Toya you are a joke! Have you ever heard of denial? Your immature and you put on a façade. Take responsibility for your actions and act your age. Your a mother and know damn well if the shoe was on the other foot you would be upset. Get a grip and get off your high horse. At the end of the day your still a black woman on television acting like trash and feeding into the stereotypes women of color face.

Dont condone fighting. Sometimes ppl need to know that there are consequences to their actions. If they are allowed to keep bumping their lips about ppl and never get checked the crap would never end. Sometimes you need to get everything out in order to get clarity learn alesson and heal.

first off you talk like you have no sympathy for anyone but yourself...you threw that glass first by mariah play fixing your hair was not hitting you first....how you gon check her about her mother telling you off....you have showed yourself to be a mean girl from the jump....you will never win being dirty.....im sure you hand picked that husband of yours, only you can wake up to a face like that,because after all he makes enough money to bypass all that....you only showed your true color t that table ready to get it cracking at any giving moment...kari think of you the same way she does mariah....rough around the edges.....meaning in a lower class than her... and she was a mistress before a wife...

You need to get a full grip of yourself... Ms Toya... because you have to be taught the rules of friendship... you can speak 100 different kinds of shit about a woman but when you gonna go talk about her child/children? naw you drove right off the train tracks.. just shut up and everything will be good... don't talk about no one so no one will have bad things to say about you.. simple

Furthermore, when you speak of puppets, does Kari have a PPO plan attached to your strings when you dance around on command?

You protect your children but gossip about another innocent child.  It was NOT your place to discuss the paternity of Lauren.  And to deflect and say that it was Mariah's fault for not tellling Lauren made it Mariah's fault, was immature and repulsive.

You gossiped about an innocent child.  It doesn't make it ok where you did it.  It got out and that wasn't your place.  None of the other women were so classless to speak of it.  Only you did.

Your lack of empathy for an innocent child and refusal to take responsibility for it, made you look beyond the depths of the ghettos you say you came from.  Even women in prison know that children are off limits.

Side note:  Interrupting your husband's business meeting was emasculating to say the least.  You have a lot to learn.

By the way Toya it's not ok that you think it's funny and ok that your husband called Mariah a bitch.  That shows very poor judgement and ill manners on his part and yours for laughing at it as if it's ok.  You and your husband need to show more class.

ok you almost lost me till I saw the Maltese....makes a difference! LOL!

Toya....why did you not pursue assault charges on the pink clad woman who was slamming her purse into your head and back? I get that you and Mariah were fighting each other, but clearly the footage shows this woman taking advantage of you...that is the worst kind of person in my view...to strike someone when they are not able to be self defensive...it is basically like a mob beating...horrible reflection on this person....I am sure there is a file downtown on this person....if not for the slam dunk she made repeatedly on your head, she should have been charged for that dreadful dress she was wearing, that most likely came from the back of Mariah's closet....it looked like one of the gowns that one of my Holiday Barbies is wearing....sorry if this blunt...but we comment on what we see...I understand that you did donate money for Paws for Cause....from another poster...for that..I thank you..

I like watching you and Eugene. People who always try to do right will always win. About slipping as you worded it. We ALL do honey. We Christians ask for forgiveness and try harder. Many Blessings

Could someone give me the episode in which they saw Toya speaking about Mariah's daughter?  I see a number of posts referencing Toya doing such but I have not seen the footage.  What I have seen is Mariah's sister stating she heard something at the salon, but I have yet to see any footage to support the claim.

I actually really love Toya. I really don't understand why everyone is hating on her. Mariah attacked her and Mariah's mother (who's how old??) attacked her as well, or does everyone not remember that? Toya did own up to her part and apologized or did everyone miss that also.  Also, this is a reality show people if Mariah didn't want her family secrets to come out of the closet then 1) don't tell people as Jackie stated 2) don't get on a reality show for the world to find out and 3) don't put your kids on camera if you want to protect them. Tacky Toya is a very childish name and that's bullying sorry. It's sad that I am younger than all of these ladies and don't call people names. Mariah sounds childish and definitely doesn't seem like a good role model for her kids just watching this show. I'd be embarrassed if my mother acted the way Mariah acts. I feel bad for her children. Also I would have definitely called the police on anyone who acted that way in my house. That wasn't just a slap or a punch it was a ghetto, trailer park trash beat down. 

Sadly, they all were quite wrong in their approach and opinions of one another.  Toya could have stayed away from Mariah (even though she would have found another reason to have an issue with her). Mariah could have walked away from Toya. Simone could have shut her mouth and minded her business.  Jackie could stay neutral and tried to sit with everyone or each person individually.  Kari, well, please....Kari made the scene more dramatic than it needed to be especially with the police on hand and dismissing Mariah/Ayden from her (their) party and spending little to no money on the event.   

Funny enough...Quad was the only one that had no participation in this mess, other than trying to break it up.

Please remember, their education, money, status, occupations have nothing to do with emotionally charged human reactions.  These shows remind the rest of us that indeed, we're all subject to falling short. Be careful not to judge too harshly.

SMH.. She doesnt take any responsibility for the fight with mariah. GIRL, I dont know who's worse, YOU or KARI.. You two belong together on your own little planet with your husbands! 

I see Mariah did not blog this week.  She knows that she looked very petty in the last episode. Especially when she urges her daughter to ask Toya about the party invite.  She is a very petty woman.

Girl please! I just watched the preview for next weeks episode=you are OBSESSED with Mariah.You couldn't even let your husband enjoy an evening out for saying"Why hasn't Mariah called?It's been weeks,she should've called by now".Honey,it'll probably be a cold day in hell before Mariah EVER speaks to you again and I don't blame her.

You talked about Mariah in your home, out with your husband, and your guest were hiding in the kitchen talking about Mariah. Why weren't you entertaining Kari, Duncan, and Simone so they didn't hide in the kitchen gossipping.

I was so surprised to hear on the show and read in your bio that you are a college graduate and have a Masters.    I would not have known that by the way you speak and carry yourself.  Getting in a physical fight at a professional party was so tacky.  You should not have stirred the pot by walking over to Mariah telling her about her mom.    You both could have talked about this at a lunch (another opportunity for the camera).  But at a party was completely tacky.

Also, Mariah should have pulled you aside to have a conversation about you talking about her daughter’s paternity.  Why keep things like that bottled up, you get angry and then blow up at the most inappropriate time.  That is called immaturity.

Quad needs to change your nickname from treacherous Toya to Tacky Toya. The only thing you have in life to hang onto is being a doctors wife,you have nothing else going on. Your husband is just as tacky and classless to refer to a female as the B word,and coming from a professional! I hope all of his colleagues saw that.

Married to Medicine = Excellent insight into a society many are unable to be exposed to.

Ms Toya,

Your husband was gossiping with you about Ms Mariah's child ... period.

REDF

Toya you are a fake and a drama starter. Mariah consider you as her best friend and you went behind her back. You the one started the fight and you know it. Why you going to lied to people that she started the fight and you know damn well that you did. Very unclass and immature.

Did i JUST hear you say, 'I would never involve my child/or any child in something like that' in response to Mariah sending her little girl over to ask you why she was invited your party?Shame on your hypocritical self.  Why did all this start?  Seems I remember it was because you were discussing Victoria's adoption in public, knowing she doesn't know.  Mariah sending her child over to you, is not something I would do, but girl you are in NO position to criticize her for that. What you did was wrong on SO many levels.  First and most importantly, your lack of concern of the impact of learning of her adoption prematurely and from someone other than her parents is nothing short of CRUEL and MEAN.  You brought this on yourself so deal with it.  Add class and morals to your shopping list.

Toya, You appear to not take any responsibility for the fight.  But we all saw what happened.  You became the least likable woman for me. than the others. when you talked about that child's adoption in a salon.  Mariah should not have told you that type of sensitive information but obviously she once trusted you as friend.  That was her biggest mistake.  Although many say it was okay for you to disinvite Mariah's daughter to the party, I think it is absolutely a breach of etiquette to do so.  You should have made every attempt to honor the invitation.  The conversation you had with Mariah about it at Paris for Pups should have been the content of your email regarding your party.  You were uncertain she would come and you definitely did not want an altercation at your home with the children present.  The point I am making is you missed an early opportunity to try to resolve the issue surrounding the fight.  I guess since you take no responsibility in the fight, you saw no reason to work on resolving it.  You guys are great at labeling yourselves "doctors' wives"  but so far it represents people I would not invite to bowling alley.  Take the time for a man in the mirror moment.  You need it. 

Toya..please..you fool no one..a waste of words..why didn't you give the outfit you and your tag along husband burned to some one that would have appreciated it. . I think he should have guided you in a more positive direction....but he went along with you and you both look like immature wannabe's..wakeup

Hello Toya. I'm a newbie to y'all's show... so I watched all of the eppys the other day and I just have to say... I don't think you did anything wrong except for outing Mariah's Daughter, did not like that... so not cool... but after the fight her Mom steps in and does her part, again so not cool. So far I like the way you handled your part. This kind of touch fighting is new to me because if I can think back I'm not sure if the HW Franchise has done it.

To say the least it was very embarrassing and hard to watch.