does not mean your a bad person not by a long shot. But it does show your character. And I'm sure this is not your first time getting into some mess with a friend, over you speaking or repeating what they told you in.........friendship......

MsLeilah
MsLeilah

Your story is falling apart Ms. Toya.  Several episodes back you said, "I ONLY talked to my husband about Mariah's daughter." The keywords are: I ONLY talked to my husband.  But, that wasn't the truth Ms. Toya.  You also talked to your stylist about Mariah's child.  Why would you talk to your stylist about a child?  Shame on you Ms. Toya.

 

 

albab
albab

 @PRINCESSLY7 That is exactly what I have noticed. I like the show but Toya is killing that for me with her constant obsessing and focusing on Mariah. I wish she could move on. The obsession is boring and tedious.

Kenny_gee
Kenny_gee

Toya you should also learn to think before you speak. I personally don't think you had any "malicious" intent, but when you speak on things like that to others, they'll spread gossip and an unwanted twist can/will get added. From what was shown on TV that's what happened. I think you should just apologize and accept responsibility for your part and if Mariah is your friend and cares for you she will forgive you. You started the fight, so quit acting like you didn't.

WinterisComing
WinterisComing

@biglorri Totally agree! On top of that, let's take to a place where Mariah got me thinking: so you can't love a child if it isn't your own, then does she mean.her husband may not have the same love for that little girl as his son?? You never see him with the girl, just HIS son hanging on him. And secret? The little girl has not one lick of appearance close enough to him or her half-brother, as to allow anyone to believe she would be his. And the ultimate was having the little one ask Toya about the party! Now that was a truly mean thing to do to one's OWN child-playing games.

Kenny_gee
Kenny_gee

Kari stated she paid for the party at 100% when she didn't. Mariah stopped payment on the "LAST" payment of $300. I'm sure the party was more than $600 being that they were going half. The dancers alone were $300 I'm pretty sure. You've got to watch Kari, she wasn't all the way honest.

 

2Juicy36
2Juicy36

 @alma13 Come on everyone knows that a beauty salon is a big gossip hole or at least the black salons are. Being that a party was about to go on, I'm quite sure the sister went to get her hair done. As fly as her hair was! Most people would be surprised to find out that they share the same hairdresser.

Cocostilletto
Cocostilletto

@ToniTX Toya des not owe Mariah an apology. Mariah owes EVERYBODY an apology for her ignorant actions and damage she caused alot of people at her husbands party. Not to mention her daughter for putting her on the pot to address a grown woman. That's proof right there that it's about Mariah and not her protecting her daughter...

Cocostilletto
Cocostilletto

@chazzmother Toya don't owe Mariah one word if "sorry"

Kenny_gee
Kenny_gee

Wow, that's a litlle harsh. Lol

 

Cocostilletto
Cocostilletto

@9japride ummm how about unfit was a secrecy why ones EVERYBODY know the "secret" lol y'all must be as dilusional a Mariah...

Kenny_gee
Kenny_gee

 @ClarityDiva I agree Toya is beautiful, intelligent, and all of the above but she opened her mouth and betrayed her friend. She spoke on something to the hairdresser and the hairdresser apparently went and spreaded the bizz buzz and attached Toya's name to it. There's no way around it, Toya was wrong & should apologize...Mariah should apologize too. Toya should also leave it alone & quit playing the victim.

 

hlgraham1016
hlgraham1016

 @ClarityDiva

 honey that foot you are talking abt is broke she needs to apologize to Mariah and her husband for what she did to their child

nwilliams
nwilliams

 @ClarityDiva Nothing was High about her road cause she threw the glass ... Very classless of her SO what casue she offered a check she should have cause she broke the glass .. Not to say MAariah was right about everything but i feel she was defending herself ...

Cocostilletto
Cocostilletto

@Marijune but Mariah is allergic to Toya and talk bout her to everybody.. But you say Toya is always on Mariah....yeah ok....lol

Cocostilletto
Cocostilletto

@Marijune Mariah said clearly on the how that "she wasn't paying for a party she got liked out of" but then when Kari addressed the Paypal return Mariah denied it and called Kari a liar... So I think you should replay the last two episodes to refresh your memory on who really is a liar.....Mariah.....

MsDetta
MsDetta

 @Mrs.Summersett

 Mariah touched Toya twice before she threw the glass at her (which was a very bad choice by Toya). And let's all remember if you tell a secret its no longer a secret.  Mariah chose to talk about her child to others now she has to deal with it...preferably like a lady. 

Cocostilletto
Cocostilletto

@MsLeilah don't act like you didn't tell more than one person about what you know about some bodies child...

Kenny_gee
Kenny_gee

@Cocostilletto Toya does owe Mariah an apology. A friend does not spread your business. I don't think Toya did it with "malicious intent" but it's the principle of the matter. She should apologize and own her part and then in return Mariah needs to own her part and apologize to "everyone".

joy2daworld
joy2daworld

 @hlgraham1016  @ClarityDiva  She did on the bus coming back from the winery, but of course we can all see that it just wasn't sincere. At least, I don't truly believe that it was.

 

kstovell1
kstovell1

 @MsDetta  @Mrs.Summersett Get your facts straight Toya started the " touching of the hair" while Mariah was talking to another couple. Simone and kari hyped her  up before Mariah got to the party. Mariah's mother spoke to Toya on her own and since Toya was so offended she should have addressed it to her mom at that time. Toya has also in every one of her interviews spoke badly about Mariah as though she was better. I will not look at the show anymore because it is to messy. 

lakjacks
lakjacks

 @MsDetta  @Mrs.Summersett

 Toya had no business approaching Mariah at the party in front of her guest regarding meaningless BS. She stated that Mariah was walking around as if the pary wasn't happening and she wasn't going to let her get away with that. Toya was sticking her nose in business that had nothing to do with her. Mariah told her when she first approached her to go and speak with her mother, but she wasn't going to do that because Ms. Lucy would have cut her behind. Toya knew exactly who to approach with the BS. Mariah told her on more than one occasion that she did not want to discuss her mother, but Toya continued to push. Toya started that fight and now she wants to hide her hand and make everyone believe that she had nothing to do with the start of the fight. She lied to her husband and she lied to the other ladies about the start of the fight. Toya's been negative and messy since the start of the show. Listening to some of these comments, I wonder what show are these people watching.Toya is envious and that's the reasoning for her shady behavior.

MsLeilah
MsLeilah

 @Cocostilletto  @MsLeilah I don't recall Mariah claiming she conversed about her daughter with several people.  Mariah specifically said, "She ONLY spoke to Toya (most likely she didn't, but there's NO proof) about her daughter.  The fact that it's been claimed (by Kari) everybody knows Mariah's daughter was adopted don't mean Mariah told them.  For all we know, Toya and ONLY Toya did it. Toya gossip so much that she probably told Mariah's family about the adoption, before Mariah got the chance to tell the family.  How funny is that Love?  Smooches....lol