you are perfect. you do you and thats it. forget what other people are saying.

It looks as if you where very sad with yourself on the wine visit. I think you wanted all the other ladies to ignore mariah, especially kari. Get over it and put up your weapons. Grow up, you and your husband. He is more into this than you are.

If looks could tell (on the bus to the winery ). You ma'am are jealous of mariah. Enough said.

Do you know you blink your eye everytime you lie. You lie a lot and that eye just keeps blinking. BLINK BLINK BLINK BLINK BLINK Girl..stop!

Toya it's sad how you obsess over Mariah! She is all you talk about! Check yourself ASAP!

toya - i am so a shame of you and the way you acted i watch it again to be sure before i said anything you owe mariah a sincere i am  sorry, for both things you did how can you burn a gift from a friend. thats so wrong in all the ways that are wrong how can you throw a drink at some one that could have harmed them and think you are right. you are a black women on t.v. trying to be classic...yet what you did was not. maybe you had to much to drink. i feel sorry for you.

Your personality is that of an immature little girl who doesn't understand the value of patience and moderation. Only a child feels a need to keep up with the Jones'. The money that's in the bank is what generates respect and security, not the debt that is transparent to others who really don't count at all.

I truly don't know what kind of delusional world you're living in BUT YOU STARTED the FIGHT with Mariah! and somehow you managed to not only convince the other woman that you weren't at fault because in your crazy mind "Mariah put her hands on you" correction, Mariah simply stroked your hair and said sweetheart you are too beautiful to be angry. You mistakenly MISTOOK that gesture as an act of aggression and chugged your ice in her face then the glass and proceeded to throw blows. I still can't for the life of me understand how even after seeing this footage that anyone would sympathize with you and not turn around and apologize to Mariah. I can understand Mariah's feelings of betrayal and can clearly understand why she hasn't apologized to either you nor Kari because both of you are LIARS. Kari DID throw Mariah out of her party and YOU initiated the fight between the two of you. Didn't any of you women watch the replay of what happened?!?!? How can you continue to lie about what took place. That is what has warranted my dislike of you, Simone, Jackie, and Kari. Clearly none of you women are honest enough to say you never really liked Mariah and were dying for the chance to team up against her! You women are typical Doctors, Doctor's wives or otherwise, you're nothing more than DRAMA, ghetto fabulous, dishonest, delusional, low self esteemed, envious women and you need a REALITY CHECK!!!!

Im still trying to figure out why you felt the need to bring up Quads wedding situation at Mariah's birthday party. You looked into the camera and talked about if a man sent a text out that the wedding was cancelled how you wouldn't have married him. Now this was the first episode and you entered information no one needed to know but you told every viewer Quads business. This was intention and done with malice. Now you expect viewers to think you wouldn't speak Mariah business about her daughter with the same intent? Toya is an evil and dangerous personality. She knows full well what her actions cause. Its funny how people justify you ignorant and evil actions but that says a lot about them. LOL!!! Cause from what I see without editing your mouth is your worst enemy oops I meant to say your heart. Not Mariah. You need to fix yourself not worry about Mariah she had Quad and the two of them are hilarious and happy with their lives.

Toya,

I must say, I'm not sure what the word "Friend" actually means to you? But, I do understand the anger Mariah has with you. Then, the fight! You know you took the first lick, she was just twirling your hair so it wouldn't  go to the next level. I hope you can find a way to work things out, cause me you would be out of luck. But, because your husbands might have to run in the same circle, for business purposes it would be best to be able to be business-friendly.

Toya I love you and I love Mariah. Please repair your friendship and be friends again. Let go of that evil spirit.

Toya,

As I have written to Mariah and Dr. Simoen, I feel you were set up big time.

#1 She was 2 or more hrs late for her own party and came in totally wasted... that was so obvious... then when she saw you she thought about what her sister planted in her brain earlier which Im sure they talked about from the minute she told her to the minute she got to the party.... so she was fueled big time.... and especially at you.....

People werent treating her like the queen she thought she was so guess what, next step being from the streets lets cause a scene, and she went after you.... it was terrible... and so so obvious... 

Even after the party I mean weeks after shes still using the Lauren card and as everyone that was on the show with their clips all said they all knew about Lauren being adopted... SO it was not a secret as she portrayed on TV.  Also for her Mom to be so terrible to you and ghetto OMG it was pathetic the way her Mom comes through,  and Oh MY does she want to come and kick my ass because I said that???? Well I am a white  52 yr old women from Detroit also.... was not raised to kick another girls ass to make my point BUT can hold my own if need be.... so you were totally set up in my book....

Then to go after Dr. Jackie about not being a MOTHER not having  HAD a baby was just .,.,.,. I dont even have words for how terrible that was to say to her..... I have never had a baby myself but thats why they call me Aunt Lorri and Ive probably been a better Mother to some of the kids I have helped raise then there TRUE Mother......

This women has not outgrown her streets, I think in her mind and her mind only has she....

You admit where you came from and what you had to put up, BUT you dont use it as an excuse thats the difference.....

I could see you were trying at the Lemon Twist Party, and you didnt back down which I thought was great,,,, so keep it up as in my opinion your the one doing the RIGHT thing.

AUNT LORRI

 Toya you started the fight. You are a butt for discussing someone's child on National TV she did not sign up for a reality TV show but the adults did!!!  Dr. Jackie you are not Ghandi....sit your judgmental butt down because you judgement sucks. Also you ladies do not represent all women so you are not making a mockery out of women you are just making a mockery of your own life. I said this last week and I see Quad eluded to it in her blog. Mariah "this too shall pass". You are funny a lot of people do not get you because you dont project your speech out so folks can really hear what you are saying. Quad. LOVE YOU GIRL!!!   Ok this is summation of all my comments!!!!!

How were you defending yourself when you started the fight? I am confused on your thought process.

Toya you are faker than a knock off Gucci bag

I am cracking up at these Mariah "mini mees" bashing Toya. Let it go sweeties.. They both had some fault but the "drama queen liar" award goes to Mariah. She lied and said she didn't return he money from the PayPal account but se admitted on tv that "she wasn't paying for a party e was Ike out of" then when Kari pulled out the magic invoice Mariah lied numerous times about Kari bring a liar even when the proof was n every bodies face. Mariah thinks she told Toya in confidence about the adoption but she told everybody in town about it herself...lol! Both of the ladies had two different reasons why they were fighting and it could have been avoided if Mariah spoke to Toya like a woman and not allowed her ignorant mother to con to the party and act like a 16 yr old in a 80 yr old body. After all is said and done Mariah knew she messed up that party and he has not apologized to anybody especially Kari who paid money for that engagement. So that's enough to say thy Mariah is the drama queen liar...

Toya who is telling the truth? How did Mariah's sister find out that you been talking about Mariah's child then? Did your hairdresser spread the rumors? I'm confused! Something smells fishy. You and Mariah should apologize to each other for your childish action for your kids/husband's sake.

Friendship should not have to come with warnings.  It's obvious Mariah told you about her daughter's situation in confidence and didn't feel the need to end it with this is "confidential."  You should have known better.  You owe her an apology and if she doesn't accept it, then move on.  Either way, own it.

Funny how Toya found the time to apologize to Kari, and didn't feel the need to apologize to Mariah, but sat at the Lemon Squeeze and felt she was owed an apology.

Why do you keep trying to fight with Mariah?

She tried to avoid you at the party - You apporached her with mess.

She tried to avoid you at the dog show - You went to the room that she was in, alone, to approach her with mess.

She tried to avoid you at the winery trip - You just HAD to stand next to her.

I know that you are trying to bring her down to your level but that will never happen. She is better, married better and has done better than you. Get over it and learn to love yourself.

Also, if you sting her with that Tazer I hope that she takes the $1.3 million house from  you and your husband.

HAHAHA, press charges? The evidence was right there. She's the one that can press charges! You hit her with a glass you moron! What a joke. I can't take you, your messed up extensions, or your phony "ph"riendships seriously! Married to "PH"Ds lol. You shouldn't be. You have a peanut for a brain. 

You said you had the conversation with your hairdresser at your home without knowing it was a secret. Chances are, she shared the hot gist when she returned to the salon... See how you in fact did spill the secret?

I must commend you for taking the high road! It is always admirable to be humble and accountable for our actions. I believe you truly desire to move on and I think you have learned from it. Now the real work in order to truly move ahead is to work at maintaining that same integrity, humility and grace, when you are confronted by someone who has not yet acquired those attributes. You have one foot solidly planted, now plant the other one! Not only are you a beautiful and intelligent black woman, but you are all those things with millions of people watching! And thats hard! You have a great opportunity to influence others who have not yet mastered the art of growth through our mistakes with grace, humility, and forgiveness.

Stop saying you're not interested in Mariah, but then that's all you talk about....

Apparently Mariah's sister was a good source (damn good source) because you admitted you told your hairdresser.  You get caught in your lies alot and still won't own up to them.  You are such a turn off to the show.  I started out liking the show; and now I just like missing the show. 

Darling, the greatest thing in this world is being a women, we can do many things. One of the greatest things we can do is ADMIT. Darling on many levels you deserved an ass cutting, speaking about someones child........ not a good move. But what you can do to fix this pressing issue is to ADMIT. Admit the fact that you were wrong, Admit the fact that you did say it, rather you knew it was a family secret or not, I'm sure Mariah told you cause she felt comfortable to. Admit the fact that you swung at Mariah first. Admit................... once you do this you will find peace with yourself and Mariah. No this fight does not mean your a bad person not by a long shot. But it does show your character. And I'm sure this is not your first time getting into some mess with a friend, over you speaking or repeating what they told you in.........friendship......

Your story is falling apart Ms. Toya.  Several episodes back you said, "I ONLY talked to my husband about Mariah's daughter." The keywords are: I ONLY talked to my husband.  But, that wasn't the truth Ms. Toya.  You also talked to your stylist about Mariah's child.  Why would you talk to your stylist about a child?  Shame on you Ms. Toya.