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Some People's True Colors
Toya thinks some of the women need to have their negative attitudes medically treated.
Mar 28Truth. . .
This week's episode in my opinion really shows the true character of some of the women. The sincerity that Dr. Jackie displayed when expressing how important it was for woman to carry themselves with dignity and class is real. People are always going to come against you, but again, it's always best to avoid ignorance when possible. Funny thing is, ignorance is always trying to make itself seem valid, but, like the devil, it's always after the fact or used as an attack mechanism. Sad!
Projecting negativity, plotting to be messy, speaking on someone in a negative fashion all day everyday, talking with your mouth full. and going from 0-to-20 are all characteristics that require medical help. Watch those fake tears and people who hit below the belt. As Mariah states, you make yourself an outcast when you're consistently on attack, being malicious and lacking self control. Like Simone states, a muzzle is sometimes necessary.
I feel sorry for you. Stuff doesn't give you class it just gives you stuff. Hope you do some soul searching and heal from all those wounds.
You started everything FIRST and you're such a BIG HYPOCRITE. For Quad to call Kari a medical mistress is wrong and horrible but for you to question her marriage, put it out there about the wedding being called off and saying "who would marry a man who calls off a wedding?!" is right and not horrible?
Furthermore you said to Kari that you're 'proud' of her (her low class. petty, childish text message) that it's great that she stood up for herself by saying what she did, but then Quad is wrong and a bad person for standing up for herself??
You're all kinds of Hypocrite miss trashy toya, all kinds!
Everything Quad said was 1. True 2. Justified 3. in retaliation to your's and kari's FAILED attempt at smearing her and trying to make her look bad.
The mistress comment came after you and kari insulted her husband and wedding.the anorexic comment came after kari first said that she's crazy and has voices in her head. Y'all should take what you dish out first and stop playing the victim and blaming Quad when you're to blame.
I feel sorry for you. Your delusions of grandeur are frightening. You've described yourself precisely in your blog.
From what I have seen on the show thus far, you seem to have a serious issue with Quad and I don't understand. I believe that Kari is not a true friend to you so you better smarten up and open your eyes. Quad may be over the top with her actions, but you seem very sneaky with yours so if I had a choice between choosing to hang with you or Quad, I would choose Quad because at least she's real and upfront with hers.
Don't know what to think about you.
Honestly Toya, you have been the main person "plotting to be messy". When Quad came in the door you were already "plotting" to bring up her wedding incident. Grow up! and from the looks of you; you are as ghetto as you claim Quad is.
YOU and YOU alone started that nonsense about Quad's wedding. Totally unnecessary and immature. Not to mention why are you and your hubby discussing Mariah's daughter's adoption? Wow - another thoughtless act on your part. You're in denial about your behavior.
wish this was real time so you can change based on the comments :( sad it ain't you like to start drama you can't finish
I don't condone Quad's behavior but, you started the whole thing by bringing up the text her husband sent in front of others. That must have been hurtful to Quad that her husband done that. People always talk about us as black women because we always put each other down instead of empowering each other and lifting each other up. What makes you so bad is that you're on national television doing this. Sad.
She needs to be silent until she learns how to correctly pronounce words. CEZAR and UHCEPT (accept). LOL. She's a jealous snake trying to come up the wrong way with the wrong FRENEMY!!!
Stop trying to be something you are not! Moving because the neighborhood says money?!?!? You are so shallow. Grow up
Ohh do i hear someone describing themself in their own blog (Funny thing is, ignorance is always trying to make itself seem valid, but, like the devil, it's always after the fact or used as an attack mechanism. Sad! Projecting negativity, plotting to be messy, speaking on someone in a negative fashion all day everyday) thats you #tacky toya that's all you did in the first two episodes. You and kari talk about people and their business, yes Quad then you and your hubby had the nerve to talk about a child yes Mariah's daughter while sitting in their home sipping on their wine. You and kari constantly talk classy and you guys are far from being classy.
You started the drama with Quad but what you didn't expect was her to react, you pressed her button and told her to wiene but you didn't think she would have but when she did you two trying to turn it all around on her about being ghetto. What you and kari need to do is start showing and acting classy and stop talking it. People with class don't talk down on other people. So stop #throwingshade
Your blog is extremely interesting.... because you gossip like a 12 year-old! Everything you stated here sounds great, however, practice what you preach and don't just type it because it sounds good. You should really stay out of the Kari and Quad situation.... it has nothing to so with you, and its very clear that Kari has a serious issue with her mouth. GROW UP, you're an adult and should definitely be ashamed of your behavior!
Can we please stop making it seem like just because since you ladies are married to doctors that there is a certain way that you guys need to act and behave. In any marriage and relationship there is a certain way that you act it isn't any different from a two regular non doctors marriage
@breezie_bre I am not married to a doctor but I do think people view their wives differently. .
I understand this is reality TV but I guess these comments are not from reality observers because how they continue to attack you for asking Quad (big mouth) a question and not attack Big Mouth Quad for attacking Kari and dissing you at every turn is beyond me.
Why Mariah choose to "expose" the secret of her daughter's adoption is baffling, we as viewers did not know it was a secret until she and Big Mouth Quad opened their mouths in their blogs, so I guess she should only be mad at herself and her BFF.
Quad showed her love for your style last night on Watch What Happens Live, was that your dress she borrowed?
ballerswife what were you watching... This one and her husband spouted out the adoption on the last episode. Taya had no right questioning Quad about the incident regarding her husband cancelling the wedding. Toya was throwing shade and being messy and really dragged Kari into it.
lfaunt ballerswife
Whatever Toya and her husband spouted out about the adoption, the audience was not aware that the adoption was a secret until Mariah and Quad blogged about it. Toya has the right to ask whatever she chooses, the problem I have is that everyone is up in arms about Toya questioning Quad about the texted wedding cancellation but is giving Quad a free pass for her ignorance and attacking questions aimed at Kari.
prettynpink08
No, I believe you are confused about the timeline. Mariah and Quad only blogged about Mariah's daughter adoption only AFTER Toya and her husband felt it necessary to speak about it on NATIONAL TV. I do not care how you slice it Toya had no right to discuss that situation on television, especially since we now find out that Mariah and her husband hadn't had the discussion with their daughter about it yet.
Remember blogs are AFTER the show has been watched.
ballerswife exactly what were you watching.... she is the one that started the drama, she asked a question got an answer but she wasn't satisfied with that she had to dig deeper into PEOPLE'S BUSINESS even though the girl said their marriage is fine. That's none of #tackyToya business she said her marriage is fine then so be it shut up.
Mariah nor Quad is the one that spoke about the adoption #tackytoya and her #flubbyHubby did. Because when i was reading up on the cast all it said they have two children so no one would have known. And Mariah's concern isn't that the world knows, it's that they haven't discussed with their daughter yet. She is a child and shouldn't have been brought into their discussion. It's the info getting back to the child in a negative way, say a friend or a child from her school saw the show and said to her "so your daddy ain't your real daddy or youve been adopted" and you know how mean children can be. What devastating effect that would have on the child now especially if she is not ready to handle such new.
brownsuga21
Apparently she was watching the same show you were watching, just with better comprehension!
Toya asked ghetto Quad a question and ghetto Quad took it to a different level. If Quad is so real, why did she invite Toya to her wedding anyway, since she is clearly saying now she did not want to extend her an invitation? Toya has stated, she declined the invitation but was still included in the text message from Doc cancelling the wedding. Toya asked Quad if she was offended by her not attending the wedding because obviously Mariah (who is playing both sides) told Toya that Quad was upset with her.
Fake Mariah and ghetto Quad mentioned the adoption secret in their blogs. I as a viewer did not know Mariah had been lying to her daughter until she and Quad blogged about it. Why is she lying to her daughter? If a person has secrets, reality TV is not the place for them! She choose to expose her life and her children's lives to the public, she should have been open or at least prepared for the truth to come out. I can't see how it was much of a secret anyway seeing as though all the cast knew and I am sure the girl already knew as well, her hair is that of an African American, she does not have the same locks as her brother.
All the comments on here must be from Quad's relatives. All this Toya bashing is messed up. You go ahead Toya, they are making you relevant. Let them hate.
How could you get on tv and call a young beautiful black sister ghetto to a white woman and think that is okay? It is not! How could you ridicule someone for their pain and problems as if you have never had issues? What is the deal with your husband, is he as grimmey as you? He must be to support your antics and even participate in them by inserting the adoption in your conversation. That was so cruel. I have no affiliation to any of you but I watched both episodes overand over again and my heart actually feel pain for you the most you are a lost soul my dear. Be careful on the karma you solicit for your actions.
You were negative from the start. Quad's marriage is NON OF YOUR BUSINESS. I dont agree with loud talking at the party but, She had every right to be upset.
I cannot wait for Quad to read you girl. I was cracking up at how you ran home and asked your hubby for a bigger house so you can be like the rest of the wives. That was pathetic and oh so telling of your true status in the medical community!. I see you had nothing to say when Kari was getting checked! You know you don't want Quad to come for you in public.
Faithful744 Preach!
You are one of the main ones that is always talking negatively about someone or something. You are the cause of all the negative and drama going on if you had kept your mouth shut at Mariah's party then there would be none of this.
Toya, don't be such a snob! You are a pretty girl who can catch a lot more bees with honey! Stay out of the drama and we will all love you!
You talk a good talk, but let's see if you will walk it. The show will tell the story. Frankly, from what I've seen so far from all of you, I'm appalled. The behavior of the wives is embarrassing to all other women married to physicians. You don't act like any of the other wives I've met in the medical community and your husbands should be ashamed that you're all behaving in such a juvenile manner.
Whether you admit it or not or agree or like it or not, you're a reflection on your husband and his practice. You're all giving the physician wives community a bad name.
You have been baiting Quad since day one and will not get off that poor girl's behind. What happened to have her wedding called off is none of your business. You are not her friend or confidante. You were not coming from a good place when you confronted her at Mariah's party and all your cackling about the issues in Quad's relationship are disgusting.
UnrealHousewife Don't worry those who live in glass houses should not throw stones!!! She will soon have her reality check!!!
Kelly1026 Say it again, Kelly! And please, let the reality check be large enough for her to see it for what it is and small enough to affect only her and not her lovely family.
SMH. Marriage counseling is mandatory. Really? Is this your final answer for the reason that Dr. Harris had to tell you to let him finish talking like you were supposed have learned in marriage counseling?
You will be the one filing for divorce after the season is over. It is always the overconfident married woman with the problems, but pretending to be happy for the show.
SunShyne_in_Florida
Wow! I guess me and my husband of 22 years messed up. We didn't have marriage counseling.
See Ms. Toya....that's what happens when you feign sophistication, you become transparent. Really, ce zar?????
mslisey
That was so funny. Toya, please don't speak. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.-- Abraham Lincoln
mslisey That was funny! and she is going to write a book... like Quad says catch fire.
Now the table has turn who tacky now . Tacky Quad let good time role the ghetto has arrived.
Carmetha407
huh?
Toya before talking u need to need to do a self-check don't try to play coy from what I see u seem to be the culprit then hide & for the record u put the children in it first by gossip in the salon u don't do that
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