Toya Bush-Harris

Toya can't believe Mariah and her family would spreadsuch vicious lies about her.    

on Apr 11, 20130

I am forced to respond this week to the fallacious and accusatory arrows that have been shot in my direction this week. To make it plain: the statements from Lake and Lucy about discussing Mariah's daughter in a hair salon are not only false, but are also slanderous and saddening. Slanderous because they are simply just not true, and saddening because they show what length their family will go to achieve fame and celebrity.

I will address the lies and slander. I have never discussed Mariah's daughter except for agreeing with my husband, Eugene, in a private conversation (meaning no one but he and I were around) when Eugene complemented Aydin for being a man's man by stepping up and adopting HIS daughter (see Episode 2). I agreed that this statement was true to him in a private conversation.

280 comments
electra1
electra1

Hmmm...I just have to say, if you are saying something good about someone you are complimenting them, not complementing. (Look it up) And nothings runs rapid it runs rampant. If you are going to use the big words learn how to use them correctly, how to spell them and how to pronounce them (*Czar" is not pronounced "see-zar," I thought your husband was going to choke when you said that). 

 

As for your "private conversation," you mean the one that was filmed and broadcast? 

 

And you know darn well, walking up to a woman, interrupting her hosting duties and touching her hair while complaining about her mother was aggressive. Not that it warrants a slap down. But I have watched it several times and it looks to me like you threw a drink in her face first.

 

And lose the furs. You all need to lose the furs. I know black women think it gives them status but all women who wear furs are just displaying how vain and vacuous and callous they really are.

peaches-S
peaches-S

Do you really acknowlege that Mariah hurt , you not acting like it their is nothing funny about what you did..Talk to her like a lady none of this i mean none of this would have happen if you had kept what she told you about her child to yourself. But you didn't so now you have to fix it.

aralana.maine
aralana.maine

I think your awesome Toya don`t let any of these negative people bring you down you are the realest person on the show and i only watch bc of you and dr. Jackie and dr. Simone kari is cool too. huggs you should have pressed charges on them crazy women they jumped you freaking bullies make me sick! 

HousewivesRealFan13
HousewivesRealFan13

Really Toya?  You put Mariah down in a comment you made about choosing to wait to have children after you met your husband.  As for who started the fight... you hit first.

 

Liar, liar pants on fire.

vcskygirl@sbcglobal.net
vcskygirl@sbcglobal.net

Toya, I agree with Sinciar, have several seats. You have shown the viewers that you can and will lie. The fight at the party as to who started. First I'm pretty sure you said the things about Mariah's daughter. Because you've proven that you enjoy sticking your nose in other people's business. Do you feel that Quad marrying her husband or Mariah having a child before marriage is something you need to be concern with? The answer is No! What you should be doing is, trying to fine tune Toya. Get some help so that you know how to meet with a builder, instead of showing up with no plan, not knowing what you want. That's why he was looking at you like, this woman is all over the place, her husband has money to spend but she doesn't have a clue as to what she wants. While I can see that you've never had anything close to what you have now. Kari is the last person you should strive to be like. Find an older doctor's wife, who's been around for a long time, and well respected to be your mentor.

Sinciar
Sinciar

Instead of addressing Mariah and the public about this so called "Vicious Lie" you should be going up to the salon where it came from and getting it solved, especially if you ever really considered Mariah a true friend and if this rumor is really demeaning your character like you say it is. I'm not saying you said it, I'm just saying it's hard to believe that somebody would just make up a lie as such about their own child to obtain fame and fortune when Mariah and her husband are already wealthy. Mariah's sister heard the alleged rumor at that particular salon and all you have to say is this is so slandering of my personality and they're doing this for Fame? Child please. Have several seats.

jane_c
jane_c

After watching you and reading your blogs, which I don't believe for one second that you wrote, it is clear that you're a very materialistic person. All that you care about is money and people knowing you have money, for example when house shopping you wanted a neighborhood that said "MONEY". I'm sorry but money doesn't make you a good person or give you class. Just because you have money it doesn't make you better than anyone else, like in this blog I got your dig at Mariah's mother and sister by letting everyone know you don't do salons, stylist come to you. It's funny how you put Mariah down for having a child before marring Aydin saying your values are different, then admit to being adopted yourself by your stepfather, I guess you have different values than your mother too. 

jai.simmons.9
jai.simmons.9

First of all Team Toya!! Second, I don't think you said anything for one minute. Also, if Mariah's mama and daughter have not told her daughter, then no one has. Not only can they not hold their liquor, all of them including Quad are just plain ghetto hood rat and messy. I don't see how anyone wants them in the doctor's circle. Interesting that they married doctors....Well, Mariah trapped Dr. Aydin and Quad must have put a root on Dr. Greg because a sane man probably would not have married these women. Mariah acts like she is the Queen Bee and forgive me but she needs to get off that self imposed pedestal that she thinks she's on. Don't let Mariah and Quad mess with you. Continue to stand up for yourself and put those hood rats back in the gutter where they belong.

danaeab
danaeab

I think Toya is not taking responsibility for her role....looks like she started it.

metro3631
metro3631

Toya it was not a private conversation if we can see it. I feel like that is something that should not being aired at all because of the baby. You would not want anyone to say anything about your children so imagine how Mariah felt. You are not perfect and watching the show all of you guys get a little messy I think that you guys should hang more around Dr. Jackie and Simone because they show class and how you are truly suppose to act. You are not a person friend if you have to discuss them behind their backs with a true friend you can say what you have to say today to their face and still be friends tomorrow. I think you owe Mariah an apology as well as she owes you one. But you should place yourself in her shoes and imagine what you would have done if it involved your family.

Neicy
Neicy

Ms. Toya, Get yourself together, you are making your own life look crazy - stop talking about Mariah's family and put all you’re talking and focus on your own family. I am sure your life is more than what you are showing it to be on this show - is it not? If so, you should spend your time talking about your own household. Listen - we all make mistakes, we just have to learn how to say that we are wrong, apologize and move forward.  Looking to see good things from you, I know you can and I know you have good things in you but do you know that?

piperbeau
piperbeau

I don't like a lot of your actions, but I don't believe you went into a salon and talked about Mariah's family!! I think Mariah got wind of your conversation with your hubby, via production and couldn't say that, so she made up the salon story!! I agree your hubby was not being malicious!! He probably didn't know it was a big secret!!! It seemed like a pretty innocent conversation to me!!!

gibsontara34
gibsontara34

toya plain and simple... you are ghetto hood honey. It shines thru no matter how hard you try to conceal it. You have no etiquette, no social skills, and you def better be glad you found Eugene who you referred to as  "nerd". Keeping him is another story. You slapped Quad's hand away twice! That right there showed how aggressive you are. You wanted to fight Mariah from get go. Then when they got ya'll separated, you came up looking like a cave woman and said " Come on!" Bahahahaha - it was HILARIOUS - but on a serious note, showed how much you was lovin all that fighting.

 

Daisyatl
Daisyatl

You should never have got in Mariah's face about her messy crazy mama. You saw how the mama disrespected you so why did you even try to go there with Mariah? I think you are the only "real" wife on the show. You are down to earth and dont put on airs so good luck hanging with these bunch of crows!

CarmenE
CarmenE

WOW Toya literally lied on camera about the whole thing when talking to her husband.  Did you really not figure out the camera's were recording you at the party or are you just that delusional.  He now knows you will lie right in his face or should know after seeing what us viewers saw.  How can he even trust you??  You have the nerve to use the word Slander, you should truly be ashamed of yourself.  The only one that should be sad is poor Mariah for ever trusting you.

Jenjen1982
Jenjen1982

Toya, in the last part of your oration I think you meant "runs rampant", not runs rapid, because I'm not sure what that means.

Megan707
Megan707

You are so wrong for talking about Mariah's daughter and husband to strangers.  You are cold hearted.  Not to mention a gold digger.  Get a life for real. Or in the words of Mrs Tamar "Get Your Life!"

gjsimon3256@gmail.com
gjsimon3256@gmail.com

Toya -It's very said that you didn't tell your husband or Dr. Simone the truth about the fight with Mariah.  You made it seem that it was Mariah's fault. Basically you started this fight, by confronting Mariah and you threw the drink in her face.  In addition, you swung first, but did not hit her.  You really need to take responsibility on this one.  If your husband was at this party,  this fight  probably would have never taken place. I didn't see Mariah with a drink in her hand, but I did see you with a drink in her hand.

falina_c
falina_c

I will say this : Clearly Mariah was on SOMETHING that evening.  Who refers to themselves in the third person?!  That being said....Toya, there are two sides to every story.  And then there is the truth.  And we'll leave it at that.

Nvizibl2
Nvizibl2

It looked like you were going to take the high road at the party when Mariah's mother was being "ghetto". It's a shame that you couldn't leave well enough alone and just walk by Mariah and resist saying something about her mom....it showed lack of respect for Kari and her husband, the guests and staff of the party, but most of all for yourself. You can be classy....just don't let it slip through your hands by temptation!

laye
laye

You spent your whole entire blog discussing the so called "rumor" about Mariah's daughter but you never addressed your role in the fight. Looks to me like you know you're guilty because you should have been talking about that instead of playing the victim. I wish you well girl because you have more problems than Mariah seeking fame.

gibsontara34
gibsontara34

Toya you are a raging lunatic. You have been starting trouble since this show started. You lied and said she started it but you weren't counting on the cameras telling the whole story, which is that you are a LIAR. I can't believe Simone is friends with you

gjsimon3256@gmail.com
gjsimon3256@gmail.com

Mariah's family would not lie about something this important to them.  They did not want this information to get out about her daughter.  Mariah told you this information in confidence and you started gossiping about it. on national television.  This is not classy at all. Secondly, basically, you started this fight with Mariah.  She said that you looked good and this was not the time to talk about her mother.  But you decided to continue to talk about her mother.  Shame on you.

keepitrealshonda
keepitrealshonda

Toya let me just lay you straight right now. First and foremost you have proven the point that money can’t buy you class and you demonstrated that. It was not the place to approach Mariah because Ms. Lucy called you out. Now granted Ms. Lucy’s approach is not admirable either, however that in its self is a whole new topic.  If you were a true friend, why not pull Mariah to the side? The episode reflects that you walked up to her while she was engaging in another conversation with a couple and then told her about her mother. You thought that was tactful? Note she walked away with you and told you if you had an issue with her mother to talk to her mother correct? Yet you wanted to try to read Mariah. She even it made it very clear that she was to pretty to be discussing this mess with you right? When she flipped your hair, your hood rat tail assumed that was an invitation to fight. Take ownership for your part because you represented low class, and now you want to play the victim

suequu
suequu

Toya be honest and tell the truth . How could that be a private conversation if you had it on camera with millions watching. Come on

amasdecasa
amasdecasa

Toys, please turn on your dvr and rewind the episode, then put it in slow motion.  You will see that you start the fight, Mariah just defends her self.  Liar Liar pants on fire!!!

pyin
pyin

I haven't read what anyone else has said but I believe that you did not speak about her child. Mariah was the problem. She started flipping your hair, getting in your face, and I saw you backing up because she kept coming at you.

 

I was her trashy mother that started the whole thing. Talk about not getting the ghetto out of the girl! I could barely understand her mothers mumbling nonsense! You kept it together out of respect and simply told Mariah about it. BUT Mariah spent two hours riding around in a Limo getting drunk. The way she showed up she was bound for trouble. Besides the fact that she was 2 hours late. So tactless! No class AT ALL. How embarrassing that Aydin had to apologize for his wife. I am sure he was so embarrassed!

 

Then she leaves with a line from the ghetto: "Dats how day do wen day get chor coin" Marrying a rich man did not teach that girl a thing. She thinks she has arrived, but she is DELUSIONAL!!!

judy@london
judy@london

Stop saying that you only discussed Mariah's daughter with your husband "in a private conversation".You knew the cameras were rolling,so just stop it.You're disgusting and so messy.

judy@london
judy@london

What your husband sees in you I'll never know.You started that mess and you know it.You're disgraceful and should be ashamed of yourself.

Ladyalways
Ladyalways

Toya, know matter who you marry you should be a lady, have a life of YOUR OWN and grow up. My daughter is right there in ATL, I own a home there as well. She is marrying a doctor, she's 24 has her degree, and a fabulous job and career of her own. She wouldn't even have coffee with you or Kari. It's called class, you either have it or you don't, and you don't. You immediately lied in the bathroom about who did what first... you're nothing without your husband, you're a liar, a pathetic excuse as a woman. Now you can lie to your grave, but if Lake said it was heard in the shop, and the only other person who knew outside of the family was you!! Not everyone is a fool like you, knowone would pull something out of their behinds at a shop, you did it and you know you did. Shame on you, you are going to ruin your husbands reputation. It's obvious why you don't like Quad, and why you went after Mariah. You are a loser, a man can't make you, and without him you're nothing, as far as i've seen. You manipulating him, poor man.

Dannarae7
Dannarae7

Toya is messy, a serious instigater, look at how she did Quad, she kept slapping her hand down trying to provoke her when Quads finger was not in her face, uneccesarily throwing salt on a wound of a woman whose husband embarrassed her, but love conquers all, and she forgave him, you should be wishing her well, what kind of woman messily addresses that months later when its none of her business, one that's loves mess, and loves to belittle people, but Quad kept her composure and did not get physical, also just look at the fight, who looks like a true fighter, Toya, the way she was punching that lady, Mariah was trying to be the bigger person by containing her anger for Toya, Toya could have waited to confront, and she did in front of people(messy), Toya touched Mariahs hair first, did Mariah get physical, no, Toya slapped Mariah hands, Mariah was trying to keep Toya from touching her and Toya thru the drink, I wish Mariah would've beat that ass, can't stand Toya!!!

Huneydelicious1
Huneydelicious1

Uh Toya I regret to inform you: however you were wrong dear. You shouldn't have approached Mariah with your trivial issues. You were wrong and you need to apologize.

Thanks

Huneyd

joy2daworld
joy2daworld

 @aralana.maine Really? She should press charges for jumping on toya? You really need to see the episode again to see who hit the first hit . Clearly Mariah and Quad did NOT jump Toya. Quad was tryiing to break up the fight. You might want to get your naive delusional brain together and watch the episode again.

toni816
toni816

@jai.simmons.9. Hey fool Toys is also a hoodrat remember!! Only thing after showing her true character her Hood pass is revoked!! So when she snaps back to reality or Kari digs toyas head outta her ass& moves on to a new pet monkey Toya will have no allies!!& Mariah will rock from the project streets to beyond the penthouse suites! !LOL

laddyluck
laddyluck

 @gibsontara34

 i agree with you, Toya you got what you deserve....she wants to act like she got so much class and she doesn't.  You had no business talking about Mariah's personal business concerning her daughter. 

judy@london
judy@london

 @CarmenE

 I agree,and I wonder how her husband feels now that he's seen the footage?She's gonna have to do a lot of fast-talkin' to explain all her lies.SMH

surfer490
surfer490

 @suequu So True.  Why would you have a private conversation in front of the camera's for the world to see.  I don't believe a word that you say Toya

CranberryCrue
CranberryCrue

 @pyin Seriously, though?

 

Like, really? Are you being paid to say this lol?

 

The only reason that family secret could have gotten out would be because of Toya. There is no reason Mariah or her family would openly discuss something so close and personal to them on camera just to stir the pot, so it makes no sense for it to be them who are making up the story. Toya was wrong for opening her mouth, regardless of to whom or why. And she needn't try and play like it was done "privately", because camera's roll at least 8hrs a day, honey. And it wouldn't have gotten back to Lake or Miss Lucy the way it did if Toya had only spoken to her husband.

 

Mariah's mother may not have showed up with intentions of letting things slide, but Mariah herself certainly did. She made it blatantly clear to Lake that she would handle Toya "on another day", and would just avoid her as best she could at the party that evening for her sake. Toya was the only one who showed up [looking a God awful mess: that hair was just unforgivable, and she was dressed too casually in comparison to the other guests] on her own with a particular agenda. She approached Mariah-- while Mariah was minding her own business with other guests, mind you!-- about something that had nothing to do with her, and forced the issue when Mariah insisted they handle this another time. And then she throws her drink and starts swinging!

 

Delusional? I think not. Unless you're referring to yourself or Tacky Toya, of course. Cuz there's nothing more tactless than tossing drinks at a party.

prettybrown31
prettybrown31

 @pyin

 Are you serious? Did you watch the same show I did? First, Toya pulled Mariah away from a conversation. Then she throw a drink in her face.  Not to mention Toya threw the first punch which she missed.  I think you are delusional as well Ms pyin

judy@london
judy@london

 @Ladyalways

 I agree 100%.After watching the previews for next week I was shocked to see that Kari is still placing all the blame on Mariah.I feel so bad for Mariah,she seemed devastated.

JB0305
JB0305

 @Dannarae7toya just wants to play the victim...she tried it with quad and mariah gave it to her when she tried her...and now she's still pretending to be a victim

janmother01
janmother01

 @Dannarae7  You are 100% correct, Miss Toya has been a mess since the beginning.  She will believe that she is at fault for anything.

pyin
pyin

 @Dannarae7

 Are you as DELUSIONAL as Mariah!!!! Or are you actually Mariah posting about yourself all day long on Toya's blog because of all the distain people have for you on your own blog!!!

CarmenE
CarmenE

 @judy@london  

Did you notice the big difference in how Mariah said she is so sorry to her husband (even though it wasn't her fault) and Toya spent the whole time with her husband lying blaming Mariah. Just goes to show how sincere Mariah is and how tacky Toya is.

MrsCee
MrsCee

@pyin, Are you Toya, because you sound just as delusional as she does.

CarmenE
CarmenE

 @pyin  

 You have it backwards girl, Toya is delusiona .  READ THE POST AGAIN majority aren't wrong. 

Megan707
Megan707

 @pyin  @Dannarae7 I do not know who or what show you have been watching But Toya is very much wrong and should own up to her part to what she did and not play the victim.  I am not Mariah not Quad but I am  a fan.  You really need to look at the show again in slow motion this time.  True Mariah should not had fought Toya, but Toya should have not approached Mariah like she did neither.